Mohamad Baajour – A three word Hadith that will change your life

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The importance of following advice and practicing them is emphasized in avoiding mistakes and wasting time and resources. The mirror and shattering behavior are also discussed. The importance of avoiding mistakes and making peace with everyone is emphasized. The segment ends with a discussion of the importance of good health and staying calm.
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best way

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we're gonna

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sit on a chair

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so Ali Kumar line over 100 in NA salatu salam ala Rasulillah mama aluminum and fauna on finally my Londoner Was it not in when your camera I mean we ask Allah subhanaw taala teachers would benefit us benefit us from what he told us and increase us in knowledge I mean horrible enemy. Ask Allah azza wa jal to accept all the way that we are

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performing in this month and forgive our shortcomings and make us from the people who will maintain inshallah Tada after after Ramadan Shama.

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Shama for the brothers who

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don't want to be surrounded by angels you could move to the

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entrance of the Masjid.

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allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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has been given

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many blessings by Allah azza wa jal

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and one of the great blessings that ALLAH blessed him with

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is the

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concise speech

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he says few words

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and you write books about them

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and then came and said there are so Allah

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give me or tell me something about Islam and make it short.

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He said, Evan to Allah from

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stuck the whole deen the whole Islam. He said Say I'm meant to be Latham must believe in Allah azza wa jal and stay

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stay straight. stay firm.

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He summarized whole Islam and four or five words

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and many many other Hadith that are similar sized. For example, another example the whole deal also summarized on statement

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it tequila hatred icon at best say yell has an atom haha Bacala can NASA be Harlequin Hassan that covers the whole thing. Fear Allah wherever you are,

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follow an evil deed with a good deed it will erase it and treat mankind with good luck.

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Holding books has been written about this hadith books. So the concise speech is a blessing from Allah azza wa jal to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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today's Hadith I was looking at I was checking when is the last time because I love this hadith and I love to keep repeating it. It was in 2016 in May so anything three years it's time to

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This hadith is so concise.

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Three words.

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Just three words on it. So it's very easy for everybody to memorize

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and what men

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the believer

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is the mirror

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of his fellow believer.

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If every leader follows this hadith,

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we will have peace and prosperity in all our countries. If every father follows this hadith with his family, we would have peaceful homes, if every teacher, every principle, everyone in charge, use this hadith and apply it in their life. This is the best Hadith in leadership, the best Hadith in leadership, the believer is the mirror of his fellow believer in another nation, I'll not mean that to a fee. The believer is the mirror of his brother.

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Now, the whole talk

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today will be about one word, because we all know that at the moment, so one word is repeated twice and we have only one word which is JMeter.

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And the question is why

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Rasulullah sallallahu sallam said JMeter because when the solar system says mirror, it does not mean reflection does not mean x ray does not it means mirror. Just like when he said if you did a fly in your soup or a fly fell in your suit, take it and dip it do not apply to a mosquito. So he said the fly it's a flight here he said the mirror what's the benefit? Or what's the heck map from using the word mirror

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number one,

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the mirror

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does not lie.

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Now I'm gonna tell you what, how many things we can derive from this word mirror and you instantly apply it to the believer and the believer.

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The relationship

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between or among the believers. Number one the mirror does not lie.

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The mirror does not lie. I am wearing a white thumb. If I'm wearing a white though, and I stand in front of the mirror. And if I have a stain on my throat the mirror will tell me you have a stain.

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You have a stain.

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This is the way the believers supposed to be with each other. You are doing something wrong.

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As you're believing brother as you're believing Sister, I'm supposed to tell you that you are doing something wrong

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Alma Radi Allahu and you know what he said? Unfortunately now, we do not take advice

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kindly we do not take it lightly we that the advice is so heavy on us. Do you know who you're talking to?

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Almighty Allah and on the other hand, he used to say Rahim Allah hum rain either here or you will be

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May Allah have mercy on the person who gifted me he used the word gifted me I had that from Hadia gifted me my Allume my shortcomings my faults, may Allah have mercy on him.

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Look at the mentality look at the deaf kid.

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So the minimum number one is does not fly.

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If it sees something wrong, it will notify the person the brother the one in front of it, you have a stain. But how does the mirror tell

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the person you have a stain?

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Gently right the mirror is very sensitive one double will shatter the mirror.

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Very kind the mirror is very sensitive. Similarly, the believing man or the believing woman is supposed to be very kind and very loving and very caring when he's giving advice to his brother.

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Your sister

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in Islam, she posted her picture on Facebook

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and the other brothers Masha Allah so cute.

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You look so nice, heart, thumbs up

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and you saw all this

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and that picture is without hijab without nothing and you know this is wrong. You do not support that. Like, no, you send the message privately.

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And you say my sister, this is wrong. You do not

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give the advice in public.

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And Naseeha Phil mela Aish for the her

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giving advice in public is a disgrace.

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If you are not sincere, Imagine you're sitting here and I look and I say

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why are you this is not, this is a

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Privately This is what the mirror does. The mirror does not jump on you and tell you listen, you have a stain kindly to reflect the image and shows you that you have the stain. Similarly, the believer with his fellow believer, if you really if you are really sincere about getting the message or getting the advice through all the outcome depends on the method that you use. If you really want to change, if you really want to see a difference in the way you give that advice. And we have Allah subhanaw taala have explained to us in the Quran, the best example ever, and we have mentioned it many times before. We'll repeat it one more time. When he sent he sent

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the worst man ever created. frown.

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He is the one who said another book on will Allah.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala could have destroyed him with with Cooney. He could have destroyed them completely. No, no, no.

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What did he do to prophets?

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He sent him to prophets, Musa and Harun alayhi wa sallam, and what did he tell them? To the colon? The Hina

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speak to frown. Kindly. Yeah, Allah. He's saying, well, and heritage Raymond. He's saying, Look at me, I own Egypt, and the rivers run under me and I am

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I don't know any any law other than me, your Allah and you send him to prophets. And you tell him speak to him gently. Do you see the way we talk to each other? You have one that brother that you're talking to so harsh.

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He's not saying another book will Allah he's saying Subhanallah

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and you're still talking to him so harsh as if he's a he's a criminal. As if he has a calculator as if he has emotional IQ. And he's your brother. Yeah, he's your brother. Fear Allah. Allah movement awkward woman this is your brother. This is your brother and

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he's your mirror.

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put him down you will disgrace him you are disgracing yourself, he's your mirror.

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So number one the mirror tells the truth number two the mirror gives the advice gives the reflection gently and kindly. Number three

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the mirror does not exaggerate the size of the stain.

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You have this much stain.

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The mirror will tell you that the stain is this much does not tell you that the stain is this much this much. What does that mean? How do we apply it and the movement?

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If somebody commit a small sin Yeah.

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You walked into the masjid with your left foot

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Habibi walk into the masjid is with the right foot. We advise our brother kindly gently you're making it as if he has made this route to start you Subhanallah

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he the minute will tell you exactly the size of your

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stain of your mistake. It will give it the right proportion. And not only that, listen carefully and the mirror not only shows you have a stain, it also shows you that the rest of the thumb is all clean

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this is another problem we have when we see a fault with a brother that's all we see. We see that stain we forget that the whole third is spotless. is shining is bright is beautiful, smells great. No No the stain will have a stain you will did this years ago.

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We keep it in mind we do not see the good

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mashallah brother in Hamden and not too bad. I mean, you come to the masjid, but you know what, please? chama fellas slow down in your salad. Not like you know, what's wrong with you praying so fast? This is not the Salah and mentor a customer of Africa. You're a Kaffir What are you doing in the masjid? What about all that stuff yaki? 1617 years old. They are coming in America to make a decaf.

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Are you are you comprehending? We have kids in America? 15 to 1718 years old and 14 years old, making a decaf decaf. I only heard the fatty calf when I came to America. I never heard of it. Kevin our country and our country Lebanese people make it tough in the clubs and so for our people to of course, not only when you have a lot of great people

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Other ones anybody? Lebanese?

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Subhanallah when we should appreciate that and encourage them and it's okay look at the White. Don't look at it. He ran. He jumped he did this. Yeah, okay. Yeah. Okay.

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People are begging their children to pray. Our children are coming to the masjid. You should Wallahi

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thank them, encourage them sit down with them teach them yeah for you out of the older one you are the wise one. Not to take so long so the mirror not only does not only see the stain but it also shows that the whole thing is beautiful.

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The mirror

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when you clean 10% of the stain, the mirror tells you you're clean 10% Masha Allah Allahu Akbar go ahead

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the doesn't keep remind me Oh, you still have the stain? No, no, it tells you

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you can 50% you wish to smoke one package of cigarettes. Now you're smoking them only 10 cigarettes. Now shall not continue to brother not like you still smoking.

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This is the mirror what does that tell us that tie they use that term for a reason. He's used that term for a reason. The mirror tells you encourages you keep going in sha Allah Allah Allah keep cleaning soon will be no smoke tree. Keep going

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Subhan Allah what an example from a soulless Isola.

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Now this is the most important part.

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The mirror I'm gonna let someone

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repeat them all at the end of

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the mirror.

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Listen carefully, does not store the image

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I'm looking at the mirror.

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And there was a stain and I left. The Korea came and looked at the mirror the mirror does not tell him. It should have seen the film of his tears by Sure. It stained disgusting and he's pretending to be clean. No, no, no, no, nothing happens.

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You leave Delete.

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When someone else comes, she will never bring up what happened before.

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Another huge problem.

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Did you see you should have came few minutes ago

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and seen the stain? I saw him with my own eyes doing this. Yeah, he you see even if you see Russell was I sent him a man came to him and he said yeah rasool Allah

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I did something wrong with the woman was flawless. I said I said maybe you just kissed the Rasul Allah. I did something wrong. He may be just such He's telling him and as soon as SLM is finding excuses for him. We immediately go to the false wrong assumption immediately. Sue is

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suing them immediately.

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No benefit of the doubt at all.

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At all

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while the mirror

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the minute you leave from from in front of it, everything is gone.

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It will never tell the other person

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what the person before was wearing. What color nothing at all is done. When someone comes and tells you a secret, Please brother do not tell anybody. This is an Amana you do not go and every time someone comes I want to tell you something but do not tell anybody

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so who's gonna repeat them for me? I'm the son of

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the minute. Number one

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that's the truth

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of energy.

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Does not

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okay, does not exaggerate

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that does not distort the image. What else?

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Exactly. There's also the good part and the bad part.

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The mirror

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will talk to you or will tell you

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of what you came to discuss.

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If you have stain in the back, the mirror will not bring it up.

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Remember last year

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it's all true. All Subhan Allah my Intercon lover

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Remember last year you came with the same problem? Again? You're coming back again? No, no, no does not bring up the past. If something in the back something in the middle. That's it. Let's discuss this. Let's discuss this.

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You came to discuss this thing. We're going to discuss this thing, you might have something in the back, we're not going to discuss it.

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What else does the mirror do?

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Who's going to help me?

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What else?

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I can hear you.

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The closer you are to the mirror,

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the more faults you will see.

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If you bring the closer the mirror very close to you, you'll start seeing things that

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you might not be able to see if the mirror was far.

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What does that mean? In our case?

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Who's your friend?

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The true friend, the true friend? Is the friend that reflect the right. He does not hide. Because he's very close to you. He knows that these things are wrong. He does not tell you no, no, no, no, there's nothing wrong. He's very close. He should be giving you more advice than this guy here.

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And the cleaner is the mirror. The better is the reflection.

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Because sometimes the mirror is dirty. It will give you a wrong reflection. You think that these things are on you? So who is your friend called him into South Africa? Come on and tell me who's your friend I tell you who you are.

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And medical Allah Genie Khalili, the person who's on the dean of his friend

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so the mirror Yeah, one, the use of the word mirror is not haphazard, just like this Subhanallah

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if we apply it, and we treat every single

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one of us if we treat each other

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with the mentality that this is this brother is my reflection.

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If I speak evil about him, I'm speaking about myself.

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He's my reflection.

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If I say the wrong things about him, as if I am saying the wrong things about me about myself.

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So yeah, one as a matter of fact, subhanAllah the stock

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one of our shoe overseas, he's a, he's a physician, and the chef at the same time, Mashallah. He was told, get up and tell us something about leadership. He was the Sheikh was telling us he said, I stood up and I said, the believer is the mirror of his fellow believer. And they looked at me and said, How's that with leadership? Can you imagine every leader treat his people like that? He speaks to them gently. He advised them kindly. He showed them the good and the bad, and he does not exaggerate.

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Can you imagine what kind of system we would have at home at work in the masjid in the community.

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So we have one, memorize the simple Hadith. Men mirror at mirror at Al movement. The believer is the mirror of his fellow believer. Let's reflect the right image about each other, especially in this blessed month. Let's Be kind to one another. Let's put our problems behind us. Let's turn a blind eye and not be picky about everything. Do not let the shutdown come between us. Ask Allah azza wa jal in this desert nights you know some people one brother is telling me today I cannot wait for the eighth it is good feeling to look forward for that. But you know what?

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Didn't you notice that? Ramadan has brought the best of you

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know Madonna has brought the best in us the best. Many of us have never been to Fisher. Look at us now coming to Fisher and steam teacher Rogan has an ombre and Quran SubhanAllah. So don't say that Yola tumor. No, no, these two days. You have a guest that is about to leave. The guest is about to leave. Yeah. When he came to Yemen to do that. So quick, very quick, very fast. And he's leaving already. And like we said yesterday, he will come back, but I don't know if I'm going to be here, or you're going to be here when he comes back. So those two days left or whatever the days left, please

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Take advantage of every single moment. Make peace with everybody that you know, you never know. Subhanallah we fight with one another sometimes we have arguments. And if someone if that person dies, we will be in the first round Janessa

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we will be the first people making that we will be the people carrying the body putting it down. Yeah for you, let's make peace before we go under the ground. Let's make peace when we are above the ground in sha Allah. May Allah make us from the people who listen and apply. May Allah forgive all our sins. May Allah subhanaw taala strengthen our iman May Allah subhanaw taala accept all these evident that we have done. May Allah accept all the DUA and answer all the DUA that we have made Allama Felina the Reuben by Serafina Marina with a bit of stamina and sadhana alchemy, caffeine, Allah morphic Mani metalhead boo, what are the Allama? Malema? waterbar just quickly, two weeks ago,

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not last Sunday, the Sunday before that. I promised the brother and brother Jamil reminded me he said you said you're gonna teach us about cancer. And then Dr. Yasser came and took my spot last week, so I will not teach you that. How can we make it

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avoid cancer or be cured from cancer? You want it this week? We'll keep it next week in JAMA.

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Today you sure

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next time Oh god. No okay. So Allah

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Allah Hana

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in our become this part we all know Right? Because ultimately I will become an combinatoric Chava Do we have any there are many who are stuck like this Aloma in me I also become

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mentally Barassi the words the words are not easy I'm telling you from them that easy. Mineral Barassi will giannone will do them

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this has nothing to do with cancer yet. Now here's the cancer coming wanting to see in Eskom

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women say in Eskom Ya Allah. I seek refuge with you from Subarus.

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Leprosy, leprosy,

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Insanity Junoon we all know is known to them to them is

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true. I think wisdom is leprosy. And Boris is

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what's the closest translation to Boris?

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I know I saw that word. I couldn't read it. But is it

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Luca Derma. Whatever that is, keep it away from us.

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Even in Arabic or English doesn't sound

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so allow me to become mentally Barassi.

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Anybody, whether it be a biller, he's going to send it to everybody Barassi will Junoon will do them those three diseases. So as soon as I send them started with

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and then went to general Allama now to become an albatross, he will you know when he will do that, we'll do them do that with Adama on the Jeem one in St. Louis as calm and ya allah from all the evil diseases, cancer, leukemia, you name it, tumors Subhan Allah one imagine that every such day every day I say that Allahu Akbar, in sha Allah Allah Allah Allah will protect me from all these diseases that are spreading every one of us know someone has a cancer right Subhan Allah. So Allah Allah in the middle Barassi will giannone will do them women say in Eskom and from the oil Eskom is diseases women say in Eskom and from the evil diseases from the evil really heavy this is not talking about

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headache or a small fever or no no mean say Ill Eskom ya Allah I seek refuge with you, you are the Shafi your Allah keep all the evil diseases away from from me say it yeah when you're soju anytime you make dua inshallah Tada with your team, when you make dua and I will finish with this Subhan Allah, when you make dua,

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I want you to have

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so much certainty,

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that the DUA will be answered the same certainty you have when you are fasting, that Mercury was coming.

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When you are fasting, right, we are all fasting now.

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How sure you are that negative is coming 100%. Now that was coming.

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Similarly, when we make the DUA, make the DUA with that yaki that mercury is coming the DUA is going to be answered. Because I'm asking al Qadir al Qaeda we have him fired Lima you read al Hakim, a Shafi.

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The all powerful

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without this kind of your kin, Allahu Akbar. May Allah subhanaw taala unite our hearts may Allah forgive our sins. repeat one more time. Allahumma inni Aldo Vika Mina la Rossi while giannone will do them, women say you're a scum and if you were Allahumma inni DECA Mina Barassi when Junie will do them women say last calm 11 Words 11 Words How long is going to take us to memorize them 11 minutes in sha Allah Tala practice them through in sha Allah Zakon lockup. We will continue over there. We're about to get to the whole nine so Chava he will join us Subhanak along with the show the lie that he learned stuff

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