Mohamad Baajour – Your Parents What goes around comes around Eid ul Adha

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The conversation covers various tech videos and recipes for a job, including a woman named Charmaine who is a teacher and a woman named Kari who is a teacher. The importance of learning from first-ever female-athlete and the second-ever female-athlete is discussed. The speakers stress the need to be mindful of what comes around and not compromise one's dees, apply deeds to their children, and pray for forgiveness. They also emphasize the importance of not compromising one's dees and being aware of one's body.
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I'm Mohammed Lala as Jesus

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Mohammed wala

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was a limp as Li Meng Ethier all along why Guan

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Gu bottom long walk bottom left

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a long

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long walk one while

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a lot

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on why Gabon long why Gabon leonine

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Gabon well

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a long while

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long like bottom left brain

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long like why

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long white kimono

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long laguan length

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along why Kumar

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hand all along why Gabon long walk

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come on let's

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log on long one long one coupon while

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a long while long one long Guadeloupe leonine

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long walk one way

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somebody's got a little over a cat

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now lucky all this beautiful faces away from the Hellfire

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some Charlotte Allah before we start I want everybody stand up because as I'm walking in I saw a lot of space

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to stand up and close the gaps know stand up and close the gaps

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does anybody here in this spot

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you see a spot in front of you please fill it up

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last year we missed foot to foot this year we got foot to foot

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close the gaps and Charla shoulder to shoulder May Allah keep us always united

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fill up the spaces to see if in place in front of you don't worry about your carpet inshallah you will get it back folded in half

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give her the same you can bring some people to the main hall Okay

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You can be seated now inshallah.

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So, solid lead

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consists of two records

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and after that a short Hotbot

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and took as they are a little bit different than what we pray usually

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because we pray them only twice a year sometimes you forget. So this is just a refresher and

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after I say Allahu Akbar technically haram, I will make seven extra tech videos

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and then we will recite the Fatiha another Surah we will go down to sujood after the second sector when I do tech immediately interCall the career of moving from the second sector all the way to the second Drakkar. After that I will be making five tech videos and then I will recite the Fatiha and another Surah and then we will do

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The HIPAA the HIPAA is an optional you can attend the hotpots recommended to attended if you don't want to attend it you could leave quietly and then after that gulaman went on Okay, ready inshallah so exercise get up again

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somebody's on the side over there the brothers can you put the light on it's right there on the wall next to you. Yes behind you right

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there's a switch on the light switch on the wall right next to you

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hola hola como

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hola my Quran

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Allah Quran

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Allah my Quran

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Allah Quran

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Al Hamdulillah here have been learning a rough rocking Maliki oni Deen II can Abu dua doing e Kunis during Dino swit auto stopping set auto leveling and

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him are you real now do we early him though all

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mukana UD doula Gina Tara Jana Lucy Herman

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with iman nori thumb Majan Jehan Yes. The moon in the hood or woman Ella hirato.

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mean fell when

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can I say

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my school?

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Golan Nomi Doha hola

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in auto Europe big one can I

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over K Pfeffer Ganesh

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Well I'm here to

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let you

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well called Auto book taboo do in

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webbing Walidah uni

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in no one

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can keep

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ahead uma Okina

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fella telco.

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Kereama walks in

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limine are rockin Welcome to rob bitter ham

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rob Peter ham

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of beer ham who came out of Danny Savi

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semi hola hola Neiman honey the

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Hola Hola

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Hola. Hola.

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Al Hamdulillah here have been learning

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rocking Maliki only Dean II can avoid doing any kind of staying if you do not sleep at all thought it was still being said all the ladies levena and him are you really gonna do really well

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on clean I mean

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yeah you

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want to come to Kumala wanna do Command V Kyren

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one a fun daddy Cafe

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don't want

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to hijack human nodes fell below Hoonah follow Tony he

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already fell Sadat can mean us all he mean when he left here on long enough sin EDA

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one more who Kavita from Bheema Taman Oh

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semi Allah halimun Hamidah

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hola hola como

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salam o aleikum wa rahmatullah

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Sena Ali kumara. Not.

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In a hamdulillah Hina stain who want to stop through when I was with him in Cerulean fusina Women say Dr. Molina Mejia de la phenom Avila when the yield lil further heard you. Were shadowing ilaha illallah wa The whole Sherry Keller were shadow animal handmaiden, added to Hora Soto and

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Hannah What if he could help you heal Kareem hunt lady in

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LA haka to call

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mo tune in

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to mostly Moon

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tech all of the community

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in either waffleh Come in has Oh Jaha weather sending humanity John. Kathy hello and he says

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what Tacoma Hannity deserve

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to be here

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in America Anna Alikum rocky Eva Yeah you have Nadine and I don't know how Okuno come said either. Use Lila come

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back home women young teen

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fellows and now the mom and dad in US local Hadith Kitab Allah will head on head to head yo Mohammed in some Allahu alayhi wa sallam or shout out to her. We're calling the 13th Bidda out in the

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field now to mama that My dear beloved respected brothers and sisters, ask Allah azza wa jal who gathered doesn't dismiss you together assume a piano will say you know Celine Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam me in Yoruba alanine

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always rotates around Ibrahim Alayhi Salam.

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Today, I wanted to approach it from a different perspective.

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Ibrahim alayhis salam conversation with his father.

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We all know that Ibrahim alayhi salam was very mature and very smart from a very young age ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada said, well taken Ibrahim Rashida, and we have given Ibrahim the consciousness to what's right.

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So his conversation with the with his father in Zurich, Miriam.

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Allah subhanaw taala told us that the conversation started. If God le Abby, yeah, Betty Lima taboo, Mariela. Yes. Now what are you? What are your Niang? kashaya Oh, my father. And look at the sloop look at the way he spoke to his father. Any the word? Yeah, but in Arabic, the utmost respect. When you're speaking to your father. You tell him Yeah, Betty. Yeah, Abby.

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So yeah, Betty. Why are you worshiping? What does not hear and does not see and does not benefit you? Yeah, Betty in near Khadija and immediately Amy, Madam yet Tikka feta, Danny de casi Rothen. Surya, my dear father, I have some knowledge that we did not have. So follow me. I will guide you to the straight path. Yeah, but the letter with the Shavon in the shaytaan akan Allah Rahmani R C and my dear father do not worship the shaitan the shaitan is this obedient to Allah subhanho wa taala? Yeah, Betty in Ahafo a Yama circa one minute ramen Fett Hakuna li shaytani Walia, my beloved father, I, I fear that punishment from the old merciful will come to you will overtake you and you will be a

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companion to the shaitan This is the briefly that conversation.

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What are some of the lessons that we can learn from this and we can apply them in our life? Because you are one Why did I pick this topic? Well, Allah He,

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the relationship between the parents and the children

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is becoming very

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Many, many, many parents are complaining about the children and many children are complaining about their parents. So I chose this on purpose because this is the most day of the year that we have many parents and many children at the same time. Number one, when you are on the hook, when Abraham Ali Salam was on the hack, you stay steadfast on the hack, and you call others to the hack he know he knew that you were he was on the hack. Second, you always start with the closest people to you after you have been guided and you are applying, obeying Allah subhanaw taala you start with your spouse, your wife, your husband, your children, your parents, and this is exactly what he did. He went to to

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his father and when you are calling especially when you are calling the parents, you multiply the gentleness by million times don't think because you memorize the surah and you memorized few Hadith and now you can you are a chef and you can have the authority to disrespect your parents. So

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we are talking about

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out the father of the prophets, the father of the duet, the father of the people calling to Allah speaking to what we call right now.

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I don't manufacture idol distributor, distributor idol wholesaler.

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Look, look look at the conversation between the best of the two ad after Rasulullah Salam to the most nonbeliever ever the soul. Shush is shirk headquarters shake headquarters, the father O'Brien and look at the method he's talking to him.

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And look at the how he spoke to him gradually, he did not come and tell him Do not worship this do not worship that and this is something for us living in a non Muslim society. When you go to the careful when you go to the non Muslim you don't say call Allahu. Allah does not know call Allah who called Rasul Allah said, and the Prophet said, Look what he did. Why are you worshiping? What does not see and what does not hear us use? Intellect use common sense? Why are you worshiping a cow? What are you worshiping a man and you're calling him the son of Allah

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subhanaw taala. This is the best method is the method of Ibrahim alayhis salam, then he told him, I got some knowledge, he did not tell him, you are ignorant, and I am knowledgeable. I am scholar I am an island. No. My father, my dear father, I got some knowledge that you do not have Subhanallah look at the sloop of Mohammed, then he advised him Do not worship the shaytaan any worship, any worship other than Allah, you are a shaitan worshiper and you worship other than Allah, you are worshiping the shaitan SubhanAllah. And then he warned him if you do that, you will be punished severely.

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When you are in the field of data,

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because at the end of the story,

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the father told him, I am going to stone you.

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The lesson here is when you are in the field of data.

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It's not a bed of roses. You will be harmed and hurt, especially from the closest people to you.

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If you are in the field of data,

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and everyone is praising you,

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you're doing something wrong.

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Because the best man ever created alayhi salatu salam, he had enemies. He had people calling him names. He had people not liking his data.

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So if everything is beautiful, everybody loves me. Something is wrong.

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And one of the most important classes that I'm also hearing a lot lately my daughter is marrying a non Muslim my this I tried so much I Subhanallah when listened carefully, my brothers and sisters when you try your best, you did not leave like they say any stone unturned. You send people to talk to them, you call them once, twice, 10 times you did everything possible to bring back that son that father that mother back to Allah and you were not successful. salam alayka

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Brahim told him. Salam aleikum.

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Wa Tassie LUCAM. I'm leaving you. That's it. The relationship that we have with our relatives depend on the relationship with Allah.

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No, Hannah is Salam told Allah, Ya Allah. This is my son. Let's save him. What did Allah say, in now? Lay Semin, Alec. He knows his son, son. He said, No, he's not from your family. Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar.

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wa sallam told Fatima about the Allahu Allah.

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I cannot save you on the Day of Judgment, law and said that they know

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your father is a chef. Your mother is a teacher of Quran. No one can help you can Lunasin be Marchesa battre Hina.

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And then look at the sloop Salam on a lake I'm leaving you my father Saramonic I'm leaving you and then when he say stuck you're like I keep making dua for them yeah Allah guide them. Your Allah protect them. Yeah Allah bring them back to the deen.

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And the last lesson is Subhanallah guidance is not in your hands.

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Is there any one better than Ibrahim alayhis salam and Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salam and no, Abraham's father's in the Hellfire know his wife and son

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In the hellfire, Mohammed Salah is Salam is uncle in the Hellfire Lutz wife in the hellfire. These are what the best of mankind the best of you the best of movies, the best of diet the best of Allah.

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What is our job to give the message to give the message constantly and beg Allah to guide but do not feel bad? If you do not see the fruit? This is only from Allah subhanho wa Taala colocado stuff with Allah the stuff you do in our food all right.

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Smilla salatu salam ala men learn to be about

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you know what triggered this hotbar

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A man came to my office and said my son 15 years old punched me in the face.

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Allah ally could not take

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my younger brothers and sisters

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Ibrahim alayhis salam

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is talking to a man that is calling to the worst thing that Allah subhanaw taala hates which is Schuck and he was talking to him in this most gentle method

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if this is the method to talk to a person of Schilke how would be the method to talk to a father who says La ilaha illallah

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a father that asks you did you pray today habibi.

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Do you have to come with me to the masjid?

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How would the method to talk to such a father?

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And listen carefully. This is my message to my young brothers and sisters.

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What goes around, comes around.

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What goes around comes around. You decide now how would you like your children to treat you? The way you treat your parents?

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You will have children treating you the same. Ibrahim alayhis salam spoke to his father. Yeah, but he Yeah, but he Yeah, but He, Allah sent him a son that told him Yeah, but if

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Allah sent him a smile, when he was asking him to slaughter him. He said the same exact word that the Rahim used with his father. He said, Yeah, oh, my beloved Father, do whatever you are commanded. What goes around comes around in good and in bad.

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Like a

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father and the son had an argument. So the son slapped his father

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so the father turned the other side so I'm sorry my father said no, no go ahead, slapped me again said why said because I'm when I was your age, I slapped my father twice.

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What goes around comes around. And to be just my last matches is to the to the parents.

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connect. And my advice to you, because most of us are immigrants.

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My advice to you please listen carefully.

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We want to apply something from 4050 years ago.

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In a different era, in a different environment. We want to apply it 50 years later, in a completely different culture, with the technology that we are seeing that is developing on a daily basis. It does not work.

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It's not going to work just like our phone in five, six years, that phone in your pocket is not going to work. So how can something from 50 years ago is going to work right now. That does not mean Listen carefully. That does not mean you compromise your deen and it's okay habibi. If you would like to pray, pray if you don't want to pray don't pray. No.

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Use different methods to make our children love Allah. Love the deen.

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Let them feel relaxed to be able to open to open to you. Ask yourself right now this question

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is my son is my daughter or do they feel comfortable talking to me about their really major problem that they're going through? Many of us say no, they don't. They're scared because they know that my reaction is very scary. I'm gonna yell and scream. Right?

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Yeah, one. If we stay with that mentality, we

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are going to lose our children. Take it easy. Your son says La ilaha illallah your daughter and your son, they pray their five daily prayers. They are respectful to you take it easy on the other stuff.

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Take it easy

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without compromising your name without compromising your deen because these children are being faced

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24/7 bombarded bombarded by propaganda to take them away from the Dean. Do not assist the shaitan and Akbar do not assist the shaitan on deviating your children be the one who they run to. They love to speak to I can't wait to tell my mother what happened today.

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Please, today is the day of aid

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make sure you make them feel it's a different day.

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Today was make sure it's different than yesterday. Let them have fun. Take them out. Buy them gifts. Yeah one. Buy them gifts. Take them to a store Baba go pick something in Sharma today's aid and Masha Allah yesterday you were fasting and I have a gift for you. Allah He the hairdo the Habu was, was excellent said give gifts it will create will create love Allah subhanaw taala protect all our children. May Allah subhanaw taala strengthen our relationship with our parents. May Allah subhanaw taala make us from the people whom they are playing. Their parents do not die except they're pleased with them. May Allah subhanaw taala make our children make our children always always trying so hard

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to please us and make us pleased with him with the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah ma fildena de Nova Nova Serafina Medina with a bit of them and I will call me Catherine Allah ma Fatima to hippo water Allah, Allah morphic Nilima to hippo Tada along the herbal Alameen Yeah, Cremona Crimean Allah hablan I mean as far as you know, whether already yet in Kurata but you little cleaner Imam, Allah hamara bene dunya Hassan, Hassan walking either Banagher Robina letters of Kaluga it had eaten will have learned I mean they don't Kurama in I can tell Wahab and my last message here one if your parents are still alive, kiss their feet.

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Allah He kissed their feet beg them for forgiveness, kiss their hands make sure they never go to sleep and they're upset with you

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the copper alarm and now I'm income coolamon went behind inshallah the children we have some goodie bags for you Baraka Murphy como Santa Monica Rahmatullahi overcut

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as wagging a woman and get a man in our home while you met who me

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