Rulings On Fasting For Women

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So inshallah, as I promised you last week, we dedicate this lesson to speaking about the silk of Ramadan, and the future of fasting. So I'm going to go through some points. And then if you've got any other questions you want to ask, I'm gonna leave that for you to ask whatever questions you want. Okay, a lot of people have questions regarding menstruation and stuff like that relating to hold on. So if you want to ask any of those kind of questions as well, we can talk about that too.

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But what I'm gonna do, because, you know, it's good to remind ourselves of the rulings on fasting because the fact is, you know,

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for any act of worship, every act of worship is built on two pillars

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you work for it to be accepted. The first one is to have a philosophy of law to be sincere and do that purely for the sake of a loss of hands Allah and the second one is to do it in accordance with the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so if we want to perfect our fasting for Ramadan, you know, for loss of pantai in his manga and Milan, then it's not enough just to be really enthusiastic to want to fast if we also need to know what are the rulings on fasting? And what are the you know, what are the things you know, that we've been commanded to do regarding fasting so that we can protect our fasting for loss of control and shoulder so that's why it's important for us

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to go through the rulings. I'm going to go through the most important rulings inshallah today and with anything else, you want to talk about, you know, relating to fasting we can talk about that as well and Sharla Benin

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Okay, so,

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basically, you know, if we talk about what is the meaning of FCM just to understand what is the meaning of a cm, it means insec in Arabic, which means, like withholding So, that's where it you know, it gets the name like for example, when we talk about a song, a song means to, you know, in industry, our

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industry, our veloce pantalla, in the in the religion of Allah subhanaw taala it means to, we refrain from doing anything that breaks the fast Okay, refrain from anything that breaks the fast from dawn until until dusk and to what until sorry to mark replace it like that because it doesn't sound very clean. Okay, so from the you know, from the, the time of fudge until the sun goes down, we have to refrain from doing anything that breaks too fast. But before saying that, we need to firstly talk about the intention. Because in order for our fast to be accepted, okay, in order for us to be accepted in Ramadan,

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we have to first of all have an intention in our heart for Fahd fasting the intention has to be done before the event

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or the night before so if you you know, in the night before you know it's gonna be Ramadan, the next day is not for you just having your your heart that tomorrow. It's gonna be Ramadan, I'm gonna be fasting. You know, if you're in you know, inshallah, we should all try to wake up for some horror, it's not magic, but it's definitely a risk. You know, someone wants to have that, like, it's a recommended walk it out, like, you know, confirmed or not.

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So if you're waking up, supposed to hoard that, that's that's the intention not to say orally, because there's no authentic report that the prophets that a loved one in Santa Ana said the intention early, okay, so the intention is in the heart, that's the place and all the intention means is just to have, you know,

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the goal like you put in your your heart, and you've got that goal that you're going to

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foster the next day. That's your intention. So you have to have the intention. And then like I said, you have to refrain from doing anything that breaks the fast throughout the day from the time of before, like before, for the term of the data fetch like the code to pay for lunch, all the way up until the sunset when the disk of the Sun is described, what is the sunset, it's when the disk of the Sun Goes Down.

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below the horizon. So once the, the actual disk of the Sun has gone below the horizon, that's the time to break the fast. So it's not the redness in the sky, that's not what we're talking about, you don't have to wait the resonances in the sky to disappear. It's just the actual disk of the Sun.

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Okay, so that's what that's basically the conditions of fasting. So when someone is fasting, they're not allowed to do certain things, which we're going to come to.

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And no one should break the fast, you know, gone, except that person has an excuse. Okay, so we'll talk about that too, who are the people who have excuses, but it's not allowed to break the fast without an excuse, such as, like menstruation, or postnatal bleeding. But it's not just an excuse, like, You're not even allowed to fast if you've got menstruation or postnatal bleeding. But, you know, like, if someone's a traveler, or someone's sick, those are excuses for not fasting, but then they make up for the days later to come to inshallah. So, I mean, there is a

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Asahi Hadees. That mentioned the warning on the person who does not fast without an excuse, this is for the Muslim who has reached the age of puberty. Once the child has reached the age of puberty, fasting becomes obligatory of condoms. And this is an excuse. So if somebody did not pass Ramadan, without an excuse, then I will say this is authentic aeration, which is really, actually a very disturbing picture, that the prophets that a lot of them, you know, he has seen that he was shown,

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while in fact, he was sleeping, but we know that, you know, whatever the messenger lost soul, while sleeping is part one, he is part of Revelation. And so in his stream, he says, how, you know, while he was sleeping, two men came and took him by the arm and brought him to like a crowded mountain. And they told him to climb up. And they did, I can't, because it's very, it's very, you know, Rocky, and very steep and very, very difficult and buggy, but they said, We will make it easy for you. And so they helped him to climb up to the top of the mountain. And then he heard loud voices when he was up there. And so he said, What are those voices? What is that mouth sounds like can hear disturbing

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sounds. And so he says, This is the howling of the people of Japan. And while the beloved is what he was told, this is the this is the healing of the people of Johanna. And then he saw a site which was very disturbing. He said, he saw people hanging by their hamstrings, which is like the top of the legs, and we decide that they're now torn and blood, you know, montages pouring out of their mouth. And then he was told that these are the people who used to break their fast before it was time today, the people who used to break their fast like they didn't care about fasting Ramadan, they Muslims didn't care about fasting Ramadan, they took it easy, they realize it's a major sin, not too

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fast or gone without an excuse. So if that's a person, and you know, some of the comments, and they said, if this is a punishment for the person who you know, missed a day or sober or gone carelessly and negligent, negligent Lee without any excuse, then what about that person who doesn't bust at all? Might not protect us? What about the person who doesn't pass it all? So that's, you know, a really scary Howdy, subpoena law, we have to realize that, you know, not fasting is, you know, for the major sins, someone did it intentionally, and without an excuse, but we should also adhere to, but don't forget that if someone did that in their past, that doesn't mean to say that now they're

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definitely going to have that punishment. Because we know a lot of things in the Koran, polio arriba de La Nina Astro koala, and to see him, let me watch Mattila. Allah says, say to my ibird, my servants, who has oppressed themselves enrolled themselves by disobeying a law in the past.

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Let's look at that do not despair of the robber lock in no law hi yo pero De Luca Jamia in number one, Baku Rahim Allah because Allah forgives all sins, He forgives all sins, and that He is the Most Merciful and the most forgiving. So even if someone in their past used to miss out on days of Ramadan without an excuse. Of course, if they were praying they should make up for those days. But the point is, if you did those kind of things in the past that you made Toba to Allah, that inshallah we know that if you are sincere in your Toba, Allah will accept it from you and he won't you won't be punished in the next life as long as you made that since he Toba that's the important

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point to make he inshallah Okay, so let's go let's move on.

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And we'll start talking about

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First of all talk about the things that write too fast and and then enjoy it with any questions. We'll cover anything else. So basically

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as for those things that writes too fast, there are three things that breaks the fast which are the original things that break the fast and these original things. I would make a mention in the Quran in iron Baccarat is number 187. Well lokala says Val Annabel she will never tell who marketable lapu lapu lapu was Rabu had the baby and Annette who will fight you a yoga minute Are you feeling a sweaty man?

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So in this ayah, Allah tala, he mentions the three things that originally break the fast and they are eating, drinking, and, and sexual intercourse, like the marriage and relationship. Sexual intercourse. So these are the three things that originally break the fast. And then the other things that break the fast in general, a lot of them stem stem on from these things.

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So let's talk about them one by one. So first of all, eating and drinking. So what do we define by eating and drinking, just make it clear. So when we talk about

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eating, it doesn't just mean food that nourishes it means taking anything solids into the hollow part of the throat by the mouth. Okay, so eating includes taking anything into the mouth, that is, you know, that solid that into the into the throat. So if somebody, like let's just say for argument's sake, you somebody swallow a bead on purpose, while fasting Ramadan, or you know,

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what it was, like, I'm just trying to be real. So you could get stoned or something like that. Just say, for argument's sake, just so you understand it, clearly, this would break the fast if they did it intentionally, okay, you can't just say, oh, it wasn't food doesn't matter. No, it's, it's still something that is solid, that entered the mouth, into the throat. And then the other thing is drinking also. So any type of liquid that enters the

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hollow part of the throat into the butt via the mouth, this also breaks the fast.

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Okay, and it's agreed by consensus about that, that eating that the even eating that doesn't nourish the body, it still causes the fog to be broken. So that's by email, and that, like, it's not necessarily that it has to be something that nourishes the body, but if it enters the mouth, and enters into the throat, then it's too easy to break the fast. That's the first thing. Now, the other thing that's added here, is that something that enters into the stomach through the nostrils, something that enters into the stomach through the nostrils.

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Meaning that, you know, if it's if someone wants to place like medicine into your nostrils, and that eat right into the throat, then this is also like considered to be something that breaks the fast. Why because the nostrils are one of the openings that leads to the stomach. They want to be they want to be openings that leads directly to the stomach.

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And the proof for this is in a hadith narrated by Luffy even soboroff. And the heavy is in interrupt Tony and Asahi Haji the messenger of a loss of a loved one a he was silent. He said what that is insha Allah and takuna saw a man like when you when you do it in shock, which is when you take the note when you do

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and you take the water up into your nose, you're supposed to

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shuffle it up into your nasal passage, right. But when he says that, you should normally you should do this, you know, like when you normally take we'll go this is something you should concentrate on, you're taking the water up into the nasal passage like nostrils, but when he's fasting when you're fasting is that he lands the corner store. Unless you're fasting, then we should avoid taking the water up, like right up into two of our noses in case the water goes up through the nasal passage down into the throat. Okay, that's the one time we don't exaggerate in our door. So the noise is considered a passage to the stomach. And so that's why due to that, that which passes through the

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the nostrils into the into the throat is considered to break the fog and you can set for yourself. Ask yourself the question when someone isn't able to take solids by mouth. How do they How do they feed them they've been through chewed through the nose. Right? So that's why we have to direct the noses and direct route straight to the

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If a person needs nasal drops while they're fasting, like if they like, nasal drops could be okay, but it depends if you can taste it in your throat, then you have to avoid them. But it's like if you know that they definitely the nose drops over the nasal medicine you're taking is going to reach your throat, okay, you've got two options, like if you really really have to take this this medicine by nose, then you have to break your fast and not fast and you'll come under warning of a sick person. But as long as if you're fasting and you know that these you know that what you're taking by nose is going to enter into your throat and also obviously will enter the stomach then you have to

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avoid taking that during the day while fasting.

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so what I would like you to do while we're talking is if you have questions, just write them down and it will take all the questions at the end. So we kind of stopped the the train of thought, okay, so as we going got which is what I'm talking about, jot it down and then when we when we come to the end, we'll go through inshallah.

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Okay, so, um, so this is only this ruling is only relation to the, the mouth and nose. Okay, as for taking as for you know, entering through another passage other than the mouth and nose, this would not be considered to break the fast I'll just mention here and this is something nutritious, if it's something nutritious like I've heard of these suppositories that you can get that had nutrition in them. Some people were going to try and shake when they fasting. And I thought, well, people use these because you won't feel hungry. If you use these apparently, I've heard about it. I've got you hear about weird things to Christians. But anyway, apparently there are things suppositories that,

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you know, you use, and apparently they they actually feed you while you're fasting or something, something like that. It's not, even though it's not a normal passage to into the stomach. But because it's something that nourishes the body, it would break the fat. That's why like a drip would break the fast, even though it's not something that is entering by the mouth and nose, but it's something that directly nourishes the body. So that that leads to the next.

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That leads us to the next category. So eating and drinking is one category. And then the second category is everything that comes into the same ruling as eating and drinking. All right, everything that comes in the same morning as eating and drinking, and I've already given you some examples of that. But one of those examples is, you know, anything that nourishes the body in the same way that food and drink nourishes the body, then this is also considered to break the fast.

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Okay, we now come to the next category, which is intentionally vomiting. All right, intentionally vomiting. And we often get this question because some sisters, like you know, as you know, they get morning sickness, it's a very common thing. So notice, we said, intentionally vomiting. So if someone's fasting, and they got, you know, they felt nausea, and they start to vomit, that does not break their fast, okay, and this, and this, if it's difficult for them, they can always break this off, because if they're getting like dehydrated, then they come to a sick person, right? But the ruling here is that if they did woman, he doesn't break the bus. And this they made this a woman.

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Okay, because in general, I'll give you two guidelines to what breaks the fast, whatever adds to the body, in the same way as food and drink breaks the fact and whatever subtracts from the body or takes away from the body in the same way as you know sexual intercourse, which will come to weaken the body, then this is also something that's considered to break the fast and that's what I said intentional vomiting. And that's according to a hadith that the Prophet said a lot by the students in the Hadith Sahih. Whoever vomits intentionally has to make up the fast and whoever is overcome and vomits, doesn't have to do anything. So we know that there's a hadith from the prophets that a

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loved one and send them that the one who vomits intentionally is the one only who has to make up for the fast.

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Okay, so

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the other thing that obviously raises the bar, as we mentioned in the ayah is sexual intercourse to intentionally have marital relations during the day in Oregon. This is something that breaks the vast and this is a major thing. If someone does this in Ramadan. It's not like the other things like if you did something else in Ramadan, like eating or drinking intentionally while fasting, of course, it's they're all seeds. It's all like a major sin to purposely break the fast. But what would be upon you is to only make up for the day along with Toba for the other things, but in relation to sexual intercourse this official ruling on it, okay, and that is if someone did this in

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the day in Ramadan, intentionally

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And knowing the warning, then the warning on it is they have to first of all, not only they have to make Toba.

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And not only they have to make up the day, but they also have to, first of all the warning is what will was to free us late. And obviously that's not we're not able to do that. So then after that, the next thing is to have to fast 60 days consecutively. 60 days consecutively, okay. And like, what does that mean? If you're a woman and you have you, like compliance to that with your husband, you're complicit in that. Then what you have to do is obviously have menstruation you would fast when you have human situation, you have your menstruation. And as soon as you finish your menstruation, you have to keep on fasting. That's how we consecutive for you. So 60 days

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consecutively. If a person is not able to do that, due to a health reason or something like that, too difficult for them, then they have to feed 60 people for each day that they

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have to make up. It's a cathartic, like it's a expiation for that particular

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violation of Ramadan.

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Okay, so also based upon this as well, which comes under this, which is important to talk about, because a lot of people don't talk about this, because it's a sensitive issue is masturbation or foreplay, that causes females to be ejaculated. All right, if someone engaged in masturbation or foreplay in a bar, while fasting, and it causes the semen to come out, then it breaks too fast, and they have to make up for the day. And they should also make Toba as we say, but not they don't have to do

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60 day fasting the 60 day fasting is only for actual sex, sexual intercourse with a male.

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I'll be honest, I'll just say it like the male private part into the female private part. Even if I didn't ejaculation, alright, sexual intercourse in Islam is when the male private part into the female private part, even if they didn't exactly have to start it because some people think oh, that's okay. We've ejaculates so we didn't do sexual intercourse, you understand. But that doesn't mean you have to ejaculate. All right. And you consider wisdom of that, because, like

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masturbation or you're causing ejaculation to occur the way that men and women like a husband wife are having full play and then they you know, actual semen comes out due to that.

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What I'm talking about maybe don't get confused with maybe just a few things just to be not to make it I'm so sensitive but is very important to understand people if people understand properly though, they'll either overreact or under react. So for example, when you know, a man and woman maybe like caressing each other or something like that, it's normal to have some liquid come down. That's that's called Medi All right, that's like the What do you call it English? I forget what it's called. Maybe it's like, it's just like lubrication. Thank you. Yeah, like this. So that doesn't that doesn't break the fast according to Craig's opinion, okay. But what we're talking about is

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actual ejaculation, which is the same thing that happens when intercourse occurs.

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Then if they got that then this is what breaks apart now if it happened to the man not the woman, the man has to break the man would have to make up for the fact not the woman just to make that clear as well unless she also indicated in that case, she has to also make up the first two just to be very clear here so everyone understands everything.

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We can say this also from the Hadith of the prophets of Allah is cinnamon How do you think

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it's 100 could see a witch of the messenger of a law so the law on it's gonna be tells us that a lot of sex. Younger Obama who was shot was a woman

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that the Messenger of Allah told us that Allah has said that when a servant is fasting, he needs his food and his desire mean actually

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he needs his desire you know do to me like it is something you give up for a long while you're fasting

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Okay, so this is the ruling on that and also the other thing is to that you know, you can see that when ejaculation occurs, it's something that weakens the body so again, I did you there's two basic things to know when something breaks too fast. The first is when it adds to the body and nourishes it to like the food and drink the second is when it weakens the body in the same way sexual intercourse weakens. This also you can see breaks too fast. Alright.

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Okay, another thing that many scholars have a view that breaks too fast due to a Hadith of the prophets that a long line in the center is hegemon. Okay, hegemon, which is when now to explain the proper hijama which, you know, handle up people revived this sooner Now look, a lot more people are doing it now, which is that they they actually caught them making an incision into the skin and they go out blood. Okay, so it's not just you know, some some cultures

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Like some of the Indonesians, for example, they just put cups on the skin and no blood actually comes out that's not considered to be hijama we're talking about when, when certain cups are placed, presented on the back or certain places avoiding of the body and incision is made and actual blood is withdrawn out of the body. So as for this, the Messenger of Allah is enough, there's a hadith which the prophets that a lot of them said, after al Hajj Genie, while Mark Jones, that the the one who gets the hegemon done, he gets he has his faults broken, that he has his path broken, this hadith is considered to be so he had he, in other words,

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and again, if we see, we see that, you know, hegemony is something that weakens the body. All right, and

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this was the view of shock even 10 years shot even by him. And other than that, there will be a view that he Gemma breaks the FOSS because it's the words of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and the words of the prophets that allow us and take precedence over certain actions he may have done, because there might be reasons why he did those certain actions. Okay, so to be on the safe side, we will get the agenda done during are gone. And based upon this Huddy based upon the study that we're all in that have said that if someone was for example to donate blood, but it could also be considered to break the fat again you can see donating blood is something that weakens the body as

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for blood tests, blood tests if they're just smoke they don't they harmless ensure they don't break the vast but if it's a large blood test, then you should delay it to nighttime that it's a delight to my time or after the time of the fasting time so that you don't jeopardize your fast inshallah.

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Now if that's that's if you do it by choice that if you do it by choice is does that your make your cause in his blood to come out of you by choice, but if it's not by choice, like my name is start to bleed a lot, or I had an accident male protect us and a lot of blood came out of me. We went steady, this breaks too fast. There's no proof that bleeding causes the fast to be broken just to understand that so it's only your by choice, taking blood out of your body, and it's weakening in the same way that he janma weakens the body.

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Okay, it's similar to what we said about the vomiting that when you purposely make yourself vomit isn't the same ruling as the one who accidentally vomits Okay, and when I understand that so far Okay, so now I'm going to go through some other things

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we spoke already about injections also you know if you go to the dentist as well let no harm actually in going to the dentist but you have to be careful to swallow blood if you accidentally swallow swallow a bit of blood it's like something that like there's always something has to happen by accident and not on purpose is not considered to break the fast Alright, don't need to do it on purpose. But you should be careful not to break not not to swallow it Okay. And then the other I mean obviously you normally would delay into any dental appointments but you might need to go for a particular reason that you can't avoid so even to get through the extracted in the hold on he had to

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he doesn't break the fast all right

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another issue people get what's what's that about his saliva so that his colleagues are in agreement that saliva does not break the fast even if you bring saliva into your like mouth and swallow it that does not break the fox because it's not why because it's not food and drink and it's not entering the mouth like it's already in the mouth. Okay, another thing that people also worry about is you know, you might get a cold like we're coming into Ramadan in winter it's very highly likely we're going to most likely get a cold while we fasting. So if we do and you know you get sometimes mucus coming down the back of your running down the back of your nose, you don't have to keep

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worrying that you have to keep on trying to spit it out. It's very difficult for you. So the scholars said this comes under the same ruling as saliva okay, but one on one the automation here is that like don't purposely I mean, this is horrible to say that I'm gonna have to be like really I know it's horrible from the top subjects are really horrible, but we have to know the rulings okay. So, if someone was to say praying that knew that you know that

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into their mouth and then follower we should we should avoid that to be on the safe side okay. So we in that case, we dug into the mouth to spit it out to be on the safe side. Sorry, but like these are these are even human issues that happen and we need to discuss everything so we clear on that.

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All right, um, what else if you need to take the food and

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Doesn't need to do that. It's okay. But we shouldn't just do it for nothing like, he can't just go off whatever it takes.

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But when we say tasting food doesn't mean you can, you don't swallow it, it's just you putting on your tongue. Mainly the only thing you can take on your front of your tongue. So that's the only thing so will you be doing it to taste the salt because you know, when you're thirsty, it's hard to know how much so you know, that that's the only time Okay, so now let's, let's wrap up by saying that what breaks the vast only does so when you do is you do something on purpose. There's three things like basically on purpose, knowing it breaks too fast.

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Yeah. And also you did it by choice by choice as well. So if someone was forced, like just saying that to protect us all you have to go to prison may have been ticked off Oh, and they forced you to eat while fasting. That wouldn't break your fast because you were forced to eat. Okay, that's an example. Or if you knew, like, if you forgot what you were doing, like you just like, even if, I mean, it's amazing. But if you even sat down, ate a whole meal, and then remembered that, especially fasting, your body counts, believe it or not, and I always get this question every time like, I get this question. They think that that's that ruling is only for when you're fasting Ramadan, that

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ruling applies even when you're fasting voluntary dates. Okay, a lot of cities always asked me this question. They say, oh, but I accidentally ate something. Can I still follow? The same ruling applies even for Suna days, even for voluntary fasting? All right.

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So the prophets of Allah while he was there, and he taught us that whoever ate or drank, forget fully, then they should complete their bath because it means that Allah had nourished them, like Allah, and Allah had written that for you. But in saying that, as soon as you remember, you don't just like, you keep chewing and

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it's okay. No, like, of course, as you remember, you spit it out, rinse your mouth out straight away. If you see someone a munching away, and all gone, you tell them like

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you're fasting or perhaps a fasting voluntary diet. Same thing with the monkey way in? Are you telling me Oh, by the way, you're fasting. Like, you know, that's not what it means.

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Okay, so that's, that's basically, that's basically the main points I think I wanted to mention. We'll finish by saying that,

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you know, a lot of data he says in the round robin Allah to L hidden in Athena, Aparna, a lot, do not hold us to account for what we forget. And what we do by mistake. Do not call us to account for what we what we

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forget, we do forget Billy, and what we do by mistake, and the profits that a lot of it was sent him, he said that Allah will forgive my own mom, Allah will forgive my own mouth for what crosses their minds, as long as they don't act upon it, or speak of it.

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So there's just some, you know, something that causes the mind that this is from the mercy of Allah, that Allah doesn't call you to account for it. It's only what you act upon, and what you speak about. So this is from the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala. Okay, so as for those who can allow to break their fast, I'll just quickly mention that too. So someone's a traveler, and you know, and fasting really difficult, then it's recommended them for them to break the fast if someone's sick. Now, the level of sickness should be that it's difficult, more difficult than usual. If you're just going to have a cold, that's an excuse not to fast. But if it's something that's typical for you,

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like you're feeling really, you're hydrated, it's hard for you, then this is an excuse not to fast. Also the the breastfeeding woman or the pregnant woman, she's allowed to break her back, it was difficult for her or she feels for herself or her child. But a lot of people confuse this issue that I realized that there should be some difficulty not just like, like, you might be very strong, and you might find fasting, nothing for you. So what excuse Do you have not too fast, if there's no food for your child, you don't have any vitamin deficiencies. You know, you find fasting easy, you don't have an excuse not to fast. So it's only if you actually you know, have you know, you're feeling

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like you can't function, you can't function properly.

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Or you're worried about you know, your baby, by fasting, you are genuinely worried because, you know, if you got non Muslim doctors that will tell you old dirt fast, you know, I can tell you how to live but with all my children, you know, handling that like as long as you're a healthy woman, there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to fast. So don't go to normal, some doctor because they'll straightaway to your ear. Don't fast, don't fast, but go to a trustworthy Muslim doctor who feeds a lot to get a proper opinion about whether your case is one that you know you shouldn't follow or something like that. All right, but even if you're either the doctor tells you or yourself

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if you feel like it's very hard for you, if you're weak. You can't

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Everything you need to do then there's nothing wrong with you fasting because sorry breaking your fast because you know you're pregnant or you're you're breastfeeding you know you're feeling like your milk is just not coming at all because of your fasting. It's allowed for you to not fast you don't make it you know, a lot says may you read a lobby call us drop

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us read a lot we'll be calling you withdraw whenever you need to be Coronavirus. Like Allah wants aids for you. He doesn't want hot cheap. Yes, sorry.

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Can I celebrate?

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You nothing wrong with that? Why not? It's a good way to good Tao for them inshallah, if they're happy to do that, I mean, Mashallah, you're you're blessed if your family will actually celebrate with you. said again? Hi, yah, yah, that's okay. There's nothing wrong with it. Why not? It's eight is all about getting a family together visiting relatives. That's what it is all about. So there's nothing wrong with anything non Muslim, and nothing wrong with that, inshallah. Um, has anyone got any questions regarding anything about the rulings on fasting or anything like that? Yes.

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Yeah, that's right. He's to sneeze. No, no, you still sneeze? Oh, you still see, but you don't know. What brought up the top of the nose? Okay, a question. An important question. Like, is, one that normally says does ask, is, um,

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you know, you became clean from the installation in the night. Okay, and you and the time for fudge comes and you haven't taken your water yet. So you should before like, if you wake up, you wake up, like, obviously, you knew you're clean. And you should make your intention before the event for fudge too fast. Even if you haven't taken the wolf. Even if you haven't had your shower to get purified from being in a state of menstruation, or even if you've, you know, had relations with the husband, and you need to take what you have to have, you know, you made your intention to fast Ramadan.

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And you fast even though you haven't, because because being in a state of kohara is not a it's not a condition of fasting. Everyone understand that? So just hit me the most important thing is to be clean from menstruation. That's what you have to be clean from before in order to fast yet, you think that you finished? And then so you

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actual blood? Like?

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Yes, it just discharged? It depends. It depends. Like this. Now that is, that's why those kind of things you got to really ask everyone individually, individually is asked for themselves. But if you're sure you finish, you are sure you are or you're mostly sure that you had finished, and he took a shower. You took the horse, and then you started fasting and then you saw maybe a yellow or something like that. Don't worry about it. Okay, but if you came back full on menstruation, then of course you can't. And another issue too is you can't fast upon check.

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So if you're still not sure you're finished or not, you're still waiting to see the end of the period you like that would not be counted for you. Because in order to pass the five day you need to pass on certainty. Like you have to be certain you can't be in a state of shock where you you're not sure am I cleaning? I'm still waiting to see the end of my period. You understand? So?

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In this case, you'd need to make up that date. Sharla Yep. So say it's like

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it's okay someone else talk i'd happen it happens you know, whenever I'm looking at you your brain just switches off yet.

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Question saying last year you fasted and then you got like, seven days that you need to make up? And since then you follow Neil so you're trying to get yourself healthy before Ramadan? Yes. And do you think that you'll be able to fast the mistakes before I'm about it because you're on vitamins or medicines to help you get better. Can you pay? expiation as you know like,

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okay, just so we clear you can never ever ever pay or feed the poor for menstruation and postnatal bleeding. Okay, that has to always be fasted back and No One No One disagrees on that with the scholars. Okay, so they have to be made up now in your case. So I've got some suggestions we still have a bit more time to Ramadan begins. Now those fasting of those days if you're able to you may get better if we do the next week. At first one day, he one day on one day off, you know, to me, even if you thought you're even in the case of a five fast if you pass the day before him a bond, it's still allowed because it's a bug fast. Normally you're not allowed to fast on the day before a

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bond. But when it's a five faster making up, this is an exception. Okay, so do try to go to try to get to me now. Yeah, so that's what you have to do before. So for the next couple bottles, yeah, so that's even the day before you shouldn't leave it like without an excuse, but I mean

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If you had intended to do it, and now you're stuck for a reason, and Sure, that's an excuse for you. But in general, we should try not to leave our fast into shop in any way. Like we should have tried to try to make up during the year trying to lead to last minute. what people are doing is a little bit like when you delay your golf prep, you know, you delay you go to the very end and something happens and you miss it. And then you and then you end up crying after us. We got acetone, I mean, you shouldn't you shouldn't even just mentioned something here too. If you did miss loaf bread for any reason, you can't pay off the first you have to pay God first than us when I mentioned that the

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moment confusing. All right, but that's what you're basically doing by delaying the fast the last minute. It's like you're delaying a prayer. You know, I mean, because it's actually it's actually forbidden. And it's considered negligence to lead to bad fasting, and to ask the next Ramadan without an excuse. If someone's breastfeeding, that was sequel, ye that's an excuse that there's no like blame on them. But it's a purpose like if they just negligently lifted by fasting and didn't even bother fasting into the next Ramadan. They need to make Toba for that they need to ask Allah Subhana Allah to forgive them and straightaway make up those days as you know as soon as possible.

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inshallah, yes.

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So say if you think you're gonna be finished, can you wake up with the intention was to water and log with intentions? If you intention or if one periods of fish alpha? Yeah, yeah, of course, you can do that. Yes. While you're not sure. When you wake up and you check. And if you're mostly Sure, you're pretty sure like your, your domain, you're you're mostly sure that you've finished? Yeah, wake up. And if you don't see anything, then call us. You know, you take your Wilson and you worry about your intention from before. Okay. Yeah. Yes.

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Ministry, when

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you have a plastic

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doesn't come under your signature, okay? Just say something. And I'll delete explain here. If you are sick, or you're a traveler, or you're breastfeeding or you're pregnant, you still need to make up those days. The only time I don't make up days Ramadan is two reasons. One of them is on very elderly, and I cannot fart anymore. The other one is I'm terminally ill now protect us all give us health. And we cannot fast anymore. Then in that case, now we feed a poor person each day, we can't fast but as long as you're able to fast in the future, then you have to make up those days. All right. That's that's the warning on it. Yes.

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It's okay.

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Now, you should have a PDF. That's what I'm trying to say. If you're sick the whole month, and you know that you're still able to fast in the future like you're sick now you can't fast right. But you know, in the future, you you get better, like you've got a sickness that you know, will go away and you'll get better in the future, then you have to make it up later.

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You have to make it up. You can't pay for a poor person. Like you can't see the poor person. Unless you're terminally ill melanins give us all hills and protect us all. And you cost you know, you're never going to get better. That's what that's what you most likely think you're not going to get better again so you won't be able to fast again the future. So that person who has that they are the ones who they they they feed the poor person for each day. And you're saying so if someone Okay, going back to what you're saying if the person was terminally ill, and they got them in situation, okay? No, the same morning they will just pay gold just to feed a poor person each day. Because

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Ramadan isn't isn't fasting Ramadan on them isn't an obligation anymore because they're not able to fast at all. Understand. But if they're not terminally ill luck in the future. They're going to be able to fast they have to talk without seeing all the Westway if one understands. Does that make sense?

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Yay, yay, yay.

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Okay, now what I know about your case, because you bought that that's, you know, you were told, you know, whatever, I'm gonna protect you because of that what you paid was correct. Because at that time, you were under the impression doctors told you that, you know, that's the, you know, to have a life.

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story. It's a beautiful sort of empathetic to very like a big fat in July. I keep students safe and sound she had was diagnosed with cancer support alarm. They told her that he only got for a few months. Was it all 12 months? That was about two years ago? Yeah.

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Yeah. So at that time, because of

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That that time you were going through the bullies, you take the morning of what you're upon day. Okay, but for other people who have a sickness that they, they have a hope they're going to get better. Like they know that in the future they're going to get better drunk translate, then those are the people who they can't.

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They can't like feed a poor person for each day. Yes, you because you have to go for what you knew at that time. Yes, Yep. Yep. Yeah. You're welcome.

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Anybody else want to ask a question? Yes.

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Oh, yes. Okay, so yeah, another thing like, hey, so is it permissible? The answer is yes. It's allowed to take the pill during Ramadan if you if you just don't want your period. But is it preferable? No, it's not preferable to take the pill because you're changing the state of what Allah created you upon like, a lot created the daughters of Adam, we, you know, with this, with menstruation, it's something a lot right for us. So, like, we should accept it and just go with it. And, like, we'll talk about that in coming weeks about what we can do when we when they're menstruating woman starts with red that next week, week after, it's not like the end of the world,

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you're menstruating that seed life comes to an end.

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But if you did decide that you want to take something to to avoid having the menstruation rolled on, then I can't say it's not allowed as long as you know, it's not going to be harmful. And your husband is, you know, agreeing with that as well. So, yeah, so anyone got any more questions inshallah?

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Yes, system?

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She was planning to do it? Yes.

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Oh, yes. Okay, good question. So if we knew that someone had, you know, had missed paths, okay. And they thought,

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then what the wall correct opinion is her family, like her relatives should pass that on her behalf to make up for it because it's a word you thought that she would have done. If she was alive, she would have done that. It's like to pass that on her behalf in that case, inshallah, if and they can share it, like it doesn't have to be one person just said it was 20 days for someone, like they can even share it. Like one person could fall on her behalf. Another person could fart on her behalf like that. inshallah. Yeah, yes.

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Someone wasn't.

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Yes. And I don't know how many days they have to make up. Once they do in that case, okay. When you say not in the day, do you mean they would they didn't pray at all. were praying, fasting seriously. Okay. So as long as one was to praying, and I didn't take fasting Seriously, what government had said they have to estimate how many days so they said himself was about weighing, like how many Ramadan? So I think it would have been, was it three or McGann's? Was it six trauma bonds? You know, you gotta work it out. You say it was a system of bonds, and that's too much. I think there's only like three or four bonds, you know, me. So then you know, three or more bonds is like 90 days. Okay.

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So what you do then is you fast back those days. So I told me sisters like it might seem like a lot of days, but you think about it. If you were to fart Mondays and Thursdays for a whole year, you can knock off I think I worked it out to see what do we say? 52. So it's about people ripping off about 100 days. Close to

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Yeah, oh, at least you can know how at least more than 90 days, if you thought if you thought Mondays and Thursdays properly.

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And that's not too hard for you because it's Monday and Thursday. You know, it's not like you're fasting consecutively. You're splitting it up. So and this is what you can do and make total total loss pantalla because we know that you know the best way to get close to a lot of our makeup for what we missed and make Toba and I do a lot extra good deeds to make up for what we did in the past and shall not be

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Has anyone else got any more questions and by the way your your wishes are Mashallah very excellent today I have to say on I have to commend you for your very good questions. They're very beneficial questions for everyone.

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And you know, it's got any more questions inshallah

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a teenage boy.

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Oh, yes, very good question. Very good question. If a teenage boy or any anyone if they had, you know, this could happen to a woman, even women, women can also have wet dreams. If a woman had a wet dream while sleeping, but does not break through fast because there's not done intentionally

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Sitting points of intentionally so when you're when you have a wet dream that's not intentionally it's like you know dagger control so that does not break too fast.

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You have to pray that has to take to pray Has

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anyone else got any more one more quick quick question? Yes it's done

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while you're fasting Of course you can you can put on makeup while you're fasting. The only thing you have to be careful with those. If you put lipstick on you might swallow lipstick. One more thing I should mention too, about kissing the husband I mean in general,

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like normal kissing on the cheek that's not going to break the bath but if it's passionate kissing to be honest here again you have to be careful about if it's swallowing saliva or something like that would would break the fast I have to mention that sorry.

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So yeah, but in general too. We know that

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being said to Italy I've been to quite often Ramadan especially if you're newly married is not very advisable because the passions could overcome and you might end up breaking your fast

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you know,

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inshallah, but in general, kissing does isn't considered to be something that praise the past.

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anymore one more question.

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