Channel: Tariq Appleby
Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah Allah Allah, he was happy here. Marina Salam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh this historic Appleby for marriage QA, today we're going to talk about having fun in the month of Ramadan as a couple, the month of Ramadan is this amazing opportunity for couples to do things together and to spend quality time together and to have fun doing that, and to have supper together. And this whole could, you know, we could use our imaginations and we could go to the beach, we could go out, you know, and have support outside, you know, if the weather permits, of course, and we could just spend that time together and make you
know, if thought and so or something that's exciting, something that's fun, we could take out if thought we could go to the beach and have it there and perform our solder to the mothership you know, on the beach, and then in childhood and then leave and go back home and then go back What are we the month of Ramadan is an opportunity where before you know, if thought we could take a walk together as a couple we take our children with us, you can have some fun before that. And it's important that couples understand not only in the month of Ramadan, but also outside of Ramadan that there are so many opportunities for us to have fun together and for us to spend quality time with
one another that should not be delegated only to dentists and to meals or should not only be you know specified for certain occasions and certain days, but a couple should be should use the imaginations should find innovative ways to be able to find what find time to spend together. So this is extremely important. And the month of Ramadan, we are all of these things like soft food, and if thought everyone you know is concerned about it everybody wants to to have so no one wants to miss the thought, of course. So it's extremely important that couples make use of this time, it obviously cannot be spent, you know, and it is not going to be of great benefit. If the wife spent
most of the time in the kitchen, preparing all sorts of elaborate dishes. And the husbands are at work you know, and they basically never see each other this is a recipe for disaster, whether we are talking about Ramadan or outside of Ramadan, we couples live past one another and really spend time together. And the only time they really spend together is when they have to know as a couple you need to make sure that you are being proactive about you know having quality time coming together being affectionate with one another. And so in the month of Ramadan, we have this opportunity. And these are just a few suggestions and I leave it to you you know to add to this always making sure of
course, that it is in the bounds and the and the limits of the Sharia making sure because you want to please Allah subhana wa tada through this, you will loving your spouse is not only for yourself, but it is for Allah subhanho wa Taala and you want you to spend quality time with them and improve your relationship should also be with that intention that I want to please Allah I want I want Allah subhanho wa Taala to bless this marriage, to make it successful. And for me to feel contented and happy. Every time I come home every time I see my wife, every time my wife sees me, that we should always be happy should always be content. And that is something that you have to work towards my
dear brothers and sisters, it is not something that's going to come about, you know, just because you got married, you know, then 100 is magically you know, it's just going to transform your personality and your wife's personality or your husband's personality, but rather you actively have to work towards it. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the best example you know of this, where he would spend time with his wives, he would listen to them, he would have sold with them, we would have thought with them. I mean, the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they spent so much time with him that they were able to give us intimate details of his life. They
were paying attention, they will tell us about what he did and what he would say and what you know, what he didn't do and what he did do. And so we find that husbands and wives will only be able to do this, if we are not only spending time together but having fun when we are doing so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to race with his wife, I showed her the love her and her, you know, the first time he beat her or other she beat him and the second time he beat her, and this is this is the Prophet of Allah. And if the Prophet of Allah salallahu alayhi wa sallam can have races with his wife, then you and I definitely we could do fun things together as husband and wives and the
month of Ramadan should not stop us from doing this. I've given you those three, you know, three things that you can do, having support and if thought and taking a walk before if thought insha Allah Tada, these are just my examples. I leave it to you in sha Allah to Allah as as a couple to figure out exactly what you can do in the month of Ramadan to have fun together. And so that in sha Allah, Allah Allah subhanho wa Taala will bless your marriage caused you to come closer together to appreciate one another to share your dreams and aspirations with one another and to work towards those goals. As we have said before, we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant you Baraka in your
marriage. May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant that as a couple you are always having fun together, always loving one another's company and May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant you the opportunity to get the best after Ramadan. disolve Allahu khairan robotic Allahu Pico was set out for it.
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