Nadim Bashir – The Smiles and Tears of Prophet Muhammad #10 – Aisha and Sawdah RA with the Prophet SAW

Nadim Bashir
AI: Summary © The importance of being easygoing is discussed, including the need for a culture of being easygoing to avoid damaging feelings and a woman who married the Prophet Tada and was an ex-wife. The speaker emphasizes the importance of showing respect and respect in family, especially when it comes to the couple, and mentions a family dynamic where children are sent to their parents and their parents. The speaker suggests spending quality time with family members and not being harsh, and mentions a photo of a family member who is not present.
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Salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah he Muhammad wa ala early he was a big marine amoeba Welcome to another segment of the smiles and the tears of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So one thing that we find about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that he was very easygoing, you know, subhanAllah, many of us think that it is part of religion, or it shows or it displays a your high level of religiosity. If you go home, and you act like an A tyrant at home, you act very strict at home. And many of us have created this kind of mindset. And this, you know, this picture, that if

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the more you are on Dean, the more you are religious, than the more you're going to go home, and the more you're going to be strict, and the more you're going to keep everyone in line and so forth. And you're going to go home and you have this demanding nature and so forth. And subhanAllah first of all, we know that there was no one who has more Toccoa than was Lhasa Allahu Allah, he was sending him, there was no one who was more devoted to Allah subhanho wa taala, then Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, there was no one who can view themselves and call themselves more religious than Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. But yet, what we find from his stories is that the person was

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so easy going, and that his wives his own wives, they were so comfortable around Rasulullah sallallahu. It was sending them how so many times they will joke around with Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, the Prophet of Islam would joke around with them and so forth. And so today, I have a quick story I want to share with all of you today, which shows us that how we need to be very easygoing when it comes home. We should never give this impression to our family that as soon as we walk in at home, like everyone like stops breathing, or like the police officers here, and today Subhanallah is sad that today there are many youth and many families they feel they get the same impression when

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the father walks inside the house, that everyone has to be on their best behavior. And no one can do anything to possibly hurt the feelings of their father or the husband. And there's a certain kind of vibe that goes inside the house. Once again. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the best husband, he was the best father. So we we need to become like Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, it is mentioned at one time.

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So that are the ultra Unha and I show the lasagna. They were both sitting around restless aloha and Salem. Now let's take a pause here for a moment let's try to understand who do I just mentioned, so that all the Allah Tada and I saw the ultra on her. Going back to the seat of the province I'll sit on both of these women. They married Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam within a short span. And it was so though the Allah to the unhappy that got married to the prophets of salaam as soon as Hadiya passed away, and she was an ex wife, and she began living with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then not only that, but very soon after that he married I showed you a lot on her,

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however, that marriage was not consummated at that time. And later on in Medina after the Hijra of the Prophet SAW Sanlam that is when the marriage was consummated in Medina. So the Prophet it is I'm married, I Isha in Makkah, but the marriage was consummated in Medina nonetheless, later in the time of Medina is mentioned that one time I Isha and so the raviolo that are in Houma are sitting around Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and I Isha says that I had created a suite.

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And this suite, I came to go and serve it to several your local anha. Now you're talking about there's a very big age gap too. But I show the Athan has she understands that she has to show a certain level of respect yet they're both are the wives of the Prophet Salaam. But because soda is much higher in age and I saw the yellow Tonga I shall first served the one who was older and what we learned from this is this is called a dip and respect now as she was feeding so that all the data on her so that she insisted on a you take first and then I show the altar and she's saying that no no you take first otherwise now she's saying there's a formula so Allah while you're setting them up,

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because once again a family needs to be easy going. The family son was easy going. So I show the attire and says that if you do not do this, I'm gonna take this and put it inside your mouth forcefully. And then when she gave again to so that and so that says no, no, you take first, even after Ayesha saying that. I'm going to

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forcefully feeds you, then what happened was that she took some of that sweet and she began to smear it on the face of Sodor. The Ultra unhappy now is mentioned that as she did this on the face of so that there was a solemn then said he smiled, because he's enjoying this moment with the family. And this is something very important spending quality time with your family and joking around with them and so forth. He then tells so little yellow Donna, that you also take some of that sweet and smear on her face too. And once again, the problem is just he's smiling at this moment, he's happy about this moment, that seeing that, you know, mashallah his wives are getting along, and how he's

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enjoying the moment. So what we learned from this is brothers and sisters, is that when it comes to your family, spend some quality time with your family joke around with them. Do not always be harsh with them. Yes, there are going to be times when you have to be a little harsh or not harsh. I was a little firm, harsh can sometimes be taken the wrong way. I will say be firm with your family. You don't have to be rude. You don't have to be disrespectful. Yes, you can be firm at times the Prophet SAW Selim was firm at times two. At the same time, there are many cases like this, like where he was having a very pleasant time, joking around with his wives and so forth. So let's try to do this with

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our families. Let's try to have a very pleasant nature, a very pleasant personality, that when our families, they they see us, they don't run away from us, but they come closer to us. I ask Allah subhana wa Taala to give all of us ability to become like Ursula Salaam in terms of our o'clock in terms of our personality, and we will but I mean, does that Kamala Hey assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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