Mirza Yawar Baig – Ramadan 2024 Reminders #16

Mirza Yawar Baig
AI: Summary © The speaker advises not to get involved in food and to focus on pleasing Allah by providing a fancy meal. Shaitan's actions can damage the fasting habit and lead to pleasing and becoming a nuisance. The speaker suggests simple things, like praying Taravi, to change behavior and become better.
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My brothers and sisters, I remind myself I

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knew that Ramadan is

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about fasting. It is not about feasting.

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So don't get involved in food.

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I know there are people who for example,

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samosas.

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When I was living in the there was

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this place which the shop which, sold samosas.

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There would be literally a riot in front

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of that shop every

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day in Northern.

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People fighting each other, parking cars in all

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kinds of odd ways, yelling and screaming at

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each other. How ugly and how dirty is

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that?

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Right? Now imagine this is that is in

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one place, but the point is that this

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kind of attitude

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of being,

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you know, overly greedy,

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of,

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demanding that your,

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if you have servants, then the servants, otherwise

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your your your people in the house, your

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your

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the women in the house who usually do

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the cooking, so your mothers, your wives,

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sisters, whoever,

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that they should provide this fancy meal. And

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so, therefore,

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at the time of iftar,

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which is the time for making dua, closer

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to that time, all through the day, they

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are also fasting, they are also Muslim.

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Instead of focusing on

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more Ibadah, more

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Quran, more Zika,

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instead of focusing on

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pleasing Allah

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about, they are focused on pleasing you, and

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they're focused on providing this great meal. Otherwise,

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you would become a nuisance in their lives.

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Please don't destroy yourself.

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Shaitan has a way of destroying Amal.

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Either he will prevent you from doing the

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good deed or he will adulterate that good

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deed and he will corrupt that good deed

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by something which reduces the reward that you

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would have got. Don't allow shaitan to do

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that. One of the finest and most successful

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ways in which Shaitan

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adulterates and destroys and corrupts our fasting is

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by this,

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by people fighting over food, by people putting

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unnecessary pressure on

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people in the home to provide these fancy

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meals.

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Please keep it simple.

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A simple sahu,

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simple iftar,

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and then go and pray taravi. It is

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good for your health, it is good for

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your belly, it is good for people. In

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the Masjid, it gives you concentration in salah.

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You're not getting tired, you're not yawning, and

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you're not,

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you know, suffering from excess eating.

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Keep it simple

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and leave

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your family, leave if you have servant, leave

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your servants,

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Leave them, give them free time also

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to please Allah

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Let them be focused on pleasing Allah. Then

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then then they will make dua for you,

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for your

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ibadah also to be accepted.

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Don't put pressure on them.

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The idea is to change our behavior and

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become better, not worse.

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