Wael Ibrahim – Dont obey your parents, IF.

Wael Ibrahim
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The speaker discusses the common practice in Islam where parents try to blackmail children and use their status to blackmail their children. They also mention that parents try to use their status to blackmail their children and use it to blackmail their parents. The speaker advises parents to be careful and follow the rules of Islam to protect their children and family members.

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			My Brothers and Sisters in Islam, a brother just contacted me a while ago saying that his mom and
his dad are doing all they can, trying their very best to convince him to divorce his wife. Now he's
saying that they started threatening him saying that if you don't obey us, we will make a dua
against you. And we ask Allah to curse you, and so on and so forth. And if you don't, this, what's
going to happen to you? And then the brother is a bit worried. He's saying, like, will I be sinful
if I disobey them because I don't see any logical explanation to what they're asking me to do to
divorce my wife, I don't see any reason for that. Other than that, maybe my wife does not fit their
		
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			standards their way of life and style. My brothers and sisters Islam, believe it or not, this is
something very common sometimes in various cultures, where Muslim parents sometimes will use their
status in the Quran, or through the teaching of the process of them because their status is very,
very high. Allah Subhana Allah says in the Quran are called Aura Buka Allah taboo, Illa Yahuwah will
validate any exam after the command of worshipping none but Allah subhanaw taala Allah says Allah
and you have to be dutiful, in kind and deal and treat your parents with old goodness and so on. So
after worshipping Allah, the commands of treating parents with goodness is mentioned. So some
		
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			parents they are using that to threaten and blackmail the children that if the if you don't obey me,
I will actually sue you with Allah subhanaw taala. Now, look,
		
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			my brothers and sisters in Islam, you you are not actually allowed to obey anyone. If they're asking
you to do something against what Allah subhanaw taala commanded us to do. The Prophet sallallahu
sallam said, Loretta atta, Lima, Lupin, female Seattle Hello, there is no obedience to any creative
being on the face of planet Earth. Even if these people are your parents, there is no obedience
		
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			on the account of this obeying Allah subhanaw taala so no, don't listen to them. Now, you know, the
concept of variable velodyne or obeying parents in Islam, serving them and so on, is in matters
related to their lives in matters related to them. So if they need you to take them somewhere and
you have the means Yeah, go and serve them you are obliged to do that you have the means you have
money and they need money in Yes, go and obey them and serve them in that regards anything related
to what they want. But they have nothing to do. They have no business to do in matters related to
your life to your wife to your family members. So be careful. My brothers and sisters Islam, you are
		
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			not allowed to obey your parents if they are asking you to do something against the law and the
Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala May Allah protect us all it may Allah grant us the right
understanding, said I want to live it again.