Islamic Q & A 14-12-2022
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Assalamu alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam o Allah Rasool Ullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with that. Welcome. It's your brother. Yeah, hey, Brahim, coming to you live on the wonderful vehicle of Islam channel for Islamic q&a. It is noon in London time and hamdulillah and a little bit past 8pm here in my home, in Perth, Western Australia. Once again the greetings and peace of a lobby upon all of you irrespective of where you're watching from. It's a pleasure and opportunity to hamdulillah to connect our hearts and souls to our tradition as Muslims to the book of Allah and the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah Motwani us, salam, may Allah Subhana Allah
grant you and I Pharaoh and Baraka in the time that we spent together. Allah Ameen, I pray that Allah Subhana Allah to Allah facilitates for us all of this how you
through our discussions and through your questions. Insha Allah,
there are a number of questions that have already been emailed out that are already in the queue for me to address and to take, and I do look forward to receiving your on air live questions in sha Allah, Dinah.
The first question that we put forward, I cannot be due to a womb that I am healing from. So somebody's been injured, they have a wound and they are unable to bathe as a result of it. Can I pray without performing hosts? So the answer to that is yes. So Pamela, for us as Muslims layer you can live a lot when Epson levels Aha, that nobody is accountable for that which is beyond their means. You read Allah will be called will use or whether you read to become a rose. Allah also says in Surah Baqarah that Allah seeks facility for us and not hardship
and will lead to capital Allah Hi, Lena Hidalgo that Allah wants us to honor him for the guidance that we had. There's also a famous incident recording to ethical party of a very similar nature. One of the Sahaba fell off his mount his hand was split open. He nearly died and when it came time for Salah, the other Sahaba unknowing of this, they asked him to make fool will do it.
It will be. And he said, I'm afraid that if I uncover my wound if I made that this may be something that will cause me trouble that I can feel, you know ill because of it. So Pamela who became infected he began to bleed and he died. The prophets like Selim said portaloo in dementia care, I used to add and set new innovative ideas so and you know, they they killed him, why didn't they ask a question the cure to ignorance is to ask a question. So what do you do in a situation like this? Well, if you can make clothes on half of your body do so if you can make clothes on your hands and on your feet, but not your arms that haven't left you can do it on your extremities but not your
face. And having to do that if you can make will do but not bathe your body and having to do that whatever extent you're able to be, then do so. And if it is something that the majority of your body you're not able to be then do to yet boom and it could be brought to you you can be if you're in your hospital in your home, you can have you know, just a small amount of savage Allah and make your TM with that. Certainly it would be better than to pray with nothing or with no little with no verses or tiempo in sha Allah.
What are the rewards for a woman leaving her job to please her husband at the a full time mum, I've gone to where I've gone back to work for after a long break, but it's not quite working in terms of our childcare. I can't help but feel like a failure for not being able to carry on working. May Allah subhanaw taala uplift you and assist you and help you may Allah subhanho wa Taala make your purpose in your decision, the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala the honoring and the devotion of your commitment to your family, to your husband to your young one. May Allah subhanho wa Taala provide for you from means that you cannot that you did not assume existed. What I will say to you
by your sister is to try to explore
the possibility of other types of work that can be done from home whether it's online or you know from a home office in Java. If the nature of your job is not something that can be done in that way, and you are putting the priority of your children first, then know that this is something that is immensely rewarded for Allah. and prioritizing your family is a great action of worship before Allah azza wa jal, the prophets iclm teaches us men Torah cache and Lila. I want the hula hula Hiram Pignataro, that the one who abandoned something seeking the pleasure of Allah seeking what is best for themselves for their home for their family, for their Eman for this law, that the one who leaves
something seeking Allah, Allah who will replace what they have left with something better, and the one who goes and seeks out what Allah has forbidden and turns away from Allah, then Allah will make that which they have chosen, and other than him, their ordeal and their hardship May Allah protect you from this. So may Allah honor you and assist you and uplift you. May Allah Subhana Allah provide for you and your family from where you do not assume that it can be attained.
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sorry, is it valid to ask for a divorce if you don't love her like the person, as in no feelings and you don't get along? So Pamela, marriage is a great commitment with Allah subhanho wa Taala and one spouse, it's a great commitment to your wife, it's a great commitment to your husband. Liking someone is something that develops through the trials of life through thick and thin. If you are unable to fulfill the obligations of marriage that are set, by a law by our deed, this is where a person can petition for separation. Certainly in the times that we live in today, there are too many people simply separating from each other, on account of them changing their mind, that is not really
the way that we approach life, and serious matters such as faith. These are commitments that we have made to each other. There are financial obligations, cultural obligations, religious obligations, family duties, all of these are things that Pamela we find together. What I could say to my dear brother or sister, I'm not sure which you are. What makes you think that the next person that you do marry, you will like them any better than this one. Perhaps if you are so self centered in such a perspective, that it's just about like or dislike, that you're willing to let go. This is something that I pray that Allah subhanaw taala Allah does not test you with loneliness and being on your own
as a consequence of it. There are many of us
Abdullah, who struggled each and every day for the fulfillment of our rights and duties to each other. And marriage is not something where it's a Hollywood movie, where you know you live happily ever after, there will be ups and downs, joyous moments, sad moments, healthy moments, Ill moment there will be moments where you are wealthy and prosperous and moments where you are struggling to make ends meet. But as you commit to each other, in your commitment to Allah, you will find strength in that, know that the prophets lie Selim says, of the things most hated by a lot, that are Halon that are permitted is divorced. And that's where there are solid foundational reasons but to simply
say, we don't get along or I you know, I've changed my feelings or my mind, is really a very worrying statement, not be worried for you, but actually for your spouse, who is probably finding themselves in a very difficult situation right now. May Allah Subhana Allah Allah commit you to each other good, or separate you with each other from each other with Allah? I mean,
I think there needs to be a level of purity and awareness of one's place and once dealings in such a question insha Allah.
I wanted to find out the authenticity of the Hadith about a gate agenda which 70,000 of the followers will enter without any account which excludes those who practice or Rukia does this mean raffia is forbidden or disliked colossal loss or SLM the Hadith narrated by Al Bukhari and Muslim
that there is several in the alphabet Mati 70,000. And the word 70,000. Is not little hustle, it is not to confine the number 70,000 In the Arabic language means an excessive amount of number, meaning that there are many, many 70,000 was not something that the Arabs could count up to. So the way the highest number that they had was 1000. So they would count up to 1000. Then they were started another 1000. These are 1000 camels, they start 1234 I gave him another 1000. They say 1000 2000 3000. So when you get to 70, it's like, you know, how much are you going to keep counting? There is so many, so don't look at it as Subhan Allah in the form of the prophets, I send them
there's a billion people, only 70,000. So the 70,000 is in comparison to the vastness at the large amount of human beings. The second statement of the prophet Isaiah la, la, yes, stop good. There are those who don't put their trust in Rukia. Rather, where Allah Allah Haitao, collude, their tawakkul is upon Allah, which means that the prophet Isaiah is turning our attention away from putting our trust in say, doctors alone, that you say, you know, the doctor will cure me the answer is no, Allah is the healer, Allah is a provider of Shiva, one person may be given medicine or an operation they get better and another may be given this a medicine operation, they don't, one person may become
much, much healthier, one person may not recover. The one who grants healing is ultimately Allah subhanaw taala so the prophet is limiting us by putting our tail WebGoat in other than Allah, yes, we are to take the means to good health. So when there is medicine prescribed, we take it and we fulfill our obligations to ourselves and our families. However, in our mind, in our heart, I would believe that I would do it to Allah is also a medicine. It is a healing and our healer is Allah what event to to Hawaii HV. Ibrahim would make the DUA that when I make myself ill, when life has given me this test, then I find my healing and my Shiva with Allah subhanaw taala. So that hadith is
authentic and the meaning is as described earlier, inshallah.
What is the correct procedure that must be done? If a brother falls down during prayer in a message? Can we cut off the prayer and help them those who are nearest to them, or those who are medical practitioners or those who have that expertise should help them if it is the Imam themselves, somebody else can continue with the prayer and a group should maintain the salah while others are engaged in the assistance of whoever is in need. Certainly, it does not call for the whole Salah to be abandoned, unless it is of that nature of emergency in sha Allah. There are moments in our history where Muslims continued their prayer even though there were those who committed atrocities
of slaughter against them and murder against them, such as the time of Genghis Khan entering
into the mysteries of Bukhara, such as the murderous rampage by certain entities as they entered into Al Khalifa Masjid in in Al Khalil.
During the month of Ramadan, the Muslims maintain their fulfillment and their prayer, although others were engaged in helping those who are wounded, or finding cover and defense against them, and hamdulillah is if I'm not if I'm performing Lulu and I wash both hands together three times are washed three times each. So the washing of the hands is together. It's not washing one on its own or washing this hand and then this hand it is the wash together in sha Allah and Lil Saba is that you get the water through your fingers and washing the hands is assumed that it is not washing the hands themselves I don't mean the arm the hands before you wash their face is assuming that not from the
necessities of although Allah tells us in total EDA that you make your will do Cedarwood you will have more idea chameleon Marathi if they want Sephora will be will do Joe Hagen what how to do local Bureau Lucy como Abdullah Camille, can they wash your faces at your arms and hands and arms to the elbows, wipe over your head and wash your feet. This is the instruction of Allah subhanho wa taala. We have our final two minutes together in sha Allah, we're just going to take up one final question. If I missed my two raka though, to rock Oktopus Allah Am I able only to read my E Am I to recite only a surah when making it or only total Fatiha so that means the person is coming they this the to
the first tool aka of Salah to book so now after the Imam has made Salah they've stood up for to rock on the to rock and that I stand up for do I read Fatiha and the Surah or don't just read Surah Fatiha it is recommended to read surah till 30 Hath and a surah to complete the reward of the student that insha Allah at nevertheless even if you were to continue the whole Salah even if you began with it, remember also that if you recited Surah to Fatiha on its own your Salah is valid but the Sunnah is to read a second surah so you want that reward? May Allah magnify for us. May Allah increases and add to us more than what we have anticipated Allah Amis and we're going to have a
short break in sha Allah and Richard back in the next few minutes Subhana Allah will be having a shot when the law
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All right, for those who are watching live online, I'm happy to take some of your questions now. Insha Allah while we have our short break with Islam channel All right, we have one question.
It says I have more than one question regarding bringing kids home closing windows with negative starts. How long does it last? I have one I have one hour type opinion. When I came across a 10 minute ruling which is correct. It is not one hour Subhan Allah it is at the time of solitude relative as the sky is darkening. close your doors, close your windows, bring your children bring yourself indoors in Java and say Bismillah as you open and close your doors and then as soon as it's dark and as soon as the event and the comma have been made over you are able to open up again insha Allah it does not need to be an extended period of time. Just from where the sky altar is from light
to dark in sha Allah.
All right, let's see if there's any other questions that are popping in popping through
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I said I'm on a call if syrup contains alcohol about 1.2% Would it be permissible to consume is this syrup as a cough syrup as a cough medicine, if there is an alternative that is without cough medicine that has the same effect for your respiratory for your particular needs or your children's needs, they are preferred, but if there is no alternative and this is the only one that is afforded or this is suspension of your particular medicine in it, so it requires it that it is valid for the immediate need that it is required chulmleigh
All right. Let's see if there's any other questions coming through. Feel free in chat
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how to parent children these times, you know, certainly you want to make sure that you are expressive of your love, that you are attentive to their questions that you are vetting and careful with who they are interacting with, in your home, in their school, and certainly online, you want to make sure that your son is not playing his ps4, with his headphones on and you don't know who's on the other side, you can't hear the conversation. You don't know what's being shared in the discord channel in the Twitch channel, you want to make sure that your children do not take any personal online devices into their rooms at night or on their own during the day. If they want to study using
their laptop, they are welcome to do it on the kitchen table, on the kitchen bench. They're welcome to do in the living room. There is no expectation of privacy, except for their physical privacy in that sense. And that's something that's really important
that your children do not have that expectation that they are beyond your purview. So if your daughter has, you know, her friends and they send photos to each other and this and that your wife is the one that looks through it, your son is you know, cared for, you have to make sure that you have very strong filters, on your drives and on your internet, that the Wi Fi is switched off at night when it's not a need. All of those are really important considerations. It's not that you don't trust your children is that you don't trust others in their interaction with them. And as your children continue to earn your trust, you can begin to
provide for the other means in child law for earning. But certainly you your responsibility is as a guardian is as a shepherd is as a leader, not as a friend. Your job is not to be your children's best friend. Your job is to be their father and their mother and to set an upright example, that you cherish your wife and your husband, in front of your children that they see that and that they aspire to that the thing your your daughter wants the most is insha Allah to have a loving husband, just like the loving father she sees interacting with her mother, mother, that is the aim of your life with the inshallah
My question is regarding Celada that is when I'm going down for sujood or my hand supposed to go first for my knees or my or keep I keep hearing different things. Both of them are reported from the understanding of the scholars, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. They interpret the same Hadith in different ways. The prophets eyes and lips and when you make sujood don't make sujood the way a camel make sujood so some people interpreted that the camel goes down with the front first and then they bring their rear. Others said no what is meant is that the camo goes to its knees and without its hands. So in both of them, it's interpreting the same Hadith. Both of them come from the
Sunnah, both of them are valid in sha Allah, it is not a point of contention, even though you will hear some of the scholars say that the Soudan net is to put your hands first and the other say the SU net is to go down with your knees first. Both of them are saying the same thing but say get we're using their school their their principles of analysis, not because it's so number one that it means it is sinful for the other insha Allah
I said I'm wondering was it true that the best time to memorize his after budget not necessarily you know, the Quran Quran will tell you we can image who does Allah says it's sort of its raw, but your mind is fresher, your psyche be a dip and has not yet struck? Your body is its most alive. In that moment. I would highly recommend that you become a person who's an early riser.
But there are some people who genetically they like to sleep in and being a you know, waking up after pleasure and staying awake after budget is not their best option. And they would prefer to read Quran at 10am or 11am. There's no problem with that. There
was no particular statement from the Sahaba or the Senate that says it has to be after fish. There wasn't a particular time that the Prophet only taught the Quran or that he taught the Quran after French. None of that is established in the Sunnah. In that sense, inshallah. All right, we have another question.
Is predicting a game without putting money on it to win something, maybe?
Without to win something? Okay, is predicting a game without putting money to win?
Haram? No, so that's, you know, it's it's whether it's an analysis or it's, you know, those kinds of pools that people do, if there isn't anything attached to it, of a monetary value, then it is acceptable sha Allah, if it is not too wasteful with time?
Is there a particular degree to recite for seven stages of depths? I don't know anything in particular, that relates to to this discussion? Well, Allahu Allah, Allah, Allah.
I know the prophets, I seldom would ask Allah to purify his heart and the Sunnah of the dua of the prophets. I seldom is to be very personal with it. So may Allah grant us ease and comfort, Yarrow.
I said, I'm on income, can I beautify my children's playroom? With stickers, some of them have animals? Is it permissible? Or will angels not entering their home? So generally speaking, you want to be careful with what your children consume, or that what they become familiar with. So the type of animals that you're kind of putting are things that come from Disney and things like that, that will make them much more attracted to those kinds of shows into the future, know that there are movie producers who are targeting our young children with, you know, with characters that, get them hooked, and addicted to some of the things that are being viewed. So I would say to you, my dear
sister, don't put anything up on the walls don't put anything permanent. It's not offensive, if it's not something that's iconified, your worship and things like that. But having it there each and every day, that it's something that they wake up to and look at each and every morning, it's always in their face, I don't think that that's appropriate. Don't do it in sha Allah.
How can I respectfully and strategically tell my friend to move away from her abusive parents? They are already planning on moving out, but I want to be supportive.
And really, I can't answer a question like that. I don't know the circumstances of it. I don't know what you mean by abusive parents. That's a very generic term. Is it financial? Is it emotional? Is it physical? We always want to make sure that everybody is safe. That's the primary priority. So I will leave that question unanswered in sha Allah. Do the dead know when you visit their grave after death? Can a soul traveled to Earth to visit family? A soul does not travel to visit Earth to family. The journey of the soul is described to us by Allah, the prophets, Isaiah live in the Quran in authentic hadith. Once we cross over to the next side, we have greater concerns, then this
worldly life? Are they familiar with us? And do they hear greetings from us? Do they receive comfort when we do a charity or to act on their behalf? And the answer is yes. So the physical actions, the physical statements, the physical charity we do in this life impacts them in their spiritual life. There's also the authentic hadith of the prophet Isaiah them saying that when somebody passes away, those who knew them from this worldly life, wait for them on the next side and ask them, hey, what has this son of mine done? And what has my family done and who has done this and where have people gone? We also know from some of the statements of the prophets of Allah or they will send them that
those who are passed on into the next life are honored on account of the actions of their loved ones in this life. The Prophet specifically says
that the benefit of a deceased person is cut off from this life except from their three investments that they invested. One of them one of them saw that he had to do that righteous children who continue to invoke God on their behalf. So there is an immediate effect on that. We also know that the prophets Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam was irregular in visiting the grave of his loved ones, the people of
those who were near to him, and he may drop for the one of the reasons that we make Muslim burial places is that this is a residence for the souls of the Muslims that we are gathered together and we make
friends with each other in that spiritual life. Also something that is lays evidence to this is that friends in this life are asked to bury next to each other and families are asked to bury next to each other as a connection to them and that's why Abu Bakar is buried next to the prophets I said lamp, remember is buried next to Abu Bakr and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with the union that they have in this world, we hope that they will be honored in that in the next life alone. I mean, so do they, can they come to visit us? The answer is no. What about if we see them in a dream, the seeing them the dream is a very comforting phenomenon. And it is real when it is yeah. But it
can also be deceptive and can be empathy population from the shikon. And therefore any instruction that is given from someone that we see in a dream is discounted as being actionable. So just a you, you know, may Allah comfort us we see a loved one, a mother or a grandmother who comes back and says, Listen, I'm over here now. You need to change your job. Don't go out and commit and quit your job the next day because Mom told me to do so that's not how it works in sha Allah, there is a very interpret interpretive art of interpretation of the root Yeah, I have
a lecture on the art of dream interpretation Islamic dream interpretation on YouTube. If you YouTube search you will find that my discussion I also have a two part article series called The Art of Islamic dream interpretation on Muslim matters.org If somebody's watching perhaps they can put the link up in sha Allah
All right, my son is trying to pray in school that one days are so short would it be permissible to join children awesome The answer is yes. In sha Allah
while in
a haram Is it allowed to wear flip flops Dericks Safa and Marwa you're allowed to wear them outside suffered Marwa anywhere you like, I guess your question is can you wear it inside the huddle now that you're in there, there's other people praying. So what I would say to you and what I do, I carry a clean pair. So I buy a pair of flip flops that I don't wear on the street, I keep them in my little bag that's all my back as a heading out for my toe off. And then I change into it. Don't worry when other people say why are you wearing that it's not whether you're wearing them or not. That's the issue. It's whether they have the Jassa on it, and impurities on it because there are
people making their Salette so if you are wearing something clean, don't worry about it or wash your shoes before you go in or your flip flops in sha Allah
it's difficult to keep we'll do a need to keep making model at work do you need to wash your feet or can you do best headset it's logical to make massive sha Allah make sure that you learn the rulings of how to make mess. And just very simply, you make will do before you put on your thick socks, or your shoes. And then you are in a state of will do until you break it and you can make mess and wipe over your foot your shoe for the next five prayers in sha Allah. It's very, very facilitating and if you're a traveler for three days even in sha Allah, as long as you don't remove your shoe and that they are the proper attire your shoe and socks in sha Allah
Santa Monica does read the Quran for the disease to actually benefit them on their scale of the judgment. The DUA of you asking Allah to put the reward in their scale does benefit them in Shaba this seems to be the most correct opinion a lot with the island Allah so it's not the Quran itself. It's your intention of
sharing the reward with them as an activity bad as an act of charity on their behalf in sha Allah
All right, so I'm checking the questions on the question tab in sha Allah
can I perform other solida
then Bilhah Tada after fetching, salted hijak Yes, you can but wait until the sun has fully risen you can pray and the solar insha Allah and the Neflix sha Allah. Do you have to pay Zika on your pension? I can't answer a question like that.
Unless I understand what type of pension it is, is the pension in your control? Or is it in the government's control or the bank's control and it'll only be in your control once you receive it. So there's, you know, a variety of issues that relate to it. In general, if you have power over the money and you are able to execute decisions for it, and you are able to benefit from it in that in the immediate sense that yes, the car becomes applicable if the money is stored for you until you are a year old enough to receive it, then it is not the car until you receive the money according to the most
telling opinion in my in my understanding would love to honor
all right.
Is it permissible to hang us on a card your home? Yes, it allows you to recite the verses of Allah. So if you have something that inspires you, I'm gonna see you see it when you wake up in the morning, you read at cosi, the aim of it is that but if you feel if you are, if you falsely believe that just putting aid and quality written on the wall on its own without you reading it without you intending to use it, and to make it have a means of protection, then it's not a value in that sense
is wearing the club a photo or a pseudonym? It's neither forward nor sunnah.
And, you know, it is a choice insha Allah that is made. It is a sunnah of those who have taken that path and they want to be more conservative. But the you know, the niqab is something that we can demonstrate from the Hadith and from the time of the prophets I seldom was worn by many but also not worn by many. And it is something that there is numerous accounts of that if niqab was a foreign that then a woman would not be ordered to remove it during Hajj and
or in their state of Iran or in their Salah in sha Allah. Alright, we're going to go back to Islam channel for our questions that are coming forward in Shabbat.
There's a question can you recommend any books for kids? It depends on what age and
you know what, what do you mean by books? Is it novels or is it about Islam? If you could send a little bit more clarity I'll do my best to assist with that show.
Two books that I've just been reviewing is called the simple seerah by brother Allison Han very good books to set the simple zero of the prophets Allah Allah already listen
that's about 10 to 15 years old.
All right, we're ready to roll with this live channel.
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I said I'm on a water bottle Allah Who overlocker to welcome back to Islamic q&a with your brother Yeah, Ibrahim insha Allah we're able to receive some of your calls on air there are a number of questions that have come in through the WhatsApp services and the email services.
The first question is Jhala that we have before us
Can I dance with my wife in our room? Masha Allah about a couple of men. Yes, of course he can. Yeah, why not? You know some have a lot.
There is no restrictions on that. It was incredible to Isla grande you happiness and how you and Baraka, a lot of
it is something
that is permissible there is no issues that relate to that, in sha Allah, may Allah subhanho wa Taala grant you joy and comfort with each other menial.
Is being a middleman in business and adding
profit margin in between others and exploitation or haram.
So when it comes to ethical business practices, there are a number of different dynamics in general, buying something, and selling something is Hello, being in the middle where you don't let people know you're in the middle, and you're doing to sales to sales in one contract is not something that is seen as part of our deed. So it would not be appropriate to not tell one person that you are profiting from the interaction. So there has to be that level of transparency. But if you were to take from one, buy it, you've leveraged the money, and then you sell to the other one, as the middleman, you're not the producer, and you're not the end market seller, and you're in the middle,
you're, you know, you're you're the convenience, there's nothing wrong with that. But if you are just simply adding on a percentage, because you know, I've the connection, then that's something that you do need to consider Insha Allah, if you are not being transparent, and if you are making two contracts with one,
it would not be acceptable. We'll start with either.
Mike, how can we deal with a parent who is angry easily?
Some kind of a well, you know, the natural answer is trying to limit getting them angry, and you have to understand, why do our parents get upset with us? Is it something from their experience that we are heading down the wrong road? Is it something that we are negligent in our behavior? Or is it something on their part, a parent getting angry, it's not necessarily the problem. And conflict is not necessarily a bad thing. And our parents being upset with us is not the end of the world. What is upset is our reaction to it is the reason they are angry.
So if they are bringing us towards Allah and we are rebelling, then we should be worried if we are the cause of their pay the cause of their worry the cause of their fear, by immature decisions by not consult consulting them by being callous in our duty towards them. That's something we need to be introspective about. But if our parents are angry easily, for no apparent good reason, and it is something that they have an irritable syndrome, or perhaps it's a mental health issue. And so Pamela, there are many who do suffer with it in an undiagnosed capacity. They're just angry, they're just hostile, they're just, you know, and it's not necessarily for any good reason. So there are
other other mechanisms that can help that and a part of that is just learning how to manage their anger, helping them with anger management, to being able to leverage some of the good with them and finding them a clinician who can assist them to overcome some of those westwards and ailment that may be inflicting them by Allah help us and all of them Allah for every
what is the order in which we should seek knowledge? What should we learn first? Some hand lots of interesting question. It'll depend on age. It'll depend on what you mean by knowledge. So there is knowledge in the terms of labor with the Rural things that I must know just because I'm a Muslim. So how to pray, when to pray, how to prepare for the prayer, how to lead others how to fix a mistake in my salah, how to recite from the Quran, and to begin my journey with touch we, you know, those are things that are a part and parcel of My relationship, how to pass what breaks fasting. You don't need to know the rulings of Hajj, if you're not intending Hajj. You don't need to know the rulings
of Zakah unless you have the wealth of Zeca. So it depends on what you mean by knowledge. And if you are seeking knowledge so that you can be a teacher to others, then it's a totally different question. So in terms of our personal responsibility of knowledge, you want to know the who, what, when, where, how and why. You want to know how to pray, when to pray.
What I'm doing this Allah for what is the reward for it, what is the punishment of missing it?
Why is this so important? Such an enormous duty this lab, understanding those the the
Who, what, when, where, how and why becomes very important. And that's where the profits Aysen lab, he begins by Allah saying to him that I live under hula Illa Allah come to know about La ilaha illAllah. So the first place that we begin is Tauheed. Who is Allah? What does Allah want to be? And how do I give Allah what He has asked? You know the help of Allah upon the slave upon His creation, that becomes the first point of knowledge and you don't have to know how to read teach we the Quran and the Fanciful in your Arabic grammar, none of that is a matter what is important versus to aid the loss of your relationship with Allah and learning about your relationship with Allah that You
are his you are the Mahmoud, you are the one that he is in bad mood and you are the the slave before him. So what are the demands of Allah, knowing La Ilaha illa Allah its conditions, knowing Muhammad Rasool Allah, his rights upon us, knowing the essence of the Sunnah, knowing our creed, what we believe about Allah, you know, we believe in Allah and we believe things about Allah, understanding those things and understanding what is not Allah. And you know,
what, to disassociate from Allah and push away from others making as a claim about Allah Subhana Allah to Allah. So La Ilaha illa Allah becomes the first step number two is where do you learn best about Allah who's going to tell you best about Allah? It is Allah in the word of Allah. So we can study the Quran, mentoring through the Quran, contemplating and deliberating over the words of ALLAH, focusing on the resuscitation of it and the feeling of it, and capturing its its essence in your life. Number two, is how do I put the Quran into practice the Sunnah of the Prophet sites. And so you want a holistic approach of learning about God, through the word of Allah, in demonstration
of the life of the prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and that requires a concentrated effort through listening, hearing, reading, and practice, I recommend that each and every person become enrolled in something that can benefit them. I personally have an online Islamic school, it's on my website jabra.com forward slash school. It's an enormous benefit to many people. May Allah subhanho To Allah make it of good use? It has those foundations for young and old men and women. It's um, you know, that's the kind of thing that you want, who is Allah? How do we relate to Allah, and where we can move forward in our life. But if you want to become a person who is an expert, then
you need to be mentored in that process. And there needs to be telepathy there needs to be receiving knowledge from one who is verified by other knowledgeable people as being knowledgeable and able and capable to lead you in the reading of the Quran in the practice of Islam. As a chef at the moment as a chef, ah insha Allah and there are numerous avenues and outlets online and in your localities that could be of great benefit for you in that regard in sha Allah, all of those are recommended pathways so I tell he does the beginning the Quran and then the Sunnah of the Prophet Isaiah, in consolidating that information through a consecrated study and effort of wanting to become more
acquainted with our relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala
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Coming to play, I would always recommend to visit a local island. It is possible for a Muslim man to be married and that the sister that they are very to has a you know, a particular maturity in herself. She's already set in her way. She doesn't want somebody who's living with her, but she does want somebody who will be a comfort for her. They live in separate locations. It's not the conventional marriage, but it does work and it can be deemed halal. Certainly there are the conventional and non conventional Halal types of marriages. They are dependent on circumstances some people are married and they live far away from each other, you know due to work or travel or fly in
fly out business arrangement. All of those are things that the Shediac takes into play. I would investigate it with somebody who is a local scholar, it does not seem to be from hearing the outside of the conversation as we impermissible. May Allah subhanaw taala greatest favor Baraka, may Allah assist us all in good Allah, we are suddenly left Boselli was it robotic Allah say it you know whenever you know Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was salam or aleikum wa rahmatullah. He will rocket