Bulugh Al Maram – Ties of Kinship #1
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The woman went out.
We will be
discussing the second chapter in this book, which is the book of
the collections. And it's called collections because it's collections of various topics.
And this chapter is Babel bidri, we'll see that the chapter of
was Silla. Now we'll talk what that means, which had been good and being connected good to your family, your friends, to your neighbors to your parents and be connected with them.
And this chapter, fie obatala hadiza has 14 howdy this chapter and mainly focus on three topics,
talk about silicon, ham being connected with your kinship, then there will validate talking about parents and their rights. And talking about similar to God when you while you will also have is to be connected with your neighbors with your friends and
members of society at large.
And Imam Rahim Allah He put this chapter after the previous one, the previous one speaking about poka lamb and in Muslim he talks about the rights upon every Muslim upon other Muslims at large.
Any cool Muslim who only Muslim? Every Muslim is a brother to another Muslim? They say kulu Muslim Sadiq
but not every Muslim is a friend of others.
We are friends. But if I go to
parent mustard they're not my friends. They're my brothers.
Yeah, no, I go to kg mustard. They are my friends or my brother depends. So brother
is a very big circle, but there's a small circle of friends.
But also there is another smaller circle which is very important than just that every Muslim connected to every Muslim it called the will of Him my kinship my relatives. That's a smaller circle. Then there is another circle which is the smallest one of them all which is my my family, my parents
and my family member. Okay, like my father, my mother and children. So Eman Rahim Allah started with the big circle, how can Muslim and ham upon every Muslim that's why help Bell Muslim Arab Muslim said you know the if he sneezes 100 likes a hammock, Allah when you meet him give him syrup. That's for everybody. Now we're going to talk about these smaller circles. And the rights of those people by key they're off the bat couldn't help open it to Muslims in Egypt and they have a de
minimis every rights that we give to the Muslim at large, we must give it to the parents we must give it to the relatives we must give it to the friends and the neighbors. Okay. So if it is logical to say why they come Assam to a stranger, it became more wiser to say when it comes to your parents,
to your relatives, to your neighbors, if it is wired to accept or it is recommended to accept the invitation of a stranger
to wedding, it is highly more recommended to accept the invitation of your cousin's your daughter, your
the invitation of your mother's wedding.
She's a widow and she married again she's a divorce and she marry again like so, in this case, it is more right over you to your father and so forth.
And this is very
smart way of putting the order of the book. So you started with the rules that apply to the general public,
all Muslims and even some non Muslim as well. Then now he goes to the small circle the rules that apply to the rights of
friends and neighbors. Then relatives then family members smaller, smaller circle
and better Bible directory was
Scylla he served Albert was set up
and Bill with kassala and built the castle
it means doing what is good
okay and also means doing what is required.
I feel bad
and it means also unfavoured to be unfolded it means to give
and to support. And I do believe that unfavoured which is giving and charity, it's one form of being good, good is a very general term and one of it is to be able financially to support so borrow a lot. Yeah and it means
benefited others done good to others, okay. Or also it could means you do good for yourself both ways.
We have some that got me in any shape or form. You know, when I said one law you will come with me tonight boronia mean is to go with him. What
do you mean? It means you made you make his statement truthful. His statement is you come to my house tonight. So you make it true for by going to his house. So it is an ability has to do with what would the word subcultured truthfulness. Why? Because it means you do something sincerely, you truthful about doing what is good as why I had a liberal validate
and had to approve all this. It means you do good, but you do out of complete word sincerity. You're truthful about it.
And one of the word that you're familiar with Alberta means faith lacell burdwan Toluca complete barrel machico wackiness, Rahman, Amman Avila, Alberta is to believe in a line the angels why because it means faithful. It means truthfulness. Sorry, to be truthful. So this is all that a man has to come from the heart truthfully. That's why we call it bill.
bottle, which is one of Allah's Name, and Barbara Rahim, it means the one al mutawa seroflo hireright, the one who gives all kinds of goodness.
So one of them was named Albert, which it means the one who gave all kinds of good things. He gives a lot of good, okay. And so he said, Bill, so this is a chapter of our bill, what it means, yeah, and you are good to your relatives, good to your parents, you are truthful about it, you're sincere about it, you do all kinds of goodness to them was sila, a sailor Qaeda, an Arabic language, which is the opposite of cutting somebody off here would be later on well, Papa, so I'll say that it means I'm connected with someone, it's the opposite of disconnecting. So I'll say that it means you are connected to your kinship connected to you're connected with with your kinship with your parents,
with your friends with your neighbors. So there is a connection between you and them.
And that connections you added with the water to bear so it means my connection with them lead to doing good. So Babel was similar so I am connected with my parents and I do good to them because you can be connected to them and ruin their life. You know, I'm connected to my neighbor oh my god I'm there all the time. They hear me all the time. He does talk good you know you're like going there the day or night
so sit down almost related to me that's why we connected the word that better it means I'm connected to them I reach out to them I keep in touch with them in good terms. And in this relationship lead to what is good. So today inshallah we started with the first Hadith if Dr. Abdullah anistar
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Babu believes Scylla and ebihara todo lo que tal and rodeo long time
And who cola cola Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, mon anubisath Allah who theoretically he was a new NASA the houfy
who unhewn Salah houfy a theory folio cell rahima who have radziwill Buhari
narrator Abu huraira de la Juan. Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said he who wishes to have his provisions expanded and his term of life prolonged must treat his relatives well reportable Buhari.
It's kind of strange he's saying reports of it Bahati because this had it actually it's a Muslim.
And it's even more strange that this wording is the wording of Muslim not the wording of Buhari
and Buhari about him Allah His wording may have been a new SATA whoever loved in the Buhari men sama, new absorber,
whoever subtler habit, love subway, any who wants to
who want who wishes or
would like to stay close to each other. But the wording in the body is not a habit as men savoir.
And you sorta lie furiously also, this is Muslim, and it'll be hard to level via display. So there's a quite differences. But again, one of the things that we keep in mind that the copies of these books over the centuries and time, they're not the same. So there might be another copy from Sahil Bahati has this exact wording, and that what
have been has not had any elbow Harvey's book, and why this book is estimated 100,000 copy was made off
after the 100,000 copy, so some of these copies sometimes can be there's differences in some of the words it doesn't make really a big change.
so this hadith in Bukhari Muslim, and this is Kim and Hadeeth, Muslim and Perea and so they allow and what are the law
not from a bar or a law and law. He said you saw to whoever wishes or love to have his provision or earnings
increased or grow, you sought this the word increase or grow up
and bust okay?
Means bust up and fill this mutual initial bust alcatra cannot increase, whoever wants to have a lot of risk. A lot of provision, not a lot only in quantities, keep in mind, but also a lot in what and blessing and Baraka and what a lot on the resources. You any one of the meaning of this YouTube sub it means Yeah, and us Salah, so Lisa forgot who it means he got a lot of money from one source, it could means also have so many resources sources for risk. So instead of you making money from this source, you can have money from many sources. And many of these sources you don't even even even thought about it or know about it. Or thought it will be a door that will open for you. Who knows.
As Pamela. Yeah, and he
and that's very true. I know a brother here in Houston
has a land in it. And
so this brother came to me and he had a tough time and certain things in his life. And
I advise him to increase it that still far I still feel lost. I've got a lot and to be good to his family, his parents, his brother and an almost Mashallah will open the risk for you.
He came to me after a year of assembler
said she had chair I just want to tell you what happened to me. I said What happened?
He said, You know, I tend we have construction item. I 10 and I 45 never an endless amount of constructions. So he said a company came to me and told me that they have a lot of dirt and they would like to put it in your land.
You have a big land and we put a million
To have dirt in your land, we will guarantee it's not contaminated for 19 years. To give you a guarantee on that, we'll give you half a million dollar
piece. Yeah, sure. I have like 30 acres. I don't know what to do with it. And could we even pay the tax for it? So they came on the put it for a half a million dollars in his life. While they're doing this, a developer came to him in the neighborhood in Katy.
And he said, I'm a developer and I need dirt.
Because I have to raise the land that I'm developing. Would you sell the dirt for me?
He said, Yeah, Elijah Holly, the same truck I made a deal with the same company who delivered the trucks from the I tend to come to bring the dirt it goes from this door and from that door I made half a million dollars this way. Then I made a $750,000 this way out. So one point $25 million
when I was gonna open a bar for his he didn't know where it comes, it can come from it.
He didn't know I come from you know, it just an amazing how Allah subhanaw taala can open doors for your profit. So you've selected a sap it gives you a robust means wide range of source and also a lot quantity wise and Baraka. So all this the word bust carries it's not fair just to for me to pass this word, the English translation without telling you what's this word in Arabic? It's loaded with meanings.
Can you subtler who fear is
and that's another word that is so loaded as well is not like the way translated and it is translated what provision or
some like earning at risk in Arabic language what it means, who is smooth liquid Lima Hamza
at risk and Arabic language, it is referring to anything that can benefit you.
It called risk. So, knowledge is what risk
money is what risk children is what risk benefit you I hope so. Okay. So, you know,
the marriage is what it is. You see, so risk is of good manners as what
food and water is what because it benefits your body, nurture your body. Okay. Home is what
That's right. And
a risk Alomar human law said respond
the provisions and the earning is two that is called Lil abdon. What is called
a risk provision that benefits that body and there is a risk that benefits that soul.
Like a Man tober contemplation, that's why it's a risk that the laws of Canada provide for some people that they have this understanding of the religion, that they have this soft heart, it's a risk from Allah.
We're in the law Kazuma and Venus cannot possibly be number one, a lot divided manners among people the same way divided money, some people have more money, several more manners more severe than others, some people have more sugar than are grateful than others, some people are more wiser than others and so forth.
So, this is something also keep in mind the word user. So listen to what the processor Parliament whoever wishes would love for his risk, all this meanings you saw.
Can you imagine the sources of Eman the sources of money the sources of the sources of any kind of provision comes from so many sources. Resources come with large quantities
and it will be blessed as well.
Huge supply of it.
Will Yun set hula hoops? Who doesn't want that? Can you can you think of anybody who said you know what I don't want that. I don't want to be lost in all these areas. No one so
Here in Ibiza, so I'm getting us excited
and if you noticed Yun SAP for His provision to be increased What do we call that in English and an Arabic In Arabic we call it mevani the halal Rama allume melbournian little five
are you New Madrid? In English we call it passive tense it will be increased
did not say who increasing it
Can anybody tell me what that entails? What that means why it came in a passive tense leash boonie adlerian Malou hiuen Ubisoft la Javier is
because so many reasons for the risk sometimes it comes from a person bc you know and behind all this Allah but I did not mention exactly because if you say Allah will provide Rita mama provide for everybody but he made it passive tense he didn't know who is exactly the provider because Allah will bring you so many providers for the risk of give a very general term
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Yun said the same thing it will be increased.
What will be increased? In UNICEF? Yeah, and you are
in NASA, who was here, NASA it means delay. If you read in the Koran
indeterminacy Uzziah the term filco
Allison in the Koran in them and the other term filco and the Z is increasing income for anybody knows and the C and the C cannot push arrays what they used to do is have something called like what we have as Muslims and asuran harem sacred month for months. You're not allowed to fight Roger, one of them. Okay, and the and the ledger and Mahara so for months there's no patch months this is called a short film these four months you're not allowed to fight the people of Mecca know that we will not care we'll see the man will see the color of his father and will not touch him
but sometimes parish want
and locator for example of the head there's so much excitement and whatever reason they want to fight so what they do they say okay, this year we're going to push it
down so instead of the Garda we start from the head instead of Roger we push it to chabang
so we can fight on project for can Facundo you know and they said we're gonna push it and delay the sacred month one month later so that's why it could NSE was added on because it means delaying so an se in Arabic means delaying so if you want your time to be delayed what's your time referring to? death
if you want your death to be delayed in another if you want to live longer
I thought oh, he said delay his I thought I thought means his life span or death
just I like always to comment the Arabic meaning Leisha meal mode
or more I thought
why we say I thought it means life.
Or your your lifespan? I thought or death could also mean a thought.
Can anybody think of the word Arthur have ever used this word I thought?
Less what's the connection between author and life? I thought I gave you an award and I thought
the imprint on the ground. It's called I thought I thought akhdam.
Okay, I thought we'll akhdam the the footprints. That's right. The footprint we call this I thought
so what's the connection linguistically you think?
I'm Dan from pure linger.
If you did you make an impact. No you did.
What makes impact is the thing that you do while you're alive, or you did when you were alive.
But after you die, it can make any impact.
What will make impact things that you did before you die? And it's still working for you. But someone dead never never lived? If you can imagine hypothetically, someone never lived will ever have a thought will ever have impact No.
So that's why I call it a thought has to do with life and death is a very interesting word. Because I thought that means my life has to have an impact
that's why the Arab use the word I thought to refer to life because anyone who's living they have some footprint on this earth and this footprint disappear by your death so that's why linguistically that the Navy saw them use the word I thought to refer to that is that clear? My iPhone, but
even even even as simple as footprint any us woman under the sun either MATLAB or katella if you die that you don't move, so you don't make any effort you don't take breath that's a that's an impact. You don't you produce carbon, you just completely cost but not impact
anyway, fairly so. So how can you achieve these two you delay your death you live longer?
And you increase all the sort of what how the answer came, fell your son or Hema paranavitana Java sharp. So the condition in order to get this, you Yes, old rahima. And we said what's yesil means it means to be
Silla needs to be connected. It should keep ties with his or what they keep tight with their kinship. Yes. Okay. It means to keep ties to be connected. And this is
keeping the ties
visiting talking. Also, spiritually, you making draft for them, you pray for them, you wish them good, you love them. Okay. And verbally, you know, talking to them financially. Okay, serving them. That's a physical format of it, helping them aiding them. He said, all this a Scylla. So a Scylla means to keep that tie to be connected with them, either physically, verbally, financially, emotionally emotional support, all those connections
that what you consider with his or her Brahim kinship
or Rahim comes from the womb
of the woman. Okay.
And that to show you that you goes those who came basically and share this, if you go and lineage the go back all the way up to share the same parents are the same mother. And here we don't mean your maternal relatives only, but paternal and maternal are
well, what do you have here? And we'll talk more what exactly are what he means technically that you have to be connected with this for now. R Rahim it means home and also well for it means your father, your grandfather and up and your children and grandchildren and down your brothers and sisters and their children. Whatever descend from the term, then your uncle's.
Okay. And from maternal part, paternal part and their children's.
Okay, so these are the one that
this had. He talked about being connected to them and we'll talk about how can you keep connected with this? My father has 16 brothers and sisters
or the 15 brothers sisters, how you can do that.
So it's very hard. So we will talk about that means that the manifestation of it Yes.
Yeah. Now we're just analyzing the words of the Hadith that after that we studied that issues in the Hadith are the lessons from the Hadith. So what do we learn from this heading number one, this head it shows you that Scylla tournois him is one of the obligatory of Islam
and cutting ties with relatives and kinship is one of the
one of the major sin in Islam. And coulterville Rahim Allah said it difficulty million all the Muslim scholars agree that ciliata Rahim keeping time with your kinship is watching and cutting ties is forbidden and how and the evidence is overwhelming. A Lost Planet Allah said what walhalla de Luna de Waal or ham
for hell as a to interpolate them and to see to fill out the will to appear on hammer calm. Allah subhanaw taala said fear Allah the one that you by his words connected together with your kinship a Lhasa for hell as a time interval later. Do you are you going to when you turn around to see to fill out you will spread corruption of an earth
and what what to up to our hammock cut ties with your kinship
allow those who are doing this less a lot. Those who cutting ties with with with Kench when their or their relatives, those who are not in Silla with their relatives. Those who spread corruption on Earth, la de Cali him Lana to LA or that ecology in Atlanta Houma LA for our Samba homearama of sorrow, Allah curse such people.
The issue of caring for your relatives and your kinship is so clear in Islam. That's why when harappan asked about soufiane what is Mohammed? What is Islam? What is he asking you guys to do? Listen to the first thing he said. He said he ordered us to salah and to give charity, while FF is to abstain from indecency was similar
to keep good connection with relatives.
So that's the message in the first few days and our
Jaffa had been Naja, she told him, tell me what is Islam? What's the message of Mohammed? He said he came to us and told us and among the first five six things he mentioned, to be good to our relatives.
So this is something individual Solomon started with something so fundamental. I shadow the Allah Allah has said that in Ibiza Salam said in Rahim should not mean or watchmen
or Rahim, their name or Rahim came from the word or rushed man.
That's why it called us wound or Rahim. Allah said when he created the womb inside the mother inside the female. He said alasa man was so lucky was salto, woman kapa haka, Pato anyone will be connected with his or their kinship, I will be connected to them, and anyone will cut them off, I will cut them off.
Can you imagine Allah cut you off.
There's no way for Baraka for blessing. And that's why one of the reason we see no Baraka anymore in many people's lives, and because this is became, by the day, by the way, this concept is more alien by the day. And I am 100% I'm talking to now and many of us including myself, I look at my life and I said oh my god, where am I? from this?
When was the last time I call my cousin's? When was the last time I know about my you know, my
especially in a mini culture, there is a lot of connection with your,
your relatives from your father's side, but not from your mother's side.
I want to share with you some of the Hadith that speak about the virtue of surah Torah him beside what you just heard. Pardon me, so Salim whoever, believe in Allah on the Day of Judgment must be connected with his kinship, folio. sabaha McCarty carlina, Carnaby salatu salam, and you heard the Hadith to increase your risk, and to widen your risk and to live longer you could do
Your relatives mahatmas
Allah Subhana Allah subhanaw taala him I will connect, I will be connected to this who connect you the kinship and I will cut those who cut their
kinship. And in the BSL Allah is a lamp said as Harry who are early on he said Yasser Allah A man came to the volumes yes Allah Tell me something that will let me intergender
Tell me something I do it will lead me to dinner you kill me then I'll tap Buddha Allah ha ha ha you worship Allah and you do not associate with Allah. Wa Toki masala to pray with disregard to give second, what's next? What else
they might ask but what about the rest of the pillars of Islam? had
It looks like this has happened in Makkah. Before these pillars were completed that means so to me there's something in early time in Islam was so fundamental.
Okay, and in there be sallallahu alayhi wasallam when he first as he first started with this in Mecca, he started with this in
Medina of the loudness and I'm said the first thing ever, the first public speech the person given Medina, the first public talk
What did he say? He said, you harness all people have to sell them you
have to sell them spread so now we're out the image bam. feed people was signal on ham
connect with your relatives was some new build a luminescent em praying the night while people sleeping. tadpole Jenna Teresa lamb, you will entertain the MPs.
last panel, Diana, he prays the following people and sort of the right one lady in IRC Luna
will be a one wire shown on boom wire harpoon so
those who connect what Allah order them to connect to, which is a kinship unit to be to keep maintain the ties.
So and also maintaining this good ties with your relatives. It's one of the reason for society to be filled with love cooperation, looking after one another helping one another.
It is sad Elijah I know cases where a sister
had three four brothers, all them have good income. And she's struggling for $50 on $100.
struggling for four to pay the rent. While she has three four brothers.
It is hard to hear that you know parents don't have the support the financial problem children
cousins, if we spread that concept, we will find that the society will benefit a lot because we still looking after one another and you the society will improve. And also if we keep that maintain that relationship what happened the love will be spread among the community and society at large as well.
So this is the first point in the Hadith, the importance and the virtue of
keeping ties with kinship. The second lesson we can learn from the Hadith or another point, it is permissible for you to love for your income to be increased
where we get this from
God I mean, have you ever wanted loves for his wrist to increase? So it means it's a lot. It's not, it's not a bad thing, it does not contradict, it does not contradict, you know, being attached to the camera. Even the Muslim would love to increase his risk. You know, there is an opportunity to earn more money, that's good, you should not be shamed or feel bad about it. Or feel guilty about that, you know, you can increase your business and and so forth. And
there is a hadith which is,
Yamanaka Buhari, God Allah Honey, you shachar myth Lu, alpha to solder
the rich, grateful Muslim, or person is equal to the poor, patient person.
You see, I'm saying So, being rich or being poor will not determine your good or bad because what makes you good and bad in the eyes of Allah is not being rich or being poor. It is. What does your status when you're rich? Are you arrogant? So what make you bad persons not being rich as being arrogant, or grateful and thankful? being poor, doesn't make you a good person doesn't make you a bad person.
virtue, but being poor but patient will make you a person of virtue. So what makes you a person of virtue is a sober being patient.
Is that clear? Like
a Moloch non alcoholic you Shakur, Mithra, mithril, Pharaoh solder.
Also, this hadith shows you like that Hello, Avon. No harm that the person tried to increase his lifespan to live longer.
So you take care of yourself. You basically there are certain things and the research has said if you do this, you can live average five years longer, three years longer. Because that's basically what can keep you more healthy. You know, you care for the thing that it will help you to live long. And in Derby sallallahu alayhi wa sallam have shown us what can we do to increase our lifespan?
That's right. In this head, if you told me if you want to live longer, you do that. And some of them I said, you can even do it. You can see a lot let me live long. Some earlier my said live long at a party lie. Let me increase my life span and increase my pie increase my Eman and good deeds because you don't want to live longer and you do more sins. The problem. You want to live longer to make more good deeds. And NSF nomadically allow her and his mother brought him to the process alone when he was 10 years old. And his mother was a wise woman. She said Yasser Allah, this is my son Ennis. This is my gift to you. Everybody give you a gift and I don't have money. So I'm giving you my son
to be your servant. I want him to serve you. But she's what is smart. Why?
Because she want her son to what to learn from the process of them. Seven years old. So he served the process of them and he learned from him a lot and he became one of the most well known scholars and the writer of Hadith among the companions in the B cell allowed his alum when he welcomed him. She said you
Hola la lucha
Yasser Allah picked out for him
by Asian nebby sauce on them made to offer him for what color anise daddy beserta for a two minute entertain, were Indian double salad. He prayed for three things for me. I saw already two of them and I'm waiting for the third one. What did he
said? Are Allahu Akbar Allah?
Allah increase his wealth
while while I
was up a little more, increase his wealth and his children and let him live long life work for them and forgive all his sins.
Or Bahar co ns is for Apollo law her only job was to madrichim
and I said I passed the 100 years a while ago. I don't know how many years now, but I passed the 100
well stay tuned min le and I feel shy from my family. What he mean by that?
And as the older he gets the younger he gets.
Yeah, and he's still sexually active.
Even with this old age, she said they feel shame like an old man like this, but I'm still like sexually act that's why NSR the Allahu anhu Allah He said
yeah any part different human soul be
built on where he threw me a minute what
I buried over 100 of my children
And definitely This is not from on wife
Yeah, this is most likely had to
it The point is his a lot of children and a lot of money.
Allah give me so much money that no one in unsolved has money match what I have. He said everyone in the unsolved see how the risk comes from unexpected sources. Is it everyone in an unsolved they're guarding their field tuenti tomorrow stand up tomorrow attain everybody's field produce one time a year. Mine produced twice a year
and a double myself
is gonna be extremely rich.
And one of the reasons Allah Allah Azza wa Jalla the I don't know how many children
so I saw everything except the third one yet and I hope to see it in the era that all my sins will be forgiven
so in Ibiza solemn de Allah, He prayed for him What? To live long life and he didn't say I thought a lot like some people put that condition. it okay to say it's not a bad thing, but it's not a condition. Yeah, and it's not a must.
And by the way, this Hadeeth that being good to your to maintain ties with your relatives will increase your risk and will increase your lifespan. There is many other narration to support a border of the Alliance said in necesita Rahim Maha battenfeld misratan fill man man satin fill.
Keeping ties with your relatives will increase the love of your family and it will increase your wealth and it will delay your death to make you live longer. And actually Eliana said he was an environment. The previous owner told me this woman said she said Salatu Rahim was no diva being good to your relatives and good your neighbors. Yeah, I'm Ronnie Dr. will bring prosperity to the society to the community to the country. Why is he then it will
basically lead to for you to live longer.
Phoebe Ella is not v Callum and Mr. Vieira and I saw the allowance ANOVA and then it's not it's not that authentic. A soda
Similar to Rahim, maintaining ties with relatives, ese de la Hobi Hema filmer
Allah will let you live longer because of them when Pharaoh became a meat that the suit
and Allah Subhana Allah to Allah will never let you die a horrible death.
Okay, no horrible
and sell man are the Allahu anhu Allah said that the prophet SAW Selim said Leia will do Kaaba law
the only thing can change what Allah or beamed upon you is your job.
What is he to film lol Bureau, and nothing will change your lifespan except as being good to your relatives. Good. You're
obviously parents comes first.
Polling there is also a bit more fourth intermediate.
comes to the point that weatherman was saying earlier, which is how can we reconsolidate between the concept that everyone his or her lifespan and their life is already written how long you will live? Actually, the moment you are in your mother's womb a lot till the end you're right how long this person will live.
It's already decided how long you will live and when you gonna die? So how can we say that this is already decided? Then you saying here in the Hadith that will increase your lifespan.
Allah said in the Quran for either
the hero NASA is stuck on the moon, when the time comes, they cannot delay it nor they can die before their time. What are you after alone? Epson either judge Aloha, when did your time comes alone, not delay that. And Serato munafo
in Amara Hey, Mama la have different approach to reconciliation between these evidence that Jesus turned earlier about maintaining ties. And this evidence that saying death is already appointed your lifespan already decided nothing will change in regard to those
I have a different approach. And the two general are well.
They said the ID that says your lifespan will be increased.
You will live longer. They said it's metaphor.
We cannot take it literally any literally you will live more years.
They said there is it's kind of figurative speech. There is a wheel for it. What is it? They said you live longer it means Allah but Baraka blessing in your time. So you will accomplish in 20 years, what people will accomplish in 80 years, you will accomplish in 40 years or people accomplish in 5060 years, you will find some people enjoy him a whole lot die in his 40s and knowing that everybody caught in Israel signing in for the holiday now. He does in his 40s even taymiyah in his early 60s.
Many of those got a bit out of NAFTA. Aziz died in his late 30s 39 years old. For almost everybody hear about him, he changed the world economically and politically.
Only at the age of 40 he died. So some people live short live, but their impact is huge. The campus so much. So the sun that what it means yeah and you barakallahu Filmora Allah Baraka blessings in your life, as if you lived long life.
Another said no, you live longer. It means your impact will continue after your death for a long time as if you are alive.
Your name will not be forgotten.
Your son and father will be remembered.
Do we mentioned the dead a lot.
Choose any one of your family who passed away? How many times you mentioned his name.
But look if any one of yours was still alive. The name comes up from here and more often. I always talk about I always mentioned my no brothers. But I don't mention after my father's name because he passed away. The Living one is the one who always his name comes up
But so if you die your name kind of die with you.
That's right. Occasionally, if you like lucky to be remembered, but the vast majority of people when they die their name die with them.
Here a lot that some element said, No, this hand if you will live longer, and you will name and the impact of your work will continue after your death.
We mentioned Abu huraira how many times every day
we mentioned Buhari how many times as we still live? Well, the Federal option one, but as you said a lot because of the blessings of their work is still continued after their death, as if he's still alive, as if he's still contributing. You see, so we always talk about those who establish organization, those who established and mastered those who established, you know, Muhammad Ali,
the famous boxer, Malcolm X, we still talk about as Are we still alive?
Because they made a great impact in society.
You see, so here we say that this is some mmm I said that what this means Yun Salah Hovey, actually, yeah, and he will be delayed. Yeah, and it means his name and his legacy will continue for a long time after.
And the other
way to look at this, which is
the strongest and in my opinion, this is a very solid way. They said no, we don't need to say it's a figurative speech. We do need to find that we, we can say no, Allah will increase your lifespan, yes, you will live longer.
And there is no contradiction between this and your death is appointed by Allah, that your death is known to Allah. Wow. They said it's like this. Allah Subhana Allah wrote exactly when you are gonna die in the safe tablet
before the creation of the heaven under everything rented written in that book, which is called a low homophone.
Allah Allah written your lifespan in the angels books, who upon your birth, written How long are you going to live in the angels books every year they will write who will die this year. Okay, every year Allah tala till the angel who will die this year, and it will be written in them.
So, in these books in the hand, can change.
how it changed because of a reason a cause. So it was written in the andals book that you will die in the age of 40.
But because you are connected and good to your parents, and to your relatives, Allah say to the angel, no, at the age of 40, when do you think he's gonna die? Is it No, I will let it to 45 to 50.
And that's exactly how it's written in the safe tablet, it's written in a safe tablet, when he born it will be 40 but later on, it will be increased to 50. So nothing new, nothing surprised a lot.
But Allah put it this way to show you the value of this deeds, the value of taking care of your relatives and being connected and looking after them.
So and that's how it is. And last month I was sitting on em Allahumma Yasha, where you were in the home with keytab. A lot confirm and arrays have been about acid and conformation and a raising and cancellation. It's in what is in the hand of the angels were in the womb Makita what's in Allah's hand, the book that with a law, nothing change in it.
That's why one of the things that you should understand, either Allah Subhana Allah in the predestiny, he put things conditionally
like he would say, it's a SCADA you will live that long if you do such and such.
If you take this means if you make the app, Allah will increase this, Allah will give you that if you take care of your health, and you start changing habits and this and this and that you will live longer Allah made this as a reason for you to live longer.
But if you're not you'll die at this age.
But all this known to a lot prior to that.
That's why and agilon as admin team era hemolysin one that Allah only knows which is all the changes
That might happen in the future, and one that known to certain extent to the angels, but they might be surprised that things change, then there would be no about the future of the human being. And all this also to make a point that Allah is the only one know the future.
Even the angel who wrote down what is happening to you, they don't know the details, and what can change.
I don't think I need to quote many scars on this. But is there is anything like this in the Koran or the sinner? Yes. A loss of in the Koran and sort of father verse 11. Well, now you are married, what are you consuming? ohmori? Laffy kita
in Ghana, La Jolla See, no one we will increase the lifespan
or decrease it unless it is written in a book. So that means your lifespan can be increased and decreased or lost
and horrible don't lie how I
don't know telling his people you have a formula cuando el camino de Come ye Camila, jolly Muslim. In la de de
lo come to town. If you have you worship online you have Taqwa and you obey me Allah will forgive your sin where you come in actually Muslim he delay your time to another time because he said any he delay your death
so no need for us to say
all we cannot take it literally that a lot increase it. Why? in Ibiza Salaam certain say Buhari Musa alayhis salam, the angel of death came down to take his salt question. So that means the moment the angel of death came to take Moses saw that means his lifespan What?
as right when but there is a rule, no prophet ever die without his consent. So he said yeah, Musa This is the time to come. But he came to him in a shape. Not in the shape that Moosa familiar with he thought is somebody acting or something like that. That's why he slapped
kenari not an angel. We couldn't like couldn't take that.
He slapped the angel of death came up to Allah said Dr. B, you send me to someone doesn't want to die.
Then you should go back to him and show him who you are. And tell him a lot telling you how long you want to live.
Put your make your hand wet, stick it to the back of a ball
and pull it out. See how many hair will stick in your hand. And that's how many extra years you would live.
So Moosa said to the angel, then what they said I will come to collect your soul. He said, There is no difference now from four or five years the same. I'll die.
Then he died right before and he said, all what I wish to just give me a chance to see
that walls of tourism
because all his life want to go to Jerusalem. So he died right outside the walls of Jerusalem.
Not an hour. I
know he was there in that part. So this is literally mooses time What? expanded?
Also, another Hadeeth Adam le salam, Allah subhanaw taala told them, look at all the prophets from your children. And so one of them said, this is looks so nice and shiny. Who's this? Isn't this your son David that would?
Then he said, how long he will live 60 years. He said Europe increased his life. He said if I increase it, I take it from years. He said, how long I will live is it 1000 years? He said I will give him 40 for mine.
So that's already preordained, how long he lives. And that's a change and the head isn't abidos and
then he gave him 40 so when the 1000 now how long Adam will live 961 960 k? He said no I'm supposed to live 1000 is it but you give a 40 should I forgot
an individual Solomon laugh like you? And he said nasty. I then finished the rebuttal he forgot and that's why his children forgets
why hidden he left them in a blue furnace.
and this hurry that Harkin said it's according to the condition of Muslim and that they have he agreed with that as well. And so suddenly Muhammad Rahim Allah and even a bass
also in a sauce Allah made to us that Allah increase his life let him live long.
So it's already decided why do the puzzle and ask for them
and there is many many carbons about one robot about to die his ID will lie here for Omar ask Allah now to live longer he would live longer, because the likes of his dad.
Then the said to him how Allah said, nice when death comes you cannot change that. He said no. He said that's when he died. But before death in Nevada Kerala is here that's easy for Allah to make that change. So my point is, this opinions of a llama that said you can take it literally, you don't need to make that wheel to set its legacy or to say this, there's no need for that. You can take it literally that you will literally live longer.
mainly the people who refuse to take it literally
are people who have a problem and understanding other Atari algebra.
Any they have a problem and understanding the concept because that's why they couldn't can't comprehend this concept.
In my opinion, Allah Allah, that I don't see any problem with taking all two directions, and all three opinions. So you will have blessed time and you will have a legacy to continue and you will be increased literally in your lifespan. What's wrong with
more hair? More follow up? You know, and there is nothing to stop us from accepting all these opinions and they don't it's not this or that. That question.
I know someone was so good to his relatives and died in the age of 40
you guys just told me you will increase his lifespan.
He died in his 20s and Mashallah, he was so nice to his family and to his relatives.
He took care of his relatives he died 21 years old.
What is this habit?
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increasing his lifespan is relevant. Not not as
relative? So maybe this one was supposed to the age of 18
and because of his good days, family, he died 21 maybe he was 30 and he was delayed to 40 who knows you as if you know when he's gonna die. That he didn't say dying old age he said his live will increased.
Okay. Same thing if somebody tried to tell you what about trees or lie I know this guy Mashallah is so good to his family and he's broke, he doesn't have money.
He's not rich, we say Who knows, maybe if he did not have he will have way less than what you have right now.
And remember, at risk is bigger than money. Also,
pay this hand It also shows you another rule, good rule to be known. Our job was to shriek finia by the Agile adonia we will allow
you are allowed
to in as when you do an act for sure to have the intention for the worldly reward and the reward in the
world we get this from
increase his provision in and live longer. That's a worldly word. But also you want Assalam and masala ki Allah is giving a total agenda when those who are good to the relatives and can ship the goat agenda. That's right. So you want the Acura and you want at the same time the dounia so sometimes you want both no contradiction.
You know, as odd, you know,
call them and you know and Mashallah you want the Agile format. But you know what? He charged us like $10,000 a month just to give her that. That's nice.
the ally not not even a $10 dollar is the one who gave us so there is no harm to intend
Both last month I said for all to stop here or back home in the who can have a follow. Make us too far to Allah. He will forgive your sin that has to do with what's next. You will see some drama. We indeed can be Mr. de
la come and give you children give you well give you rivers give you beautiful houses, no contradiction, I can have both.
this is walby any permissible, but here
I have to make a comment in American law said you are allowed to have had, you're allowed to go for hikes for the agile and to do
so they can make trade. But listen carefully. And I said you're not allowed to join to intentions in something the Sharia did not allow them to have to intention in it.
If the Sherry I make it a pure religious issue, you cannot have both intention behind it.
For example, I cannot say I'm going to pray salah and I have something another intention behind the Saba
you know what, I pray five times a day, because on a pri, but also because I want to any worldly matters like I want to, for example, exercise five times a day. So this is my exercise that will go on to do
it. Same thing with fasting.
That's why I have a problem with because sumoto Soho is a weak Hadith, if it's authentic, we will agree but too fast and your annual intention is to die.
You just do the fasting for Allah, you can get a worldly reward from it like being healthy and stuff, but that's not my intention behind fasting.
Okay, my intention behind it is to make money and to make a better that's fine.
I cannot seek knowledge, I cannot memorize the Quran and my intention is worldly reward that's how long
I was not allowed.
I cannot lead Salah because my intention is to get paid I get paid because of the time I dedicate not because of the Salah so if i supply and if I pray a little bit more who sure I get a raise and you know if I if I pray midrash I get no that's not you don't pay me for the Salah. I don't pay you for the Koran, I pay you for the time that you dedicate it for me.
But otherwise you cannot have that intention
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and we ended up the last point if you haven't had it delille adder
is bad as babble anomala therapy musubi Bhatia this is an issue and
that either we believe as anisimova not taking the
necessarily means okay. And precautions it will lead to results. Like because there is we believe that when you take the means it will lead you to the end. It will lead you to results. By the way many people from around Ensenada from this sect they don't believe in that at all
at all You go to the shop or you go to the to the DA you go to the to the jabariya to the pottery you go to the photos you understand what these words means are these groups mean they have so much debate over this that the so many of them said that is kind of interesting he said that the means has no real impact. So the rain did not cause the plant to grow No No it doesn't.
So why the plant a lot better but not the rain?
I had a similar said no, it's the rain caused it and the one who made it cause it is Allah The one who made the system is a lot
some of them any even the consider some of them reached to the level that's it's cool for even to say that.
That's nonsense, because it's a common sense. That's why they say okay, when you cut the apple with the knife, they tell you the knife did not cut the apple. Excuse me.
Exactly. They said the Apple was
Cut when the knife at the edge of the apple. Why? Because the only one allows the only door.
But that's make no sense. And if we do that the means and taking the semi will have no value.
But as Jenna said no means have real impact. That's why it has value. That's why you should care about taking the means. So if you want to be rich, you have to take the steps that make you rich, if you want to be healthy, you want to live longer, you want to do this and that you have to take this means in order for you to achieve the results that you want. And that's a very logical methods of understanding that either it only motivates you to do good, and to improve yourself because you see that results has is basically the results comes as a reason for taking these means that lead to that to these results.
So that's why one of the means that you always keep in mind is not necessarily to be something tangible is not something physical. Like here, increasing your lifespan is a result of keeping ties with your kinship increasing your risk. One of it is to keep tight with your kinship. Okay, it's not only to make basically, some health change, that's one of it. But also that is the means are many different reasons to is one of the means is not a tangible, physical bank. I hope that clear and challah other time when we talk about the color more we explain this more. But these are some of the benefits that we learn from this hadith. As you see it's loaded with a lot of things. Next week,
inshallah we'll talk about
the cutting ties and what it means to maintain ties what that exactly means. So what do I have to do
to make sure that I'm not cutting ties? And who exactly are the one that I'm responsible to keep ties with? Is all my distant cousins and how those basically stopped. But I want today to establish the importance of the concept for us to go back home and start thinking about, wow, am I connected to the My kinship or not? Am I fulfilling this obligation or not? I'm taking this issue serious or not.
And I hope this is something will lead to action, solid loss