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Allah Our code is the greatest of all mentally glory to Him. He only has to be the best and give his best religion.

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Allah Allah God has the greatest

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Illness to be the best and give his best religion to Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Anna we almost have her say it in um Hamedan wala early he will be women who Allah wa the views everywhere Welcome to another Live edition of your program Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah Today's episode is number 171. In explaining the Blissett C's of renewable solar Hain Guardians of the pious bile enamel never we may Allah have mercy on him. Currently, we're still explained in chapter number 40

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which addresses the current treatment towards the appearance and establishment of the ties of blood relationship. That is going to be the eighth episode on the chapter. The hadith which we're about to study in sha Allah is Hadith number 330.

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In the in Pisces

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Narita narrated, Abu Abdullah Ahmed Abdullah house. May Allah be pleased with him and his father.

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Karla Samira to rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lemma jihad on or you're a surgeon you're cool.

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Beni for learning liceu be elderly.

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In Walia Allahu wa salam me Nina Wallach in LA whom Rashi Moon Abu Loja Bibi Lally her

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in this hadith

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is great companion.

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May Allah be pleased with him and his father narrated that

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the he heard the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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jihad on via cell. He was saying that in public, he was not saying it secretly. Rather he announced it to the public. He said in Allah Benny for lamb, the family of so and so. Are not my supporters. liceu be Lea

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enamelware li Allahu Assadi her Momineen indeed my supporter is Allah and the righteous believing people

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were lacking. Lahore humara Haman abou Lu hair, BB Lally.

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But they are family members. They are my relatives. So that's why I will maintain the good ties of kinship with them.

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The hadith is a sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity. And this hadith is a great principle on your subject of dealing with family members who are not believers.

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When the prophets Allah Allah Allah selama said in earlier Bernie philon the commentators of the Hadith said it refers to

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your toilet because Abu Talib did not accept Islam.

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And amongst his children who accepted Islam, Ali Vitali Jaffa in your toilet may Allah be pleased with them, but the prophets uncle himself did not accept Islam. And he was a close family member to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, by analogy, every family member who is close to the believer, but if he or she did not accept Islam, they are not considered a will yet. What is Alia Alia rural fully? What is the meaning of family? In surah? Al Baqarah? Allah Almighty says Allahu le you let in?

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Allah is a Protector and a supporter of the believers. What does he do for them? What does the Wilaya this loyalty the support and protection benefit? Those who are elderly yet with your hurry to home may not follow Matthew 11? No. So Allah

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While you let a man who they benefit from that, when Allah is their protector and Allah is their supporter, that he takes them out of darkness into light.

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On the other hand, well Lavina CAFO le

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wild for the disbelievers, their protectors and their supporter

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is aboat. Thought may refer to Satan may refer to any false deity that is worshipped instead of Allah Almighty. So the opponents of Allah and His messengers.

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So when Allah is your protector, when Allah is your guide, your guidance your God and your supporter, then you should disown anyone who is on the other flip is not your protector is not your support is not on your religion is not on your faith. It does not necessarily mean that you declare enmity to them.

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You oppose him in a sense you fight against them. Well, it depends. If they're in peace with you, you are in peace with them. Jenna holy Selmy federal law what our callala

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Lay and how Kamala AnnaLena law mu Kati Liu confit dini. Well, I'm Johanna DuCommun, direct command tab or room or to conceal to allow him in hola yo hebbal mucociliary the prophets Allah Allah Allah Selim

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prayed and continue to pray for his uncle, a will toilet to the end of his life. He loved him. He wanted him to be rightly guided. But similar to the condition of his father, Ibraheem Alehissalaam whom Allah Almighty stayed in Surah Al monta Hannah in Aya number four, look at the cabinet's lecom or Swanstone Hassan attune fie Ibrahim, well, Athena now

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there is a good example for you in home and Ibrahim while Levina Mao saw the manga Hana and number four, In what sense in every sense, but in this particular area, Allah Almighty projects, a very important behavior that suppose faith and it distinguishes the believers from the non believers which is a Louella Walburga Bara and well as to show support and protection to those who share faith with you, those who worship Allah Almighty alone. And Al Bara is to this own those who are not believers. Even though they are family members like Abraham's father is called Will you call me him in Nevada, Wyoming, Wyoming Mata buena min Dooney, Lehi, California become we're better by Nana obey

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nakoma Lada what Walburga whoever had to mean who Billahi whadda Sol Ibrahim, Prophet Abraham peace be upon him and his followers declared to their people, to the relatives, to their family members, to their parents, to those who did not accept face to those who continue to worship other than Allah Almighty, they declare to them in public, in Bora or men come? Of course, surely, we own ourselves from you. We disassociate ourselves from you and we disown you.

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women that are who don't I mean don't in law and we also this own, whatever you worship in instead of Allah, and we disassociate ourselves from those false deities that you worship in instead of Allah Kapha become we this believe in you, and in what you worship. You are our enemies because you worship other than a lot of mighty hat.

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Men will be luchador who until you come to believe in Allah Alone in LA cola Ibrahim le IV, stuff Iran laka M Licola Kameena Allah He means che. Then Allah the Almighty, made mention of the condition of Ibrahim when he promised his father to continue to seek forgiveness for him less Delphian Nelleke Alam Casa blammo casa i swear i shall continue to see forgiveness for you. Then by the end there is a known which is an Arabic grammar for Abdelkader a confirmation. There are several means of confirmation. He put a lot of emphasis

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is on his promise I promise you, my beloved father, I shall continue I swear I shall continue to seek forgiveness for you. Yet one that I am lokala Kameena Allah Himanshi I do not control any benefit for you from Allah, nor can I avail you and not against Allah. Then in another area, Allah Almighty explained to us that when Ibraheem Alehissalaam realized that his father has no more chances with Allah and he actually expired as an unbeliever fella. MetaBase and Allahu Allahu Allahu Allah He vermin. Ibrahim Allah a well known Haleem

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when it was over, and when Abraham's father died as an unbeliever, Ibrahim could not fulfill his promise anymore, could not continue to seek forgiveness for his father anymore because unite as a non believer, that is the meaning of this owning the non believers disassociating yourself from their this belief even if they are not just the relatives, rather close relatives. We all know how much Abu Talib Ali's father supported the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and Muslims even though he was not a Muslim,

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and in the Hadith, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said the tribe of Quraysh were never able to harm me except after Abu Talib expired, because he was his support and his protection. But when it comes to face the prophets, Allah Allah Salah declared jihad Ron

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na estrada run out loud in public, he made it known indeed the family of so and so are not my supporters are not my protectors. Rather my protector and my supporter is Allah wa Solly, holy Momineen and the righteous believing people in assaulted the Hareem as well Allah Almighty says, For in Allahu Allah, Allah, who would you be real was already full meaning when Malaika Toba does any cover here, who is Muhammad's supporter, Salah Allah Allah salah, that is Allah Gibreel the righteous believers and all the angels are backing him up. Salalah Alia Salah.

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So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam having said so did not declare enmity to his relatives, though, there is a big difference between this own in their disbelief as Ibrahim and his people said in anumber, four of solitary Montana had

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to me no Billa, who had had in Arabic is a very until

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this condition of this owning you and this associate and ourselves from you and your disbelief is until you come to believe in Allah subhanaw taala Well, if you continue to disbelieve in Allah, then my love to Allah, my love to the deen of Allah, my love to my faith is superior to my relationship to you. But you still have some rights upon me. And it is Allah, whom I love most is the one who stated those rights, so I shall maintain them. What kind of rights? So let's talk about him upholding the ties of kinship. That's why he used the same metaphor that we discussed in the previous episode, when he said, Why are n Niniola humans, we'll look at BB Lelli here. And you can

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also say be validly here, which means this is a metaphor that I shall water this relationship because severing the relationship would end up to lead into fire and nothing puts out fire better than water. So he used that Belaire or double L which is the water, which means that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam promised to continue to maintain the good ties with the kinship even if they are Kfar.

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Even if they are non believers, many non Muslims, when they study Islam, when they read the Quran, and they contemplate the idea of becoming Muslims, they are extremely worried. They think that Islam would require them to sever the relationship with their brothers, their sisters, their parents, and to dis own them in a sense not to talk to them.

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Not to socialize with them. False. This is not true.

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Here are some a hadith we're studying and the ayat of surah Aquaman in Jeddah Kala and to shake up malice halacha be here Elman. The Act, which was studied before even if the parents and the family members are struggling to handle you from the past of Allah to convert you to this belief. Do not obey them in this regard, but still, give them a good company. Uphold the time

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Is of their kinship. They have rights upon you, even though they are Kufa even though they are non believers. So we learn from this hadith two main lessons. The first lesson is that our love to Allah and to his Deen should be given priority and super unity to the love of anything and anyone including our closest family members, our parents, our spouses, our children, and even our own selves.

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that it is mandatory upon every Muslim to uphold the ties of his or her kinship and to maintain good relationship with his family members, even if they are Kufa even if they are non believers. What about if they are Muslims, but they're sinners, Muslims, but the hurt is feeling Muslims, but they do not treat him with the same. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, Les Sal was illumine Yasuo man wa salam, ala Kenan wa salam and Yasu man kata. It's more worthy to uphold the ties of those kinship of your relatives who are not treating you well. We are not going to.

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Since they are Muslims, it is your duty. And even if they are sinners, and even if they are non Muslims, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Lyra and NEERA Haman said I will know her maybe lolly. And in the other Hadith they said well, I can la Mora, Haman, Abu Loja, maybe OLALIA, which means that but they have some kinship with me that I will maintain the good ties of kinship with them. May there is peace and blessings be upon our most beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. The following Hadith brothers and sisters is Hadith number 331. In the Blissett C's of Guardians of the pious and you bin Khalid museo Ansari, Radi Allahu Anhu. And now Raju and Carla yeah rasool

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Allah, Akbar Nabi Ahmed in the feelunique Gen. Y Oba I don't even know for call and we use Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam dabbled Allah, Allah to Shinnick will be Isha are two key most solid were to this character.

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Well, Tulsi Lor Rahim, Mustafa Khan, Ali, Abdullah, you will Ansari may Allah be pleased with him narrated that a man came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him and said, Oh prophet of Allah direct me to a deed which if I do, it will admit me to paradise and take me away from the hellfire. So the Prophet, peace be upon him said to worship Allah alone, and not to associate any partners to Him in worship, and to perform a Salah and to pay does occur and to maintain the ties of kinship. The hadith is collected by both Al Imam and hurry or Muslim may Allah have mercy on them. It's a sound Hadith.

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This hadith is very rich brothers and sisters first of all, about the narrator of the Hadith the narrator of the hadith is a very famous personality. I wonder

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whether you guys know him or not. I wonder whether your children at home when you ask them about Ebola you will Ansari and Omar you will answering yeah his wife may Allah be pleased with them.

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How much information do you know about them? And about a manual Pharisee because about a hue and Sandman the Prophet sallallahu Sallam established Jehovah brotherhood between both of them and there is a very interesting story narrated in many a hadith concerning how strong was a tie of the brotherhood between Abu uh you will Ansari who is from the peninsula from Medina and Salman may Allah be pleased with him who is originally pushing. In any case, Abu you will Ansari call it inside. The word Ansari refers to not just the place that he is a Medina Ian, or he was one of the inhabitants of a Medina. No he was also an Ansari, whom Allah Almighty admired in Surah Tera hash,

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they supported them Hijri the immigrants, Abu yubel Ansari was not an ordinary Ansari, because he was the companion whom the Prophet sallallahu Sallam stayed in his house for several months, until he built his masjid and established his apartments where he could move in with his wives SallAllahu Sallam so for several months about a Yuval Ansari hosted the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and his family in his house. What an honor

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That Abu Talib and his wife gained by hosting the Prophet sallallahu Sallam for several months. May Allah be pleased with him. He joined the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in all the different battles from the battle of Bader or hood 100. And the treat is the Treaty of altro de via and otherwise, until the Prophet sallallahu Sallam passed away. The continued to join the Muslim army until he died on the year 50 After the migration of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So the Prophet peace be upon him

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died on the 10th year and Abu will Ansari survived him for another four decades or so. And he was in Jihad until then, and he died and he was buried in the Roman territories. And he was buried in Al Castanea. So his grave is in Turkey. Nowadays, may Allah be pleased with him. Also about you will Ansari and his wife have a very interesting story narrated in many Hadith that perhaps we can remind ourselves with it in other time, but now I want to focus on the Hadith that he said a man asked the Prophet sallallahu wasallam about a deed that will admit him to a Jana and take him away from a NAR that sounds very familiar. This hadith was asked or this question was asked to the Prophet Salla

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Salah many times, yes indeed. And the answer was slightly different. But number one always dancer was to believe in Allah to worship Allah alone to pray, to observe jihad in Psalm a hadith and Hadith ma dibny Jebel to control your tongue, and all of that. In this hadith, the Prophet salaallah Salah mentioned number one, and this is a default monotheism, you want to enter agenda, no one shall enter paradise without believing in the Oneness of Allah subhanaw taala even if he or she were super nice, the most generous people, the greatest people to others, to animal rights to whatever, but they did not believe in Allah and agenda belongs to Allah. And the story.

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It is not up to us it is not to any Muslim is not to any scholar to say is not up to the grand move to forever to say, Yeah, but these guys were nice so they will enter paradise. I do not know where will I end up? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam had said it himself.

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I do not know what is going to happen to me or to you. We try our best. We believe in Allah, we try to fulfill what he ordered. And we try to understand from what he forbidden to the best of our ability. We're very optimistic that he will pardon us our sins and forgive us so that we can enter his paradise. But when our Allah Almighty says only those who believe in Allah and His Oneness shall enter paradise that is the end of the story. Then when he says that those who did not believe in Allah did not believe in His Oneness shall never enter paradise. Well known Angelica Hatha Elisha Gemma, Rufus and MILFy up in salted aura, they will never enter heaven until a camel goes through

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the needle hole. And this is impossible. Can I get a camel go through the needle hole I still remember every time my mother gives me the line the third and then either say can you just hook it up please? And I struggled with it. You want a camel to go through the needle hole? So this is impossible, then it's impossible for an unbeliever to interpret this number one at a head to believe in Allah and in His Oneness.

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It should be sufficient to say to believe in Allah and His Oneness but he succeeds that always by saying well I to Shrek be shy. So to believe in Allah Allah to Shrek will be shy and not to associate with him any in worship. While on the way to the studio, I saw a young man you know, affiliated with the customer, I shook hands with him and my fingers got stuck with a leather band that he's wearing. It is not a band for a watch. It's just a leather band. He said oh, what is this? So he is nine is I don't know. I said what do you mean you don't know? If anyone wears anything they perfectly No What is it? What is it for? He said You know, they say it brings a good luck, say Masha

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Allah. So you believe that other than Allah can bring you good things other than Allah could protect you against Uh huh. And what is the thing other than Allah, a piece of rubber?

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You know what happened to your mind? They said that makes sense. So he took it off immediately. What happens is many of us unknowingly do things like you know

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Wilhelmine amines Arab, they ignorantly unknowingly repeat the statement. If they fear a bad eye and evil eye, they say Touchwood Touchwood what is Touchwood? What does it mean? You know, in other cultures they say touch other things.

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In order to protect you again is the evil eye. Oh Subhan Allah. None other than Allah Almighty can protect you, none other than Allah the Almighty will bring you in a benefit.

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While I'm Anil Omotola, wisdom Atala en for OKB che illenium 11 che in codekit abba hula hula while we determine while and your broker Rishi la mia Ruka enlever che in Catawba hula are like the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said to his cousin Abdullah him now best may Allah be pleased with him when he was a teenager. You got to understand that if all mankind gathered to benefit you with a thing that Allah did not owe then for you, it will never happen. And if all people gather to harm you with anything that was not pre ordained for you, it will never happen for you Atilla club, whatever you have. So that is the meaning of that word Allah will add to Shrek will be shy to

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worship Allah alone and not to associate with him any in worship to be continued in sha Allah after the short break please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Let me remind you the viewers with our phone numbers in a call 002023825249 alternatively a call 0220 Double 125 Double 08679 email address [email protected]

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The second advice that the prophets Allah Allah Salam gave to the companion who said God me to an ag that if I do it will admit me to paradise and take me away from fire.

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He said what okay mo Salah

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and normally in the translation and it will be like and to offer the salah to perform namaz but this is not really the perfect translation. Because to perform to offer is to add D just to do but the word, the promise or word is not for offering for me per performing the word. Your karma is completely different than just performing. To establish the prayer to pray properly, to offer it as it should be. That's why in every command in the Quran from the beginning to end, there is no command to to add the Salah, just to do the prayer. Rather, you cannot Salah take for innocence. The first admiration of the believers who benefit from the Quran in surah Al Baqarah Alladhina manana

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will they be are up Munna Salah and they established the prayer. So it is not really sufficient to say and they perform the prayer know

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the Mona Lisa key in the hypocrites Allah subhanaw taala Sado either como la sala de como salah, your own Anessa well as grown Allahu Allah Krylya so they prayed in front of people, but they did not stablish the prayer they offered the prayer they did not really do the karma. Then in Surah, also al bakr Allah Almighty says well, Kim Salette, our heir to the cat, our Caroma rocking a T Musala stablish the prayer and pay there's a cap. establishing the prayer is different than offering the prayer in Surah Tenma Ada and number 55 Allah Almighty says in nama will you Kamala who rasuluh Alladhina amanu indeed, your supporter, are Allah, His messenger and the believers? What kind of

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believers Alladhina Yuki Munna salata will tune us the ghetto Murata rune they established the prayer not just offer it so what will Nim when a claim was valid or what the who a lady later Sharon and number seven do to a key masala establish the prayer which requires performing a proper ablution phase in NA Qibla making sure that your clothes are clean the spot is clean. You pray with for sure.

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Or the F Lohan Muna Latina home feel seletti hace rune and so

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On. So we're going to key masala to stablish the prayer not just to offer the prayer, what it is again to pay that you Zakah what also Oh, so in this hadith, there is

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an extra information provided that was not available in other advices or answers were given to the same question when pasilla ham or Watson or Rahim which which means to maintain the ties of kinship, the companions and the commentators of the Hadees say that, perhaps because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam knew that the questioner was not doing his job properly, in this regard, he was severing his relationship with his family member. So the Prophet Salah Salem took advantage to alert this person you want to enter a Jana, then you have to uphold the ties of kinship, you know, when the motive is so great. And the deed is very virtuous. You overcome your personal ego and desire. You know, I feel

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very reluctant to pick up the phone and call my uncle, who was very rude to me.

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Or my brothers or my sisters or my nephews or nieces that are my relatives. They have rights upon me. Every time I call them, they want to distance themselves from me. Not because they're bad or not praying No, but because they are bad. Well, that's not an excuse to sever your relationship with them. You cannot find a valid reason to say, Oh, well, well, I tried and they do not treat me the same hell with them. You don't do that.

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You don't do that. So because the motive is very great. And the word is agenda. He said, Do learning piano and violin with Phil O'Neill Jana, or yoga? Don't you feel alone in general, I don't even wanna show an entire paradise. Besides worshiping Allah alone, and establishing the prayers and paying musica take care of your relatives uphold the ties of your country. Very interesting. Hadith. Masha Allah the following hadith

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is a Hadith which is here in incineration collected by an amateur midday May Allah admission him answer man if now I'm here in a lovely Allahu Anhu and in the vs Allah Allahu Allah He alayhi wa sallam a call either after a honeycomb folio after Allah Tamar Fein Baraka Hey, let me agita. Milan fell met for in a home to who or what color or soda to Allah Al mosquitonix sadaqa wa ala there were homies in turn, saw the cartoon was salah.

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And this hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, when you bake your fast, you should do it on a date fruit, for there is blessing in it. And if you do not find the day fruit, then bake it with water, for it is pure.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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said the charity towards a full person is a charity and tours relationship or a family member or a relative is both charity and upholding the ties of kinship. It means that their word is double or word forgiven, no charity, and a word for Sora for him.

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In this hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam emphasizes what he mentioned before that for the fasting person, it is best to bake your fast on a rooftop

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for a lamb turgid, fat thumb what is the difference between rope then Tom, a lot of is the fish dates. If you can find them, maybe dry dates, any form any form of dates fresh dry, it's a priority. It's very healthy, it is very nutritive and is a sunnah to bake your fast on dates and to keep in your pockets on dates and to give them to people who are fasting so that they bake the fast on dates as well and is also the sooner that on their Eid morning before going into the masala to bake your fast on dates, date foods or rooftop and the sooner also the it should be which 357 odd number as a Prophet sallallahu sallam said and he used to do sometimes the person does not have even the dead

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fruits neither the roadmap nor a Tamil the dates, in this case the Prophet sallallahu Sallam assayed for LM tagit file MF a now Bahu

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And mat is pure and is also used for purification, the inner purification and the outer purification as well file my own power. That is a sunnah. If you consume them both while baking your fast that is great as well. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said, A sadaqa to a halal mosquitonix sadaqa that's something that every person knows given any charity to a needy person, you will be rewarded for it the reward of giving into charity. Even if your assumption was this person is Miskin and he is not.

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The word is guaranteed. Because you did not you did not fail deliberately in delivering the sadaqa to those who are eligible. You tried your best in the Hadith, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said a man vowed to give any charity so at night when it was dark, and his intent was to give it in a very consumed fashion. He gave it to charity. In the morning, we heard people talking about that Posada Leila Tala Zania

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that somebody gave any charity to a prostitute.

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So you say that 100 Allah Allah Zania perhaps tonight I will give another charity. Then he gave another charity at night when it was dark. In the morning people were talking about how somebody gives a charity to by accident by mistake to a thief to steal your car Leila Tala syrup. So he said to himself, that was me Alhamdulillah for giving my charity even to a thief. Tonight I shall make it up. So he gave us a church and the morning, people started talking about how when last night somebody given a charity in the darkness he ended up giving a charity to a very rich person said hamdulillah Hello honey. Thank you Allah for helping me to give any charity even though it was put

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in the hands of a rich person for odia. So in his dream he saw in his mind vision Allah the Almighty in his part of them with this dream

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and Masada Kataoka, the hot phobia that as far as your eternity to the prostitute, on deceive, or what was given to the rich person it was accepted it has been accepted and the word is guaranteed.

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You tried your best

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and as far as you know, was it done by mistake? Was it wasted? No, it was not wasted, you charity to the prostitute may help her to quit do the haram to the thief likewise to the rich person this person use not to give any charity and when he was given any charity, it was like a catalyst it tended him to give in a charity. He activated the thought of giving in charity in his mind. So it was good either way. So as far as giving any charity when your sadaqa is given from Halal Halal earning, the reward is guaranteed as long as it's from Hannah and with sincerity because Allah Almighty says yeah you holiday Anna and Angela to be true sada Katya can be manual other can lead us

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to Kumala Huria and as you may know, Villa you Allah will young mill era Surah Al Baqarah don't you row in a row the fury charity, by the reminder by showing off, because it means that it was not sincerely for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala so two conditions have to be fulfilled for your charity to be accepted. You earn it lawfully, you give it with sincerity for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala then the word is guaranteed. There are some smart people who would like to double their word. If the word is 1000 times more I would like to get it 2000 10,000 The Prophet sallallahu Anas and MSA dua Allah the Rahimi thin tan Saba cartoon was

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the same amount that if you give to a beggar, or somebody who's in need, who is not a family member, if you give the same amount to a family member who's in need, so he is poor, or miskeen. In addition to being relative, the other word is double reward for giving any charity and a reward for upholding the ties of kinship, which is known as a Silla SallAllahu ala sayyidina. Muhammad wa early he was a seller. The following Hadith in the remaining few minutes brothers and sisters is Hadith number 333.

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And Abdullah hip neuroma Radi Allahu Anhu uma kala can attack

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Umbra Welcome to Shibu ha. But cannot Omar Raha for curry Felipa for abate ferriter Omar Radi Allahu Anhu Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam further Quranic Allah Who for calling the views on Allah on a Salam THON Luca. Wow Abu Dawood watermedia Ha ha listen Hassan. So here

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in this hadith, Abdullah Hypno Rama Edna Hatha, may Allah be pleased with him and his father said that I was married to a woman, whom I loved so much. But my father did not like her.

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And he said to me, divorce her. So I refused. Because I loved her. Or Omar, Abdullah's father, when the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, and he made mention to him of the whole situation. So the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam called Abdullah, if normal Hatha may Allah be pleased with him and his father and said, let her divorce her.

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Well, up to that the hadith is over. But it doesn't tell us whether Abdullah had no more divorced her or not. Obviously he did. 100% He did. Abdullah Hypno Ahmed, was one of the greatest companions of the Prophet Salah Salem. He witnessed the life of the prophet Sallallahu Sallam when he was a very young man like Abdullah, hip knee, abbess. He was a teenager, but he benefited a great deal from his company, to Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, and he learned from the knowledge that he shared with his companions and he was one of the most learn companions, in addition to being the sun of Ramadan. hottub Radi Allahu Anhu Jamia, may Allah be pleased with all of them. And look at this

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very interesting situation.

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When Abdullah is married to a woman, he says that I loved her.

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I loved her. Oh, so the Companions recognize love to of course, and the Prophet sallallahu sallam said la neuroglial Motorhead. benei, Miss La Nick Mizdow Nikka the ultimate solution for those who are in love a man and woman who loved each other. Islam recognizes that sometimes you see a woman you like her at first, or she likes you, she hears of you, you hear of her, you know that this person has a daughter who's mashallah studying the different dialects of the Quran, and she mastered this art and she's beautiful. So you love her. Then when you get to see her, you love to her doubles and triples you become obsessed with her love. So love happens.

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What are you going to do about it? The ultimate solution is marriage, not to write poetry and exchanged messages and to chat and talk to each other for years. Just get married. So he said I was married to a woman whom I loved so much, but my father did not like her. And when a rumor mill hottub does not like anyone, it isn't because of a personal reason. Like you know, she showed she has a flat nose, or because she has a curly hair. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. None of the above. Rama rabuka top one so the man who killed his own brother when Omar became the Khalifa this person have accepted Islam so he's saved by before he had killed almost brother, so I'm upset to this man.

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I don't like to see you. You know, take a hike. Don't do not show me your face.

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So this man says to Mr. Mahato, I've listened carefully. Oh man, either early or happily and duck? Is it because you do not like me? You're gonna deprive me of any of my rights instead? Of course not. Your rights are guaranteed. Even though I don't like you why? Because you remind me the fact that you killed my brother. So this man

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was full of confidence that Mr. Malhotra would never hurt him simply because he does not like him because he killed his brother before before he accepted Islam. He says it didn't fit into MySQL for bernisa I don't mind whether you like me or not only women would worry about that. But remember Hata would never wrong anyone because of feeling emotions. By he says so most likely because he knew things that he did not want to explain or to share with his son. He just said divorced her. He said no because I love her or her mom hottub did not beat him up. The knock him out of his house did not disown him. He went to his superior. He went to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and perhaps he shared

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with him the reason which he did not want to expose, not to hurt

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This woman

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so the Prophet sallallahu Sallam called Abdullah him. Now Madame Hatha when he says Toluca, divorce her, innocently Abdullah have no more dead. Some people.

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Many cases have come to me that the father says, I told my son to divorce his wife, like or Omar did and he did not obey me. I am angry with him. I'm upset with him. And Allah will punish him for that. No, not necessarily. Because a man came to Medina humble. May Allah had mentioned him. And he said to him that my father ordered me to divorce my wife because he does not like her. So I refused. He said that you should behave like Abdullah the son of Amara Mata when are ordered him to divorce his wife. He said, Yeah, but your father is not honorable hottub so that you should behave like his son, Omar Khattab have his reasons which he shared with the Prophet sallallahu sallam. This is a very

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important message. When Ibrahim alayhi salam and the hadith is collected by Imam Buhari and a beautiful Hadith that I share with my children on regular basis, the Stories of the Prophets. We sit in a nice city and we talk about the enjoy that I was just talking to them about how when Ibrahim Ali salam after abandoning hydro and his mail when he was still being breastfed in the middle of nowhere in Makkah in the desert, the word inquiry, the surah. And he only visited them back when it only smiled, grew up, and he was already married. He visited his house, and the wife was ungrateful woman. He asked her how's your life? How is this made? She me she complained about everything. She

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was not happy whatsoever. So he said, Okay, please would you convey my message to his May when he returns back? Just tell him that this man says rejada Dabiq change your doorstep as a metaphor. Only is my would understand when he returns. When he returned. I said Did anyone visit us? So she told him the story? He said Did he leave any message? She said yes. He said hi irata Butter BBQ said well, then you're divorced. Go to your family. Why? Because he sends from this woman being ungrateful, always complaining, not happy with anything. When he visited him once again. And he was married to another woman he made. He asked he asked her the same questions. And she answered,

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everything was great Alhamdulillah for everything is made. He's a great person. Allah has blessed us with everything. So he's prayed for the baraka May Allah bless you in your meat in your water because he did not have grains only meat and, and water. And when it's made returned, he had a message from the old man from Ibrahim, he said, set bit at a Berbick. You've got the good wife. Confirm this marriage. Hold tight on your wife do not divorce her. Why? Because Ibrahim who was a prophet knew that this woman is a good woman and as a good wife, for his son who one day will become a prophet. But your father is not Ibrahim. My father is not all Maribel. hardtops you have to be

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fair, not for personal reasons a person would divorce his wife because his mother told him that I do like her or his father, we have to be fair, brothers and sisters to be continued in sha Allah in the next episode with the same subject of being dutiful towards appearance and upholding the ties of kinship until then I leave you all in the care of Allah, a whole of Holyhead our stuff for Allah Lee, welcome Subhanak Allah, Mohammed Masha Allah Allah heyland Nestor Furukawa Tobu like SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad in one early or Sufi was salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Cohen has the greatest

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glory to Him. People want me to be the best and give his best religion to allah God has the greatest

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glory to Him. He only used to be the best gave his religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise with shipping comes fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgiving go about how bad guys are shipping cause fire and stoves selling their best and cheapest

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