5 Sins That Allah Despises

Nadim Bashir


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AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of avoiding sinful behavior and avoiding sinful behavior. They also mention the responsibility of the creator to remove grudges from people and the importance of avoiding sinful behavior and strong morality. They also touch on the history of the Bible and the concept of sin and the negative impact of alcohol on one's health. The importance of avoiding relationships and cutting off anyone claims to be a god is emphasized.
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gather us, along with our families in general for those of Allah in the companionship of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in his Sahaba mean Yarrabah aalameen.

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Brothers and sisters often when we approach the end of the year, we hear what buzz and lectures about reviewing the year and how the year went by. When we first started in the month of January. We had ambitions we had goals we had plans, and now the call usually is at the end of the year. That now is the time for assessment now is the time to assess how many goals that you had planned out

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Did you fulfill what were your ambitions Did you fulfill your ambitions or not? And so forth. This is a time for reflection and time of assessment was strictly also from from a religious point of view. This is a time also for us. And once again not from a Sharia point of view, but strictly from a cultural point of view that when we assess ourselves from a non religious perspective, there is nothing wrong if we assess our assess ourselves from a religious perspective also, and when we scour the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, there are many a hadith that today inshallah I want to I have chosen today for my husband, that we find that there are some

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certain things that we can do and certain things that we find in the Quran and Sunnah, that if we are doing them and we're following them, that we know that we are in the clear, we know that we are doing what we need to do. At the same time, there are some a hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were in he talks about some certain types of people, certain types of people, that if when they commit sins, they are there are such grave sins, that these sins are not forgiven by Allah subhanho wa taala. Now I do want to make this clear that there are sins of course as sins are forgiven by Allah subhanho wa taala. You and I we recite every single raka R Rahman r Rahim Allah

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subhanho wa Taala is the one where mercy begins is where mercy ends with Allah subhanho wa taala. The one who shows the ultimate level of mercy is Allah subhanho wa taala. And Allah subhanaw taala is a full Rahim. But at the same time, what I'm about to share with you from the Sunnah of the Prophet salaam that there are five actions, five things that without a sincere Toba, Allah subhanho wa Taala will not forgive them. And if we have any of these five characteristics in our life, then it is a cause for concern. It is a moment that we have to wake up and assess ourselves and make a plan to stay away from these five sins. The very first sin a sin that Allah subhanho wa Taala will

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never forgive no matter how much good a person has done is the sin of schicke shidduch is something that Allah subhanho wa Taala will never ever forgive Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the Quran in the law hola yo Fu and you Shakopee where y'all Pharaoh madrina Danica Lee manga SHA, if there's one sin that Allah will not forgive it is Schick and that means that no matter how much a person has done in their life, if they died without if they died on shidduch and the died, associating partners with Allah subhanho wa taala, then that is in the ultimate failure. So that is why first of all, as a person we need to understand that we don't do any kind of ship with Allah subhanho wa taala. This

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also means that when we do things we do them only only for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala that's why it was allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he talks about that there is the major type of shake and there is the minor type of shake, a shake. The minor type of shake is a type of shake that many of us we will find ourselves in. And that is when we do things only and only when we do things not to please Allah subhanho wa Taala we're supposed to do things only to please Allah subhanho wa taala. But when I do things to please other people, to impress other people to gain more followers today, we do live in a time where so many people are doing so much hate, but all the want in return

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is people's approval. All they want in return are more likes and more shares. They want more and more followers on their social media accounts and so forth. So this is why this is the minor type of *. That was who allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has talked about and at the end of the day, brothers sisters, the reason why shidduch in itself is such a tantamount sin is such a such a great sin is because think about it for a moment. The one who is the ultimate provider is Allah subhanho wa Taala the one who has given us everything is Allah subhanho wa taala. Every single Neoma in our life, it is from Allah subhanho wa taala. But when a person does ship with Allah, they're giving the

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credit to someone else besides Allah subhanho wa taala. Just to give you an example, for us to understand, imagine someone created a product. Imagine a company created a product, a unique product, in order for them to protect the product in order for them to ensure that no one else will take their ideas and run with their ideas. What do they do they patent that product, right? They patent that product? If and if anyone tries to mimic the same product, they will be sued and there'll be lawsuits against them. Why? Because the idea is that we created this and no one else should be given the credit but us and we see that there are consequences if if people are if other

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people try take the same credit. Think about this for a moment.

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If Allah subhanho wa Taala has created everything in this dunya yet people are worshipping other deities besides Allah subhanho wa Taala they're giving them the credit they're worshipping them besides Allah subhanho wa Taala This is why shidduch is such a grave sin. So this is the very first thing that Allah says about this is the free first thing amongst the five sins that today inshallah will cover the our sins that Allah subhanho wa Taala will not forgive the second sin that Allah subhanho wa Taala will not forgive. Unless of course there's Toba, Allah, someone will forgive, but a person who holds grudges in their heart against other people. This is why it was allah sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam he says in a hadith narrated by ibn Muhammad Ali Allah one that let go, forgive, forgive and when you forgive from your heart, the grudges will will come down, the graduates will break up between yourselves. Now the question that some people may ask Is that does that mean that if someone has hurt me that I will not have a grudge in my heart? If someone has hurt you so much, they have caused so much pain to you. They have betrayed you. They have deceived, they have deceived you. Of course, our dean is a very practical Dean. Our dean is not saying that you forget that you forget about what has happened. Of course we live with those kinds of things for the rest of our

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life. Even when we see that person. We will have flashbacks, we will remember how this person has caused pain to me. Our dean is not saying that you have to forget it. And you have to remove it from your hard drive. Or Dean is saying, let's be practical here about this. Our dean is saying that you will remember it but at the same time, do not carry that grudge in your heart. Because grudges, brothers, sisters, even from a psychological point of view, when a person carries a grudge in their heart, and they carry this burden in their heart will lie. First of all psychologically it messes with your mind. The only thing you're thinking about over and over again, is that person what our

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deen is telling us is leave the matter in the hands of Allah subhanho wa Taala let ALLAH SubhanA wa take care of that person, the choice is yours. You can either forgive that person, if you choose not to forgive that person, that's your choice. But once again carrying the grudge over and over again is what is a serious problem. Why? Because once again, we find even from the CETA of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was saying that when obika The Allahu Allah and his daughter I shall have the Allah Allah Allah was accused by one of the Muslims, one of the believers of the community. He could have carried that grudge on but Allah subhanho wa Taala says that Well yah hoo well yes for who

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alleged to have buena Allahu Allah Karim. Allah is telling Rasulillah salam to convey this message to Albuquerque Allah one because Albuquerque Allah one was financially supporting this person. Now think about the person you are financially supporting is accusing your daughter of some haram that she committed. A person will never support that person afterwards. But Allah subhanho wa Taala is saying let go of that grudge what Allah subhanaw taala is not to say that you forget about it because we cannot forget about things that have happened to us in our life. And that is why we find Rasul Allah Allahu Allah. He was saying that when washy, the man who killed the uncle of the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who mutilate the body of the province, the uncle of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, whenever washy would have come in the gathering of Rasulullah sallallahu it he was selling the property some did not forget what what she did to his uncle. But what the provider you saw would tell why she is that when you come to my gathering, because now he had become a Muslim. And remember when he became a Muslim, the Prophet saw some did not say that, no, you're not allowed to come in my community. You're not allowed to be part of my community. You cannot take your Shahada. But no, when he came, he said that I do not know if Allah will forgive me

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for my actions. Because I know I've done something great, I've done something wrong. So Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed that Allah will forgive the sin. But even after he took his shahada, Rasulullah sallallahu, always request washi, that when you come to my gallery, sit on my side, sit on the side, because when I see you and reminds me of my uncle, it shows us that even if the province of some cannot forget about something, then we cannot forget about something that may have happened to us. But once again, the Prophet SAW son is now holding that grudge against him. So this is why it is important to understand that when we have feelings, feelings, generate actions, if I

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hold a grudge against a person over and over again, there will come a time, there will come a time that you may do something to that person, because feelings always generate actions. What's in your heart is gonna come out in your arm and it's gonna come through your clock and so forth. So a person who has a grudge over and over in their heart, then they will do something against that person. And this is why it was so

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Lhasa Allahu Allah, he was setting them. One time when he was sitting with the Sahaba of the Allah honorable, he saw a man passing by. And he's the he's from the people of Jana, because it's something that you and I we've heard before. And when a Sahabi went and stayed with that person, he never noticed anything extraordinary, extraordinary. Something very special from that person. But what he noticed was that this person every single night when he would go to sleep, he was asleep with a clean heart. And you may think that's easy, but Allah He is sleeping and having an absolute clean heart and not carrying a grudge against anyone else is one of the most difficult things. So

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this is why when you hold a grudge against a person over and over again, and you may act upon that grudge, then this is a situation that where Allah subhanaw taala he may not forgive another another sin that ALLAH SubhanA wa Tala despises very much is arrogance. See, one is to have pride. Pride is not is not prohibited in Islam. Pride is I am proud that I have a nice job. I am proud that I have a nice house. I am proud that a humbler Allah has given me a good education. I am proud to have such and such blessings in my life. That's not the problem. The problem is arrogance. That's why arrogance is called Kibber and Kibber. Is that Buttle hearty welcome to NASA this is the definition

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of Qyburn that when you believe that what you but when you believe that what I do and what I believe in is better is more superior than the Quran and Sunnah when you do something that is wrong, and someone tells you that you're doing something that is wrong, according to Islam, and you suppress Islam, why? Because you think that you and your opinion is superior to Islam. That is a sign of cable. That's exactly what shaytaan did. Also, when he was told to me says to add money, he's Salam. He says I am better than him. When we believe that we are better than someone and this is why Allah subhanho wa Taala he makes it very clear in the Quran. In a chroma comb, the superiority of a person

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according to the next person or compared to the next person is not based on race is not based on your finances is not based on your social status is on based on where you come from and what language you speak superiority in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala is built is based purely on Taqwa is based on our connection with Allah. This is why Rasulullah sallallahu it was something he says in hola hola Yong, bro Isla Asami come wala Illa suvery Come Allah does not look at your bodies Allah does not look at your faces. And Allah Subhan does not look at anything else. Well, I Qiyam Rue Isla Kulu be kumbaya Malecon Ross was on tells us that the the Allah subhanho wa taala, he sees

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the heart and he sees the armor of that person. And that is how Allah subhanaw taala judges between a person so that is why Brothers Sisters Keeper is one of those things that today many of us have. And we don't even realize that we have think about it for a moment. If you were ever told that you're doing something that is wrong, according to Islam, and you suppress it, that is a sign of cable, if you feel that I'm better than the other person because of my language. Because of my ethnicity. This is a sign of Kibera And subhanAllah racism also stems from Cuba, when a person has Kibera in their heart, they're going to be racist towards others. And subhanAllah I have to say

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this, and this is the reality that there is much racism in our Muslim community today. We may not we might not say it, but it is within our actions. And so that is why we have to be very careful when we are when it comes to other people. We don't ever display any kind of Keba in front of anyone else. Another another. Another sin that is despised by Allah subhanho wa Taala is the person who severs relationships between others, we find that there are so many families and so many families where there is one person you know how many times people have come to me they have shared these kinds of stories with me. And it is common in many families that there is one person who is

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considered as like this Godfather, okay, the whatever he says it goes in the family. If he says don't talk to them, then people in the family will not talk to them. If he says everyone the family cut off from that person, then everyone will cut off from that person. I asked you that if you listen to this person, and if you listen to anyone who tells you that seven your relationship with someone else, what will you say to Allah subhanho wa Taala on the day of judgment that this person told me to cut off my relationship with this person told me to sever my relationship. Remember brothers sisters from the Hadith of the Prophet SAW Selim, a person who severs relationships will

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not enter into Jana law yet the halal Janata Party on not only the person who suffers

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relationships. But when you sever a relationship just because someone else told you to sever your relationship with that person, you fall into that Hadith also, the person will be cursed in this dunya Allah subhanho wa taala, a person who severs relationships, Allah will send his curse upon these kinds of people. Do you really want to be amongst those kinds of people? Do you really want to feed? Do you really want to come under the liner of Allah? subhanho? wa taala? The answer, of course, is no. So that is why I've talked about this before, when it comes to our families. If there is a person who's saying separate their relationships, you have an Islamic obligation. This is where

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you have to make the choice brothers and sisters that do you want to listen to what Allah and His Prophet son tells you, or you're going to listen to this man or this woman in the family who says, cut off their relationships. If you listen to the human being, that you know where your loyalty stands? Now, you know, the who's more important to you is that Allah and His Prophet our salon or is the other human being that is where the you will have to answer on the day of judgment and we will have to stand me for Allah subhanho wa taala. And remember that these people will not come and stand with us because on the Day of Judgment, Allah is going to be judge, jury and executioner and there

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is no support. There is no Shiva without besides the Shiva Rasulullah Salah there is no shofar for anyone else on the Day of Judgment. So that is why brothers sisters, this is one of the biggest things that we find today in our families, people not talking to each other people cutting off from each other. Why? Because they told me to do so you ask yourself What will you say to Allah subhanho wa Taala on the Day of Judgment. The next one is a person who cannot get away from anything that is considered as an intoxicant. Now, when we say intoxicants, the first thing that comes to our mind is alcohol. And yes, while there are a hadith that talks about alcohol, but there are so many things

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that can intoxicate us, the love of it can intoxicate us and when intoxicates us, it will take us away from Allah subhanho wa Taala for some people business has become an intoxicant. For some people for many of our youth video games are considered as an intoxicant. For many people gambling, there's so many Muslims in our community who are gambling, there's so many Muslims, there are people in our community who are drinking, these are things that we have to stay away from. These are things are considered as intoxicants, anything, anything that whose love, it controls you to the point and inspires you and it takes over your life to the point that you have complete disconnect yourself

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from Allah subhanho wa Taala that has become your intoxicant. And these are the things that are despised by Allah subhanho wa taala. So ask ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala to make us are amongst those who do not cut who do not commit any of these sins, we ask Allah Subhana Allah to protect us from sins, we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to make us from amongst those who will do what pleases Allah subhanho wa Taala and His Rasul sal Allahu Allah He was selling them by Nicola hula Anna welcome, alim. When I find out what He commanded what degree Hakeem and stuff Allah How do you welcome what inside Messina? First off, you know, in the whole of

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Allahumma Salli ala Muhammad wa ala Muhammad Ibrahim while early you brought him in the Commedia Medela barik ala Muhammad, wa ala Muhammad, Abdullah Ibrahim, early Ibrahim in the Camino Majeed about once again shall I just want to quickly run through all these five sins and once again, this is not the point where we point at others, but this is the point where we reflect on our own selves, the very first sin that is after despised by Allah subhanho wa Taala is should the second one is a Messiah and a person who holds in carries graduates and carries hate in their heart towards others. The third one is to cupboard in Kibana, or known as arrogance. The fourth one is an author the

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person who severs relationships, or who causes to sell who causes other people to several relationships with others. And the last one is a person who is addicted to some intoxicants, that then leads them away from Allah subhanho wa taala. So let's take a moment and let's think about all this and not only that, but there's so many more Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that talks about things that we should stay away from, if we truly want the Mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala in this dunya and akhira ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to make us amongst those who will receive His mercy in this dunya and who will receive his Rama His mercy and forgiveness

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