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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salli wa sallam Alma Dorothy rush metal al Ameen. Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa manita da da da da da dee da Yomi de verdad for college in Nevada Vicki Tabby Hill Majeed wolfer Connie Hill Hamid altavilla humana shaytani r rajim Bismillah Ar Rahman AR Rahim who Allah de la la comin boo tiecon sakana wa Jalla Kunming julu dill an ami boo tan testa funa Yama var nickel Wyoming eternity con woman a Swathi ha ha

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ha a thermometer on Isla hain. We're calling Wu sallallahu taala and he was seldom amulek la camisa Anak Walia, Sokka beta will be Kiana hottie attic okama calling his salatu salam, honorable scholars respected brothers elders, friends, may Allah reward the emcee for that very flowery introduction. May Allah make us as people perceive us to be And forgive us for the shortcomings people are unaware about us. The beautiful melodious recitation that was recited before us, if I could extract you is from that passage of the Quran, or Elijah Calabrian or you may know NaVi Tina for called Santa Monica de Futbol. Santa Monica Lee comm is the verse of the seven juicer and when the messenger

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sallallahu wasallam was told that when the belief has come to you or Mohammed salaallah alayhi wa sallam for Kunal salaam aleikum, then conveyed to them the salams of Allah. Tell them Allah has conveyed salaams in one verse in the six Jews in Surah Ma, Allah says the disbelievers are not your friends. The infidels are not your friends, the polytheists are not your friends. That was almost going to prompt a question to say then other believers without friends. And then Allah concludes the discussion. In nama Wali yo como la hora pseudo who will Latina Armando Latina up Mona Sala. That lesson I haven't left you without a friend, your friend is Allah, your friend is a love. And really

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brothers we need to your friend is Allah and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the believers who diligently engaged in the worship of Allah. Imam Shafi Rahim Allah used to say Salaam when Allah dunya either Lamia couldn't feel how Sadiq Khan sodoku sa De Palma de Mustafa, if I cannot find an honest, faithful, transparence, transparent, candid friend, then I'm better off to bid farewell to friendship, and be a loner and be an island and be without friends, then befriend in people who give negative influence. He says thorak to us fellow whom Lika theoretician Shall we him? When I analyze the friends in this world, they were the bad and the good. I looked at those that

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were giving of negative influence. I said, let me backstep from this year, since I associated with them, I'm getting negative influence. I'm getting evil influence. I'm doing wrong things. So I said no, no, not that he did. But the kind of influence. I often say the topic of peer pressure is not only relevant to us, we all take pressure from our peers, we all take pressure.

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Those that are supposedly to be good and noble Ouattara to Allah

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re, I realize the only thing good of these people were that they didn't have the bad of other words, that of others, otherwise, they will not give enough any positive energy. So if you go by these people, they're not going to use vulgar language. They're not going to be talking immoral things. They're not going to be smoking bad things, but not like you're going to be getting positive messages as well. in Napa Valley, yo como la hora Soto who your friends are Allah and His Nabi sallallahu wasallam. Those were the opening verses. The concluding verses will who will at the toe of combi layli are your alum mama Jorah Bina hari sumaiya Berto confy Helio pada Miu sama, sama la

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Moroccan Tama unit B Oaken Bhima Malone, a synopsis of human existence on planet earth in the most comprehensive way in one of the verses that were recited, we will levy yet our flood couldn't believe it is along who causes your death daily by night, along with our fellow enforcer Hina mounting her one little intimate vimana Minami ha This is on the second page of the 24 Jews under this ayah Allah The aloneness quotation is mentioned that Allah extracts your soul when you go to sleep.

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The soul somewhat departs the body and has a tie with the body as well. So it's suspended, it leaves and it has a gentle tie and a gentle link. And when we stand up and Allah has ordained and decreed for us to live, then Allah restores the active soul in the body. As the Quran continues in this verse, well who will let in yet our firkin belay? Allah Majora

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and Allah is cognisant. Allah is cognizant of your engagements and your activities throughout the day. I was now in Malaysia, and there was a brother from America amongst a large and you know, everybody exhibits a different charisma. And he says, and I just quote this because the same it recited and and SubhanAllah. You know, and I often say this, we don't have a monopoly over Dean. I was in that conference. And then earlier in the year, I was in North America and sitting on the panel, and I rotated my gaze large audience of over 20,000 people. And when I rotated the gaze, probably myself and two other scholars were born Muslims, every other scholar was a lever to Islam.

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Every other scholar who had a significant following, who was an author in his own capacity, who was dynamic in his own way, and I said, this is this is our Dean, nobody is anchored. Nobody is permanently fixed into the position. I looked around me. And so it was the mom Siraj, and it says brothers, if I can mimic his style, you know, typical amazing North American scholar. He says, I was sitting in my office in Brooklyn in New York, and a busy preparing my Juma lecture. And I'm like scratching my head, and my gaze fell on one my desk good to me what a kitten.

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And my gaze fell on the verse and no leave drops, but that Allah is a way of this. I close the Quran and I walked down New York, and I looked at the many trees and the leaves. And I said, Suraj, what are you grappling with to speak, speak about great how great your Lord he is.

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And I often mentioned another incident about the massage as well, we have a good relation we meet up in these events. It says I was preparing a Juma talk, and I needed to constructively engage my son.

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And today, unfortunately, we hand over a device to them. And that could be probably the most catastrophic thing we can do to them. Because digital consumption has gone to another level. One of the radio stations recently with discussing this, and I've been speaking about it in many of my dogs, YouTube records 100 billion hours of viewing daily

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100 billion. Can you imagine what digital consumption is going to? inconceivable?

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So he says, I decided to put my son into something constructive. I gave him a map, I broke it up into pieces. I said, put the whole continents together. While you're doing that I prepared my lecture. Lo and behold, the boy puts the map together in 10 minutes. I'm like, wow, I know the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. But I didn't know you were so calculated and skilled and methodical, is like that flip the page on the reverse side is the image of a man I just put the hands and the legs together and the world came together. Oh my boy, you've given me the idea. When man comes in place, which is elements of real than ultimate Kabir will take place, then the real world will shape

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when you and I take our form and our shape the world will shape around us. But as long as we don't sort ourselves out, well who will lead he can believe Allah causes your death by night. We are Alamo Mashallah, don't be na her. Alma Mater often be na and Allah is aware of what you do in the 16 Jews in Surah Taha, and another name of this chapter is Surah kaeleen Yama Sera, Allah says, I know your secret. Well, as far as I know, that which is more hidden and concealed than a secret are far more hidden. The scholars have to unpack what can be more hidden than a secret in application and other facets written. You sit in and you daydreaming and your mind is running through 1000 thoughts. And

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after a few minutes somebody nudges you and it's like brother, yeah, okay, what were you thinking? you grapple to leave, collect your thoughts. Allah says I know that also about you.

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Because it was just purely daydreaming as we would say, you just you know what? Having a moment you grapple to recall your own thoughts. Yeah, Allah Musil ro. Allah knows that as well. We are allama Majora Don't be nah ha somaiya bathukamma then you will resurrect you. So my abajo confy Helio Cuba agilon masama to complete that appointed time which has been ordained for you from La maroochy. Inevitably you return to Allah for you in a bit o con Bhima Quantum tomoloo he will then inform you of everything you do, and he will also inform you of the legacy you leave behind in the form of good and bad then Allah say you

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Who will call hero from a buddy ally is supreme and dominant over his servants just to continue that is what we will call uniform carry body where you will see no further I have a leaflet flesh of what allama hakimullah has written in biannual Quran under this is I'm just gonna bounce it off you well who will die here alive is supreme Allah is dominant over you he has absolute authority and sovereignty over you, or whoever in your own country by de la can have Baba and Allah delegates angels to protect you khobar, the great scholar has written that if it wasn't for these angels that protect us insulate us fortify us, then the jinn not would have made our life a living misery. But

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it is these melodica how often a vivid manifestation of the protection of the angel our kids watching is gonna fall Oh, he just missed it. Oh the god there's an angel protecting him is gonna slip from the wall is he's gonna know

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how often is just about to is gonna collapse is gonna hurt is gonna knock his head. But at that critical moment, then the question then arises then how is it that sometimes children then fall in debt? If the angels are in place? And the answer is given in the Quran? Yeah, for Luna hoomin amarilla Ab amarilla they protect them by the help of align the will of Allah. And when Allah decides a calamity to come, the angels just backstab. They just backstab because at that time, Allah had ordain and decreed for something to happen. So it occurs, had da da, da, da, da to mode when it is the time of death that were fed to Rousseau, Luna.

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So amazing human rights in biannual Quran, the very angels who are deputed and delegated to protect men, when Allah DS decides the death of the person, these very angels now change the task from protecting and they aid the angel of death in creating his death and ending his life.

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The very angels were deputed protect him safeguard him, he mustn't get hurt. Now the time has come, that now his soul has to leave. So we're fed to rasuna. Our Our Messengers, our envoys, our angels give him death won't allow you to and they don't fall short. They now become helpers and assistance to the Angel of Death whose Chief, you know, in charge of this year, to take care of the death of insaan and they also Allah speaks about it in different ways in the Quran. There are those by your souls May Allah make us among them. One nunziata hurco one Natasha, Tina Sha, one nunziata Haruka one nurse, she thought the nurse thought when it comes to the disbelievers one nazjatar hurco Allah

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swears by those angels who get in who plunge in who forcefully remove the soul of this believers because they don't want to part and forsaken. It's told to them release your soul. And when it comes to the believers, one nuship rT nashbar is just untie the knot. And then the soul itself really just smooth sailing away. Because the soul just wants to depart. When Nasha Nasha. Just untie the knot, when you don't need to forcefully take a bird out of the cage, just go to die and the bird will make its way out. The bird will make its way out the soul just leaves. May Allah make us among those people that when it's time to leave, our soul is ready to meet Allah subhanho wa Taala that was just

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a preamble. Because you know the verses were so beautiful and every verse of the Quran. So I thought I would just share it with you. One of the greatest luminaries of Islam. The greatest sons of Islam was undoubtedly so you Denali, Vitaly probably Allah who, whose name is synonymous to wisdom you think of a literally alone you think of wisdom you think of wisdom, say knowledge of the land who comes to mind. his poetry is of another caliber altogether. Somebody once came and asked him, what's the difference between close and extremely close? What's the difference between difficult and extremely difficult? What is the difference between you know the academic language academic

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language? So you said for Donna Allen Nancy a to boo Lakin. nataka Zulu Bo job. What does roofie Sophie ajeeb waha flatten Nancy v. Our job was sub rufina Liberty sub lacking the fact that there will be a sub wakulla Raja curry motoman colada club. If you can appreciate it in Arabic, it's much more profound. But nonetheless a just an paraphrased translation of this is further than Alan, Nancy and YouTube. So one was to give an answer in academic codified language, but he gave it in a poetic form convenient

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Ilitch meaning at the same time, you know giving a rich model out of it for Donna Allen Nancy Enya. tubo it's mandatory to abandon a life of sin. Like in America no Bo job. Like in America no no Bo job. There's there's nothing more compulsory than the termination of sin. He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said la la casa de la hora de la collected to be look at the words of our Habib sallallahu wasallam we want to read about the great thinkers and philosophers, philosophers and writers and, and and brains of the world. The words of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam wa Habib nimona Rahim Allah said

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in the Lucha de Allah La mujer it

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has mentioned it in Shiva in the La la la mujer de Jamia nurse mean but it dounia illa in Cuba in la mina Lockley, Fiji Giambi, ockley sallallahu alayhi wa sallam family member in Ramallah dunya that the collective intelligence of the entire world is like one dust particle and exclusive intellect of Nebula Salam is like the deserts of the worlds.

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Nevertheless, Salatu was Salam said la calacatta db. There is no act of intelligence better than good planning. You can plan in 1000 ways that you can be intelligent in many ways but good planning and and i think i must exploit the moment and say by and large today in the oma we are not having long term plans. We are short sighted we are not visionary. We don't have succession plans in place. I'm just making a statement and moving on but honestly part of a structured on my ease way there is good planning in place. And the balance of Islam is you strategize you have an act in place but your reliance is on a line not your plan. And that's what distinguishes us from anyone else.

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So we have a plan Jacobo a solemn tells you something you're going to the king it's a foreign land he knows you're not you know him not. You know what 11 brothers walking in the quarter of a king is speaking a foreign language. Inevitably you're going to attract attention. camouflage disguised just some this way some that way. That's my plan. Yeah, Bonnie, alotta Hodo member baignoire head what the Holloman abohar The motto for some from years on from there. But then look at the balance and I'll tell you what Allah says immediately after wama oni uncoming align him in shape. This is my plan to avert you becoming a victim to the evil eye. But let's have our effects in place. My plan

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cannot alter what Allah has decreed.

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But then my father would compels me to impress upon you the need to institute this measure. And then what Allah goes on to say we're in a hula Zhu min we're in yaku bees and aalim yaku Yaqoob is learned that alayhis salam, he is a man of knowledge. We're in hula elmen Lima alum now because we taught him and our nmsa that that Allah pays tribute to his echo adea that He impressed upon his children. Some of us either don't have a plan, or if the best of us have a plan. Sadly, we rely on the plan. The balance of Islam is we marry the two by having a plan in place but then we don't put our reliance on the plan. When he said a lot he was settling was in the cave in the journey of 100

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generation of Muslims Sharif Abubakar the Alanna said oh, maybe you have a lot. They are right here. Now vcli Some said mamanuca Ababa clean beatmania Allah was a little Houma. Abu Bakar take solace we know to Allah is with us have been comforted and consoled Abubakar that the number of that Allah is with us. He didn't exit the cave.

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He stayed with his plan. He stayed in his cave. He didn't tell Abubakar in a safe place. He said Allah is with us. But then he did an exit on the pretext on the knowledge that Allah is with us. The owner must say he married the two he taught us the balance of planning and reliance. May Allah give us the correct perspective and the correct understanding of things. I don't want to digress into a topic of this year, but it just came in my mind so I'm bouncing it off you he said Elias m said la de la hora Kalka fee. There is no better act of piety than abstinent from sudden you know what you engage in optional actions in things that are rewarding and Good, good, noble, meritorious, but the

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real essence of piety my brother do the basics the How do you think God ought to be? What is obligatory upon me this this does of La Jolla in Santa Barbara Harajuku in sadoc. Academically, the scholars of Hadith will go into 1000 discussions under this Hadith, but what did he say La azido Holla Holla Holla impose la

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xiidra Holla Holla Holla and posts on Herbalife five times Allah How does this okay okay I'm not gonna add to anything that's for us and I'm not gonna decrease he walked away Saba will just you know what surprised by his presence his comments his remarks the engagement as he were turned away now he's handsome says if he honors what he said he's made it to Jana and what did he say I'm not going to go above the threshold of mandatary I'm not advocating that you don't Excel. I'm saying when we analyze two things we go the extra mile when it comes to optional, which is meritorious, but at the cost of indulging in forbidden which compromises the outreach and the output of our good

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things and thereby compromising the essence May Allah grant us the correct understanding. Anyway, save. Ilana then said lucky Natasha cazenovia roofie Safa g hi roofie Sophie G. This will in its turn in its attraction in its embellishments, in its lies in its fall in its deception. In its delusion. It's so strange. It's so peculiar. It's so deep. Once idea. There's a hearse. That side there is a wedding car. There's a bride here, there's a funeral year, there's flowers here, there's flowers there, one going to the loving one going to the dead, one's been wrapped up and cleared, the other one is clearing and wrapping himself. What the roof is sort of a big flattener sci fi our job.

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But the heedless nature of man is more astonishing. Then the deceptive nature of this worlds

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a little nebulous salam, the kuffaar were astonished they couldn't reconcile with the with the principle of resurrection after death. Allah said, Oh, Mohammed Salah ism Are you as I told them, are you people astonished? astonished about life after death? Allah says life after death is not astonishing. It's astonishing that you astonished about it.

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Life After Death is not astonishing. We're in a job for either Japan Polo home. Were in Japan for Japan colome either cannot or have been in lfv Jedi strange pulque Ooh, look at this verse of the Quran. Cool cool new Hey john rotten Oh, howdy da. Tell them after death. If you think for life to be restored to that mortal who disintegrates in his grave is the remote and impossible. Allah says take it to a more remote level by your warp definition. convert that carves into stone, make him into stone, or howdy da or make him into steel or alchemy ma Yakubu roofie sudo recon or put him in a form from which you cannot reconcile that life can be restored to him for sayoko una mejor de Dona

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and then they'll say well how is he gonna be revived? Padilla the Fatah come? Oh Allah Mara say the very one who created him the first time we'll create him again

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halaqa no one was shot dead the NA s rahoon we created them and we solidified the joints Astra home. Yes, sir. Ma, Allah najma Varma Bella Casa de Bella Casa de la casa de a banana you think and we will assemble your bones will put your fingertips together man will put your fingertips together. The Anima have acquired have written that is a particle in the back, which doesn't disintegrate, which would be like a seed from which man would be created in the land of barossa.

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Anyway, we're de roofie serafina Igy Waka flattener cV, our job was sub rufina about the suburban lock in a photo op asabe or sobre. to persevere in difficulties is challenging, but not to persevere and deny yourself that reward is foolish.

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It's foolish.

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You're going to lose the moment you're going to lose the moment was soboroff in Nevada been lucky enough to be a good lamayuru tarkari moto min colada. kaptara everything you anticipate is inevitable. And the closest of anything that you can possibly anticipate is death. So there is a couplet of Satan earlier via llamando.

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And I hope I can get to my topic sooner than later.

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But honestly, this is the beauty of the Quran nothing of myself. Allah puts this every time I start I don't have a clue in my mind. And it's all from the wisdom and the kindness and the grace of Allah subhanaw taala and the beauty of the Quran the beauty of the Quran it's Latin, raja babu the narration of theorem easy Latin COVID Raja boo boo hoo Abdullah Hill Mateen it's the firm rope of Allah. Maulana Shabbir Ahmed Othmani lights on

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That is why does the movie happily lie? Hey Jimmy

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What does the movie have bill? Hey Jimmy. Hold on to the rope of Allah. It says a lucky let's see, to suck the hair to suck the hair.

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A lucky receipt to two sec the head dude in a sec The, the rope of Allah is such it will never give in it will never break. You can lose your grip, that rope will never fail you.

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That rope will never fail you that thing won't cave on you that he won't lose its connection. You can lose you cannot hold on I was all in my hands were painting and all that stuff like if you dropped my brother, tough luck but all the rope will old you if you hold on to it. Then you are through who happen to LA Hill Mateen it's the firm's solid rope of Allah. May Allah keep us connected to that rope of Dean and a man and pour on because in the crisis in which we are in the turbulent times in which we are he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says fitten will just give up and Gulf people. Man Ashraf Allah ha is Tasha Fatima, who, if you will just speak at the feet and it

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will suck you in.

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I was just perusing. And I said let me just see what's the site just for curiosity, curiosity. And that's the world in which we live. They say few people care. Others are more curious. Others are more curious what happened in everything. They're not concerned. They're curious. They're curious. So I was just browsing I was just looking through and then I just said, let me go in man Ashraf, Elena is Tushar, Fatima who fitna to naamyaa batma sama amiya Bachmann sama fitness that will leave you blind Deaf that will strip you of all your faculties and your abilities. It is yours before us staring us in our eyes. We are living in an era from which our pious predecessors asked Allah

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protection.

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But the only comfort we have my brother is what is coming tomorrow is more challenging than today. And this is going to continue and continue. I marvel at this commentary of the scholars of Hadith under Sidney Malik, another young woman who somebody said Sharona Illa Anna's terminal Hi, judge. We went to Satan. I understand. We complain to him about the tyranny of Haddad for Karla Spiro is that persevere listen to this clearly. I read this in fact, when Barry reread our writings and the work of our Lama and how they devoted their lives, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, Allah azza wa jal, I often say to the students, Shaban Fatah, Buddha, and one of his Kitab, he has dedicated a book to

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allama, who in the quest and the passion of knowledge, have opted for celibacy, just because they were so engrossed in knowledge. And I say today, we our knowledge can keep us away from Haram, their knowledge kept them away an arm's length from indulging in hell.

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They said, we're gonna get married in this year, let me finish this book and in that the life went away, in that they live went away, they occupation and engagement and then grasslin didn't allow them to become elaborate in the permissible our knowledge doesn't keep us away from forbidden.

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So anyway, we complain to anissina Malik about the tyranny of had judge so and so the Alanna said is to persevere in the hula de la casa Manon Illa de banda who shall remain who had become semi auto Mina becomes an ally will send them persevere because the error that is to come would be more turbulent than the one that preceded it. The anomalous a wattpad is the Hadith, there is some academic discussion amongst the scholars that how is every error that needs to be followed there after more turbulent than the previous error, whereas the error of hotjar was followed by after hajjaj came the period of Ahmed Abdul Aziz and Omar Abdulaziz was a fresh breath. It was now a fresh

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breath of good air, it was a second aroma, it was on the Manage and under pattern of Naboo. So that error came post, scholars open up and if you know what I'm saying, I hope I'm not too academic year. But what I'm saying is how they unpack and understand he sallallahu wasallam this is what he said, Listen, just hang on as bad as tomorrow is worse. Just Just take it in your slide and move on. Now, how is it that the Anima or how is it that the Hadees says that every error coming would be worse? Where is the error of hajjaj was followed by the error of the Abdulaziz and that was a much better error, because the disease was this just ruler was this amazing man during his period in the in

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COVID. There is a narration that the wolf the wolf and the sheep would drink water from a Commonwealth

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the wolf and the sheep

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Drink water from a Commonwealth. So the under microm explain what's the answer to this? The answer to that as much as the period of had George was riddled with tyranny. But it was the rich what Sahaba

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that as much as they were there were so many Sahaba they were the veterans of butter. They were the participants of Ohio. They were those who pledge la casa de la.

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Nina is the yo by Nakata de Sha la la casa de la de la hora mini na is you by your own gotta Tushar fire Lima Murphy kulu being him for an zelis Sakina Tara Lee him all lower, so pleased with the believers allow us so happy Buhari 1400 they sat under the tree, try and visualize and your brain freezes. My Habib's awesome sat down hrb came forward. And

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he said alarmism said from every human who inhabits the planet today. There's no greater human than these 1400.

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There is no one greater than these 1400. So as much as the era of hijaab was riddled with tyranny. There was a sizable number of people who had seen Habib sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and an era in which Sahaba were present. Inevitably, automatically, without any reservation puts that era on a greater level than an era in which the numbers of Sahaba had dropped and decreased and diminished.

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So anyway, there is this couplet of Saison alira, the Allahu anhu

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in which he says, Let you sell belly to Fie, a Yamuna Jabba, belly Salama to fee ha Jabu la Joby. Ladies sell belly to fee a yamina Java We live in a time where trials and tribulations are not strange challenges difficulties adversities catastrophes and he said it at that time it's so much more applicable today. It's so much more relevant today. Ladies sell belly yet to feed a yamina Jabba if you tell me but he's Salama but peace safety security that is something that's become strange unheard of. If you tell me so and so got married and they got divorce. Okay.

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Even in our family, even our street even our neighborhood, but if you tell me so and so he's married and he didn't get divorced. You know you kidding man? You're not real man. Are you kidding man? No, man. Really? Honestly, the guy's not divorce. I know man. Listen to this guy. He said you know divorce. That's how it has become. I visited one couple in one town we went for a program that's a COVID visit this old uncle I go there Subhan Allah old uncle Auntie sitting there magnifying glass reading the Quran in their own way love muhabba I just said how long until you say 55 years. You know in order to say Jitney ne Kumar their subordinate gives us a good audit key hopsack which

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Hauraki shocks.

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ditalini Kumar has supported Kiva, say, all the pious men you have in this world credit goes to the woman. Some are pious out of the fear of their wives. Others out of the anticipation of the damsels of Paradise, but end of the day is woman that makes a man pious.

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55 years I'm like wow, man, uncle. That's awesome. That's amazing chatter. That's so brilliant.

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laser jammer will be as well. I've been to the Yamuna in La jamala Germano, luckily well, Adobe, it's not clothing that adorn us only. Right? This is external outward.

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Allah refers to husband and wife as clothing on Alibaba, so Lacan, Wang tomley barcelone You must see how the scholars unpack the different analogies that they create between the bars, how your clothing adores you you could probably go for a bypass and you have stitches here and you put on a nice beautiful garment, it camouflage and concealed in the very same way you add value and beauty to the life of your spouse. She adds beauty to your life. You conceal her flaws, she concedes your flaws, not that we go and divulge and expose in public.

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Lisa Jamal will be a swab into the unit in Jamal Jamal actually will either be Lisa Leah team will lead the academy Ottawa leader who in Melia tema de Mola ilmi Well, Adobe. He alone is not an orphan, who was deprived of the shadow of his father. He too is an orphan.

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who enjoyed the presence of his biological parents but was deprived of nurturing, grooming, character and good habits. He might have the physical presence of parents but he is devoid of character he also is an orphan. Now latching on to that I want to say my brothers on the words of an era villano a man who had parents but was deprived of upbringing is also an orphan. We live in in a world today where there are two types of homeless people.

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There are those that are literally homeless, who don't have shelter. And they are those who have a home but the house can never attract them. They Ever wonder

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what they say in English. Instead of planning your next holiday, plan a life You don't need to run from.

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Instead of planning your next holiday, make your house transform your house into a home, transform your house into a home, make it a place that it gives you a source of joy, happiness and attraction. Because that's the powerhouse where you hang your heart. where you come in you relax, who will lead the jar Allah Allah comin bu t comm sakana it is along who has made for you from your dwelling second, second in Arabic means a place of comfort. You just come and relax. What they say Home is where the young become great and the great become young.

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Home is where the young become great and the great become young. Say now Maria Lana said in Nila Giovanni in your corner Raja lo fi mithila sabi I just love it when a man can come home, drop all his titles, drop all his aristocratic garb and drop himself and become a regular person and get on his knees. He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has Hassan on his back alley walks in while my son has been named Mel markup. I like your car. I like your motorbike. I like your motorbike. Now visa Some say and compliment me for my passenger also, when a Moroccan Moroccan And what about my passenger? Whoa from Madonna fidella my Navy went to that point even gibreel backed off, but at home my Navy

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could drop himself that hasn't good get onto his back for the long haul.

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In Ebony Hadassah yet. In napanee ha de sade, the kids were playing and has somebody alone, okay. This boy of mines is not your regular boy. He's not an average boy. This boy of mines is going to become a great leader in the oma, Allah, Allah Allah and usili Habiba in attaining Avi mattina minella muslimeen. At his hands, Allah will reconcile two big factions of this oma time moved on and history bore testimony to the fact when Hassan brother Yolanda stepped down and say the nama We are the Ilana, he handed over the Philadelphia to Mahalia and some people don't get him and said, You're not the Amir of the believers, Yara, meaning you're an insult to the believers. And the olana said,

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Allah. Hi Romanian.

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Allah. Hi, Amina. Nah, it's okay. You can call me an insult as long as it's better than the blazing fire of hell. He said I've given the post to say the nama We are the alano Some say I'm more deserving. Some say he is more deserving. If in the eyes of Allah, he was more deserving. I did him no favor, he only took what belong to Him. And if I was more deserving, than I did the bold step to avert bloodshed in the soma.

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I took the bold step, how many of us can rise beyond the issue? How many of us can be bigger than the matter how many of us can forget the politics of the family? How many of us can step up against the norm of society and do what is allied? Not with the flow not what is a taboo in our culture? Not what is a no go in ourselves? do what is right, do what is right. Allah may be of a loss of aligning with Salah marry

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the former wife, the divorced woman, of his adopted son zadara delana. Why because the Arab culture was that your adopted son was your son and your son is your son so his wife is your daughter in law, and it is forbidden for you? wahala ella urbanna A como la Vina mean a Salah be calm and forbidden for you is the wife of your son that sandwich is from your loin and your back? So there was a W in the Arab culture that no you cannot marry the ex wife of your adopted son. And Allah said Oh My Habib Salah doesn't break that. What have Shanaze Allah Daksha phylum

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domina pollen zoa Janaka zoa Janaka we got you married

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They inevitably Alanna used to tell he's she used to tell the CO wives the other spouses of maybe a Salam or Ayesha your dad who got you married or have saw your dad or Monica to married myself, Allah got me married. There was no formal Nick on the earth verse was revealed, and the marriage was solemnized the marriage was solemnized.

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So we live in in a crisis, my brother our teachings, calls us on coming to home and taking amnesty in our house in the environment in which we're exposed. But unfortunately, our house is no longer a home. It has structure. It has architecture, it has beautiful layout, but it just doesn't have something to keep us within our four walls. We've lost the plot, we've lost the whole thing. He sallallahu wasallam said if you're attracted to a woman aren't and that's the pragmatic nature of Islam. If you are attracted to a woman outside utilize him said come home because your wives got nothing less to offer you. These are the teachings the invitation is not go out. The invitation is

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come back as silver rupee atonement, Allah dub yumna Noma who were the Amba who was Shara Babu, Baba florida.com no matter who you are gelila ugly.

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Travel is a type of affliction in its own way. And I marvel at these words of happiness awesome because I travel. I travel often and ask a lot to accept my humble travels. And today we can sit in the lap of luxury in the lap of Stanford, but the words of NaVi la Salaam remain unchanged. Journey is a type of affliction. You can be flying on a flatbed first class, you can be having a private suite on board, you can take a shower at 38,000 feet and you can enjoy all those perks and privileges and I've done it but the fact remains that the words of nebulae Salama journey and what doesn't really Sam say it denies you food at your time. It denies you drink at your time. So when

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you done what what you needed to do, come back home, come back home. He said a lot of them said to me, daddy that I quoted Obama give you three advisors. What are the three advises?

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Nabi sallallahu wasallam said, I'm Lea Cali, Cali Sonic, harness your tongue said now Maria Allen who said, It is not the lengthy prayers. It is not the optional fast, that renders a person pious until and unless it doesn't. It's not coupled with managing his utterances in a day pilloried I marvel at the statement of his multicolumn to Kalimantan, Illa Allah who jawaban de la, I've never uttered a statement in my life, but that I've prepared a response for it. If Allah interrogate me why you said this, I will give a line explanation to every show, I've audited myself, I have a reply and a response to every statement that I have uttered in my life, my word, my word, how often in the

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fit of rage, the best of us lose our composure moment momentarily. And we ourselves are appalled by our own statements. When sanity settles in that what could I have said, or what did I do? or How did I lose my sanity? Um, luckily, Kelly sanuk take care of your tongue when Lisa cabeza

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and really my brother,

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if it's a heart, but it brings you at home, it's a palace, and if it's a palace, but it can keep you at home, it's a hot if it's a hot, but you come home, you happy. There's a sense. We've traveled in Africa, deep down in Africa, and you see a man who is sitting at the Lake Malawi, and the man comes out of his little hut and I'm observing, we sit in solve, everything is done for us. He comes out, takes his net, gets into the little river nets, his fish comes out, sits outside his little house erected on a little patch roof. basic structure, sells it there, makes his money and back in his little hut, he steps out and it's outside he puts one foot inside one foot outside. What was the

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house of my mother is about the olana Canada sajida ramezani Canada sajida ramezani whenever he saw some would go into prostration then he would nudge me then I would fold my legs up. Then when he would stand and I would stretch my legs then we'll drop in such that would fold my legs up. Why? Because the room was too small to accommodate me stretching my legs and then the viola prostrating

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nowadays the prayer mat is gone. that other one is gone so soft Subhana Allah sajida in the a

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visit it is no touch there's no feel what? No bad cafe sir. JD

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What

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if his son Jaden, am I have you been watching you when you stand in? I'm watching you and you're bowing and I am watching you when you turn him around in such de inaho yarraka hain attacco watercolor burgerfi sir JD for inaka be a yo Nina WHAT'S UP BABY hamdallah bigger hyena Taku you are on my surveillance. You are on my monitoring I I am watching you oh my hubby. It was solid. So he said a lot of Sam said well Yasaka betook what is Beit alhama Kuru to be rights under this ayah Coloma Allah urban Naka who was a sokoine Akuma Calico Don aka Luma satara coming genetical Alba hoogendoorn for a solid one Tata Metro who obey Tony if it gives you shelter from the top it keeps

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you a top from the ground consumes you from the side that's the house bait in Arabic butter up to bait means you spend night you want to sleep there by tutor

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you want to come in sleep there we want to run

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we've defeated the whole thing home has lost its its its role in society.

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How often the homes we built the helpers and the domestic stay in there longer than us. I mean the irony of of our growth and our innovation and our luxury and our amenity.

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So whether the jalila coming booty come sakana Allah says I've made a home for you which is a source of comfort. Then Allah says I've given you a spouse which is a source of comfort, later school Allah. Then Allah says I have made the night for you. Finally police bar, watch Allah Laila sakana second, the common thread between all these verses. Second, the night is a place of, of resting when no muscle Bharata sebata in Arabic means Qatar. So so bad, the night supposed to be a place where you de stress home was a place where you relax, your spouse was where you look and your depression goes, it doesn't escalate.

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I mentioned that often, you know, when the guy came home, and he's like, why is your back early today? Yeah, the boss had a bad day. Okay, so then he told all of us to go to hell. So I came home.

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But really brothers for many homeys held,

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home is held and that's the focus of my talk, transform your house into a home, transform your house into a home, you don't have to be in an exotic location to have quality time. We could be sitting together as a family sitting together. What about those two companions? They are eating ajibola hoomin Sonny eurycoma Oh, Allah was astonished at your people's practice, that the husband brought in gas, there wasn't food. He said dump the light. And then I'll act like I'm eating and the wife will prepare and we present the food. And then he presents the food and the guests eats and the host is giving off a superficial reflection and the hunger is continuing and the act is being played out.

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And Allah is observing the whole thing. And Subhana Allah, they are engaging in an act of worship in the confines of their house and a husband and wife retired to bed and they are hungry, but it Bond's them in such a way that the muhabba is such that a lot of firms in the Vla Salam says Allah was just marveling at how you people were doing this whole thing. A lot was this marveling when when the occasion came in and the verse was revealed Mandela yo credo la carta and Hashanah who's interested in giving Allah alone and Allah uses the term loan because Allah is gonna repay you. That's it right? But Allah doesn't need that does believe has made some condescending remarks or in the last

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40 years is Allah boys. Resources are being depleted over lapada caffarel living in a condo in Alanna Fetty Ron wanna know alvernia shannock tumaco bapatla homall ambia Aviva and then about data just walks out and he runs from there.

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And he runs and then he goes, and his wife and his children are in the orchard and he has this orchard in which that 608 pounds. We go out I had phone calls mono in a crisis. I need to talk to you urgently Okay, were you on a honeymoon?

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in Savannah, Baba.

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What are you telling me my brother? We're having a crisis we spending the other day a brother say I got married. woman said we need to go for a nice good, you know, honeymoon. We took this I never toured with my first wife. But anyway. hamdulillah whatever I went when we just landed at the airport or not have realized we're not compatible. But thank you for the holiday.

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I was flying once back from Amsterdam picked up the paper. The mystery of a man the cry of a man. Okay, let's read what's this all about? So he decides to give his wife a pleasant surprise.

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The I don't know whatever on her birthday or the anniversary it was. So he tattoos her name on his back. And the day he wants to show her what he did she elopes with someone else. Now if he keeps it is painful if he takes it off is painful

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Can you imagine this year keep it on psychologically the pain take it out physically the pain because to put on it old tape is another story. costing an arm and a leg. I mean this thing

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the pain of a man the pain of a man you put it on to say listen love this is what I've done. Oh, hang on, it's somebody else's love. Okay, now to keep it is painful to take it off is painful. Or long we need to invest in our marriages we need to invest in our homes. It's the power house my brother, if that is in order, we will be more productive in society. But if that is not in order, we will not be productive wherever we are.

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So who will let the jalila come in booty come sakana machalilla come in to noodle an arm we come home to a place of shelter to a place of happiness. So what happened? Da da da da Allahu anhu

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he tells his wife I cannot come inside because we've given this to Allah. So come out of Carrasco Holla Holla tema de bit Tori llaman anwender de de de la la Raja fulfill me are the first really big enough see when Lola de oh man How do I translate? Come my wife I cannot enter But hang on you can just come in? No no I gave it to Allah. They are giving and donating and bonded we supposedly going for a holiday and we have been divided.

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We going for an outing you know what it was a tough year was a turbulent year or so many things that happened at home and all that. So he said no, just have a break. Just have a break. And you know what get together and not empty that it's good. If that's what's giving it to you. It's fine. But that's not the only thing we can find happiness in our home do the basic things. The old folks what they did on a Sunday it was nothing elaborate. You said at home and the mohabbat was there you call three people from the neighborhood. And the home was a place of amnesty of warmness of joy of Mahabharata and understanding. kids were playing they were under observation and never been seen to.

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And there was just this whole general atmosphere of happiness. And then the wife is now dusting the clothes of the children lesson drop this why No dad gave it to Allah. How do you impress a child? How do you explain a child it's a daunting task. And she's emptying out and the number of allies looking at the scenery. And it said come in them Radha hen with diarrhea in failure in a bit Da Da Hai just have no idea how many palaces and orchards This family is going to have in Ghana. Only Allah knows what they're going to have.

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That was a home my brother. That was a place.

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The occasion of hunt duck, extreme hunger.

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Cold tablet Ilan said I seen the hunger on the face of the Vla. Salaam I couldn't I couldn't manage it. I couldn't deal with it.

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Honestly, brothers, we don't realize I was in Malaysia three weeks ago for a program. After we completed the convention, I came back to the hotel, the searcher funeral eat as a nom done. I hopped into my bed and I felt a little hungry. And I'm like, you know what, I don't know why I didn't tell them. And sometimes it's only when we're in a bit of a situation gives us a glimpse, to to begin to imagine those who sleep hungry.

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And then I tried to sleep and I couldn't sleep, because unfortunately that's our life. And then obviously you pick up and do some room service. But it just gave me thought What about I tried to sleep and I couldn't sleep. And it was a press of a button and a phone call and there was room service. But what about those who sleep on hungry bellies day in and day out? Well, what's what's the plight? And how will this play out in the court of law when we are law? You mean law? You mean law? You mean he's not a believer. He's not a believer. He's not a believer, who only be overloads Belize City ated and his neighbors are really hungry. And in a global village everybody is our

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neighbors.

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In a global village everybody is our neighbor. Tabitha Jelani said I looked at Sam's face I couldn't I couldn't, I couldn't take it. I said, I went home. I spoke to my wife. I said, how many you think she said about maybe 13? Wouldn't it be awesome 14.

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He came, he said, I was putting on a beautiful I wish I could call everyone home but there's just enough to break even maybe yourself and 10 others quietly just want to pull out for you and call them home. I wish I had the muscle and the strength and the wealth to invite everyone but my house doesn't have it. Never leave everything. Under Godot, Malanga, Java comm Java, his wife made some food for us all.

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You try and rock up at home with uninvited announced

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Try try your luck.

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Now you play in a double actor and everything is visitors.

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Organizing material in a poor man is juggling and running and swallowing and holding and many gene and D.

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We've lost the whole thing. There was nothing fancy, but there was there was a house was a home. Today it's palatial. It's amazing. You know when American Abdelaziz that petition is there, and somebody built a beautiful palace, and he called him and he said come look at this. Yeah, he said have suru Lola and no guru Ron, Eamonn Lola and now who are a demon or Malecon Lola and Oh, hold on for a phone Lola Miyazaki Butera phone, wallet de la Lam doctor in VR fatin waka Ramadan nosaka Salama

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if we translate this to ours, my brother

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had a Subaru novela and no guru. This is a nice house provided doesn't deceive you and make you arrogant. When Lola Anna who ID you can call it confetti with eternal Memorial con Lola and Rahul Cohn. It's an empire provided it won't be followed by distraction. Well, for one it's excitement low lamb Yakubu Tara, provided they won't be any challenge any hurdles any obstacles, while at the low lamb doctor in the alpha was Salatu was Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa sallam Sahaba, Salama, come come, who made food for us, that was a house that was a home, there was nothing elaborate, there was nothing fancy.

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Who the land goes into panic, relax, tell you a woman folk not to look into the pot. My hubby observed some game Habib's or some game, and then a viola and the beauty of nebulous terms is it's attached with amahl more than it's attached with individuals. Surely there were those individuals and it was on the strength of their actions. So if we internalize those Armand and those actions, we will enjoy the same draws of Nabeel a Salam he served an orphan for as long as he was alive and then he left behind teachings that whoever will serve and often will be with me like this in Jannah so the action continues. The action continues nobody stops us take action so happy to be honest and

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sent him to buy a sheep he took one dinar he sold the he bought two sheep for the price of one dinar then he sold one sheep and he for the dinar, and he came back to us on what the dinar and the sheep

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so yeah, but we all do that as exactly, but we do it for ourselves. We don't do to anyone else. That's where there's no burger. I'm not saying it's wrong. But the key to attract that burger is where you think with the AI to benefit others. Then you see goodness come when you try and let the wealth of others generate revenue for them and not exploit them for your own narrow benefit.

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And he came and gave me a beer exam the sheep and he gave me the dinar Okay, have you ever like took the money? I didn't have my own. I said how can I take money from you? I didn't have my own Allah Allah La Vina Eva moto. kalita Mila home, tala Ji dama De Luca, LA, the willow, the willow arminianism toughie. fermina de Maria has an allergy to monsoon people went to bouquet and they had to mobilize and some wind and the moon Africa in lag behind and then came the genuine Sahaba who lined up but they didn't have food. They didn't have conveyance and they said oh we don't have we want to join you you give us and you cried and they cried because they didn't have and you didn't

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have to give them and Allah paints the picture. Allah sketches the image while La la la Vina there's no reproach there's no blame is ama a joke they come to you the Tamil owner I don't have Can you give me the visa? I also don't have I don't have so whenever you have a lie didn't have money. So I said let me see how I can sell this. So then I sold it. I took one dinar I bought two lambs. I managed to sell one so I said at least I can give you back the money also and the lamb. Now we have some are so Dutch barakallahu philosophica to me, Nick barakallahu philosophica to me, Nick. May Allah bless the transaction of your hand for Canon labiche tala to Robin no be happy. Then his hand

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was so blessed Sahaba safety tax and also it became gold. With that goal, it becomes l

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they say the Sahaba used to have a list of partnership. Everybody, whatever. Count me in, count me in. Because you know this deal is going to reach fruition because unless nobody's law was there whatever you do, we are never doing it together. Now. It's a joint venture. It's a family thing. Oh wow.

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Come Javid, his wife has made food Come come home. That was joy. That was excitement. That was a house bringing you home. That was a place of solace and happiness and joy. So they come home, don't look into the pot and feed everyone. 1400 people come in eat from one port and everybody leaves. Nobody says some says Java jazak Allah Allah has read us.

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in one direction, Nebula salat wa salam mentions

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that one of the benefits of Nika is that when you get married your spouse will generate revenue for you.

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Hakeem and Omar in higher three Muslim in under this hadith elaborates how that is a kindness so john for he mean when I say hi in

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this formula of bringing wealth into the home would happen when husband and wife have a good understanding and that house is a home for us as odfis he added in case study louzada to fee enamel bait malaria liaison for young Somali admin Anwar raha Matsuda limahl father, man et and Bill Maher

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Nabila Sam said when you get married, your wife will generate revenue. And then he elaborates what is meant that a man exerts himself to work and to earn and that's the teachings of our Dean that we don't beg we don't ask, we need to be active and we work till our last breath. That is the teachings of Islam.

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Man I'm sokola Minami Lee. I'm sama foreign law. That's the beauty of our Deen. He who returns from his work exhausted, returns in a way that Allah has forgiven all his sins.

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The beauty of our Deen is it's not limited, restricted and confined to a location of Tisha sobrato lolly writes under this ayah, our man Ghana made done for a hyena who was a lagoon neuron EMG belief in us, the one whose heart has been revived, whom we've given the light, he doesn't stagnate with the light of Islam. He walks around with this light of a man is walking in his talk in his traveling his business, it gives off a sense of brightness and a foul jeans or look at how he's behaving. Just look at how he's standing to see how he eats him and just see how he views his whole demeanor disposition into action. He and she be here under this I am she walks with it, he highlights and

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magnifies this, that Islam is not something that is found or restricted or limited to a location or a venue but you walk your deen you walk the top you exhibit your religion. So you going out and working and earning and you return home the Hadith says you enter the house is not only the man who came from the masjid is forgiven, even you who worked and came back you just so forgiven.

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One of the issues that we've lost in our faith is the sub, if the sub is mental awareness of the reward promised in every good action that I do. When Allah says that we will bless people with a good life, that no religion no higher than tayyiba whoever does good actions will give him a good life. The scholars of Tafseer have debated at length, the definition of a good life, but by and large, they narrow it down to two components. A a person who has a good life by the definition of the Quran, will have a life in which is contented, will be contented. And the second is Allah will give him the ability to constantly focus on the reward promised in our theater in whatever he goes

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through, thereby giving him strength in his challenges. So you will constantly visualize it My legs are painting away but I know allies promise great reward when I'm hungry or less promise great reward. I'm making supper in nama yoga for sabi Runa.

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Allah says I have a limit to every other action, but several I just reward them in finite limitless, I just give them limitless I just give them an ending. So if dissolve we've lost the touch of dissolve that at every moment visualize a man who's working at no point of the month is he oblivious of his the return end of the month and let him have a doubt and he drops his work.

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Let him have the slightest hint we won't be paid. And David goes at every moment he knows consciously his alert is focused that I will be receiving my salary my payment my 13 check whatever it is.

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So anyway, he likes that when husband and wife have an understanding the man goes out and he generates Hello, earnings. And I say hello because for in parallel haraam once we bring her arm at home my brother we can have the most elaborate home, but that's gonna bring no happiness to us. There was a brother who had invited me for a program and then after give the talk he sat down with

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means that can I have some time with you? I said, Go for it, brother. You started crying and crying and crying, brother, relax, relax.

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Try to pacify him. I was clueless of what was the motive of his steering. He shows me a racing cause Here it is. Unfortunately, I've gambled my life here. And tragically, I have filled the bellies of my children with heroin. And I wish I can undo it, but I cannot my children revolt and rebel over me. I'm only hoping and praying that the systems can flush out the harm I've put into them. But I don't know when it's going to happen. But I'm paying a heavy price and paying a heavy price. This is I was here gambling, and it was a matter of time. And as Dan was called out, and I had this contradiction in my heart, and I said to myself, no, how long are you gonna carry on? a dilemma

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Mubarak's life when he changed was the same thing. The lightener Mubarak says I was sitting and having a night it was a night I was partying, and the verse was revealed recited, the verse was recited our lamea anila Xena armano untuck Sha, todo homely decorilla he woman has elemental How is it not high time you draw a line? Is it not I time? Is it not enough? Is it not enough? You don't want to call it a day. And I dropped and then he became such a great scholar of hurry that I read something very amazing that they is what they call nothing on Hadith. They make giara and tideal academic language where we analyze the profile of the narrator's of Hadith you know, was he noble

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was he model was he irreligious etc. They go through a whole profile in to authenticate and validate the authenticity of the narration that goes via him. And the great great scholars of Hadith also had people who had attacked their honor. But Abdullah bin Mubarak is such a person that they are no two opinions on the authenticity of his narration.

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He became such a Muslim person when it came to Hadith. He reads such a level, and this was the turning point. And he cried. And he said that unfortunately, this is what I had done. And that is the mystery I brought to my house, that I have this palace here but there's no joy in this house. I know it is as a result of haram that I have put that he started reading Quran and he started tearing it listened to me. So he had I encouraged him. He said My dream is I wish I can understand what I'm reading before my eyes close. As of Hannah law, my brother, your intention is noble. Allah will inshallah reward you and Allah will free you from the wrong that has happened. There is a hadith in

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the Bharani murfin Abdullah surah Yolanda says nebulae Salam said Yachty Allah nurse is a man on the corner Rajo Guna halaqaat Rasul, Allah yet is OJT away he will it he? You are urina who Bill fuckery where you can live hoonah whom Allah UT for you to follow modality yabuki How do you know a time will come home will become hell home will become held and paraphrase in your home will become held a man will lose his Eman because of his wife and children.

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How you are you know who will fuckery they will turn to him. You're not taking us for holiday. Look at how simple you're not upgrading, you're not changing. These are the words of the Hadith. When I read this, and academically, it's authentic. I took it to one of my scholars and he teared and he said how apt? And how precise and how true are the words of NaVi la salatu salam, they will turn to him and now you need to upgrade change your phone change this but what's wrong with no you need to you need to be innovative. You need to move you need to change. It's just changing, upgrading, innovating. But quality is just going out what they say you have 1000 followers and 10,000 likes and

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15,000. And when you're in ICU, there's only two people outside your ward. And that's the family that's the real world. That's the real world. Those that care are your family members, the superficial fake world in which our children are living. They actually live in a life. They outside the rooms of the normal common average life. They've slipped out, they've lost the basic touch. I cry and I speak to my kids and I speak in my talks and I say to my students, how many of us today don't have the basic mannerism that if somebody rings the bell to usher the man in until the prime come in. My dad is in the washroom. Auntie Frieda, my mom's in the kitchen. They both will be with

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you shortly until How you doing? How's your health Can I get you a glass of water? Do you need to use the bathroom basic common etiquette we've lost the touch. Our generation has no connection with it.

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And then you want to talk about home my brother, you want to talk about home or Abubakar is gone in hedra Abubakar is gone in the Allahu anhu Let me complete this hadith. You are your owner who will factor they will taunt him with the financial standing and they will put certain deadlines on him that you do

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Or else you deliver or else.

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Once I was in Perth, they showed me of a massive, wealthy person's Empire. And then his marriage broke up. His wife sued him for half of his assets and half of his assets in his potential growth for the next 10 years. Hello.

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Hello.

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Oh, what did the pious man say with your daughter to an Allah fearing person? Why, in Baja, comma ylim you hit baja la mia Lima.

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When things you see the girl came and said, Dad, but this guy is not calculated. He's got isn't a top wicked is on a top bracket. He's got it all going. So listen, my husband, daughter, when things are hunky dory, then all his assets are in your favor. But when the tide turns, then all his know how bounces back at you. Now, it's not a small divorce. It's not a basic divorce. It's not a common divorce. Now it goes ugly, it goes big. It goes to the courts. It goes through the litigation process. It goes on a big scale. So get your daughter married to a man who feels Allah if he loves us, well, then all is fine. There's no issues, but if there's altercation and discord, his wealth

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won't stop him. His profile won't stop him. He stuck to our will stop him from oppressing. And remember my brother, the only thing that can manage me in the privacy of my house from not abusing my spouse is the fear of Allah. Because there's the question who monitors the monitor? Who takes care of the poo? Who police's the policeman?

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who watches the watchmen who monitors the guard the guardian and that can only be done in melody Nayak, Shona bow, whom Bill ryyb allama Shapira, Mother Earth money and the desire right one explanation of babies who fear Allah when the servants of Allah not watching when the servants of Allah not watching that is it? the pleasure of that is unique.

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So you are your owner who will put deadlines you deliver or else then the Vla Salam says this man will be between a rock and a hard place for you to follow modality Yaba de novo he will then resort to generating avenues through which he will lose his Eman What can I do I promise I promise I I told them I'm gonna take them for this holiday you know what's it now do or die make or break? Hello Hi waters I got to do it. It has to happen. And in the process. This is when house becomes hell my brother, may Allah make our houses into homes. Allah tala Hakuna to tapani beta was Sophia to demo, an intelligent woman can ruin a bird can build a ruined house. While in the eve one can ruin a boat

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home.

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They say it takes 1000 men to build a castle and 1000s to protect the castle. But it takes one woman to make it to home.

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One woman to make it a home

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a family structure as a whole a unit of course. But I'm saying the role by and large. And that Heidi that I was mentioning before that when the man goes out and earns and the wife engages in her duty and this delegation of duty he earns she takes care and each one respects their portfolio. For example. manaan This translates into warmness and understanding. Otherwise you get married and you come home and say make me a sandwich. But that was what I was doing in my bachelors flat on my life, man. That's why I thought I got married now making two sandwiches.

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Now making two sandwiches that's exactly what I was doing is to come back from campus and go to your bachelors flat and everything. You know each man don't abuse your position the world today is it's a system of No, you don't need to ask. You don't need to be obligated. The whole system that Elian has decreed for you men on this earth is into obligation. We can't escape the system. I am in need of you. You are in need of me. This is the system Allah has made and we tried to create a system of independence be independent, totally be independent. Totally. I don't need you so many live together just because just because society must know we divorce otherwise they're more separate than divorced

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couples. Many people in the house are more divided more separated more segregated than divorce couples can be but just because society must know they put together and Zina and wrong continues on both ends unending.

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So anyway, I was mentioning house into a home a smarter the alarm on ha look at this incident. The alarm on who is gone. What the Navy of Allah. What a girl What a home. What a place.

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Whoa ha ha the father of aboubaker is not a Muslim at that time is 83 years is visually impaired. Abu hanifa comes home he cannot identify with the wisdom of the sacred journey because he's not a Muslim. And it's such a great journey that Omar the Alon, who said, My virtue and the virtue of my progeny till tiama can match the accolade of Abu Bakar in the journey of hijet with NaVi la Salaam

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desde la hora bonaccorsi. Hi Raja he Holly Laney Nasrallah, same matter, Mama by the Hohmann as Allah. Bill Buddha said that the biggie fucka differs among Luffy Mohammed de Leon Ebony bin maka no Fattah t him.

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Lil mo mini nappy marusia de cielo taco mansha Tina inna in her for in GM in this Lucia Tata Shadi

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just a long horrible Nancy Hira Jessa he may Allah reward the best of rewards to nebulae Salaam in Abu Bakar naza Allah Hey moto mama buddy on road from Mecca to Medina using the alternate path they halted at the house of mama Abed, and she is one of the people who describe the features of nebulae Salaam, shalom romantic, this man came sweet in his speech, long in his neck impressive in his character sublime in his nature, he came home fuck as far as I'm an answer. rafita mohammedi, fortunately, is a man who even spent an evening with Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam imaginable Berger who spent 1000s of evenings with NaVi la Salaam. Then he came home and he said, Oh, my mother, would

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you give us some goat and Merck and said, No, we don't have anything. We don't have anything about that goat. It's too lean. Okay, no, you can milk it. try your luck. And then now Vla Salaam. She says this blessed man started milking it. And I say like can I use the car? No, there's no gas. No, it's alright I'll drive without petrol. Oh lucky brother. What is he is for enough F is finish other Iran.

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Oman is aloha Bella Hoda. And then we started milking and the vessel is Brahmin and then Nevis. Assam said drink, drink, drink. Have have as much as you want. And then the poet says it's so beautifully. It says go and ask a mama with her story. And listen if you get to the house, and oh mama bird is not there. You can even cause the goat the goat will tell you the story solu mangiarotti na na na na for inocle in this Lucia Tata Shadi fine na ko mizukami

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para maana lesson calima can be the owner can read kalama he wants to tell me how the parrot is reading kalama leave the parrot men leave the parrot and the parrot schema man we throw ourselves with these things Allah sugar Allah sugar all my pets Alhamdulillah

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my dogs all the time they don't bark

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what my brother What?

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One pellet reading Karima you down you through you sailing

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solo Uncharted Ah, we're in our in our for income into solo schottische ready. So Omar Ravi Alana's head and this they have so clean man. That's what Clint could openly praise. Omar was Omar, but he said Ali and green with envy for you for three and I'll die and Vinu for that three I say it straight Omar Ali I love you for three things in that you're way ahead of me. Today we cannot say that. That's your opinion. Others have a different opinion. Okay, we don't make the best of anyone. Allah knows the best. No my brother no my brother come and drop dead flesh it out. Um Yeah. sudo nano sala de como la la mia sudo nano. Salama como la hoomin fadli. Are they jealous because I gave

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my Navy so many wives. Are they jealous? What's the usual regional name? What's the issue for cada artina Ibrahim Al Kitab al hikmah?

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Vulcan Avi. nazima minebea is still coming down in the lineage of Ibrahim. So what's your issue? It's coming down in the same family.

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Ali, I am green with envy with you. Number one, the xo would you who fought the MA or the honor of getting married to Fatima Baba Cara Delano proposed NASA scientists remain silent. Then he told Omar I tried nothing. You go Amaro, the olana went silent. They said it's not coming to us. If I can get it, nobody else was getting

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So we settled up draft money now, man, you're a handsome man. You're a prominent man. You got wealth everything you try. Now for the olana when modest and bashful, then a leader the olana when the visit some said I've been waiting for you, I've been waiting for you early. My daughter Fatima is going nowhere else does Oh, would you hold it? Fatima? Ali. Allah has given me everything but I salute you. I like a view Fatima. Allah gave you Fatima hubba hubba any woman

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avani man ha ha ha ha bunny. Oh, whoever loves my Fatima loves me. She told us mobbin to amaze the wife of Java. with Java. He went to he went to a senior around Mohammed Abdullah born in the Union. Read your history my brother, my heart cries Today we are ignorant about the life of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. We know every other gadget and device if we are empty and devoid and beloved, it is on the CEO of Nebula is Salam.

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As mobbing domains, Fatima said a smile. I'm so worried when I pass away what's going to happen to me. I read the narration myself into Makati, Vanessa, as I said, Can I tell you something when I was with my husband, jaffery Nipa sr, I seen something very amazing. When a woman would pass away, then they would take twigs from a tree, they would create a little like a cot and then they would cover it. Fatima delana said displayed to me show it to me how they do it. So then she displayed it. Fatima said, Oh, this is lovely men. This was my concern. She called Ali Ali, I'm gonna pass away bury me by night and make the Scott like thing and cover me from the top. So it must be night also.

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And I must be covered like this. So it just adds to my concealment and my modesty and my height. And my dog my sister's Xena, her daughter, oh, Mama, I want you to get married to her after my demise. These were clean people. These were open people saved now here are the Alanna then honored all these requests. Fatima delana was buried by night. Fatima and that's the same principle that followed down that we cover. If you trace the history of this year, you would find it was something that as mapping they always the former the first wife of Jennifer because then she was married to abubaker and then she was married to alira delana. She was an amazing woman. She observed this practice in

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Kenya and it filtered down

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what they say? Ilana said lol adonia la casa de la casa Hey boo, ha ha. Mamata Ali Lou. are enough Deckard the Fatima the aftermath de la la la la la Oh, I Oh my word. I can just see things are coming on me one after the other. Because nearly Sam pastor in Fatima delana passed away in six months in six months I lost my baby and I lost my wife to great pillars. Now these are some last Abu Talib and Khadija in the span of one week.

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In a span of one week history refers to that as our Allah Allah dunya Allah La Casa de la it's just coming. It's just rushing on me. The challenges are just rushing on me. One after the other was our Hebrew her alma mater de la Lu, but that's life that's life. You just move on one after the other.

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In sun in naka de Haan Ella Baker aka de Haan formula ki Callaghan formula T. We're in the Fatima Ahmed de Luna Allah Allah Duma Li Lu, and the fact that I lost my Fatima months after I lost my interview is approved nobody's here to stay. Nobody is here to stay if I to bury in six months, Mohammed Abdullah, Allah has Salah terminology with this Lima and I had to bury and Fatima was 29 years of age, Fatima. She was the only one who lived after the demise of La Salam from all his six children. And what Ibrahim from Maria, Katia seven nebulae Salaam, buried six with his own hands. Now we are in some buried six with his own hands. Anyway, say now Omar said Oh, I just envy Lee

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because he has fought him out of the Atlanta or La Jolla yamatai bar in hayver. And Nevis assumes that I'm giving the banner to someone who loves Allah. And he's gonna be the Hadith is very long, and we all wanted it and it went to Ali Ali, I'm so happy for you. I'm so happy for you, man. I'm happy for you. You know, sometimes just be happy for others, my brother Just be happy for others you will be happy yourself. Be happy for others.

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Just congratulate others on the joy flush it out of your heart. Don't tie up and don't be restricted. You just die in that misery of yours. And the third thing is that he had close proximity to Masjid nabawi sallallahu wasallam and he had access which nobody else had. So these three things I envy and say that said now Omar said that that journey of Allah

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Becker in Hijrah, myself and my whole family till tiama can match it. Anyway, Alanna is going to try and wrap up Nana inshallah Abubakar the Alanna is gone for hijra

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and then a small the daughter asthma and Ayesha they didn't share a common mother This is a point of history we need to know or people don't know this leave these three I don't go into that my mind is running too much today

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inshallah and have our insha n a smarter The olana are sisters, but they don't share a common mother these are these effects we need to know you know he says yeah, he plays for this team. Wait wait wait wait I tell you the truth. Oh, now comes like a super authority on this guy. I tell you at what age he was first selected here. This was his first go Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, what what authority he runs the whole cause, like you know what, take a backseat. I'll give you the whole history.

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And then I was speaking on masa has been rubbish bin Faisal Kini. So youngster came to me say that's a hectic name, Alana. I say and how's it some of those Sri Lankan cricketers?

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Come on my brother. Come on my brother, my heart bleeds, my heart bleeds by brother.

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One is we are ignorant on the life of Nabeel a Salam. But then we so learned on everything else. I'm not saying being ignorant here. No, no, I promote. I advocate and I support the need. We need to enhance educate and empower ourselves. That's what our motto is. And we study research. Our revelation started with Accra read read read, but we know zero when it comes to our Deen. We don't know anything Messiah had been rubbing Faisal Kini said now Omar sent him to the Roman Emperor. The Roman Emperor honored him put him on the throne of gold he sat down not realizing he's sitting on gold while talking talking he looked he said the status of gold he got off

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so the Emperor said luminescent and has led a crumb knock you know people die to sit here and you get off it he said let them die by veto me I don't sit here now we will actually I realized in a meeting but was I profiles protocol was all you know what enterpreneurs and all that so bureaucracy formalities, I couldn't like really sneak out so I was like trying to think and uh, but you know what I mean? You need to do it in a decent way because you want to show Islam culture and respect. What my brother what my brother? You know, we run in men

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and we have 1000 other angles and dimensions and explanations and justifications human assault and how the lady Cumnock but why did you get off that's why number two members and certain goal so sorry to offend you but that's what my name is awesome. Told me so I just had to get off.

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So anyway, Abubakar, the alarm is in the journey of a giraffe I shine a smile I told you read them mums were different. Their mums were different. And that's the authentic opinion on the breakdown on asthma and an eyeshadow della both were generous people both were generous in their own way. So a smile was a young girl, a grandfather This is a house is a home my brother, this is where you are, you are manufacturing you are molding people. You are molding your children, you are making a generation.

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So my grandfather came home My grandfather was visually impaired. He was 83. My grandfather said hello Takahashi. In Arabic, he can mean wealth also and higher can mean virtue Also, we're in a holy hope Bill hydrilla shady man's love for wealth is intense. I know you say you look at him he loves money. What about you brother?

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When welcome into Medina said Naumann set alight, I want to say I don't love it. We all love it. I'm asking you let us use it in a manner that you love it

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straight, it was sincere. They were honest. There was nothing hypocritical there was nothing fake about them. There was nothing fake. Nobody says him came to visit Othman when masala when and as nobody says I'm knocked on the door nobody says and realize that he got him on the wrong moment. He was a bit private with his wife. So now he says him said lalana janak or we put you on the spot with man he is one of you will you put me on the spot but it's fine. No you're at your brother comes my brother in law again in the camera. Let's get an overview on a volume and

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if he always even when

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you're I hope I'm not to say no, not at all. No, not at all. We just sit here and doing anything. That's the hypocrisy in our life. The Quran says in the 18 Jews were in de la Nakamura Gero Farooqi, who

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were in de la Kumara Giroux Giroux, who is God. Listen, if you knock on the door, and the man tells you please can you go it's not a good time. Take it in your stride and go back. That is good for both of us. You're not invading him and he's having his time to what he needs to do.

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One So having said I went on knocking

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The doors of people with the hope someone turns me down so I can practice on this injunction but nobody turned me down.

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Today you cannot tell someone go back now look at him now now now you oh you know you know butchery you

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man is gone you know what is causing these prices now saffron saffron is going to expensive by appointment. Okay sorry No man Why do we live these lives my brother's open this is it Lana? Jana we put you on the spot yes on a viola I was realized he was having a private moment said nope that's fine on a beautiful ah but I was okay while you can ask your buddies quickly. Yeah, go for it. Man. Just clean the times were so easy savvy knocks on the door. It's written in medical Quran under the same law tada Hello boy Yo yo yo DICOM data stunning so what to sell him or Allah and Lena nebulae Salam Knox As salam o Alaikum.

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salaam aleikum, not the doorbell you know, bringing away Salam aleikum. Marhaba

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under IE.

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That's how it was.

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When he comes around a Santa Monica Monica Salaam, turns around just then he opens the door now vlsr to some community of Allah, I greeted as an AVI over if I had to reply your greeting in an audible way you wouldn't have invoked the mercy of Allah for the second time. The only reason I was discreet so you can keep on making Salaam so more descends on me.

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The autumn I have debated this hadith at length. It's an absolute authentic narration that he was motivated by passion. But of course that's not the right thing because then you in inadvertently now you know, Brooke shall come to the house knows that I need your drawers. But are you causing the cliff also, you know, balance the heck out but understand that can Eliyahu yetta persoon rasulillah the narration of Timothy that does believe is that your hood they used to stall a sneeze when they wanted to sneeze they used to run to the Vla Salaam so that when they sneeze then they'll get your hammock Allah from the Visalia Salah, but nobody says Mr. Sadako Allah, Allah guide you, Allah guide

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you. So they you know, bless you. They just wanted that bless you from the Vla Salam. So I mean, sneeze is not something you can hold. It's not something you can store. It's not easy, but they used to actually stole a sneeze to get the blessings of La Salatu was Salam.

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Our Deen is very beautiful. My brother our Deen is user friendly. Our Deen is pragmatic, just sera la sera Pasha Allah to nephila gomo as you people are going home and go go when you come back you won't meet me but see make things easy for people. Don't complicate it. Marie De La Jolla, la la caminhar. Raja, you read a long hoopy como Leo, can you read up como la Rosa? When does Allah say you read law who become a loser? When Allah ordains the injunction of fasting you think fasting is difficult in the discussion of us? Allah said Listen, I'm not here to make things who don't make it easy for you.

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You read all long ob como Leo stralla. You read ob como la sir? Well, it took me longer than what it took up bureau law. But yes, complete your days. If you're traveling or you're sick, then fast on other days. Let's get to this point. We don't move in here.

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So a smile The alarm on ha Abou kochava comes at three years old. We digress from there. But I believe these digressions are objective. Because in that day is motivation for me and for you, and that's the teachings of our Dean, my brother, whatever law puts, I just say, it's not that I planned it or calculate it, but it's all from Allah. So anyway,

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Abu hanifa comes home visually impaired, he asked his daughter using the Arabic phrase, granddaughter asthma, did your father leave behind any fail? could mean virtue could mean Well, he's the reference was wealth. So she says Tara kalenna Hi, Ron Kathy. Oh, oh, my father left behind a lot of a lot of

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Okay, let me feel the fire. So she takes some stones and pebbles, she puts it in a bag. This is when a house was a home. This is where you are manufacturing humans. This is where you are shaping the generations. This is where a dude, a girl knew her duty to her father and loyalty to the faith, at the same time sensitive to her grandfather who's not a Muslim, who cannot identify with the sanctity of this journey. He wants to know money. And the daughter could play the dual role. Look at the psychology of this girl. Look at the maturity of this girl. The world has become barren to produce woman of this caliber. Forgive me but that's the harsh reality and men alike.

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So she takes the pebbles she puts it in bags, and then she takes the hand of the old man

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makes him feel it and he perceives it to be coins he perceives it to be money. So he said taraka urine coffee or it's good to know his left behind a lot of money. A smarter the Alanna said by alarm my dad had not left behind a dime. My dad had not left behind a dime, but I had to play the dual role and balance the act. abou Johanna comes home. Where is your father? She says I don't know. Abuja has slept smarter the Atlanta physically assaulted. her earrings falls at a distance. She persevere. She manages the role. She's loyal. She's the very one preparing the food and sending it for the three days that Nabila Salam is in the cave of sold. And then she puts the food in her apron

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because there was no container. She splits the apron in half that Anita clean water roll this woman paid prepared food for my baby and her father in the journey of hedra. Her brother was taking the message and bringing the information he would go to the cave of Thor and then he would spend the night and before the flesh and the crack of dawn he would come back to Makkah, so the infidels would not get a hint that he is going outside. So to keep the anxiety at bed, and it was him taking the food she prepared the food. She played a mature role to her father, loyal to her grandfather faithful to the cause of Islam. She stood with her chest open when Abu Jamal came not to be

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intimidated by the physical abuse and assault of Abuja. These were our woman, and this is what will be made in our homes once upon a time.

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This is where generations were being molded.

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satana Ibrahim is gone? He comes home is smiling. A Salaam is gone. He knocks on the door with your husband. No, he's gone out to earn. hora de de la Buhari. Okay. How's life? Oh, it's tough man. Things are bad. Things are bad. Things are bad. Really? Okay, what we eat what you eat? No, nothing really. We're not even breaking even. Okay, when your husband comes on, give him my regards and tell him probably it's time to go to consider changing his doorstep. Maybe it's time he needs to change it. So when say tonight his smile comes home and who has submachine gun? Who Has he senses? Somebody came home? Yeah. Who da da da, da da da, old man. And then yeah, he just asked me about you. I said

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you're going out. And then so we live in? I said, No. It's tough times. Maybe not really achieving anything things are bad. And then what is that? He said, Now you must reconsider. Maybe it's time to change your doorstep. Okay, my wife. That was my dad. And that's Ibrahim Ali de la Abu ambia. And my dad's message is that I need to change my doorstep. I heard from one of my co stars and how profound or profound it left me thinking. Allah refers to Ibrahim in the Quran in a Bala Hema la Holleyman our one on one highly in hula Hoon Holly awhonn Cortez says 15 meanings of a word.

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Commonly soft hearted one who cries a lot. Allah says Ibrahim was a tolerant man he was a forbearance man. And now start said someone whose tolerance was sanctioned by Allah. Even his tolerance gave in when a woman was ungrateful.

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You say no, no, you reacted when you ungrateful? Am ungrateful. Allah said Ibrahim is tolerant. Allah said Ibrahim is tolerant. Allah said his forbearance, the very forbearance, Ibrahim said you know what, maybe it's time. I often say if men can become faithful and loyal, and give up a life of promiscuity, infidelity, disloyalty, immorality, and woman can become grateful 90% of the marriages are rescued.

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The biggest wreck of this earth is a broken home. The biggest wreck is a broken home.

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There's nothing left there's no structures left. It's just external in terms of joy, happiness, walk in there and feeling a sense of happiness and coming home to a place of second boo, comfort out of the window. And then say tonight you play him with someone else. And then it's my lesson I'm with someone else. And then Ibrahim comes again and he asked Where's your husband how to do better he has gone on to earn imagine the number of ally smile gone out to earn. corner to earn. I just spoke the other day about this wasting time gave a dedicated talk on this year. You know what we've lost the whole thing sleeping late hours getting up late, lazy start slow Monday, lazy Tuesday, relaxing

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Wednesday, taking it easy on Thursday. Thank God it's Friday. You know that restaurant in London. Thank God it's Friday. That's the name of the restaurant.

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111 dessert place we went

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in Birmingham, nice lovely place. The name of the desert is I'll have one of what she's having.

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That's that's the name of a desert. Can I have one of what she's having? But I'm alone My wife is not what

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can I have one of what she's having? Please?

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Thank God is Friday

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TGM TGI I'm sure you've seen those restaurants.

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Right. So what's left is nothing nothing. There's no no production said number one is to see people walking slow is to nudge them. You say no, then don't be so sluggish. Man your battery's dying walk

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her

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do rato Omar Khan Ahuja, boomin safey goon

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the dura to Omar, they said the work of Omar had a greater effect than the sorts of others

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you know when Amara villano heard about the sword of America madikeri some sama

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Amara madikeri everybody raving about your sword send me your sword. Let me look at it. So America madikeri sends a sword. So what did the who do know? Makana? Yes ma? So when he flashed it around he says now man there's nothing to write home about. It's alright. It's fine. It's good.

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So you wrote back to Ahmedabad mid career. People have been raving but I seen it's easy. It's nothing so great. So what did America madikeri said? path to be safe while I'm about beside Allah DeAndre Bay. Amara send you the sword. I didn't send you the hand that knows how to use it.

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I send you the sword. I didn't send you the hand. Allahu Akbar. So then say the night Ibrahim comes home his mind is gone out to work. Start your day early. My young boys sleep early. The one who sleeps late his life is in guaranteed destruction.

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Sleeping the other day one of my teachers was telling me his setting. He said he was speaking to one of these stars. And he said they were just talking about how people are speak sleeping for extended hours. You sleep late. You get up late. There's no night. There's no day. There's no weekday. There's no weekend. There's no burqa. There's no happiness. There's no joy. There's no good there's no discipline, there's no schedule. There's nothing. God no kalila mina Lamia john what Bill as the home minister of Iran, the owner of nucleus a Kanaka Lila Mina lay in this ayah every letter in every word indicates pilet Cano, khaleel min Lael ma yonder, everything is telling us they slept

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very little in the night and then they got up early.

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That is that is the life of a believer that is the life of a believer and you take a rest at midday. And at midday, it doesn't have to be sleep. If you just read rest. That is enough. Enough. Alistair aha Altai Lula Alistair aha worked as the hero Akuma who Noam,

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you mentioned in Shaolin, even if you just retired that's the practice and the teachings of Libyan Islam. Scientifically truck drivers who take arrests at midday and have siesta. They pose a less they are less hazardous on the road and they cause less problem on the road when they sleep. So let's end on that note say the night Brian comes back home Where's your son is going out to work is my email is salam, the greatness of Allah working? I'm the Barents that educating the youngster man and how long is going to carry him and no gumption in this generation? No gumption?

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How's things at home national fee? raha Oh, we are very happy we live a very very happy What do people eat? We have meat. What do you drink? We drink water.

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We drink water, or ishara delana was ours doesn't do this year.

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are usually the olana was ours. What didn't really send him love on she said unless we're done on to black things. That's a translation of the heritage. so damn. What is it? Alma? Tomorrow, Wilma, dates and water.

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Now linguistically, you're going to argue and rightfully so. Dates are black in color, but water is not. So how did maybe a salon or how did it shuffle the Atlanta say unless we're done? So the common answer the average answer the known answer is what we say taglib and taglib and ease where the name of one is dominated on the other. So for Sun and Moon you say Sham saying Pomeranian you say two sons but one is a son one is a moon for Margaret and Alicia you say Russia aim and there are multiple examples. But I heard an amazing explanation from

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manana. Saeed Ahmed hands up Mohammed Al Madani Rahim Allah under this Hadith, he said why refer to and this is a principle in

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In fetta intercede, you don't refer to metaphorical if literal is possible. This is a basic principle where you can give a literal translation you don't migrate to a metaphorical interpretation. You only go to a metaphorical interpretation when you cannot reconcile what literal it's a basic principle of Quran and Sunnah academic language basic, I hope you know what I'm saying here.

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woman can be happy, for whoever.

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Whoever is blind in this world will be blind in Astra. Now it doesn't mean literal, it doesn't mean literal because then so many Sahaba were blind.

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But rather it means the blindness of the heart. And I often say and I just mentioned it the other day in class, that if your gaze your physical gaze is blind but your heart is not blind, you can still see a lot and you feel sighted but your heart is blind you will see no truth.

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If you are physically deaf, my brother but your heart is not blocked, you will still hear a lot. But if you have yours and you have faculties, but your heart is blocked, you will hear nothing. And where do I support this from the Quran? Amina Khomeini's Tammy una la offended to smear or Soma Logan una de la Hello wamena Romanian guru la Manian guru la

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de la Romeo Hello cannula yoga soon Oh man, learn the Quran my brother connect yourself with the Quran. This is just amazing. It's beyond description.

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So what did he say last word on what is as well done he said why do we go to a metaphorical when literally take the word as we're done from Saudi Arabia pseudo Saudi a pseudo means to be a leader say it. When it comes to food dates is the leader when it comes to drink. Water is the leader.

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Allahu Akbar Allahu Akbar. Sir the year sudo in Arabic means to lead. They cannot be something more wholesome than dates. That's what we lived on as well. Don, what are you people eating lamb What are you drinking water barakallahu li ko May Allah bless you in what you have. The narration goes on while I'm yakun LABOUM yom even have been. This woman was just bold, courageous and grateful. And she said we eat in other words, there wasn't a grain in the house. But the house was a home. She was a contented mother. LaBelle turn. Now the phone will emerge atone a clean house with a well attired spouse with discipline children, Hiram middle Minh, a young female pursued a lie earlier. You come

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home to a hut and there are kids that are well dressed and your wife has given great morals and values and the house is discipline The man is earning halaal each one is not gripped and reverted in his device. That is a mini genette on this earth, my brother, we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to transform our houses into homes. We also love to make our home a center of happiness and joy, goodness and understanding a place where we can come and unwind and de stress and relax where I can charge my wife's battery she can energize me, the children can inspire the kids the parents can inspire each other and collectively we make a greater whole and we become more productive to the oma

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al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam O Allah Ashraf will be

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he will mursaleen se Deena wa molana Muhammad Ali he was happy in robina Tina cydonia Hi Santa Clara de hacer una joaquina

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Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik was a daughter Hannon Ouattara Hamada Habib una vaca Tina, Mohammed, Allah Allah He was happy he chameleon almost guy most loving most gracious Allah, my kind Allah we are living in very very turbulent times May Allah Allah we say to you our crisis because you have told us to speak to you not because you don't know about it, or abana in naka de la mano de la norlin you know what we conceal in you know what we verbalize a lot? A lot there's mayhem on this earth this anarchy on this earth. A lot of it is crisis in our homes there's no happiness there's no understanding or like give us the ability to get rid of anything and everything which is attracting

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your Roth in your curse in our house beat any form of pornography immoral, obscene objects, devices, material video, whatever it is, Allah gives us the ability to flesh it out of our homes and our systems Allah. Allah is men make us faithful and loyal make us obedient and and good partners and spouses and parents and children and sons alike you grant our woman folk the ability to be models to be dedicated to be to be great

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You make our children a lot of the coolness of our eyes a lot. Freedom from the scourge of drugs Allah free them from the scourge of intoxication, Allah, free them from the addiction of Allah of digital consumption of Allah. Let us use the knowledge that you have given us objectively and let us not abuse it Allah, Allah across the globe in many parts of the world crisis continue to rain on different people Allah Allah bullets continue to come Allah drones continue to come Allah, Allah this tyranny, this oppression and this lawlessness this mayhem, this poverty this penalty Allah but we know when we take solace that you've told us you watching the scene Allah you monitoring the

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scene Allah Allah Subhana Allah Hafiz Allah omaka Nora Boca coffee La la la la la, la la, la la Mancha, Nairobi, Kenya sia miyaza Bharat becoming Mr. Oliver Ratan. Phil Are you told us you didn't forget and you are not unmindful and you're not heedless. And you're given respect and you're given grace and you monitoring and you in charge Allah and nobody can ask you and you will ask everyone. What are your heart for aka Baja. And you don't feel how people interpret your decisions. We asked you a lot through your greatness in your mercy, your grandia and your supremacy over law, to allow peace to reign on this earth a law to allow goodness to come Allah give us good rulers make us good

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citizens Allah, Allah create in our hearts the dislike of sin vise and transgression Allah. Allah sin has paralyzed us it is named as it is destroyed as my Allah, Allah it has ripped us of all joy and happiness Allah, Allah you bless all the brothers that have converged and congregated all the well wishes Allah you take this Masjid and its institutions Allah from strength to strength Allah, Allah you guide and protect one and all those marriages that are going to discord and turbulence Allah through the blessings of this humble program and to whoever this message will reach out Allah you reconcile between the homes Allah you put mahabang understanding along Main Nana's Allah will

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