LifeStyle #26 – Gentleness

Wael Ibrahim


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The importance of gentleness in Islam is highlighted, as it is crucial for everyone to have a strong opinion and handle situations with others. The use of Subhan Garden's ridden pathosans and waif in speech are also discussed, and the importance of honoring the Prophet Muhammad sall capable of causing harm is emphasized. The importance of gentleness is emphasized, and people should be kind to their people. The upcoming book on the story of the Prophet Muhammad sallim is also mentioned, with potential for people to live a better lifestyle.

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Salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu is bIllahi min Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam probably surely somebody or silly me often a lot but that Emily Sani of all colonies of Hanukkah la Mulana Ilana lantana. In NACA Antara Lima Hakeem IV respected Brothers and Sisters in Islam everywhere. May Allah Subhana Allah bless you accept your fasting your Pm you will see them you your your your night prayers your citation of the Quran your DUA immunoblot Amin and may Allah subhanaw taala grant is the blessings and the reward of fasting during the month of Ramadan. Amenia Leblond Amin and may Allah subhanaw taala by the time we

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finished Ramadan this year, may he write our names among those people who are completely saved from the punishment of hellfire. I mean, I mean, I mean, there's that law final for being consistent to visit these pages connect Institute Karachi connect Institute global wide Dean and wider Brahim Facebook pages as well as subscribing to the awareness Academy YouTube channel. May Allah subhanaw taala make this humble effort in the scale of everyone's good deed. I mean our Blarney just a few minutes ago, myself and my team have launched the pre order of the book lifestyle which is based on these 30 episodes or 30 days of discussion discussing the importance of living the lifestyle of our

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beloved Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam and the early generation your contribution for purchasing this book inshallah Allah will add to more programs and more books to be published in the future. May Allah subhanaw taala grant, all of us goodness me Dr. blonding.

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Today in sha Allah Allah, we will talk about gentleness or risk gentleness as our way of life or as part of our lifestyle. The prophets Allah Allah Salam once mentioned, Men ought to have a home in

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order to have the Amina hire, whoever is being granted his share of gentleness or if, indeed he has been granted goodness, and who's whoever was prevented from giving being, you know, a gentle person, woman. Woman Halima have a whole mineral, whosoever is not being granted, or was denied his share of gentleness. Indeed, He is being denied all goodness Subhan Allah so gentleness, being kind, being compassionate, being patient is one of the aspects of this beautiful religion of ours. It's a trademark, another lifestyle, another trademark of our faith, to be gentle. The Prophet in fact, made it very very clear that whosoever is being granted gentleness in his heart, in his attitude has

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been actually prohibited from touching the hellfire, the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salah mentioned Allah Eurocom women Yahama Allah nor will be men to haram or women to whom Allah He know Allah who actually call even hanging in Sal the Prophet SAW Selim said, shall inform you for whom the fire has become unlawful haram. So Hellfire becomes haram for you or unlawful for the fire so he is not we will not be ever touch the Hellfire or Hezbollah upon every person who is gentle, kind and easy to deal with. Allahu Akbar. Easy to deal with how many times we have come across people that will say you know what, it's better I never even deal with him. Even if whatever you know, that I need from

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him is so important. I'd rather just by my freedom by my peace of mind than dealing with such person because he's difficulty is complicated, right? So Allah so the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is telling us that when we become easygoing, when we become gentle and merciful to others, Hellfire becomes haram for us. Look at this. Look at such a quality, that Subhanallah RZ s Pahlavi.

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Sometimes we neglect or overlook, or our ego sometimes overtake or take over our attitude and as a result, we are denied such a blessing, such a reward. That's why the prophets Allah, Allah subhanaw taala in the Quran mentioned about the gentleness of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam and the mercy and he's lenient towards dealing with people he said, Allah subhanaw taala Furby Morocco Matin min Allah He limped along, while canta for one Ali they'll call Milan sub dome and Holly faff on Western for level by Sharonville am Allah Subhana Allah said that it is because of the Mercy of Allah subhanaw taala you became a Muhammad you became so lenient to them to do the companions to the

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best of all generations. And as you been so harsh and rude, in your speech, in your action towards them, we would have fled from around you do that left you we will have not listened to you or follow your commands. He's talking about the companions that had the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam had he displayed any rudeness or any harsh treatment towards them build up, never follow them.

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Then Allah subhanaw taala continues by saying so pardon them forgiveness, the episode that we mentioned, I think yesterday give back to the episodes, the previous ones if you have missed any of the sessions, so So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them. Ask Allah to forgive them and shower is mercy upon them and consult them in all affairs in any matter, that perhaps there is a dispute about look at how important gentleness is in Islam. Subhanallah Omar Suleiman it was narrated that almost line was with the wives of the Prophet of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, and E camel driver.

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and the Jash are under Joshua was driving the camels on which they were writing and the Messenger of Allah See, he talked to the driver of the camera serial riff on Bill courier or on the dash riff comm Bill courier meaning you be gentle that you because you are carrying a glass vessels, he referred to his wives as glass vessels, so be gentle while riding. Don't try to go so fast. Be gentle even in riding your animal or driving your car. So those people are driving. Hey, be careful don't cut off people and scare them to death. Sometimes people fear those those sudden movements Subhanallah those of you who doesn't like flying sometimes when we experience turbulence what

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happened in our hearts physically, we feel like our heart sank into our feet into our toes into our ankles and we feel our heart start racing physically, we start feeling that fear. So sometimes when we are driving and people cut us off and become all of a sudden in front of us sometimes these you know physical feelings overtake us and sometimes make us feel anxious and worried and scared. Pamela even in our speech, Allah's pathosans operand Walco Loli nurse he was persona and when you speak to people speak gently and nicely with goodness, while Tucson, Declan Ness, the prophets, Allah Subhana Allah says in surah Look man, don't ever turn your cheek away from people when you when you speak to

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them. Or when perhaps sometimes we have disagreement, and all of a sudden you say and don't talk to me right we turn our cheek away. We turn our face or body entirely away from the people that we talk to arrogance well as a biller. Well, Adam Schiff will are the moron and don't walk through the earth. You know,

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exultantly, meaning, hopefully you feel like you are better than everyone else. Indeed this Allah does not love those who are deluded or self deluded and boastful. Those who are arrogant or Lyudmila. Yeah. And Allah subhanaw taala said, and be moderate in your pace when you walk and lower your voice when you speak. Don't scream Don't shout at people don't scare them. Don't arrogantly scream at people feed. You know. They said in Egypt, your lagoon was sawed, which means like, you want to win a debate raise up your voice, you know, it's not like this. So be moderate in your speech. Talk to people softly and nicely.

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Indeed, the most disagreeable of all sounds the most hateful all sounds are the voice of the donkey Allah subhanaw taala gave an example of those who shout and scream unnecessarily. Their voices are like what I had to be let anyone's May Allah Subhana Allah Allah protect us all. Not only that when you become gentle towards others, Allah loves you and if Allah loves you, we already made it me

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Yanni said it many many times. Congratulations, Millbrook. If Allah loves you That's it. You are guaranteed Jana insha Allah the Prophet SAW Selim once was talking to his beloved wife, Aisha or the Allah Allah and he told the Isha in Allah of Yukon your headboard of Allah subhanaw taala is gentle, and he loves gentleness, loyalty Allah Maratea lawns and he reward for gentleness. What he does not give or does not grant for harshness

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and he does not reward anything else like this so he does not reward anything else. In the same way how you reward people for their gentleness. Look how now, we can understand the importance and the essential aspect of gentleness in our lives when it is of course applied. When it is applied. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam mentioned I keep talking to our HR the Alana law they keep your finger if Kalia Kuru fishy lezana What are you in Xiamen, China in English Anna? B. You must be gentle and this this is a general advice not just for our issue of the law or law, but rather for all the Muslims you must be gentle very gentleness is not added into anything except that it beautifies it

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and it is not removed from anything except that it is a disgrace is it? Yeah, it makes it ugly.

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Yeah, so when when you add gentleness in your speech, your speech becomes beautiful. When you take that gentleness element from your speech, your speech becomes ugly people start hating you. May Allah protect us all. Blarney. We spoke yesterday, if you remember, or the day before I don't remember when about Musa and when when Allah commanded them to go and speak to frown, and how for Musa and Harun were told by Allah subhanaw taala, to speak to frown for all allow colon lay Yinon and speak to him my words level whether that kind of reaction, so we said even you are not better than Musa as a prophet. Of course you're not better and you're not worse than frown. So if you are

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even in the wrong side, you don't deserve to be treated harshly like for our either biller who Allah subhanaw taala himself commanded these prophets to speak to him mildly. So how about us dealing amongst each other? May Allah subhanho wa Taala

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protect us all and grant us the right understanding. Allah subhanho wa Taala commended us as believers that when we invite people to Islam, to speak to them with gentleness to speak with them with wisdom and beautiful preaching Allah subhanaw taala says in the Quran, although Elissa de la obika Bill Hekmati while more I thought it has an invite people to the way your LORD with Wisdom and with beautiful preaching and we're just Illuminati acid and if you happen to argue with them argue with them in ways that are most beautiful most gracious in not have Baca Hua island will be one * I mean it is only Allah Who knows who is misguided. So there is no point for you to act as

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if you are the righteous because Allah is the One who know who is misguided and who is well well Allah will be looked at him and he's aware most aware of those who are rightly guided So may Allah grant us humbleness me now.

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When you become gentle my brothers and sisters in STEM, you will be among the categories of people who inshallah Allah will be granted the DA of the prophets are seldom will be granted the acceptance of the dua of the prophets Allah Allah Salam what was this god Allahumma Rafa aka Bill Mati forfeit, forfeit, be on and shut Carla Mati for showcar like all Allah, whosoever is kind to my own man, is kind to my people come to the Muslims be kind to them. And the word here mentioned is roof Karaca roof gentleness and whoever makes things difficult or whoever is harsh upon my OMA make things difficult for him. So it's up to you now you want to you want to receive kindness and compassion and

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mercy and forgiveness from Allah subhanaw taala be kind and be gentle to the people today. The Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned that either or Allah will become an Hi urine color Allah human, whosoever if Allah subhanaw taala wants goodness for people, he puts gentleness in them. Goodness higher here my brothers and sisters in Siam is a very comprehensive word, if goodness

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in this dunya and in the next name it what what what good thing do you want to achieve in this dunya and what goodness do you want to have in this in the hereafter? So goodness is a very general term that encompasses everything beautiful that you could even that you can even

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Imagine orfan May Allah Subhana Allah grant us all goodness, through gentleness and

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gentleness also was the advice given to all people who are

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in on the path of their own. And this is something very important now anyone who's doing the hour out there who's listening to me, listen to what the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam mentioned when he said

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when he said why in the jungle, why the Allah Allah to Yemen to invite the people of the book the Christians and the Jews of Yemen at that time to invite them to Islam. So he said what he said why and another companion and he said to them, yes Cyril well that was said Don't make things easy on the people and do not make things difficult for them while the Shira wallet on a federal and give the people good news before telling them about the terrible news. Yeah, talk to them. First of all, Janna that award and the beauty of Jana instead of talking to them first about hellfire and the punishment is so make things easy and make them you know,

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make them happy listening to your speech before you give them those scary moments of hellfire or Albula otter Tala, well, what are totally fine, and always cooperate and collaborate with one another and don't ever conflict. Don't ever fight one another. don't disagree among yourselves. Why you are going for down Allahu Akbar. And look at the first the first two words the Prophet SAW Selim mentioned Yes, Sarah, one or two essential, make things easy and do not make things difficult. My Brothers and Sisters in Islam, if I asked you to make things easy by natural it means don't make it difficult. Why would the Prophet SAW Selim mentioned both in the same sentence? Yes, Sarah wallet

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also make things easy for people and do not make things difficult for them. Why is he doing that? To leave no room for confusion, to leave no room for excuse that you should become on gentle or harsh.

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So he wanted to make it very, very clear. I told you the word and its opposite so that you can do what you've been told to do and avoid its opposite. You must be gentle and avoid harshness. May Allah Subhana Allah Allah grant us a gentle heart, I mean, our planning and may Allah subhanaw taala make us you know among those people who hear the words of the of Allah subhanaw taala and look into the life of the prophet Sallallahu Sallam and follow these two, you know paths that would lead us nowhere other than Jana in sha Allah to Allah to the best of our ability may Allah grant us the ability to follow the lifestyle brought by the prophets, Allah salam from his Lord, Allah subhanaw

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taala Amin Albula Amin does that unlock it and once again my brothers and sisters are watching we have launched the pre order of the book lifestyle, the very program that we have been discussing since day one in Ramadan until in sha Allah Tala this coming Friday will be the last episode in the law. And then the book will be being the law made available. The pre launch is already promoted Alhamdulillah on on the comments in the previous post of all these pages, so may Allah Subhana Allah grant you goodness, we'll see you in sha Allah tomorrow with another lifestyle as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi overcast