Forgive And Forget

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Muiz Bukhary

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An emotional friday sermon delivered by Sheikh Muiz Bukhary on the 8th of August, 2014 at Masjidul Hasan, Lower Bagatalle road, Colombo-3, Sri Lanka.

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Salam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh

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Bismillah Ar Rahman AR Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salli wa sallim wa ala ashrafi ambia evil mousseline Nabina Wahhabi vena cava karate ioannina Muhammad ibn Abdullah LA. Li he was happy he of Salatu Mata Mata slim Am I bad for the corner la junta Baraka wa Taala fee for an e la Aziz bad. Ooh Billahi min ash shaytani r rajim.

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all praise and thanks be to Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala with our Creator sustainer nourish, protect, and cure. We ask Allah the Almighty to Chava his choices of blessings and salutations upon our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his family members, his companions and all those who tread upon his path with utmost sincerity until the day of the AMA, first and foremost, I admonish myself and then all of your present here to adopt a life of the poor. And that is to fear a loss of the hand and a dialogue and to be conscious of a loss of behind Medina during every single second of our lives if we wish to attain success in this world, as well as the hereafter. May Allah

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the Almighty make us all from the people of taqwa.

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Secondly, it is incumbent upon all of us to tank a loss of a hand and who are diala for the numerous bounties and favors that he has Virgil has conferred upon us and from those favors My dear respected elders and brothers in Islam is the bounty is the blessing of hedaya of guidance Allahu Akbar, Allah subhanho wa Taala has blessed us in such a way that we are born upon Islam it is either that we are born in Islam, or that amongst behind him what Allah has guided us towards the life of Islam Allahu Akbar, either way, we have been blessed by a lost behind and what Allah by him as a Virgil guiding us towards the true Deen that is Islam. We have to thank Allah behind him what Allah because that is

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the greatest blessing ever that we are from the EMA of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the greatest prophet ever. In sha Allah Allah for today's sermon, we will be taking an amazing journey with a grand and beautiful name of Allah subhanho wa Taala which is a love of food.

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I love our food. Our beloved maker of powerful maker, Allah azza wa jal is the most forgiving of our food, or Rahim, the Most Merciful. This name describes a great magnanimous quality of Allah subhanho wa Taala and that is to forgive his creation and to hide the faults of his creation may have lost behind them what Allah forgive us and mainly the almighty hide all of our shortcomings

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in the noble Koran, more than in 90 places in more than a 90 places. Allah subhanho wa Taala mentions this quality, this name of his love of food, and many a time but he respected elders and brothers in Islam, Allah azza wa jal couples all of our food with our Rahim Allah is the most forgiving the Most Merciful.

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Allah subhanahu wa tada states in the noble for no

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more Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam informed my slaves nabire body inform my slaves and me hon Fuu Rahim indeed I am the most forgiving, the Most Merciful. Look at how lost behind the hood Allah our beloved maker look at the way he addresses are so lovingly informed my slaves Allahu Akbar, my dear respected elders and brothers in Islam.

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In general, when we look at love

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Stories. Love Stories involve a lot of heart ache. As we read and as we see, we see that love stories involve a lot of heart ache, a lot of pain, except for the most beautiful of all love stories, and that is to love, the source of love, the creator of love, our beloved maker, Allah azza wa jal, that love story is the most perfect, the most beautiful of all love stories, and you are never, you're never going to suffer. If you enter into that beautiful relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala. May Allah Almighty forgive all of our sins, but he respected elders and brothers in Islam. This quality is a quality, it is the quality of our Creator. And it is a quality that we

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have to inculcate in our lives, if we wish that allows behind them what Allah should forgive our sins. He we wish that Allah subhanho wa Taala should hide our faults on the day when all of mankind from other Mali who salatu salam until the last man to be created, when all of us will be brought and taken into account, if we wish that our faults should be hidden. And if we wish that Allah Subhana Allah should forgive our sins, then let us forgive others. Let us forgive others because the minute we inculcate this quality My dear respected elders and brothers in Islam, Allah subhana wa gyla takes it upon himself, takes it upon himself to uphold the quality of forgiveness, the quality

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of hiding our false maleness behind them or to either forgive our sins, but the respected elders and brothers in Islam, there are many incidents from the life of our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that highlight this beautiful quality of forgiving of forgetting of letting go Allahu Akbar, we are not supposed to dwell in the past. We are not supposed to dwell in the past, whatever wrong is done upon us today, the way the world is going. What has been promoted is that you're not supposed to let go, the minute you let go, you are considered a weakling. You are considered a weak person. You are considered a stepping around. But look at the tsunami Rasulullah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam look at the persecution he went through. Look at the trials. Look at the difficulties look at all of the trouble. The people of Makkah, the Quraysh the Arabs, his own people, put him through but look at the magnanimity of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam, where he forgave all of them. This is from the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I wish to highlight a beautiful incident of an incident that took place and that has been mentioned in the books of history, the books of Sierra our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and this is about the beloved daughter of our Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Xena, la

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vida.

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Through the beautiful and blessed marriage of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and de Janeiro de la vida allows the hyena who died and bless them with a daughter, a daughter, the eldest of all children of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the eldest daughter of Rasulullah he said a long while he would send them a name was Xena of the laquanda She was the daughter of Khadija rhodiola one Ha. So after she was born, after she attains maturity after she attained maturity, there was a cousin of hers by the name of laughs even Robbie abou laughs even Arabia. He goes to his aunt, who is was a hottie God Ivana and asks her that he wishes he proposes. He proposes to Zane about the

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long line, that he wished to get married to her. Khadija rhodiola one who took up the issue with Rasulullah he said a long while he said them and they discussed about it, and Khadija wrote a long line. Hmm. She asked us why he said a long while in Salem, Yasuda LA, or this was before the advent of Islam. So my beloved husband, there is this nice and young boy who has proposed for our son, what do you think of our daughter? What do you think? What do you think of taking him as a son in law? Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he very rarely went against the desire or the wish of Khadija de la Juan Hmm. So he said that if you think that he is the appropriate person for our

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daughter, then so be it that does get them married, Allahu Akbar. And so preparations to place for the marriage and the nikka was done. Then he can was done between oblast urban Arabia and Zainab rhodiola one had the daughter of Rasulullah he said a long while he was in them. So afterwards Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam after some time he was appointed as the Prophet of Allah by Allah

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Behind the island, and the minute Prophet would was declared upon Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Khadija wrote the long line ha she immediately embraced Islam she accepted Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as the final messenger, all of his daughters, all of his children, they all accepted Islam, but sadly, his son in law, Abul algebra robbia did not embrace Islam. He did not embrace Islam and the Kufa the Quran, they went up to him and they started taunting him and started instigating something in him. They went and said to him, you have married the daughter of a man who has declared against our goals, you should divorce her divorce that daughter of Muhammad sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam, to which

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he replied, what wrong or what harm has been a buddy of mine had done to me, it is not fair upon me to divorce her I am not going to divorce her. I am not going to divorce her. And anyway we know of the difficulties that the Quran put Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam through until finally our beloved master Mohammed said a long while he was lm had to make hegira had to migrate from Mecca to Medina. So Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the companions of the Allahu animoji Marine they migrated to Medina, but they nebrodi a long one, her and her husband did not migrate because I will ask him in Arabic, her husband had not embraced Islam. So after hegira after migration, we know

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of the Battle of budget, the Battle of budget took place and in the Battle of budget, many of the Kufa and remember I would have

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fought against the Muslim army. He fought against the Muslim army in the Battle of butter, and many of them were taken captive. Many of the kuffaar were taken captive by the Muslim army above us even Arabia, the son in law of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was also taken captive. He was also taken captive. And then it was declared it was declared that the captives could be freed by a ransom if they could pay the ransom. Or if they could arrange for one of their relatives to come and pay the ransom, then they would be set free. So this was declared and many of the Kufa from Qureshi, they came they paid the ransom and they freed their relatives and took them back to Makkah. So say

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nebrodi a one one had the minute she heard about her husband being in captive, she sends a necklace she sends a necklace to ransom her husband and three her husband, my dear respected elders and brothers in Islam. This necklace belonged to Khadija Viola one ha and this necklace was gifted to zenobia long Winehouse by her beloved mother, Khadija will be a long line on the day of her marriage. This necklace was sent to the suit of one in Santa Monica laser center. And why it's the sort of line he said a long while it will send them we'll see that with the Sahaba this necklace comes and the minute was sort of one he said a long while he said that he saw the necklace, he

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started to be loved what he started to read. He started to weep and he started to remember the God of love and

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he starts to fondly remember these are the long lines and he starts to cry. It was such an emotional moment that the Sahaba at one la lala Jemaine did not know what to say. And then it also

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asks, as my daughter has my daughter sent this necklace of Khadija to the abattoir to ransom her husband. Oh my Sahaba Oh my Sahaba if you think that it is appropriate, then I wish to send this necklace back and I wish to send my son in law back to my daughter if y'all think it is appropriate, but on the other hand, if you do not think that it is appropriate, then take the ransom and free him.

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The Sahaba at one la dee da da linguagem I immediately say Yasuda, la Yasuda la if it is your wish. Then we free him immediately. Then Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam calls for his son in law that he tells him I free you with no ransom. My daughter has sent this necklace as a ransom go and give it back to her but I have a request. Please send my daughter to Medina because Makkah is not a suitable place for her send my daughter back to Medina. His son in law was a noble man was a noble man he accepted the request of grace with a mindset about wanting to sell them. The minute the minute he went back to Makkah he arranges for the daughter for his own wife to be transported to

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Medina to her beloved father, my dear respected elders and brothers in Islam. She was pregnant at that time, the number of the loved one who was pregnant at that time, and she was in the latter stages of her pregnancy. It was arranged that she should be transported to Medina she was put on a camel and she was about to be transported to Medina they reach the outskirts. Her husband could not travel with her so he had arranged for others to accompany her the minute they reach the outskirts of monka. A group of Kufa

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from amongst them was discovered by the name hotbar. Even as they go, they rush towards that convoy, and they attack that convoy and they attack the beloved daughter of our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Hubbard even a last word he strikes at Xena brother your loved one ha he flings his spear at the camel of Xena Brody a long line ha, Xena brother, your loved one who was pregnant, she stumbles she falls from the camel. She falls onto a boulder onto a rock she was pregnant and she miscarries her child and she starts to bleed and there is a pool of blood around her. Our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his daughter My dear respected elders

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and brothers in Islam, the Kufa they were enjoying the scene they were enjoying and they were having fun by doing this to our the daughter of our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she miscarried a child above a cupboard, and then she was immediately rushed back to her house in Makkah, she was treated, she was treated for her wound, and all of that and finally after some time, after she had she had recovered, she was transported back to Medina to our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. After a few years, one day there's a knock at the door at the door of Xena Brody along one hand in Medina. in Medina, she opens the door to CDs her husband, her husband

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has come, he had been crossing by with a caravan and had been taken captive by the Muslims. And then Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam once again, once again he had informed the Sahaba in one litre Allah Allah himadri Marine, you'll have taken captive if you will wish your keep him as your capital if you will be sure can free him the Sahaba recon vida Allah Allah image mine treated him like I know Bill guests like a noble guest and they released him he goes back to Makkah he goes back to Makkah and informs the Kufa. You know how they treated me. They treated me with so much of respect. They treated me like a noble guest. I declare a short one La ilaha illallah wa shawanda

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Muhammad Rasulullah he embraces Islam and then he travels back to Medina and he he becomes from the Muslim moon Allahu Akbar. Medina respected elders and brothers and Islam now comes about the fact of the fact of Makkah, just before the first half Mecca what happens is, if I'm not mistaken as the eighth year of history or the seventh year of injury, Z nebrodi have more than half passes away. She passes away due to that goon. That injury that was caused by her body blood as well. For that very moment she passes away Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam himself, he goes and buries his daughter. He gets into the grave of Maha kabara. He gets into the grave with his daughter, he lays

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his beloved daughter into the grave, and when he looks at the Dark Pit, he starts to feel so emotional. The Sahaba

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knew that. He said along while he was he was upset. But then when he came out of the grave, his face was radiant, his face was bright. This is one of the highlights. They asked him Yasuda, what happened? Why is your face now bright? The supervisor along while he was standing clarified, when I was entering the grave, I saw the Dark Pit of my beloved daughter. I was wondering how is she going to fare in that pit in that Dark Pit? But then when I went in, I was the healer who informed me that the questioning of the grave has been lifted upon her. She will not go through the Azov of the grave Allahu Akbar. And that is why my face is bright and radiant, mature, respected elders and brothers

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in Islam, coming to the fourth horseman God, it was the conquest of Mecca. The suit of law is the law while he was an intern. And an order was given a few individuals had to be killed on site, and from them was a bar even as well. The one who attacked the daughter of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, how about the minute he heard about that order, he, he decides or he tries to flee to Persia. He tries to flee to Persia. But then again, he recalls people talking about the magnanimity of the supervisor along while he was in about the forgiveness of that alarm. It was lm and he decides to go and surrender to survive for the long run a call center. During the first half Makkah

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he comes in front of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the one who attacked us with advice and Allahu Allah Slim's daughter. The Sahaba is one of my earliest memories. The minute they saw these individuals, they all drew out their swards in ready to attack him, but also vice versa. Lem said wait, oh my Sahaba give them any chance.

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Give the man a chance. The man comes running Habermas. What he says Yasuda law, I know what I did was wrong. My crime is was horrible. Indeed. It was an atrocious crime what I did, I attacked your daughter but then I have heard about your forgiveness. I have heard about your magnanimously Yasuda law. Please forgive me, Ursula. I have come to you

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seeking your forgiveness Forgive me rasulillah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he sighed

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he sighs and then you know what our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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I have forgiven you and my Sahaba one by the highlight may have forgiven you, you are free to go.

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La three ballet Coolio, Fernando Tanaka, just as our use of ballet so that was Sam said to his brothers, they will be no reproach amongst over y'all today, you're free to go. This was the forgiveness of our Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, towards the individual who attacked his own daughter

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towards his own daughter, his beloved daughter. His daughter died because of the wound because of that injury. But he respected elders and brothers in Islam. He is the role model that we need to be following. look at things that are happening towards us a small petty issues but then we fight for ages we take we declare war against that individual is that from the quality of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam is that from the quality of our beloved Mecca Allah subhanho wa Taala. It has derived lessons many respected elders and brothers in Islam. It has followed suit wise and alarm while he was in him it was forgive and let us forget that has overlooked the faults and the

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shortcomings of others so that alas behind him with the haisla our beloved maker forgives our sins and overlooks our shortcomings. May Allah subhanho wa Taala forgive all of our sins and mainly hide our shortcomings may help us to forgive others and maybe accept our good deeds may unite us in the gardens of Gemini just as how the united us here this beautiful afternoon with our beloved Master Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam