Have You Booked Your Ticket To Jannah

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. I

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think we have energy enough now to start inshallah Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say Salah lioness Helen.

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One day. Remember, Rahim Allah was walking in the street in Damascus. And he was walking with his son Abdullah.

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And they were dressed in very old clothing, and their slippers were outward. And his son Abdullah said that

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When shall we have comfort? When shall we have ease?

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And the answer came from him. Ahmed Rahim Allah He said, with the first step into gender.

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This is where you will find is in life.

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This is when you're going to find comfort in life brothers and sisters, I can hardly see you because of all of this light on my face now, and I am freestyle. I'm not going to stand behind the podium I'm going to ask you who amongst you have problems in their life? Raise your hand

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I can see no hands Mashallah you have a perfect life. Mashallah. Only one hand? I think we have old problems in this life. Yes.

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And the two main problems that we have in the West today can be summed up in towards depression and stress. Do you know why? Hello. I like to talk with people. I don't like to talk at people. Do you know why

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do you want me to share with you why? Because we are seeking perfection in something called dunia.

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And the word dunia in the Arabic language stems from two roots, then.

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And do you know what agile which means this life, as the brother was saying is timed. How long could you live here the process of them said Mr. Almighty by necessity no submarine language always. Luckily, the average span of life of my oma is between 60 to 70. Very few people who live beyond that. I look at somebody who's above 70 like myself now everything is aching. No teeth you know, you know it's right. So Pamela the other stem is then

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meaning worthlessness. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the Prophet

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was also the Prophet.

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He said

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locality dunia to sell we are in the lodge and I have Aldama salmon hash Kaffir sabetta ma. If this word the life is equal to a wing of a fly a wing of a mosquito, Allah wouldn't give a disbeliever a sip of water. But subparallel look today.

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Compare your denier to the dunya of somebody who next door who is not a Muslim.

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How many times do we complain from Allah? Lots of times, how many people would say Look at me. I'm a good Muslim. I pray seven times a day. Shadow they pray five times or seven times here. Everybody's happy with seven.

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And I have only one boy and he's disabled. My next door neighbors they're not Muslims. But look at them. They have four cars, they have five children and their children have green eyes and green hair. Why me?

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Do we complain all the time from Allah? That is the problem. Because we are seeking perfection in this dunya and my question to you is this. Can I have the first slide please?

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You live in Ottawa. Am I right? Right?

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Right. So after this boring lecture, you're gonna get so

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dumb

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and you will be very tired and you want to go give me the word

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set again. Excellent. So home was also a write home was altered. But you know what, I disagree with you. And look at the first question there. What is real home? Back in the days? We all claim one father and one mother was the name of our father.

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Love Akbar. Mashallah. I love this guy. This young guy. What is my candy? I'll give you a candy after we finish. Oh, I have one here. There you go.

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Oh, you must bring it back. Give it back. Okay, we all have one father. His name is Adam. And we all have one mother. What's her name? Masha Allah. They used to live home what's home for them?

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said again. Jen. Right. They were very happy.

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At home, and Allah subhanaw taala warned me said, you know, what, if anything you like, but stay away from that tree.

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And they couldn't. How many trees do we eat from today? Stay away from that tree. That tree is so tempting. Right? And Adam and Eve ended up eating from that tree. And they were taken out of home and they came to the dounia right? Is that the end? No.

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Did they ask Allah Subhana Allah for forgiveness?

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There's a last part they'll accept the repentance. A lot of us in the Quran, right? Read in sort of Baccarat. So number two and number 23. Allah subhanaw taala says, first Allah

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be he kaeleen

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in

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me, and Adam received some words from Allah subhanaw taala.

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A lot taught him how to repent. Do you want to know these words?

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Do you want to know those words? Only five people I'm sorry. No. I don't like to talk to the audience.

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Do you want to read his words? Go to sorrowful aarav so number seven and number 23. Alas Patra says these are the words that they want you to say them now. Because you want to go back home

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to the real home, which is

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not Egypt young man.

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It is my temporary home for now. Okay, but gender is our real home. So we need to do the same thing as Adam alayhis salam did we need to acknowledge our sins and make Toba to Allah subhanho wa Taala What did they say? They said robina Can you hear this again?

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For Sunnah

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our Lord or master we have wronged ourselves by this obeying you. No exception in this room. We're in Landover Atlanta.

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And if you will not to forgive us, what are Hannah? unsure us with Your mercy? Lana coonan amin, Alhaji Siri

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indeed will be amongst the losers. So learn these words, but don't use them as lip service mean them. feel them. This is the only way

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now

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Alibaba Vitaly aloha one if you go to the first slide, when I asked him, What were his real home or what's real home? He wrote some lines of verse and I want you to listen to them carefully because now we're going to build our steps inshallah to go back home real home which is love like what he said. Law Darlene Moti battle Murray escucha

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Ella Latika and a couple of multi apnea. There is no home for someone that were he will dwell or she will do a except for the home that you built in this dunya

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la dama abadal Nokia schooner electric and a couple of Nokia Venetia phenomena hobby hiring for Obama scannable if you build that home with good deeds, you would have a very nice home on bunnahabhain hiring ha Baba Neha, and if you build it with bad deeds, this is not going to be a good home for you. fireman leader in garden is one who has worked hard for a home worldwide and is going to be the chief gatekeeper of that home in Sharla. In

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one month, and your neighbor will be Prophet Muhammad Salallahu alaihe salam wa rahmatullah Shia and Allah subhanho wa Taala is the one who will build that home for you who would like to go home?

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Not auto.

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What's home here? Jenna. Now let me ask you the next question.

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Can you believe that gender is waiting for you? But some people will reject gender?

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Some people do rejection who reject gender. Listen to this beautiful Hadith collected by Bihari Rahim Allah narrated by Abu huraira lavon he said

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kulu Mathias.

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All my own, all my followers will make it to gender good news, but there is a lemon Abba, except those who reject

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Rasul Allah, who would that person who would reject that offer to go to Geneva tournament.

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He says whoever obeys me will make it back home safely to gender, woman or Sony.

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The ABA and whoever this obeys me. He's rejecting gender. So what is the way to gender brothers and sisters? Say it again? obedience of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and if you obey the messenger by default, you're obeying the one who sent him with the message. Do you agree with me or agree? Hello, am I right right? Egyptian democracy, Masha Allah. Okay, now,

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next, next, do you know the story of the first one who will make it to Jenna?

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Okay, somebody challenging me here. Okay? It's prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam according to the Hadith he said an old man yet origin I'll be the first one to make it to agenda for the hell Okay, Baba. I'm gonna hold the doorknobs of the gates of gentlemen.

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And I'm gonna knock on the door for you call him in hell feel bad. You know, they will ask from behind the gates men who? And I'm gonna say Mohammed Abdullah, Mohammed, the son of Abdullah and they will say bigger Omar Allah neftali public we have instructions not to open the gates of gender for anyone before you then I will enter and whoever is going to enter after me brothers and sisters. Do you want to know the story of the last one who will make it to Jenna

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nobody's interested Let's move on. Okay.

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You want to know

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Oh, that's a very late Yes.

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You have you have to wait patiently till the end of my presentation inshallah. Or maybe sister Laurie might intercede for you? Should I share it with them now? Okay, just like a luck here. Okay.

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The story isn't so Muslim. And Abdullah minimus road, or the Allahu anhu said the Prophet Salaam shared with me the story of the last man who will make it to Agenda he said it will be man who will be in hellfire. And imagine somebody in Hellfire for some time. And when he comes out, is going to be limping and he's going to be falling and he will look behind and he would say

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there is no one on Earth. Who has been blessed with a blessing better than me now, just by being saved from Hellfire brothers and sisters. If I take you back to the for answer number three so Allah Emraan anumber 185 Allah subhanaw taala says

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every single soul will taste death

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from the heart

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whoever will be saved from Hellfire

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and he'll be allowed to enter Jannah

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was the end

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for Cardiff

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This is success this is real success.

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woman had to do

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it

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all what you see of the pleasures of this world the life is nothing but delusion.

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You heard sister Hallo. Mashallah, before me she was saying

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our main focus is this life. We forget about the real life. Allah subhanaw taala told us in the Quran in surah number 29 Kabuto number 64. Allah talks about two lives, one will hire to dounia

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this worldly life is nothing but playing and amusement. And then he said

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lol girl Oh you're on and the real life

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is the hereafter if they really know. So where's the real life? Who's stating this fact Allah subhanho wa Taala So our final destination is

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our main focus should be so that man after he comes out of Hellfire

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Allah subhanho wa Taala would raise a tree in front of him. Underneath the tree there is some water and now he has been in Hellfire for a long time.

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So when he sees the trees gonna say, yeah, Allah, can I just get close to that tree? And Allah subhanaw taala say, if I take you to that tree, would you promise not to ask me for anything else? And the man says yes, I will never ask you for anything else. There are lots of pilots that I will bring him closer to that tree. And once the man is under the shade of the tree and the tree

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From the water Alice Putnam is gonna raise another tree that's bigger last year with nice water underneath it. The man looks at the tree and he's gonna say

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only this one. They're gonna say, Didn't you promise? If I were to bring you closer to the first one, you're not gonna ask for anything more. But Allah knows he has been through a lot and healthbar Salah is gonna bring him closer to the second tree. Once he's there, Allah is gonna raise a third tree, which is bigger and last year, and the man season he's gonna say

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again, then Alaska is gonna take him to that tree. Guess what, what is he now? He's right in front of the gates of gin. Home sweet home.

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Then he's gonna look inside. He's gonna say

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can I enter here? And then Allah subhanaw taala is gonna say

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would you be happy? If I allow you in general and give you the kingdom of one king in the dunya? No. 2345 and Allah Subhana Allah reaches five. The man is going to say it that is that will be terrible. I mean, are you making fun of me? And you are the master of the universe. Allah is gonna say it will be I'm not making fun of you. Well, I Kenya Allah Masha Okada. If I want something, and I would say be it his

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brothers and sisters. This is the last one who will make it back home would you like to make it back home? safe? This is why the next question of the day is this. We want to go back home right? Before we do this, I might ask you what is the ultimate goal of your life? Some of you are teenagers like me who's 16 my agent and below? Raise your hands.

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Mashallah, excellent.

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Okay. What is your ultimate goal in life to join university?

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Okay, those who are in their 20s who are at university, what's your ultimate goal to graduate?

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Those who are like, right after that young professionals, what's your ultimate goal?

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To have a dream house and to make some money to be a millionaire and someone's like a stock for a lot of Muslim men a millionaire?

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What is wrong with that? Some people always think if you are a good Muslim, then you have to be poor in sha Allah.

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Who said that earthman Raja low on money made it to Junga through his millions stop the concept.

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Okay, so what could be our ultimate dreams? Could it be good education? Say yes or yes? Excellent. Could it be being a millionaire having lots of money? Excellent. To be a Dreamhouse. Excellent. Those who are not married, those who are not married? Raise your hands. Anybody who's not married here? Shame on you. What are you waiting for?

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I think we have matrimonial service would match inshallah before or before you go home inshallah. Okay, next question. So it could be your ultimate goal now is to get a beautiful wife or a handsome husband, am I right, right.

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Now, the question is,

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these are Hillel goals? Say yes or yes.

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But if gender is your ultimate goal, would your choice be affected? In all of these choices? Say yes, or Yes,

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it will. And I'm going to prove it to you right now. And I'm going to claim my candy back.

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Okay, here's the question. If gender is my ultimate goal, wouldn't affect my choice when it comes to choosing my spouse say yes or yes. Yeah, if gender is out of the equation, you go for the beauty.

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Am I right, right? Just be honest, be honest. Right. And I'm going to give you a real example right now. You know, I teach a class called engagement before engagement, marriage in Islam from A to Z.

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Okay. And we talk about everything and the problems in marriages, and practically speaking, how can we get over them?

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In one of the slides, I just stole this one here. Let me ask you this question. When a man is seeking a woman format, the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam told us there are four criteria as you know them. Tonka Helmer Ali, Baba

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lagenaria. For her beauty, one family her for her wealth, while it has to be one sob half for her family or lineage. While it Dini her and for her practice of the dean, right

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What did the plumber recommend at the end? He said Father for a bidet, Dini. 30, but you marry the one with the religion and power law. I had a friend, one of my students who used to live in Ottawa back in the days when I was teaching at the University of Calgary. And he told me Dr. Raja, I found the system hamdulillah

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but I have a problem. I said, What's the problem? He said she she has very good D Mashallah. But unfortunately, she's beautiful.

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I'm like, What?

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Unfortunately, she's beautiful. He said he had the professor said marry the one with the dean. I said he didn't say marry the one with the dean, but she must be ugly.

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That's how some people sometimes think. Right? So if the dean is there, can we go back to the slide please? If the dean is there,

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if you have a look there, I don't know if this one was okay. You see that? 1000 so if the dean is there, put one So what's our first priority? The Dean right. So if the dean is their priority number one is their right one. Is that clear? If she's beautiful? At the zero, that's a bonus would become 10 What if she's wealthy Alhamdulillah add another zero it will make it 100 What if she comes from a good family? Or the third zero Mashallah, we'll make it 1000 take the one out which is the deed you end up with? No, three zeros.

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How many of you are living with three zeros?

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Because Jenna was not there. When you choose your spouse? Am I right? All right. See me after the conference inshallah. Okay, next

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to the question of today is the question of tonight or today is, I want to make it to gender.

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Do you want to make it a gender? Raise your hand

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stavola. One hand

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stuck for only two hands. I wish I had 10. Excellent. So think about it. I want you to be serious. So we want to go to Genesis one, Jenna.

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Excellent. So how can I do it? The question is, who should I ask? Who should I model? Who should be my example?

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You know what, how can I measure that? I'm walking towards my destination. Next would be you know what?

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What about going to ask the 10 that were promised Jenna. There's an authentic Hadith of the Prophet Selim mentioned 10 people by name he said.

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Jenna.

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Jenna.

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Jenna, Jenna.

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Jenna.

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Jenna.

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Jenna.

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Jenna.

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Jenna, there is one missing. I have the candy

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Zubaydah. I'll keep the candy

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10

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and one Hades Should we ask them in sha Allah say sir, yes.

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But we have a problem.

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They passed away.

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They're dead. Okay, what about the alternative next, next, you know, what can we study their biography?

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Why should we do this? Move to the next slide? Why should we reinvent the wheel? Because Allah subhanho wa Taala gave us

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the recipe. What did I use the word recipe

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because we need to know the ingredients of what it takes to book my ticket to Japan.

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And the reason I use the word recipe because when we brothers are invited by another brother, and after you eat the briyani

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and you cannot move to play Asia, Mashallah.

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Then the dessert comes and the dessert is a very nice cheesecake.

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And when you eat the cheesecake you like it so much, but you will feel embarrassed to go and ask the sister who made it right? So you go to the brother and say brother, can you ask your wife to tell my wife the recipe for that cheesecake?

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Because we want to make it at home. So please ask you for the ingredients. Do you want to know the ingredients and the recipe for making it to Jenna?

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Only five people Shame on you what's happening to auto

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you know?

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Would you like to know the recipe?

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system do you think this is enough energy. One more

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Do you want to know the recipe to gender?

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Let's go for the next slide.

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You know Allah subhana wa Taala gave us the recipe. You know it, you read it but you never stop to know how to make your ticket to Jenna. If you go to certain moon so number 23 read diet from one to 11 the recipe is there. Let's go through it quickly inshallah and ended up what's the recipe? The recipe is this is if you go too far to the moon. Allah subhanho wa Taala

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says, next slide until next slide. cornea filler helped me know

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a lot what this is like flashback allows using the word cut allows you to fit the hike, which means for sure, for sure, and it's used to the verb in the past. If Lucha means whoever is going to apply all these ingredients. They are guaranteed success or the moon.

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Who are they Alice Patterson? The true believers. Let's go quickly into the ingredients number one alladhina homefield solamente him.

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They are those who focus in their Salah. Listen carefully. What Allah Subhana Allah say, Allah Deena your sun moon, our Latina, aduna Salah, because as Muslims, we have to pray, it's taken for granted. But sometimes you ask some Muslims today. When was the last time you prayed brother is gonna say hold on about eight months ago. So not only

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are there Muslims who do this?

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Yeah, there are. Let's be real. It could be my brother, your brother. Some people will say Oh, you mean Juma?

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Right. So Allah subhanaw taala is not talking about that level. Right? Allah song about you pray five times a day. But the question is, salon without couture is like a body without a soul. So let's talk about the essence of Salah brothers and sisters. The word Salaam Arabic stems from the root sola which means connection. How many of us pray five times a day and we never established connection with Allah? Shall I tell you how we pray? Shall I?

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Long Walk about Alhamdulillah in Europe bellami

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is that Brianne in the kitchen.

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Oh, anyway, man, you're rocking

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the Kaaba.

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You know what last time when I went to Amara I'm not gonna forgive the brother who stepped on my toes man. Like I still have my nails. Shallow when I go next time I'm gonna deal with him. Maliki omitting? What am I gonna do next? I have an assignment. Or I hate that Professor man. I hate him. I don't think I'm gonna pass this you know anyway. In a Serato mustafi what type of colors in this prayer mat?

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green

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and red they don't match. Anyway, who cares? One of the early and he come to the end of the salon. You want to know such as Sarah did I pray three or four Allah for Rahim. Allah doesn't even need my Salah.

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Isn't this the way we pray? So let's talk about the first ingredient if you want to make it to Jenna, you need to have cashew on your Salah. You need to establish a connection with Allah and Allah because Salah without connecting with Allah is exactly like a phone with no signal brothers and sisters, how many times you pick up the phone and you push the number that you want to dial and it keeps saying dialing, Connecting, Connecting and then the line drops. Why? Because there is no signal. How many times we say Allahu Akbar we do not connect the Oscar brother or sister How do you feel after Salah they say perfectly like before Salaam say perfect exercise brothers and sisters you

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just went down and up and that's it No you need to connect to the law so what's ingredient number one inshallah to make it to Jana

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who sure and Salam salado to sure is useless. Is that clear? Number two.

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Allah says in the next day, while levena Omani law love me more mo on the next one. Hold this. The processor extended his tongue one day and he said hold this when a Sahabi came to me said prophet of Allah. Give me advice. He said I'm sick Allah kellisa Anak Hold your tongue. Why do you keep una sala would you him for not suicidal sanity? Nothing will be the reason for people to be

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grabbed on their faces to Hellfire except the harvest of their tongues. Brothers and sisters. Do you know the challenge of the brothers in this? dunya? Do you know the biggest fitna? Do you know brothers?

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Women?

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Am I right? Right? That's what the professor said. That's what Allah said in the Quran, go to three l am Ron and number 14. Allah subhanaw taala says at the top of the list of the fitna for the people. He said, Do you know in St. Lucia, howdy milanesa. He mentioned women in the top. Am I right, right.

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Yeah, there will be a problem if you say no.

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Let's move here. What's your biggest fitna sisters and brothers will do like this.

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No, no, it's not you.

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What's your biggest fitna?

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Holding the tongue, holding the tongue. Is that clear? This was what I was saying. The next ingredient. If you want to book your ticket to agenda is stay away from vain talk. Brothers and sisters. We commit major sins every day. How many times we say it's a white lie. Who told you that lies of colors. It's a lie.

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The phone rings right? And this is how we act. This is why some people come to me and they say, you know Dr. Raja, my son is a professional liar. I don't know what he did. He learned lying and I'm going to tell you where he learned lying

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at home. Because when the phone rings, you look at the phone and say

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then the kid is innocent is going to say

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what do you mean that?

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Like, hold on, uncle. I don't know. Like my dad is doing something weird. Here. Let me let me check what he means like stupid. Tell him I'm not here. But okay. Okay. Uncle, my dad is telling you he's not here.

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Isn't that real? He's a kid. He doesn't know lying. But you're teaching him how to lie. You're using your tongue, right? How many times we tell our kids Listen, do not bag by people and you're sitting in the dinner table. And they say, did you see that sister in the conference and the way she was dressed? And then your son is gonna say that he told us in the morning. This is backbiting So no, no, no, this is plus 18.

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We can do it you can know what's wrong for you is wrong for them. Am I right? Right? Yeah, so hold your tongue. If it is good, say if it's bad. Stop it. So stay away from vain talk number three.

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Well, Edina.

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Allah said after talking about connecting and Salah, holding your tongue, he said well Edina homeless psychotic. How many of you speak Arabic here Raise your hands. I'm going to embarrass you be careful Oh, hands up down now Mashallah. Okay, why did the last part that I say will Latino homeless the catify alone, usually when the word Zika comes? It's always your Zika right. But why would Allah say fare alone do not do not file is

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because the word Zika is not in the literal meaning of Zika here Zika in the Arabic language stems from two routes. Use a key means to purify user key also means to develop or cause something to grow. So lots of pantelis saying you have to do two things yourself and your money. purify your money from no gain by giving Zakat and giving charity and purify yourself Paddy afla Harmon

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the same word called the alpha Harmon zeca so you need to develop yourself and move and better your character until you become a better Muslim. So this is ingredient number three So number one is you're not going to go home without mastering the ingredients to book your ticket to gender inshallah, number one is

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mastering your Salah by huzhou Alright, number two is home Hold your tongue say God or be silent. Number three is

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better yourself and purify your money from oil gain by giving Zakat and giving charity number four, Allah said

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while Edina homeless Oh Jim happy

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known Ilana

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for in

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Furman a bit Oh,

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basically last talking about one

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and only one legal relationship between a man and a woman which is

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marriage. So basically lasting chastity.

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The only legal relationship Allah subhanaw taala created the desire within the man towards the woman and located the desire within the woman towards the man. The only way to satisfy this is through marriage. We Muslims and hamdullah we love dates. It's as soon as we eat them in the morning, but we never date

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you agree with me or agree

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to democracy all the time, okay. Okay, so number four in the ingredients is give me one word, chastity. So did you forget number one who assurance Allah number two. Oh my god, they forgot. Hold your tongue number three Zakah of yourself on your money. Number four. chastity, move on to the last one. Allah subhanaw taala says,

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well, Lady normally

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a moron.

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Basically, you have to be trustworthy. If somebody trusts you, somebody were to trust you with something or with even information or secrets. You have to be trustworthy. Never disclose the information and give the trust back. Okay, Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who lead by example left earlier of Yama, Juan in Mecca when he immigrated, why not only to sleep in his bed, but to give the Trust's back to the people of Christ even though they are forcing him out of his own. yet. He left somebody to give them their trust back.

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Yeah, you had Latina Amano, Allah subhanaw taala told us a dual MNF Illa Allah give the trust back to the people who trusted you with

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one Park also this one Allah said well Edina, homely Amana to him, Why him? If you sign a contract, if you sign a covenant, if you sign an agreement, you have to honor it. You have to follow the conditions there. Don't say You know what? This is a Kaffir You don't have to be committed with him know a lost battle at the very beginning of sorts of matters number five and number one he said yeah, Lady Nah, man. Oh, say no, I'm you're upset. Yes, Allah. I wish to be a true believer. Allah said oh four will

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honor the covenants. Honor the contracts, if you signed something, just to honor it. The last one. The last ingredient Allah smart Allah said, while levena whom Allah Allah

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Allahu Akbar. What is the word start Allah Salallahu salam, right. And he's ending up again when Salah Why have you ever asked yourself, brothers and sisters? You know Salah is the main pillar of this Deen a Salatu amoda Deen right Subhanallah? What does that mean? After he become a Muslim through the Shahada, all the other Pillars of Islam? You know what?

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You can be exempted from them. What do you mean by that? You can be exempted from CRM. If you're too old,

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too fast or if you're too sick too fast. You can only give the video

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if you are poor, you don't have enough money. You don't have the nisab You don't have to give the car you're exempted. In fact, you might even receive the car.

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What about Hajj? If you are not physically or financially able, you are exempted. But what about Salah? You can never stops a lot. Even if you are on a deathbed because Salah is the connection with Allah. How can you live without having a connection with Allah subhanho wa Taala so you need to know the last ingredient as Allah said, Will ladina whom Allah Allah wa to him you half alone there is another aspect after her Sure. He loves talking about two things you pray on time and you are consistent in your Salah. You don't pray, just eat. You don't only pray Juma, you pray five times a day. If you love Allah, would you like to connect with him? If a king invites you to his house five

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times a day? How happy would you be? What about the King of all kings when he says

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when you hear this, how do you feel?

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Allah is the Greatest. No, it means a lot greater than anything you're doing. Leave it and come accept the invitation of Allah subhanaw taala because if you don't hear this, know towards the end of that and it says, Hey,

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if the implicit invitation by saying Allahu Akbar come, Allah is greater than what you're doing. Allah says come to Salah why

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This is your ticket to come because your success is going to be in salon. So let me conclude with this. The last slide, you know, let's summarize the ingredients for the recipe to book your ticket to agenda. Number one is I want everybody to stay with me who should insula.

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Number two, hold your tongue. Number three

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Zika and Zika applies to yourself and to your money. Number four, chastity, stay away from haraam. I'm gonna get your wife Don't worry, inshallah. Number five.

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be trustworthy, and honor your promises and Covenants. And the last one, when the Prophet Salaam was asking my family in Allah, what's the most beloved act of worship to a license a solid to allow Octavia to play on time and to be consistent in your salon? I'm sorry, I'm a teacher by profession. So now you go home, mastering the ingredients of booking your ticket to gender. Do you know how to be your ticket to gender now? Let's have the last slide.

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And I'm out of here.

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No more, more and more. Keep going, keep going. Keep going.

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Keep going.

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Keep going. Keep going.

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Keep going. One more, one more. No, man, you spoil it. Okay.

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salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah. Forget