Taleem al Quran 2012 – P05 063D Tafsir Al-Nisa 119-122

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The segment discusses the mislead of shay trees and the negative impact of sh matter on people, including causing sadness and causing people to develop psychological problems. The conversation also touches on shams and pride in the media, the creation of Islam, and the shaping of one's appearance. The speakers emphasize the importance of finding one's own originality and being confident in one's abilities, as well as the potential for shams to make people look like their own.

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I want to only learn the home, he said and I will definitely mislead them while a woman near no home and I will definitely arouse in them sinful desires when the animal on the home and I will definitely command them follow you, but he couldn't turn around. So they will slit the ears of grazing livestock. The first thing that's mentioned over here is I will definitely mislead them from Allah BOD lamb lamb. How does shaytaan mislead people by beautifying the sense for them?

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beautifying sins by belittling them by whispering, constantly whispering, say this, don't forgive, yell, show your anger whisper through his whispers. He misleads people by creating doubts, Chapin comes to a person and says, Who made this? The answer is Allah, who made this Allah who made this Allah?

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Where did Allah come from?

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Who made Allah Chetan does that to people? Has this question ever come to your head? Be honest, has it? Of course shaytaan doesn't leave any person, even little children. He doesn't leave them. He goes and creates doubts in their minds about the very existence of Allah subhanaw taala. Because if the foundations are lost, if they're weakened, then the entire building will collapse, then the entire faith will collapse. So what's the answer to this question? Who made Allah? Where did he come from?

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What should we do? Are all the bIllahi min ash shaytani R rajim. This is what the prophets of Allah Islam taught us to say at that time, seek refuge with Allah from Chevron. Why? Because the answer to this is something that we cannot understand right now. And just because we cannot understand something just because we cannot see it. Just because we don't know about the origin of something doesn't mean we doubt its existence.

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If you don't know how, or from where something has come into your house,

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okay, when you say, Oh, this is not here, it is there. Just because you don't know where it came from, or how it came doesn't mean you will doubt its existence. You believe in its existence, because the signs are present. The proofs are there. So likewise, Allah subhanaw taala His signs his proofs are present everywhere you can recognize Allah but his origin you can't understand yet. You can't understand yet. You have to get to him. You have to meet him in order to find out so until then, hold on, but chip on distracts us. But first I have to know then I will worship right. This is what truth on says. So say our older bIllahi min ash shaytani R rajim. He creates doubts about the

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Quran. What if the Quran is not true? Possible, right? What if it's not true? What if the Day of Judgment doesn't come? What if Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam never existed? There's just something that people have made up? What if he was not really a messenger, creating doubts about the major principles of the this is how he misguide people. How well does he misguide people by provoking people to commit sin to commit indecency by corrupting relationships between people, husband and wife, parents and children? Because once the relationships are corrupted, then what can a person do? Can you focus in prayer? Can you think about benefiting other people if you have problems in your

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own house, you can't. So Shavon misleads people to various ways. He causes people to forget Allah's remembrance. And when you forget to remember Allah, than what will happen shaytaan will come and he will make you do whatever he wants to do.

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Likewise, he makes a person neglect salah, He adorns falsehood as good. He hurts the person, sometimes physically, sometimes emotionally, psychologically, mentally, right, constantly whispering thoughts. Sometimes it happens that a person is suffering from a psychological problem. Why? Because constantly, they can hear somebody whispering whispering whispering.

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He disturbs the prayer.

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He makes people feel, Oh, you're not clean yet you're not cleaning it. So, people will constantly wash their hands 50 times 100 times and they will actually develop serious problems, psychological illnesses because of this. So sometimes this is also from shaitan. Likewise, he causes people to be angry to be hasty. And when a person is angry and hasty, then he will do things he will say things which will lead to misguidance and more problems in this world and in the hereafter. So while obey Lennar home, never, ever feel secure. You're always in danger. shaytaan is always after you. No matter how far you go, no matter who you are, no matter

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who your parents are, no matter what you're reading, even when you're reading the Quran what does Allah say? First there is bIllahi min ash shaytani R Rajim seek refuge with Allah from Chopin because even when you're reciting the Quran Shavon will not leave you He will come to misguide you, isn't it? So while only Lennar home, wala Omen Nana home and I will definitely arouse in them sinful desires from the money meme noon yet what is the money, desire? You can say a wish that is false, that is vain, that is untrue that can never be fulfilled. Never be fulfilled. So, wonder woman named a home I will stir in them desires, I will fill them with desires sinful desires, I will fill their

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hearts and minds with wishes and dreams and hopes that are faults that are impossible. Such as life is long. Okay, have fun, chill, relax, right? This is what Chitwan does, that a person is doing something clearly wrong. But what does Chapin was put in the head? Chill man relax. What's the big deal? Okay, hola hola Rahim. Yeah, I'm going to fast tomorrow Ramadan is coming and shall I will be forgiven. I'll pray through how we how we find Inshallah, let me just have some fun right now. Right? So when a woman in the home false hopes How do you know you will make it Ramadan? How do you know that? When you will do something good. It will be accepted by Allah. But what does shaitan tell

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us? You're good, you're fine. Once there was a very pious man, chillin came to him and said, you know, you're so good. You don't need to pray anymore.

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She just really could now Should I need to pray anymore?

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So he said, even the prophet had to pray. I mean, everybody had to pray. Nobody was exempted from prayer. So then Shavon said to him, your knowledge saved you. Here knowledge saved you.

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So who's the one who actually saves a person? Allah subhanaw taala? Well, a woman near GNOME Shell Don puts false hopes and wishes and desires and a person fills them with sinful desires. So that all that they're concerned about is fulfilling their desire at whatever cost, and isn't the so if you look, these days, young children, even kids barely make it to high school. And the way they're dressing up.

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The way they're interacting with people of opposite gender. It's as though they are, you know, people who are working in the film industry or something.

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Right, you will think that such a person belongs to a club, the way they're talking the way they're walking, the way they're interacting the way they're dressed up. But Chilton makes people believe this is good. I look so good.

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And also, if you think about it before we do the next one, that whenever we're doing anything wrong,

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what happens shaitan makes us justify that wrong.

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Right? He makes us justify that wrong. He makes us come up with an excuse to excuse ourselves.

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What do you think,

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allows us to backbite another individual when we're backbiting? What logic do we have? What reasoning do we get? What justification do we present even to ourselves? What do we say? It's true.

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Likewise, what other justifications do we give? I can even say it in front of them, by the way.

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Yeah, I can even say it on their face. What else? What other justification do we come up with?

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Everyone needs to know. I'm just warning you. Even though it has nothing to do with you. I'm just warning you. Or I'm just venting. I really need to share. I just have to express my feelings. I have to let it out. I cannot bottle it up inside. I have to get it off my chest.

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I'm just discussing, just discussing. This is what?

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To me, right. Woman Nia know. He fills our heart and mind with false explanations. And it's okay. For you. It's okay. Right? Your situation is different. Correct. Likewise, when we're angry,

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and we're letting out that anger, how do we justify that I have a right to be angry. They have no reason to behave like this with me, and I don't care if they're 15 years older than me. I'm going to say whatever I want to because I'm very confident and I do not fear anybody. Right. So whatever we are thinking telling ourselves when we're doing something wrong, that is from who shaytaan anything that allows you to disobey Allah, any justify

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Question.

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Remember that is from Shavon wala Omen, NIA No. Well Amazon no home and surely I will order them for you but decon Donnell and around you but Tikona from Beth, gaff, but is the cut portion of something the cut piece is something that is still hanging off.

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For example, if there's like, a big piece of let's say steak, okay, then stick and you're trying to cut and you're not cutting it that good. So you cut it from the side, okay? And you're not able to cut all the way through. Let's say you're cutting it into strips, okay? And you don't manage to cut it all the way through. So then you pick it up and you show your sister or whoever. And then that piece is still hanging off. Do you know what I'm talking about? Can you picture it in your head? So likewise, the ears off an arm? What are an arm grazing livestock like sheep, cows, goats, camels, okay. Their ears are hanging. All right. And if they're slipped cut from the middle, that they will

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hang even more, the lower portion will hang down even more.

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So this is what babka is. And you bet Deaconess, brutally slash off brutally cut off brutally slit, not literally cut off the ear, but slit the ear so that it is cut into two pieces. But it is still hanging off. How painful is that for the animal? Imagine? So Shavon said, I will order them and they will do this. Why would they do it? Because shaitan is making them feel this is something so good. Even though it doesn't make any sense. It is a senseless deed. Still, they will do it. Now the Arabs, they would dedicate the best of their animals to to their idols. And as a mark of dedication, what would they do? They would slit the ears so that anyone would see that camel with the slit ear?

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He would know. Okay, this is an animal. This is a camel that has been dedicated to the idols. This is a cow that has been dedicated to the idols, and what would they do? They would set these animals free. So these animals would wander around the streets. And sometimes obviously, you can imagine such animals harming other people and their properties. Because obviously something that has been allowed to wander off, who's going to take control over it chip on will shut down, we'll get the better of it. Right. So like this, there's for sad as people who have seen this animals that are let off that are wandering, destroying people's property. Okay, so follow you, but we're gonna add an

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alarm.

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Today, people don't slit the ears of animals, but the slit their own ears. Sometimes they cut their own bodies.

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In the name of body piercing. This is what obedience to shaytaan. You know, one is for the purpose of beautification. And that also looks beautiful.

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And the other is something that doesn't make sense. It doesn't. So many girls have asked me, Is it permissible to have your belly button pierced?

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First of all, to get it pierced, you have to reveal your elbow.

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Okay, you have to expose the part of the body that should not be exposed to other people. Secondly, once you have that piercing, you don't want to hide it. You want to show it to people.

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Right? So when you're going to show it, you're going to be just disobeying Allah subhanaw taala even more.

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Correct. But what does shaytaan make us believe? But it looks so cool.

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It looks so awesome. Everybody has it so on. So got it done. So and so got it done. Even with the sake of arguing, you say okay, the piercing itself is okay, but doesn't make sense to cut yourself to make holes through your body in these places doesn't make any sense.

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You know, a nose piercing for example, that looks beautiful. ear piercing, for example, it looks beautiful. But if it's something on your lips or on your tongue, that makes it difficult for you to bite something to even speak to people or to swallow something to sip on something. If it's all over your ear, or above your eye, then this is causing your body hurt more than beautifying the body. You're hurting yourself more than you are beautifying it.

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I saw a girl who had dimples in her back done. And then I saw how much she was in pain and everything and then she couldn't even sit down or let alone walk. So I was thinking then what was the point for that? And it's a piercing that's really like not accepted? It's like it's kind of like tacky and like trashy and everything so I mean, it depends on who you're asking right? People have different opinions. Some people will think it's beautiful. Other people will think it's really cool. Other people will think it's trashy, so it really it's different who you ask, but analyze the piercing itself. What is it? Is it hurting you

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Look, or is it beautifying you? Is it making you more uncomfortable? Making your life difficult and more unpractical? Or is it something that's not a problem for you? What is it doing? And more than that you are piercing your body unnecessarily unnecessarily so this is just one thing but shaytaan orders people they don't even look at the logic of it they don't even analyze it they do it follow you but Tikona Daniel and around what an animal on the home and I will definitely order them follow EULA Yuna Hulk Allah and they will alter they will change the creation of Allah EULA Yuuna from lainnya. Right delete is to alter, change what the creation of Allah, what Allah has created shape

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on will tell them to change it, and what will they do? They will change it, they will listen. Now shaitan he was arrogant himself.

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And he bumps people with the same evil. Right? He makes them arrogant as well. Because when a person is puffed up with pride, than what does he do whatever he pleases, without the fear of any consequences. So one way in which he makes them arrogant, or one thing that he makes them do after he puffs them up with arrogance is what change the creation of Allah, that I am the best. Okay? And I know better. And I'm going to make more money through this or whatever reason, whatever objective it is, but channel I'm commands people and they change the creation of Allah. Now changing the creation of Allah is in various ways, first of all, in the physical sense, in the physical sense,

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what does it mean? That what Allah has created, how he has created

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to change that. So for example, Allah has created something in a particular form, changing that. So for instance, Allah subhanaw taala has made a person a man, and they go through surgery to make themselves into a woman, or vice versa. Likewise, Allah subhanaw taala has given a woman for example, fallopian tubes inside, okay, her reproductive system, but she has them tied up so that she cannot conceive she cannot become pregnant. This is what changing the creation of Allah, Allah has made you have a particular form. Allah has made different things in you, but you change them. Likewise, Allah subhanaw taala has made a person's skin have a particular color. But what do they

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do? They tattoo certain patterns or certain words on their skin. Okay? Likewise, Allah subhanaw taala has made the nose of a person of a particular shape, they undergo plastic surgery, and they change it, they change its appearance, they change its look. Likewise, Allah subhanaw taala has caused a woman's skin to age as she turns 55. But what does she do? She goes and get some injections into her skin so that her skin can look more young.

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Okay, this is what changing the creation of Allah. Likewise, Allah subhanaw taala has made a woman's eyebrows. However they are, however you want to describe them. And she cleans them a little from below, and a little from above, and another from the side. And then she trims off a little. And then what happens? She looks like a completely different person. Her eyes don't look the same at all. Her face doesn't look the same at all. This is what changing the creation of Allah.

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Did you ever think about that?

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But look at how common it is. And how she Athlon convinces women that you look better. You look nicer.

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You look cleaner.

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You look cleaner like this. All this extra hair. You're just cleaning it up. You're not shaping them. You're just cleaning them. This is what your lawn tells us. But tell me cleaning them doesn't achieve them. Doesn't it? It does. Who made that hair over there? Allah subhanaw taala did who made your eyebrows of a particular curve or no curve or whatever? Who made that? Allah subhanaw taala made that it's changing it is what changing the creation of Allah subhanaw taala.

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And notice Shavon tells people to do it Shantanu tells people to do it. What's the problem with this? Remember the change in the creation however big or small, however major or minor? Whether it's changing the gender or shaping the eyebrow? What is the psychology behind it? What's the reasoning behind it? It is basically declaring Allah I know better.

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I'm smarter

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I know that you've designed something in a particular way. But I know that it can be designed in a much better way. I know that you've made something this way, but I can make it prettier. But I can make it look nicer. So I know better than you, oh Allah.

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This is what this means changing the creation of Allah remember, no matter how big or how small it is, this is what it means Oh Allah, I know better.

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We don't say it.

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But this is the reason behind that analyze it, analyze anything, any kind of change in the creation of Allah, this is what it is. And think about it. If a person can say, Allah, I can make better than you, I can design better than you, I can make this look more beautiful than you have made it look, then a person can go on to say, Oh Allah, I know better and I will not listen to this in this command of yours. Rather, I will do this and this instead.

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Do you see how it leads to disobedience to Allah? When a person can challenge Allah's decision, and how he has made something, then he can challenge Allah in how he has legislated a command even?

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This is why it is something so serious, because when it comes to the eyebrows, typically, what do we say? What's the big deal? It's only eyebrows Come on, if it's okay to remove hair from your upper lip or from your chin, whatever, why can't you you know, remove a little bit of hair above your eyes, just fix your eyes. Because it's the same thing. You're challenging the decision of Allah. Remember that there's two things. One is that you're doing something like this such as removing the hair cutting the hair trimming it, why for a genuine reason, for the purposes of the huddle for the purpose of cleanliness, for the purposes of not resembling a man for example. Okay, or for the

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purpose of treatment.

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Okay, in that case, it is allowed, for example, a person had a major accident, and because of that their nose is deformed literally. And it's very difficult for them. So they have to undergo the plastic surgery to fix that, is it permissible? Yes, in that case it is but just for mere beautification, it is not correct, because then you are challenging what Allah has made, how Allah has designed something.

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Else, let me just mention the exceptions over here. Like I mentioned earlier, for the purpose of treatment, it is permissible. Okay, changing the creation of love for the purpose of treatment.

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Somebody came up to me said that she can't give birth naturally, she has to undergo, you know, a C section. Right. And with that, you can only have a limited amount of children. For some women only three, you some only four, she said that this woman is having her fifth baby. And is it allowed for her to have some permanent birth control. So in this case, it is because it's going to be danger to her life. So in that case is it's different.

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Okay, but for a woman saying I don't want children, or I have three and it's enough.

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So I'm just undergo this treatment and I'm going to I have permanent birth control. This is something that is changing the creation of Allah. Okay. Likewise, there are some things that are allowed.

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Some things that are allowed. For example, if a person's hair is gray or white, okay, then in that case, are they allowed to put color? Yes, because when they put color, it's understood that this person, they have put color on their hair. It's clear. Okay, so color that is maroof even when it comes to black, okay, it is not allowed for an older person to put black on their hair. Why? Because then it makes them look younger. This is deception. But if they put brown any shade of brown, for example, it's understood. Okay, depending on what their natural hair color is, okay? Likewise, for men when it comes to a beard, it's best that they don't trim it at all. Okay, but if the trim it,

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which is also approved off, we learned intermodal, doula, I know the companion of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam after which he held his beard under his chin, and then he trimmed it from under the fist. Okay, so that much is okay. But if a person goes on shaving their beard completely, that is changing the creation of Allah.

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A man is meant to have facial hair. But if he removes that completely, then that is what changing the creation of Allah. Can a woman dye her hair even if it's not graying? Yes, you can. Because it's understood. I mean, you do see these colors. Okay, off here, but if you dye it like pink or purple or red or

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green or whatever, that's not modeled, anyway. So follow up on the Hulk Allah. When it comes to the eyebrows by the way and tattoos we learned our Hadith given this rule to learn

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Who said May Allah curse those who have tattoos and those who do it? Those who pluck their hair and the one who does it for them? Okay, and is particularly that here, which is not permissible to be plucked off to be trimmed off. And obviously on the face, what is it referring to? What is it referring to the eyebrows, and those who make spaces gaps between their teeth for the purpose of beauty back then the fashion was gaps between the teeth these days the fashion is what no gaps between teeth, okay, for the purpose of

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beauty. One is that because of the dental formation, it's difficult for a person to pronounce certain words or to speak properly, or even eat properly. So for that purpose if they get, for example, braces or something like that, is that permissible? Yes. But if it's just for the purpose of beautification, then is it okay? No, it depends on the intention. And he said, changing what Allah has created. So this is changing the creation of Allah, the second kind of delete is Marna we intangible which is basically changing the role, the function that Allah has designated for particular creation.

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So for example, the function, the role of the Sun is what to provide light to provide heat. But if people take it as a god worshiping it, that is what changing the creation of Allah, okay? Not in the physical sense, but in the intangible sense. Likewise, changing the role of a human being a woman is meant to be a mother, loving and cherishing, nurturing, correct. But if she's made to believe that no, you don't have to be like this, you can be tough and you can be strong. You don't have to have children, you don't have to, you know, be the nurturing the kind, the nice one, no, you can be tough. And so she toughens up and she becomes aggressive and she tries to take authority everywhere.

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She is basically corrupting her nature. Her children will suffer.

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So I was just thinking that how Alesse pandas set everything for a specific, specific reason, right? And how everything it has a wisdom behind it specifically, like for the eyebrows, if you take that for an example, there's a blood pool of your brain has a blood pool right there where your eyebrows are, and if it gets hurt a little bit, then you could that potentially you can die. Right? So even for like every limit that Allah Sandra set, right, we might not necessarily know the wisdoms behind it. But you know, very true. Unless we don't know the wisdom, sometimes you just don't get it. It's so difficult for us to accept it. But remember, if Allah has commanded something, if he has

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forbidden something, we trust him, it's good. It is good. Shaitan makes you believe it's not good. But remember what Allah is telling us, it is always good. So the second kind of delete is changing the role the function of what Allah subhanaw taala has created. So shaytan makes people believe that it is good, whereas in reality, it is very detrimental to them, because it disconnects them with Allah, it makes them turn away from Allah. Right? It makes them differentiate on and this is a clear loss, because she Athan will not help them, he will abandon them eventually. This is exactly what Allah says, will mean yet WD Shavon Mulligan whoever takes you on as a wali as a friend, turning

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away from Allah befriending shaytaan been doing the lay besides Allah forgot the hasura husana Medina, then such a person has sustained a clear loss Casita, he has suffered a loss what kind of loss Hosana Medina clear loss, because if you can obey along with regards to how you look, then you can rubbish it on with regard to how you do, what you do, where you go, what you say, remember, every time we please check on every time we please check on we are making him stronger. We are helping him. And this is the reason why the prophets of Allah is going to be told us to oppose Trayvon even in the way that we eat. Shavon eats from the left hand. You eat with the right hand,

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we're not allowed to eat with the left hand why in opposition to chevron? So whatever shaytaan tells you, you have to go against that. You have to do just the opposite.

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So Don tells you it's good. Tell him it's bad. Uri the one where human need him. He promises them. Che Athan. He promises them what I promise you look really good.

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You look much better. Yes. I was sort of thinking about the relation like that tattoos and plucking your eyebrows are mentioned in the same Hadith and the curse as mentioned upon them. And it's interesting how they're mentioned together because both things putting tattoos and black ink on your body and shaping your eyebrows when you go around. You're basically physically branding yourself. So

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One who succumb to the shutdown and what he's asked you to do. So when people see you, when even the angels that go around when they see you, they see that that's what you've done physically, you've shown that on your body. Because the first thing that you notice on a person is what their eyes when you look at them, you see their eyes? And what do they show obedience to shut down or disobedience. So it's up to us. And you know what, it's only shaitaan who tells you, you don't look good like this, or you look good like this. Think about it. Are your eyebrows The only thing that's beautiful about you or not beautiful? Whatever you want to say? Allah subhanaw taala has given you a beautiful

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face however it is he's given you a beautiful hair however they are. Accept it. Accept it. Be yourself. Don't change yourself to meet the criteria of other people. Don't do that. Be yourself be an original. And Allah has made you unique. But you want to imitate other people and become like them. Uri the one where human need him. He promises them and arouses desire in them. false hopes in them. Wilma, Uri Docomo, shaytaan Illa, hoorah and shaytaan does not promised them except for delusion. Guru, what is

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the illusion deception, that a person promises something? And then when the time to fulfill that promise comes, he doesn't show up? And that's exactly what chiffon will do. He makes people obey Him. He makes people leave their Deen. He makes people turn away from Allah. And then what will happen on the Day of Judgment, we learn into the Brahim that shaytan will say when the matter has been concluded, indeed, Allah promised you the promise of truth. And I promised you, but I betrayed you. But I had no authority over you, except that I invited you. And you responded to me. I didn't force you. I didn't take a tweezer or anything and start plucking your eyebrows. I didn't do that. I

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just invited you. And you responded to me, you yourself drove to the salon and got your eyebrows done. So do not blame me. But blame yourselves. I cannot be called to your aid. Nor can you be called to my aid. You can't help me I can help you today. Indeed, I deny your association of me with Allah before indeed for the wrongdoers as a painful punishment. So this is a reality chiffon will abandon you tomorrow,

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changing the texture of your hair. Like for example, it's straight, and you want to make it curly or the other way around. Okay, or you have an afro and you want to make it straight. Again, analyze it, is it harmful for your hair or is it doesn't make a difference? It's so harmful, that if you're pregnant, and you want to go get your hair done, or your sister wants to get her hair done like that, they don't let you stay in the same room. Because the fumes that come out their cancers, they can actually harm the baby that's inside the womb. If it's something so dangerous for you. So dangerous, then why would you do it?

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Why would you? You know what, like yourself however you are,

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please. Unfortunately, we have started to compare ourselves with what we see outside and we want to imitate others to become like them.

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But the way you are, you are beautiful because Allah made you the way you are. You can use something that can straighten your hair temporarily. Even if it takes an hour to do that. Do that. But it's a temporary thing.

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But don't cause permanent damage to your body. Just in the name of fashion. Hola ecom welcome Jahannam Allah says those people their abode is hell whose avoid those preferentially upon those who follow Him who become a part of his nusseibeh mahfouda, those who fall into his trap. Those who are deceived by him their abode is hell. What are you doing on Herma he saw and they will not find from it being from the hellfire. He is what is my house escaped.

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No escape from the Hellfire there is no exit, no secret exit nothing at all. In fact, every time a person will try to get out of hellfire he'll be returned into it. On the other hand when Lavina Emma no warm it'll slowly had those who believe in who? Allah. He is my Lord. I believe in Him. He knows the best. He is a HELOC. He is the greatest creator the best creator. He is the one who is Ullman Nan the one who was very kind. He is a Mersin the one who is beautiful in His deeds in his actions. So the way he has made me I accept it. The way he has formed my eyebrows or my hair or my body. However, I accept it. I love it because that's

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When he chose for me, when Lavina Ave who believes in Him,

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ask yourself Do I believe in Allah? Ask yourself Do I believe in Allah?

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Do yes we do.

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But believing in him doesn't just mean believing in His existence. I believe in Allah as my Lord. You know when you say it will lead to be less or heal or I am happy with Allah as my Lord. I am happy with whatever he's decided for me whatever he has decreed for me whatever he has made for me, I accept it. I like it.

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So when Medina Amma know why our middle son had and they perform righteous deeds, who can perform righteous deeds, the one whose focus is righteous deeds, but chatline makes you focus on what? My eyebrows Well, there's one hair going. And there's this one here, here. And there's just one thing here, I have to fix this. I have to fix that I have to go here. I have to go there. You fall into this trap, isn't it? Fashion when you can get literally consumed by it?

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Who doesn't get consumed by the one who has a focus other than fashion or middle, Sylar had some of the healing among Jana. Allah will admit them were into Donato everything will be perfect. Yes in this dunya there are deficiencies there are imperfections and that is a test. If your eyebrows are not the way you want them to be, or they are exceptionally big for example, or exceptionally thin whatever remember this is a test for you Allah put you in this test to don't fail this test. Because if you pass the test inshallah you will make it to Jenna when you get there, some of the hidden Dinantian in Jana, every wish of yours will be fulfilled that dream and daddy Hill and how

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underneath which rivers flow if in Jannah such rivers are present which are flowing beneath the houses of people, then anything is possible in Jannah Come on, anything is possible there.

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Here you try to make the impossible possible but what happens you harm yourself in the process. You try to change the texture of your hair, the color of your skin, whatever, but you harm yourself more than you beautify yourself. Jeanette in 30 Min 30 l and how caldina via aboda abiding there in eternally word Allah He held the Promise of Allah. In truth, this is a promise that will be fulfilled. Woman us the coming Allah hippie ILA. And who is more truthful than Allah in statement feel? Tough while lamb same route? Who is more truthful than Allah in speech? Meaning if Allah has said something? Can anyone else say something that's more truthful than the statement of Allah?

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Never. Allah statement is the most accurate, most true. So if he has said something, it will come to pass. If he has promised something, it will be fulfilled.

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So when you look at yourself, and you see those eyebrows, and they don't make you happy,

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then tell yourself woman are still coming alive. Lila honestok coming along Akela later, tell yourself later Later right now I'm just working and tomorrow inshallah

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more beautiful. And tell yourself I'm beautiful. Now even

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people change themselves. Why? Because they're not confident how they are who they are. And Allah wants us to be confident the way we are. And he gives us a confidence how women are still coming up that trust on Allah who is more truthful than a line statement, Salonika. There's two of them I'll put on my mirror and like sometimes whenever I look at the mirror and you might think of yourself like, oh, I had this imperfection or something, but it's Aloma has sent the hotkey for her syncope. We're hiring would you here? I don't know. And it kind of like first of all, it makes you feel like good about yourself that hey, you know what, Allah made me the way I should be happy about it. And

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