Suzy Ismail – #56 AlWaliy
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Santa Monica, it's nice to see you again as we continue to bring the
divine into the deli by understanding how we can
incorporate the 99 names of Allah subhanaw taala, and the
characteristics of those names into our daily lives to improve
our relationship with our spouse and with our children. The name
that we're going to discuss today is El webby, which means the
helper or the friend, when we think of Allah subhanaw taala. As
elderly, we recognize that he is truly closer to us than even our
jugular vein. Now, when we think of our marriages, and we think of
our family life at home, we're often seeking out that type of
connection that closeness with our spouse, if the reality is the
common phrase of you know, I married my best friend or my
husband is my best friend, my wife is my best friend can put a lot of
pressure on a spouse. Because when we think of a best friend, we
think of someone who we can share everything with. But who can also
make us laugh when we're sad, who knows exactly what to say, to lift
us up from a mood where we might be cranky or upset, who's there
with us enjoying the exact activities that we like, that
wants to watch the same movies, we like to watch or listen to the
same things that we like to listen to. But in reality, in a marriage,
sometimes it's the opposites that attract and your spouse may not be
the same person that likes the same comedies that you do. That
person may not be the same person that wants to go skydiving with
you or that wants to sit next to you and crochet. And this is why
Allah subhanaw taala has shown us in the example of the Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the importance of companionship, and
the importance of having friends or companions, who are close to us
who may not necessarily be our spouse. So rather than trying to
look for all of the comfort of a best friend, always in a spouse,
instead, we should recognize and appreciate the beauty that our
spouse brings into our lives, but also maintain those friendships
and that companionship with others as well. And always go back to
understanding that the true friend the true helper, the true allele,
is none other than Allah does or Kamala hair and I look forward to
speaking to you again as we continue to bring the divine into
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