Final Words of Wisdom

Mufti Menk

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The speaker discusses his past study on the deen of Allah and how he specializes in reaching out to haters to make them prove to them that Islam is a beautiful religion. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging one's own weaknesses and the need to heal one's physical well-being. He also talks about healing broken hearts and the importance of being balanced and holistic in achieving one's goals.

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Can you give us some closing words of

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advice on perhaps the topics that we've covered

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or any other topic you feel fit?

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You know, you're speaking about motivation. I wanna

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tell you, we studied the deen of Allah.

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And this advice goes to those who are

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studying Islam

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and studying the Sharia, the deen, the Quran,

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the Hadith.

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When you're studying, you have a teacher sitting

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in front of you that you literally look

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up to, you take from, and so on.

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But when you graduate,

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there's gonna be a few 1,000 people,

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similar time or in the same year, maybe

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tens of thousands

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who would also have graduated having learnt

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the deen of Allah

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or Islam or the Quran and the Sunnah.

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Everyone is not going to specialize

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in the same thing your teacher did. So

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you're not gonna get everyone sitting and teaching

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the way your teacher taught. That doesn't make

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them wrong.

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We should be specializing in different departments of

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service to this

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Umma and to humanity at large for the

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sake of Allah. When I graduated initially,

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September 11 happened.

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2 years later, 2,001.

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And I remember the amount of hate that

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was directed towards the Muslims and the skepticism

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with which they were looked at. It prodded

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me to

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this

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powerful idea

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that I want to reach out to those

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who hate Islam

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and make them

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prove to them that it's actually a brilliant

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religion. It has beautiful teachings. It's not terrorism.

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It's not hate. It's not abuse. It's actually

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it has the highest level of morals and

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values, and it reaches out the most to

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everyone. So I started specializing

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in reaching out to haters.

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I worded whatever I did in a way

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that would actually be palatable to them. They

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would see a guy with a nice big

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beard because I would put a picture of

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myself and I'd say a word or 2.

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That was the beginning of social media

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like Facebook and all of that. And a

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few years later more and more,

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you know of social media came about.

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And every time I kept focus that I'm

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aiming at those who hate Islam

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and I'm aiming at those who are not

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Muslim. And then I'm aiming at those who

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are weaker Muslims

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to let them feel that you are also

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loved by Allah. You are fortunate that you're

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a Muslim. Islam is a beautiful faith. It's

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not whatever your challenges may have been that

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distanced you from your Lord. Don't let that

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actually distance you. Come back. Come slowly but

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surely your own pace. Don't let the words

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of people make you feel judged. So this

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was a specialization

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I felt at that time there was relatively

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a vacuum in.

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And so when I did this and I

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felt a lot of

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positivity came out of it, I saw haters

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move.

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I saw haters move from hate to acknowledgement.

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They'll say, I'm not a Muslim but I

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listen to this guy.

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That's because we aimed at you from 2,001.

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That's why. And we're sitting at 2024

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and you At least you appreciate guidance is

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not in my hands

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but guidance is in the hands of Allah.

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From among them many

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turned to Islam.

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There are so many who were not Muslim,

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who actually appreciated Islam. They came and and

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some of them crossed over. Not some, a

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lot crossed over. So many weak Muslims began

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to feel that in actual fact Allah loves

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us. I'm a decent Muslim. I'm a good

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person. I have goodness. Let me work on

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my goodness, improve it. Let me eradicate my

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weakness.

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That doesn't make me a deviant. I did

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something.

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I did something that I felt

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was part of my duty and I still

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do it to this day.

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And I still appreciate others who have a

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different approach. I appreciate the guy who's in

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the madrasa teaching alif and ba. I appreciate

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the the lady teachers who are teaching the

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women the rules of menstruation and so on.

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Because you know what? Everyone's doing a good

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job. I appreciate those who say TV and

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photography and all that is prohibited. I appreciate

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you. But you know what? You got to

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appreciate us too because we're also covering ground

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that perhaps you don't even know exists at

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times.

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We're treading territory that some people have never

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thought of.

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So this is why when you say that

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you know what,

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you've there's been a lot of motivation about

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Yeah. Some people say this guy is not

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a scholar, he's a motivational speaker. I don't

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mind. Say what you want. I know what

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I'm doing. I don't need to sit and

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teach the dars just the way your Ustad

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did. I don't need to do that at

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all.

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I know I did at some point, but

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that doesn't make me a person who doesn't

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know what he's doing. Who knows? I might

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know a little bit more than you do

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regarding what I'm doing.

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So may Allah make it easy. I tend

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to, you know,

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in fact the theme of this particular

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'Abdullah Aid,

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event is healing the Ummah.

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Healing the Ummah. This is part of healing

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the Ummah, where you reach out to them,

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you bring them in. The people who feel

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broken, we are here.

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You go back to my Twitter for example.

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I changed the description of who I am

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and what we're supposed to say. Say healing

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the broken heart. Have you guys seen that?

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The reason is that's exactly what we're trying

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to do. People are living with broken hearts.

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What's going on in life? Everything negative. We

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are here to help you heal

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and we're a part of you. We also

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feel broken at times. We're human. A few

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moments ago someone was saying and they asked

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a question, I can't get married. Can I

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can I never get married? And I wanted

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to say exactly what, Sheikh Adnan said. That

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you know what? The mere fact that you

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are trying is such a big act of

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worship. So keep trying.

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When you're rejected,

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how you process rejection is an act of

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worship.

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When you feel let down, how you process

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all of that is an act of worship.

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You know, some people develop an attachment with

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someone who's shown an interest in them and

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they're so excited I'm gonna get married to

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this person. And suddenly that person pulls the

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plug on them and they find they're depressed.

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You know what?

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That's because you let a little bit too

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much of you

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have a little bit more hope than you

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were supposed to have. And suddenly when it

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comes crashing, you're a human. You're gonna feel

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broken. We're here to tell you, do you

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know what? It's not too late. Let's plug

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in. Let's come with Allah. Let's concentrate on

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better things. What did I say earlier? It's

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not only about

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it's not only about

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your faith in Allah, but together with that,

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it's also about

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the concern of your physical well-being.

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I said eat well, sleep well. Put your

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phone away like Sheikh Ibrahim says, put your

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phone away. Sleep well on time. Be disciplined

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and exercise well. If you have to go

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to the gym and burn those calories and

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do what you have to, it will change

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your

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life inshallah.

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May Allah Almighty

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make us people who are very balanced, holistic,

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who can appreciate the deen and the dunya,

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who can appreciate,

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you know, the spiritual

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side of growth, the physical growth, the mental

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growth and all of that together. Because many

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times people concentrate on 1

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go wrong. May Allah forgive us all.

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go wrong. May Allah forgive us all.