Session 82 Greeting & Treating Others

Munir Ahmed


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hamdulillahi rabbil aalameen or salat wa salam ala

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bi were mostly early he was Sofia Gemma in my bag or your liquid Okay? Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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Well God Ness Allah Allah and your Taco Bell Mina

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where you have a Finland as a little banana UK for an SI attina Ness l ello. Who the ailment or risk and was there were ama la sala Motor Club Bella

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Nestor in Ruby he was la he will need Hola Hola. Hola. Quwata illa biLlah Hillel in Louvain Payne

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praise bitwala Lord of the Worlds Peace and blessings reef Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam after saying Islam to you We ask Allah to forgive us to block out our sins to help us to

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sustain it and nourishes with beneficial knowledge and understanding and wide sustenance. And to

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me it was a tough week for good deeds which acceptable to Him.

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To Him is our return

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to him we repent a new need there is no power mate except that of Allah.

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Hadith number 26 A very quick reminder

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these Abu Huraira Imam Norway's

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call on soon Lysol Allahu alayhi salam Kulu sola Mina nasally he sort of Kula yelman tattoo that Lou fish shrimps every joint

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of a person upon it is a sort of every day the sun comes up tabula vainness named sadhaka they can good between two people is a charity water enological Isla Fida, but he said that mill who I like to help a person onto the mound or to carry them on to it I'll tar file Tara Fowler, who Elijah Mata Abu sadaqa or to lift up his or her belongings onto it is a charity well calibrated by Eva sadaqa. And the good word is a charity what we call the hot word in term she Hi la sala Salah for every footstep that you take towards salah is a charity where to meet will other and Tory sadaqa. And to remove something harmful from the road or path is a charity for what we believe are Muslim. So we've

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covered most of that we were looking then as Ibn Rajib also mentioned and I went with it further.

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extra duties aside from these remember we said this list isn't limited. It's endless because school Lewmar rules every good is a sub account.

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When we talk about other ahaadeeth Especially for Muslims, the rights and duties for Muslims upon Muslims. Whether publicize them in Buhari, Mason five, America the other one in Muslim mentioned six. Again is not limited list, but it's summarized.

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Some of the key duties are here. And we mentioned them. The one with the six is perhaps the best one to mention because it takes another one which was missed up from the one that mentions five adds to the pie. They're not separate six, they're the five plus one. Yeah. If you understand what I'm saying, when in Sahih Muslim, Huck will Muslim a lot of Muslims sit right due to Muslim upon a Muslim six killed Maha nyassa. Like I said, What are they a messenger of Allah? And he says in the Hadith in Sahih, Muslim is our LaQuita who for salam ala if he meets her or meets him or her then to say salaam

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to him or her. And the humps one to five one sec rush to Salem

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to respond to the salam to reply to this alarm. Yeah.

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I'll come back to that. What is that the Arca gebouw when he or she is invited to answer the invitation and we talked about that last time about what kind of invitation and what kind of situations. What is this done? Sokka fun

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So hello.

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And when he or she seeks Naseeha advice, then he or she should give the advice. Yeah, duty. What is the officer for Hamidullah for some metal and when he or she sneezes and says Al Hamdulillah? For some metal, we said they should say yarmulke Allah of Hashem motto, same meaning with a sheen or a scene. And we talked a bit about that last time, what you that Mari that for all the who? And when he or she falls ill to visit to visit them? Why that matter?

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When he or she dies, that he or she should be followed, and we'll explain that today. We didn't get to that stage. I don't think

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coming back. I wanted to mention a few points first about Salam I mentioned the things last time. Yeah. And from the Hadith, you can get the idea from Muslim Hadith that the duty is to give the salam like an obligation. But if you take all the narrations yeah many of them mentioned brought to Salam is a duty to so actually it's good for both because there are more towards it Hadith saying that the best is the one who begins with the salah.

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Right, the best person is the one who begins with Salam. Nevertheless, I mentioned hustle and bustle Lee and his statement which is based in by Imam Al Bukhari and his other Bullfrog and saying at the Salim that the war was not for either one or two for either that to say Salam is mazahub Highly recommended, but respond back is affirms when somebody is actually said it to you. Okay, so it still doesn't take away from the fact that we are very much encouraged to say Salaam. Yeah. And better to say this alarm first. Because there's greater reward in that, but when somebody says it to respond is an obligation. And a right on the one who's given you, salam, they have a right on you. Okay.

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you notice in the Hadith, the various things. Salaam Naseeha.

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When somebody dies, it, that means janazah prayer and burial. Okay.

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Responding to an invitation. Yeah. Is that and when somebody sneezes, says Alhamdulillah respond to WR smoke Allah? Is that gender based?

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I'm asking you very quick, because this is a very important point I'm going to make.

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Is this only for males?

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Where does it say this is only for males? Except the fact is using masculine but no scholar understands that this is for men duty to men or legs.

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Yeah, because it'd be stupidity and totally flawed argument. So this is all Muslim to Muslim Muslim to Muslim means met and female. Yeah. So when I say when we meet Brothers and Sisters in Islam along the way, anywhere in the world, not just in the masjid

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should we say salaam to each other?

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What's what he's saying? Some scholars actually even set from this hadith that it's obligatory to even say salam, but I believe the best opinion is most the hub certainly, yeah, why they say that as well. Like, hustle and bustle. He said, The Great Tabby I'm more of that inclined to that opinion as well. Because Allah Samantha says in the Quran

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which inclines toward the response again because he says what either we used to be to hear Tim

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Yeah. For how you be at Santa min how to do her. In Allah Cana ala kulli. Che in Hazaribagh. Yeah. So Allah says, when you are greeted with a greeting that covers all Greetings By the way, not just salaam who don't say when you're greeted with Salam, when you are greeted with a greeting that then respond back to it with something better, or at least return the same.

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And the respond back to it with something better or at least return the same is an obligation is an order from Allah subhanaw taala.

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And notice the order is to respond not to do the first way that we eat and when you are greeted. That's why

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Scholars made the Greek king was the hub and the response from this verse, which is an order a third

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with me fun, because this is telling you, you must respond back with something better, or at least equivalent. Surely Allah

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takes account of all things, including this. So firstly, that includes somebody saying good morning to you. Good afternoon. Good evening. Hello. Yeah. All greetings. Yeah. As long as the greeting doesn't have any shift in it. Yeah, obviously, we don't give * back.

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But most Greetings people use around the world doesn't have shift in it. Yeah, so good morning, if somebody says it to me, and I just ignore them. At least I say good morning. How are you?

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Better if you can, because that's what the Quran say. Yeah. Or at least the equivalent, right? Is that for male and female? Again, this grant talks about is the Quran talking about just male? No, no. Interesting thing, therefore, and I said earlier, so the greeting issue will come to Muslim or non Muslim in a minute, let's just talk about Muslim because the idea is not referring to Muslim and non Muslim by the way.

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I've just translated when you are greeted with a greeting Allah saying in the Quran, yeah, you must respond with something better or equivalent.

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That's general as everybody is talking to Muslims is talking to Muslim that you must respond. But the when you are greeted is left

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You would make your greeting come from anywhere that's been left open.

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And you're you have to respond. So we'll come back to that. But if you apply the ahaadeeth Huck,

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hackle Muslim or non Muslim, Muslim upon Muslim, not Muslim male upon Muslim, Muslim or non Muslim

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is to say salam highly recommended when it says you must respond.

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Okay. We have a culture. And I've talked about it before my foot buzz. Nobody takes any notice because I think maybe I've lost it somewhere.

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I mean, our sisters,

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not even in the supermarket, but coming out of the mosque.

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And I'm going into the mosque or coming out and they're coming in. Right. And I'm not even one of the ordinary Muslims monkey walking in and one of the Imams here for deeds and they know it. Right. And I say Salaam

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95% of the time, I don't get any response.

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What's the problem?

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Is the voice aura. This is nonsense. I can't speak. But I tell you what I said before. If a teacher said good morning or salaam or the milkman said Hello, good morning, they'd say good morning.

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and this is a culture out there and it needs to change. And I've told our sisters before who don't respond that I have a right on the reply obligated in in the Quran and the Sunnah.

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And you have taken my right.

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And that right? Where will it be?

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settled? Yes, for the salam even. Yes. Look what Allah said in the Quran when mentioned greeting, how the verse How does the verse end? In Allah haka Allah, Li che in the hassy

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Surely Allah takes account of all things after In other words, don't think this is trivial.

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You're not responding to the greeting? Yeah, even if I said good morning to a Muslim sister. She has a few key to respond to me with Good Morning.

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Not saying what kind of Muslim is this is saying good morning. Are we allowed to say good morning by the way?

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Because we are where they say not allowed to say good morning or good afternoon.

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Hello, as we do

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so that's the other thing but saying salam you know I've taken it to a different level and the sisters should actually say salaam to a Muslim person if they know going body

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that's recommended but amongst Brothers and Sisters in Islam, not just coming in and out of the mosque but you expect even more so because you coming in the mosque?

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This is this

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It is a cultural mentality that is against the Quran and Sunnah. Let me not mince my words. It is against the Quran and Sunnah to not respond

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I don't know where it comes from. Is it lack of trust of a Muslim man that if you say well it can Muslim there is going to read something into it. Is that where it's from? I don't know. Because if it is from that is sick.

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I don't mean Sikhism sick. I mean, mud, it is a sickness. If we thinking that

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then Quran sunnah would have explained very clearly.

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Only for men to men and women to women, you're not allowed to say salaam to women, a woman can't respond back to men with Salam

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wouldn't have to clarify that. And it doesn't. Can anybody read from this? This is only for males. It's absolute nonsense. Absolute nonsense. Yeah. So Muslim sisters. Yeah. In our company says sneezes and say a Hamdulillah. I don't say you're a homophone. There are Makayla nonsense. Absolute nonsense.

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Yeah, we don't have a duty as Muslims from this hadith is the duty of doing janazah on Muslims. Yeah. So we say Oh, it's a Muslim sister. It doesn't apply to me,

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just for women to women. So you're gonna go down that road to differentiate, then you differentiate and all of them. So Salam is included here. Just like the rest arrest.

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So very important. This is

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some say

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if you said she just said welcome slam very quietly, but you didn't hear it.

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Is that acceptable?

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It is not acceptable. The Salah walakum. Islam is not to myself. Neither is it to Allah. The Wallach Muslim is to the person who's given you Salaam? And if you didn't, if you haven't said it,

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you know

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that you haven't said it.

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You can't get away with that nonsense. Don't play games with Islam.

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some people might think this is trivial. I don't think this is trivial. Because the Quran doesn't make it trivial.

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The greeting and responding to the Quran hasn't made it trivial. That's why end of the AI is always very important, isn't it? telling you how serious this is? Don't think it's trivial. Yeah. And the hence the Hadith to do with it as well. Now, now can we come to the issue of greeting non Muslims.

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The Quranic idea is telling you, telling you to respond an obligation to non Muslim say greeting to you.

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In whatever language it is telling you is an obligation.

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Then didn't mention the word Salam.

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By either we eat him, you have an obligation to respond? Yeah.

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What if the person's non Muslim says Assalamu alaykum?

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What's the Quran telling us to say?

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Yeah, it's saying same or better. What's better? walakum wa salaam wa Rahmatullah.

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Wa Alikum Islam at least. Yes.

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The only way that's not going to happen is something else is going to stop me from doing that from evidence from the Quran and Sunnah.

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If something comes from a grant versus prevent me from responding like that, and I tell you there's nothing Some say that the Prophet saw them only responded by saying what Alaikum

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this is some opinion.

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What do you think that based on?

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I did this was sick. When we did the Sierra I'm sure I covered this topic.

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They base it on authentic hadith. When some Jews in Medina said to the Prophet SAW Salam, not a Salam or Aleikum, they said salam o aleikum, may you be dead

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prophesize I'm not gonna say while he can Muslim back to them but he didn't say any more than that. He just said what I like them because on the Mortmain eyeshadow the Alana said a lot more. Yeah. Oh you family of pigs and Finzi frenzied and the monkeys. That's what she said. And the province has some told her off of fat Isha Salah sallahu Elisa solo. Then you hear what they said Yara Salalah. He said, Yes, I did. And I gave the response la Alikum. But you're going to have

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far in fascia in lewd words, insult, insult, don't be stopped or mobile nyesha from doing that, okay? You cannot use that evidence to say when somebody says actually slam on a computer I say, Well, can you what kind of what? They say, May you perish. And in that context the prophecies wildly can now become a say the rest not those were some

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not all Jews, those were some at the time. You can't use that evidence to say when somebody comes and says Assalamu alaykum say well, you

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can't use that as evidence. It's nonsense to use that as evidence. You understand? But some people try and use that say you can only say why. Now, the bigger issue is saying salaam to non Muslims ourselves, instead of them initiating. We initiate and say a Salam ra now comes a debate amongst the four kaha Nalanda.

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Why? Because of the Hadith enabled and in Muslim

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which says laptab double yahoo.com Masada be Salam

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But it doesn't stop there. Okay.

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What is our lucky to move home factory factory route home Isla Abuja tartaric. And when you meet them on a pass, then shove them to the narrowest part of the road.

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This hadith is inside Muslim, Abu Dhabi's authentic,

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the application is the issue. Because what did people who said Don't, don't begin salaam with non Muslims living in this country, etc. Many moms use this study. Interestingly, they use the first part of it and not the second part. You can't play games like that. If you're going to follow the Saudis

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in the context, you are right in meeting non Muslims. So you don't begin with Islam. What else is it telling you to do? It's telling you to push them.

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Yeah, on the on the road as you're going by them or in the corridor in the hospital or school to push them into the corner like that. That's exactly what the hadith is saying. So why are you only taking the first part of the deed? Why don't you do the rest is London?

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Why am I saying that? Because the Hadith must have a context it cannot be generally applied. That's why they don't apply the second part because they know it doesn't make sense to apply my work colleagues or work, right.

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So I say I'll transfer this lump to them. Well, if you can't, then you must do the second part as well. Why aren't you doing that? Because you will think this is not nice. So the whole Hadith must be taken.

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You're gonna follow the first part, you must follow the second part. The only way to understand this hadith is first to look at the Quran and look at other ahadeeth and it will give you a context that are very limited context

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of enmity.

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Yeah. And enmity in a more in a Muslim environment. Muslim state. Yeah. And the time of very

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possible critical time of warfare.

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Even then, you have other hobbies about the Zin me the citizen in a Muslim state and not treating them badly?

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Yeah, we mentioned that before how the person? Yeah, who does that? And the person who harms that then me a citizen in a Muslim country? How they won't even smell the fragrance of paradise. Is that serious? So that needs to be looked at in the context. Personally, this hadith. I have issues with it. Even though it's in Sahih Muslim and a B download. I don't say it's not authentic. Yeah, it needs further study to it because it's emotional health difficulties. The only way to understand it is in a war context. Very nice to be pigeonholed because look what the rest of the crime diva saying. So it's an exception, limited cannot be applied general because the Quran overrules it. No

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Quran saying either you don't better here then not one as well. Although that verse I've mentioned, he's talking about responding, so that's why they'll say oh is responding alright, but you're not allowed to start the salon. Well, then we have

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Allah subhanaw taala says

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in Surat Al Furqan what is hot about Umoja he Luna Paul who sell

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when you engage in conversation with Jackie Loon, the ignorant folk, Allah doesn't use Jackie loon for Muslims.

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You Yeah, talking about non Muslims. In other words don't carry on conversing when they speaking, speaking rubbish or insult, then all Salah says Salaam. It says salam to them. Allah St. Paul Lusa say salam to them. All right, then we have another verse where Allah subhanaw taala says

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that was sort of qualify verse 63, near Surah 28 verse 55, what is a semi Gulag one? What is semi Allah wa our do and work on? moulana Luna

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LUCAM Salomon alikoum la Nebuta Hilda healing

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when you hear when they hear

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when they hear useless, vain talk, they turn away

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talking about believers when they hear from other people, useless, vain talk. Yeah, they turn away from that and they say, Lana Molina for us our deeds and for your deeds. Yeah. For us our deeds and for you your deeds. Salam aleikum

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describe unbelievers saying to the disbelief that Salam or Aleikum

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the Quran saying it.

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So they're saying that to who to disbelievers, as it turned away from them, yeah, because they're involved in nonsense rubbish talk, which is not befitting a believer. Yeah. So Salam aleikum, and

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showing again, that you leave with dignity.

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You live with dignity by saying so. Salam aleikum not to believe this. Is Kiki saying bye believers is saying it to disbelievers. Then you have Ibrahim alayhi salam saying to his father, Allah Salamone la sua estan funeral laka Robbie Salam upon you. What was he not just a mushrik he wanted his own son to be tortured and killed. You wanted to hit him himself. And he says to him, salam ala before he leaves

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so why is it Rahim? Allah is something Salam

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in the Quran, to a disbelievers and enemy in fact, saying salam Ana Lake, I still ask forgiveness for you.

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Another parts rasool Allah swappa says at the end of the surah

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walk really he wrote be Yara be in

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your home Allah you may know on FASFA and homework also.

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So on so withdrawal for the essay Salem stone, they will realize

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here talking about in the HA hula in como la you know, these are people they will not believe and they don't believe FASFA and home. So, withdrawal from them. What will Salem

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say Salem? Yeah, soon they will find out. But look at all these places. All of them are talking about saying salam to non Muslims. So how can you have now one Hadith to counter and go against the Quran? It's very difficult.

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So you have to put it in a pigeonhole context or you have to check it properly. You cannot go against all these areas of the Quran, prophesy, some didn't come to go against the Quran, but to follow the Quran is exemplified then to exemplify it further. You have the idea from the Prophet sarsam in many a hadith where he says Asha salaam

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blood Salam Abdullah Agnes Salam who was a Jew became a believer said the first thing the prophesy Islam came when he came to Medina I heard him and that's when he became a believer.

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This is authentic, that is the prophesy Salam said after Salam wa to Mo Tom. Yeah, spread Salam. And then in Medina, we're believers and disbelievers. In fact, believers in this

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Believe it gathered when he was making this comment as to salaam Dinah can spread Salam between you. Yeah. Not limiting it only to Muslims. Yeah

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then In another Hadith the Prophet SAW Salam said, salam ala man Arasta or Mala tarrif say Salam to the one you know and the one you don't know.

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sal Allahu alayhi wa salam Yep. So these evidences

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Yeah. In the multitude outweigh one Hadith which is coming with not on its own about not initiating salaam but with something which you wouldn't practice.

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It will be uncouth behavior for us living in this country, with our colleagues at work, neighbors, etc. Practice that push them along the wall as we're going by them. Yeah.

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If you're not going to do that, then also the first part doesn't apply in our context. Yeah, use the general of the Quran and multitude, a hadith and many verses in the Quran about saying Salaam and the Quran many places have you noticed most of the time is saying salaam to people who are behaving badly with you.

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They're actually showing enmity

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not good neighbors and colleagues at work is still saying salaam as you walk away from them in the Quran. So what is the situation where people who are our colleagues and neighbors and we have good relationship? More, isn't it? And more right for our Salah.

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So that's what I say. And since the issue of salaam came from this hadith, I thought that's important. And this is a topic that has actually laughing it no doubt where I believe that is the best opinion

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that is absolutely fine to initiate salaam with non Muslims. Yeah. And it is still an obligation to say when they say Islam to you, while ecommerce salaam Rahmatullah or any of the Greek integrate back for have that clarifies that

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the other last time I mentioned about

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the sneezing issue, and I wanted to add one or two things to that.

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This hadith is in Almaden Bukhari and they say

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that the Prophet sallallaahu Salam sent from OB Hurayrah following the visa in Allah you hibel Abbas were yet Rahu Tessa

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Allah Swatara loves the sneeze or the sneezing but dislikes yawning.

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Yawning but either outlays fight either outside I had to come Foley athma dilla. If one of you therefore sneezes he should say a handler that in Haqqani, Ullman Samia who and your call your amakhala and it is a duty on one who is him or her that he or she says yarmulke Allah?

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Yeah, we're in Mercer home as for yearning

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for in the MA Hua Minh estate on for surely it is from shaitan

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but either Tessa,

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Tessa Oba Docomo failure Ruda who mustered up the inadequacy is our caller

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grafica shaked on minimum. So when one of you yawns he should try and cover the ahaadeeth come as well cover the mouth and control as much as possible. Yeah. And if anybody goes haha, like that, without trying to control it, reduce it, or cover it shatter laughs at that person. What does all that mean? I really don't know. And I don't think any scholar really knows. This is to do with Elmo. Why? Why Satan loves yawning person. People give some explanation but nobody really knows. Why does Allah dislike yawning? Nobody really knows. But the yawning I mean, we don't even understand medically why we aren't doing

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it but they still understood it till this day. Yeah, so obviously is linked with something VI, that Allah Allah knows. What we do is follow the Sunnah of Rasulullah Islam that Allah that he says, control it and cover on them. That's all we need to know.

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That's all we need to know. It's very difficult to understand the rest because it's linked with ill MLlib. So you'll be guessing because there is no other Hadith or Quranic verse that explains why

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So that's where I leave it, but it's authentic to control the yarn. And from being from shutdown. Yeah means it's negative doesn't mean they say that shutdown is instrumenting your yarn. Allah controls everything. You understand what I'm saying. So that's a misunderstanding to think that I've already said last time that is when somebody says Alhamdulillah then you respond we yarmulke Allah otherwise you do not respond with yarmulke Allah that is a sunnah of, of Abdul class same Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam

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of the Prophet SAW Selim. And also

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and this is male and female.

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Again, it not just we don't respond because a woman sneezed and we do what a man sneeze or vice versa. And then finally, just to clarify that in one Hadith, for example, golden telemovie which is authentically these, and Salma ilaqua

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are unhappy from his father, that energon atossa that a person sneezed in the NABI sallallahu alayhi salam in the presence of the Prophet sorcerer, for call Allahu yahan Mukalla. So he said yarmulke Allah because he must have said Al Hamdulillah

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will clarify you prophesy, some never said yarmulke on till they said Alhamdulillah some atossa Sonya of Salida. Then he sneezed a second or third time.

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Call on the beast SallAllahu Sallam ha ha Rajan musk, whom?

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He didn't respond with Dr. McCulloh three times one after the other. So he said this person's got a cold. Yeah. In other words, if somebody's got cold or hay fever and they keep sneezing you don't have to sit there constantly going yarmulke yarmulke? Yeah.

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Yeah, so probably started me made it easier. So I don't the second or the third. Yeah, the person can carry on saying Alhamdulillah as much as they want Europe to respond anymore.

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That's important for us to know, as a ruling.

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Now, we mentioned about the ill person last time and I see have mentioned about products.

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Five of them the invocation we make and the last one I want to mention, which is what is that Matt that part who when he or she dies to follow him or her? What does that mean? That means going to the funeral right either to do sloth to Janaza or sloth to Janaza and the burial

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and in this regard, there are various ahadeeth Abu Hurayrah reports

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rather low on that the prophets Allah Islam said

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for the one who

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but I'll because time

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I'll just give you a summary of it. He said if one

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goes and attends the slot will janazah and the variable

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and then comes back then the reward is to carob

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Yeah, and if they attend the slot will janazah and come back then the reward is one karate. And the karate one cannot is equivalent of the mountain of odd in reward.

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Inside Muslim when this is mentioned, the hadith is mentioned by hubbub to Abdullah Omar that Abu Hurayrah said this.

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So Glenn Omer says to hubub go to humble Momineen eyeshadow Delana sublime number never heard of this hadith. This is our cross checking now cross referencing and I mentioned this to you before I blogged about the respect he had Yeah.

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So hubub goes to and he said go and ask and come back and tell me what she said. He went there and asked him the moment I said or the alarm came back over London Alma and said that on the meeting I said I said sadhaka Abbey,

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saga, hoorah. Buddha spoke the truth. It is true what you say. So bla number said this

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That, unfortunately we have them neglected so many Kurata rewards all this time, because you only realize then, yes.

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So that's just about the janazah and the reward and of course, slot will janazah and de burial is fun to Keifa not fun to aim.

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Everybody's agreed on the Allamah everybody cannot attend. You can't even everybody can attend salad bar which is the fried for Dwayne, they can't attend in the masjid meaning everybody should do it. It's fun to aim for them to do anywhere on the earth. But Salado janazah can only be where the body is really you had you have a slot on Janaza Elvive Yeah, and there's different opinions of the Alama one are you allowed to do it if they've not had this little janazah other say no, you can do it a second time if you weren't there in that country, but all of it is yeah, the actual slot will Janaza is fun to key fire some Muslims must attend and do this lateral janazah and the burial which

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releases everybody of their responsibility yeah

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so when it mentions here as a right and an obligation for every Muslim I know that Muslims is talking about the community here

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yeah community first though Keifa means that but if nobody from the community goes lateral janazah we're all culpable

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that's what it means that there is a duty and a right from Muslim upon a Muslim here Yeah.

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In the following of the the dead person it means Sato janazah and burial okay

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that's the add to

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what we've said from the hadith of recovering at least 26 about Sudan about smiling and about

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helping the people etc. And we've covered a whole load of things this is especially for Muslims on top of that, yeah, these five six duties and rights

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so we talked before linked with the previous studies

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about sadaqa which was monetary Yeah, whether obligatory or voluntarily so the cars the car or Sonata Yeah, and the last three to mention for those who didn't have wealth. Then there was Sonata towards others. Yeah, human beings what you've been talking about yet kind of sadaqa Yeah. And then then we've talked about now duty and responsibility to Muslims, which is also be counted under sadaqa although their obligations Yeah. comes under khulumani roof sadhaka Yeah.

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Then there is a saga which is a sadaqa to yourself.

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Yeah. When the Prophet SAW Selim said in the previous reef that we did some even in the version of this hadith

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yeah in this version is Sahih Muslim use be hola cool live so coolly Salama, I mean, I had to come sadhaka every morning on every joint of one of you is a charity for cool Lucas. We are in South Africa where every every Subhanallah is a sadhaka similar to the previous day, but I'm telling you the one with the joints mentioned that even that has this idea to be happy in South Africa. What could you tell me that in South Africa Vokoun every Alhamdulillah sadaqa the charity Kulu kalila teen every light Ilaha illa Allah is a sadhaka Kulu Kabira in South Africa and every Allahu Akbar, wa Andrew Andrew and Bill Maru Santa Monica, which was Mexican indeed, these are all so that's why I

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said these Hadith are interchangeable.

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so when we're doing as I said with the previous studies, vicar Subhanallah Alhamdulillah ilaha illAllah. That is a sadhaka to myself

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because I

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Love doesn't mean my charity. Yeah, that is a subtle call on myself, isn't it?

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Yeah. And that's why we'll come back to that point. Again. I've mentioned before that the greater rewardable and more virtuous other guys helping others.

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And when you're unable to do that some of the ideas gives you the idea, then you do this, at least do this or do this as well is even better. Yep, do this as well. It's even better. So this sadhaka is saga to yourself.

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Because all of this will be multiplied and prophesied some calling it a sadhaka when he called him son of God, he means to yourself included in that

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is also

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in this hadith in Sahih, Muslim which is from Ibiza, and remember the last video to do with South Africa in all things was by a bizarre as well, that is number 25. In this version in Sahih Muslim bizarre says, Go to Yara Salah al mal Afghan, which are the most virtual virtuous deeds, call a Salallahu Alaihe Salam, Al Eman biller he will Jihad ifisa be led to believe in Allah and to do jihad in his way. Now this jihad in his way can refer to fighting in the way of Allah context tells you but normally jihad is a wide topic of struggling in the way of Allah. But you'll see from what follows that all of what he's mentioning after is struggling in the way of a life you mentioned in a

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general sense. Yeah, but put your life at risk. That's what he's saying is that is from the most virtues of good deeds. That's what he's talking about. Isn't he SallAllahu Sallam

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Paul cool to a you big pop up

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that says that says I said then which slave releasing is the most virtuous? The prophesy slim said yeah. And full Sahar in the ugly Ha ha, ha Summerland. The one that is most valuable to the owner and most

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most expensive to of course, yeah.

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So this is the time of course slavery at that time to free that person of course is more valuable is more affordable. Yeah.

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Then he said I said for inland FL and what if I can't do any of this?

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All a solid lesson to e no, Samia Sahni. And I'll just now

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Lea rock that you helped. Yeah.

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To manufacture something to make something which is in other words beneficial. Oh does not only attract Oh make something yourself or somebody who's unable to make anything.

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Anyway, again is something to benefit others making something out of pottery or to play making a dress, whatever all of that is covered in this and to give to somebody to help them. I'll call to your rasool Allah or ATIA in that dot off to unbundle Amel.

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What they said O Messenger of Allah, what do you consider if I if I'm unable to do some of these things? Call us alone easily? That Cuf Bashar raka Annie NAS, the inner ha sadhaka don't mean calendar sick,

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then hold back your evil or harm from people. For surely that is a sadhaka from you to yourself.

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Holding back your harm that will be harm from your tongue and your behavior from other people. Yeah, will be a sadhaka from you to yourself. So I was thinking about this.

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I was saying, Why is this not a sidecar to the people I'm holding harm from?

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Because when I'm holding arms back from them, I'm not actually giving them anything.

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I'm actually stopping myself being destroyed. But it's a solid thought to myself.

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Because they won't notice that I know and holding the hand back

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in a sense, really. Yeah, it's not like I'm giving them something then I'm giving a sadhaka to them all the things we mentioned before now to hold back harm from them. Pelvis as Sam said, this is a sadhaka from you to yourself.

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Yeah, which is

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which really fits with

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what I mentioned before I'm going to mention again it fits with the Hadith about Manuel mouthless. Who is the bankrupt one? Yes.

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Which I'll mention now

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somewhere yeah, it was basically the Hadith.

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it also fits with the idea

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doing good to people is more virtuous what I've said before then just doing your record

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stay with keeping harm away from people is much more beneficial. Yeah, because all your liquor and all your work including Salah and Sam can all be finished and canceled away with the harm you've done to people. Yeah. Including you're not doing good to them either.

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Benefiting and helping others always takes greater priority. So in this edition and without

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the prophesies, which is reported by me Don't call our caller pseudo ly Salvarsan Allah below can be Abdullah mean directory so Yom was Salatu was sada Shall I not tell you of that which is more excellent in degree and reward in other words than than fasting and Salah and sadaqa

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now it's talking about monetary sadaqa context tells you Yeah,

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shall I not tell you that which is more virtuous? Yeah, in degree than fasting and Salah and sadaqa SubhanAllah. You see and these are these tells you which is more virtuous. Of course, he's talking about voluntary fasting. What extra Salam noir for Sana all various kinds, and sadaqa, which is voluntary, Salah cannot Zika that's not included here.

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All Ebola, the said, Indeed, a messenger of Allah, He said, is law who that will be to make good between two people. That was included in the hadith of sadaqa, wasn't it? Yeah. So that includes all the other things as well as syndication is helping others and benefiting others is much more beneficial than your extra private prayers, etc. Spend more time helping others.

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Because Allah loves that small virtuous, if you're able to. That's why in various studies, you notice the Sahaba say, yes, what if I can't? Yeah, I'm weak. I'm in a wheelchair, I have to work with a stick. I'm not going to be helping other people much am I then he gives you advice of doing Subhanallah family La La ilaha illa. Allah won't do sloth to Doha extra if you're able to you understand context of that, but if you can do and you're healthy and mobile unable to and you have the opportunity, then go and do these things instead of helping others what facade what facade will battle bein because the same or different abode

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because bad situation between people is a highly call. That is destructive. Yeah, I mean, one version, he said

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laku tatacliq was sharp. Holika Harley is the barber

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who removed removes your hair and all shaves it as well. Long as Yeah.

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Yeah, from her. That's a HELOC is to remove the hair so that's why in another version internally and athma the prophesized limb said this is Holika laku tactical shout. I don't say it will remove away your hair while I can definitely put Dean but it will remove the dean. Yeah, it will remove the Dean facade between people corruption and bad behavior will destroy the Dean

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Yeah, beautiful how the VOCs are used that term from the barbers and applied it to the dean. That's why he says I'm not talking about hair removal. I'm talking about Dean's gonna be finished and shaved away.

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So in line with that,

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and then you understand why.

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In line with what I've just said, The prophesize some said in authentic hadith which is reported by

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Al Bukhari and his other Bill Maher flood Sahaba said Falana took off because that was Salah Tia was yummy ha So and So woman is known for lots of prayers and lots of fasting meaning extra voluntary

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I mean what the wire says Taku Malay what assume on the hot water Satoko she stands in the night in long press fast during the day and she gives away in charity wealth money what lacking taught the G Rana ha. Billy Sunday her however, see is nasty with a tongue to her neighbor.

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Call her a sort of lifestyle Allahu alayhi salam la havy ha there is no good in her she's doing Salah she's giving sadaqa she's doing fasting extra all of it was it was awesome said there is no good in her.

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Here mean Adelina she is from the people of hellfire.

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Then they say call you waffle Anna to Soliel Matoba research in such a woman she praised the five daily obligatory funds

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to further in the morning for follow her. That's what it means. lotto Matoba Yeah, for for answer three from Belgrade for Felicia, that's it. Yeah, that's all she knows Falana to sell real Matoba what a sudoku be as far

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as he gives just some curdled milk as a charity very little

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while to the hudon she doesn't insult or harm anybody. Call us Allah Allah Islam he I mean Adaline agenda. She'll be from the people of paradox can't make any clearer than that. Can you what's the priority in people's lives? That's why some scholars say about if you got money that all these people going for Omaha Omaha every few months. Umbra they say it is a great because Who are you benefiting? Yeah, even some Saudi scholars said this as well read the fatwa on this and others I have great respect for Shaka we said this many years ago someone allowed that was in prison now in Saudi Arabia great scholar as well even though from Saudi said this wrote a book Congress Yeah, that

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instead of spending this extra but you're doing benefit for yourself, benefit poor people, Muslims or daughter who they can't marry because they haven't got this or living in wretched conditions give that money there it will be much more it is a higher degree than your camera. Number two he said not only are we on Route, are you benefiting yourself spiritually? By the large number of gathering every time you are harming other people by the pushing and shoving because this too congested?

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That is great wisdom from Scott and great scholarship.

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Yeah, of course there's others respondents How could you say that blah, blah, blah. But this is deep thinking, deep scholarship to see what has priority? Yeah, helping others? Yes, some widow who needs your money, some data that cannot marry off the sat at home? Is that more important? Or your repeated obras. It's in line with what I'm talking about in these IDs.

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And the Hadith of the mouthless I'll end with today, which is in Sahih Muslim the Prophet SAW Islam said to Sahaba attack Runa mal mirthless. Do you realize what a bankrupt one is? Bankrupt one Talu. Alma flees fina Mala did hum LA who wala Mata, a bankrupt one amongst us a messenger of Allah is the One who hasn't got a penny. They haven't got any Dara Maldonado. They got nothing. They bankrupt for Karla Salallahu Alaihe Salam so the Messenger of Allah Islam said in no monthly summit on Matisse surely the bankrupt one from my own Mati in reality this is the backdrop what he's saying. Yeah, to Malta Yama will come on the Day of Judgment. Be Salatin was the Yamuna was a car team will come with

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Salah fasting and Zika now when he says the car he's talking about even the obligatory prayers the obligatory fasting and the obligatory is a car he or she has paid what Nevermind the voluntary on top of that, well yet he called the shutter Maha and then comes the one who he insulted. Shut Amma means direct in so backbite slander all these kinds of things that many people are busy doing with their tongue.

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What cover for her and slandered sawn saw the person we're Accola Malhotra and the one who devoured the wealth of Sol Sol through yeah

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Doing dodgy deals that don't amount of it. Yeah. What Suffolk Adam Harada and Kilson so we're gonna bajada and hit soon. So, yeah for your diehard minha personality he will have a mean personality and that person all these people are queuing up. They are given from those fasting and and fasting and the car and salad this person was doing all those rewards are being given as compensation to all these people have got complaints against this person.

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It doesn't finish there. But aim funny yet Kasana to and when his good deeds or hers runs out.

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Prophesy Islam say bah blah And yoke that before the queue is finished and compensations happen. His or her good days have all gone.

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Ma Alaihe Yup, data here and before things are finished and settled, okay, I'm in the FATA Yeah, Hatha Yoga home for Tory Hatha Li. So now Allah will start taking from the sins on all these people who got complaints are in the queue, take their sins, and they'll be thrown on this person and the person will be thrown in the fire. he or she's got nothing left. Despite all the fasting and all the prayers and all those occur, all disappeared. I'm not telling you prophesied simply you this is a bankrupt person. So so linked with behavior, isn't it?

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So virtuous, good behavior, holding back any harm to others. It is a center and the key of this deed. Yeah, so much. So even though salah is the first thing to ask about on the Day of Judgment, no doubt. The message isn't to stop those messages. These must go hand in hand with good behavior towards people. Otherwise you're going to be bankrupt on the Day of Judgment.

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That's the message isn't it?

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That's the message.

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So we'll finish that I haven't finished I'm afraid.

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I'm finished with the Hadith. There's two important points which we'll cover next time inshallah. Yeah, any questions before we end alone?