Alkhdhlan, When You Are Abandoned, Jummah Khutbah Delivered

Waleed Basyouni


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AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the negative reactions people experience when trying to achieve their goals, including negative emotions when trying to achieve them. They stress the importance of following one's desires and not letting things happen to them, as it is crucial for personal health and safety. The segment also touches on the importance of manners and good manners in professional settings, and emphasizes the need for guidance and guidance from Allah to improve one's behavior. The conversation ends with a discussion of the potential consequences of the disease and the importance of protecting one's health.
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in the hamdulillah Hina who want to stay you know who understand he he wants to stop when I will do we live in surey embassy in Helmand sejati I'm Melina Yadi de la HuFa la medulla. Alma yodeling Fela heard the Allahu eyeshadow Hola Hola. Hola. Hola. Hola Sharika y Shanna Muhammad and Abdul Rasul Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala Nabina Muhammad wa Ernie he was sabe he was a limit la Mata Sleeman Kathira about or praise due to Allah and his prayers and blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his family, his companions and his followers until the Day of Judgment, I bear witness that Allah is the only one worthy of worship, and Muhammad

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his last and final messenger. My dear brothers and sisters, we noticed from ourselves and people around us something very, very interesting and sad in the same time, which is that you find from yourself, sometimes the ability to do so much, and to offer so much.

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And to be so committed, new find sometimes your heart completely turning away and your shot off.

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You'll see people that they are so happy when they giving even more happier when they donate than then when they receive.

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But not everybody like that. You see people when the salah time comes this so happy to pray, and so excited about prayer. And there is others, they drag their feet. And they feel it is just something I want to not that I want have it second get read from, you know, all worries, no a Salah itself, it's a worry that I want to get turned off.

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You'll see people, I'll see if it's a joy for them. While other it's just suffering.

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You see people when they are told there is a class to learn to attend. They're happy, excited, want to learn want to, you know, increase their element or knowledge. And there is other people are so bored. can take it.

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I understand that. Let me put this point out. I understand completely, that this is not only to one factor, but to so many factors. Sometimes the speaker is boring sometimes the time is not the best time I'm sleeping him too. I understand all this but that's not what I what I think is the core of the issue that I want to dodge here. It does something from inside you really make you even see all these obstacles or is nothing and you can overcome them sometimes and some people have the same reservation that you have but yet they still so committed. What is the reasoning behind that? Why that is people are open their heart that they love Quran and then they love to recite and they love

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to listen, and some people their heart, there's no there.

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You know, some people keep telling you, oh, you know, I'm not cut for that. That's not my thing. Why there is people say that why do people feel that?

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Is it really? Allah created us differently? That some people cut for this and some people are not

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the answer? Absolutely not. Because Allah Subhana Allah told us

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To decrease it all, upon the same fitrah the same way of loving Allah and loving the deen loving the fair, loving good and hating evil and bad.

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But what happened as we grow, as we live longer as we live our life, and we start practicing our live and behaving in this dunya things change.

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This concept is known in the books of theology as the concept of a trophy will who ran

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a trophy, when Allah bless you, when Allah Subhana Allah, Allah guide you, when Allah Subhanallah open your heart, when Allah subhanaw taala give you that, enter zeal and excitement and commitment

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to good and make you so you have no interest in evil and bad or have the ability to control yourself and to direct yourself to do what's correct.

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And hold the line is when Allah subhanaw taala leave you for yourself.

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He doesn't give you that aid and support. He just leave you to your own.

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You deal with it in your own, know that extra help from ALLAH SubhanA wa at that.

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We know that's hard. That's difficult. We're a little Kume Femen the Libyan soracom embody, Allah said in the Quran, if Allah helps you, no one can defeat you. But if he denies you help, then who else can help you?

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Who else can bring that help and an excitement and turning your heart?

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I think there's a big question here. Why would Allah subhanaw taala abandoned someone and I mean, they abandoned maybe the better word why lost further I will leave someone to his own self.

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Whilst Panatela will do that to someone will leave you just in your own.

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He's fair, he's just, he's wise. And I will guarantee you right now, that Allah Subhana Allah Allah Abdon Illa be somebody that will elaborate fairly, Allah will never, ever leave you to your own except for the result of your own actions.

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When you do certain things that when Allah subhanaw taala leave you for yourself.

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It is your own action what distance you from Allah subhanaw taala what are these actions? I will share with you four important ones and see and based on how much you have of them how much you drifting far away from the guidance on the help. Could lemme Canada Canarsie been handed out by AXA Colima, cannibal Luca and Allah Azza

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wa Rahmatullah halacha. Ama,

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number one, it devoured house number one to follow your desire.

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And you prefer your desire over what do you notice correct as true? You know what is right, but your desire, you know, telling you now, don't do this, do that fulfill that

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you know what this right and wrong is not the lack of knowledge, but you still prefer your desires over what is correct over what is beneficial, even if it is harmful, even if it makes no sense. Even if it is wrong, I still want to follow my desire.

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And the person just keep doing that keep doing that, until that person will become slave to their desire trap that they feel I cannot resist I can get out of that cycle of doom anymore.

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Allah Oh, what are the tibia in however you will deal with the cancer Barilla and do not follow your desire Allah says or they will lead you astray from Allah zwei Absolutely. That's why Allah Subhana Allah says there is no worse no one worse then woman Abba lumen many Tibetan Ha hoo hoo the min Allah. Allah Subhana Allah Allah said and who could be more straight than those who follow their desires with no guidance from Allah you're gonna

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allow Sheree could Emma

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could know whom your innovation how they are me Allah reality the bustle or the middle.

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He said Al Hawa and enamel and amines, blindness and Howard just following the desires. He said if you just

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following the desires and blindness is the same. This one will not will enable you to see with your eyes and the other one will not allowed you to see with your heart and with your soul.

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Well God in my heart for it come within a team and here are the Allahu and

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The cousin of the process on said what I fear the most for you is two things. Born ml with Tibetan Hauer, for in Nepal, ml Yun Scylla era. We're in nativa al Hawa Yun said hello.

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He said, I worry the most from two things. Portal ml where you think that you will live so long, you still have so much time in your life.

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And for anyone here who think himself will live long, you're wrong. death does not differentiate between healthy and sick, young and old. And if you want to figure that out yourself, go visit the cemetery. See how many young people there? Go visit the hospitals, ask doctors are plenty of them here.

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When death comes, it comes.

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He said, The Long Life the low hope and life that will basically let you forget about the other because you think this is the main thing is this dunya to fulfill your desire in this dunya this life and you forget about the next and Ill how following the desires. It will block you from seeing the truth or want to follow what is correct.

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What is it then he kept going for a living in many, many Tebah ista whether he had 10, kata and humare to tofield. When you follow your desires, you're away from the guidance and the help of ALLAH SubhanA wa Dawn and hustle bustle is somebody told him what's the best form of jihad karma avamar Jihad kala integer hit the HELOC the best time of fighting is to fight your own desires is to struggle against it when he that he gets a Hema hula I heard once you're on this now my teacher have been Tamia. He was told by a man either Hannah Rajan Athena Dada him Yeah, and if he any rush Fedora him the hub will fill Dhaka Carla Salah hula hula anti Fattah knocked out NESEA political Islam what

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can Alikum and Han Allah Hillel

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a man told the Jamia, he's a businessman. So he told him to me you know what I noticed anyone cheat in trade, the trade of silver and gold cheat any he will bring copper and he make it mix it as if it is gold. You know he cheated in the weight of the gold so they cheat in their business. He said that person, Allah Subhana Allah will made him end up losing the ability to differentiate between real gold and failing gold, fake gold, real silver, he will lose the ability to do that, because he cheated a lot. Even Timmy Rahim Allah said the same thing when a scholar do the same. When a scholar cheat when a scholar knows the truth, and he will tell you what's against the truth, for whatever

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desire for whatever reason, Allah will make those scholars lose their elements. Well, number two, react when a person constantly showing off. When you don't do things for Allah. When you do things for your parents, when you do things for your friends, when you do things for society, when you do things for your spouse, when you do things to impress people around you. When the heart is watching people that more than watching Allah that's the heart where Allah Subhana Allah will leave it

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unto its own

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that's dangerous that's scary. And unfortunately we living in a society today where people's judgement is more important that what Allah says

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what people think of you is more important than what Allah think of you.

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That's the heart which filled with React filled with with free from effortlessness of Allah Avia of sincerity.

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The third one

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the curveball hurrah, jab enough's. The third reason where Allah subhanaw taala leave the person to his own. When the person is arrogant, when the person is arrogant and think of himself that he's perfect. I don't need anyone I don't need any help. either. I'm just correct.

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You know, when I looked down upon others, you're pulling them out. That didn't me SallAllahu sallam said that Ethel Monica with an earthen wound yet, with an earthen Kufa wrought with an earthen Rajat. Three things will destroy you. Three things will save you. Three things will erase your sins and three things will elevate your status and gender. And the point from the Hadith the three things that will destroy you should MOBA when you sue stingy, you love the wealth more than money more than anything than the and you will follow that desire, the love for money. Well, how am metabo and you follow your desire whatever your desire takes you you go well and job will Maldivian FC I

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And the third one when you see yourself perfect

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you know

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it when you think that you Mr. or Mrs perfect nothing wrong with you

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and that leads you to when you think you're perfect anything you do you try to justify it anything you do you try to convince yourself that it's correct and it is absolutely nothing wrong with it and that's why you never change that's why you never grow that's why you never able to be a better person.

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And you know the Allahu and also said, at tofi Europa it was Snell Hornak, Cairo, Corinne will call you to saw him, Well, Adam, how you run your life, one hour shatter I should do my job. And you know the Allah and set the guidance of Allah is the best

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guide that you can ever have good manners is the best thing to have it in your company, you need to be always basically seen with good manners and lot intellect. Common sense, is the best thing to have in your life and manners is the best things to inherit and to leave behind any your children will always talk about how you know well mannered you are and you will take from your parents and from your people, your good manners and he said that nothing can be more worrying will lead for the person to be

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abandoned and hated

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and unsuccessful like an urge being arrogant

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as parent like any one of the things that I love what lasagna Rahim Allah said he's it can mean Suraj and Ray many candles all the the light will go away because of the wind. But also so many knowledge and so many active warships and so many righteous will be a why because of that arrogance because you think yourself I'm better than other just because I pray just because I did this this because I did that. And that's why I've been headed hate me said sometimes arrogance, a slot in a dilemma men whom in Olam, sometimes even scholars, people of knowledge Yanni and that applied to scholars of Shetty and scholars and other area sometimes because you have a very high degree, very

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successful a specialized an area and you think yourself you know it all. If you it's great thing to be great knowledge in certain area. You are the greatest physician I've ever you're the greatest businessman ever. You're the best one in trade, whatever it is your area. But if you think that by doing that, you just nothing better than me. That's where you start declining.

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That's where you start getting to the bottom. Because that anyone who knows what's knowledge is he knows that the more you learn, the more you'll realize that you have so much to learn. There is so much more to get and to gain.

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Then he said fell general and me is that one of our Delahaye better law how for men for her will applaud him in an early millimeter camber. Well, Abby didn't want to jump. If you have a scholar or a person of knowledge and righteous act or an actor like an ascetic and person who worship Allah semana, Donna, but the arrogance. And while you have an average Muslim, who doesn't have knowledge that doesn't do much with active worship, but they are humble, but they all will see that they need the aid and the help from Allah those people more better much better than the person with the knowledge and the person with a bad if they are filled with arrogance

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was one or they end with

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constantly making sins.

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Sins take you away from Allah subhanaw taala that's why we call it repentance which will reduce it to repent you need to come back because sin drift you away. Don't just underestimate the power of sin don't drift very very far.

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So it became hard for you to go like I don't know if you guys like swimming or not. But if you go swim, and mashallah you excited? You know?

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You know I love for example, I'm a divers I love diving, when there is a current because it's a lazy dive. They just drop you and the current will drift you take you you just do like this, you just stand up and the water will take you all the way or the boats pick you up from the other side. That's it, you do nothing but you draft but imagine if you have to do a death draft but you have to go back to the shore

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or you swim there.

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then you have to go against the current. Are you boating you kayaking or you know are you canoeing and you have to go against now the dread to go back that's hard that's a sin when the drift with the sin far away because the desire to make things easy and the lazy swim leave a draft but when you come back the farther you are the harder to go back

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don't let them since take you and drift you away.

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Why not take who can let in an Ursula

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fossa whom hola como first goon Don't be like those whom forgot Allah. So he made them forget themselves.

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It is they who are truly rebellious for sound. Now Allah subhanho data and Yasumoto Jacobina Zilla will huddle. Hola Massimo Mostafa Hola Hola. Hola, como esto

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hamdu Lillahi wa Salatu was Salam Ala Moana Nebia

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Mohammed lasagna Rahim Allah who died in 505 Hindery said, the curse, the curse of Allah Samantha Allah

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by the way is not just your face will turn to be dark or change or, or your wealth will go less at the land at least so Adam Phil went to an axon filmed

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in Atlanta, the true meaning of curse a lot the whole gem in them in La carta, fatally OSHA, Ramona,

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the true meaning of curse that you do a sin. Then next you do another one similar to it or worse. You just go from one one problem to another from one center to another, from one center to another from one center to another. Allah saved you so many times, but you go to another kind of sin. That's the true curse.

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Because sin and keep Lana curse it means

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big put your Atlanta here thought about the bad is you're away from something. So the more you do these things, the more you're away from ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada

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Yeah, my brother and sisters, this concept is is a big concept to talk about. It has so many manifestations. Sometimes 100 comes in way less than that. could run can sometimes comes when Allah subhanaw taala let you focus on less important things and miss the most important things. The nine can be when Allah subhanaw taala you know, make you always hang out with the bronc crowd.

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We're uncropped the just wrong crowd that keep you you know, doing more and more of the wrong things.

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You know, we know that on that Allah Subhana Allah make you around people who will not remind you who will not push you to do it. It is a good thing when people push you towards goodness.

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Is it your parents, it's your spouse, it is your community to your Imam it is your friends, that's a blessing.

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Don't abandon that. Take advantage of that. It's among the holy land that you've abandoned and lifted by Allah subhanaw taala. When you find yourself that you know what you don't care for that Dean Allah's Python That's terrifying. And the key to turn things around, is to start taking actions towards Allah. Try and do more and beg ALLAH ask Allah make dua on your blood to kill Neil NFC taffeta in in Colombian Derek

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in Ibiza, salaam Tatas this beautiful da Jana don't let me rely on myself even if it is you know, like a split second. Or like for you like a blink of an eye for the shortlist. And don't ever let me rely on myself be always there for me aid me and guide me make sure when you pray so that in fact you have a dinner set up and Mr. King it comes really from your heart you are a guide me yeah Rob give me that guidance and open my heart to accept the deen of Allah subhanaw taala

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and that's the way to inshallah is done to give you the view and I choose this topic today because Ramadan is coming and I want every one of us when this Ramadan comes to be one of the it is the best moment ever in my life. May Allah subhanahu wa tofield we have the shadow of Karim Ophelia him in a shoot a yam had done a move to Hong Kong and under subpoena without alarm off and then I would add in an alarm off and then I went to dinner and I was watching the reaction I'm equally shocked. I've been featured in the Qantas immune Allahumma familia that you know Mahatma Allah homophobia about you know my heart you know Allahu Akbar Allah you know,

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