Suhaib Webb – Settling The Cultural Clash Angel Jibrail Teaches Us

Suhaib Webb
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The speaker discusses the importance of dressing in culture, not just for personal gain. They also mention that clothing is not a bidah, but rather a way to protect oneself and the people around. The speaker emphasizes that dressing in wrong cultural ways is a harm for people and the community.
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When Angel Gabriel came to visit

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the community of the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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there's a very important lesson.

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And that was how was he dressed?

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Did he dress in a culture different than

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the people recognized?

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Did he dress in a in a culture

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that was foreign

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to the people of Medina, or did he

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wear the dress which was culturally appropriate for

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the people he was sent to? He would

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wear the dress which was culturally appropriate for

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the people that he was sent to. Therefore,

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Allah

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has commanded him to do that.

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In our dawah,

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there are times where we certainly need to

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wear thobes and turbans, and there are times

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where we need to display our honor as

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Muslims.

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But there's also nothing wrong

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with dressing like the people you reside amongst

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if the effort is to bring them close

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to Islam and you are not capitulating

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yourself to their authority. That's very important.

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It's not done out of shame,

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it's done out of being smart.

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Imam Ibn Taymiyyah was asked

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about dressing in the clothes of the non

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Muslims, if this falls under Tashabuh Bil Kufar,

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you know, emulating the disbelievers and so on.

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He said absolutely not.

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And he said for a number of reasons.

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Number 1 is you're gonna bring people closer

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to you. You're gonna create these relationships that

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you already have. Number 2, you're gonna protect

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yourself.

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When Sayyidina Umar ibn Khattab radiAllahu anhu went

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to Damascus,

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and he found Muawiyah

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and the people who had began to,

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join Muawiyah's ranks even at that time,

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that they were

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dressing in a very fancy way, a very,

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very kind of austere way.

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Imam al Qarafi and Warrboroke

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mentions

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that clothing

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is not a bidah.

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The way you dress is not an innovation.

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He mentions this narration. When Sayyidina Amr saw

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them, he said, I know you know that

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I don't like this,

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but I know you know your people a

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bit better than I do. So handle your

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people.

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Deal with your people.

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The people of sham at that time.

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So the point is if we look at

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the dawah in America, we have to be

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strategic. I remember one time I made a

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mistake. I gave a Khudbah and I mentioned

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this,

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in Masjid Dawah in Chicago.

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Masha'Allah, what a community, man.

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My brother came to me and said, Sheikh,

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if I start to wear the clothes that

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I wore before I was, you know, a

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Muslim and I get shot because I used

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to be in a gang. So the thobe

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and the turban are protecting me. Say amen,

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wear the thobe and turban.

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But there's other instances where where people have

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been told to dress in Pakistani cultural dress

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or in Malaysian cultural dress or in African

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cultural dress,

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and it has created more of a harm

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for them than a benefit

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within the realms of their family and their

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community

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and the people around them.

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So what falls under IBHA,

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permissibility,

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is largely left to your own personal decision.

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And when we see that Angel Gabriel is

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able to go into a place

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and not create no smoke man,

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right?

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And dress in the custom of the people

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because in general we say in

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Right?

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Customs

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customs and so on and so forth

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generally are considered permissible unless there is a

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text to show they are forbidden

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or a consensus.

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