Control your Tongue

Mohamad Baajour


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when I was below him in February and fusina on say Auntie Anna Lena Mejia de la Fidel medulla OMA you'd live for fella her de Allah. Masha Allah Allah, Allah Allah wa luxury color while shadow no Mohammed and who are solo another official Han Jota if he could champion Kareem yeah hello Eddie in Turpan law have to call it while HMO tune in

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should check the community Hello welcome in Hida wahala calm in has o Jaha. Where they send in 100

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he when are

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in Namo, Hakka Marathi

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if you're in the Congo no boom when he

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also the the Hadith films and now the

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bad thing us dokkan Hadith he Kitab Allah wa halen had you had you Mohammed in someone more highly he was selling them. Well Shall we will defer to her. We're calling them just getting bigger, but couldn't be that in. We're gonna let him finish now. Some

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split his brothers and sisters I

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Ask Allah subhanaw taala who gathered doesn't smudge it together as human piano. We'll see you then mousseline Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I mean are blind.

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In many of us when I start I start with this for Allah subhana wa Tada together as with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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There will be a group

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that is so beloved to the salah Salem and will be very close to him. On the Day of Judgment, may Allah make us all amongst them, and there will be a group disliked by Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and the furthest away from him the de cada la Salatu was set up in a heartbeat come in a year. What a Kuraby Kamini image listen young woman, Kiana

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seen a come of luck.

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The most beloved to me.

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And the closest to me on the day of judgment or not the one was 70 hedge and 60 ombre

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and up all night, and he donated all his money. No, the one with the best of manners.

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Closest to Rasulullah and most beloved to him.

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We're in them in a body come we're in min a body come Elaine, what are the other con unemotionally send your woman Kiana? A thoroughfare rune when watershed Deikun well, we'll move phase A Kuhn

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and the most disliked to me on the day of judgment and the furthest away from me, or a surfer rune, the talkative the one who talked too much.

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And about everybody. Well, water should be the one who speaks with an open mouth and he pretends that he knows about everything.

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When moto Fei Khun are the ones who speak to others with arrogance. They look down when they speak to others.

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Speak to the brothers and sisters the month of Ramadan is around the corner.

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And let's make a resolution and be determined that this Ramadan, not only my stomach will fast from eating and drinking, this Ramadan will be the Ramadan of the fasting of the tongue.

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If you look at those three people who are away from Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam, they have one thing in common, they all use the same organ,

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the tongue

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they all use the tongue and the tongue is what kept him away from Rasulullah sallallahu I knew he was send them this tongue was was I sent them told us either us Bahuguna Adam for in Abba to caffeine Listen, water call it tequila Athena for in Stockholm, Stockholm. Now we're in here we're just we're judging them. As soon as I said that said every morning, when the son of Adam when all of us wake up

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all the body parts humble themselves to the tongue and say, fear Allah.

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Fear Allah and our sake. If you are straight was talking we will all be straight.

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And if you are crooked, we will all be crooked.

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We don't want to be this Ramadan from the people whom Rasulullah Cicilline said or Agasa Mm hmm hover who mean a cm a doer when

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he called him saw him.

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So as I said himself, there are some people who they think they are fasting because they're not eating or drinking. But all they get from their fasting is hunger and thirst

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mullum Yeah, the zoo one

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fillet salaallah hija fie and the other Tiana who was Sarada Khalifa go Hurry. Whosoever does not leave, forge talk, and even actions, Allah has no need for him to leave his eating and drinking. One of the seven of us to say the easiest part of fasting is to stop eating and drinking. And as some of us we said, If one organ of this body should be jailed, should be in prison. It is the tongue.

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So this is Ramadan

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We will be as Nila make this tongue fast because we will be fasting all day from halal meat

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and we ruin our fasting by eating our brother or our sisters flesh.

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This is what Allah subhanaw taala told us in the example he gave in Surah

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Al gerat

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Akbar or the Allah who

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came to the Sula Salah Salem and asked him a question that is

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on every believers night he said Ya rasool Allah min Nejat

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min Nejat what is salvation

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said and lick Eileen Kelly cernak wildly the Asaka baby took what Kiala hottie?

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Control your tongue the first one.

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Control your tongue and let

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your house suffice. You should animate said be content with what Allah has blessed you with Be content with your job with your wife, with your spouse with your children

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and cry over your sins. This is the salvation

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Jah Raj ala Rasulillah his Allahu alayhi wa sallam will con ya rasool Allah, poly fill Islamic colon la hadden Badak.

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And then kintra Silversides Salman said ye rasool Allah telling me something about Islam that I will not ask anyone

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about this other than you are after you Yeah, and in other words, he's telling him ya rasool Allah summarize this Deen for me

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Assad kill must do the old truth for the most eloquent summarize the whole Deen in four words

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call Allah Rajan call to biller sama stuck in

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the holding. Say I believe in Allah

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and stay steadfast stay on the spirit animal stalking.

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Then the man asked another question.

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Yeah rasool Allah.

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Matt, waffle Mata half Ali.

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What is the most thing that you feel I might do? In other words, what is the thing that's gonna ruin all my Islam

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or something loss Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam held his tongue and said, I'm sick i Lika Allahu Akbar. Control your tongue.

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Control your tongue.

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organ, this muscle that does not get tired.

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I and you can make it a reason to enter Jannah and the highest place in January. Or it could be the reason for me or you now have Allah to enter help.

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The most people, most people will be punished in the grave because of the tongue.

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Like the hadith of Morales, most people are thrown in hell because of the harvest of their tongue.

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So my brother and sister and symbolically cernak Control your tongue.

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armor or the law one one time he walked in trouble Becker.

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And he saw Abubaker holding his tongue

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said yeah.

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Oh Well buckle. What are you doing?

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He said this, and he had this tongue. He said this has destroyed me. Abu Bakr said that this has destroyed him. The best man after Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the one who's guaranteed Jana and not only guaranteed Jana, the only one who will be given the option to enter from any door of Jannah He wants the one who exerted every effort to save and serve this deem the one who gave all his wealth for this game. He's telling

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this has destroyed me. What do I say?

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Is it worth it? Yeah, one

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to ruin all this hassle. Not all this agile.

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With a word

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with a statement with a lever behind your brother's back.

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We worked so hard for years.

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For this Hassan ad

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we give so much money

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we fasted a lot.

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We prayed a lot.

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And when the suicide seldom said many mirthless, we all know the Hadith of the bankrupt or suicide. Salem is teaching them teaching the Sahaba and us after them.

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Who is the bankrupt?

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The Sahaba said the one who has no money.

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He said no.

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The bankrupt is the one and let the tea Mr. Yan walk he was a cat

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was hot.

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He will come on the day of judgment. He has mountains of sloth. He fasted Ramadan, he fasted Monday and Thursday. He gives the cat he built a surgeon

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and he very happy he crushed the syrup. Can you imagine crossing this era? He crushed us, right. And he saw many people falling into Jahannam, alumna, German, I mean, he saw people falling and he crossed and he's very happy because he has a lot of personnel and he got an about to enter Jannah on the counter, he found a huge line.

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What's up with all these people?

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First guy

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he spoke behind my back, you spoke in my absence.

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You were doing backbiting about me? Allah.

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Give me 10,000 Hassan.

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You lie about me. You spread rumors in the community about me.

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Come on. They keep ProSource SLMC say they keep taking from his Hassan net until the Hassanal done.

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And then they start giving him or her a lot of their say their evil deeds. And while you're thriving now, and then he will be thrown in hell.

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Allahu Akbar. unsick Adhikari Sonic colocado stuffer Allah the stuff in over one of the photo Rahim.

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Smilla salatu salam ala Mala and we

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spoke with the brothers and sisters a question

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What would you do

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if someone stood in front of you

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and started cursing the camera?

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What would you do? If you saw someone with a sledgehammer and going to demolish the Kaaba

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you will boil the worst scenario amongst the Muslims will not even dare to do something like this. Can you please move forward with us?

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The worst of the sinners amongst the Muslim will not only not do that, he will not let anyone do that.

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Can Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam er to fulfill kava while you're cool.

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Now to have a key to that

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one Valmiki winner, automatic.

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I suppose I said it was making Tawaf around the cab. And he said

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You are so beautiful. And your fragrance is amazing. And you are so great. And your sanctity is so great when I can when Nezzie Neff said Mohammed in Brd but with the one in whose Mohammed soul in his hands and his swearing by Allah, the Hermitage min I should do and the more Haman hermetic Malou who were there me? Were another Navy Hira Allahu Akbar.

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We get very frustrated if somebody dare to say something about the Kaaba Rasul Allah so I sent him was he while he's making Tawaf, he praised the camera and then he said, By Allah, the sanctity of the believer is more beloved, is more sacred in the sight of Allah then you

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you cursing your brother, you backbiting your brother. You belittling your brother, you

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enticing telling people or make them think evil about your brother? Spreading rumors?

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accusing people is worse than cursing the cab is worse than demolishing the cab.

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His blood

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and to have any doubt about my brother, always asking Ivanka VIP

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Gatti always have good doubts good thoughts about your brother always assume the best. Give him 70 excuses and when you are running out from the 70 Tell yourself maybe there is an excuse I do not know and sick either you can be cernak this Ramadan make it a Ramadan of the fasting of the tongue

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look at Ebola you are the Allahu and how he immediately there was a rumor in his community. Look at his staff did not go around and spread it.

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He went to a you know the Allahu Ana, when the rumor about Isha was spreading? He said, Yeah, are you

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if you were in the desert, alone with a man, would you do something?

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She said, No way. He said that he was better than you.

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Any good. Rumor rumors stopped. Finished. She did not say but she's younger. She's more beautiful. She's finished.

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It she's better than you if you don't do it. Then our mother the purest of all she will never do it finished. The topic has gone. Done. Not I go here I go there. Did you hear? I heard how the No, that's what they're saying. This is the worst. When you start saying I heard other No, I'm not sure this is worse than Reba. This is worse than slandering. This was called if

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what your tongue I'm sick. I legally salak

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I shall have the Allahu Ana.

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We all know the Hadith.

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Sofia walked in.

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In one narration. It says that she said she's short.

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And another narration it said she just gestured. She's short.

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Are you with me? She said the one word. Sofia. She told the salah Salem. Sofia is short. One word. Or another narration she did not say a word. She just gestured with her hand. She's short. Like this

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yeah Isha.

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Look at cool Kalama look at the quality Kalama Lucija the man in La Mesa jet. Allahu Akbar. Oh hi Isha. You have said a word. If it was mixed in the ocean, the ocean will be contaminated. You cannot drink you cannot swim. You cannot use anything anymore. One word, how many short people you have accused. How many tones that how many worse than that you accused Some people even accused others with the fact he's and when he's going after he's a hypocrite, masha Allah Now they know what's going on in the house too. They have upgraded.

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Be careful.

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Be careful. We finished two hours of data when we finished 16 or 17 hours of fasting. And then after Tara we stand outside in the parking lot. We start with the board. And then we go to the Imam and those tabs and the half is and the guy right to my right and the sister to my left and they start one by one until I make sure I have no Hassan at left.

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I lose my TM I lose my little cuddle. I lose my one word. What does that mean? No Dynamat said if it is mixed with the ocean, it will ruin it. You know what does that mean? That means you will need her SONET as much as the ocean to make it up.

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Allahu Akbar.

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You need her SONET

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to fill the ocean to be able to compensate from that word that you uttered.

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I'm cyclical Santa Clara, my sister for the sake of Allah. Think before you talk. When can you meet a biller? He will young woman after beautiful formula.

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Men can a young middle biller who will young mid air for failure configure an earlier smoked whosoever believes in Allah and the Day of Judgment. Let him say something good or just be quiet. So I think before I speak, is it good? Is it beneficial

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Bismillah if there's any harm any doubt in it, even though sometimes the information and the news are so juicy, but the shaitan wants you to speak he wants you to lose that edge. Hold back control yourself.

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Now when this thing is happening, you are one of three either you are the one talking and the whole football is about you yaki fear Allah and stop. Now you got to feed them in Colin in the day you hear of Qivana

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To no word you utter, except it's recorded.

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If you are the one who is listening,

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then you either tell the person to stop

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and if they don't you leave, or you defend your brother or you defend your sister in that absence, man rock, Dan Monroe, and all the rondalla who will show and in their young man Tiana, whosoever defend his brother, defend his sister. In their absence, Allah subhanho wa Taala will protect his face from the hellfire.

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And if you are the one that people are speaking about, share, and share. Rejoice, be happy. Free has an Earth

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has an app that your mother and your father and your kids will not give you on the Day of Judgment. They will come to you on a golden platter.

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Don't worry, brother came to me superlative there's talking about me that doing this? I'm sure you're so lucky.

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What else do you want for them that Allah subhanaw taala have dedicated these people to work for others

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and finally my brothers and sisters, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada said

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a massive tome.

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Allah subhanaw taala

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and yet guna in a small set of Rohan one as well.

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But uh, what are sunnah? That they hit me up to go on.

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And do you think that we do not hear what they're saying in secret? And in private sessions? No, no, no, we have angels that are dedicated to write down everything they say. So my brothers and sisters

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we have exhausted the angel on the left. Let's give him a break in Ramadan. Let's get the angel of the right busy

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let's get the angel on the right side busy writing all this man from Quran am pm and Saba cod and Anil salah. And let's give the angel on the left to break.

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Allah may Allah have the Alsina Tina, Yama help us God our tongues Allah who believes in Ramadan Allah whomever live now Ramadan was a nephew him in a slow Indian I will call him in was Nephi him in Otakar Kameena Neria or Hamra he mean, Allah whom they are but I mean we're *ing Alina to him bottarga Allahumma Vidin Mustafa and shayateen and NCL Jin yeah Allah keep from our community the show Yachty in from humans and from Jin ya allah unite our hearts and make us love one another only for your sake. Allah Allah Allah is one and if you had a bureau but I mean Allah, one and a few so reliable I mean, Aloha Murphy model.com well hidden motorhome with a couple Humphrey shahada

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Muhammad Rahim Allah Mara bene.

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