Session 55 Anger & Restraint
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humbly Langer Bill Alameen Salatu was Salam ala Ashrafi MBI. Well, mostly early he was sobbing Here's my email and my bag.
You will a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
Praise be to Allah. We praise him and send plus her blessings and peace on his prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam after St. Salam so Allah Tala and Taco Bell Minh via fill in the loop and we'll catch her and say yeah Tina NWSL who Illman nerfed what is Converse it was a leak in the toilet cue ye li Macias well uh hold on we'll go with her elaborate La La li la vie him who are who are husband, for net millimolar when the admin was see
we asked a lot to accept from us, forgive us to be merciful upon us and we asked him for
useful and beneficial knowledge and understanding and wide sustenance on him we utterly depend and to Him is our return there is no power make except that of Allah. So rather than sisters for those of you join this
we are on inshallah Hadith, Satish Disha Assadi Sasha on Hadith number 16.
And this
hadith, which is from reported as Imam another way says an A B Hooray data B Allahu Anhu call
and an Agilent call in the PSL Allahu alayhi wa Salam o see me call
for a rod that Amira run all come from.
And will Herrera and Abdi Allah Juan says and then
sent to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam counseled me,
give me advice. So the prophesy Islam said, very brief two words. More dizzle Kalam,
yeah, which is one of the attributes given to the Prophet SAW Salem, not only in regards to the Quran, he was sent down but himself as well. A few words, and saw beneficial and comprehensive as well and appropriate for who he is addressing Salallahu Alaihe Salam. And this is an example of that. In fact, you,
as I've mentioned before, originally, originally, at the end, in introduction, you'll find very few a hadith which are only from the statements of the Prophet saw some talking, which are long and laborious, very few majority of Hadith are processed on the short this is one of the way to recognize
one of the ways that Allah mov Hadith recognize the speech of the prophets, Allah salAllahu Salam that it was short and succinct.
When you look at even these
40, Hadith 42 that are now always put together. They're all very short, and the longer ones. In fact, you look at the hadith of Gibreel. That's not prophesize them talking. But he came and he did this. And then he asked this, and then he said that and the answers the prophesies I'm giving. See, that's what makes the Hadith long. So in a sense,
that's an important thing. So the man asks counsel made the prophesized. Do not get angry. So the man repeated his request counsel may ask him for like asking for more, as was with Sahaba, sometimes they ask for more.
Not sometimes realizing the comprehensive benefit of what Salah Salam, the province has already said to them.
So the prophesised kept repeating in his answer that um, don't, don't get angry. This hadith. In some, I don't know which copy you have of fortiadc in front of you, as anybody got a copy of a mom, not with a bang with them. Now while we're doing it.
Yes I do have some
okay is that with translation or without?
It's with inflation Yes. Okay. I think if you notice it maybe if you have the same copy as me now in Arabic it says aroa Hula Buhari.
Okay.
That is reported by Imam Bukhari, he means in his in his in his shave, okay? If you look across the page in English what does it say?
It says both Yes, it was related by alcohol yeah and Muslim. So we wonder why the translators put that is interesting.
That's a mistake. Not only the translation actually, as some scholars said in some manuscripts of Imam know with Arbaeen it is it says in it or the Allahu Muslim
Okay, reported by Imam Muslim
and yet in other manuscripts like this one in the Arabic it says Allahu Bihari Yeah, so this is the correct one. But the in the English is a mistake still seems to be they've either got it from somewhere else. I don't know why in English. It says that we're in Arabic. It's correct. Where would you add that in English so that's a mistake you can put across where it says Muslim because ISIS, it is not reported in cyclically Muslim he didn't add it in his habit in his collection.
This Sunday's which is very famous comes at this in Mohali, but it comes in other ways as well. Imam telemovie reports it as well. For example, in his version from Abu Huraira again, it says Jasmine let there be some Eliza man came to the messenger of allah sallallahu Sanlam and he said I live in the shade and Willa books the
teach me something but don't tell me lots of things. Yeah, when I talk to Allah, yeah, la le at ye don't tell me lots of things. So that, you know, perhaps I can remember in other words, tell me only a few things that I can remember them. All that sort of progress prophesized room said Don't get angry. And he repeated his request for Radha Valley can Iran Kulu Danica, cool and each time he printed his request, the Prophet SAW Salam said lads, do not get angry. There's a version in Tirmidhi, who said that a de sol has no side needs a student of human body as well, which is also authentic. Another version of the same hadith is mentioned two versions in atma
similar so here, these these, these are giving you a bit more a bit more detail. Specifically, especially the man saying, don't tell me too much. So he's actually saying it from himself as well. So prophesize them to being
succinct, but he's also asking for that as well. It seems so he in a version in athma he says I'm originally from Colorado so a lot that a man said O Messenger of Allah called the colon where we're up to will Allah Yeah.
Yeah. The Tell me something, but
be succinct. Yeah. Not only our funeral who in order that I can understand what your what you've said meaning or or remember it all. The father led him Iran Kula Valley.
Yeah, yeah. Coolatta similar to the Hadith intermarry, this one that meant that he kept on repeating it a few times. And each time he asked the same request, he got the same answer laptop, do not get angry. Another one athma. And it never mentioned the Companions name, who was asking this from the sahaba. From this is a hobby.
He seemed to seems perhaps Abu Huraira, the Iset the Messenger of Allah
in me, counsel, he said, Don't get angry.
So at the end of this version, which is also authentic enough, the man says perfect Gurpal Hina Farland gonna be Salah Salam. Yeah. Ma Paul. So I reflected on what the prophets Allah Islam had said to me, and this is his conclusion. This is the man's conclusion. Paul elevada your mouth shut coolly.
Yeah, yes, well, it was shut.
Your mouth was Shut.
Shut
Good luck that I thought to reflect her. And I realized that actually getting angry, it seems to
be the basis of all bad and evil. That's him saying it and reflecting on it. Not necessarily all as incomplete. But what he's realizing that getting angry has a big part to play in the bad stuff that we do some of the bad stuff that we do significant part to play.
So do not get angry.
And I'm not where I like what he says is very brief in his
exposition, he says, and prophesised started saying Don't get angry means that don't
act out or do anything while you are angry.
Yeah, and he's saying this same don't
doesn't mean that don't. Yeah.
It's not saying that you can't have anger. Yeah, because he's saying that's something which is according to the nature of human beings. And it is impossible for human beings not to actually get angry, so allow them that means don't
control the consequences of anger, which is very wise words from your mum. No, we actually. Now, Mum, Norway that mentioned that a handful of Hadith in his exposition. Unfortunately, nearly all of them are weak, but I want to mention some of them because they're very famous as well. My trophy mentions one or two of the same ones, as those as those, even Roger as well.
For example, I have Ethan Ashman
saying what er Cornwell? hadham. For inner hula jam Ratan Tata waka Feefo for the Adam be wary of anger because it is like a cinder embers which are burning in the heart of the children Adam This is also an Tirmidhi in a longer version of the same Hadith yeah which is also nice. Although Imam Tirmidhi says Hussen and the meanings okay if you want to follow him on committees assessment of it that's okay. I love
you though what the back pay for that metal a now who
have you not seen that when one of you becomes angry? How his eyes become red what fantastical oh god you and his veins in his neck yeah become all swollen out of this anger. Yeah that phakisa has become be che and if any way you feel like this year from this familiar subject than they should he should lie down oh layout will out or again the idea again lie down or stick to the earth means sit down basically
or lie down it can mean both
this is by as is the Hadith enable doubt which says
in Nevada ministry bonds surely anger is some shape on what in this shape on click I mean and but surely Satan has been created from fire. We're in NEMA used to be on now Carlos Martel and and and fire is only put out by water for Israel what the bamboo can fall yet or what that so if one of you becomes angry, he or she should make voodoo. And I remember this is very famous and we were taught this in that way many years back in some of our circles but if you get angry making wudu helps you go down
and it was related as though it was from the prophesied it seems weak to the prophets a lot of them this one and the one before another one says inevitable and aftermath which is
also weak as in breaking the chain from a be Ibiza Yeah, the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam said to us either one diva boom
Wahoo Akbar in Philly Angeles. If any of you get angry and he or she is standing they should sit down in the hub and all other wildlife Alia project and they if the anger doesn't go even by
sitting down then he or she should lie down.
Okay shall Barney said this was authentic but share the losses and others
is actually weak. Now, they may be weak, but nothing stops from the idea that if I'm standing up and if I sit down, but I'll be doing something wrong if I'm angry and if I'm sitting now still feeling angry, going over like that I have a have a nap
that will call it down, isn't it going up and not go up, go to sleep or something when you when you're really angry, and it'll help or even actually
angry and you know, the same goes by some cold water on your face? Well, you can do that I'll pull you down. But if you met Waldo, that's even better, because that's the bad. Yeah. So there's nothing stopping doing that. But we don't have to say this is called of the Messenger of Allah salAllahu. Salam, for you to
go and do. And the idea of
anger is handshape on in the weaker this again, which is enabled owed.
And we'll come back to that.
It can.
And I said earlier remember, as the mount we said that getting angry is part and parcel of human nature.
Yeah, so even if that was authentic, what would it mean? It would mean that the consequences of anger what people do is from shutdown, in other words, shutdown, shutdown takes advantage and uses the anger of a person and gets them to do things which are wrong and haram and do sin.
Imam tofi.
Nicely says, he says
he says that
evil or bad, bad deeds, their foundation and source are only to one desire a shower. Yeah, he said, he said, for example, somebody doing Zina or somebody doing
robbery or stealing the desire for the opposite sex and desire for wealth. Yeah. And he said, That's one reason as a source of doing bad deeds. And the other he said is his anger actually,
for example, somebody becoming angry and killing somebody's or hitting somebody or abusing somebody, I swearing at somebody, all this the source of it is anger itself.
So these are two sources he said. And he says that the treatment of anger, he says,
has two goals. One is prevention, and the other is to uplift and remove it. So we're talking about preventative therapy. Yeah. For medics and actual treatment when it arrives to try and alleviate or treat after the occurrence. Prevention of anger, he said is to remember the virtues of being forbearing. Yeah, that Allah and His Messenger of porters and being forgiving, and to fear Allah. Yeah. To fear Allah, to remember Allah to do vicar of Allah, and
those kinds of things that would prevent the anger from coming in the first place. And if it comes to lift it, he said,
and he mentioned, the weaker youth about sitting down or laying down, but you can just use the user anywhere,
is aware, to go models plus cold water.
Remember, a loved one otter and we'll see from the Prophet salaallah Salam, actually, which
wasn't mentioned by two feet, where I'll mention it here.
Since it's irrelevant. What the problem is, is that I'm sending a beef which is in Bukhari and Muslim. This hadith says, it's the bearer of new land in the NABI SallAllahu, alayhi. Salam Fajr. Allah had boohooman that more deaf man wrote a novel where 10 Deaf people out there
that
two people started abusing, each
abusing each other. Yeah. In front of the Messenger of Allah in His presence. And one of these people. Their state was that the his eyes became red and his neck veins became swollen up, meaning out of anger.
The prophet the Messenger of Allah has called us to Allah sauce love the mission of Allah Samson seeing them like this and they're in the presence. He said in nila, before Kalamata lo Kala, ha ha, ha.
Double big
he said
I know the wording if he was the one who's full of this anger and rage was to utter it. Yeah.
It would. It would remove what has overtaken lava and boiler the urgent yeah meaning the anger that silver taken will dissipate. Yeah and he said our will will be lacking in a shade on the regime in Tavis Aslam saying these are the words he should say.
But the man out of anger look how you respond to a call on agile will help Tara beam Minh Junoon Do you see me as mad as something that I have to say I want to be left with J to honor it. So he's still angry despite the advice the promises Islam? I mean, one one rewire one transmission he says in the last three months known I am not mad. I'm not mad. Yeah. So instead of taking the advice of prophesizing he responds like that, because he's still full of this fit of rage. So the treatment, which is authentic from the Prophet SAW Salem is actually to say, I'll be laying their shade on IGN I seek refuge Allah from Satan the rejected
and mom, a tofi also mentioned they says some nice things he says he says, human beings in regards to anger can be put into two categories. He says one who is defeated?
Who, who is defeated? Yeah.
by the, by the animal nature. Yeah. Which means he's suggesting that the anger is from the animal side of nature of the human being. And he or she cannot control it, they've already been overtaken and defeated by and he's saying that is most of human beings. Most people are like this. Yeah, they just let it get completely out of hand, make completely overtakes. And he's saying a second category of people is
and is the one who overcomes this nature.
They themselves overcome this animal nature. In other words, by practice, yeah, in other words to control it, and they're able to control it.
That's why the prophesy Islam said laptop. He's saying, because one is able to do that. Otherwise, there'd be no reason for him saying laptop, but don't get angry if you couldn't control it. In other words, people cannot use the excuse that are that's just my nature. You know, I was made like that. So that's what he's suggesting. In regards to that.
Okay, even Roger.
He says the meaning of Don't get angry as to possible.
Two possible meanings.
One is the meaning that
stay away from anger completely. Yeah.
Laptop, the
anger itself, stay away from the saying.
And this is done.
By practicing good character, good etiquette being forbearing being modest. Yeah, having humility. subtler
being forgiving. And
so that if you carry on practicing this, then this becomes part of your nature. And you don't get angry.
On the other side, he says, the second meaning it could have Yeah, is don't act on your anger. Yeah, tell them a little bit more to that. I love Adam.
When anger comes, don't act on it. Don't do anything that you're going to regret in other words, but control yourself. Yeah. To prevent carrying out or doing or saying anything? Yeah. Because of anger.
To remove the consequences, bad consequences that anger can bring. So he said these are two possibilities. And he's saying The second possibility is suggested also by the Quran because Allah Subhan Allah says
in the Quran, what is enough
lobby boo home young furor and when there something angers them, they are forgetting something anger that means they become angry crowd is already suggesting, okay, that's something anger them. Yeah when they become angry, they are forgiving, they are forgiving.
And we'll come back to that idea later. And Allah smart Allah says, well Kel the mean, are you well, fina and the nurse, that's a verse we'll come to later on as well.
Those who control the anger
Well, Calvin Ninevites and forgive people so controlling anger means anger is actually there is established the Quran Quran is telling us that anger is there but they control it. So he's saying and he gives the example of the two who were quarreling and which I just mentioned on behalf he was doing the profits last time saying say elderly lady they say gonna do it we'll make it disagree
now
let me just
move on
that's a suggestion in what I've said already from Imam both feeds
and this is
important to clear
and even Roger
when he mentions two kinds of people
those
not two kinds of people
two possible meanings of the application of this idea I've just mentioned already one is that just don't get angry in the first place and the second is possible meaning is that when you get angry control yourself
imams are a bozo takes those two categories of meanings and adds a third to it.
And he likes him to like the third
imams are a wasn't said there's a third interpretation, which is given by somebody called El Baytown
and he takes the literal meaning saying suggesting that anger is not natural.
This is what albitarsis which is mentioned in the search serving data interpretation by Imams or a bozo. So stop it before it happens, anger itself and saying is not natural, which is contradicting what
what Imam know we said, which I agree with. I don't mean I agree with the contradiction. I agree with Mom No way. And also contradicting work, to some extent, is on the fact with what amount of tooth is said because mama tooth is said it is a is from animal instinct. And I disagree with that as well. Yeah, that's also suggesting it's not natural for human beings to get angry. And it's only for animals to get angry, which is nonsense, actually. It is human nature to get angry, not animal nature. And this third interpretation
imams are a bozo seems to like because he says people get angry over trivial things all day long. Sometimes it's just their nature and characters I mentioned to you earlier where I said, so. However, he says all the views are included in Latin, or I don't agree with that.
But all the three views are included.
My own conclusion is that the first and second view are both included in a laptop, which is
doing things to prevent yourself make your character more forbearing gentle and if you're remembering Allah subhanaw taala then you're less likely to get angry, but things will still make you angry. Yeah, so it does apply to Latin but that but especially applies the second category that when you actually become angry, you control yourself and are more inclined towards the second one even though the first meaning is still possible why
I'm more inclined to the second one.
Because even the best of people from the Sahaba and their secondary even the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, and MBM prophets before him got angry.
Imam Zahra Balzers makes a statement in his exegesis in his exposition of this belief, he says, And the Prophet saw some never got angry. That is not true. That is not true. You need to know that. I'm going to show you lots of evidences now. To show you that Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu Salam did get angry. Did get angry.
Before I go there
it is reporting Buhari Muslim and this is Sahara about Sam This is about me and I started
getting angry. Yeah, in Buhari Muslim. It is reported that from OMO Morgan, in Isaiah He said call it follow leaders who likes Allah Salam, the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam said to me one day he said in ni la la mu is our country and ni Robbia what is a country and ni lockbar? He said
Surely I know or Aisha, when you are pleased and happy with me and also when you are angry with me.
For
mean Aner tardy finale, how do you know this? So I said to the prophesized alum, how can you tell this how do you know for colorism? A licen Allah Salam, this is quite amusing as well actually. Is I could see Andy Radhiya when you are happy and pleased with me. For him, Nikita Coleen
Lau will be more humbled.
When you're playing when you say no, by by the Lord of Mohammed. Yes, you don't sort of by the Lord by Allah and by the Lord or Muhammad. That's what you say. What is our country? Allah? Yeah, what bah. And when you are angry with me? Yeah. Is using the word the horned God which means to be angry. Country, then you say, Lau wanna be Ibrahim?
Then you then you say no, by the Lord of Abraham. You don't say by the Lord of Muhammad.
Call it she said. Call to ice and then agile. That's true. Well Allah He also Allah by Allah or messenger of Allah. Ma after Killa isthmic I only leave out your name or messenger of Allah.
I don't I don't do anything else. I just leave your name.
I find that beautiful amusing Hadith, but it also shows about Isla de la not getting angry
the prophesy Salam sending famous Hadith
in Bukhari Muslim law Yeah, who don't Boehner if meanwhile who will not burn no person should make a rule Yeah, or judgment or decision between two people as arbitration while he or she is in a state of anger no judge no person that comes in variety of ahaadeeth not to make any kind of assessment and an arbitration or judgment while one is angry. Yeah. That shows you that people are going to be angry so it's natural to be angry that's indicating as well isn't it
and then we have
the story of more sadly his fellow
back for this because
even though
to skip me
yeah
now even though I want to few mentions remember a man poofy suggesting that anger is from animal instinct. So
he mentions nevertheless he says what about the Hadees?
Yeah, which mentions Musar lace now is getting angry. Yeah. So this is the thing Behati Muslim.
Yeah, so he's making the argument
So he says that in Concur mother and Musa fie these people highly Muslim. If you were to say what about Musa al Islam that if you're saying this is only from animal instinct if that's all the and then it says the Prophet loves them said that he was bathing himself naked.
Of course not nobody's seeing him. Well what I saw a soldier who Allah Hunter and he put his claws on a rock for natural hazard and the rock runaway the rock runaway
Allah made this happen of course for Gemma for
for Jamal Musa fee is three he means he ran after it the rock because he ran away with his claws. Yeah cool Sobia Headjam Sobia hydro shouting my claws you rock or rock my claws from topica your dribble who will be Assa then when he caught up with it he hit it with a stick so many times on that it's the marks of the stick left six or seven markings on the stone. Yeah. So he's saying
interesting I want proof he says he says however, a lot of this was only anger on a stone not a not a person la isla che Hagen
la Allah shading, not on anything which was living so he's trying to justify anger here. But I've got a bigger story than that for Musa at least I'm getting angry. Allah Subhana Allah tells us in the Quran, and he he's mistaking Mount bofi
in the Quran, Allah smart Allah says when more sadly Islam returns with the revelation from Allah subhanaw taala on the last on the big stone tablets, the 10 commandments you could say, Allah Allah and you know when he was awake for 4940 days, the believers Bani Israel the time even though Harun Allah Islam was their left is in charge, they made a golden calf or starting worshipping and they started doing ship with Allah subhanaw taala just in that short period of time. So when the Quran says in Surah seven verse 150 You can see where Alomar Raja I'm also
ILA Isla Omi he loves
Yeah. And when Musa alayhis salam returned to his people of all the burn angry, angry LeBron is telling pick up and grew angry with who was angry with the Rockies and these people. He's angry with his brother actually look what he does. All the burner as Sefa and also very sad and regretful when he will for what he saw all our big Santa to Mooney evil is what you don't after I've gone yeah
just hang on, let me just bind So that's seven as well.
That's 150
Yeah, so well, um, we just said, Robert. Well, we've been asking about all a big summer holiday to Moni. He said
vile is the course that you've taken after I've been a while I've been absent member the
ideal Doom I'm gonna not become
Could you not patiently wait, so the decree of your Lord meaning what L L word.
What I'll call L F. alpha, where alpha alpha, alpha W What CFE here Joe row LA. Look at his anger made him do. It wasn't with a rock. Allah says so he threw the tablets and they broke that was revelation separate will live through them in anger because he couldn't believe what you're seeing. You know, that's why the prophets national semi authentic hadith linked to this, he said
he said, laser hover. Cal mo Aiyana news of something happening is not the same as seeing it with your own eyes. Yeah, stamping of the prophesied Islam which is authentic and Mason by it may be hard to minister see and lay sell Hebrew kill more Aina yeah news receiving news not the same as viewing it seeing your own eyes. You got to humble Allah who moves up may Allah have mercy on Musa Yeah, Bara Bara who are not boo hoo
Oh, and Natoma who feta new badda Allah His Lord informed him that means while he was still on a total amount of tool about what his the fitna, yeah
his people were doing after him. For lamb ELT Allah and he didn't throw the tablets, the Allah with the revelation on them for Allah ma home however when he saw them, what are you? Where are you now home and saw them with his own eyes ALCL Allah wa he threw the tablets then as the Quran mentions. Yeah, well, pal Elwha will be receiving just throw the tablets. Look what he did after that. He took a hold of his brother's head and hair, and he dragged him towards himself. Yeah.
He dragged his brother Harun, who's a prophet of God as well. So this is anger Musa alayhis salam Yeah.
Because of his social company from believers.
Yeah. Allah ba Lebanon uma in Nell comas that the phony work due to no nanny, so how are we gonna lay some response when that happens to him? He says my brother my mother's son. Yeah, pleading with him my brother in other words, the people overpowered me and almost killed me so let not my enemies gloat over me. In other words, don't do this to me they already treat maltreated me. I didn't give permission for this. So don't make me look even bad. Worse in front of them by doing this to me. Yeah.
So there you are Musab al Islam is Misner as becoming angry and actually consequences of of his anger there as well? Which no doubt he regretted afterwards doing that to how they lay somebody was overtaken by what he saw of the shock of his people committing after all the famous Allah had rented them and save them from Pharaoh.
Okay.
I think that partly rest and rest my case of disagreeing with
Imam two feet, not animal instinct, very much human nature Sahaba Mason to you getting angry in the hadith of todo Margie and Lobo. Alana, and then the Prophet salallahu Salam.
And before I mentioned the Prophet sighs I'm getting angry, we need to mention what under what mean, he says about his character nevertheless. And he was the best of character Salallahu Alaihe. Salam, Allah said
and this is part of the Hadith. So I'm going to go to the actual fuller part of it
which is in Sahih Muslim
but he's also version of it and body as well.
So this says NSA cannot assume a lie somewhere less alarming. X and inasp call upon the Messenger of Allah Islam was the best of characters from human beings.
For an Salani, Yeoman Mahajan, he sent me to go
and do something what he needed doing. Yeah, the Messenger of Allah and this is saying unless was carving was a servant, young man who is a servant serving the Messenger of Allah no slave.
He said, Yeah, then he says upload tool. And I said Wallah, he laughed. But Allah I'm not going to go okay
yeah,
I will not go It seems he's saying that to himself by Allah. I'm not gonna go. Yeah, young man feeling lazy. So anyway, then he goes, and then he says
wealthiness see? And as habba Lima, Amara Neva Hina be your soul Allahu alayhi wa salam for high school but inside me
my my inside was saying I have to go and do what the province Iceland has ordered me to do. So I went out he said in other words to go and do it had
an Alaska be early until he passed by some of his mates. Yeah, young young men.
Yeah.
playing in the street, so it seems he gets carried away with playing with them while home yell are born and they will play this soak in the marketplace.
is five hours to lie so my son so in other words, he got busy with them as well. Then the Messenger of Allah Islam on top of that be tougher. Yeah. mineraI he took a hold, and obviously probably saw some kid turned up later on while he's playing around, and he got a hold of me from the back of my neck SallAllahu sallam, not in pain or anything, but just took a hold of me. And he says odd thing never too late and I looked at him to see who it was. Well, who are you who football and he was laughing. The Messenger of Allah was laughing. And he said, Yeah, oh, nice. As the Hepta Hey, thought I might talk. Yeah. Oh, well, nice. His name is Agnes. Oh, nice means young Monet's. Did you
go to do what I've, what I told you to go and do for Paul tonight? Um, he said, I said yes. And I'd have all Yara so Allah I am going on Messenger of Allah. still underway in other words, oh, now understand.
What Allah He looked under her them to who this Hassanein by Allah I serve the Messenger of Allah nine years now I live to who all the shades sent out to who Lima file Cara what color Yeah, I don't know any time when he
about anything I've done yeah
that he said to me
Why did you do so and so meaning if I've done anything negative I don't remember him even saying anything like why did you do that? Why did you do that? Only saying interact to who or something which I left and not done? Yeah, hell left I'll take an hour can that Yeah.
Why have you not done so and so on so on So yeah, I didn't even find him saying that to me. follow Allah Who believes that's the character of Rasulillah Salam
he's saying and furthermore many I suffer below and also says about the character of the messenger Salallahu Salam in a hadith
Yeah, police inside Muslim
and I separate of yellow and man winning toilet now barraba Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam che and to be your de Walla Walla Umbra can wala Haldimand the Mercy of Allah Azza wa salaam never hid or smacked with his hand. Any? Yeah, anything ever by his hand? Not even not a woman not a servant. She meant not even an animal Yeah.
Not a servant.
Not any woman. Yeah. Illa and Yuja hidup be similar except Yeah, if he was fighting Jihad here means fighting in war in the way of Allah
wa Nicola mean who she will talk to for young talking min Sahibi he ill and your taka che one min Buhari Milla for young puppy Mala who has zolgensma and the prophesies sometimes he says further, never took revenge for anything for himself. Yeah.
It's something done something personal to him that he took revenge on them. Yeah, this is not hitting just taking revenge on them.
Except
unless the thing was something which was here, inviolable by Allah. Yeah. But meaning haram, which was a crime, yeah. And then he would take revenge for Allah, the Almighty, something which a punishment in other words has been
ordained by in the Sharia, for a crime like stealing and or like murder, etc, or like, Xena that we talked about before then he would take only in those situate or other for example, slander.
I have a chaste woman all those things then the prophesy Islam is not doing it he's doing it according to law of Allah SMAVA not taking personal revenge so that's significant now the prophesied Salam
nevertheless did get angry
and here this is why the pocket size slim said
Yeah, which is in Sahih Muslim
from
symetra Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salat wa salam yaku abreast I heard the Messenger of Allah Islam say
along the enamel Hamadan question yeah the level commander Yeah, the bishop Yeah. Oh Allah. Mohammed meaning myself he's only a human being he gets angry like other human beings gets get angry as opposed to saying it himself and saying Muslim so Archons are a bozo then say the Prophet Seisen never got never got angry. Can't say that. He's saying it himself in authentic a hadith. We're in the hustle index. Adam and I have held and made a covenant with you. Yeah. Oh Allah.
Learn to listen and learn to polyphony. He here
made a pledge and a covenant with you that you would not break your Allah Yeah. Yeah. Then he says for a yo man what meaning are they to who owes them to who Oh Jill Gillette to who fetch el Hala who Cafaro rotten were caught button to caribou Bihar la que yo Mel piano for
any believer who I have given here who have harmed in any way given trouble to all curse them. Yeah.
Or Or hit them here.
Make that an explanation for his sins here or her sins and a source of neediness to you on the Day of Resurrection. Yeah, the prophesy some saying that. Well, we know he didn't hit anybody. This is prophesied some saying just out in case out of anger I've said something Yeah, then make that an expiation for them instead. Yeah. And here we have
so I've prophesied some saying it himself that he had and I get angry just like other human beings get angry.
prophesize level is you can say Muslim
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that he
that he gave permission or Rockstar in something Yeah, ease in something in a matter
as was the way of the Prophet SAW Islam. Yeah, given Rojas make things easy for people. So he did it in a particular issue. Yeah. And
the people some people amongst the Companions
avoided that Roxa
Yeah, they wouldn't take from that facilitation being offered by the Prophet SAW so and
so the Prophet SAW Yeah, this was conveyed to him. Yeah.
Fact and so onward as for Bala Valley can be so awesome. So this behavior of some of the people who did that was committed the prophets is on fire lobby backpacker, he became angry. Until, yeah.
I had that banner.
A lot about who he was he he until the anger was clear on his face. And he said some Allahu alayhi salam, Marbella WWAMI.
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Then he said,
What's the matter with the people that they avoid that for which permission of facilitation has been granted for me by Allah?
I have the most knowledge of Allah amongst them and the him more stuff amongst them all.
Meaning Are they more pious, more God conscious of me when I give them facilitation in the words and ease and they should take some of the Allahu alayhi wasallam centers of mercy to us, no doubt
another Hadith
Yeah, here's another one in which, which is reported by Abu Musa Massoud, I'm sorry, and this hadith in Sahih Muslim and in which
he says all Jah original nervously less than a man came to the Messenger of Allah Subhan Allah so I'm saying but but in Nila Carlo Ancelotti, soba mean agilely for learning me ma yo te Lapena but I avoid going to slotum Fajr sabe saying that, Allah Yes, he says I avoid going to salatu Fajr Yeah,
keep away from it because of such and such meaning the imam who makes it so long. Yeah. util Obinna makes a stand for ages, meaning MCs longer recitation
Famara Ethan the BSL Allahu alayhi salam lobby Buffy more with a team talk to a shut dummy Madiba Yo mama is in support. So Ababa, so who's reporting is saying, I've never seen the Messenger of Allah so angry. Yeah. When he was giving reminded, then I saw him on that day with anger. And he said,
when he was addressing the people, yeah, you had nurse in minquan mona fillerina. But you come? Surely there are people amongst you? Who, yeah, who are making people run away.
Run away, scaring them away.
Then he said, for a Yukon, Edmond das Whichever one of you is an imam leading them in prayer file Youjizz than they should make it succinct can show that in a meal variety Hill can be what they want.
For surely behind them is that person who is old and that bow is in firm and weak. And that who has need even though it's picked on well, they have need to go and do things. So blah, blah, blah, leave with some members standing, isn't it? They became very angry with somebody who was doing that.
Other times, he was angry when he was being asked too many questions. And I mentioned that in the youth before an hour would come to quench his anger. And when he saw the anger from the prophets, Iseman face in case some negative came out from the Prophet started some mouth to some of the companions, as it was indicated underneath the publicize them said if some negative does come out, then make that as a cuff which is not justified, then make it as uncomfortable for them. So over in that situation, for example, saw the anger of the peroxisome face which is mentioned again in Sahih. Muslim, he said rodina biller here Akbar We are pleased and happy with Allah as our Lord. We're
Billy salami, Dean and Islam as our being won't be Mohammed in the video as Muhammad as our Prophet now will be law he mean rather be law he will never be Rasulullah he, yeah, we seek refuge in Allah from Allah has anger from the anger of His messenger. Yeah. So by doing that, it removed the anger from the Prophet salallahu Salam
and calmed him Salallahu Alaihe Salam, as you've mentioned, so,
those are examples to clarify that
my disagreement with firstly, that anger is an animal instinct. No, it is very much human instinct. And also the idea that officers so on himself got angry some Allahu Ali was some of them. Yeah, but the prophesy Salam
was the best able to control anger and best of characters better than any of us. Yeah. So we will falter. But the advice is still there a laptop that means control the consequences of anger and
means that we will fault us out sometimes as well Yeah.
We will focus sometimes, but controlling the anger means the consequences of anger and that consequences of anger
remember when Imam or tofi says that
the basis of bad deeds are either shallower Yeah, desire
or it is anger. Yeah.
So,
what I would say to that
yeah,
it is true
but the other basis but desire and anger themselves are not animal instincts and not shaped on purely either shaytaan use these those two natural human instincts to try and make us do haram that we can say but even shanwa or desire is desire haram. Yeah, it is not. It is not as some have suggested as though it was haram. Allah subhanaw taala says
in the Quran Surah Al Imran verse 14.
Allah subhanaw taala says
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Allah subhanaw taala says
it has been beautified for human beings what has been beautified beautiful Allah's not saying it is beautiful saying it has been beautiful somebody has made it happen for human beings. It's in that comes across a set like that zoo Aegina leanness, what has been beautified for human beings is the desire for women and vice versa for men for women has the same meaning and children designed for children. Well Can it really contract in heaps and heaps of gold and mineral value of big data of gold and silver? Well Halal was someone that and branded horses these are things that we we love. Yeah. Is it haram to love these things? Because it's not haram they've been beautified in our nature
in other words, who beautify them Allah put them in our nature. Yeah. Go have horses which are
branded and to have cattle animals. Yes, she cattle and and
and camels etc. Well hearth and to have crops and fruit. Vandy. Camerata will hire Donia This is the
enjoyment of this life. Yet what Allah has won here are who in the hall force No.
But with Allah, Allah is the best of abodes to return to. In other words, don't get carried away with the things think of the hereafter. That's where the real pleasures Yeah, and full fulfillment of desire is.
Now when it says Wallah who end up Woosnam, it doesn't make all those things haram. Yeah, it's not it's giving priority to the hereafter, and not getting ISA to B's McCarl hieratic. Donia. Yeah, enjoy them. But don't, don't put your eggs all in one basket and as though you have forever to enjoy this because you're not give priority to where immortality is going to be for the day of judgment and what's to come after. That's what Allah does say, but the beautification and the desire for these things of Shiva has been put into us naturally by Allah. subhanaw taala shaitan wants you just to be and use this to beguile us. It's not that the shot was and the desire is is is wrong, but
shaitaan wants us to either do
Xena fulfill the desire with woman or man outside of marriage in Haram way wants us to steal and burgle. Yeah. And, and do people are out of money. Yeah to fulfill that desire. That's where the Haram comes. So shaytaan has a role to play in both in the same way will with a lot of anger. Anger is a natural human desire.
Yeah, but shutdown wants this to abuse and use that to make us in anger situation do things which we will regret which are wrong. Yeah, either verbally or physically and what we'll do, Inshallah, next time, I will finish with this studies. What kinds of thing are we talking about when it comes to anger? Yeah, what we're talking about what happens what people do the difference between anger and being upset which is Allah which is different due to different things upset is not the same anger, although anger may be mixed with being upset that's where we have to be careful. Yeah. So there may be being upset which is Allah in Arabic or
INSEAD being upset, not the same as a lot of other values.
So we will look at prefer that as to what those things are
the consequences of those who control that anger from those things, yeah. To not carry them out and control that angle. What rewards are waiting for them as mentioned by the the Quran? And then finally next week, next time, we should also look at anger and some of the consequences but for Kahala now looked at for example, somebody uttering divorce to his wife in a state of anger is that divorce applicable or not applicable? What's the difference opinions of the Alama and the seller in regards to that inshallah that's the next time Apple look only ha That was tough. The Hula Holly will come in now Who? Who? Allah from Rahim? Any questions from what we've covered today? Of course,
there's still stuff to cover. So no point asking me questions about that when I haven't done that.
I hope that was useful rather than sisters, for those of you who managed to join us.
No questions
dominate booj Alikum a Salam I
want to ask you about the Hadith he mentioned
by Abu Huraira Dylan saying that Professor stamp said I'm only a human being and I get angry.
Remember, could you please just tell me one more time the left part of it I think I missed it when he said I get angry like any other human being. So go to the last one. He says Hola. Hola. Innama Mohamed en O Allah. I am surely Muhammad. I'm only a human being. Yeah.
Yeah, double Come on. Yeah, double butcher. I get angry like human beings get angry.
Yeah, yeah.
We're in the huddle in that afternoon. And I have taken surely would you a promise, or Allah
that you will never break?
Yeah, what's the promise for you man? I mean, for whichever believer, I upset, hurt, or insult or even if I was to strike them, then make that for them. Because of my anger, make that for the Cafaro cafardo means expiation whiting out of their sins and and a source of nearness to you on the Day of Resurrection
it's become clear to me
and your question, sisters.
Know
Could I just ask something so it just kind of family can
it just carrying on from what the sister that hadith? And so, is that just related to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam? Or is it for us as well? If somebody is angry with us unjustly? Would that be expiation for us since?
If somebody's angry with us unjustly? Not necessarily not necessarily
because in the end, otherwise, you could look at it in the way of volume if somebody wrongs us out of anger, either by being abusive or striking us and we patient Yes, in that sense it would be yes.
Okay, it's potential for us from that way isn't it? But it publicize them anything negative from him? That's out of anger. He's taken a promise or last night that will definitely work in the favor of the believer. Yeah, yeah. Okay. All right. Does that come from from a different angle if we've been wronged Of course we become the Muslim don't we? Whether the person angry or not we become the ones who are wrong has been done to and Allah subhanaw taala There's no age gap between the dua of the Muslim and an Allah subhanaw taala which is indicating the reward especially if we have patients on sub.
Okay, thank you just like
anybody else
oh, five, I hope we're all playing Salah therefore that anger is a natural human trait.
Yeah,
happens to all of us and always will happen to profits and MBR and happened to the best and the leader of the humanity Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam
and we'll carry on with the rest of what I have to say inshallah next time now
I suffer with nothing in writing is a no just disciple of Heron sister sent that's it, that's fine. And I think Jennifer's only wants to want you to add him to the group if he's still on here
on the WhatsApp group of this circle, I will I'll text on this group now and if you can just note my number down and Jaffa Yeah, you can hear me send your number
and we've had a we have three weeks now. Yes, sir. Is it one week after next week then? Yeah, that's okay with yourself. Yeah, and then we back the week after that inshallah. Inshallah. Everybody Yes. I don't think everybody's still got the message out there. But we'll handle it. I
think people are finding out that his back on each other. I've sent it to all the groups I'll see if that's fine. Some people
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think he left me with my mistakes.
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I muted it. Sorry. Yes.
No, I wasn't. That was my last night I'll make because I'll tell the new light those who control our anger. And forgive us and give us some of take care of you. The man in law snuck
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