Forgotten Etiquettes #23 You Can Be Bitter Or Better

Sulaiman Moola

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Bismillah he was salatu salam ala Rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were bad. There is a profound proverb in the English language which goes as follows. Regardless of what people hurl towards you, you are surely responsible for the manner in which you retort, you can be better or better Subhan Allah Today we look at the verse of the Quran that gives us guidelines how to respond to someone who's hostile or uncouth or uncultured. Just 29 Chapter 73 Verse 10, Allah subhanho wa Taala addressing the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, was better Alhama your Kowloon on Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam bear patiently what they blurred what Jerome had urine Jamila

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and move on and leave the company in a polite and a dignified way. Undoubtedly, unfortunately, the most nasty things were said to the galaxy of Zambia. In chapter seven June 8, Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks about how the Nation of New Hala his Salam referred to know as deviant or the nation of who would refer to who the ally in Salam is insane. What was the response of both these prophets respectively? If somebody tells me you're a fool, what will I say to him? Go look in the mirror and you'll see a fool if somebody tells me something nasty, I'd say go say that to your family member. But Subhanallah see how measured and how calculated a prophet was? Yeah, told me laser beat Allah,

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Allah. Oh my nation, I am not deviant. Or call me laser be Safaga Oh my nation, I am not a straight and ironically, people who accuse the prophets or others of insanity, honestly speaking, when you look at their lives, they are probably the most insane individuals. What's the definition of insanity? Maniac Maluma Uluru who Marill me because he he someone who repeatedly indulges in something harmful, knowing the fact that it is harmful. A person by the name of the mod came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said that I heard you are insane and I can treat you and the prophets Allah ism was silent, calm and composed. And then he just said, are you done with what

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you needed to say? And he said, Yes. And then the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Alhamdulillah, he asked me to do a star, you know, he read some stanzas in the Arabic language. And this person said, I read Haverhill. Kalama repeat these words. This is the pinnacle of Excellency and the pinnacle of eloquence. And then he said, Hello, my yedek Give me your hand, and he took the shahada, my teacher had one sentence said to me, when a fool speaks to you Don't stoop so low to retort in a like manner. He has nothing to lose. And if you display that vulgar like him, you have everything to lose