Gardens Of The Pious #133 Apr 27th 2015

Muhammad Salah


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AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of providing financial support to family members, setting up child support, and doing good things to avoid child supportile behavior. They emphasize the need for a healthy environment for children to receive child support and avoid child supportile behavior. The importance of fulfilling family members' obligations, avoiding false accusations, and staying true to Islam is emphasized. The speakers also emphasize the importance of forgiveness and giving one's best religion to others.
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allah God is the greatest moment only glory to Him. He asked me you always to be the best and give his best religion to allah God has the greatest

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glory to Him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to A salaam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ALA and he almost have sad and I'm Hamid in wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Manuela, we're back. Brothers and sisters Welcome to another Live In addition of your program Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah Today's episode is episode number 156. And in sha Allah today will begin explaining the 36th chapter of this blesses seas of Guardians of the pious and that is going to be the first episode in sha Allah explaining the chapter which is known as an ethical to Allah yell or providing for the

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family members. And the word Lal means those who are under your guardianship, whom you're responsible for the provision for their sustenance.

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So your wife and we had a whole chapter speaking about the rights of the wives before including an Africa spending and total Emma either point when taxa eductor site to feed her whenever you eat, and to clothe her whenever you buy cloth for yourself. And now, Lal in general, which is all of those who are under your guardianship, whom you're responsible for the provision your children, you have made your employees, they say that you have some family members who are your relatives, and they are

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they are not financially capable to provide for themselves or for their family members, while you're well off, and Allah subhanho wa Taala bless you with plenty of wealth. So they become your al they're all you provide for you provide for certain people, whether they are immediate family members, or otherwise. And generally speaking,

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in the minds of many Muslims, that they perceive given in a charity and build in a masjid and donating to a hospital or furnishing a masjid is superior to you know, buying food and clothes for the children. And this understanding is not true. And we did explain the proper understanding and disregard before in the long hadith of Saudi Arabia costs. May Allah be pleased with him

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when he was very sick, and he thought that he will expire. Then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam visited him and he was willing to give away his entire wealth and the Nabi SallAllahu sallam said don't do that. He said, What about two thirds? He said do not do that either. It said one have a also you've been a Somali chalet writer we'll see. We'll have you know half of my wealth will be given away. It said still too much. And finally, when you say what about 1/3 The Prophets Allah Allah Allah selama said as solos was solo so Cassia and it's still 1/3 is plenty. Why? He remarked, sang sallallahu alayhi salam in Naka and Tata Rocha. whare Setec el hernia, higher Amin and Tata

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Rocklahoma, Latin Yetta Kapha fauna Ness.

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What which means it is better to leave some wealth, some provision for your ears for your children, they're leaving them poor and broke, that they had to back especially you already have the means. So why would they donate all my wealth? Two thirds, or even half of my wealth, while I have children? Don't you also consider that providing for your family members, and giving your children and your wife and those who are under your guardianship supporting them financially, an act of charity from you, and this is also for the sake of Allah and you will be rewarded for Yes indeed. And that is even given preference.

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And better than simply given those who are further away.

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So you say

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or sad interview of course, you should understand that inner circle and don't feel kind of forgotten Debbie Atelier we have watch Hala il cootie Welaka via hat Manitoba, who Fifi and rhotic or sad any any in Africa, any spending anything you give in a charity, you will be rewarded for even as long as you see the countenance of Allah, you seek the pleasure of Allah, behind giving, why do you give, why do you spend, you are anticipating the reward from Allah and seeking His pleasure, you will be rewarded, even for whatever you provide your family with. Not only that had to look man, a lot more refers to a single bite when it fills your mouth or by it had to Lachman even the single bite, that

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you put it in your wife's mouth, you will be rewarded for it. And it is an act of charity from you.

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And we also say that,

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supporting the family members,

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paying the tuitions for your kids in school to college education, helping them financially to get married even after they get married.

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Paying for the medicals for the medications for their prescription, whether your children, your wife, her parents, your own parents, your brothers and sisters, this has a greater word than giving the same amount to poor who are not related to you

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to poor people who are not your relatives.

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So every Muslim

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should anticipate a reward from Allah subhanaw taala for buying lunch, for his family, for putting bread on the table. When you go to pick up the milk for your baby, the formula with a medication for your daughter, anything that you provide the family with, provided it is earn hallelujah from local sources. And you will anticipate in the reward from Allah guaranteed that you will be rewarded for this is not simply my statement. I'm not you know, making it up. Rather, this is one of the beauty of our magnificent religion. And now I'll innominate Huawei may Allah have mentioned him are going to, you know, emphasize and put emphasis on the previous meeting, and will quote in this regard some

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eight from the Quran Surah Al Baqarah Surah to Paula or Surah Saba, and a long list of beautiful Hadith in this regard. So before I discuss any form I only to rejoice. I want you to rejoice when you run to the supermarket, to the grocery store, to buy food to buy bread to buy fruits to buy even ice cream for your kids. This is an act of charity from you, you will be rewarded for it. When you take whatever a family member or any of you are able to the doctor and you pay for the doctor visit, then you pay for the medication. This is a charity from you better than simply given any charity to further away people, even though they are poor, and eligible.

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I'm not saying of course, we should stop giving sadaqa to the poor, who are not related to us. But what I'm saying that make sure that you should anticipate the reward from Allah for every spending that you spend on your family members. This is what Allah Almighty said, and this is what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam explained in the Hadith. The first idea is quite long, but lmm on our way. And I have Surah Al Baqarah number 233.

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It prescribes the process of breastfeeding and cycling while while either to yoga and I don't know how Lainey can Elaine Laney Lehman, Aurora the annual Tim Mara bar. So you know if this last phrase was not mentioned, it would have been compulsory on every mother to breastfeed her baby for to complete lunar years. How will they need to calculate it to complete lunar years provided?

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Lehmann Arada UTM naraba for whoever would like to complete the course of breastfeeding

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where Alamelu de la who is kohona Working swore to Hoonah Bill maruf Okay, so the isas and the mothers should Farkle the children for two whole years for him who desires to make complete

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By the time of suckling, and their maintenance, their provision and their clothing must be borne by must be upon whom?

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Upon the person who's this child is his child. While and mallu Dilla, who is Kahuna case, what one will move? The father of the child shall bear the cost of the mother's food and clothing on a reasonable basis. What does it mean on a reasonable basis

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on a reasonable basis as Allah subhanaw taala said, lay you can live Allahu nevsun Illa wasa

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law does not demand anything from any person beyond his or her capacity.

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Then in another area Leone folk Lusardi means that everyone should spin according to their capacity. Look, brothers and sister whenever there is a divorce case in the court.

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And of course, there will be a child support involved in case there are children the child support is stated in the Quran where you before any of the contemporary records or women's rights organizations demanded that while mono de la who is oh no okay, so tune will my roof lead to California Epson enlasa. No single person is asked to do anything beyond his or her capacity by

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so when they filed for divorce, sometimes the husband will tend to hide his income so that the court would not decide a higher rate of child support. This is forbidden. Why? Because Allah says Leung Xu Asante min Sati even if you divorce this woman who happened to be the mother of your children, that if you are a wealthy person, that child support should be in proportion with how rich you are. What if you are broke, if you are poor, then the state should support you both

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should support you both. But why if you find out that you have

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a side job or you're hiding some wealth or treasure, you will be liable for all the spending. This is how it is Allah subhanaw taala is addressing the parents conscience. Everyone Xu Sati min SAT. If you can afford it, you must spend according to your affordability. If you're rich, you should expand on their provision. Give them enough if you can afford to put your children in a private school why not? Buy them the best clothes? Why not? Not that you treat yourself royal treatment and your children because he divorced their mother are being neglected. You're punishing her and you're punishing them before Allah subhanaw taala you cannot get away with this. This is a crime. But if

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you're poor, you're not blameworthy. before Allah subhanaw taala there is no blame upon you do not do sodomy and Sati somebody that was his wife and the wife is demanding that we should put our kids in this international school I cannot even put them in regular school. I cannot even buy them the school uniform. So why demanding something so the FIE, the wife would use a lawyer who would you know,

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make a forgery to claim that the husband is making certain amount more than what he's making. That is not permissible as well.

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That's why Allah subhanaw taala said Bill ma roof which means

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on a reasonable basis. The second area

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is a number seven of Surah Attala in this ayah Allah subhanho wa Taala says

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Leone zoo Surat in Saudi Aramco Dr. Ali Hisco, Valium, Mata hula lair you can live Allahu nevsun In lemma

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Sajha Allah Who bad grocery usara let him who has abundance of wealth to spin out of his abundance and wherever has his means of substance straightened for him. Let them spin out of that which Allah has given him. Allah does not lay on any soul a burden at UT except that the to the extent to which he has granted Allah the Almighty brings about is after difficulties they hedge out Allahu Vida Oh, sorry, you saw so there is

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promise there is an instruction, a command that each one should spin within their capacity. That's even in the case of divorce. This surah is known as surah. Out talaaq or divorce. So now, the mother cannot afford to Breastfeed the child.

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Okay, first of all, they will have okra. We may hire a woman to Breastfeed the child who's gonna pay for that. The husband within his capacity, Leone cerca zoo start in Mensa, there is a meaning of let him was abundant suspend out of his abundance, if he is wealthy, spin in proportion with his worth. If he is poor, then there is no blame upon him, let him spin according to that which Allah has given him. Allah does not put any burden on any person beyond what He has given him, Subhan Allah

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and Allah will grant after hardship and ease. So if the person is honest, if the person is sincere, and he's doing his utmost, he is working hard, he's applying for another job, and he is not hiding rather he is supporting his divorce see, and the child or his wife and the children from whatever he earns, then Allah Almighty promises him that he will make an ease after hardship. The third area is a number 39 of Surah Saba and this is

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a part of the area.

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Elinor will never we coded the segment which is the last which is the middle segment of the IOC is one for two min che in for Hawaii level. If we have a marker to encircle or underline the word che, che means a thing in the indefinite anything. So anything means anything. Could anything be a date? Could be a painting. Yeah, a thing anything, isn't it the thing? Yeah. So Allah Almighty is saying in this IO, AMA and Felco to ministry in limbo and whatsoever you spend of anything in Allah scores, he will replace it, he will pay you back. He will give you a better replacement that you give, then you get better than what you gave. And Allah is the best of providers. What does the ISA from the

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beginning the isas call in Nairobi, superseries Calima ye Yeshua Omen Neva de wire Padula says, Surely my Lord, amplify is the means of subsistence for whom He pleases of his servants, and straightens them for whom He pleases. And why.

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She is, for Who are you looking for? Well, whoever your was 18 and whatever a thing that you spend, he exceeds it a word, and he is the best of sustainers I remember when the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam used to say, to be land, we learn the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam sometimes would appoint him to this view the charity

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and the Prophet sallallahu sallam was described by even non Muslims and then Muhammad and your to Yatra and mela shall *.

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And then we'll Hamedan your three alpha, MLA, actual *, what is the meaning of this statement?

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It describes exactly that no one was as generous nor who will be as generous as a Prophet sallallahu sallam, if you ask a multimillionaire, to support a good cause, he will or he may. But is he willing to give you all his words? I don't think so. Why? Because I have to keep some for myself. For my family, that's reasonable. But the Prophet sallallahu sallam was described as he gives an opportunity as if he is never afraid of poverty, like he has a full supply constant and consistent supply. He is not worried about interrupting the supply provision or cash, cash flow or money. And we cannot do that. As human beings. You know, most human beings trust what is in their hands more

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than they trust what is in the unseen with Allah Almighty. So when the prophets

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Salallahu Alaihe Salam with older biller to spend and to spend generously Bilello. As a human being What about if we save some lives?

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While duck Shem in Zillah, Hershey UCLA don't worry, because the provider is the Owner of the Throne, he will give you a better replacement.

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And that coincide in the description of those who either came to accept Islam recently or non Muslim leaders, when they saw how the Prophet sallallahu Sallam spins generously, if he receives a pile of gold and silver and provision, you know, he would rush the prayer so that he will distribute the whole thing, dispense the whole charity would not spare a single thing, not even a date. You will not say maybe until tomorrow maybe some people will come and be more in need. Now the spin spin spin giveaway and Allah will give a better replacement that is a mean of one for two min che in for who you live for.

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This is an amazing promise by Allah subhanho wa Taala that no doubt that whatever you spin in a charity, you would definitely soon receive a better replacement, not just in the form of reward, which will be in the Hereafter, but in this life as well.

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So in this chapter, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would explain in the Hadith, that every person is responsible to provide for his El,

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the wife, children, the siblings, the parents, the servants, the employees, whom you are hiring and supporting, spending upon them. These are all soda caught,

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the count of soda caught from you and Allah will reward you for your spending upon them, as you are given in a charity or even better, it is definitely better. Why according to the previous yet, spending on El Erian. Those who knew shall support financially is far too Iein is the individual duty of every single Muslim, every single man number one.

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But spending in other good causes is mere voluntary. Yesterday there was a question and we answered in the light of the same, you know, cause of a hadith and I had one one brother said that I would like to do this for my mother's apartment, and meanwhile I saw the mesh it needs some windows.

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The priority is for your mother, your family, your children. And if there is some spare fun, you can spend it all directed towards the mesh ship, building the message it is a communal duty, but supporting your family, your parents, your wife, your siblings, your children, is a communal duty. And when Allah subhanaw taala said in the face AOL and mono de la who is Cohoon and mahalo de la who not necessarily the immediate father, because the father may die before seeing his son.

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What about the grandfather, it becomes his duty.

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The great grandfather, it becomes his duty. Look what the Prophet salallahu Salam went through, he was orphaned before he was born, who took care of him, his grandfather of the mortality. So

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Allah subhanaw taala in the eye of Surah, teeny SAP and number 36 When it says what Buddha Allahu Allah to shriek will be che and what below earlier in the asana will be the Kuba Alia turn on Mr. Keeney all Jerry the cobra or Jerry Jun will be also here we will jump to Ben Sebelius Melaka. Amen calm, these are all commands of whom you should be dutiful to and support financially. He began with whom

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and while he died, then second, they will call back then served at a time I will miss again and then fourth, and fifth, the neighbors but number one, the parents number two, the relatives, their relatives include the siblings, your offspring, your uncle's, your aunts, and so on. They should be given the priority over those who are not related to you, brothers and sisters is take a short break and in sha Allah in a few minutes, we'll come back with you so that we can start with the first Hadith in chapter number 36 Please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back

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Our phone numbers beginning with Area code 00201 double 02464583 alternatively Area code 0020 Double 125 Double 08679 And the email addresses [email protected]. Well, now let's begin with the first Hadith in the chapter. The hadith is Hadees number 200 ad nine

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and it is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah or the Allahu Anh, Col. Kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Dena Ron and Dr. Hu V Sevilla. What do you know Arun? And Sakata who feel Aqaba? What do you now own? The South Dakota V Highland miskeen? Where do you now own and Sakata who Allah Erlich avevamo agilon Allah the third quarter who Allah Alec, our Muslim, Allahu Akbar. I just love this hadith. And I hope that all Muslims comprehend the meaning of this hadith, Abu Huria may Allah be pleased with him, the rate that the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam assayed

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a dinar which is a golden currency. It can say $1 a pound or ingot, whatever any currency

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that you spend fi savvy Lila in Allah's way, like in preparing an army on the battlefield, supporting the Mujahideen that is a meaningful sob Lila What do you now on factor who Hirakawa and another dinar the ease spent in or tours free in a slave neck you won't be a single DiNardo but this is just referring to any spending even if it is just the dinar and dinar that you gave in church it also Dr. B He Allah miskeen you give it to a needy person What do you now an instructor who Allah Alec and another dinar that is going to support your family. So how many different types of spinning we have in this hadith for the nephron and facto visa vie Lila one the second and Dr. Will firaga

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tours fina slave Nick.

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The third is Edie now that you give a surety to a needy person. And the fourth is a dinner that you spent on your family members.

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run Subhanallah they weren't yielding the greatest reward. Is that what you spend on your family? How beautiful Allahu Akbar let's take this call first Salam Alaikum

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brother Akbar from organda.

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Salaam Alaikum Akbar welcome Sarah.

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How are you brother Welcome to the program

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I hear you go ahead and present your question please.

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Yeah, I have a question.

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who works with non Muslims

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in certain area?

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And what happens?

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I hear you brother. Go ahead. Yeah, okay. Can I continue? Yes, please.

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Yeah, I am the one who works with Muslims in certain areas.

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And the other is God's Devil is calling me to enjoy food with them which will lead to meat

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and without knowing who slaughtered the need

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for I don't know. Is that one halal?

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What is their religion in your village? You said you're the only Muslim in your village what is the faith and religion in your village? What do they worship

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Barbara, Calif, you come.

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I hope you you can call back and Shala to provide me with an answer because since you're calling from organda We did visit organda. And we held a very nice debate and many people accepted Islam it was in the measure stage with their stadium hamdulillah so

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So I understand that there is an overwhelming, you know, majority of Christians, but I want to know who is doing the slaughtering process? Because Allah Subhana Allah says in surah Ada, what I'm Latina O'Toole Kitab, a Hindu lacco matar Muqaam Hey Lola home. So, generally speaking, it is not permissible to eat any animal which has been sacrificed or slaughtered by other than Muslims.

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Then Allah Almighty in Surah tilma, Ada exempt Alladhina O'Toole Kitab, the People of the Book, auto Kitab, those who have been given the torah those who have been given the gospel, they're using the Christians provided the slaughter, not simply killed, and provided that they do not mention anything at the time of slaughtering

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because if they do mention

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any name other than the Name of Allah, then it is not permissible to taste the meat of this animal, even if it is slaughtered by some Muslims who take their sacrifices to be slaughtered at certain tombs or certain locations to get the blessing from this person or that the person this the Bihar is forbidden while Kulu me Mel amuse curry Swan la Holly, you cannot eat from such meat. Okay, Baraka Luffy.

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So, back to the beautiful Hadith, the greatest spinning of all, and the spinning which yields the greatest reward? Is that what you spin on your family members?

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Imagine when you leave early morning, go into a job you prayed fed set until Doha and you sat in your car and your car and you're very active going to work and earning from your sweat, halal earning. And you understand that working hard is an act of worship. bringing food back to the family is an act of worship, feeding them buying them close to the school and tuitions and school supplies and all of that this is greater than simply giving any charity to needy people and greater reward than spending for serving Allah and greater in word and you know, back then Allah subhanaw taala encourage the believers to free the slaves for Karaca Karaca with iMovie I mean the Mesaba so simply

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by enslaved and free in the slave is an act that is that earns a huge and tremendous reward that when you free a slave you will be free from the hellfire.

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Spending from your lawful earning upon your family members is superior reward to all of that to spin up sebelah to buy slaves to free them for few sebelah as well to give the need the poor and the needy ones. Imagine imagine. So it is not only about praying and fasting these are the physical acts of worship law. While in solidarity one also key wanna hear Yahweh Marathi, he asked me last Sherry Keller, who will be the Lika O'Meara to one who mostly mean Surah Al Anam Allah although the Prophet salallahu salam to say, most surely my life, first my salah, then my sacrifice, my life and my death, all belong to Allah, the Lord of everything that exists.

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So spending on the family is formed,

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personal duty and mandatory upon every family, father and guardian. And in the Hadith, Allah Almighty says Murdoch or Robert E Lee ibdv che in a heartbeat II mythology to who Ali

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the greatest thing that you can do to make Allah love you and will bring you closer to Allah Subhana Allah is fulfilling what he has ordered you to do offer in the form.

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Then afterward he can compete with others were the guards to and now if in voluntary acts, but what yields the greatest reward is offering and fulfilling the farm what Allah the Almighty have made it mandatory.

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So it is not befitting for a person

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to leave his family members in a financial dilemma and borrow money to go for Umrah or Hajj. No, you don't have to. You're exempt

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when he left here

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Allah Nursia Hadoop at many stata ala ye sebelah.

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So Al Hajj is duty, only when you can afford. Similarly Allama

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ye borrow to perform Umrah, Pa ye put your family and family members in a financial restraint because you need to perform ombre once and twice and several times the priority is to provide for the family but Alhamdulillah if you will off and you can afford both go May Allah Almighty accept because a never use Allah Allah Allah Salah mercy Therby are all banal Hijri Allah for in Noma, young fear and in fact, Cora was no, because following up on him performing her general Umbra eliminate two things poverty, and since I'm saying this because I know that some people who are very eligible for financial help, they're abroad, they cannot afford to pay the rent. And they come when

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they're taking their you know, their monthly welfare. They say, I would love to perform Hajj. Can you help me to perform Hajj? Yeah, if I have the means, and if I'm sending somebody, but why would you borrow to perform Hajj while you're not required to do that?

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And you're not expected to pay the loan that you took in order to perform Hajj or Umrah and what are you going to leave behind for your family members. When you broke you don't even have a job you don't have a steady income. So Allah subhanaw taala emphasizes the fact that lay you can live Allahu nevsun In WUSA and inland Taha. As we mentioned, Ilana if you swallow to pull off an animal civet, while Ilsa by the end of Surah Al Baqarah Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah briquette

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brother Acaba, Salaam Alaikum Welcome back

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brother Akbar Salam Alaikum

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Yes, I hear you now go ahead.

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Okay, go ahead and present your question I hear you.

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Can you brothers calling the question from Allah Akbar, please, you can have a better access to him. I will appreciate that. Just like Kamala Harris. So it can leave your question with the control they will convey your question to me in sha Allah.

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In this regard, the prophets Allah Allah, Allah SlMs, heed Kapha Bill Maher is man Anubha. Yeah, man near court. It is

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enough as a sin for a person to waste those who are under his guardianship.

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Just to go without giving them a message. Go and say I'm just going feasibility law. This is feasibility law as when

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looking after your family members providing for them is feasibility law. And now it is a priority. It can be otherwise whenever jihad is prescribed. And it is a mandatory upon every single individual such as when the enemy is, you know, martial in Muslim land, then it becomes a duty of for Muslims to defend themselves. But I'm talking about some cases where people, they literally escape the responsibility. They just disappear.

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And they do not even call their family members. They do not. One sister told me that

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I'm a revert.

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And I got to know this person and they accepted Islam, and I traveled, I came and I live with him. Then all of a sudden he said I'm going feasable Allah and he left $0 to me. I don't work. And I don't know anyone in the country. He can even pay the rent, and he disappeared. Okay, I don't hear from him. I don't know whose phone number I don't know how to reach him. Where is yet I don't even know whether he is alive or dead. I want to move on. What do you think? Can I simply just, you know divorce him or get married. I want to move on with my life because I don't have a guardian. I don't have somebody to support me financially. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said it in this

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regard. Kapha Bill Maher Essman Anuga Yeah, Manuel, look at the right setup.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said and there will be some a hadith and disregard shortly inshallah will be studied. Man holla fella ASEAN Fei Li nama versa. If somebody has to join the army and went for jihad, and he has family members who do not have support

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Somebody said, I'll take care of him. He the person who's supporting this family financially, and then Mujahid the person who went to fight feasability law on the battlefield and even was martyred, for whom I feel edgy. So up, they get a similar word. Because here is a responsibility must be taken care of. So in fact, when people just dumb, the responsibility, a look for an easier task before Allah subhanho wa taala, they are totally responsible. There is of course,

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a wise way to go about things like that, but no way that you can just DME your family members, your youngsters, and disappear without notifying anybody what you're going to do or who's going to provide for the family, or make a deal with somebody that you know, I'll be here if somebody can look after my family and provide for them.

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What about the following hadith is another beautiful Hadith, and it is in the same line, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said in Hadith number 290, and we Abdullah

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while you call hola whoever Abdur Rahman so Ben in Bush dude. Now la rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah Salam. We spoke about Sal ban before repeatedly and generate some very interesting Hadith from him. May Allah be pleased with him. He said, all our call our soul Allah His Allah Allahu Allah yo Selena F caldina In Yun fipple Raju, Deena en une Philco who Allah yearly. Where do you now noon? ficou Allah Betty he feels heavy Illa What do you know when you don't feel Kahala as heavy fee Savini layer

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and the meaning of this hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said

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the most excellent DNR is the one

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that a person spins

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on his family and at the knob, which he spins on his mount or animal which he rides in jihad on the battlefield, and a dinner that he spends on his companion in the way of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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So we're talking about nasaka, filled Jihad spinning

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in order to join a Muslim army to fight for the sake of Allah on the battlefield. It requires spending of course, right. And in rosewater book, which is known also as virtual rostra. The Battle of hardship, which was the last battle that the Prophet Salah Salem attended on the ninth year after the migration, it was not as low as water loss or hardship. Because it was a year of drought. It was before that it was drought and the fruits just started to boom. And the companions were hungry, and there was a communist due to poverty. Then some companions could afford to fund themselves to join the army and of man in our fan funded like 1/3 of the army and Roebuck donated his entire worlds and

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Omar Mahatama donated half of his wealth. And some companions came by themselves.

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Because they had none as far as an Africa or spending, they did not have any money. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam dismissed them. He said, As you do, man Millo Komali cannot even afford to get you a ride a camel, a mule or a horse. And this is such a long journey. It took them 15 years one way 15 days one way to travel to the book 15 days. Then similarly another 15 days and they're eager have arrived because you're fighting.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam and said Let as you do mero Kumala cannot afford to take you with me because I don't have right for you. Each three used to alternate on the back of right a camel or a horse that will allow the field women at them and Allah subhanaw taala recorded that in the Quran to be recited until the Day of Judgment. Wala Latina either I'm at Kelley, Milan, Altair leggi Duma mula Kamali theworld field Domina Demi has an allergy do my own fuel code so that it Tober

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there is no blame upon those who when they came over a new era Salalah Take us with you he Sevilla

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is dismissed them because he didn't have the means a settler

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As you don't matter if Morocco, Mali, they were low. So they turned around, they went home, while their eyes were overflowing with tears out of sadness, sorrow because they were poor, they could not afford to join you to the battlefield. This is the true sincerity. So those people, even though they did not go anywhere, they did not spend a penny but because of their sincere intention, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam assayed in nebulin, Medina, Tina son, there are some people in Medina, any valley that you crossed any mountain that you climbed any path that you've taken, they have been with you, Shara COCOMO edge, as far as reward, they maintain the same reward but they couldn't come

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why because they had a valid excuse they could not afford it, they did not have the means.

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So if you don't have the means you don't have to hear the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, considering a jihad is the utmost and the highest peak of this religion. And then he says In another Hadith, which is narrated by Taliban, that spinning on their family members, is a greater word than simply spending visa vie Rila, or on your right visa villa on your companion or another soldier fee sebelah. Just to make the believers imagine how important it is to sacrifice for the family, how important it is to work hard to provide for your family, and to have the upper hand which is dearer and more beloved to Allah. While he had earlier higher Amina lady Sophia, what the man told the

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upper hand before Allah is better than the lower the upper is what she gives, the lower is the hand of the beggar, then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam assayed the upper hand is dearer to Allah than the lower hand. And if you were to give begin with those whom you're responsible for the provision if the demand down to be continued in sha Allah in the next episode, until then, brothers and sisters are photocopy the handout we're stuck for Allah honey welcome, well SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad, wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam, wa Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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Love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. People want me to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God is the greatest

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glory to him

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is to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise, where shipping comes from as thought stones, sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting about how bad guys are shipping cause fire and stores selling the best were the cheapest