Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #154 Sep 9th 2015

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The importance of visiting sick individuals is discussed, including reducing their suffering and helping others. The use of gifts and praying for sick individuals is emphasized, as well as the importance of praying for partner health and staying in a good sleep. The importance of avoiding negative consequences of past experiences is also emphasized.
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allah God is the Greatest. The moment only glory to Him. To me you must to be the best and give his best religion to allah God has the greatest

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glory to Him.

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He has to be the best.

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha wa salam ala verde let the you know stuffer. Let's see Mr. Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa seldom at the Sleeman Kathira My dear brothers and sisters, welcome to another live edition of our program Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah Today's episode is number 183. May Allah Almighty accept this humble effort and keep it in the scale of our good deeds. May Allah teach us what we do not know. And help us to understand and comprehend his deen and most importantly, to act upon it.

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We're still in the second episode, which explains chapter number 45. And this chapter, is of a great importance. It deals with the virtues of visiting the righteous people, loving them, and giving them company

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the Hadith, which we will begin today's episode with is Hadith number 362.

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In this hadith, which is a fair Hadith Narrated by Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Han, and collected by Al Imam with Tirmidhi and his sunnah con call Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam manha de Maria Bong Oh Zara hon LA who fill their Nether who Munna din the untold theater, all of them share whatever word terminal Jannetty Manzella

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the Prophet prophets, Allah Allah Allah selama says, Whosoever visits an ailing person or a brother of his to seek the pleasure of Allah,

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a caller from heaven would announce to him

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may you will be happy,

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may you walk and be blessed.

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And may you be awarded and dignified position in and Jana.

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This hadith as I mentioned early is a Hassan and some of the scholars categorize it as a weak Hadith but

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the hadith is very important, because also supported by some other sound Hadith, which provide a similar meaning such as the Hadith which is collected by Imam Muslim in which the prophets Allah Allah, Allah selama said monarda Maria von lemme azul Fie, Maha Rafa till Jannetty. Hatha Yoga.

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Mahabharata Jana is a garden of paradise,

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the city, trees, fruits, greenery, flow and water, water springs, the beautiful thing of the mountain birds and the different parts of birds, you will hear good things, you will see beautiful faces. And that is all of that is for a person who makes a special effort to visit somebody who is sick, provided this visit is for the sake of Allah.

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Could somebody visit somebody who's sick? And not for the sake of Allah? Oh, yeah, of course.

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Some people visit those who are sick, because their parents or their superiors, their employers, or they are awaiting any benefit from them, or they're paying them back. Allah subhanaw taala promises this magnificent word, Willy for those who do whatever they do. Exclusively for his sake, look at the Hadith

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Madhava Maria von alZahra a hello, filler. Whoever visits a sick person

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or visits one of his brothers for the sake of Allah.

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A caller from Heaven will call upon him and say your trip. Whatever ma'am, share. May you be happy. May you walk in be blessed. Subhanallah whatever.

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Word terminal Jannetty Mozilla may be awarded a dignified place in paradise Subhanallah

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the prophets Allah Allah, Allah salah, visited the SEC

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and encouraged his companions to visit those who are sick, whether Muslims or non Muslims.

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You have a colleague, neighbors, co workers, employers, employees, you know somebody who is sick, pay them a visit.

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There are many benefits behind visiting a sick person.

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The first virtue

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it reflects on the patient himself.

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Number one, it entertains the person who's sick you know that the hardest time on a person who is sick, is the nighttime. This is when they feel the pain most. Why? Because no visitations at night. So they're all alone by themselves. Even the closest people, the most beloved, either lying down next to them, or the next room, they need to take a break as well. So they're all alone by themselves. Think about all sorts of things. Whenever somebody is sick, and boot people visit him or her, then they start making dua for them, it would definitely give them tough, it will make it lighter for them, it will make it better for them, they will start feeling better, due to the

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vicious of dua due to the glad tiding and what is known as a 10 feasts. That the Prophet sallallahu Sallam recommended that whenever we visit somebody, it is recommended to give them 10 feasts on Phil Ajit to

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give them hope. Some people when they fall, ill and the pain is unbearable. Right away, they start contemplating death. And they think that said, it happens to all of us. So even if the person is terminally ill, it's recommended for those who visit him

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to give him hope, to give her hope. Not unlike others who visit some people who are sick. And I unfortunately, I have witnessed that I have heard that with somebody who has maybe renal failure,

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then maybe without feeling a person would say subhanallah my uncle died with the same disease. You know, my late mother suffered from this disease for so long and she ended up dying. This is awful. This is ridiculous. Absurd.

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You know, because the person even if he knows that, it's just a matter of time he's waiting for any good word, a word of hope, somebody who would give him a hug and say, sha Allah, you will feel better by the Grace of Allah, this is all Cafaro and Renza for all your sins. And this is very important.

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Because if the person does not anticipate the reward from Allah, for being patient, for his pain,

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for the suffering

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because there is definitely pain and there is definitely a reward in bearing that pain patiently. And now complaining about Allah to no one because the Prophet sallallahu ala selama said man Siebel Muslim in him meanwhile, and also been while I was having had the show, can you share qu? Il aka for Allah who behind me in Hatha Yoga, anything that afflicts a believer

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and anything whether it's a disease, whether it's some sort of worry, is overwhelmed with worry.

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Chaka Chaka is a prick that penetrates a stone that pricks his skin, you know, you're hurt by anything. So when you build up patiently in this Al Hamdulillah, Annie thank Allah. This is one of the means through which Allah removes one sense. So we need to remind the sick person.

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This is as far as the benefits that reflect on the person who was sick and only his family members. When the person is sick, and he sees good people are coming to visit him. He feels very optimistic. He feels that Allah loves him. And he feels that all his work during this life was not in vain. No, he invested in a good company. You have very good people and he's proud before his family members, he can even communicate that with children you see, such and such is a good person. He is a half of his latest person. He is a man of dismission and Masha Allah he does this. He does that. And they're all concerned and they come frequently to visit me when a person is an oppressor

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and he has many employees you only have oppressed. Whenever he falls sick. They asked

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A lot will make it you know, as swift as possible to get rid of him.

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That's why Nabi SallAllahu sallam,

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once when a funeral passed by he said he made this remark Mr. Johan, almost Rahaman.

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What does it mean? Oh prophet of Allah, whenever somebody dies is either mystery, that now he's gonna start experiencing comfort and risk because the life of this wall is all about suffering tests and trials, you know. And whenever a believer dies, he's going to his seat he's, he's going to see his seat in heaven. And that would bring him comfort and assurance and happiness. While most of our human our most thorough human, on the other hand, a person whenever he dies, people feel happy that this person, this evil person, is gone. Not only people, people and things around him, his vehicle, his car, his house, the seat that you sit on, whenever he hears the Amazon, and he doesn't answer

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the call of Allah, everything feels happy that this person is gone, or Allah punish him. We're happy that he's gone.

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Do not be persuaded and deceived by the fake compliments and the false signs of approval from people because they need you because they are afraid of few you're an oppressor so they pretend before you that they're okay with you. But in fact, they're only doing that because they feel you rather build up a good relationship with people for the sake of Allah. Hi, look in NASA. Hello Ken has Subhanallah whenever a sick person who's good falls ill and as simple message is circulated on any social media. Wow. You see hundreds of 1000s of people praying for him. Some even without knowing what it is enough to know that oh, this shelf, Masha, Allah said, we have one brother who said, Pray

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for him, they all pray for him. Imagine if this person is known. And his virtues are known and is known to be pious. And people got to know that he's sick. How many people pray for him not only people, not only his loved ones, even those who do not know him, the angels. The the animals pray for the person's welfare. If he is righteous, may Allah make us amongst them. So there are some etiquette whenever we visit a sick person, number one sincere intention

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and anticipate the promised road. What is the promise reward again? When I say anticipate their word, what does it mean? Oh Allah word me, I know that you're going to reward me for visiting a sick person. What is the promise? Robert, I want you to imagine that whenever you're sitting in somebody's house or set or in the ICU, or in the hospital with him for a few minutes, you sit in in a garden of paradise. This is what the Prophet sallallaahu cinema said. Larissa Luffy, Mahara. Fatima Jannetty had Tyagaraja until you return. You're doing your own stuff a favor by visiting a sick person. So brothers and sisters, what about this idea that maybe over the weekend, every once

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in a while, you make some community effort, community service, you take your students, you take your friends who sit with you and the halka, your colleagues, your children, and says go and visit the hospital.

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Home and just visit those who are sick. Why? For the sake of Allah, so that would be your word, can take some gifts, read a nice gift for apps in bullet and visit people and pray for them. That's a wonderful idea. Try it again. I appreciate that. And you're gonna remember me and make dua for me. This is as far as benefiting the person who set by the visit, what about his family? What about us besides the reward?

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There's another magnificent benefit, which is, it counterfeits the evil habit of being used to pleasure to health to leisure time, and not benefiting out of that. And also taken advantage

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of and not taking advantage of the health that we are enjoying rather taking it for granted. I mean, in other words, when you visit somebody, and this person used to be physically fit,

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when you visit this person, and now he's sick, and he's either paralyzed, he cannot move. And subhanAllah the people love them and this person was helpful in this person was, you know, pious, right away, you compare yourself to Him, He says, subhanAllah I could be like him anytime. Alhamdulillah Allah have saved me. You don't say this out loud in the prisons.

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of the person, the Prophet sallallahu Lisanna Macedo in one Hadith whenever you see somebody who's afflicted with a masiva somebody was sick for instance. And you say Alhamdulillah Hey lady, if any mother Telavi Ryrie were for doll any Holika theory men how to eat after you which means oh thank you Allah for protecting me from whatever he afflicted others with

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and you made me superior to many other you creations. Whenever you say this dua let me say it again Alhamdulillah Allah the if any men maybe Telavi reuteri with $1 nia Halakhah theory man hulky tabula. He says Peace be upon him. Whoever says is da whenever it is somebody's afflicted with whatever you see somebody who's handicapped, somebody who's limping, somebody who is blind, whenever you say this, Allah will protect you from the same calamity. You will be protected. See somebody with renal failure, liver cirrhosis? Somebody was doing renal dialysis every week. So you see if you're solely for him, you sympathize with her. And he say Alhamdulillah Hilah Do you have any?

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Maybe Telavi Ryrie with Ebola Nia, Allah cathedra man copy of doula. So long as we're working on foot and jogging and running back and forth, we take all of that for granted. Will Young will healthy will go to the gym, we exercise, we feel like there is no end for our life. And whenever we come to see somebody who's sick and this person used to be like us or more active than us, then hey, you slow down, you realize that oh and hamdulillah Allah has blessed me with all of that, a little that I give thanks. So I need to remember to thank Allah subhanaw taala to counterfeit the calamity of Infinera of Infineon and there is another calamity which is informasi and Fernanda is to get used

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to the blessings, and not give them enough things. elfin Marcia is to get used to sinning and not recognizing that you're destroying yourself.

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A couple of years ago, there was a very muscular person and a bodybuilder. And this person happened to be very evil. He used to hurt innocent people. He used to hurt religiously committed people,

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not hurt them only verbally by mocking them. He used to hurt them physically. And he reached the point where he killed some women

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practicing Muslim women. Yeah. And he used to brag about his muscles when you see his images. You know, perhaps his arm was as big as me myself, you know. And he would walk around carrying weapons and showing off as like, no one could ever stop him. He was unstoppable.

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untouchable, because nowadays. And nowadays, in our today's lives, everything is recorded audio video, so you can see and compare. And this person

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was afflicted.

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And he was paralyzed.

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And I saw an ad compare the images and the videos of this person while he's lying down on his bed. Some people post

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the before and post

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before and after the conditions. And whenever he lost,

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maybe, I would say 80 to 85% of his weight. And he's become like a little check and paralyzed. He can barely talk and that's it. And he threatened and if no one is to help him he's gonna take his life or whatever. So you see the comments 10s of 1000s of comments. Not a single one, not a single one.

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Not a single one

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was say, May Allah give him Shiva.

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Allah make it easy for him? None. None.

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This is what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Mr. Johann, and Mr. Rahman. So visited the SEC would bring to our attention the reality that, hey, one day you're going to fall sick, get ready for the day, one day,

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your health and your worth will depart you and you will be in need for people for people's health, moral support for the DA the DA and the moral support could never be purchased. Even if you were to possess the wounds of the whole dunya because it comes from the heart. We pray for people whom we do not know why because he deserved that.

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We hear the chair so and so is sick or this

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Her son is sick. It doesn't have to be a shoe. But this person is known of being a good man. People pray for him. People pray for her. And whenever people know about a tyrant, in every prayer, they keep praying again. So we need to learn. We're not only talking about others, rather, we're talking about taking benefits, taking notes and benefiting from the conditions of others. May Allah guide us to what is best.

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The following Hadees Hadees number 363

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam Allah says in this hadith which is Narrated by Abu Musa, Allah Shari, Radi Allahu Anhu

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in nama messiah will Julius Assad he were je su e kehamilan miski one if if you care for him, you will miski ima Z aka we're Eman Tata. I mean, we're in ontology them in Horry, Hunka. Yerba. One of you will carry him and you hurry Persia Baca well Eman turgidum In Horry, Han Moon Tina

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Mustafa whatever Quran Allah

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam assayed

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the similar use of good company and that of that company is that of the owner of the of mosque and the one who's a blacksmith blow in the below.

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The owner of Musk would either offer you some free of charge perfume, or you buy it from him with a discount or a good price. Or you smell its pleasant fragrance as long as you're sitting with him. And as for the one who blows the blacksmith, the billows he either burns your cloth or you smell

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the very offensive smell of the smoke. The hadith is collected by both al Bukhari, one Muslim, very interesting Hadith. And the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is alerting us to the importance of choosing your company. And whom do you sit with? Why? Because those whom you sit with, with the eye view as how you're going to manage you're sitting and you're meeting.

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In your Hadith the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam assayed Mr. Ma comun fee Mejlis in LA Mia's guru, Allah azza wa jal Luffy well I'm your solo Allah Nabi sallallahu alayhi salam in LA comme Hain fo Moana and je Fateh him out Well,

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whenever people set for any gathering, or any meeting,

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and as long as they were sitting and until they were dismissed, they did not make mention of Allah's name, they did not celebrate the praise of Allah. Nor did they ever seen the peace and blessings upon the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, then this meeting and those people are exactly like those who are sitting

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on a dining table eating what? G fatty Hammar

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a rotten body of a dead donkey. It is not permissible to eat donkey meat anyway, even if it was Lara, what about if it is dead, rotten and smells, this is how it is. Whenever you guys sit for so long,

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or for a brief meeting, and you do not even bother to mention the name of Allah, or make the call once or send the peace and the blessings upon the Prophet sallallahu Sallam even once this meeting is void of any mercy, void of any baraka and it was similar to some people who are sitting to eat from a rotten meat of a donkey.

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But whenever you sit in with good people, even if you forget and we all forget, you find one of your students say Subhanak Allah will be handed in a shadow Hola Hola. Hola, Anton iStockphoto Kanata Well, guess what? This is a dua which is known as the seal of any meeting, business meeting at occasional meeting. You name any meeting, whenever you and your wife sit and talk about the kids in their education. Okay, we're gonna dismiss the meeting, when I call it of Subhanak Allahumma we handed the Chateau a La ilaha illa and Mr. Furukawa Anna to war like, the prophets Allah Allah, Allah selama say that whenever people have a meeting, and by the end they say this dua, but Allah

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will forgive them all what happened during that meeting?

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And why

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One would say okay if you're given a Hulk or this What would you say this? This

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a slip of the tongue, a bad feeling, a bad intention, a bad look, anything may happen any shortcoming, but information which is provided. So anything which is a shortcoming. Allah subhanaw taala forgive it, if this is the case and right is people who are attending halka to learn, it is recommended to make this dua, and our most beloved SallAllahu Sallam would conclude his meeting with this dua Subhana Allah Who Mohammed glory be to you or Allah and all praise with you,

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Nash Hello Hola. Hola. Hola. And we bear witness that there is no God to be worshipped, but only you know, stop follow Kawana to war like, we seek your forgiveness and we repent unto you say that whatever was done in the meeting and hamdulillah is forgiven if this is the case then what about those who their meetings are involved in sins and mousy and sometimes in measure sense? They happen simply be on when you sit with people who make you forget about Allah, forget about the Quran, forget about your deen and they say want to enjoy our dunya So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is warning us. We have two examples you want to know and please simplify this hadith and share it with

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your children. That's like a cornerstone in deciding the pier of your kids. It is not a you who determine whom they should take as friends because no matter what you try, there's something that it's easy to overcome. It's not easy to overcome. Yet when you make them inclined into loving Allah and His Messenger, Salah Salem and listening to those beautiful examples, and emsella it would definitely help a great deal. bring to their attention something that they can visualize as we walk in the moon by the perfume shop. Everyone no doubt that they hang around in front of the perfume and incense shop.

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Smells good.

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Right? Yeah, everyone because it's human nature that we love the good smell. So when we find the fragrance you find people are trying to hang around. And when you know the shop owner is my friend I go sometimes and I hang around with him lock you why because as long as you're sitting, what do you smell perfume? And sometimes they have the testers for free try this try that try enjoy trying everything. Or he would give you a gift I just received a new shipment. And this is a gift for thank you so much. All while leaving, I like this perfume. What is a cold? And how much is it? Don't worry about the price. No, no, no, I have to pay. Okay, I'll give it to you. 50% of 75% of American

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already enough profit.

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So your companionship and hanging around the perfume cellar is always good for you.

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And imagine yourself

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having a friendship with a blacksmith. Not saying that the blacksmith is bad, or his job is bad. Somebody has to do the job.

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Somebody has to do the job who need it on daily basis.

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But this is just an example that you can visualize what happens when you're sitting, what happens when you standing in the masjid. And a person who's working as a blacksmith or as a painter, or working in a kitchen comes to pray next you in the GEMA

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you feel like you know it smells? That's happening. And that is true. Imagine if you're sitting in the middle of that smell? How do you feel about it? So somebody who chooses to have a bad companion, he is sitting next to a blacksmith as a result of this. While he's blown the bills. Your spark may catch your clothes and your clothes would catch fire. Or some black smoke

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would darken your clothes. Or when you go home. Your mom your wife say you smell what have you been? What are you in a fire? Why? Because you're sitting for so long next to somebody who's doing the job. Imagine when you sit with somebody whose mouth is awful. His tongue is terrible is only saying bad words. When you're sitting with somebody who is 24/7 backbiting and lying and mocking at people What are you going to learn from him?

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He is not going to incite you to do something good. Rather to watch something forbidden to say what is forbidden or to listen to what is forbidden. You get to the site May Allah guide us to what is best brothers and sisters a few minutes and in sha Allah be back you stay too

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. I know that I do not need to remind you with our phone numbers, but just in case maybe we have some new viewers, the phone numbers are equal 0020238 Triple 5249 alternatively Area code 0020 Double 125 Double 08679 and the email address is [email protected].

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The following hadith is Hadith number 364.

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And for a moment you think, well, this hadith is normally discussed in the course of marriage.

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what does it have to do with the companionship and visiting the virtuous people and the righteous ones? Let's learn what the Hadees say. And what was mentioned in the course. And Abby, who are irata Radi Allahu Anhu and in the VU salah, Allahu Allah, he was a lemma con

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Tonka Han Mara Attali Arba li Melia while he has the hair, when he Gemelli,

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led anywhere from four for that Dean, Terry Bettiah Dec. Mustafa Khan, Allah

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam has said in this hadith a woman is married for four things for her wealth, for her lineage for her beauty or for her piety. So choose the Pious One, may you be blessed, okay.

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This is one of the very important a hadith

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in helping you deciding who should be your life mate. And he was talking about the companionship that is actually the greatest companionship.

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Because when you accompany somebody, when you take somebody as a friend and you befriend somebody, you see him how awfully Do you see him? I see him five times a day, each prayer, and we work together eight hours a day, okay, but you don't go home together.

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You don't share a bit together. That's why Allah subhanaw taala in the Quran, when he said, how people on the Day of Judgment will disown each other. And each and every one will be worried about himself. He said was he but he and he would run away from his Sahiba a Sahiba refers to the wife. And the word of Sahaba literally means a girlfriend

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or friend who's a girl. Okay? He will run away even from his wife. And from when he and his children, y'all my federal mean, he will kill me he will be Warsaw hibbity. He was 20 Somebody was asked me the other day. Why did he begin with the

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A he then ameobi Well saw him but he were beneath. That's in an ascending order.

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The parents are closer to the person, then his own brother. And then guess what? His wife and his children automatically become his priority and his main concern and he's working hard to provide for them to educate them to bring them up. And no one shares bit with him. But his wife, so the word saw Heba refers to the wife.

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In Islam, when we marry.

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Islam looks at marriage from a very comprehensive angle, and point of view,

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it is not just to get married because you have to get met. Or in order to share the responsibilities somebody else the expenses, or instead of living myself, either when somebody else has a roommate, or in order to just simply satisfy the sexual desire which is 100% valid. Okay.

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And not only to have children,

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and this is a very legitimate reason, but all of that collectively and also on top of all of that to please Allah subhanaw taala because marriage is a tradition that Allah Almighty is pleased with for his profits. And that's why when some of the companions assumed I'm better off without Marian and I would live as a bachelor to the rest of them.

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My life in order to please Allah to be a devout worshipper, among two other companions, they were all three each one so do something. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gather them and they say that I'm the most righteous of all of you, the most God fearing and dearest to Allah. Yet, I pray up might and I sleep, I affairs during the day and a skip some other days and I'm married, whoever turns away from my tradition, my lifestyle, then he does not belong to me. So marriage is one of the most beautiful things could happen to any person and life. If you make the right decision. There are some a hadith collectible mm Tirmidhi advice in whom a woman should look for and whenever a man

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proposes to a girl that Guardian should accept whom or refuses who. But in this course, the hadith is saying that generally speaking, these are the most prominent four

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qualities that a man normally looks for whenever he wants to marry a woman. The beauty, the family lineage, the wealth and the piety. And people have different priorities. So there are a lot of people who focus only only only on the beauty

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and the prophets, Allah Allah Allah selama said, in this case left as a word UniSA le Hosni hin fossa, it was known that you're the one

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you know, if you happen to marry a woman only because she is pretty, there may be a causal following for you and for her.

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And sometimes it's hard to give an example of this if you know, one day somebody walked into the center where I used to teach over the weekend, then in the States, and he said she had been chatting with this girl mine and I give her Dawa, and she accepted Islam, and we want to get married. Okay, she wants to accept Islam, as he said, I can say nothing. He said, she's flying today, can you please wait so that you can give her shahada and you process the marriage contract? I said, happily, I'll do that. Then I waited. And it is, as you say, a very beautiful God.

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That a marriageable age. I checked out what she knew about Islam, and she knows quite a bit. And she eventually took shahada with me and I married them both.

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Then a week later, this person calls me and says she, I want to divorce her. I said, why?

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You know, and hamdulillah she accepted Islam and she's keen to learn, he said, she, I have to tell you the truth. This is not true. She will be accepted Islam, verbally by the tongue. But in fact, I feel that I am losing my deed.

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I'm losing my Deen after he used to call it then in the masjid and come to pray federal and very keen between the classes to attend the prayer in the masjid. Now, I started losing my dean to the point that so I try to reconcile and say, give her some time and you need to adapt normally, the first month is most difficult, especially if you don't understand. I ended up buying the beer and the liquor for her. I am the one who go goes to buy the haram for her, because she is still living her lifestyle. What happens is he married her because she's extremely beautiful.

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Okay, fast, because no one and you will do.

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And not only that, it would ruin her, but it would run him as well. And as long as he's walking around, he's trying to look at those who are looking at his wife and you're staring at his wife because she's very beautiful. What kind of life is this?

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What kind of life is this when a person you know gives up on his religious commitment

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to please his pretty wife laugh. And one of her she treats them as his inferior to her because she knows how beautiful she is. And many people would love to marry her, even though she's still married, but she still gets proposed. Things like that, and this is a reality. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam spoke about whenever somebody chooses only the beauty the worlds or the family lineage, it could ruin their marriage, it could make him live in pain throughout his marriage life and it would not last eventually. But those are the four qualities and he says Peace be upon him. Those four qualities if they're all available, good for you.

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That would be wonderful.

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But that's why this hadith is greatly misunderstood by many people. And I will explain why after this call inshallah Salaam Alaikum.

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Brother Abdullah from behind Salaam Alaikum.

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Salaam aleikum

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Welcome Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakato

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sneaks. I have a question

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What is the time of tahajjud? Often check?

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Okay. Badak Allah.

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Yeah, Abdullah Allah. Allah Almighty says to Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam in the area Wamena Layli, feta head Jeddah V filata laka as any other asset or Bukom, a common Muda.

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One minute low and some parts of the night right ahead good. And the 100 is nephila voluntary any part of the night, if you pray soon after Aisha until soon before fed, that's called the head dude. And it's called pm late. We discussed before that some people require that the person must go to sleep didn't get up in order to pray to hydrate. And he said this is not necessary. Any prayer at any part of the night after you pressure until Phaedra is called the night prayer. And of course, the last part of the night is the most superior and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam explain why he said because a lot of mighty descends by himself

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in the last part of the night in the last 1/3 of the night

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and he stretches out his hand had been set in in Federal Plaza who hadn't been there and for ojima who helped me Mustapha in the AlFalah Salaam Alaikum.

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Brother 100 from the case a

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calling from get the

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shake can we do cooking with Zamzam water number two, okay. When we enter Majid and when you're praying that they say so much and suddenly the Imam calls the karma, let me break the salad or should we complete the prayer and join join the Farfalla my third, my third question is

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when when we after finishing praying for the month, this is it for

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another Jamaat stands behind and they pray and we walk in front of them? We want to get out of the Masjid. Okay, repeat the last

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I said there

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Brother Mohammed.

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Can you hear me?

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Hello. Okay, you said that Gemma finished and somebody was late and some people join him in the gym ah, can you walk in front of usually free another Jamaat after the Salah. Yeah.

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They usually play a play another and can we walk in front of them and leave the Masjid. You can walk in front of the followers but not the Imam and that's why if somebody started the prayer after the Gemma is finished, or somebody who has still a couple of records remaining and other people join him as an imam. So all of a sudden there have become another line or two. And this person now has become an imam. Any person because he did not choose to begin the prayer from the beginning as an imam. Any person is supposed to bring a box, tissue box or any object to place it in front of him as sutra, then any person crosses before the sutra is no problem. But between the Imam and the sutra or any

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person who's praying and the sutra is forbidden and it's a major sin. Now if there is an imam lead in the prayer, the Imam is a sutra for all the followers. So if you have to cross in front of the rows or some of the people who are followers in the GMR, that is permissible, somebody void his will do and he wants to step out, he can walk between the rows. As you made an example somebody

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found another Gemma and they're blocking the entrance some people have to and people have to leave. So when they walk in front of the followers, not the Imam. That is permissible. So I suggest that when you see somebody who's praying as an Imam and doesn't have a sutra before him, any person to volunteer to bring any object to place it in front of him, Yanni close to the point of his Sousou so that people would avoid crossing in front of him with regards to cooking with Zamzam water

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You guys are very lucky Masha Allah, I NVu Masha Allah and access to drink Zamzam water and to cook wisdoms Omar, is it permissible? Yes it is permissible. Is it permissible to make wudu Muslims Amara, it is permissible. Okay Is it permissible to perform hast to live the measure impurity, Zamzam water yes it is permissible.

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The other question was about the hater machine you start a hate on machine in the air karma is called What should you do in this case?

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There are only two conditions if you just started the leave the prayer without asleep

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and join the field because the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salam order that whenever the karma is called there should not be any other prayer no talking rather one should in

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start the GEMA with the Imam and attend for the for the prayer. What if the person almost finished the heck on mission and by the time the Imam makes that clear, and recites maybe the beginning supplication he would finish that the shahada and join the imam in this case you should actually finish with the hater masjid and join the imam in the Gemma afterward. I want to wrap up the Hadith which I mentioned a hadith number 364 because we ran out of time, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he says is for bidet Dean means whatever you choices, whatever you qualities that you're looking for, whenever you want to marry a woman make sure that one of the qualities one of the four

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qualities if therefore, one of the 10 of 13 one of the three one of the two must be the religious commitment that she is a pious woman that is the thing which will benefit you there is a thing which will give you the greatest company in life and this company will be extended inshallah after life in the hereafter to be a couple in paradise, where your wife will be the beauty queen of even the horrible rain. But

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if you focus only on any of the worldly matters, and the Prophet did not say this is not permissible. But he said that must be crowned with the quality of the piety. Muhammad Salah Salem was married to a very rich woman, and whose book married the Hadith of the Allah Anna, everybody proposed to Hadiya even of the Macan sheaves and the best use the business people before the Prophet SAW Selim his proposal was turned down because she knew that they were after her money.

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But she's the one who proposed to the Prophet salaallah Salah and he accepted the proposal. It is not haram to marry somebody who's richer than you. But if she doesn't have the luck, and that piety, then that words could be a curse.

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The beauty could be a curse, family power and lineage, if it is not, if it is not counted and beautified with piety could be a curse. So by the end if you find a woman

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of your dream, who has all the qualities and on top of that, piety and religious commitment, go for it and do not hesitate. If you're not interested you can send her number to me and that will be good enough inshallah brothers and sisters by that will come to the end of today's edition of Guardians of the pious and the next episode, I leave you all in the care of Allah, wa Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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love of God is the greatest

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glory to him.

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Me humans to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest

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annoying Laurie to him

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to be

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his religion to them, so why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping comes fire and stones sending their best with the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys are shipping costs fire and stores selling their best were the cheapest

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