Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #746 Seeking Forgiveness

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The history and meaning of the Bible and its use of the word "the vacuum of the heart" are discussed, along with the importance of forgiveness and staying true to promises. The segment also touches on legal topics, including the rise of Islam in the Middle East and Africa, the importance of praise for Muhammad Muhammad, and the negative impact of cyber security and the coronavirus pandemic on society. The speakers emphasize the importance of avoiding past mistakes and staying true to promises until an older age.
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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious muddy views on praises to Allah alone we praise Him and we seek His help. Allah guide is a truly guarded one and also ever OLALIA say none can show him guidance made a date his vision Salutations be upon Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. Today inshallah we'll resume with another new edition in the business series of Guardians of the pious. Today's episode is number 746.

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And it is a third in chapter number 371. The commandment of seeking forgiveness at its version,

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beautiful chapter. I just love the chapter so much that I don't need to finish.

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Today we'll begin with a beautiful verse of Surah empfang Chapter number eight, area number 33.

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The Almighty Allah says we're America and Allah hony Zeba who

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Duffy fi him one

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more home or has zebra? More home? Yes. delfy. Your?

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What is the meaning of this beautiful segment? Allah Almighty says and Allah would not punish them while you are Muhammad peace be upon him, still among them, nor will he ever punish them while they seek forgiveness. What does this mean? This is rough translation of the signal, chapter number eight, verse number 33.

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So the idea was revealed, in fact, number one, so it's a multiverse before the migration. And the area contains both glad tidings and warning. the glad tidings that the presence of Muhammad peace be upon him, among them, is the greatest means of safety and security.

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Also, if they were to believe

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and receive forgiveness, you will be forgiven.

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And the Almighty Allah will be a punishment.

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This what Allah Almighty says,

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an ocean only Prophet Muhammad by the way, the Almighty Allah never punished any nation while the messenger is still among them, he would rescue them, then he all collaterally damaged them and punish them.

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And sometimes the believers will be rescued as well. Like in the case of Prophet, peace be upon him, the rest were drowned, collateral damage.

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So here, the Almighty Allah instilled in the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to give the American pagans and

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that my presence among you,

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is a means of security for you. Allah is not going to cause you to be punished collaterally which will be wiped off the face of the earth, like the people of Noah, like the people of God, like the people of

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Prophet sila.

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All of that because the Prophet is still among you. But if he were to leave, you will be subject to punishment and it happened.

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They will humiliated the old punished when the False Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him to leave from Mecca,

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whether on the battle bed, or the trench, what afterward during the conquest of Mecca.

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And the second chakra is also if you were to seek forgiveness, then Allah Almighty will withhold His punishment.

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And if this is the case, when addition the non believers, so what is it when you're addressing the believers?

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This is a Beshara.

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So you said, you see forgiveness, Allah would with the punishment. If you see forgiveness, and you're sincere in your repentance, the Almighty Allah will turn your son into a good deed.

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Because you recognize your sin and you repented. And if those Mac and pagans were to seek forgiveness, that means you will believe and they will admit you are wrong, and they will pagans, and they will recognize your errors, but they're not doing any of that. So they remain in their disbelief, and they forced

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the major means of safety and security for

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them out Prophet Muhammad and now they are exposed. They would like naked,

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very vulnerable, deserving the punishment.

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Many of the interpreters occurrences also the eye is edition I believe was Abu salah, Ashari, or the Allah and one of the great companions of the Prophet peace be upon him, whom the Prophet salaallah Cinema said, Indeed, you've been given a beautiful, melodious voice like Prophet David PSP upon him.

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He said, Indeed, we used to have two means of security, one of them is God.

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What is it? The first means was the presence of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam among us and now he's dead. So remains for us the second means of safety and security, which is to continuously seek forgiveness. Yes, they'll have you on a regular basis.

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So once again, even if you're deserving of the Almighty is punishment, but you're making stuff far and you need it. You're not just doing the left arm job. And you just move in your nuts and you don't mean it. No, he actually mean it. And if you're sorry for your sin and share stuff for learning minute, then Allah will not punish you.

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And it is also good news because If Allah doesn't punish you in the in the life of the fold, and conceals your sin for you, and then he forgives you, then he will not punish you in the hereafter as well. provided you've been seeking forgiveness. You've been repent, you've been regretting.

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This is the fourth and final number 33. When can Allah who you are as zebra whom Allah was not going to punish them so long as you're among them.

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When I came along was even on your staff, I don't know what he punished them so long as they see forgiveness. So take heed.

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The following reference is a very famous reference of short Adam Ron chapter number three, verse number 135.

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I'm going to call this verse but in order to comprehend it, we must know the verse before. So the segment says well Lavina either for our roofer he Schatten our wall mo Fusa homes, Allah has a stellar fellow did on all the him

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wear me out will fuel with his own all that love law.

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While I'm Newfield, whoo,

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The meaning of this segment of set of verses

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it says and those who end have committed illegal sexual relationship, an illicit Act or the home themselves with evil, they immediately remember Allah and then they ask for forgiveness for their sins. And then Allah says a nun can forgive sins, but He but Allah and they do not persist in what wrong they have done why they know now, since you already know the meaning of the segment, let me tell you this, some of the verses

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you cannot take them out of context. Like you know this idea is talking about certain kinds of people a Category those who commit sins including illicit Acts Then they say forgiveness and they do not persist what

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I mean what is for them

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oh that was mentioned in the previous I sometimes it is mentioned in the following i This time it's mentioned in the previous area. So it says was Rio ILA and I will never become more than 30 Now who has to 108 that's dealing with dirty Alladhina if you're gonna fish

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you have belong

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with me in a live our life

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what love your hip boom machining then when?

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So they will Shala is delivered in the previous red Loctite in a lot on mighty says Be quiet you all together all we will really be quick race towards what

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lucky said inshallah to have each race race with what race your own towards what? forgiveness from your Lord and gardens.

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as wide as the heavens and the earth has been prepared for the pious for the God fearing.

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So when it comes to forgiveness, do not wait. Do not postpone, do not slow down. Do not say one day. When I go for hands when I go for the ombre or Ramadan comes, I think a couple of days ago, there was one of the viewers who is asking that I'm planning to quit smoking and repent, once Ramadan enters, and Ramadan is less than 100 days away, yes, three months. So he said, I'm planning to repent and quit smoking.

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Once Ramadan begins, I said, You're not gonna do that.

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If you're not strong enough to quit right now, and waiting for Ramadan to come, but who gave you an assurance that you will make it? You would live until you witness Ramadan? I don't know. Every episode on I'm sitting here and sometimes I feel like I'm not gonna finish it. It's possible. How many people died live on air? Soccer players, boxers, wrestlers. The just yesterday, there was a game soccer football game. And somebody died at a young man, very athletic. He swallowed his tongue and he was suffocated. And he taught me a lot less on him. So when you say in a couple of months, or a couple of years, when I go for Hajj, when I reach certain age, when I quote, work in the bank, I'm

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going to repent, I'm going to pray when I reach 20, I'm going to pray when I do this, when I start having illicit relations, you put this on top of that, and you say, I'm waiting until I achieve this. This is all of the plots of Satan in order to slow you down and hinder you from making the serious decision. Said do

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the quick

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and ASCs in order to be eligible for intern paradise, to enter heaven, which is as wide as the heavens and the earth, all this universe compared to heaven, which Allah has prepared for the pious is nothing. In fact, the sound Hadith the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, Lana will they will shelter a Hadith from Phil Jannetty. Hi, Ramona dunya. Murphy is addressing the Arab the bad ones. They didn't have cars, but they used to do what right on the back of the camels and horses and donkeys and mules. So they needed what as take what awaits, so find everyone having his work or his take her beneath his own. Because he goes around wasn't

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so he says, if you happen to possess a spot in heaven, which is as new as the spot of St. in heaven, by Allah this is indeed greater and therefore you and and the whole world and white content, or sha Allah, masha Allah,

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by in order to get your foot in heaven, you've got to be forgiven.

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Therefore, He began by saying, Be quick towards the interim Jana, because towards forgiveness, the correct words, earning forgiveness, deep work towards repenting and limiting your sins and redemption. And then if you are

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accepted, and your sins have been forgiven, you can say to Jana, in his own Hadees, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said,

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None shall enter paradise merely because of the amount of their good deeds.

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Some of the companions said, oh prophet of Allah, not even you, because all the companions were aware of the piety of Prophet Muhammad, the sincere devotion that he used to worship the Almighty Allah would. So after he finishes, a day full of activities and teachings and prayers and tally, when he everybody goes home, he stands up in prayer.

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His feet were the swell of the long standing in the prayers. He may recite 1/3 of the Quran in one single unit. You know, Saudi said, you know, you said no one will be eligible to enter Paradise because of the volume of that God does not even you, you said my even need, unless if Allah includes me in his mercy, unless if Allah showers His mercy upon me, unless if Allah

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covers me with his mercy in

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any level that I've noted. So this is a message that no one should think I'm too good. What I've done, Hodge and three are homeless. So I know that I'm eligible to enter Paradise, or I give 5% instead of 2.5% of the care what I suppose some orphans, or I look after my, my young siblings after my father died, so I'm gonna say to heaven, this is all good for yourself. If it is accepted, then this is a mercy from Allah and generosity, then if it is accepted and your word that this indecision word is sufficient to make you eligible to be in heaven.

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It's not sufficient, because no matter what we'll do, we don't give an offense and appreciation for the sins of the Almighty Allah. And that's why we need His mercy. That's why he said to enter heaven, you're gonna get forgiveness, forgiveness, for your sins and forgiveness for your shortcomings in doing what is required to do and what is even voluntary to make you eligible to enter. Then he mentioned among the qualities

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that the spin those pious people will Arab eligible to enter agenda which is as wide as the heavens of the Earth they said Alladhina also one of his son, right you are Burma, you will tell them in a label and hifi nanny NAS Allahu Hibben, sin inequalities extend generosity for the sake of Allah with and and adversity or prosperity or in adversity. Not because they have some tight financial conditions here, I'm not giving any more no they share with others. So this is a very, you know, great quality.

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And the sub is anger.

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Whenever they are capable to take revenge or punish those who have offended them, they refrain they step back and say, for the sake of Allah suppress my anger, so they become eligible for His mercy. And furthermore, the pardon the past and those who have hung them while they are capable, to attention you know, when somebody is weak and oppressed, and a ruler and officer or a muscular person happened to hurt him. So when he got off the car and he wants to take revenge and he found humongous guy says, okay, I forgive you, you know, you're not forgiving him, you protected yourself.

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You're not any forgiving him, you know that you cannot do anything what happened? So it becomes harder to pardon and forgive when you have an access to revenge when you're capable to take advantage Subhan Allah

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during the following Iowan 35 Among the qualities of the pious who are eligible to enter Paradise, the

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whenever they commit sins, the wrong themselves, they embellish into an illicit relationship immediately they remember ALLAH, they remember that he's severe in torment, they remember that I saw Allah wanna Sue Allah has recorded everything, and he remembers he does not forgive. So they are afraid they will be in trouble. So the rush to do it, see forgiveness for the sins first of all?

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And who besides Allah for guessing the answer is in the negative man. Let me also

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add who me animal Assad is persistence.

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And that's why

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when somebody is drinking, it says Oh ALLAH forgive me, I know this is haram. But Oh Allah, forgive me. That itself is a shame. Because now, the way that he seeks forgiveness requires forgiveness is not serious. He's joking. Maybe you're sarcastic

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as Eve, who is breaking into somebody's house and says, Oh, Allah protect me and made it easy for me to do what? To bake into somebody's house and to steal. Does it make sense? No, it doesn't. So he's not eligible for forgiveness. While I'm you're sort of raw follow, they do not insist

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on committing the sins knowingly.

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But sometimes, after we do medicines, and receive forgiveness, then we and we'll start over

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and see forgiveness again. repeat over and over and over again.

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As long as you are serious about seeking forgiveness, there is no Israr there is no persistence.

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And the following reference

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is Hadith.

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The first Hadith in the chapter 307

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which is the rate of buy

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L Moosonee.

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May Allah be pleased with him. And in our real Moosonee of the allawah another soul Allah He from the Lord he said I'ma call in

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Kobe. We're in Estelle Phil la Hatfield, yo me.

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Please pay close attention to the meaning of this hadith. Sometimes, there are some vocabulary which seem ambiguous. So you need somebody to walk you through, to comprehend the meaning lest sometimes a person can misunderstand the meaning and be in big trouble. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in the Hadith, which is narrated by Allah Laureen was Annie, may Allah be pleased with him.

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Sometimes I perceive a veil over my heart.

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And then I supplicate Allah and I seek forgiveness from him 100 times every day.

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Well, whether that's true I seek forgiveness from Allah every time 100 times every day has been mentioned in a couple of Hadith before.

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But what is kind of confusing is a word lady Oh no. And our kalbi

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you know in Arabic My grandfather used to teach us has another laboratory say you are robbing as you know that people in the righteousness are different categories.

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So that people aren't very keen to pray the five daily prayers and the even prayed in our field. And the cool

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okay, the righteous abroad. And there are even some people who are superior to them and Maccabi, those who are both very near to the Almighty Allah is like the life 24/7 is devoted for Allah sake. They don't get tired. They don't experience any fatigue, they find that leisure, they taste sweetness and joy in the light in the worship. So there are in our category.

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And that's why when one of the woman sent a question to man, I didn't handle.

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And she said that sometimes the caravan of the government, they're passing by and they carry light pushes. So we take advantage and we'll do some homework while the light is passing by. I said who are you? What kind of question is this?

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They said she's a sister of visual heavy one of the great plus, we will say that's why

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some people who are working for the government, they don't mind stealing right and left they think the money is theirs. The rulers, their kings and sultans or presidents. And they think because they are in charge. So they own the country for our own sake, surrounds, say, and so everyone welcome. And hello, third party OLS Egypt and honestly the sources. Okay. But this woman is asking about, you know, taking advantage of the light of the government

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in order to do some business,

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because it was that back then, there was no electricity. So the Imam was so shocked to find that a woman who is so pious to the extent that he is she's asking whether this is okay, or not. You know, there are a lot of people who bring, they use the copier to make copies for their children for themselves and do their homework and businesses at work, which they were not supposed to. And they never asked they never belittle that. Why because you don't care.

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So an Imam Muhammad, Muhammad figured out the questioner

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is the sister of this pious man, he said, That's why ln hon honey family, Allah had mentioned him when somebody asked him about Masada concerning a sheep or a goat that was stolen.

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And he figured out that so there is a sheet that was stolen. He asked, normally how many years she would love. They said that many years. He said, I'm not eating the meat of the sheep or the goats for that many years.

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Seven years I believe was why said I'm afraid that Steve would sell it to a butcher and the butcher would

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slaughter it and sell it to us. It may end up in my stomach. So I would rather not eat it say

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Is something required? No, no, it's not required. But this is extra piety. So here when an abuse of a felon says,

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This is an introduction, in order for you to understand the actual meaning of the word, Johann

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you know because to be honest with you when I read English meaning, sometimes that I perceive a veil over my heart is not the right word. What does it mean that I perceive a veil over my heart, the prophets heart was 24/7 connected to his Lord

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balsa hibakusha

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Maryam took one in Hawaii, in Hawaii,

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even when he's asleep, is in my eyes Lee but my heart is awake. But the meaning of the urine

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because the Prophet sallallahu sallam was not just a prophet, not just a messenger, not just a family counselor, not just a teacher, not just the commander of chief of the Muslim army. But according to the Hadees who heard that he's leaving from the machine and a young girl says, you know, one of those Chevron says, I dropped the Durham or dinar, can you come with me to look for it and he will join her to look for her last property. A woman and all woman says, Mohamed, I have a concern. I want to talk to you about something. You may have heard about Addy Inhotim, AKA a May Allah to visit him before he accepted Islam because he belonged to a year and his father was the

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most famous Arabic personality when it comes to gnrc to a big name, big name.

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He fled when his people fought again is the profit and the loss. So he fled and he happened to adopt a shanty as a religion.

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His sister was being taken as prisoner of war, when she spoke to the Prophet and she said, I am suffering at the daughter of Hatton Matei immediately the Prophet SAW sunshade release her and make sure that you sent her to her family with a safe company and give her money, clothes and food and all of that honor though, because her father who was not Muslim was generous when he was alive.

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So she convinced and even had a party to come to meet with this unbelievably generous and kindness Mohamed Salah salaam, she said you're not gonna lose anything. He's so sweet. He's so soft hearted. He's not like what you're thinking. He said, Okay. But you know, you guarantee that nothing would have He Said, She Said, I guarantee you. Soon he came. And he found a prophet Salam sitting in the masjid with his companions like everyone else. And then he introduced himself.

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Upon concluding the meeting, the prophet Selim got ahold of his hand and he escorted him to his own house for his own humble room,

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on the way had even hurt him.

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Number one, he observed how much love the Companions paid to Prophet Muhammad salah.

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On the way, he said, I saw an old woman said, Oh, Prophet of Allah, Allah has something to talk to you about. He said, Sure. So he let me standing. And he stood with her in private, for so long that I got bored. But I was telling myself, this guy, by no means is a king. Kings do not do that. He saw kind that an ordinary woman is asking him to chat with him to complain to him. And he's very patient and he's listening to her. And he's advising her. He said, This guy is not the tire, no way. Then when he went home, he found a cushion of leather, stuffed with fiber. It was made for Mohamed Salah Salem to sit on it. So he sat on the floor on the ground. And he thought to me and said sure on it.

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I said no, no, I said sit on it.

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So he saw his humanity. He saw his humbleness.

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Then he accepted Islam. Why am I talking about Hadith Nahata, a, and Safina and the old woman taking some of the precious time of the powerful South Sudan, though tell you that Muhammad Salah Salem was literally the busiest person on the face of earth.

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While the greatest man ever walked the earth, it was extremely busy.

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So people use to the sack time the problems the issues, the

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the financial situations, the invasions, the attacks with American pagans of the Romans of the monarchy, the King of the Jews. Oh my god. He's handing him all of that sometimes that will distract him.

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From continuously celebrating the praise of ALLAH, so he would end up making, seeking forgiveness for that, because I was distracted for some time from making

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that is a meaning of, you know, has an ethyl alcohol

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and that is the meaning of in our lives.

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And that's why when I feel disconnected from constantly praise and celebrating the pace of Allah, I may give up by seeking forgiveness 100 times every day. May the Almighty Allah guide us to follow the footsteps of the greatest man ever walked on Earth. It's time to take a short break and we'll be back in a couple of minutes.

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Salam o aleikum wa rahmatullah cattle and welcome back. My dear viewers in the segment, our phone numbers are all ready to receive your valuable calls and concerns. And to answer your questions. Let me quickly remind you with our phone numbers, beginning with the area code, the first couple numbers are for worship calls only. Records usual 1-361-489-1503. Alternatively, I oppose user 134780600 to five and as for the two logon numbers begin with the area code 002, then 0238, double 5134 And finally, airport 002 Then 01 double 05469323.

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Let's take the first caller for the day Sandman from India. Salaam aleikum

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wa salaam Sheikh how are you?

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Now the hunger is

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Take Yeah, we are you have a question that you know that we have been instructed by the province of Allah will leave us alone to be in the state of soon and I'll fitrah which is the clipping of the nails and shaping the view we're looking at the age of the armpit. So someone shaves is on pubic hair with the intention that this will be liked by his wife, and for the intimate relationship, when they will share among each other and not with the intention that this is my stuff. So that we can take him out of the fold of business? And yes.

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Yes. And man, let me ask a question before you hang up. Can you hear me? Okay? It's luxurious as somebody who lives in a non Muslim culture and it is their tradition that they grow the hair in this area. So he says, My spouse likes it this way? Is he going to do it? Is it going to grow it and not shave it not clean it up? In order to make his spouse or his wife happy? Is it permissible?

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No. Okay. So why for a Muslim who has an opportunity to earn a good deed when he says I'm doing this because it pleases Allah. Okay, I'm clipping my knees. Why? Because I was watching this program and I saw under the microscope. Oh my goodness, lot of germs. Okay, good for you. But why don't you earn a reward as well by saying because this is among the traditions of the pure nature. I'm doing this for this reason. I'm going for Juma prayer. So I'm taking a bath what you know it's early morning to refresh myself and 10 to do it as a sunnah. In order to be rewarded. You're not doing anything extra, only formulating an intention. You somebody does not want that word is not given the award

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since from India cinema alaykum.

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Weligama salaam go ahead chance.

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Yes, I have a very serious question. Yeah.

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Amma year back

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I came to know about my mother's this.

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extramarital affair. Oh, yeah, it would be best if you speak in the third person not to say me or my parent or my wife. Okay.

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Yeah, like you say I came or somebody came to know

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About his mother's extra marital affair, then what?

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I'm visiting.

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So, what happened?

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So first of all, this was totally devastating for me. And

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he was not

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able to understand what to do next. But, but now it's been around a year more than a year. He, the person has not talked to her mother.

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So, now it is possible that woman has stopped that thing now. But, but still the guy is not able to talk to her mother. By blimey answer hopefully as you know an answer, which may cover what you needed to learn and what others wanted to be educated in this regard. Set number one, adultery is a major sin and it is forbidden. It becomes even worse when the person is married or had been married.

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And therefore the punishment in this case is severe. It's a very unique person. Besides is the tree tree, the trail to the partners. It's haram.

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Secondly, a woman who happens to get involved in an act of adultery, while she's married, the child is ascribed to the husband, not to the biological father, and abuse Allah cinema said, and one or two lives, gosh, what did I hear in

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fact, number three, a child who's born out of wedlock he or she are not blameworthy and they should not affect that faith should not affect the success or failure and should not affect the way we'll look at them. Colonists in the Natasha Batra Hina everyone is responsible for their own actions, not for the actions of others, and let us

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know they're out of ascension. They're the son of another. Even the community should not cheat. A child who's born out of wedlock definitely will look down at him or her because he wasn't their choice. And is it possible that somebody who was born out of wedlock can be very righteous and very knowledgeable? Why not? Allah is fair is most just it wasn't his or her fault. It was a fault of the parents are wonderful.

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Finally, if somebody had found out that his mother, God forbid, had an extramarital affair, and he doesn't know whether he is the true biological father or he was born out of wedlock while his mother is married to somebody else. It's sad. It is devastating, as you said,

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but we need to look into the mother's condition now, how she repented. And she regretted Was it a mistake that was done once and by accident? Then you still continue to uphold your ties with her and take care of her. She's your mother. But if she is a person who is lucky and she likes to do that seven year relationship with her, she's a major sin. i Oh, I handed four matters the least if you're pushing and hope you're all clear, and Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Bucha

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almost are left from the UK as Santa Monica.

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Hello, Father, will you what is your question? Please? Yes, I can.

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I am I am I just under No, like it's a long story, but I will try and make it short.

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So I want to know now because I live with my son on our own in, in a European country, and I've got my mom and dad and

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somehow, like, because because they're busy with their lives, and also my sister is abroad in the years. Everyone is somewhere my brother is away as well in different country. So it's like we are I haven't seen them for like,

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my seven years now. So

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my dad is is a bit controlling. And he always like since I was very young, he's been always controlling on me. And I'll go divorce he was my son now here in the UK, and he just he wanted this to happen like he, it was his decision as well that we live here. But they keep like he wants to call almost every day he wants to call camera. I want to know if I'm this obeying him if I don't so

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Sometimes on sales calls, because

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I am now so many things that happened.

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I have been, like, so many things that so many lead downs before and hear

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anything hostile, like in the AME on my own.

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I mean talking to me in storage if I can't really listening, I'm just listening, finish your question.

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So the question is I'm like, if I don't answer, like sometimes because of all this affected me, like, you know, getting like, lots of of lay downs. In the meantime, I feel totally on my own. So unlike anything that I post by here, on my own, there is no one with me. So I feel like sometimes it doesn't make sense when they keep calling and say, Oh, it's because we check in on you. But in the meantime, like, if I call or if I'm like, some days, I'm just waiting for someone to go, no one, no one would call it off for like, six, five days. So I feel like it doesn't make sense. Like in these in these on these days. I would be like, you know, I would pass away and no one would know, this is

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what I mean. Like, you know, I went by COVID by myself, everything is like no one at all. Just me and my son since he was two years old. So when he keeps saying that, and he just wants camera on and stuff like that. I feel like I don't know what to do. I'm like

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that reply sometimes. Can you hear me now?

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Masha? Allah, you've mentioned in the beginning of your narrative that your dad keeps calling everyday, everyday everyday, right?

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Yeah, yeah, this is a good thing. It's not a bad thing. Whether he is controlling whether he is, he's your father, and he's giving you a chance to see him every day to talk to him to chat with him. Let's say that I'm busy cooking, I'm busy studying with my child, I'm busy doing whatever, okay, I'll call you back. If you're concerned about the every time I have to pick up the phone, it's like everyone else, that I'm busy now, I'll call you back, I'll call you later. But you're very lucky Wallahi You're very lucky that your parents are alive, you're very lucky that Allah is giving you an opportunity to enter Jannah through communicating with them, you're not doing much. You know, you're

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not living with them. So that you would have to serve them and cook for them and clean up after they finish eating and you're just communicating with them. If they're happy with you, Allah is happy with you. So when you say that my dad keeps calling every day, every day, every day, everyday, there's something good, it's not something really bad. And whenever you are in need, you can drop them a message, I'm desperately in need and they can come to you to the UK. Or if you're interested to go to Egypt and live with them along with your son. But whatever you said, with regards to the past that is controlling his whatever is not an excuse to stop taking his calls to stop

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communicating with them. Nor is it an excuse to mislead them. You don't got to keep doing the good until either you or them will meet Allah while he is happy with you. Thank you masala, Saramonic Murata labour.

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Family Relationship, brothers and sisters is something

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that many people may not comprehend until they lose the family member, especially the parents, and also the siblings, but the parents in the first day,

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many, many of us who lived far away from their parents, one of them died. And they do not even get to witness the last few days, the last few moments in the lives. They do not held their hands before they died. And they said Pray for me. And many of us got tied up with their business, that Shugden with their own needs. So they don't even know whether the parents sick or in a hospital or in the ICU, whether they're happy or sad in debt, they need money to pay the utilities or if they need anything. And this is indeed a shame. Because in the real salatu salam I said in the Hadith of the man 400 In

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other rocker other word were in the whole cable, a huduma Akela Houma and Emile killable Jana, he said, may he lose may he lose my he Luz said Jose, as you breathe in, invoked Allah and said you should say I mean, may he knows May he be humiliated and disgraced. Oh and what

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or a man who was blessed a man or a woman who is blessed that the parents or one of whom is alive and witness them in their life when they reach an old age, and they didn't serve them properly. They didn't take advantage of them reaching an old age to serve them in order to be eligible to enter agenda. So look at brothers and sisters even if the father was physically abusive used to be you he used to verbally abusive, used or insult you used to compare you to your siblings or your cousins. And it's to say that you're gonna fail, you're not gonna make it. By the end, he's your father.

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By the end, she's your mother, and the past is past. And when he asked this person, why did you do that is I was very keen to make sure that my son will be the best man in the world.

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Or my daughter will be the best daughter in the world. It was the wrong approach. Many parents got it all wrong. Now with the children continue doing the same mistake. They shouldn't. Rather they should catch up. Even if the parents were not good. It is your duty to be good to them. And remember the Almighty Allah said,

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even if they were this delivers not only if they were disbelievers, but also if they were struggling with you to convert you to disbelief. He said in Jaha daqarta and to shake and email a silica the ailment fell out of the home.

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You don't obey them. If they ask you to do a sin or shake yet wasa him who Macedonia

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but you gave them good company and you serve them. In other words, the Mario's final call for the day a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Sagol from Pakistan. Saghir how are you?

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Fe Saggar Can you hear me?

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Oh sorry. Saliba, Manny from Santa Monica moto live. What is your cushion cyber?

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Senator, my question is

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as a person

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one question is

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about when person urinate. And it is I got like is

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dispersed shaytan or it is take too much time and still and hope something comes out.

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Sometime after 1020 minutes after that something comes out. And sometimes even after one or two hours after I touch it. My favorite part or I wish

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I quit some wiser I think so. Is it the special setup? Yeah, I think I've answered your question in a couple episodes back when you spoke about OCD, obsessive compulsive disorder particularly related to a stranger and cleaning up after answering the call of nature. So the answer which I provided two days ago, is going to be the same as now he added something new which is a person may see a ye lira that he leaked a drop of urine also, number one, you need to verify that make sure it's actually reality, not fiction, not something in the mind. Because if it is just me a suspicion, dismiss it and you still in a state of Bihar. No, no, no, no, no, I kept a pad in my undergarments. And when I

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when they felt that I'm leaking a drop of urine. I checked it out and it will show in this case, wash up and make another wudu it's very simple. Isn't it better than sitting in the bathroom for half an hour. Do not sit in the bathroom for too long. After you finish immediately wash your profit make wudu and take a high leave. Oh an hour later I feel like a drop a drop of urine. You check out a few times the Verify sometimes it's only in the brains. If there is nothing physical Alhamdulillah dismiss it your order is valid. If it is something visible and you can see how it is true what I felt is true. In this case was your private throw away the pad or the tissues and make another

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mystery jet didn't follow up by another. Brothers and sisters and hamdulillah by the Grace of Allah have come to the end of today's edition of Guardians of the pious and until next time I leave you all in the care of Allah. Apollo Kali had our stuff for a lady what are some Lola Anna say you didn't know Mohammed? He was Sofia Salam wa salaam Wa alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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It is

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to be

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religion. So why did they know that forgiving God about an empire that was shipping guns fire and stones, sending letters to the cheapest

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bad guys with shipping cause fire and stores selling their best

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