How to make this Ramadan the most memorable #02

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number one Ramadan I might

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put on number two i aligned

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we know sakana right? Okay number three, I am my Salah

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I and my salon

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I can't resist asking the chef to recite the beginning of sorts of Muslim

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because when the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam was revealed to

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Allah subhanho wa Taala commanded him to enjoy the night,

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how to be in the company of Allah and connect with Allah.

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Brothers and sisters, have you ever come across a moment, when you feel like you know,

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everything is going bad.

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And you're so down.

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I just want to go to your room, lock yourself in it, turn off your cell phone, you want to talk to anyone? Have you lived that moment? It's the time as of now I am said in FL Colibri lauscha lamela elona sobre la.

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Sometimes there is a void in your heart that can never be filled. Except with enjoying the company for law.

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So as if your soul is crying, give me some food you have filled your body. You saturated your body with food but I'm dying. I'm thirsty. And you start crying. And as if those tears, they run down your cheeks and they go to your heart and they clean your heart and you feel relieved after that you say now I can talk to people.

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You just needed that moment with Allah. And I always say yeah, Allah. Please don't deprive me of those tears when I need them. Because they help you a lot.

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They help you a lot.

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So I'm going to get the shader to recite some I had from sort of assembling shala

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to be learning in English

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do you want

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to be

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we swung to

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the oh my

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so number three is I and my Salah law Have you heard the surah?

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Yeah you have Muslim in common Laila in La karela and we do this specifically in Ramadan pm live right?

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Do we enjoy pm ally?

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How can we make this pmln inshallah this year different?

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We need to prepare ourselves before we come because if you understand what's being recited will make a difference

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because imagine if I start talking in Arabic And most of you don't know Arabic Now

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would you get the message? The answer is no. That's exactly what happens in Ramadan.

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We pray behind the Imam we might enjoy the voice. We might be moved by the Quran itself. But imagine if you understand every single word, and you live the ayat.

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I remember will lay one of the Pakistani brothers back in Edmonton, when we used to be there. And he used to cry.

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And I asked him to understand what the car is reciting he says no. But once I hear the word Gen or ROM, it really hits me in the heart. But he says just imagine if I understand every single word. Now I know how the Arabs cry so much when they listen to the Quran.

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Because they're supposed to know the meaning. And if you know the meaning and if it doesn't move you into tears, trying to find yourself a heart because your heart is dead.

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If the if the words of Allah subhanho wa Taala do not impact your heart. Check your heart there is something wrong with your heart.

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Because non Muslims they interact with the Quran, even though they don't understand it.

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For tomorrow, the Allahu Allah used to say how short is the night to enjoy the company for law.

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She wanted the light to be longer so that she can enjoy the night in menasha at Elaine here I shed the water and we're up to one more pillar to understand the meaning of this

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The night when everything is quiet and calm. The Quran finds its way to your heart. So there is no water meaning there is Kool Aid

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incidence of Subhanallah the calmness in the nature and the serenity in the nature and the serenity of the words of Allah touching your heart.

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This is why it's more appropriate to recite the Quran language during the life and interact with it and enjoy the company of Allah.

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So make sure that this is our action plan for me and my Salah or I am my salon. Number one, make a commitment that we're going to pray on time

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was the first commitment will pray the five times all the time, even if you are at school, even if you are at work, right? Make plans that your break will be at the time of Salah will lie your employers will respect you. And they will give you the space and the time.

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I remember a brother,

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like he used to just take a corner and hide and pray. And one day his supervisors saw him

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and like he walked by when he wasn't subdued. And he went to him to talk to him. So like going on.

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Mohammed Ali, okay.

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What are you kissing the ground?

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He doesn't know what's going on.

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Right? So of course, I didn't talk back to him. But after he finished the Salah, he went to him and he apologizes. And by the way, I didn't mean to be rude to you because I was praying, like, Oh, I'm sorry. Why didn't you tell me? What is done in that corner? I'll give you my office at that time. How many of us are afraid to show that there are Muslims at work? You see the results you get

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when the man saw him, and he understood that this is spread, he said, from now on. All our meetings that are at one o'clock that come at the time of your prayer will be moved to 130 that says

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and don't pray in a corner like this. At the time of prayer come I leave my office and you pray in my office

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or my tequila hedge Allah Maharajah was a foreman. Hi, Sarah said you do taqwa of Allah, Allah will always give you a way out of anything.

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So, what should we do? We'll pay on time. And make sure and remember the following.

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I'm going to quiz you now. Which is more important action or throw away?

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No, no. I'll repeat the question again.

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And Be honest with me, which is more important. I shall

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be honest.

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What does the oma do today? How many people do we miss in Russia? But they're very keen, smooth on

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and then they come and they're just over which is the fourth which is anaphylactic

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but you know how we miss it. Because every day you have a schedule I'm invited at that house. I cannot miss the Brianna was brought up the Rashi I cannot risk you know the octagon with a smile and Abdullah you know, and Mashallah you have every day somewhere to go. And you know what they do? You know, they take your time

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and then you're sitting there eating and eating is like, Oh my god, man. What's the distance between you and the masjid? A hidden works 25 minutes only inshallah. How much time is left to be for Russia five minutes in hamdulillah. How can we make it better?

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Come on.

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So remember, Ayesha is from tala we

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shall we change the seminar shala will make it memorable. And here is a good advice for you Mashallah, it's a win win situation. It's a win win situation. Listen carefully. What about this?

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Stop eating at home and Ramadan? Why don't you join us in the masjid inshallah.

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We have been a food for you. Just come.

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What do you mean?

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Stop going and inviting people in your house.

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By the NSA money What else? The sisters will make the hand for you.

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Late all the sisters will make diet for you know why? Because you've tortures them for four to eight hours in the kitchen while they're fasting.

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So they have three struggles, they're fasting, that's number one. They have four monkeys at home. four angels are thrown as the second struggle. And then they have to cook for 10 people 15 people coming. Well, he starts maybe at eight o'clock in the morning to be able to finish the biryani and the lotto and the old car and you know this and that.

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And we say, like, she says, Can you go to the masjid? And say, what about the kids?

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She said, I'm already tired anyway. And she misses the month of Ramadan.

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Do you love your wives? I know I shouldn't be asking those questions, because somebody's gonna say

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yes, of course, stuck for a while.

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Okay, here's the question.

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The Prophet Sallam said lomandra hadoken diabelli.

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You will never attain full Eman

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until you love for your brother or sister what you love for yourself. I'm sure all of you would love to see your wives with you in general.

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How can this happen? If you don't help her to be the best Muslim of America? Don't be selfish.

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Don't put her to slave work cooking every day for eight hours.

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And guess what? You know after halftime who gets the credit?

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The men

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after the people in the same cycle of having father It was delicious. So yeah, I did the fruits of hunger. I did the cucumber. I did the bananas.

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Even those are not made for my wife because she has been doing this for eight hours. Now we just take the credit.

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So what's the win win situation? Because when I said come to the magic brother after she said like, you know, watch out. We have only 200 spots. The word that was gonna come all of them. Okay. There is an invention called delivery. Have you heard about this invention? Suppose delivery, order some stuff and Ramadan. Make it simple. We'll let him make it simple.

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Because I'll tell you this way yourself up before Ramadan and weigh yourself up after Ramadan. If you gain weight and Ramadan and lose a man, you're a loser.

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If you lose weight and Ramadan and you gain more a man you're a winner. Who would like to be a one on Ramadan?

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One hand stuck for a long

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two hands Yeah, sure Allah this inshallah we action. It has to be by action, right? So promise a lot. When it comes to food, we're going to cut down inshallah, okay? And let your wives that your daughters let your sons come and enjoy Ramadan.

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It makes a difference when they come. And they listen to the reminders. And they listen to the recitation, they want to be inspired also, like you.

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So when I say on I, my salon will pray on time. Number two, we want to read whatever we memorize and understand that will make your salon more focused.

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Right hamdulillah you know, all of us, when we receive when we like pray, we always decide the two long surah in the Quran,

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social culture and surah Allah floss, right? Do you know the meanings?

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Once you commit to that inshallah and say, I will study the meaning of these two sources. What's the meaning of in

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Allah saying, indeed, We? Oh my God, we is the plural.

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No, it's the Royal way. Not the plural. We lost the art of majesty. See learn something.

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In Africa look at a NACA. Is there a difference that it NACA, we're gonna go into now, okay. You need to go and study this.

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A lot. what's ahead, they say one, no. One means Why is different? What does it mean go and study? I'm just teasing you last summer. Because when you understand the meaning, it will become very sweet when you say understanding it. And you will be connecting with Allah subhanaw taala. Is that clear? So I'm going to assign alfalfa and whatever he says after alfalfa, it's something that I know and understand. Okay.

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Again, what about salon to

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make sure that you build yourself a house in general

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Who would like to have house in general?

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It's very simple, very simple. Make sure you pray to Allah Raka of sadhana every day.

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Outside of Ramadan, sometimes we get busy we don't do them. Right. But the apostle himself, whoever prays 12 Raka every day, Allah will build the house for him engine.

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You know the Natasha bakasana? What are they to before fudger? For before the home to after her, that's eight to after 11 that's 10 to after action as to Well, again to before fudger that's two and four, before the whole, that becomes six

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and then two after the whole becomes eight, two after America becomes 10 to our serratia that becomes 12 guaranteed house in gentlemen, can we make dinner inshallah and this Ramadan? Make sure some with some poverty sometimes, if I missed the sooner I came a bit late. Can I make it up? Yes.

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Yes, you can make it up. Is there evidence for that? Yes. The Prophet says Helen was traveling one night. And while he was struggling, he was so tired. So I told the Sahaba who is going to be our alarm clock who is going to be up all the time because there was no alarm clock at that time. Okay, who's going to be up all the light to make sure that he wakes up. He wakes us up for fudger so we land on the lava and set me profitable

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and then, you know, the porcelain slipped under Sahaba making sure that they have the land up and he's gonna wake them up. And then the Basilan said we woke up, you know, after the sunrise because of the heat of the sun.

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And also said, Oh my god, what happened was Bill and so they brought bill and he said bill and

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what happened? And Blair was so embarrassed. He said a big lie. Dr. Harvey Mackay Rasul Allah, it's like I was so tired

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and I couldn't and I slept you know, I didn't mean it.

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Then what did the puzzle do? He made up everything that he missed, which means we can do it too. Is that clear? Okay,

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so that's enough inshallah for salon.

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So how many so far?

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I am my

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Quran, I my soda. I my

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I and my daughter

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when the chef recited boy 186186 and social Baccarat was a big anime in Korea.

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Subhana Allah to Bedouins came to the Prophet Solomon they said jasola Allah Salallahu alaihe salam, O Messenger of Allah, Allahu Akbar, even fellow nije and buried in fennan. It is a love so close. So do we talk to him a whisper? Or is he distance when we talk to him? we yell and scream. And I came down. That was the response from Allah. Why He then said like, the

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Allahu Akbar. Normally in the Quran, if any questions come along, say, Hola, hola, Mohammed, or

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say to them, this is the only one in the Quran, where Allah didn't say a lotto directly. He said, for me.

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A very close, I'm very near. You don't have to hear. You just you just raise your hand like this. And whisper Allah can hear you.

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So I and my brothers and sisters

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can ask you a question say yes, yes.

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Do we have a booklet called hustlin Muslim? The fortress of the Muslim doesn't have all the ads. We want to make this Ramadan different. I want these to move from the book. Go into your heart. So you will say them out of memory. Is that clear?

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So what about this, make a commitment that you will learn one day each day. Is that a good deal? One day every day. This is when you put on your clothes. This is when you take off your clothes. This is when you look at the mirror. This is the route when you start your auto design when you finish it although there is not for leaving the house. This is for coming back into the house. You know if you do this, you will change your 24 seven into a bad

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Because the Basilan in every single aspect of his life he later

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he goes to the mall will make a door. But I'm not saying go to the model Ramadan inshallah.

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Okay, I'm not inviting you. And if your wife tells you say the shaker said it's not recommended and Mr. Smith

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I'm joking, okay. Unless you need to have something from there, because the B'Tselem told us the best spots on earth of the massage. And the worst spots on Earth are the markets between quote unquote malls to

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why because there is your main emotion there is mixing and there is like everything bad. Right?

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And one of the worst things is that you know, you go there and come back. What happens to your credit card?

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You know what happens, right?

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You know, you will buy everything you want, and you will forget to buy everything you need. Then he has to go again.

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And Subhanallah sometimes are using a credit card Do you know what's a credit card? To me a credit card is a plastic thing through which you buy things that you don't need to impress people who don't know with money that you don't have

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what am eyes definition?

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Right? What's a credit card to me? It's a plastic thing through which you buy things that you don't need to impress people that you don't know with money that you don't have

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a right to right

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stop doing that. Stop this phenomenon inshallah by what you need.

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So, when I say I was the one that we're talking about now, I still awake, I and my

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So if we learn $1 every day by the end of Ramadan, how many dogs do we have? And continue that after after Ramadan? You don't need the book of after that what would you do is going to come spontaneously and by the way when it comes to continuously, you will feel it and you will mean it. But when you read it

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Bismillahi r rajim

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Bismillah he was a legend. He does not like that.

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don't even look like you know I made my tile handle what does it mean? I have no idea. I don't know but

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do you think he did anything even you made

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it just read some Chinese or Japanese and that's it.

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No brothers or sisters though I mean that you know what you're saying and it comes from the heart will love you will never feel the sweetness of the art unless you understand it and you mean it

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in the lies

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and yada yada yada he is a foil

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Allah feels shy to send your hands when they are raised to him back down with nothing. So he raise your hand mean it ask and when you ask remember Allah subhanaw taala said if you want your diet to be Mr. Jang try at the times that the professor told us between either a left arm I want all of you inshallah and Ramadan is your time between other and uttama don't don't start texting or updating your Facebook page.

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In fact, I want you to deactivate your Facebook page and Ramadan

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stop all these distractions in Ramadan.

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So what should you do between then and the karma? This is the time to adopt Monster Jam, raise your hands and make

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your will Juma. So when you come here on Juma make Doha there is one hour anytime you make the most of the score said it's the hour of the football you know and the Salah.

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make lots of the iron you know

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when you want to break your fast This is Mr. Jang make lots of the iron. But how should we make

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a loss petal loss and sort of normal

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and I can't recite the eye of the shakers here Okay, I'll just to get him to decide that

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only the only

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cheese and

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so don't quote me

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Allah subhanaw taala in this Athens Georgia novel is teaching us the etiquette of

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M au G, we'll move on.

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Sometimes the way we make the act as if we were not even caring about the

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Salah saying when you make to make

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you know when you are in a very difficult hardship, and you have no other way

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you know when when when the Jacobian is talented and super useful for sovereign Jamie will love and Mr. Anna matassa phone.

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Imagine when your kids come and tell you that your son is lost, and you know that they are the ones who did this to him. So what would you do?

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What type of patients you need any type of patients like for losing your son? Or what about these people are coming and lying to you? And if you were to revenge if you were to vent that anger, would you kill them. So you're gonna cut your your left hand with your right hand. It's a very tough situation. So this is the Heil mataro when you are in the middle of nowhere, and no one can help you except Allah is that the heart comes from the heart. This is the Torah, you should know this, you should learn this. And this is the way you should raise your hands and ask Allah subhana wa Tada. So I admire, make sure that you choose the right times to make the I give you some of them. The closest

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position to Allah is when you are in servitude. make lots of your security. And Mr. Malik Rahim Allah said, you can make the iron in your own language. Yes. Before you start asking me yes, even in fact, because you can never you can never feel that ulissi comes in your language. Imagine now, when I start talking to Pakistanis, I say to him, I can tell who are Pakistanis, they're going to smile. If I say tic tac,

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and they're going to say

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you can tell how many Pakistanis here. Okay. And if I start talking Somalis, I don't have time to do this anyway. Okay.

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So when you speak to people in their language, what happens? They connect right away? Well, I went to Malaysia, the first thing I said to like I say, which means Thank you, everyone's like I said, this is the only word to switch to English, okay? Because everybody expects you to speak Malay. But even that word it connected with them. So you can only feel that if it comes from

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your heart.

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And that can be only expressed in your own language. Okay, so we're going to learn one every day, we're going to choose the right times to make the app and we're going to make sure that we understand that that we are saying Okay,

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moving on the last one,

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the last one I and my behavior.

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I can repeat them and my behavior. Ramadan is coming. And the Muslims are the best ones to behave and Ahmad Al Hamdulillah. Especially in the masjid and around the measure to hamdulillah. Right, the way they park their shoes. I mean, the way they parked their cars, the way they parked their shoes. I mean, they leave their shoes, right? And the way they eat in the machine and the way they leave the place clean after they will come to the lab. And the way they are considerate of their neighbors. They don't park in front of anybody's house, they don't block any other brother in the parking lot. They don't leave their car in the middle of nowhere. Right and hamdulillah we're going

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to be hammering this every day in Nevada but I'm saying from now. Our deal is all about.

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Our Deen is all about Give me the word.

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behavior and manners. I don't care if you are the best added.

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If you pray the whole line and memorize the whole Koran, but you treat your family the worst utility your neighbors the worst you treat your messages the worst.

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He didn't benefit from your dean. This is just the image of the dean. This is why the process of elimination if you want to choose a man to get married to he said it as Yakumo Donna, Deena first that's the image Mashallah he prays and he goes to Hajj twice a year hamdulillah and he gives he gives aka he first Ramadan. Okay, that's the image.

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But what about the reality?

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He said, Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

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Did that advantage change his character and he became a better person?

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Is what I'm saying. So, after praying here and you heard the enamel reciting an ayah, Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah bollini indeed the curse of Allah upon those who are oppressors, and you oppress your wife, and you oppress your kids, the higher the I hate you, when you stop and say I

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am an oppressor, I should stop this

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but when you go and continue what you're doing what happens? You didn't benefit from the Quran. You didn't benefit from the Salah eliminates it from your CRM

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presence systems Why do we fast?

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We're finishing shala Why don't we fast because a lot of money Last of Us that's the right answer. There's no second answer. We fast because we're Muslims are Larson and I are number 183. Yeah. Mo kuchibhotla. como su mo kamakoti Bala Dena, political.

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Right. But what do we get out of fasting? does Allah get anything out of fasting does only the first thing the last in our prayer, there's a limit our sada we all belong to Allah. Right? We need it Why? Because that will change our character that will change our behavior. Right? So what's the behavior that should be changed and Ramadan? Was the the behavior they should be changed by your salon? I just shared this too quickly. Was the fruit of Ramadan. Allah

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subhanaw taala You know, when when you go home during the day of Ramadan, can you sneak to the kitchen and eat like, you know, a lamp or something? Or like, you know, drink to Pepsi or something? And then you come out like

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hamdulillah I'm fasting.

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Nobody saw me in the kitchen.

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What do you learn about who said taco right? If people cannot see you, Allah. That's the only thing that stops you from doing this. And Breanna is holiday and alarms halaal and juices holiday, but you stop even the holiday. But some people what do they do? They stop the holiday. They stop eating the halaal but they eat the Haram which is ribbon. Which is the dead body of their brothers and sisters by back biting your tongue should be fasting

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and Subhanallah I'm going to be talking about someone and suddenly they walk in you know what you do? Hey, brother.

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What are you doing? This is hypocrisy. You just talking and saying bad things about him? He walks in. You're a coward to stop.

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Right. So should we change our behavior in Oman? Shall we learn the real meaning of taqwa that you are on camera 24 seven.

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If people cannot see you, Allah can see you. So if you really understand the meaning of Ramadan, and if you want to attain the fruit of Ramadan, this is the change number one you will watch out everything that you say everything that you do. A lot can hear you Allah can see you welcome Salah in this level. And in fact, your Salah should stop you from anything that's aboard fascia and mukaan people who say like How can you do this on your own Muslim?

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Okay, until and unless your Salah stops you from doing this. Congratulation for the physical exercise. You're not praying Is that clear? So make a list in sha Allah, count your bad habits count those things that are bad and say yeah Allah I'm going to make this Ramadan different. I'm going to get rid of one of my bad habits every day Can we do this inshallah. So let's let's sum it up inshallah, number one, I and my

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for on number two iron mine, South Africa, number three iron mine. salon number four, iron Mizoram, number five.

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Iron my behavior. And again, watch out your behavior when you are around the masjid in sha Allah. Okay, please. They made those racks downstairs. Not that you look at them and say hi, and then you put your shoes down. No, should pick your shoes, put them in the racks. And I promise you inshallah, if you don't put your shoes in the racks after you finish, you will not find them. I'm telling you from now. So be ready. Have another pair of shoes in your car, because you're gonna go home. Therefore today inshallah. Is that clear? When you park your car, there are lines outside you see those lines white lines, is to put your car between the two lines. Don't make sure that there is a

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line in between your car. No, your car should be between the two lines. Otherwise, your car will be told or you have to pay money.

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Is that clear?

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Let's change our behavior. This is how we should act there will be food service when you come make sure you eat your food. This is the house of

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Hello This is the house of would you like your house to be clean? Which should be clean or your house or the house of Allah? Please leave your spot when you come to the masjid cleaner than you have seen it when you come is that clear brothers and sisters I want to see something also a very good behavior in Ramadan is called Elise Are you know the meaning of a farm you know when people look at this lineup for food or anything everybody's pushing each other I want to be first you know I would love to see people like you know getting into the plate to the person behind them like no you go first inshallah

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you see somebody next to you and brother after she you know gave you three pieces of meat and he gave him one by mistake take two from yours and give it to him site brother. Mashallah.

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Is that clear? So let's show Allah subhanaw taala that we want to make this Ramadan. The most memorable, I want to after this Ramadan inshallah to feel this Ramadan is very special and different for me in sha Allah. With this inshallah will conclude our lecture how to make this Ramadan the most memorable, and I promised half an hour

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of q&a, but since we have a meeting with the volunteers, how many volunteers do we have amongst the audience? Raise your hands, how many volunteers Okay, Mashallah. Can I take another 15 minutes inshallah to speak quickly about the fifth of Ramadan quickly, inshallah, just answer the main questions that always will always come, let me kill them. Now inshallah. Okay, I'm going to ask an answer right away. Okay. Can I use to walk in Ramadan? The answer is yes. All the time during the day. And the night? The answer is yes. Can I use toothpaste in Ramadan? And the answer is yes.

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I said yes. It's like this. What exactly do you read the toothpaste? Would you swallow it? No. So you just use it and and clean your mouth? inshallah? Yes, you can use it even during the day. Yes. Which is better the swab or the toothpaste, the swacch. inshallah, because you're doing two things you're following, the sooner the porcelain, and it's very healthy in Sharla. And this farm, they're asked by the Rockman, shala, to bring you swag. And this would be like one of the silent fundraisers each walk is 1000 cents.

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Is that okay?

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More than $1,000 Alhamdulillah he said, $1,000. You know, he knows that you are very generous people. hamdulillah. Okay.

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So another question. If I had if I if I get injections in Ramadan, would that break my fast? Yes and no. Yes. If those injections have any nutrition, you know, glucose and stuff that gives you like some sort of food in the form of a liquid. But if it's like antibiotic No, it doesn't break your fast. With antibiotic it doesn't break your fast.

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Sorry. When I say antibiotic, some brothers and sisters, they're going to think about pills. I'm talking about injections. I didn't go to the pills it. Anything that you swallow and go through your stomach that breaks your fast. Okay, what about eye drops? And news drops? Do they break my fast? No, no. But sometimes when I put some nose drops, I can feel something here just like you know, take it out. You're not drinking anything. You're not eating anything. Okay. Okay, what if I took a nap in the middle of Ramadan. And then I woke up and I felt it's always matter. So I just went to the kitchen, and I started eating something. And in the middle of it, you know, my brother comes like,

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what are you doing? What happened, man? It's not

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what should I do?

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To stop eating? You know, whatever is in your mouth to stick it out. What about I have already ate in chef half the lamb. I just left the other half Alhamdulillah wa sallam said, Whoever eats or drinks during the day of Ramadan. It's a gift from Allah. But if anybody reminds you stop, don't say Yo Maliki finish the gift inshallah. No, no.

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Okay. Now the opposite scenario. When should I eat my suppose some people say you have to finish your soul at least 15 minutes before fudger Raja Who cares? Don't listen to these people. Some others say you have to finish at least five minutes before fudger No.

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So what do you mean should I eat until federal? Yes. And after that? No. What is the other

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Don't let the timer surf every day. It is a when is measured five minutes. They may even shower. No, at least give yourself 20 minutes. 30 minutes 40 minutes before fudger. But what if it happens? And I just did this?

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In the middle of it? Would you like to hear the other? Can you hear the chef giving the other? Yeah, let's Let's rehearse this give us that answer.

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And then at dinner

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long life

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So imagine when you are right before,

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like, held the bottle and you want to drink and all of a sudden while you're in the middle you heard a law like about a law like what should he do? The professor himself continued drinking your phone.

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Is that clear? So then comes on, you're drinking once a year Allahu Akbar. If you're in the middle of drinking, finished drinking, don't just take it away. That's what the Apostle Paul told us. You see how Allah is merciful to us. Another thing about the Sunnah of the processor lambay is should we delay support

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and make breakfast right away when we get a MacBook? Or should we do the opposite Some people say let's wait until the man finishes the other

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matter the higher marginal cost of my home, I will be doing the right thing as long as they break their fast right away with the word Allahu Akbar.

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And they delay their support as close as possible to fudger. But I'm not going to say you're going to time yourself every day, okay, what is the shirt given there? Okay, let me do it. Now. I said just in case if it happens, this is how our team used to lobby can we use what we will come across? Okay? The sisters during their cycle, can they fast? No.

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Even if it starts one minute before Maghreb? Unfortunately, yes. And you could be fasting the whole day. And if it starts like one minute before, you know Maghrib don't count that day as fasting you have to make up that day. And if you become clean one minute before fudger you have to start fasting that day. So maybe some people who are married and they have the relationship, the marital relationship, it was white before fudger so they are in a state of Geneva impurity and fashion design came can they faster they of course but I mean they they did not take a shower yet yeah. After that then they can take a shower and begin to pray inshallah, because I actually know what the

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Lord said the processor, Sometimes he'll be jello and he will take the shower after the other that's not no problem in sha Allah.

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what else I'm just trying to kill the questions that are that are very common in Ramadan

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thrown up.

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Sometimes some people you know, they have issues and that way they throw up involuntarily it's not intentional it's unintentional. You know, like for example, you know, when when the sisters are pregnant, sometimes they throw up so if they throw up during Ramadan, would that break their fast the answer No. Unless the person will throw up intentionally they put their finger like this, and they throw up.

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Okay, when you throw up intentionally, then that breaks your fast Okay, what if I bleed? A brother comes to me one time I can shave I cut myself I started bleeding is my first Okay. Yes insha Allah you know, you know the mackeral inshallah your brother your brother's halleran Salah. Okay, but the word is sort of big deal. Okay.

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What else just remind me of some common questions Allah if you if that reminds you of any common question just shared with me in sha Allah

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Okay, what if I'm eating and then goes off? I should stop eating and don't swallow what you're eating because you know, some brothers might be you know, like just saving maybe one pound of meat and they're gonna say okay, like let me just finish this by the other inshallah by a lot but you can finish that okay. If it's drinking, finishing, but if it's eating, stop eating, okay.

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Can you come close a man come here, you're not fasting can walk.

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Excellent. Very good question. What if you're eating and you're thinking that I then didn't go off but it happened that your your cell phone was off itself so didn't hear that then and my cell I kept eating and eating until like, you know, once you looked at the clock is like, Oh my god, it's 5am. You know, federa has been like, past like half an hour ago. What should I do?

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That day doesn't count. Continue fasting and make up the day later on inshallah, but continue fasting. Okay.

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Any other question?

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I was preparing Mike, some questions for myself to embarrass you and ask you.

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Okay, I'll go to some of them here.

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Who should be fasting? every adult Muslim. Right. And of course, you should be saying, right. So what if somebody is fasting and they're young, they get a reward? Yes. to their parents with a reward? Yes. But you should be gradual with them. Don't give them too fast the whole day. You can tell them inshallah. You're fast this year.

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is going to be with an auto Hanshaw loss when you hear the horror that's your Margaret in Salva, you break your fast following year is to colossal following year is total Maverick and if they feel like they're really tired, let them break their fast that's obligatory but just train them before the age comes in Sharla Okay, what else

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what what's what I'm going to be using to decide when to break my fast and when to stop eating you know just follow up consistently one calendar Okay, for example, if we I think we have calendars here, just take take this calendar and follow it because sometimes you can go to the Muslim pro or other applications and suppiler there is always like five minute difference three minute difference seem to be confusing yourself. So if you follow one, just be consistent. Don't take this one because the mother is going to be earlier and then take another one because the future will be a little bit later. Don't do that. Okay, Mashallah. We have them here inshallah, make sure that before you leave,

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you pick one in sha Allah and apply that in sha Allah if you're in the masjid you going to be breaking your fast with our other end and you gotta stop with our inshallah them too if you are a total just follow the same one in sha Allah. Okay.

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What else

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who can break their fast during Ramadan who are allowed to bring their fast and Ramadan number one, somebody who's sick

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and the scholars considered a pregnant woman, if the doctor tells her This is going to be impacting you, or the child, she has to break her fast. If she could, she should fast if she couldn't, she shouldn't. Because again, Allah said someone can iminco meridian and the scholar said, if a woman is in a state of pregnancy or breastfeeding and this is going to affect her milk or affect the baby, then she shouldn't be fasting and she can make this up inshallah later on in Sharla or somebody who's traveling you know, anything that you pack your bags and travel with this is called traveling. Okay, we are not staying at home or stay at a hotel or leaving your house you're not in the comfort

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of your house then you can break your fast now what if I can continue my fast and that's fine. You have the facilitation you have the permission of Allah and the Prophet Salim said in the law you have everyone Totoro caso, de aza follow, like, give you permission, you can take it. Let's say for example, two of us are traveling.

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And then somebody choose to break his fast like you're flying from here to Calgary to Edmonton, for example. And you're traveling through here to Toronto, and then from there to Calgary, Edmonton, that's going to be like, you know, one hour, maybe a layover for another hour, and then three hours or four hours, let's say about four or five, six hours. You know, should I break my fast? It depends on you. If you want to break your fast you have the permission. But if you fast, that's fine. Now, if one friend choose too fast, the other one choose not too fast. The one who chose to break his fast, shouldn't be made fun of by that I was like nostalgia for a lot here taking your teen lightly.

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Why? How come that you learn fast, like it's very easy or traveling. It's not like it's not that difficult at the time of the professional. He chose the permission, don't blame him. He's doing the right thing. He formed the center. Okay, because one time the pastor was traveling, and they had to can and they stopped at one place. And it was halfway between.

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And they needed the energy to sit up the fence. Some of the Sahaba broke there fast. It was close to my room. Why? Because they feel that they need the energy to do the job now. And the first thing was a mother who was voluntary fasting. Okay. And then others said no, we're not going to break our fast. So those who broke their fast they had more energy. And they helped in setting up the the the tents. And the person himself. They haven't moved around a village. Those who break the fast, they took more Azure. Why? Because they have more energy, and they would need it to do this. This is the job now. So and you're you're fasting to get a reward from Allah. But the work is needed more. Is

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that clear? So it also depends because we have a lot of very strict. No, I'll tell you a personal story. I was struggling one time from Cairo to Calgary was through New York. So I came from Cairo, New York, Seattle, Washington, and I started driving from Seattle, Washington all the way to Calgary. That was about 46 hours. Okay, so I told my kids or I told the people who are traveling with me, I'm going to break my fast. And my kids were the first time in their life to say that that braking is us.

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They thought I'm tricking them. So in the morning when the when the flight attendant came, I said, Yeah, give me a breakfast. We were leaving at eight o'clock in the morning. And they're like, Are you serious? I said he will see it. And then the breakfast came and he started eating

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Until the moment I put the food in my mouth. They wouldn't believe me until I started swallowing it and I started drinking. Yeah, what are you doing? I said, you will learn later on. I told you it's gonna be a long flight. They said, whatever. And then it took us 12 hours from Cairo to New York. From New York, we had a layover for four hours. That's 16 hours. And then we flew from there to Seattle, Washington was still Chasing

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the Sun. It's not, it's not sitting. So we ended up traveling for almost two with the lay overs. About 32 hours. So halfway there we're like, Can we eat something?

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I say no food because they serve all the food. And you miss the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah we are torturing yourself. Now. I told you from the beginning. You said I'm saying even there were professors from Alaska traveling with me, but it was their first time to travel and they didn't imagine what I'm talking about. So when they got sort of, you know, can you ask them to bring us some food? I said, Yeah, we can bring you some leftovers from the breakfast or something.

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So sometimes you need to take the permission of Allah gave it to you because Allah will never ask you to kill yourself. Is that clear? Okay, and then he can make up these days in shower I'm gonna be in stop here inshallah. desikan will love here for coming. May Allah subhanaw taala make us amongst those who listen to the speech and follow the best of it. Allah tala now what?

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What I will.

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Ramadan, Allah mobile living Ramadan. allama Zhang Fei.

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Llama La ilaha

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illallah wa salam, O Allah Muhammad Allah Allah.