Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #134 Apr 29th 2015

Muhammad Salah
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allah God is the Greatest. The moment only glory to Him. He bought me you always to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God has the greatest, long annoying glory to Him. He wanted us to be the best and give his best religion to a As salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa ala Kleber to lil Mata kin wala

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aalameen. Or salat wa salam O Allah say Edie our Lena will Efrain Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi remind viewers everywhere Welcome to a new episode in the series of Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah. This is an episode number 157 And that is a second episode in explained in chapter number 36.

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The hadith which we'll begin with in the chapter is Hadith number 291. And this chapter is talking about the virtues of spending on the family members, providing it providing sustenance for the family members, and avaricious of doing so.

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The first Hadith which we have in this episode, is narrated by one of the Mothers of the Believers by the name almost selama probably Allahu anha may Allah be pleased with her. And only Salah mythologie Allahu anha call it Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa call it cool to ya rasool Allah, Henley agilon V veni Avi Salah Mater and own fikar Allah him well as to be 30 Kathy him her Canada

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almost selama the Mother of the Believers may Allah be pleased with her say, I asked the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him will they be rewarded for what I spent on Abu Salah my son's for a cannot let them go here and here

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or go here and there to beg people or less to be terracotta him Hakka Hakka in our home Benny, they are by the in my children. The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him replied saying spin on them, and you will be rewarded for what you spend on them. The hadith is collected by both Mr. Buhari while Mr. Muslim may Allah have mercy on them.

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In the previous episode, we mentioned the AI Act which spoke about the virtues of

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sustaining for the relatives in the family members, and also some Hadith, including the Hadith, that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam hailed the comparison between spending in various ways of goodness like visa vie Lila, freeing slaves providing sustenance for and miskeen will focus on the poor people then and

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the money or the amount of wealth which is spent on the family members. He said if dollar had the best of this spending is the one which you spend on your family members. And it is the greatest as far as yielding word before Allah subhanaw taala

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almost selama Radi Allahu anha in order to understand this question,

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and its context, I would like to give you a brief bio of masala ma Radi Allahu anhu, whose name is Hynd been to Abby omega. And then Maria, evening zoom. She belong to the tribe of Quraysh.

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Particularly the name of zoom, which is a very noble family show. She is a very noble woman who belonged to a noble family. She was married to a companion by the name Abdullah ignore Omar. May Allah be pleased with him, and he was her cousin. His name is Abdullah ignore Omar Al Matsumae. And Abdullah abnormal zoomy who who's later on gain the title or the cornea of Abu selama after the first son and that's why she's called also hinder the Allah on how she school

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Almost selama the mother of selama and I will sell him at the father of cinema because the eldest son, his name was selama oh the Allahu Anhu may Allah be pleased with all of them

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was Abdullah have normal and Mousumi was one of the first 10 people to accept Islam. So he is considered of a Serbia keen, the foremost and the pioneers to accept Islam. He accepted Islam along with Abu Zubaydah, Abner Java of man in our fan will Archon even avid Archon all of them in the same day. So I will sell them Abdullah him normal and Masumi Abu salah, almost Emma's husband, accepted Islam on the same day with a lot of money now Fern and Abu Zubaydah majora and these two of the 10 Haven't found companions. Then when they both accepted Islam,

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they struggled to maintain the steadfastness of their faith and belief. And when they suffer the great deal, even though they belong to a noble family, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam allowed Muslims to make Hijra to have a share to be senior, the first hijra, so they made hijra, I will selama and almost selama they reached to Avicennia then when the news came to them, that Hamza Abdullah Abdul Muttalib accepted Islam and Allah Akbar accepted Islam and the heard that, you know, some of the Mexican chiefs accepted Islam and it's now safe for them to return the return. But again, they went through the hassle of persecution and suffering on account of their faith and belief. Then when the

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Prophet sallallahu Sallam ordered the believers to make Hedra to and Medina the home of peace, the home of Eman they also were among the pioneers. I will obey it in your head, your feasibility, the first house to make hydro. But this time when Abu sedima and almost Elena, we're making Hijra on the way

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that Abu Salim has a nose, they prevented him from taking his wife with him and they kept her along with her son behind so he still made Hedra by himself. Then I will sell them as family came dispute in the right of the custody of the child. This is our son.

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So now the family was split apart Abu Salah in Medina almost dilemma with our family and the son is with Abu Salim his family. But all of this sacrifice simply for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala and almost selama keep crying for an entire year every day she is crying

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until some of the wise people of her family members had felt sympathy for her and they decided to talk to the chiefs and say just let her go to join her husband. And they let her join her husband along with the with a son on the way she was making Hijra by herself. She was traveling across the desert from Mecca to Medina, all the way by herself on the back of her camera. Then there came a person by the name of man if natal had told her and he was not Muslim. He said, What are you reading she said, I'm going to Medina to join my husband. And this person

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could not let her go and travel across the desert by herself. So he led her camel until he delivered her to Cuba where her husband was at and the family joined together. And they were very Blissett family and the Prophet Salah Salem loved him so much. I need also to tell you that by the way, Abdullah Hypno Emeril Masumi

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I believe no matter if Naka zoomy, whose cornea is Abu selama was also considered a brother to the Prophet salaallah Salam due to Arabba because the same woman circled both of them, she cycled

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the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and Abdullah have Naramata in Mozambique or Abu selama. This woman was way back. So why Bella was a slave woman who was owned by Abu Lahab the prophets uncle, but he was a disbeliever. So she breastfed both of them.

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Then, when they almost LM as you're in Abu salah, and they were the happiest,

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beautiful love story, and now they have children. They have three children. selama is the eldest and they have Omar Omar was about nine years when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam passed away. And they had zeyneb and Amara and Xena both were born in a very senior in high Basha when they were during the Hijra.

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her husband joined the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to the battlefield and on the battle of God, he was injured badly.

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And he was confined to bed for a while when he started recovering and he felt better, and he's able to walk on foot. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam appointed him as a commander of an expedition to chase some people who are threatening and Medina after the Battle of

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which he did very well.

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And he chased them and they ran off and he collected some old spoils, along with some prisoners of war, and he brought them all to and Medina soon after he arrived, he had an old injury, which he was injured during the Battle of, as you know, that during the Battle of God on the third year after the migration, about 70 of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam had been murdered, including Al Hamza, the prophets uncle, and including Musab Ebner Maya may Allah be pleased with all of them. So

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Abdullah, if normally Matsumae or Abu selama of the Allah who

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died as a Shaheed as well, because of the injury that he was injured during the Battle of art.

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When I was hella man, almost Elena will live in happily in the home of peace in the home of faith in the home of a man in Medina do use the chat. So once she told him that yeah, bear Salama, I have heard Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi salam saying that if a woman is a believer, and her husband who is a believer, and they both die, then they both enter paradise they will be a husband and wife in heaven as well. As long as she did not marry after his death.

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He said, Yes, that is true. But you won't my advice. If I ever die before you go get married. May Allah grant you a better husband. May Allah grant you a better husband Subhanallah

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then he said, Yeah, oh, my salah. You know what? I have heard rasool Allah He is Allah Allahu Allah cinema saying that whenever a believer loses something, then he does is third. Yeah, he says in La La Ilaha load your own which means we all belong to Allah and unto Him we shall return. Wherever you lost, is not going to be more valuable than you yourself. And you yourself will go back to Allah so why feel sad and sorry for anything that will go back to Allah.

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The greatest sorrow and grief was the loss of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam but we lost him and his dead SallAllahu Sallam in a coma. You don't know in the Khomeini tool. He was comforting her. And he said, Yeah, oh, my salah. Then a Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said, Whoever says is da Allahumma Gionee famously Betty Oh, lovely, higher Manhattan, which means, Oh Allah, reward me for my patience on my calamity, one day calamity which have been afflicted with and furthermore give me better than what I lost. No matter what you lost, Allah will give you better than what you lost.

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So who taught her the DUA, Abu salah, probably Allah Who and

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then when the injury burst again and he bled to death and he died as a Shaheed or Musella innocently, after losing her most beloved or husband, Abu Salah Murali Allahu Anhu. She said in a relay or in a Illa Hill on your own, and she still remembers the advice that her husband gave her to say this dua because the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said so, but she said, I had been debating myself saying

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who could be better than Abu Salah

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who could be better than Abu Salah? So she said, but I followed his advice and overcome my desire not to say it and I said Allah my journey via mostly Betty, work lovely Hiram minha.

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After masala Marathi Allahu Anhu finished her a day which is four months and 10 days for a widow to wait in mourning the death of her husband, the prophets Allah Allah and Islam center how to be heavy belta May Allah be pleased with him to ask her that the Prophet salallahu Salam is proposing to you What do you think? She never even dreamed? Not just thought about it. In her dream. She never dreamed that one day she could be a wife of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I want to share with you the blessing of complying with the guidance of Allah and His messenger. So

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La sala. I will send him a no doubt is one of the greatest companions when a lash artist said the pain, but because of how much she loved him, she said, and who could be better than I will sell them anyway? She said, Well, this is an excellent proposal. I don't think I'm a fit woman to be the wife of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, why? She said, for three things. Number one, I'm a very jealous woman. And I'm afraid that you know if I have jealousy over the Prophet sallallahu Sallam because he's married to much younger and prettier women, that I may go to *, I may disobey Allah his Messenger, I'm better off. The second is that I have children. You know, why would the prophets

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Allah Salah marry a woman with a package and those kids will Young? Because

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Zeynep whose name was Barbara actually, and Omar were pretty young. But anyway, the third she said that

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and I don't have a guardian here. So Heartland in the Ivy belta conveyed the message to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who paid her a visit and Cydia OMA selama. As far as for your jealousy, I'm going to ask Allah subhanaw taala to remove it from your heart, which he did.

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Allah Houma is hereby Yatta guess what, even later on whenever some disputes would happen or take place between the CO wives. Sufi Radi Allahu Isha. May Allah be pleased with her half son Aisha have always been together. But you know, some other spouses of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, they would resort to almost Salama, to reconcile between them to sort out the disputes, because she did not have this problem, because of the dua of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam to remove the jealousy from her heart, then what

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she the Prophet sallallahu sallam said I'm gonna make dua for you and he did. The second as far as for you children. That's actually the reason why the Prophet salaallah Salam is marrying you to look after your children so that you would foster them.

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And he said, first a few common law duty Allah will suffice for them. And as far as who your guardians, whether they're here or there, they will be very happy when they know that I'm proposing to you. So when the Prophet salaallah Salah and resolve the three matters for her, she was very happy and she said to her son, Salah, Maya Salah confessor with rasool Allah give up and give me a marriage to the Prophet sallallahu sallam. Hey, wait a minute. Brothers and sisters, our young girls who simply say, well, there is a view that says you can give yourself in marriage without the consent of your guardian, she found a guardian, her son, who is an adult, you can give yourself in

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marriage without the consent of your guardian, or else the marriage will be invalid because this is what the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said, then, for a few days every time the Prophet sallallahu Sallam after they got married, had the marriage contract, and the Prophet Salah Salem paid her dowry and wedding gifts. Every night he would go to visit her. Now she's his wife, but they have not consummated the marriage. Because every time you visit her, she's carrying Zeinab, Zayn. Radi Allahu Allah now was a little baby she was still being breastfed.

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When her father was martyred abou selama every night first night second, my third night, so the prophets Allah Allah Allah said, I'm gonna say Salaam Alaikum, but quietly will withdraw. He would not say a word. Until one day some family members like I'm married Nia sir, was a brother of almost Elena due to suckling alerted her to that, so when he came zeyneb has gone have gone already with our Marubeni asset. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam walked in and he saw almost Salah was free. He said, he has an app, where is an app? It's like a spoiling name to Xena when he used to call our Isha ish, or the Allahu anha. And then have you call her as an app? But you say that Xena was not

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the name that her father named her with the SU because she was born in Alhaji Russia. So her father Abu Salah man almost Alana chose a beautiful name that they thought it's an excellent name. Their name is what Barbara

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is the word Barbara. A bad name that needs to change. It's not a bad name. But the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said when he heard her name is it fellow to that full circle, who aha moment about Ramana Ness

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There is an error in the Quran, in which Allah Almighty says fella to the court and fullcycle more Allah movi, many taka do not admire no praise yourselves Allah knows best. Who is more righteous who's more pious. And the word bara is a female name which means a pious woman or a pious girl. That's why he said, You've got to change the name. Allah knows who's pious and who's not. So he gave her the name, Xena. And there was another girl having the name Arsia. RC A means a center for a girl. He said know the word the ASEAN Alcea was very common. So you say change that name to what he said call her Jamila. Pretty.

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So anyway, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam consummated the marriage with Omar selama Ravi Allahu Anna and she became officially one of the Mothers of the Believers. Then he started raising the children. And he looked after them, and he treated them like they are his own children. So he gave selama he gave him his own cousin in marriage, the daughter of Al Hamza in Abdulmutallab. Her name was Amanda. She married her to selama, the son of Abu Salah Abdullah Hypno, Amber and Mousumi. If you guys are following me, I hope you did not get lost.

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Then Omar was pretty young, less than 10 years old, because when the Prophet salaallah Salam died on the 10th year of the Hydra, Rama NaVi Salah was only nine years old. And as you know that when the Prophet married almost selama Xena was still being breastfed. So he educated them he brought them up and he taught them.

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Allah let me sell them all the Allahu Allah narrated that cone to all M and V Hadrian every year sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when I was a pretty young boy, sitting in the lap of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, whether this is physical or metaphorical Jonnie, sometimes the Prophet SAW Selim would put the child in his lap, and would play with him or with her and have fun with them, and you know, entertain them and teach them. So he said, while I was eating cannot hear the total issue for stuff.

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You know how our children when they come to eat, they are not educated properly. They pick whatever kind of food they desire, if there is a big plate, a big dish, so how much we sell them. I used to do that he's very young, you know, seven years old or so. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam taught me Sadia Olam, beautifully or young boy. First of all, send me let's say Bismillah what will be a meaning and use your right hand will call me Mayor leek and eat from right in front of you. Or Mozilla Marathi Allahu anha have learned from the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, a great deal of full understanding of the camp to the point that she is officially known as alpha Ki Ha. The female

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scholar the female jurist. So even after the Prophet sallallahu Sallam passed away, men and women would go to almost selama may Allah be pleased with her and ask her questions and feel can Hadith she by herself narrated in her Musnad 370 Hadith that She memorized from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Almost Elena had a great favor that she conferred upon the entire Oma. When the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam drew lots between his wives, and it was almost LMSW turn to join the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to what is known as El umbra, which was not fulfilled during the Treaty of alto Diaby

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and the Metcons did not allow the Prophet sallallahu Sallam along with 1400 companions to enter Mecca. Then they concluded what is known as the Treaty of allodynia.

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The articles of the treaty were very unfair, very unjust, all the companions with the exception of Abu Bakr, so they were unhappy with it. Sometimes some, even some of them were, you know, vocal.

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And there is a voices and say this is not fair.

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So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam ordered them well, we're not performing Umrah this year, because we concluded that a condition that will come back next year, we're not going to perform or this year, very unfair conditions. We don't have time to go through the articles but anyway, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said now go ahead and slaughter your head and shave your heads. They refused. For the very first time, the Companions could not just take it. We came from Medina to perform Umrah and we are more than willing to fight for it. Yes

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We can do it. The Prophet sallallahu sallam was nd he entered into his river or tent and he shared with whom with Omar Salama. This is like the warm hug whenever the person goes home and he finds a wise wife

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to give him comfort there Hadiya Radi Allahu anha. So she assured them and she said yeah rasool Allah Allah, He said Allah can nurse My people will be destroyed disobeyed me they disobeyed Allah. She said, Your rasool Allah Calm down, step out, order a barber to come and give your hair shave after you slaughter your camel, your head. So he did his letter, His Word, His Camus, the hedge, and he ordered the barber to give him a hair shave and he shaved his head, when their companion So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in this condition, they thought that Allah will be very angry with them if they delay. So they rushed all of them innocently did what is known as the honeymoon may Allah be

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pleased with almost dilemma, or the Allahu Ana, when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam once was sitting with a Muslim and he was feeling sorry, she said, What is wrong here rasool Allah said, we have 17 hours left from yesterday. I forgot to distribute them and he would not spare anything of the charity. So she said yeah rasool Allah.

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Holly agilon fee when he IV Salama, an unfair Corolla him will they be rewarded if I spend, you know, upon my children who are the children of Abu Salah I'm not a working woman, I don't have any source of income, will I be rewarded if I support them? And I from the sadaqa the Prophet sallallahu when she said also want us to be terracotta, him, Hakka, Hakka I'm not gonna leave them to go here and there to back. So the Prophet Salah Salem proved that and he said Nam yes of course we're lucky agile Roma and filthy Allah Him and you will be rewarded for every spending that you spent upon the this is a charity from you, upon them upon whom,

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upon your own children. So this is the catch in this entire Hadith. I just wanted to mention the background behind it, and also give a brief bio about one of the greatest companions, one of the wives of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam almost Salah model the Allah Anna and the hadith is agreed upon its authenticity brothers and sisters. Now let's take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a few minutes to resume with another new Hadith stay tuned.

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Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Brothers and sisters our phone numbers beginning with record landline records user 202338 double 5249 Alternatively, a cell phone number equals 0020 Double 125 Double 08679 email addresses [email protected]

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The following hadith is Hadith number 292. And this hadith is a segment of a lengthy Hadith that was studied thoroughly before so we should not really spend much of time in re explaining what we explained earlier a few episodes back. The hadith is agreed upon its authenticity and narrated by the companion sad interviewer cos who is the profits uncle, and who is one of the 10 Heaven bound companions and sadly, none of your costs are of the Allahu Anhu fee. How do you see how far we'll let you cut them now if you ever look it up if you've ever been near, and Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Alcala, who were in Nagaland tomb for your conifer cotton Tabby telling you what

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you have Llahi Illa Bucha that we have had Tajmahal woofie fie yam rhotic, Matata canali.

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Sad in the overall cost and then Allah be pleased with him, the rated in the long Hadith, which was discussed earlier in the chapter of sincerity and intention, that is the first chapter by the way, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him say, whatever you spend seeking thereby the pleasure of Allah will have its word,

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even the motion which you put in the mouth of your wife, the hadith is agreed upon its authenticity as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh we have a caller

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sister Julia from organda.

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Thank you for the progress. You're most welcome.

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I have two pictures.

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My first question is,

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do we even have an option if I don't want to be with my husband in Ghana? Okay, he's a good person I have been given piano and he has been given them. But I don't want to be with him in general. Do I have an option or to do is him in general? That Gentlelady can run? That is right. Yes. And the woman is right. Yes. He will be with his wife in Jana.

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So do we men, do women have that option? If

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but I don't want to do

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they have an option? And there's a question.

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If, if you ripening someone that I will marry,

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and I ended up not marrying him.

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So that is seen.

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Between him waiting and me, not when you are not doing I'm not doing anything, he's not doing anything. But can you say? Can you say that again? The last part that you dream of marrying somebody and you don't marry him?

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The first question? No, the second question. The second question is, someone wants to marry, and he says, wait for me financially, I will marry.

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Now I say, Okay, I will wait, between waiting, and him working hard. Is that a thing? You are doing nothing and doing nothing, but is just working hard too much. And if you end up marrying someone else, is it a thing?

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For you? Okay. I would rather begin with your second question.

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If a woman promises someone, and he asks her that, you know, You better wait for me until I, you know, establish myself financially so that we can get married. And she promises him not to marry to wait for him and he's working hard and all of that. Before we'll go into the answer to this question, I would like to ask, where is the guardian in this whole picture? Where does he fit? I mean, he's just talking to somebody on your own that okay, I will wait for you. And if he's not established, and you have to marry somebody else, and you're thinking about the first one, problems actually happen as a result of the wrong beginning, as a result of the wrong beginning, beginning if

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the man is interested, and he proposes to you and you're happy with him, the husband approves it, The Guardian approves it, then you guys get married. If he's not financially established yet and cannot afford the means. That two has to be explained because sometimes a person can afford to provide like a studio, one bedroom flat

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and we live in hand to mouth go ahead and get married. You know why? Because Allah Almighty said in Surah, a new row and keyhole amm in Como Salah Hey, and I mean, a baddie como AECOM, Inga Kunal for Cara yo Guney here moolah woman fugly.

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So in this ayah, Allah all those as the whole society, not just the families and the family members and the guardians to facilitate the marriage of those who are unmarried yet eikonal Fukumura even if they are poor, you know, if they are poor, and we assist them, so that they get married, you need him Allah whom in fact the Allah will enrich in them and suffice for the needs are of His Bounty.

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And Allah is sufficient for all the needs of his servant or knowing where's your own alim. So this is a promise from Allah and there is another Hadith in this regard as well. My advice is, do not go about this whole story on your own, The Guardian has to step in and see what he can do. Now, if you didn't work out and you married somebody else, this chapter is entirely closed. He can never be in somebody's arms and think of somebody else. This is absolutely haram. This is forbidden.

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And when the Prophet sallallahu selama says now I'm talking about your first question and Mark actually, theory as well. Do you have Phil Jana? You know, many men are only you say, you know, I would rather marry somebody else. You know, what happens is that your wife in a Jana will be a beauty queen and your husband and Jana will be a role will be like a model would be the best of you. What you can imagine, is not with the same, you know, drawbacks that you have in this life, you know, sometimes a woman says, I love my husband, but you know, I don't like his, you know, his sweat. I don't like the smell of his what? I don't like his temper. He's a very

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Religious and righteous person. But you know, for some reason, I don't like this I don't like that. These drawbacks will be eliminated and by the end in Al Jana, to answer you, in brief, Allah the Almighty says law who may share or interfere,

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you get what you want, you will not get anything which is against your desire with its he or she, but that explains how much you're happy with your spouse Subhanallah Wallach Allah tell you the truth. This is a very first time to get a question like that. I'm gonna keep my record

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so the hadith of sadden annual costs which we caught in a segment of its text, in this chapter, versus the entire text in the first chapter, which is known as sincerity, loss and Alia,

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indeed, indicates two things. Number one, that you whenever you provide for your family, you will be rewarded for that. Number two, this provision will not be rewarded for automatically, no.

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It must be accompanied with an intention.

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Because the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah selama said, and as you know, put an underline, or highlight this statement which the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah selama says that tarea, we have wahala and Mechelen, don't feel kind of forgotten, that don't even watch Allah in his spending. And the word another Ha is in the indefinite, which is known as NACA, so it covers any spending, any spending any amount, even in the most insignificant amount.

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To the extent that it could be a single bite, as little as a morsel of food, a bite that you put in the mouth of your wife in the mouth of your children. Why did he choose a wife because you know, sometimes, when a husband and wife are having some,

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what do you say, romantic moment, romantic dinner, you know, celebrating together, and he feeds his wife, and she feeds her husband and all of that, you know, all of that. He can draw a word and has an ad out of that, oh, yeah, you can have fun. And you earn has an app, you can actually have, you can go into an intimate relationship. And that will yield a great reward as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam explained in another Hadith, but we learn from this hadith that, hey, brothers and sisters And subhanAllah today, when I was filming another program in another place, and I was explaining to the cameraman, and to the director, and to the co workers, we had like a little halka in between the

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filming. And we talked about the spinning and spinning upon family members, it has a greater word, it draws a greater reward than giving to the poor people are not related to you. It doesn't mean that you should not give them know you keep balance, but the priority. And the preference is to give to your own children to your own weight your own family members, begin with them, as explained in the previous Hadith in the last episode, the hadith of Abu Hurayrah of the Allahu Allah. So they were very surprised, he said, Yanni, when when you buy food and clothes for your own children, you will be rewarded for that. Somebody said, you know, I always felt very sad that you know, I'm not

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giving enough for the sake of Allah because I'm baking even, you know, whatever I earn, I spent on my family, I said, this is all if you anticipate a reward from Allah for it. And if you intend this is feasability Allah He has definitely you will be rewarded for it. And these are all sort of caught.

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So the second lesson we learn from this hadith is you have to anticipate a word from Allah and precede this word with an intention. Not before every time you buy a shirt, or pair of pants, or buy food, food, but generally speaking, I'm working hard and providing for my family, he said Illa and hoping that Allah will reward me for that you will be rewarded for that, for working and for providing for the family. That's why if we look into the following hadith is just an explanatory Hadith of the current one, Hadith number 293.

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And Abby, Miss Rudin, il Bidri rob the Allahu Anhu and in the Salah, Lohani selama call either Amphicar Raju Allah le naffaa katanya the Cebu the here LA who saw the motorcycle an ally will miss eroded the dream and love you please with him reported that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam mercy when someone spends on his family see Kinder

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word for it from Allah, it is counted as a charity for him. So what do we need to do? Anticipate the word what does it mean anticipate that word in a few weeks from now in sha Allah you know almost 1/3 of Raja

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is gone. So we have about 50 days or less for Ramadan in sha Allah as

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normally we discuss the Hadith about the rules for fasting or word for praying at night or word for attending Leila Takada in worship. All these are Hadees talk about one thing Muslim Allah Madonna Eman and what is Saba Eman and what is monocle? Amara Madonna Iman and what is Saba man Carmela little Kadri Amen and what is her but what is Iman and what is

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Eman? And I'm doing this because Allah ordered me to do that out of belief in Allah 87 anticipating and expecting the reward from Allah then Allah promised a reward for feeding your family. Yes Wallahi he did

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magnificent reward greater than given no charity to people whom you do not know even though there are poor and needy ones. So I anticipate the reward for that you will definitely get it. So these conditions must be fulfilled. Why are you doing this? Somebody says I am doing this because all my siblings are very rich and they put their kids in international school I cannot just put my kids in Alisa Claire school cannot send them to school via the school bus. I have to bring them a driver like my siblings, my like my neighbors. What do you want people to say that I cannot afford to do this aha reward is waived is eliminated. Because interview Salalah and selama said in mL mL will be

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new yet and that's why Hadith. Sad interview of course was mentioned in the chapter of sincerity. These are bought by the intentions were enamelled equilibrium, man our spending is the same.

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You see, when you give a needy person at Charity,

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the charity is the same. But if it is not from lawful earning no reward, it's a curse.

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Whatever it is, from a lawful earning, my intention was to show people that I'm a charitable person, no reward you will be punished in state.

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Okay, it is with sincerity. But I came later on and remanded this person. Remember, I did you a favor, you have to respect me, word is waived, is canceled and void. Hmm. So the intention must be maintained sincerely, so I will the time so that you will be rewarded for that? Why am I putting my kids in this school? My intention, I want them to be righteous, my sole purpose of having children and upbringing them, educating them, putting them into schools, so that they learn about their Creator, they become better servants of Allah subhanaw taala. This is a certificate which will enable them to enter paradise. And this is a kind of work which will make me eligible to be saved

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and save my family members. Those who work hard and they make a fortune in order to set aside so that they can send their kids to study abroad not even once the ask them whether they pray or not. In a very sad incident, some of the viewers shared with me that this in their child, I'm not gonna say well, y'all go abroad to study, they're making very good money, and SubhanAllah. After years, they came to find out now I'm gonna say, In one example, the girl was not actually wearing hijab, and she was involved in many bad things. And eventually, she had abandoned the religion altogether. On my own watch on my own coast, I paid for that I paid for my child to be careful.

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I paid for my child to abandon the D.

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Why? Because it was not preceded with a sincere intention. Oh, no, no, my intention was sincere. If your intention was sincere, you would have asked

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can I do that? Is this the right thing to do? Is this the right choice to do? Yes or no?

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You know, you asked before you act, you inquire what would please Allah subhanho wa taala.

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So there are many things that we need to review our intention in the regard before we claim that was sincere in this regard, so that all our lively activities and our habits can simply turn into

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rewarded for acts of worship.

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The following Hadith and the last is Hadees number 294. Narrated by Abdullah hip Nam REBNY. Last are the Allahu Anhu man

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God called Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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CAFA been marked as men and you will die. Yeah. Many akute

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This is his own Hadees collected by a Buddha would may Allah have mercy on him, and is also mentioned in the sound collection of Ilima Muslim

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as gaffer Bill Maher, Isml, Enya, bissa ammonium Liko Kuta, who I believe now I'm reading the last May Allah be pleased with him, and his father narrated that the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, neglecting one's own duty towards his dependents isn't enough reason for him to be a sinner, to commit a sin and to incur a punishment for the sin. It is such a big sin for a person to hold back that you have one whose provision is in his hand. What do you mean is in his hand, it is you're required, it is your responsibility, you're required to provide for him. They don't have another provider as far as a human being, but you and you have to work hard in order to earn the needed

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provision to provide for your family SubhanAllah. This is a beautiful religion, it's all about keeping balance between the needs of your dunya and the needs of your ephemera. So he's asking you to offer your A Baghdad on time to put your trust in Allah subhanaw taala but also utilize the available and provided means which Allah provided you, in order to earn the provision which Allah has pre ordained for you. So if you put your trust in Allah properly, and you do the proper ASVAB or the means you will get your provision. If you don't, and you are lazy enough to say If Allah wants to provide for me he will. Well if you are by yourself, that's a sin, because you you know, you are

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living as dependent and asking people to help you. And the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, the one whom Allah loves more the one who gives not the one who takes what about if actually

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that you have a responsibility that is much bigger than you yourself? Choose your family. She's your kids, Allah he um sometimes very surprised when I know that a person who is broke he is struggling to provide for one family and he is in a huge debt Barun from this brother in the masjid and from this shop and from the store, and he says chef, I want to practice a sunnah I want to get married again.

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Get married again. It can barely provide for a single wife and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said many Stoppa I mean c'mon, fell it as it was, if you can afford it get married. You are in a financial strain you have a very terrible condition. So work hard provide for your family first provide for those whom you are officially responsible to provide for them or otherwise it's a big sin. May Allah Subhana Allah protect us against and may Allah forgive us our sins. I mean, we had our stuff for Lolly welcome masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salaam wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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Have a

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love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. People want me to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God is the greatest

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glory to him

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is to be the best and give his religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping comes fire and stones, sending their best to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys are shipping cars fire and stores selling their best were the cheapest

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