Nadim Bashir – Khatira – Prophetic Way of Correcting MISTAKES

Nadim Bashir
AI: Summary © The host gives three tips for correcting mistakes in leadership, including being gentle and being gentle when it comes to others. They stress the importance of addressing past mistakes and addressing problems in the future. The speakers also discuss the history of Islam and the use of the seal of prophets, emphasizing the need for researching before jumping to conclusions.
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Today's show I want to talk about something that beautifully we learned from the CETA of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. See you and I we're all human beings we all make mistakes. When the Prophet said Allah who it was someone make a mistake. Allah subhana wa Tada would correct Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada saw that after the Battle of a hood Rasulullah sallallahu sallam was so upset at the Sahaba of the Allah who I knew whom Allah subhanho wa Taala he told the prophets of Salaam, oh prophet of Allah have a lenient heart have a soft heart. If you don't have a soft heart, the Sahaba are not gonna come close to you. When Abdullah ibn Al

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Maktoum of the Allahu ani came to the Prophet sallallahu ala he was setting them even though the person did not totally heed the Prophet it is I'm told him that come back at another time. I will help you then right now I'm sitting with these delegates of the Quran I'm sitting with these chieftains of the Quraysh and usually I don't I'm not able to get hold of them come back at another time. Rasulullah saw some did not mean any kind of disrespect towards Abdullah Al Maktoum or the Allah one, but Allah subhanho wa Taala he said, Yeah rasool Allah. This is not the way you treat Abdullah ibn Al Maktoum. When the Prophet SAW Selim, he forgot to say in sha Allah, Allah subhanho

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wa Taala corrected Rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So we learned that when Ross who lost her son will make a mistake, ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala was sent away to the prophets I send them but when others would make a mistake, the prophet it is some he taught you and I, how do we correct those mistakes? Today Inshallah, I just want to share three important tips that we learned from Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, that especially for those who are in a position of leadership, a father is in, in a is in a position of leadership. Parents are in a position of leadership, we all will find ourselves at some time in our life, beyond our family in a position of leadership. How do

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we correct mistakes when people other people make it? We learn from Missoula Solahart he was setting them whenever he will see someone making making a mistake, sometimes he will get up and he will leave like we find the case Oh bucket or the Allah one that he was one time talking and there were some people showing absolute disrespect to obika The Allah one and then obika The Allah one he lost his cool for a moment and he began to respond back Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he got up and he left. This is one way the property some he will show his displeasure. Sometimes the problems I'll send them he will give a verbal he will give a verbal gesture sometimes the problems some he

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will give a nonverbal gesture. Sometimes he was you know you when you see the body language of the province I sent him you knew that this is not something that probably something he liked, but we also learned some tips that how he will correct mistakes. Number one is that when it came to correcting mistakes, he was always very gentle. Because see as a leader, if he is not gentle and everyone else is losing their minds, then it will become a chaotic kind of situation. Think about this. Imagine today just today. I mean not today literally today, but nowadays that's what I meant is that when we see kids for example, playing inside the masjid, something very common that we see.

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Or some you know some children that bring a ball inside the masjid someone's making noise inside the Masjid. Yes, it no doubt is a disrespect of the Masjid. But can you imagine the ultimate disrespect of a masjid is when a Bedouin man comes inside the masjid and he begins to urinate inside the Masjid. I mean, today we will not see anyone going to that limit. But we find in the case of the Prophet salaam, and why did these kinds of things happen to teach you and I a lesson that when someone would do something as severe as an as criminal as urinating inside the masjid, and everyone is heading his way, and everyone's trying to stop him, first of all, Rasulullah saw some he was very

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wise. He said, Let him finish he's already started, you make him stop is going to is going to ruin more places. He's at least making one place, you know, impure, and nudges that is better than making more places, nudges so let him finish. Then Rasulullah sallallahu it was something he called him. And then he taught him he educated him that my brother, my Bedouin brother, this is not the place we do these kinds of things. This is the house of Allah subhanho wa Taala So next time when we see someone doing something that is wrong, and we want to correct them, we have to always make sure that we always are very gentle. This is why even Subhanallah we find even in the Quran, when Allah was

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sending Mousavi Islam to fit our own. He's telling him for Gula who Poland lejana This is a coffin, a tyrant, someone who has claimed to be Malik, Rob and ILA there is no person in the past who has claimed to be all three, the Quran states that fit and claim to be all three. And yet Allah is instructing Musa when you go to him and you talk to him, Be gentle in your approach. So this is the very first thing, the second thing that we learn from the seat of the prophesies.

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The law is that we must address the issue, not addressing the issue does not solve the problem. So we find in the case of Osama immunization, or sama even as he was a son of Zaytoven harissa, who was the adopted son of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and by the way, Zaid is the only Sahabi mentioned in the Quran. Zaid was very beloved to Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam, and his son who summer was also very beloved to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we find even when children would want to get something approved by Rasulullah Salem, they will not go sometimes they will go to summer even to say that you are so close to the Prophet of Allah Azza wa sallam, you go and you ask

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on our behalf, we're talking about a time when Osama urbanization has grown up, and he is sent on an expedition. In that expedition, he took the life of someone when the Sahaba came back, the Prophet SAW Salem, he would always get a report, what happened, anything particular in particular that happened? And that is where you see a lot of the Philippi kind of situations would arise, they will ask a question, the Prophet alayhi salam will give a response. So anyway, the story came across Rosa Salem, or the incident that summer even as he took the life of someone, despite the fact that this man who was killed by Osama even Zayed, he said La Ilaha illa Allah, He took the shahada before he

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passed away. Russell was some he called Osama urbanization now, no matter how much he loves him, the point is you address the situation, you have to address the problem. So what did he do? He asked for sama sama. Did you do this? See, first of all, he never jumped on him right away. He first inquired with sama did you actually do this? And he says heroes Hola. I did, indeed. But I did. Because this man was not saying La Isla de la from his heart. He was saying La ilaha illallah out of fear, he not want to die. So that's why he said that you don't need Allah. And that is when Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said to someone even as a very well known saying, Hello Shakta Kalba Did you

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open up his chest? And did you gauge and analyze his intention and his heart? How can you know his intention was sama and Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he kept on repeating these words how shocked appalled by he kept on repeating these words. And when somebody even as he felt terrible, but we also learn Subhanallah sin. So addressing the mistake is also very important. But we also learn from the same story. Part of correcting mistakes is that you don't hold the crime against a person also, do not criminalize that person forever. And we find in the case of Roswaal Salah right before he passed away, he sent an expedition. And in that expedition, he made Osama immunization in charge.

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Yes. Did he make a mistake? Yes. Did he do something that was absolutely wrong, indeed, but also awesome, never held that mistake against him, because it was was on knows that there is a lot more potential to this young man. And if I hold that one mistake against him and to Subhanallah I must say that today we do this many times, especially when it comes to our young brothers, the youth of the community, a lot of times we see them doing something that is wrong, and we hold that crime against them forever. So this is why we learned from Russell wasallam addressing the mistake, but at the same time never holding that mistake against them forever. And finally, when it comes to

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correcting a mistake, never jumping to conclusions, always finding out the story. So in the in Davia, quickly, in odbl Rasulillah Salam cannot perform Umrah he and the Quraysh they put together an entire agreement. And they mentioned in that agreement that you will not do aamra This year you will do another following here. If someone comes to Medina from Makkah, they have to be returned to Makkah. But if someone comes to Makkah from Medina, they don't have to be returned to Medina. And part of that clause was that the Quraysh and the Muslims will not attack each other. And not only that, but all the other tribes. They're gonna align themselves either on on the side of the Muslims

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or on side of the Quraysh and the allies, whether they're on the side of the Muslims or the Quraysh they cannot attack each other. Now what happened was that in the time of the Prophet SAW sent him one of the tribes of the Quraysh, one of the tribes who were allies of the Kurdish attacked another tribe that was the ally of a Muslim. So when they when they violated the terms of their agreement, Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam said hulless now we're going to go to Makkah, and we're going to conquer Makkah. Now in Medina, there was a Sahabi by the name of how they even be belta Radi Allahu Allah and have they been rebuilt. Ah, he had family in Makkah, but he was not amongst a Polish. See if you

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have family in Makkah, and there are amongst the Quraysh you know that there is still some sense of security at the fact the fact that they are still the police

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the Quraysh may not attack them so there is some sense of security but hardly ever gonna be built I was not amongst the Quraysh now that he knows that the property you some is now planning to go to Makkah and and conquer Mecca would have to even be built I did was he sent a letter to the Quraysh. Now this is a man who has a muhajir a Mahajan companion, his status is very high. Not only was he a Mahajan, he was a buddy companion also status even becomes even higher. So we know that there was no sense of doubt when it comes to his allegiance to Islam and Rasulullah Salallahu Salam, but he sent this letter to Makkah into the Quraysh with the hope that if I do a favor for the Quraysh, perhaps

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they will show some mercy to my family in Makkah, they won't do anything to my family in Mecca. So it was not that he had insincerity. But he had he was afraid for his family. So he thought, let me do this favor of where he comes to from Allah subhanho wa taala, to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that there is a woman traveling to Mecca right now, and she carries a letter, you have to get that letter from her. I literally Allah on who says that I ze I admit the dad and zubaid We all three went to this woman, we found this woman, and the Prophet has some he told us that she has a letter, make sure you bring that to me. When they approach this lady, you have a letter, and she

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says, what letter? What are you talking about? And they're like, no, no, you do have a letter. If you don't give us a letter right now, then we may have to physically grab you, which we don't want to you either give us a letter, or we may have to grab you and get it out. So she pulled it out of her hair of the braids of her hair, and she provided it. Then Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he called Hartlaub and think about how to him he's coming to the province of Salem. And he has that letter in his hand. So Hala, and he says ohata What is this? And he says Yara Sula. Wallahi No, no, I don't have any ill intentions. I don't have any doubts in you. I will not I was not trying to hurt you, or

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Allah or his deen or the Muslim community, but you have to understand jasola I have family there and I care for my family. I care for the protection of my family. And I thought that if I did them a favor perhaps they will show some love and they will not they will not perhaps they will stay away from harassing my family. Now once again when I say early, making sure that you don't don't jump to conclusions at that time. You have people like oh my god Allah Allah yellow Sula, just give me the permission yellow so Allah, I will take care of this man right now. And Russell was awesome said Alma. Relax. Okay, relax. And then that is when Surah Mahina was revealed. Yeah, you're letting me

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know later taki do I do we what I do well come over here to the owner. You know him Billy. My word. That was the cover of my joke. I'm gonna hop in here. But the point of this story is the problem some did not prosecute how to be a rebel da, but he just and this was once again a revelation that came from Allah subhanho wa taala. The next time don't do something like this. So we learn from the seal of the prophets of Salah that even when someone doesn't make a mistake, yes, they may do something very wrong, like how to bid. But we have to always when it comes to correcting mistakes, we always inquire and find out the entire story before we jump to conclusions. Even we find this

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sort of fragility when Allah says yeah, you Lena Amano, injure Confessio Bombonera in fact about a year know when the privately some send us a hobby to go and collect zakat. And he came back with the news that perhaps they're coming to attack me and the community was not willing to they're not want to attack this hobby, who was sent by the prophet Salam. So Allah subhanaw taala reminded the Prophet when a person comes to you with some news, Fatima, you know, do your inquiry, do your homework, do your research before you jump to conclusions. So these are just three things inshallah I want to share number one was addressed the mistake number two is that do not hold a crime against

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that person. Number Number three is being gentle. And then the fourth one was do your research before you jump to conclusions. These are the these are just few that we learned from the sealer problem that somebody asked Allah subhana was about to give all of us the tofi mirabile Alameen wa sallahu wa Salam Alikum after loi brachetto in

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