5 Powerful Tips To Deal With Haters

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Muiz Bukhary

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Negative people exist all around us and are impossible to avoid. Here are five powerful tips shared by Sheikh Muiz to help deal with them.

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Come in.

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What do you do about the haters?

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Five powerful tips on how to deal with haters negative people and crabs,

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haters, negative individuals and crabs. They're all like human black holes which suddenly come out of nowhere and just suck the life out of you. You try to stay positive and remains strong, but their negativity ends up just completely draining you you feel exhausted and you may also start to feel depressed as well. But encountering such individuals is inevitable in life. So here are the five tips to help you deal with such people. Tip number one, choose your battles wisely. Our maker clearly states in the novel or on Twitter for fun I am number 63 where I learned oh man in Medina insha Allah Allah out the house, either Hong Kong bamboo Mangia una Carlos Allah.

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And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth with ease and when the ignorant addressed and that is harshly they respond with greetings of peace. So do not engage every single time someone provokes you or irritates you. Not only will you be seen as a person looking to argue you will also be welcoming their toxic feelings into your own life. Rather than argue ignore all negative comments, control your emotions and prevent the situation from escalating walk away from unnecessary conflict and leave them with greetings of peace. You will be respected for taking the high road. Tip number two Do not over analyze the situation by taking them seriously. Negative

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people can sometimes behave irrationally, you will waste valuable time and energy if you're trying to make sense of their actions. Do whatever you can to prevent yourself from becoming emotionally invested in their petty problems and issues. Because half of the time all they do is brew thunderstorms in tiny teacups, tip number three set limits and boundaries. Do not ever feel pressure to sit and listen to a negative person. Their negative energy will seep into your own life and affect your attitude, set limits and boundaries and put some distance between yourself and this individual. If you must be around a negative person Try to keep your interactions short and Curt at

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the end of the day, you cannot control their negative behavior Yes, but you can control whether or not you engage. Tip number four, avoid whiners. People who complain about everything will never ever enhance your life. They do not offer solutions The only thing that they do is point out problems. They will knock out your ideas and suck you into their emotional pity parties. If someone displays the classical symptoms of a complainer, stop socializing with them unnecessarily only deal with him or her if you absolutely must. Tip number five which is the final tip build a shield of positivity. Your happiness and well being are too important and too valuable to let anyone's negative opinions

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or rude comments bring you down or affect how you look at yourself. Do not lose sleep over the crabs Let me explain crabs in a bucket can easily escape from the bucket one at a time. But instead of doing that they pull each other down whenever one rises to the top thus ensuring their collective demands remain positive and begin to limit your time with the negative individuals enjoy life. Hopefully your aura of positivity will either transform them to become better individuals or it may become so repugnant to them that they will gradually fall away naturally. Either way, it's a win win situation for you. This is Mario ohare signing off until my next video in sha Allah take care was an

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MRI Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh