Channel: Wisam Sharieff
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We begin today, leaving off as if there wasn't a gap, and discussing the ever so controversial topic not of loot, but of sexuality in general. In general, we said before any who dude, any laws, even any shady ours revealed a law brought this desire under wraps. And he said before Judaism, Christianity or Islam even comes about I'm going to tackle this topic altogether. And we are going to leave a stamp that mankind needs to work on this in the lifetime of Ebrahim art he said, um, he met Luke, we know that. But today, we are going to crack open the seal and assume like this is a class and say, if we build from Adam, the first dynasty, then we started the first onset of shirk
doing new time. Now we are starting to see the father of organized religion ebrahimian, a certain kind of letting the boat go in the river, that little boat that he made that Look, my message is I'm going to build the house of God, the house of God should be visited from all over the world. Now let's see what happens. So from there we see in the Quran in the lifetime of Ibrahim, he did meet his half hour yaku he met Yaqoob ra Salam and if you want to take that as the title of the Prophet for today, so if you can quickly jot down Yaakov Ali Salam had 12 children, it's not as important for us to realize this. But remember, Ibrahim Ali Salam starts organized religion. There is no such
thing as a Jew or a Christian or a Muslim yet. So you are going to see from Yaqoob Ali salam, how many kids does he have 12 two of them from one mother and you know the name of that child the name from what were who were the two kids from the second wife who were those two kids, Yusuf Ali Salaam, and his younger brother or his brother, Binyamin, pronounced Benjamin.
So the narration tell us we have these two and then you have 10 older brothers on the other side. So now let's take this and zoom the camera out as if we're seeing one prophet directly to the next. If as a society we curve and we said this we quoted lust is a state of mind, a lot is not judging you for the state of lust a lot is judging you What did you do to control before you got there? How do you control your desires? Did you say Allah or Jan even alpha Maha Amina mama baton, Allah save me from dirty things but then watch TV shows that were dirty that provoked you to get those feelings? Did you take that into your hand and say, You know what, I'm going to control this. Say you did. Now
a sane solid surah Furqan is number 71. To the end. Why bother rock man, a man a fully grown man. He says I want to partner lust has its Avenue which is marriage. So say that marriage go takes place before organized religion comes upon us. Allah introduces us not to necessarily a nebby but to a dad yakou body salaams title is father. He is the ultimate father in essence that he's has 12 kids. He's got a lot going on in life. He's a prophet, he's giving the message to his people. So the number one thing we realize is once our desires have been controlled, we enter a marriage. We're gonna have kids. So what is the status of father in Islam? And what are we going to do with that? So we first
start out by saying abana have Elena mean as wodgina Audrey young Tina quwata Are you new or Jana? kurata? Are you new?
Turkey delphina EMA is 74 surah number 25. where Allah subhanho wa Taala uses the word called wha if you look at Cora, it's simple for us Californians. Has anyone ever seen Lake Tahoe? Anyone? Okay, so you've seen Lake Tahoe, right? It's a lot of stuff going on trees, water lakes, mountains, but what is it pristine and quiet? Good raw is the coolness of your eyes. Now imagine your jacobellis there are 12 kids running around in your house. When he sees them. What does he get peace. He sees chaos, mother's caring someone there's diapers all over the place. And at one moment, he stops kurata when he sees the chaos, he feels stillness in his heart. May Allah give that to us be it an Allahu Tada.
So now you realize before religion drops on our head, we have to realize where people and there's something amazing that's going to come up in the story here that a lot highlights how perfect human beings are. We innately as human beings have goodwill, we are intentioned, well, so as long as we can control our states, sleep, hunger, physical desire, we control these things. Were pretty okay, who comes in mess who has who has messed up this scenario since the beginning of time? shavon I know it sounds very childish for me to say that. But at the end of the day, that's exactly what happened. shavon comes to the people of sheets and says, Well, maybe you should listen to some music shavon
came to the people of New handmade the moq. There are so many instances, but today a Father gives advice to his kids. So we pause here, let's open up surah Yusuf. Today's objective is not to look at Yusuf Ali Salaam, but to look at Yaqoob through his sons are in Surat. wasallam. So we start right at the top, and I thought you would enjoy this little narration. So that's harboe the Allahu taala on came to Mohammed Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and I think this should give you an idea of the type of relationship. It wasn't just religion, Fiq halaal Haram. They came to him one day and they said, You're a pseudo law. Tell us a beautiful story. Tell us a beautiful story. I can imagine
they just wanted to feel illuminated. They said you had a suit of law tell us a beautiful story. And when the Sahaba asked for a suit of law or something, a last panel at Allah knows the inclination that Mohammed rasulillah has to his companion. So he says, No, no, no.
He like a law says we we narrate we reveal the stories the best narrations onto you from it, the Koran ilica
which is one thing we pause right here, just say Subhana Allah and unhemmed law on the fact that we if we didn't have Quran, we wouldn't have this story. And in today's story, you will never hear this type of verbiage, this type of depth in any other place of God. It is almost informal. It's some point it sounds like a las panatela and I'm going to use a word Allah
entertaining us. You know how we love to watch dramas, right family dramas and then just going on a lot almost realize that people want to hear a story. Let's tell them a true story. From this we're going to stop on every avenue. So what I need you to do now? I don't know if you all follow any dramas at home maybe it's Egyptian Are you watch TV here? Do you know like after you're really into a show, I met some brother was into the walking dead after the Walking Dead TV show. Just Just to give you an idea. There's a whole one hour conversation. How did you feel about today's episode? And there's this huge interaction there people online. There are support groups. If you're watching this
show this one show it's very emotionally overwhelming. Are you okay with what you just watch? Meaning they analyze why the character did this office fans, there's a huge debate, debating whether Pam and Jim's read this whole thing going on. So we hold on there. I want to do that here. I want to at every turn at every I want to analyze because a Lost Planet Allah is saying
you don't need Gilmore Girls, you don't need to analyze some web show, analyze the story of Quran. So Allah says we're in
poverty, he lemina Allah wa Fie. And undoubtably without Allah, we wouldn't have known this story, we would have thought well what happened to us if and who was Jacob? And we would have ended up saying, you know what, let's watch Prince of Egypt. Spielberg must have got it right. He'll make it easy for us. Allah is saying what that you are let me know what you mean. Best way to translate that is you didn't know this story until so now every time you hear what if you so what I want you to underline it allows asking you a question. Do you remember when I want you to say no Allah? I don't remember if you didn't tell me the story, nobody would have. Allah is not saying remember why not
the law you remember that story of abusive you'll be like now I have no idea I've never heard this story before has to be a lot of love without you I wouldn't have known. So now you're going to hear the words and every time I say in, in all our use of and when use of came to his dad alas has remember when usif came to his dad and you submit yourself say Allah and I wouldn't have known anything for the 16 weeks having not told us in Quran and this submits to the perfection of Quran because this surah doesn't start with use of had trouble this surah starts with what letters
Alif Lam Meem? Had we not known a lot we don't even understand the first three letters of your book. Humble us. Allahumma inni Luca manaphy ah wa I'm an amateur Kabbalah what is eba? May Allah give us beneficial knowledge, acceptable actions, and most importantly, clean it is so that when our stomachs full, we can sit back and say, so what did you say to his dad? And Allah subhanaw taala answers that question. So this habari sitting there the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, If you sue Fuli Abbey he
a young, seven or eight year old we don't know exactly but very young, very adorable faced child comes to Dad, what type of communication is going to be with a dad that your child runs up here and says, Dad, I had a dream. I had a dream. Can I share it with you? How much communication has there been prior to this dream that I feel comfortable enough for to walk up straight up to dad the prophet and say, I had a dream. And now the excitement builds as we read the perfu narrative that uses a certain kind of excited and he says Dad, I had a dream and he immediately says he doesn't wait for that to say so what happened in your dream? He immediately says Asha I said 10 I saw the
stars prostrating to me I saw what shumsa was tomorrow. I saw all of these things where shamsur will come up and they are a to whom Lisa g de when I saw all of them prostrating to me. The father then realizes there's something special about use of there's always been something special about use of but now I can realize there's something unique about him as the father of 12 kids, he turns to his son and says Paula Guna Yala tunku Karla.
Now this is for all my young brothers. You know, your dad comes up to you. You share something amazing with him and he goes, but don't do this. And the first thing you're like, But Dad, what about the dream? What 12 stones moon star people were worshipping. He first realized my son, I think the others might not appreciate this.
Let's let's turn at this first junction, how much communication does a father have with his son? How much can a father how much has he allowed his son to say, you can come and tell me anything, even if you had a dream. And today our kids don't necessarily dream about sun, the moon, the stars, they were they dream about other things? Are our doors open enough for my kid to say, I dreamt this mom. And this happened? I saw this dad. And then this happened. The first thing that happened though, he realized as a dad in his hikma as a father and I'm not pushing new Bulworth right now. I'm seeing as the mature the head of a household, he turns to his family, and he says laxus Roja. Don't share this
story with your brothers. Let's take one lesson on the first curve. Why didn't he say anything else? Because as a father, he saw the distinct mistake that his son could make. And he said, You know what, your brother older brothers, especially the 10. On the right, and the left side were born from the first mile. Mom, they're not really that happy. There's a little bit of sibling rivalry that goes on. Let's take a moment to understand this. He realized that use of is the baby Yousef is getting all the love. So the eldest doesn't see this. So he says, Don't tell something. The first lesson we take, and we repeat what we did about three weeks ago, Alhamdulillah Allah Cooley Han, we
say Alhamdulillah in every situation in every place, and then when things go bad, we don't necessarily share that news with everyone. If a good news comes to your life, don't rush to post it on Facebook. He came to his dad and his dad said Don't tell anyone not even your brother's let alone post it on your every turn. Oh, today I got a nose ring. You what? That that's, that's that's a that's a post? Why are you telling people this before someone may have wanted this. But before this gets out of hand, you pull it back? And you say Oh, dad, Really? But here's the key factor that I'm telling to my young brothers to my young friends. What your dad tells you in the beginning never
makes sense. Ever? Like why wouldn't I tell? Why can't I tell anyone this? But instead of questioning Now, think about this. Ibraheem alehissalaam studied a lot the highest level he never questioned a lot. He just said, although you said it. I'm good. I want you to realize what happened a lot didn't make use of a salon perfect. He didn't say okay, that I won't tell anyone. What exactly what happens after his that goes Don't tell anyone. What's the first thing he goes in and says
he runs in tells his brothers. Hey, guys, guess what happened? Dad didn't tell me not to tell you this exactly. But I had a dream. And the youngest always wants to feel cool in front of in front of the older ones. So he comes in says I had a dream. I know I'm not supposed to tell you. But it's not like I'm telling you if I said that there was a sun and they were making prostration To me, the sun, the moon. And and all these stars. Were making prostration. I'm just telling you that that happened? Isn't that cool? And what they did is what we do to young people that kind of just pat him on the head that said, yeah, that's fine. We turn here for the second. The first lesson is we whether in
good or in bad. We say 100 did not share your good experiences with few people. And I promise you, if we make this part of our everyday action, things will get a lot better. Don't share everything. Just keep praising a lot. Bring the frequency of the remembrance of a lot on your tongue. And you will then realize, I turned my good and bad feelings towards a Lost Planet, Allah but number two. So now the jealousy bills in their hearts. We need to take care of sibling rivalry just for a second here. This is something they call it cognitive therapy. No one has ever explained it. But we see it just from this ayah Say for example, Ibrahim Ali Salam now has given birth, there's so many sons
going on, you want to see how to raise your children. So we say this much first child born parents, what do you do with the first child? What do you do? There's a hug. There's that love Huggies commercial, right? What's the first thing you do with the first child moms?
You buy the expensive stuff, you buy the good diapers, you do everything. You spoil them, you give them you take lots of pictures, right? So you're snapping pictures away. But what happens? My younger brother's oldest, I'm talking to the oldest here. What happens? You can't remember your parents doing any of that. What do you remember? When I moved when baby two came into the room and you were three and you're like, wait a minute, there's something else going on here. So all you can recognize is you know what? They love him more than they love me. They're taking pictures of him. They're taking care of their guru guiding him and I'm being told I have to grow up This is
ridiculous. And then what happens so they don't stop loving you. But they allow allowance for the next baby to feel loved as well. And then the third child comes in and then all of a sudden we keep going level by level and if you do not allow a lot
Hinata Allah's mercy into your heart. What does he say to him? for, for your key do laka Qaeda Yaqoob then turns over to Yusuf Ali Salaam and tries to give him a sense of logic. He goes, look, your brothers are good people. But in a nutshell
movie. Remember we said this at the beginning, human beings are innately good. We want to do good things. Friends, like Muslim Christian are not just people want to do the right thing. who messes up? We humans have greed, have less have hunger shavon comes in scratches it. So why not line up our thought process right now right now and say, Why don't I get along with my aunt? Why don't I get along with my brother? Why don't I get along with my sister and I want you to watch the whole thought process and say, Look, this is because she did this to me when I was seven. Then she did this. Then she did this. And at some point, you'll find that thought, where you chose to not
forgive? And then you say, Oh, do we live in a planning regime? Because humans innately we forget by nature, we choose to hold on to memories. You can say but I'm scarred. I'm hurt. Yes, I understand. But we choose. I have many scars over my body. But when I look at them, we say Subhan Allah but sometimes you stop and say, oh, that happened when I was in the fifth grade. This was a motorcycle accident. This was this. We hold on. here Allah subhanho wa Taala is reminding insam the first child was a baby. The fourth child was a baby. A lot gave you the chance to be loved, turned to your parents about bit help woman come out of
the way they love me today is the way that I give them. Now we have to come to immediately to the other side. Fathers and parents sibling rivalry has to be squashed only in one thing. And I bring this up because it's brought up in the teachings of the surah. There are two things that a parent needs to and has to be focused on. That is being just and being fair. I know these are very vague terms. justice means that if you're giving the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saw a companion, he was giving some This is a specific type of gift. It wasn't like a graduation gift. It was a sweet, or some something that was an everyday you know, those are 25 cent candies. So he was giving
it to a child. This prophets, a lot of them stopped him and said, Have you gotten one for all your kids? There were like six of them. And the companion said, No, I only have one for him. The prophets Allah while yourself now try to remember this doesn't mean every gift, specifically this, he said you have one of two choices. Either you give every child one or you don't give them any. Either you give every child one of these things or you don't give them any. But here's the second. When it comes to gift giving. You're an equal and solid. But this child memorized five jokes. He's my son five years, and he didn't I give him a reward based on merit. Let me just quickly summarize this.
y'all ever seen the seven year old with an iPhone? Right? You walk up to him? So what did you do you memorize on you? You finish medical school, you had to have done something to have a $500 phone? My parents gave it to me. I got it. Like they're walking around. And then the PSP comes out. They're like, yeah, just hang on a second. And you're like, What? What did you do that I haven't done? And can I be your brother? Right? So you at some point, you're sticking there. And you're like, what is this? This is why we constantly give a loss pinata mandates to just in the way that we give. And when a child has done something good. I will gift the eldest son and say when you memorize five,
just like he did, I will give you the same. This doesn't build animosity between the child between the children at all. They say hey, he got this because how do you justify to the child when one has it and the other one doesn't. So on both sides, kids, parents, the kids, we need to rectify that our parents loved us at a certain age, but we may not have seen them taking pictures and being googoo. gaga over us and for parents at the same time. There must be a justice in what we give and number two, I actually have to split this not amongst your the genders of your children. I split this one you have boys and you have girls. Why do we admonish him for doing something but when she does the
same thing? It's okay. This leaves long lasting scars with your children. She does something not based on their gender but they do the same exact Act and the brother gets away with it. Okay, he's elder he does work around the house so it's okay and she gets admonished. This is not fairness. Allah subhanaw taala reminds us in the Quran and the prophets a lot is and reminds us in the sound of Hadith be just with your children's be just with your family starting within the home. So here we realize that brothers were good that dad was good who came along the way shade line came and fanned the flame. The lawn came and said you know what, there must be something
Number one. If the brothers did not hear the dream, they would not have planned to move against Yousif. But what was the instruction of the father? And any one of the younger guys to say, what was the first instruction of the father? Don't tell your dad. What's the first thing you said, Father, Psalm one did did? Don't go and tell your brothers. What's the first thing you went did? He told his brothers. When we disobey our parents, it won't hurt in the beginning.
A week, two weeks a year down the road when your dad was like, Hey, did you hear me? And I know there are 10 Kids squirming in their shorts right now. Oh, man, he's got us on full blast right now. But I'm telling you, because I'm on this side of life. When we don't listen, a year later, man, when your dad says do it this way with 11 directions. You're like, Dad, I can do it with three. And you do the shortcut. Five weeks later that said, So did you do this? Yes, I did. But those steps entailed you learning how to do something in life, and now you're stuck. So now he doesn't realize this small shift. And dad said don't share it with anyone. That's the equivalent friends of your
parents coming to you and saying, Please don't post that on Facebook. Please don't tweet that. And you're like, What do you know about Facebook? What do you know about this world? And you question for a moment. Did Yahoo bada Salam? No, as a dad, something was bad could happen to us? Yes, he did. Did you have any idea? No, bro, he's still on cloud nine, I had a dream about 1210 stars and the sun in the moon. He's on cloud nine over there. But dad sees the impending danger, not the amazing feeling. So the brothers then realize there could be some jealousy going on. They turn back and they say you know what we should do and they say something amazing if you can circle this word for me.
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De now Allah asked us to pause here and saying this is a narration that you must look at. You must ponder every turn that goes on here. The IR goes on and Allah says in nada, de mon Hakeem. But in IR number eight. Amazingly, they get together and they're like, you know what, Yusef gets more attention. And now after this dream, guess what? That's going to care about him more. And they use the word that if we get rid of use of dad's face will turn towards us. What did they want a little bit more attention? They just wanted a little bit more attention. Again, this is a Nabhi This is a prophet of Allah, how would he raised his kids perfectly right? But that still means parents. And I
want you to take this down as point three parents, if an obese kids could lie to his face.
That's all I'm gonna say. If a Prophet's kids could lie to their face. Don't take your kids. I'm okay. At face value. Don't take Yeah, nothing happened. So when you do nothing, trust me a little bit of more open communication will lead to the fact that about profits, kids could twist the truth. Maybe your kids and you see the parents and the kids slowly moving apart here in the hall. They're like, not going to sit next to that you'll probably figure something out. So at this point, we realize they say to each other the first idea. Now I want you to press pause here. Do you remember when we talked about Lou talisa we zoom the camera out to the them opening up a club putting up a
sign haraam happens here, come on down and get your stuff over here. Do you remember before the club opens, how many conversations could have taken place? How many difficulties how much perversion had to come into their society to be comfortable with? Hey, bro, I think we should open a club and the club should have this all this haram stuff and we'll all watch each other. You don't come up with that idea on your own. You don't come to the point where you say oh go to no use of productions kill him.
And less between the brothers there has been open, unfettered talk point number four of tonight. Youngsters, us you know how we can talk about anything I've done. I work close friends. So we can go out we can talk about anything. We joke will laugh. But is there a limit between your you and your friends? Have you defined this is the area I won't cross if someone comes and makes a homosexual joke. Now I'm not gonna laugh at it, even if it's in Harold and Kumar and it's hilarious and it's a greatest thing since sliced Oh my god, bro. You just have to look past the horribleness and it's so funny. Just look past the wrongness. You have to have your limit. Because in order to say boo boo,
you also have Wilco
Lancome Would you agree?
I know it's a very it's a very extreme thing. They said let's kill yourself.
Have Yahuwah Sam knows that this sibling rivalry rivalry has been going on for a long time. So he's prepared. The first brother says, If we kill him, Baba will recognize us a little bit more. Dad will recognize us a little bit more. Who are these kids? Take a pause. Look at this historically, even when you read all of the Scriptures, all of them believed he was a prophet. All of them believe that dad's a prophet, but when it came to emotion and that's what I'm trying to push to you, your Eman in Allah will never waver. But if I leave food away from you for a while, you will choose food over Salah. It's human, we cannot we can't peel away our human self and say a lie. I want to get closer
to you till we have put our human interest in order. You know every Friday we say one hour oh do billahi min surey and fusina Allah the evil that is inside of me that makes me innately human. The potential for lust anger, laziness, being a coward Allah protect me from that woman say Dr. Medina and from the effects of the bad deeds that we do.
I mean, so they said If we kill use of them will get the attention of our dad. What the uno de la de if you can underline these words. This is basically my title for anyone who does something wrong. You guys remember before si Ts or before you needed to get into a college, you said Allah I just need to skip salah and fasting and going to the masjid so I can pass this exam. After that what kuno and Mubarak he is common for the he we will work up and grow a beard and we will be religious after we get rid of us. Once you put that word there, this is the next The fifth thing we can extrapolate. guidance is not a store that you walk into and pick it off the shelf. guidance is when a lot chooses
to blow a wind in your direction. Are you prepared? Are you unstable and you don't know where you are and when the wind comes? You're blown away It's too hard to follow Islam or are you prepared to rob banner LA to zil umana burger is had a 10 hour habla Milan kurama in the country, what are you prepared to say Allah once the wind of change comes to me, I want to stay firm and stay stuck there a lot more john lamb in whom the lady has a BA in a certain Mr. Team over law when that word whether it's in the middle of this lecture in some Juma maybe five days before Ramadan, that feeling of Allah, I'm going to stop singing, I'm going to stop doing what I know is wrong. Grab onto it.
Elders, when it comes to that, you know what I'm getting older. And now I just need to accept that that I'm getting older that I now need to do Allah Allah. Remember we would say whatever background you are whatever cultural we are, every culture has the background that you know what when I get older, I'll do Allah, our moves, such as cheese just does just that the every culture has it. So why not just start early, if we're going to end up doing a lot all the time. Why not just start a little early? why not bring a lot of data into the picture, even when and I'm trying to poke at you a little bit more here. Even when your usage is not going to complete today. But when you go home and
tonight you watch whatever drama you're watching analyze, what decision could they have made, according to the way the profits left? I know that disturbs a lot. But if you're choosing to invest 42 minutes of your time to watch out a drama, analyze, I love you sit there like okay, shut on. everything's wrong. But why did they make this decision? Why did she say that to her in order to influence this relationship? and allies and sisters, I said it I tweeted about it. I when I'm talking about the wife of Lutheranism, I almost bombarded women all of you have the ability to be to face and that was wrong. That was wrong. I was trying to attack luthuli salaams wife's character,
but then somehow it just became generally women. No, all of us have the ability to be to face so I retract that and only give the allowance that we realize human beings innately know the right choice. All we need to do is bring people in the picture. So here the turn, they go, they decide we're going to kill we're going to get more attention from dad and then after that, I promise a love we're going to be slotted in after we finished this class. After we finished college. I swear I'm going to pray five times a day. I just need to finish residency, right? It's tough doing residency. I need to finish this rotation we make intention to a law Allahumma Elif Dana khudobin was that by
Nina Nina su de la mana Gina Amina Budo Mattila, Nora Jan even alpha heisha Mahara Mina minha Voila.
Now the amazing interesting part is they come up with an idea. The first one amongst them says we're going to kill
Him, then I assume and we're taking a perfume narrative here. The eldest one gets up and goes, bro You crazy. You kill us if you will kill your brother. He goes no, I got a better idea. He says Polanco.
tunku so crazy you're gonna kill yourself
and listen the way he defends himself he goes that's a dumb idea but I've got a better one How about we take you so we leave him in an empty well how about we leave him in an empty well what else
to any dummy you can kill yourself I got a better idea how about we take you out with us to play Ultimate Frisbee and then we're gonna leave them in a well and they the amazing part is a lot leaves in adorable details. Allah literally says and then they played hide and go seek they the next ayah says act when they get out into the field that they went to play hide and go seek. So the elder brother goes to use if you serve Why don't you hide here you hide and we'll come find you use of the well is going to be wet. Why don't you take off your shirt alright guys hanging out in the at the beach or in the middle of the desert. Give me your commies Take off your commies you hide in there,
none of the buyers will find you know, brother will find you. Next officer jumps into Well, before this lowering takes place, a conversation happens between the dead I am almost going to leave it open ended so that you can do as a Lost Planet. Allah said no accidental causes the best narration so I want you to get into character of Yaqoob the Father, and I only think dads will be able to pull this off. Does Yahoo but no. And that's why he says does he know that his kids are planning something? So he says the obvious or does he genuinely deep in his heart? Is he saying and I hope nothing happens to you so because watch what happens in the next conversation. They come to dad
running with this whole elaborate plan. One is like oh man, my idea to kill him was dumb. The other one says Look, I'm so much more intelligent. They said all
I need to stop here for one second. It's where we're on touches grammar. Does anyone know what happens in this? ayah
if you want to know how perfectly we're on is preserved. You want a miracle? Everyone say the word that men
now say the word that man noona
should blow your mind if it doesn't Quran stop perfect. When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam whenever he recited this ayah He did not say that men nada Yusuf, you gotta watch. He said that man.
Did you see that man? He puckered his lips in the middle of the word. grammatically, it's supposed to be a man una and he said that man.
Use of the puckering didn't make any noise. But in 2013 You know, that's how Mohammed rasoolullah recited the Quran. You're worried that your arm could be changed friends, when I had to sit in front of my shift to recite the whole Quran he stopped, picked up his head he never looked at me when I recite picked up his head. Watch me recite the whole liar, nodded and moved on Korans. Perfect. Are we going to jump on the bandwagon? Are we going to act like Korans? Perfect. So then they come to that with this huge elaborate plan. I almost want to say they stuttered in their speech. Remember, Minnesota law is narrating this as a story, but he's giving life to the characters. So the son comes
to the dad and said that
he's going to come with us that it's going to be okay. Why don't you send Can you feel it? At some point he moves his lips. There's some type of utterance in this world. He says, Dad, you know what? I'm gonna take you so we're gonna go play Ultimate Frisbee. Come on, dad. We're supposed to get closer together. So his dad says to him, we're in LA NASA when they say Don't worry that and we're nothing but well wishers? thing. Right? Big smile. Everything's gonna be okay dad. Don't worry about it at all. I will see you in Houma. Nava De La Jolla, la voix. in Laguna, have you boo.
The word is yellow tar, viola. Only a dad will catch this. They're using too many words. They're babbling. They don't have a solid plan. They're like we're gonna have fun and you're on and frolicking.
You're going to go play right
Yeah, that there's a lot of verbiage that picks up on this that realizes that they are saying we're going to take care of
So dad and again, this is my question to the elders or the dads here. Does he realize there's a plot? Or is he just seeing his true heart from from what's in his heart? I cannot put my finger on it. I say he shared his true feeling. He shared his true feeling. And he said, Look, I really think that they are wolf could come he could be eaten something could happen. Personally, as a young person. I think dad's leaving bait. I think dad's leaving and saying, I know the psychology of my children again, his title, his father, you don't have 12 kids and just walk away. You know how your kids tick. So he puts the bait in front and it goes, You know what?
Why was he so specific? Why was there this dead on conversation number one, because his kids could still be open enough to talk to him. And he responded back, he responded back with other open communication and said, You know what, I'm afraid of your idea. He doesn't shoot it down. He goes, I'm afraid of your idea. What if a wolf comes? Because what another who would have a loon, right? You guys are going to protect yourself? So jacoba syrup shows us a little bit more of his wisdom will undermine who hoffy doing. And you all might you're telling me nasty when you're wellwishers you're telling me you're happy loon, you're gonna protect him. You know, maybe you guys might be
amongst a hoffy Dune. Those who just get caught up in playing
oriola in a gala? Who
And only a teenager can answer like this. If a wolf ate him, then we wouldn't be strong. If a wolf ate him, then we wouldn't be we wouldn't be 10 Brothers, that that's a dumb idea. What we do as youngsters we should do? I think it was paid. They shut down the idea instead of saying that a wolf stopped for law praising Allah bring something No, that's a dumb idea that there's 10 of us. We eat that line. We've seen Braveheart six times, we will take care of that those wolves will no problem. We know this a lot. Don't worry about it. So at this point, he then sends them. We're going to stop on this part of the story here. And we're going to wrap it up for now. Have a little bit more time.
Just two more is a fun time to more eyes.
So they head out. Dad says again with hikma youngsters, if you serve didn't listen to his dad, he wouldn't be thrown in a well, but despite the fact and this is where I say jacobellis salams ultimate wisdom comes in. He looks at his sons and says whatever Allah wills is going to happen. So if I'm going to lose yourself, I'm going to lose use of but I have crossed my T's and dotted my eyes and I told you, a wolf could eat use of Lula in the bhuvana neuros bar in
a row. And he says indeed, definitely that if we lost him we would be ultimate losers we would be literally we would never we would never be seen as very strong. yakou body Salaam does something that a father has to do every day. He did his best and he put his trust in Allah. That's the complicated part that I leave on the parents today. I prepared and prepared today read parenting articles. Nothing will definitely give you reassurance you have to put trust in Allah. I read I read and read and read and then I ended up saying but prophets kids didn't work out for didn't work out in the beginning. What yaku Bala Salaam had that we missed today is the foresight. Even if my kids
go and take use of he falls into a well I go blind I lose use of for 1215 years. Allah is going to take care of everything. That is trust that a male won't always have were immediate. So he had this trust the father Yaqoob fell Amazon Abu Dhabi he was
press pause, press play now you're back in the well. Yusuf Ali Salaam is taking off his shirt. He's adorable. One third of beauty was created just like Rama was created 100 and split into 100 levels, beauty was created. One third of it was given to us of one third of the beauty of the world was given to us if if I may. There are attractive men out there and then there are men who you will cut into your thumbs and not even know that you're that you're cutting into yourself. That was useful, isn't it? It's different. It's different than what we see on TV and why
What true beauty is? Beauty is because Allah that's so nice, so attractive. It's something else when you are mesmerized, takes off his shirt jumps in the world. And you can imagine him on the way down, I get to play with my brothers. He's so excited. He's so happy, the well the buckets going down, they covered the world and said you serve, we'll be right back.
And that's where we end our story. yakou bodies as a father of 12 guides his kids through the pitfalls of life. And I hate to quote Batman, but that's the only place we can go right now. We fall so we can learn to get up. We fall and we allow our kids to fall. We allow them to make mistakes. But when they get up and they're like and they're crying, and they're bleeding, and they're all who then went what, then we're in as the rescue. If you try to rescue your kids before they fall, they'll see it Oh, you're overburdening them fall. Trust me, I can't give you personal examples. But one simple one. Mom's rule was for 30 no more video games. So it was four o'clock to 430 was I was
allowed to play once twice a week video games. This is the same way I look at the October lesson. So I was allowed to play Megaman three. It was amazing middleman champion was amazing. It's a greatest feeling in the world. And I remember at some point 430 was coming up. And I was like 430 but I'm almost done. I went ahead, I entertained my nuts. I beat Needleman I got his powers.
Guess what happens? Mom walks in various loving look. walks in says oh how you do everything's good. Good. Good day, since she just said How are you doing? I was like, I beat middleman. She goes really? What time did you beat me to mouth like I beat middleman.
Mom said something amazing, though, which I wouldn't have never lost. She said the house rule is for 30. Right? I said, Yeah. She goes, You didn't follow the house rule. I said, Yeah, she goes to sleep outside. And I'm not joking. I was old enough to be like, Child Protective Services, whatnot. I'll go hang outside for 20 minutes. And the pediatrician will call me back inside. This is not not gonna happen. I slept outside
the whole time.
If you can't follow the laws in the house, but had she come home, had she come in before and said what time you can play video games. I know she put the tool in my hand. I messed it up royally. And then I slept outside. Which trust me what happened to Megaman three after that? Nothing. It wasn't worth leaving outside. It wasn't worth that. If we are there to parent our children before they fall, they won't like it. Make lines of communication open enough so that your seven year old can come and say Dad, I dreamt about Hugo and there was this and there was this and this happened. And then that happened and our kids are going to dream a little bit more than you do these days. Even if
they watch WreckIt Ralph, they would come back and say to cartoons are kissing. So maybe there's something more. There's something more than tell you this is what happened in the movie, and you don't shun them. You say spatola just like he told his kid don't go and tell your brothers did he sit on his head? If you tell your brothers they're gonna sit in the corner. No, he gave him the tool in his hand and said if you mess this up, I'll be there to catch you. That's parenting, but their profits. So we're gonna have to get there and it takes a lot. We asked Allah subhanaw taala for this opportunity. I only asked you to do one thing. Some of us like to fast forward to the end of the
movie. I believe it's like 124 someone can find it for me 124 sora bacara um, Quantum shuhada I have a Roku but don't fast forward the movie. Because this whole we stopped Yaqoob this week, we start Yusufzai the setup and then we end jacobellis and I'm because there's something that happens at the end. You know, all of these DC movies and they have Egyptian dramas too. They always tell you the mother in law and the daughter in law don't get they always have these things. This is the perfect ending to a story because jacoba salons 10 brothers after the jailing, they all get married. So all of these daughter in laws are in the house all of this stuff and at the end it all works out. So I
asked you to take the fifth lesson and we close on it. Say Yaqoob His 10 His 10 sons swapped squash the beef that day it happened that day they felt so brother 123456789 and 10 I get a feeling in my heart. You know what my aunt said this to me. You know what my dad said this to me and today I squash it. I don't wait till tomorrow. Today I squash all of the problems that are in my family. And I say a lot in shot law. If my family does this to me again, we will deal with it again. But I will not say they always did. Because their family and the families not the one who's always around you then of course
They're always going to do things to you because they're always around you. squash the family beef today. Had the brothers of Yusuf Ali Salam came and said that we don't get enough love. We need something they wouldn't have killed their dad, their their brother, they would have gone this far. And in turn, they killed their dad, they killed his eyesight, they killed his lust for life. Try your best today. Find your family situation, squash one beef and say a lot tomorrow, this one exists. And tomorrow when I'm your I'm your aunt, and I do the same thing to you again, just started as one
disrespected me once you forgive that and say 100 law until the fifth time you come and say you know what? You've been talking about my kitchen or the way I keep my dishes for the last five months? I'd rather you not do that. I don't know. I'm assuming brothers. I have no example for you. Your uncle keeps coming in saying you're fat. You're fat.
Maybe they love you. Right? Or maybe you're a little chunky. It's okay. If we happy. So do your best to see this as the compilation of how family structure works. Why am I pushing this so hard? From Ibrahim giving us the heat loo dallisa organizing our entertainment, movie TV, Twitter, Facebook, Netflix a lot organize that THROUGH THROUGH THROUGH THE lutherie Sanam Now let's talk about a family after this from Yahoo. Does anyone know what comes what comes from Yahoo?
The entire Bunny is raw eel. The first Omar that's gonna stand the first Omar that's going to be organized and we're going to call them a nation and Jews and prophets and books and narration and Shadi and haraam and halala you're going to hell because you did this. It hasn't started yet. Everything comes from Yaqoob all of the people of bunnies fall ill come from that generation if we can get our family issues into order be eaten Allahu Allah. Islam is halal and haram will become this big, easy to do. Oh Allah said it, man. I got plenty of things to take care of my family. I don't got time to talk about these huge issues. Allah said it good enough. I got time I have to take
care of my family. We asked Allah subhanaw taala for his forgiveness for his mercy. We ask Allah Subhana Allah to shower us with His protection. I asked Allah Subhana Allah to give you the opportunity to make dua before you stand up. Rather than run can we cut the camera just for a second please, if you're recording just turn off your recordings for a second.
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