15 – The life of the Prophet (SAW)

Faaik Gamieldien


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22 July 2012 – Ramadaan Sunday Lecture – The life of the Prophet (PBUH) – Part One

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hamdulillah hamdulillah anathema to understand you know when is the pharaoh who want to be here on a taco alley, when are also below him in Cerulean fusina on say at our Marina de la De La Hoya UT la tierra on a Chateau La ilaha illallah wa de la sharika wanna shadow Mohammed Abu rasuluh so the water Rama he was Allahu alayhi wa early he was happy Ramadan with that what he

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will have brothers and sisters in Islam Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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We thank Allah subhanaw taala for

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having kept us at least for nearly two days in the month of Ramadan, may Allah founder of keep us in sha Allah for the whole month of Ramadan, Allah give us thanks

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to see through the fast of Ramadan, and also May Allah increase our Eman and our levels of tequila in the month of Ramadan.

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And may we all become better persons, Muslims and human beings in sha Allah. May Allah forgive that we become the ASVAB

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for people coming into the fold and Dean of Islam Sharla

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obviously, there's nothing new that we can speak about in Islam Islam is being perfected by allows final data. So I've taken some of the study of the Navy SEAL a lot harder.

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And try to attach lessons for us that we may learn from the history of the Navy.

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And today, I'm going to start with the first week of the number one

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or Prophethood of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. After all, there is no better subject than two things to speak about. One is the Quran, and the other is the noble character of Muhammad Sallallahu.

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He was a humble man.

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But essentially, he was a good man.

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Even before he became a prophet, his most outstanding quality was that he was a man of good habits and a man of good manners.

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And I think that ultimately is the objective of Islam.

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And the objective of the coming of Mohammed Salah Lawson, after all, he said himself you know what to do with Tommy McCarthy Moloch you will say to himself, you sell yourself said I mean he will ask what is your vision? lesson so many ambia What is your mission? Oh Mohamed Salah Salam and he said My mission is to perfect good manners. What is simple mission? What a great mission.

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That was his mission. He said I was intimate to give people good manners and therefore he said you know the best that a parent can teach the child will teach the child good manners.

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And if we can only go back to that one quality of the Navy salsa, then one overriding quality, then we would have been through to the love that we express for him.

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And through to the love that you express for lost control. And through to the love that we express for this Deen it allows us

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the Remi sallallahu wasallam

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came with a unique message.

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A message that in its essence will transcend all the philosophies, the ideologies and the thoughts of men until the end of time.

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And that message is that

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no person is better than another person

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in Love is

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not in his lineage

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in who his mother and father was not in his wealth, knowing the color of his skin

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in the degree to which he is conscious of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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that is the mark of how far away or how close you are to a loss.

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How many times in the day you think about Allah.

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That is the mark. If you only measure yourself, ask yourself how many times do you think about a loss

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during the day

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for example, if you take Hulu

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Do you remember to say after you do a shadow La ilaha illAllah

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I'm thinking to myself, you can hear that thinking to myself, I'm saying five. Do you remember every time we take odo?

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But because I speak to myself, I try and remember, I make it a point of not forgetting.

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And I make it a more of a point now because I've heard the heartbeat of the Navy so solid wait.

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Was this an incentive? You see where there's an incentive? You tend to do things better? And my incentive is that the Navy himself said, that if you say I shadow Allah, Allah illallah wa and number handmaiden Abby Dora, just a shadow Allah, Allah illallah wa.

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After completing your Voodoo There are eight doors to general you can choose which door you want to integrate.

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So when I think about that, it means First of all, it supposes or presupposes that I will indigent

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and secondly, that I will enter Jannah by a door which I choose to be a lot of people at the one door, I can say, well, that door you know, that was empty. Nobody's going through that door. I will choose dental. Because remember, every minute counts. You know, the sooner you get into general sooner you get all the best stuff, let's say

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I'm not gonna say what base stuff but um, you know, what are the best things it comes to the person who goes in first.

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So, we need to have an incentive to be Muslim also. Because we weren't beings. We all the time need something new something to to ratchet up. The man in the taqwa. Alhamdulillah we have the month of Ramadan, we meet and we discuss and we think about a lot.

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So yeah, it wasn't me. So la sala man of

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matured men are 40 years old.

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Sitting in this cave, 10 days in every month, 10 days in every month, you still got a lot Hara you've been many of you.

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And 10 days of every month used to sit there.

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They totally did.

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Withdraw himself from the wilderness concept.

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And an amazing thing was that his wife had Eja.

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You know, we have this thing today about

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my time and your time.

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Because this is a new fad. amongst young couples, you have your time without me, and I have my time without you.

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You spend your time with your friends, and I spend my time with my friends.

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And eventually, they spend more time with their friends and they spend with each other.

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And eventually, of course, they spend time completely away from each other forever.

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Hurry, so to eat. Two days out of the 10 days used to go with an IV selasa.

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Why? Because she was interested to see what asmin was up to what was he doing in this case?

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He says he's going to play golf, or is he really going to play golf?

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He says he's going to play dominoes with his friend Joe is going Yes. But how will you know?

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You will never know unless you go with him. Or with her. She goes for coffee with girlfriends, they go for coffee.

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And then sometimes with are they go for coffee? It's what do they talk about when they go for coffee? That's more important for you to those hours. But

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I'm not going to go into that down that road. It's so long.

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But the important thing, the message is that

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husbands and wives need to know the interest of the other one. Very important. Otherwise what happens in life is

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you go on a certain

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road in your life and you leave your wife behind. Or your wife goes and she leaves you behind. I've seen this many times. Where did your wife No, she's New York. What are you doing? You know, she's dating a confidence thing. And what are you doing is sharing a guy's a problem or companies while he's traveling all over the world. She's going streets ahead of him. And poor men. He says it all the vice versa. The husband goes all over which is renewing for a conference in Sydney, Australia is gone to Makkah, you know with his friends. And what about you system? And what happens is

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there is a movement away from each other. So the first lesson we learned

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is that Khadija showed the women the way is to be with your husband and to take an interest in what the other is doing.

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With the business, whether it's academics, whatever it may be.

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I had a case many years ago

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of a man who was a she was very desperate. These are important issues. This men, this couple.

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This couple broke up.

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They come to me for many sessions of

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counseling and so forth and so on.

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The main reason that this pair is broke

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was because of my lectures here in this Masjid

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that I had, I think it was in the Thursday night.

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Can you make Can you believe

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that my lectures was a cause for talak?

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Crazy what How's that? How's it because this husband used to tell his wife that he comes here on a Thursday night.

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But she never used to come with him. She never until the baby got sick one Thursday night.

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And she came to the masjid with a brother who wishes to take the child to the hospital. And lo and behold, they waited outside after I die, and everybody came out of the masjid Illa

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Illa Xhosa except her husband.

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She didn't tell him she left. She came every Thursday for a month to the masjid after that. And lonely and it was never yet

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and of course the story went goes on I can't tell you the racist.

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But if it tells you something,

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it tells you something. Not to take things for granted. Don't be suspicious don't become paranoid. Don't say we have anybody with my wife. No, no, no, no, no is my husband but it's important that you live your life together. So here's Mohammed Salah Salah is in the cave, simple men straightforward men ordinary men and men who was in Medina he was the Prophet allows vandelay went into the marketplace and used to buy from this man regularly. And when he came to see the man kissed his hand

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you know sometimes from those people

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through withdrawal mind, but sometimes these already made up his mind is gonna kiss mine. So you know, by the time I realized what he's doing is already this man. But anyway, the Prophet came to the marketplace, the man to design and the man wanted to kiss his love, he pulled his hand away.

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this is the practice of the listen to weather and obesity. Let me say to him, this is the practice of the Persians were the kings.

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The Persians kiss the hands of the kings. I am neither a king nor you are Persian.

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In other words, Nafisa Salam took that act and put it in its place where it belongs. He said, This is what those people do to the kings.

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Now that you are Persian, so why are you doing this? I am a Muslim, I'm a prophet of Allah subhanaw taala. And you are a Muslim. This doesn't belong in Medina doesn't belong in, in Islam. Of course, there are things you can kiss the end of your father,

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kiss the end of your mother, is the end of your uncle kissed and have your teacher

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but just to kiss the hand of a man because you think he's some kind of a king or something. It is not allowed in Islam. So here was Mohammed salam, simple man.

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gibril came to him,

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gave him the water, you know what happened?

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And all the time what was going through the mind of the Narcissus? And what is happening to be?

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What is this happened to me Who is this beautiful personality who came to me? In fact, he says he thought it was a gene that came because after he had no idea at all

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about gibreel about revelation.

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And he started sweating and he started shivering. And of course you know what happened to the marine he said, I can't read and given the first verses of the Quran, Arabic Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah May Allah, this must have been what's quite strange to this. Non literate men, not illiterate non literate men who couldn't read nor write. Somebody came to him and tell him read. Read in the name of your Lord who created created men from Allah

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Cora bucola crossbreed

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and honor your Lord.

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What is this?

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It's like me coming in and reciting Shakespeare to you. And you've never heard of Shakespeare. And I read some sonnets of sexuality. I think I'm crazy, or you don't understand what I'm saying. So he goes in he runs, and he gets to the house of Khadija. And he said to her zombie loonies and Milan it was he was cool. He was he was shivering have more frightened in the house, and she said, cover me come.

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Now Nagisa Sal Ahmed, very good friend, Ababa. And he has another very good friend, his uncle Abu Talib. They were just they were, they were real buddies. They were very, very close. partners on grew up in his house after his father's mother died.

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He didn't go tobacco. Neither did he go to his uncle embleton. He went straight to his wife Khadija.

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Who is this lady

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First of all,

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we read in the hadith of Bokhari

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that jabril one day came and say to the navies and set up in the local Luca Salah.

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That one day when gibril came and said O Messenger of Allah, Allah says, Allah and Allah, Allah says to you, to give Salah to her eternity.

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So the proper way to her, can you imagine?

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angel comes through the seven heavens

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to give some love to your wife.

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Can you imagine the status of this lady's hand Allah

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and God and she responded, what did she say? She responded, what did she say? She said,

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Allah wa Salaam.

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woman who Salah

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Wa La Salah.

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She said, allies peace, from him comes peace and to him returns or peace. Hello.

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What's up everyone allergy began she said salam o jabril Elisa. So this is the status the only woman in the history of men were sent Salah from Allah subhanaw taala by gibreel to her, only three people got this four people.

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Mohamed Salah, Khadija

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abubaker and a Buddha

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when the when the Salam came to Abu Bakr as Siddiq Raja clan.

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I'm not gonna go it's gonna take too long to do this. So let me come back to her deja de la tierra. So this was the first first outstanding

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divine message that came to her as a woman.

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She was she was

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she was 40 years old. He was 25.

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She was previously twice married.

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The first husband passed away.

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The second husband, she divorced because they were incompatible.

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She had three children from this from these two husbands.

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So and then she

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gave her time to look after her children. She came from a luxurious background, very rich background. My father was a very rich trader. And she inherited because she was only charging she edited his own Empire.

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So she was like, one of the great merchants of MK and she employed many people including Mohamed Salah Lada.

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And of course, as you know the story he went to Syria and he met the monk and a monk and he stepped under the tree and the monk said to to me, Sarah,

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the slaves are Khadija said with him say to him, this man that came with you Who is he? And he's what he's known as El amin, and he's just a trader, he works for my for my boss Khadija and my son has ended in a store I said to my Sarah, tell the people of Makkah, this man is going to be a prophet.

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And he said, How do you know? He said, because only prophets live under this tree that is written in the Torah.

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So when may Sarah came back to my to my to Makkah, and related these stories to Harish Rajaratnam

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She was not interested in Mohammed before that. Then she became interested. And she thought about marriage. And she thought about proposing to him, but she thought, Well, I'm 40. He's only 25 is a young man. He's never been married, you'll never accept.

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And of course, she spoke to a friend and said, You know, I want to get married. I want to ask this young man. But you know, how am I going to do that? And one of our friends went to Navy. Solomon said, there's a lady interested in a very beautiful lady, very rich lady. She wants to marry you. Would you marry her? And he says,

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I can't get married. So the lady asked Why? He said, because I could no money to support a wife. I'm gonna support what I can't support.

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She said, but this lady so rich, she will support you and no problem. She said, Well, if she says, Yeah, and he said, who isn't? And she said, her age and he said, Well, if she's prepared to marry me like this, then I will accept.

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And the two people who went to take the proposal was his uncle Abu Talib and his other uncle Hamza. Hamza was killed at bad luck out in Abu Talib. Of course, as you know, he's got a long history with an emphasis on the marriage was clinched. And Mashallah, it was a marriage that lasted for nearly 25 years, over 24 years. So those people who say that will have loved women. You know, the West is fond of saying that, oh, Mohammed was a womanizer.

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So many wives nine wives Subhan Allah know, history tells us a different story history tells a young man of 25 will makeover in 15 years he senior

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who was twice married before,

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and he never met another woman while he was married to her,

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was married to her alone for the whole period until she died at the age of 65.

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So Pinilla so this was Mohammed Salah Islam, he had six children with her six half a dozen children. First was passage.

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Then Abdullah

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was also called Taha

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and four daughters, Xena

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there okay.

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The last one was Uncle quadrotors.

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All his children pre deceased him except one.

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All his children died during his lifetime on casole Xena

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and rokeya only thing only one who died after six months after him was Fatima Raja colada and is of course and yet another son by Maria Curtis other wife Ibrahim was his name is Ibrahim Kasim Abdullah all three of them died in infancy all three of them died small

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and of course when all the sons died the courage was very happy and they said whoa look at this man you know prophet of Allah he's got no sons you know he's gonna die nobody's gonna remember him. You know his name is gonna go into the dust you know? So allows found that revealed in our Calico. Oh, Mohamed Salah, because he was very sad when they you know, in Arab society we don't have a son.

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Tonight you know, something against your character.

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So we used to go on and on and

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and anger dinner be sauce Allah and Allah revealed to have in the alpha inna qualcosa Oh Bahamas so we are going to give you a river in paradise for suddenly Rebecca.

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So make your Salah and sacrifice for the sake of Allah. In nutshell me, aka avatar. Hello, says Obama says hello, those people who angered you, those people who dislike you, their names will come to an end. But your name will continue in this dunya in India.

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And so we say every time

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a lahoma suddenly was suddenly barbaric and

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we put a lot of money all the time. The world remembers him despite the fact that he had no mo progeny that he lives behind. That is the greatness in the glory of Mohammed Salah Lawson. So

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one day the Navy Salah drew a phone, he drew four lines in the sand. And he's told us

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that Do you know what I'm drawing these four lines in the sand? And they said no. And he said, I'm drawing these four lines in the sand to tell you about the great women that allows for happiness into the four great women that allows fatherhood center

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Look for great women to be the role models of women of the world. First was hurry Jamie hoilett.

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Over we spoke about. The second one was say that Anna Maria,

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the mother of Lisa, Lisa to salon

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said was

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the wife of around for having taken the Moosa in and looked after him until he became a grown man, and was the first to accept Islam as was preached by musasa.

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And the fourth one, Fatima, minty Mohammed salatu salam, she is going to be saying that they

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Queen of the ladies of gender. So these are the four role models of ladies and it's important for women to read the histories of these four women, the shoulder strap, which I got went through, and how allows handled evil rewarded.

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So he went to her.

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And she said to Mr. lochia, Yami, look at your dressing. When she looked at him, she said, What's wrong? My cousin called me a cousin. What's wrong? My cousin? Maybe that was a term of endearment in the army. You know, Abraham in Santa mountain. What's wrong with someone? He said to a hospital? And he says I'm afraid of I'm afraid of myself. I'm afraid. She says Why are you afraid?

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This is I just feel afraid. And he related to what happened in the cave. And what did you say to him?

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She said, Kola will lie a lie of Zika. Low avida. She said, Don't worry, Allah will never forsake you. Don't Don't be Don't be putting Allah in Natasa right and to give the reasons why she said, Allah will not desert you because you are a man who keep family ties. You love your family, to tamela, cook alcohol. You look after the

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weak, you are a defender of the week, a champion of the week, what exible motto, you are a champion of the poor, you love the poor, what taquito life and you honor your guest. What are you know, Allah, Allah, He said to him, you support the truth wherever you find it.

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It was a

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lover of his family, love of the poor, lover of the downtrodden.

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honor these guest. These all good men is nothing less but good manners, and support those who speak the truth and stand for the truth. So Allah, why would

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one want to live in desert you? He started settling down.

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So it's important then the message here is an important message for women, the important message for wives and what is the message that we get here from Khadija Rajaratnam? First of all, when her husband came to her, she didn't tell him, like, I don't listen to you. Now, you know, first relax about sleep, you know, here's a cup of tea, you know, take a rest, take to canados maybe you could, you know, have us do something and come back and you could talk to me later. Immediately, she sat down with him. And she gave him sticks. She reassured him. She told him how good he was, what a kind person he was. She listened because he made my view of the world Don't listen to him. He's gonna go

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somewhere else when somebody listens to him. Because many times when people when people when marriages break up, you're asked the wife, you know, now Why did you do this? She says, Well, you know, he would never had a problem. And I used to phone him used to listen to me, maybe two hours and hours I spoke to him. Never. Oh, he would say I just friend. And she always used to talk to her talk to her for hours. He never said no, no, she never did this. And she never did that. So it's important in marriage, also that the parties listen to each other

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and help each other and women must understand. Sometimes they don't really understand that they have a tremendous influence over their husbands, your husband or wife, he will never say but really, Khadija knew it and the Navy says that our wife has a tremendous influence on the husband's thought, his behavior, everything. So it's a high wives duty then

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to raise the husband's office if and vice versa and to listen.

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And last as I said before,

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to reiterate his qualities

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and the best qualities that you can lift thinking that there must be one or two qualities as well it is good to endomorph is the qualities of character, noble character. And that is why there are five hobbies which I've taken out which talks with me So Sam talks about good manners and good character. First and

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So Sam said Calma youdao filmyzilla and elap Yamaha piano

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and as a cost money it doesn't cost money. So Sam said the heaviest thing you might think the heaviest thing on the schedule be what?

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My Salah or my Sokka Oh my head No, let me say Salaam says the heaviest thing that will weigh on the scale on the day of judgment will be hostile good manners

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good character, good manners to have good manners. I said I mostly mean Islam and accent

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wa sallam said the best Muslim

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is us good manners.

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Oxfam including NASA agenda kokkola what will make many people intergender is good character and Taka God consciousness. Number four, acaba, Kamini, muddly Sanyo malkia ma RC Newcombe

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those who are set the closest to me in general,

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every order said, closer than me said those who are closest to me, are those of you have good manners, good character. And finally, maybe Sam said, I have become Elijah, yo, Malcolm X. And

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the most beloved of you, to me, on the day of judgment will be those who displays good character

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and good manners, simple manners, that simple things.

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Simple things like when one night

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all my dreamt I've given this to before a dreamt that he was in Jannah. And he jabril showed him a the most beautiful is Paris in the agenda.

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And as you will, in his dream, he said for Who is this Paris? And he said this is for the man who greets first.

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This is what a Muslim who says well Assalamualaikum

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so when he woke up the next morning,

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he made one decision. He said to himself, I want Abu Bakr to get this palace.

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Look at that unselfishness of the Sahaba I would have said, Oh, you know last night I dreamed I was in Ghana and I saw this because I want to go into that Paris myself do anybody else I want to be

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looking at love. Look at the love that the Sahaba look at the love even if their dreams. They loved it so much. He said no, no, I want to go back and so the next morning he made aboubaker. So of course for the person to get that palace he has to greet first. Amara was much younger than America and normally when they used to meet Abu Bakr Amara to say first Assalamualaikum Baba, but this morning, he kept quiet. He didn't say me. So

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what did I do to honor today?

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greeting. So of course he will say to that Ibiza, Sam said Yasser Allah. I met Omar he didn't greet me, please call him and ask him what I did. So proof of a call or pseudo My wife is very upset.

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So I must well he said he related the dream and he said no, he says I love this one I draped and I wanted him to greet me first so that Allah would give him a policy. Look at this. Look at the Character panel. Look at the unselfishness of Sahaba lives.

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So Ramadan then is an opportunity for us to be able to develop this kind of

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this kind of goodness

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and therefore then every time someone says about Ramadan for you, they're gonna yo sobia had to go pelajar food

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for inkaterra osafo polyalkylene.

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And when the time of Ramadan comes, do not utter words that will hurt somebody. Do not swear do not use ugly words in the month of Ramadan. If somebody wants to fight with you, if somebody insults you just say to the person I'm fasting, I'm

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so tired.

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So look at Khadija spacey the month look at honey just fine. She wasn't a Muslim. You look at the faith in Allah. She wasn't Muslim yet at the time. What preceded her what preceded Islam,

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the good character and the good parents. Now the Prophet was totally at ease. And what did you do next?

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Also, something which we have lost.

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I see it every day. And it's a great loss to Muslims. It leads to many disasters.

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And it's something we need to bring back into our lives. She said to the number seven dial Nestor she

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She said it is good consult my uncle.

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And this is something which we've lost. We don't consult anymore

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My brother's daughter gets married I only hear about the marriage after they put into the invitations

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somebody happens something happens a family

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so you meet you say was he was it was he getting ready to so and so?

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He says

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no I think you'll come and talk to me Why don't you ask why don't you consult Why don't you

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dare to lie because LSU in lavaca right to me to me is impossible not even visa Salah could come and do anything about that. about that. Why? Because formerly before in my father he's he's to sit down these two consulting somebody is coming here for my daughter come to the girl Come to the grandfather and say you know, what do you think you know? Today we don't do that. And so many grades come from everything. It's always good to ask an opinion you want to buy a cup of tea was my money who knows my car I'm buying it you know I like this kind of car you

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go to mechanical go to somebody and say I want to buy this car I want to buy this house in this area. You know go to architects don't buy a house like this. Don't buy a south facing house don't buy an office. So much advice you could give. But what do we do?

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We really great always after Sally and I should have

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asked her you know, only you know, I'm also like, let's just do things we shouldn't we shouldn't we should always be Alyssa Salaam never did anything he was the Prophet of Allah never did anything only except when he consulted his companions.

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Only after consultation you will do something even better, you will go into better unless he first consult with the Sahaba at a Masatoshi Wanaka Emily novella uncle was 90 years old, over 90 so he was blind is a blind old man.

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But he used to read the Bible in the Torah. That was his job. He was one of the one of I have never worshipped the idols. He believed in the prophethood of ERISA and Musa alima Salatu was

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so the Prophet related to him the encounter.

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And four things he said wasn't a resource for things he said. He said number one, will have enough CBD in the calendar be a citizen, the BU How do you say first without flinching? You said, You, I swear by Allah that you will be the Nabi of the last time of this time, and you will be the Navy of this,

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of this nation. Number two lachat attacca nemos Alavi at Amazon and the same angel that came to mouza s come to you. And thirdly, we're in a coma.

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You can the moon aka well, you know NACA, NACA or your partner. And he said four things will happen to you. First, your people will belie you, they will say you're telling lies.

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Number two, they will harm you. Number three, they will expel you. And number four, they will fight you.

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Pee was shocked.

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He was he was a soft man. He was. I mean, everybody loved him in Makkah. He was beloved of everybody. Even Abu Jamal when he was born, slaughter the sheep.

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Because he was such a beautiful baby and he was there brother, son and someone saw me Sam said

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are you really truly efficient? What do you think they're gonna change me from? Yes, no man has come with that message like you have come with, except that he was expelled from the town with a

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message of La ilaha illAllah Muhammadan rasul Allah. And then finally he said, Layton, he akuna fear Giada. If

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he said, I wish

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that I would be a young man, the day that your people expel you from

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in New York, he said, and if they should come, and I would be a young man also cannot run.

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Well, what Zahra said, if that day should come that your people will expel you from MCI, I'm a young man, because you would never be the

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guy shortly after this. He said

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I will support you, I will stand by you, I will give you the victory that you deserve.

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And as they left the call Khadija and he said to her deja colouful Yes,

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he must stand firm, he must be mustn't give into his enemies.

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These words of, of this great men work and it is almost as if Allah kept him alive until that time

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to give this message to the Navy, to connect him to the message of Moosa nerissa, la Masada Islam, I think also the reason is it allows Abdullah was going to make a connection between Christianity and Islam.

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This connection will remain

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because most people who become Muslim or Christian

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and the connection

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with Christianity is the connection between Asia and Mohammed Salah Losey, both prophets of Allah was panel.

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So a revolution started.

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The revolution of Islam came to the world, Islam, Islam was an evolution.

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We only realize it now.

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The time when we win this game to even realize, I mean, the First World War, the Second World War, during the time of the First World War, and during the time of the Second World War, people didn't know they were going through a second world war in the First World War.

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Only years later, when these stories read the story of the Nazis and the Japanese, and then they realized, oh, there was a big war that went on. There was a big war, the first there's a big war, the Second World War, simply today, we lived through the whatsover harristown of Iraq. We have seen the revolutions in Egypt, we have seen revolutions into this year. All these places, we see what's happening in Syria. In 20 years time, people will say, you know, that was the third world already the Fourth World War in the 21st century, that we were totally unaware of.

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And similarly, when Mohammed Salim came, that revolution became a revolution only years later, when Islam became strong.

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what would be the reward you think of this man? Work? I've

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never said

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one evening Oh, for you by 2pm.

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Every since I've said what I have, you know, for will rise on the day of judgment as a nation.

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How is it what what does it mean? What is it what is a salami? It meant he will get the reward of the whole nation of islam.

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Why? He did nothing. Why, because of the one sentence that he said, You said of Humberto Salaam, later in an akuna muck, I wish I would be with you a young man the day your people expel you from Makkah, so that I can be there to support you.

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He wasn't always in danger was so sincere when he said that the whole of the Nation of Islam, good deeds, we'll come on to the scale.

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So never ever shy away from supporting the truth and supporting the good. wherever it may be. Never mind again to these wells, in your family, amongst your friends in your community. I always say sincerely,

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never be offensive.

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I mean, what I would have said, you know, I'm a Christian, I'm a Jew. You know, I don't know what's gonna happen to Muhammad, you know, I can tell you this and bad things are gonna come your way, you know, you know, these people are gonna try and kill you and they're gonna do this to you. And they're going to do that. No, no, no.

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You said I will be there to support.

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I will stand by you don't want. Of course he died.

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The next day jabril came again. This time jabril appeared between heaven.

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And jabrill now came as a teacher.

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First he came as a bringer of Revelation. The second time he came he came as a teacher. And that's why being a teacher is so important in Islam. Why did he come to teach Islam? He came to teach and emphasis on two things. One, how to take odo and second out of axilla

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so even the Navy SEAL allows me the age of 40 we may think oh you know I'm 40 I can't do not to think we'll do a max Allah not gonna. I'm too shy. To get myself a deep neural net visa Salam was in the teacher allows me to teach him how to take hoodoo teach about the maxilla

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he was commanded that that I've done like two records in the morning.

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enterococci this was before the five Salas became two rockets in the morning and took us in the evening, played himself with his family with Khadija and address of the family.

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And therefore Salah becomes the foundation of Salah to imagine

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this is the first instruction given bellows, Hong Kong becomes the foundation therefore somebody who leaves a Salah, it is as if he's breaking down the foundations of his house. So eventually of course, his house will collapse. If you take out the foundation underneath the house will collapse on top of you. So even leaves the Salah

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breaks down his foundations have his own house. That's why the ladies are upset. There are many sins that men commits, but there are two sins

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which is the heaviest heaviest on the day of piano. One is to leave the Salah.

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Secondly, to be disobedient to your parents.

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waka Dora buka Allah taboo Illa or bill validator. Therefore in the Quran,

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allows counselor in the same vs wa tada Arabic Allah taboo the worship is none for none but Allah and immediately Bobby's validated

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and kindness to your parents. So the worship of Allah is on the same level as kindness to pay

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for those of you have parents Mashallah great opportunity to go the agenda and for those who don't have parents another great opportunity to go to gentlemen to make to offer them and to give charity on the behalf of Isa Salaam said with tackle gender Salah the key of gentlemen Paradise is Salah, and the knower of men the light of a believer is Salah.

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So now

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that'd be way too

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cheap video came again

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three suris

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was Amelia resemble Camilla illa kalila and as well I mean cosmin vokalia ozy de la hora

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de la sala at night.

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This was the command first command after reading was what to make Salah at night. This is the strength of a believer number two that

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Yeah, you have a

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co founder? What

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was the yamaka Fatah worried stir?

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Listen to the commands these are very important commands what are the first commands of Allah?

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Solid night? What's the second command?

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Oh you wrapped in a cloak

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over under this directory about sitting and doing nothing? No No. Go Mama diamas rise you must move What must you do?

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warra buka come

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on no your Lord glorify allows

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number two

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clean your clothes.

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Wear clean clothes was the year Bhagavata

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that's why it's so important. Well rude stuff Oh, come on, stay away from idols.

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Worship only Allah stay away from their idols. And the last one, so it was first was then was thumbnail then but

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anybody remember?

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What was the what was the next one? The fact

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the father

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was then revealed to the Navy

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as the Manage or the methodology. In brief, this was the abridged version of the whole Cora

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allows father gave him the abridged version of the Koran, and about the fact that hallows pongola says

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inadequacy allows organizations to the Navy's Isola cause some to salata, benei ouabain Abdi Ali Abdi masa evisa, Allah says, Obama says Allah, I have divided Salah between me and my servant

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in two parts.

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One part is for me and the other part is for him and what he asks of me I will give to him.

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When my sermon says Alhamdulillah hero belagavi allowances when the service sentence Allah and he says, Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen Allah responds.

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So sometimes I think you

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we don't have enough passion when we make Salah.

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When you send in salah and yourself

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you should be conscious that Allah actually is when you sell hamdulillah Allah respond Allah says hamadani Abdi Oh, he says to the angels, oh, my seven praises me

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Rahmani Raheem that allows founder responds and says, Oh my angels, Madani Abdi,

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all my angels, my seven is honoring me, Maliki ob Dean, when we say madikeri, Allah says, Oh, look at myself and

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he is giving his own life over to me on the Day of Judgment. He says, I'm the king of the

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ear canal, where you're gonna stay in when we say, ear canal would what you're gonna stay in, allows bahala says to the angels,

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my seven asked me and what he asked, I will give you

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every time you say a verse of the Father, Allah is that when you say, as I said the other day, in every movement of the Salah, we say Allah, but except one room.

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Every movement you make,

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you say Allah, Allah except when you come up from the ruku you say, Sammy, Allah will leave and hamidah

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Why only index single movement no other movement?

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Because and we What do we say what you do people say behind Mr. Rob Bana laka what a semi Allah Allah, Mohammed amin, Allah yours, the one who praises him.

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So Allah is listening.

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The mom says, Allah yours, the one who praises him.

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And then the mythology behind the mob says, Rob banner.

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Oh, my lord.

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To you belong all praise.

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And Allah will say me, accepted

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by but why do we say semi ultimate habanero Allah. Because when you come up from the ruku, as I said this in the Juma You are the only being that Allah created that could stand on two feet straight up.

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Start at the kitchen.

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And the message there is for you as a human being not to be subservient to anyone except to our laws.

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That you're the only when you do that for is along.

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And this you stay in front of the studio, like this, you stand in front of the dunya.

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When you face the when you stand up, say when you face a lot,

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you can do that. But with men, in other words, you're not subservient to anyone except

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you bow down to none except to a loss.

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And as I said, That's why when the army went to Persia, and the king called the Muslim better meeting the king called the leader of the Muslim army and said, Why are you here? Why Why are you going to fight us? What do we do to you why, why are you You said I have come from a prophet who told us

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that allows for how can I send him leverage and Ursa mini I burger, Larry Bird Illa Ibaraki.

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I come from a man Mohammed Salim who came with a message. And you came with a mission to take men from the worship of men to the worship of the lord of

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submission purposes. That is why if you submit to the load event and stop your people from worshipping you, we will not fight you.

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But if you continue to let people worship You, we have no other choice.

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So that is the Salah. And the fact you have is an encapsulation of the methodology.

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how we should live. How would you praise

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them for 60 days? No revelation came

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two months

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away, didn't come

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along for revelation.

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He thought what's wrong OLED displays with me. You know what is happening Of course, the time was to give the notice or Salama time to reflect

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on the IAF which Allah

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The tune on jabril came back

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any vehicle that is salam, the surah, of

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which you

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want to HA

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HA, HA means the light, the light, the light has come back to promises and that is where the Koran allows Muhammad Allah says the Quran is light. I mean to be live or surely one noon, under the agenda, Allah, Allah says believe in Allah and His Prophet and the light that came to

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the light that came to the world. well lately either Sasha Allah says, I swear by the light some people say by the morning light, because it's the practice like Allah says, while

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while daily the Sangha, Allah says by the morning light, and by the light as in being stillness,

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beautiful all described my word doc or Buccola y'all know that God forsaken you

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and your Lord is not angry with you.

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una and video Mohamed Salah, what I prepared for you for the ACA is better than what is in this world.

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Well, so far you all take care of bukata and inshallah we will give to you one day. What you deserve, your Lord will give to you and what you will be pleased with. I love your agenda team and pharma policies. Obama did not we did we find did we not find your office?

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And who gave you a second and we gave you a hope? While Jessica dawn and Fado. Did we not find you seeking for the truth and we guided you father

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what was the other guy did we not find you poor and we provided for you

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for Amalia tema for Latin, one masala for Latin, her

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Arabic of three things you must do, do not repel the often.

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Well, I must say ILA and the person who asked you for something for Latin

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don't say bad words to a person or asking for something. If you don't have anything to give him at least give him a slant say sorry man. I don't have anything to give you

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will be now Matthew Rob, because

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ever Allah has given you something good, something that you can share it share it

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or keep it to yourself.

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So this was the

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revelation which came with Nevis at that time within the first three months of the why.

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What did an Ibiza Salam do? Last part of the lecture inshallah.

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For two years after that NASA made a program, he decided he was going to choose young men and young women to assist him with this.

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When this job which allows wasn't given to him.

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First he approached Abu Bakar syndicat de la

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vaca. Siddiq

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was a successful businessman. He was 36 years of age.

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He wasn't he told him about the revolution. He accepted immediately.

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No questions asked. He was the only man

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in the history of the first bend. Let's enter Islam without asking any questions. Why what? No, no, no.

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the second one,

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that approach and ERISA was Alli

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and he loved it out of the Navy sasana was Navy six children with alija house in Makkah, he was a liberal.

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And he has an IV reading the Quran. And he came to see Dr. Salah he said, Uncle Mama told me

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his cousin of course. He said, What is this? You really say this is a revelation. There is a certain pseudo Ali, accept Islam become a Muslim.

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And is typical of 10 years.

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The visa is he didn't say yes. He said,

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He said, leave me out. Think about this first.

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Think about this. So pianola that was Ollie.

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Remember, no, no, no, no. Then Centennial Boise very skeptical.

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So he came to him and said, a faculty rally you've taught me you know, what are

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was thinking about any case, but you know, boys just want to think, what was he going to think about? What does he do? Next? He went in, but just because you want to show like, you know, you're, you know, he's a man you know, contract company to do things you know because I live in your house next to him. Yes I have a passion to Allah Allah.

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She was the first boy first child before he became Bailiff to accept Islam. And abubaker, of course, was the first thing.

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And Ali was the first man young boy to make Salah with an OB salallahu alayhi salatu salam. So we see how Allah subhanho wa Taala inspired

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the people who became the closest companions, right from the beginning, they were chosen. And one of the masterful things of Abu Bakar was that within one week of becoming a Muslim, he converted six people to Islam,

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of the greatest names and all the six people that he brought into Islam, were all people older than me. So a lot of Solomon had

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given the glad tidings of gender while they were still on the eve of the ashram, a Bashara of the time people will go the agenda, knowing they will go to General madonia, six of them have a bucket converted in the first week.

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Can you imagine in the first week, just for those five is humorous, you can but it takes people to Islam. In a city where idol worship was the in thing it was the thing that is part of the community is what the is what they call the data's mainstream.

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Today we talk about mainstream Islam, that time that mainstream worship of belief was what was happening I was nice. I mean, you went around with your with your other women in the city all naked on the carpet, you want something better than

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Oh, to go take the clothes off because they say we can't walk around the cabin with clothes on Why not?

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Because closes dirty and closer. Didn't know what money we buy from. So when we stand in front of Allah do take the clothes off.

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That was the mainstream and these peoples of heinola. They came to the site of Mohamed Salah wasallam. So that allows one to give that we the lessons we learned today is the lessons for the ladies,

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is to socialize with your husband, be with your husband, company, husband, maybe you go No, he goes, live a nuisance.

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But don't

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live a life separate from your husband. And husband could live a life separate from the way they should be 80% of the time you should spend together, maybe 20% of the time.

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husband should speak to their wives first. Share with your wife don't come on one day and your wife says

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you know somebody for me today but you never told me.

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You never told me that and you never told me this and you never told me that. Know that you wouldn't be in a household. Thirdly, Rebecca Salam teaches us that this Deen of Islam will go forward on the backs of young people.

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The youth need to realize that this is the Islam. This is the leader. This is the life they have responsibility. And fourthly, we Thirdly, we need to realize that the most important thing in Islam is not salah and zakka and Hajj and ibid. The most important thing, it's, of course, important, we have to do that. But apart from that the most important thing is to have good character and good manners. And good luck. Because that is what a wave is on the scale.

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And unfortunately, Muslims don't have this. You know, there was, I remember one of the scholars of the Azhar

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he went after spending his whole life in Egypt, he went to visit England. And when he came back, they asked him, you know, how did you like London? What do you think of London? What do you think of the English people? And he said

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what do you do now?

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You said

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they actions is our dean.

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They they actions is our dean

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and our Dean

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has become the actions.

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What was he saying? That the way they acted with one another was like Muslims are Muslim should act with one another.

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They've adopted the character

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of Islam. And we've lived the character of Islam.

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And we practice what allows while that is forbidden as to practice with the practice, we do all the wrong things, the wisdom.

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So now last one leaving child in the month of Ramadan, give us the strength and to guide us. And to make us choose just one thing in Ramadan to change must choose one day and you're going to say, in this Ramadan, I'm going to do this, which I've never done before.

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And could be a simple thing. Like from the tablet greet everybody that I meet simple cosmetic has nothing

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to do all of us think we have Mr. So and so you know, I'm sure so and so. I'm not gonna agree to you add him up, you know, you should greet me first, you know? Or don't you see I'm driving a four by four BMW, I mean, can't you see? I mean, you can see that I'm still you know, so So, you know, you should

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demand respect, you know?

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So from the way we say no, but you know, maybe I should also go for the target in the gender leave by this BMW sitting outside me to change you know, maybe I should also start greeting people, you know, not expecting people to greet me, I should go to the child also. There's a chance not because I'm on the scarf, you know, why don't you even greet him?

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I greet him. Don't say he's rude, no good to him and teaching him also that this is a this is what my uncle taught me. He comes to me and he greets me instead of me complaining.

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luckily, they got no manners. So from today, we can do that you can say Rob, we're going to greet everybody and even children, we're going to show them what Islam teaches us how we should be we should go and greet them. Even if the child is different, so should Allah guide us inshallah. Allah Allah Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Children visiting I know it's cold, but but Allah give us the Baraka and reward inshallah for this Tuesday.