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Successful Parenting #03

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Sajid Ahmed Umar

Channel: Sajid Ahmed Umar

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Choosing The Easier Way

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From the attributes of a successful parent, is the presence of compassion. For even aroma of the Allahu Anhu upon him and his father. He narrates that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that indeed Allah is gentle, and loves gentleness in, in all affairs.

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Sorry, we covered that her data from the attributes that we need. That's a slip of the tongue please forgive me from the attributes of successful parenting after compassion is to be gentle, to be lenient, and to be easy for Aisha Radi Allahu anha. She says that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam always chose the easier way, as long as there was no sin in it. This is the way of the Prophet sallallahu Allah He wasn't

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even a member of the Allah who he narrates that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that verily, for every tree, there's a fruit and the fruit of the heart is the child. And indeed, Allah will not have mercy upon those who will not have mercy upon their children. Subhanallah who will not have mercy and mercy here is negative, it entails everything that constitutes mercy.

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Everything that constitutes mercy. This is the right of the child that they receive this from the parent.

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From the attributes of his of a parent, is that the parent should be flexible and be considerate. For even less rude rob the Allahu Allah, He narrates that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Have I not told you who will be protected from the hellfire?

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He said everyone that is close, gentle, lenient and easy.

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Hadith and Sunnah. Loteria

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from the attributes of a successful parent, is that the parent can be restrained, restrained.

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They can hold their anger. If they get angry. They have the ability to restrain themselves, they have the ability to be patient.

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In exercising the parenting process for Abu Huraira have the Allahu he narrates that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gave advice three times to a man and he told him Do not get angry.

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Once the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam said that the strong person is not the wrestler. Rather the strong person is the person who has the ability to withhold and suppress anger

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at the time that anger wants to erupt. From the attributes of being a successful parent is that you have the ability to restrain yourself because parenting mandates the presence of this ability. If you don't have this ability, you will act out of character and this is not good parenting.