Better Me Ramadan 2019 #26 – Family

Salam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah he salatu salam today is all about family. The code is very personal like you know it, I was inspired to write this as a result of what I used to do. And so I wanted to share that with you in Charlotte Island treasure family members before it is too late. Don't spend all your time on internet devices in the presence of your loved ones. One day, you'd wish to turn back the time to spend a minute with them. Believe me, it is so true that one day, we will all depart and spamela The sad thing is that you would wish to go back to do certain things that you have missed out. Because

you spend most of your time on your internet devices or outside the houses away from your parents or your wife, or your husband and so on. I remember that I had to go through a surgery to lose weight because I could not play with my son. And I refused the fact that I would just spend the entire light my entire life just sitting because I'm in severe pain as a result of my weight. And I decided to go to that surgery so that I could lose weight. So that I could be able to play with my children to go outside with my family to spend more time with them. Other than just sitting doing nothing. I asked myself like what memory? What legacy Am I going to leave behind? You know, my children would

just look at that chair and say, Oh, my father used to sit there. I refuse that upon a lot of him. Other than that, those who passed away remember them in your prayers. Tell your children what you're you know their grandfathers and grandmothers tell them stories don't ever look at your or maybe your wife passed away your husband passed away and you have your children around. Don't ever if we if they make a mistake Don't ever say all your father was like that your mother like was like that, indicating that your life was miserable you were living together in hell will either be lying. So always have have good things to say about those who passed away from your family members. Remember,

the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when I shall have the Allah Allah became jealous, as a result of him remembering hadiza May Allah subhanaw taala be be pleased with her years after her demise. years after he had married many other wives Paula, he said, You know Lao Allahu Allah did not replace her with someone better. You see, he he indicated that she was the best. Even after her demise. He was so loyal and spoke very well of her years after she passed away. So learn to speak well, of your family members who passed away and learn to also live well so that you can spend proper time quality time required quantity time with your families. May Allah Subhana Allah grant us the right

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