Seerah – Know Your Messenger #2

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Alhamdulillah salat wa salam O Allah Rasool Allah

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eyeshadow Allah ilaha illallah wa kadavu luxury Allah, wa shadow Mohammed Abdullah, who were a pseudo Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala Sayidina Muhammad Mohammedan fil a willing Allahumma salli Sallim wa barik ala Sayidina Muhammad in Phil, Philippine Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala Sayidina Muhammad in film Allah Allah Allah, Allah Muhammad in

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Colombia Hello, my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam as salam aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.

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This is lecture number three, talking about the biography of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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we titled it know your messengers, like you know your Lord, you should also know your messengers. And we mentioned in the introduction to the series,

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that when we're carry the f4, to the graves or into the graves, so panela one of the three questions is about your messenger is about Rasulullah sallallahu oleoresin. Who is your Lord? What is your deal? And matter who do I know virtually lady boy is a fake?

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A lot of Muslims, they are under the impression that the question will be who is the messenger know? What would you say about them and how they love Elvira if no fee hollyfield mishor This is the wording of a little bara ignacy that the angels will ask that this is what will you say about the man who sent to you? What would you say about him? Matt of Hulu, virtually a lady boy is

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the one who was sent to you. And we remind you we have been Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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is mandatory, you must have a portion of love, a quantity of love in your heart towards the Messenger of Allah.

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And that quantity actually must supersede must exceed any other loved or beloved item in your life are individual.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, you know none of you will believe unless I will become more beloved to him than

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merely he he one nasty admin.

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To the extent that Omar came to him, he said you're a surah La La Habra, La Jolla min coolish a Elana FSI

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you're more beloved to me than anything else except myself.

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Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam said to him, No, you must love me more than you love yourself.

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enamel hatachi Rahim Allah. He explained that by saying where your knifes would be, has it been for the guidance which Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam brought?

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will witness belay Eric has it been for Islam? Where would you be right now?

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Where would you be?

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Allah subhana wa Taala saved our neffs through the guidance that he brought to us, saved us from our neffs

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didn't he teach us

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that? Allah homiletical Neil nfcu Tom fatai who Allah do not allow my enough to take charge of me for the blink of an eye for the guidance which he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam brought to us. He taught us to keep our neffs occupied with the truth. Otherwise, our neffs will take us to falsehoods.

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while they're here, the schoolers they say if we're the neffs exactly is like a child.

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You know when you have a child around you is gonna keep bothering you.

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There they do this they do that Do you know there is a symbol thing if you do, you're gonna get relieved. Just bring a coloring book and nice colors. I want you to color that

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For

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at least 1520 minutes you're not going to hear him. And I'm going to give you a lollipop if you call it likewise your naps By the way, it Lem Tasha will have tea shalaka will walk

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more than F's has to be busy with something is not going to stay what

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is not going to stay

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mute. It has to be busy with something. Now if you don't get it busy with the truth, then EFS will get you busy with falsehoods.

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And when did we get the truth who given us the truth sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he and maybe you believe me Nina min m fusi him the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cares more for our neffs than ourselves caring for our knifes

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towards the age of 25, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, amela de tiara

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he traded.

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He started

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trading

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and he gained a very noble name. A very

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good title in America.

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And Subhanallah if when you hear of a businessman who is honest,

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and one of the things that attracts you to go and do business with that individual

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that will oh he's honest man, you know, then you go and sell and buy so he gained that name

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hadiza or Viola Juana?

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Omen momineen. The mother of the believers was a wealthy woman.

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She was married twice before she inherited some wealth. She her family she is from Benim of zoom. Her family herself was wealthy family. She had money.

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And she used to do something called ill mudaraba.

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The term ill mudaraba What is it? It's one of the titles for business dealings. Basically, someone has cash has asset has money. He doesn't want to work with it. He gives it to a businessman. He goes and sells and buy and he receives a portion for his effort. There's like two individuals, someone comes with the money and the other one comes with what the experience and with the time and they she

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when she heard about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam and his reputation.

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She sent for him

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in order to take one of her caravans to a shop

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to sell and buy

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and because of his reputation.

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She became interested initially in him

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but yet, she wanted to verify.

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So she used to have someone working for her Olam Jani, whose name is my Salah, or my Sierra, one of the two men I use.

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She said to him,

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keep an eye on him.

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Not in the sense of I'm afraid he's going to do something. I just want to verify what I heard about him.

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And this is very small Do

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you know traveling in Arabi is called what?

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What? What is the verb for traveling and

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suffering? You know why it's called suffer

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mean as seen suffer.

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Li n who use fear juanma Idina region

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when you travel with somebody

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traveling normally

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reveals the person to you

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because traveling is not easy.

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You know, the people that you know locally and you think they are just take a trip with them

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before you pass any judgment, that's why one of the most beautiful covenants or connection that you have with another Muslim when you go to Hajj together

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but you don't end up fighting that you go highs together and you come back well

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because Subhana Allah

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During

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it, because there are situations where you're so much overwhelmed by what you're going through. You just reveal yourself you don't have time to what

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to act up

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to break in.

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You just the way you are

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very radical in

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some of the scholars that you mentioned to situations can show you the caliber of the man.

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Whether he is truly a man in the sense of men who are not one of them traveling, or when you get him angry

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when he becomes angry,

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see what he will do.

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Or Cobo and watch him when he gets angry.

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If he's really strong,

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a man of Might and carriage is supposed to do what

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if he had if he hadn't macom mahakala Rasulullah What did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam say about this? intimate lady says shady do beshara

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Indeed, the truth strength or the strong person is not the one who beats everyone down or the one who yells loud.

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While at kin Nasha de the lead the amlak nafsa who were in the lava

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but the strong person is the one who controls himself when he gets angry.

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hotter in the gang language if you guys been around some gangs they tell you the weakest person in the gang the weakest member in the member of the gang is the loudest

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normally the guy who's really top notch gang guy he's very quiet

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you guys watch the Godfather? No, I'm just kidding.

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So I was just like to watch the ITV I can buy I'm staying in a hotel so

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so I when I heard about the what's happened in Egypt so Dennis alanya from Melbourne.

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So I'm trying to find some how the in the news is circulating in here for Subhan Allah I I saw Albertine with a mandala. There's the movie. I think they show it in Thanksgiving and they say all day long they advertise all day long. The Godfather as his man has interesting.

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That's, you know, the token of gangs in, in in a

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nice era Nasara came back,

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bracing Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam in his character to have deja.

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Yeah, and he he actually added some is very tolerant. He's very let go. Very forbidding.

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He is good in buying people like to treat with him and historically braising him raising his character to hurry Dorothea Lavanya she became 100% interested in him.

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She used to have

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a friend. Her name is Nafisa been to Moana Beach.

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And she started sharing with him sharing with her, her feeling regarding Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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Nafisa took the initiative.

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And she went and she approached Rasulullah Salallahu alaihe salam. And she asked him, you're 25 years old. How come you're not married yet?

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He said, laser in the mail. attesa was Ruby.

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I don't have anything that you know a women in it to give her mother that worry. And you need to give and give and prepare. I don't have any.

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I am a pool individual like you see.

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She said, either cafe you too can either look at it as Oh, what

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if I bring you a wife who will accept you the way that you are? will you get married?

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He said yes.

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And she presented to him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. hadiza Ravi

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lavonne Mini. He took his family, his uncle obatala

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and his elders from the family and they went and proposed to hadiza the marriage proposal was accepted and he married her.

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Yeah, what I have is our milk filler Hibi

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ally,

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Marion Khadija rhodiola Juana

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is the ideal thing for Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam at this stage,

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when erlenmeyer pollun, either Aurora de la who Shea and he

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now, Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam, the next 10 to 15 years is going to go into that

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early stage of

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starting to reflect and contemplate, which will finally lead him to receive revelation from Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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Now, at the time, you need an experience experienced women

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older than you,

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older than you, because normally the women when she is older than you, normally, she will not demand a lot of you.

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If she's young, she will demand a lot.

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And if you really wanna know this, see when he came back from the cave,

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terrified, afraid, sallallahu alayhi wasallam, that the experience that he had, was not the one that he was informed of, because there was a possibility. The Arab, they were aware of jinn and the connection between jinn and the human they know about it. He was afraid that jabril was a genie

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who came and whispered to him, or he spoke to him.

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She assured him she

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said, betat, who affirmed him?

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Your style, your thigh

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is not the thigh who gets visited by Jin.

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You're a good person.

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You uphold your kinship ties.

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You help the destitute.

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You stand for the truth. You're generous for your guests,

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to your guests, and so forth. She reminded him not only this,

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she took him

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to her relative water cup, no, no.

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Sorry, someone who used to write the Torah.

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And in some fr he was Christian.

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He actually disbelieved

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and immediately he also assured him affirmed him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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Oviedo,

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just to show you that it is permissible sometimes. Jani, this is in relation to Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. But it is permissible sometimes that you can go and seek marriage of that time to achieve a certain goal.

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Jani fucus Abdullah haddenham are the Allah one. The father of jabil

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laughter us loafie Muslim, Imam Ahmed

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quoted all what I'm sharing with you right now.

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The Night of the Battle of offered

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Abdullah Abdullah haram

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called upon his son Jagger's sakala he said to him Yamuna year, my son

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in knee arani our Luma nuke Terada I have that feeling of I'm gonna be killed tomorrow. I'm gonna die tomorrow

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Sahaba

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out of this world, out of this world

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the same one who did this is Roberto milawa.

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He called upon our blindness vida son para una

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muy buena, my son

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tomorrow.

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Two types of people will be killed because this was this was in German Morocco.

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Want to get there?

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Tomorrow two types of people will be killed Mr. volume and we're a meme of Luma whether he is wrong gang, somebody or who's being wrong

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we're in the era

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of Luma and I will die tomorrow

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being wrong.

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We're in LA.

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I have a lot of debt already my son

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for at the Anita II pay off my debts.

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And at any time

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you have no money to pay back my debt to get all your clean, nasty after the uncertainty. Anytime that you run through Yani no cash to pay the debts back.

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Go to the Kaaba and say

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at the end is Ravi Deena.

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Oh Allah Who are the molar officers

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pay back the debt official ways

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to live Nice job obeyed. The sun swears by a law

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that anytime people come to collect the debt and I have nothing to pay, I would go make this too. I come out. Some people come your father or we owed your father this money.

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The job Jagger's. His father said to him Yamuna

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in arani, our romaniuk Terada

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it looks like I'm going to be amongst those who will die tomorrow or the first to die tomorrow.

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We're in this sadhana tin. I have nine daughters jabber Abdullayev. nahama had nine girls imagine nine girls and jabber was the last and the youngest of them. He was a young man.

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Imagine having nine daughters theory why a six just to be

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truthful in delivery. But see rewild Matura nine girls

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take care of my girls.

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Take care of my daughter, you're the man take care of them

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and pay back my debt.

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So hon Allah He was killed the following day.

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The

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his daughter's f4 came rushing, crying, crying crying

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for her so sallallahu wasallam looked at them and he said that kena who I will let Akina

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you cry over him or you don't cry over him. While law here jab by Allah Jabba McCullough Allahu la Julian Keifa Han seafair han the vine without a villian except your father.

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A mother in law spoke to him without what

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have you.

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For Carla? He said to him, yeah, I've done law terminally

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imaginable allies asking you Yeah, Abdullah Mika wish,

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what was the wish of Java what

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would he do an Oda Illa dunia I would like to go back to the do need

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to make some more money.

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So aka lo fi savvy and to die again in your course.

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Then I go back then either again and of course.

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I must say this one No.

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Because I have already ordained that no one dies, comes back into this dunya.

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is Sherry days go back?

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Rasul sallallahu alayhi salam was one in was in one of their battles

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for Subhan Allah in spite of him being the leaders imagine this, but yet he would. After the battle is over and the army is departing he would go actually and check the place with maybe somebody forgot something. He would actually stay behind salatu salam in order to a you know when you're camping someplace you could forget your soul. You could forget your shield something so you would pick it up

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for his riding his Camelback or and he noticed

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that somebody is beating is it was not beating. Yeah, why how omiya he's saying wow, to me. Ah, yeah. gemelli

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My camel is not writing is not

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going and he's beating the camel

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for us, oh Salallahu alaihe salam when he heard his voice from a distance,

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man and

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call a jab will be B Abby and our own mia rasulillah

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am Jabba the adea enter Romeo rasulillah Why did he say Jabari Who?

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One day jabber came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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and he knocked on the door

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for so Solomon's insight

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for men men will bear who's standing by the Lord. What did you ever say? Anna?

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Melville back Anna. And that means what? That was what this is going to help you say Anna.

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Anna,

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Anna, Anna Anna,

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say your name when he called men and Jared will be Abby and tell me

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what's wrong with you?

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Color rasulillah I generally

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were in the high D so I didn't

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have the point of reference. That's why I'm calling the whole thing because for that for that clip here from the story, and I just married recently, and I'd like to go back to my what to what to my wife call me mentors.

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To Whom did you Maria Jabba call Abby Sabin and Medina.

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I married a woman who was married before

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an older women

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for color and big karoon.

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To lay will have to lay a book. Why not a Virginia Java? How come you went and man color Rasool Allah in Abdullah Eddie Tara Kelly, this Abernethy

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my father left to me nine girls, now you want me to go and bring another girls to them? They needed more of a mother.

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She was the caliber of the generation to fill

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to fill

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shall see. sacrifice my own work.

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For my sisters, there is nothing wrong with that. My hope you go and marry someone who's young, your age 1516 years old. She also wants what?

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Likewise here Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam was in in a stage of his life. He wanted someone to take care of him. Because in

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receiving the message from Allah Subhana Allah is a lot of responsibility.

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And especially the initial stage of it.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala reburied the scene for Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to

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Yani certainly Hilton. And so panaway has the wedge. This marriage in itself refutes the accusation to our messenger

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Jani, one of the things that the non Muslims have the courage to accuse Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam with with a lower a, he's a woman person. Imagine someone at the at the age of 25 marrying a woman who's older than him, and he never married anyone with her. He only married after she passed away. If he is that time when he

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married

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the other type of women I mean the women who are young and if the matter is a matter of what of desire, but it's not about that. And if you look at the jetty Nabi sallallahu Sallam look at all his marriages. Some of them for Sushil reason was not just desire or marrying No, it was to serve the cause of our and this is something which Allah subhanho wa Taala should not Allah He fillerina hado min. This is the Sunnah of the prophets and the messengers before him.

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Ibrahim alayhi salatu was Salam. And this is in the Torah in the Old Testament, married what to

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there is nothing wrong with that.

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Do you lie His Will a man had 100 wives. I mean, you told me 100 wives, and one day he said I will visit all of them.

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In this how do you show National ambia or Santa Rosa lemon public our de la home as well Jen,

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Mrs. OGE here, as well Jen, I know your wives are not gonna let you sit in my lectures after that.

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Your wives when they hear that lecture, they will say don't ever go to that shape anymore.

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Yeah, she called you already. Allahu Akbar.

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musta get out of the

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DJ

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in the lobby. And so Pamela has status with

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a loss of Hannah Tyler Jani ladies.

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Aslam houfy sai Halima Muslim. When can Lola apollomon more Salah Sahaba Lin Abu hurayrah did not Yani

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live during that time, but he heard it from Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam that one day Khadija Ravi Allahu Allah was bringing food to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam look at

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the jabril Till's Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam heavy he had IJA

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This is how the IJA

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attack can we enter in she's bringing in a container of food for you. And water, food and water. Imagine this abloh her mineral B has Salim

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tell her that Allah is sending salam to her.

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Look at the status here are women. You know they accuse Islam of pulling down women and Yara Rabbul aalameen you blog hustler?

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Whatever she'll be baiting Phil genetti Minh Kasab

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learn asaba fi he was up and give her the glad tidings of a house engine

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made out of hallowed pearls. No noise a lot of fun because she made the life of Rasulullah so comfortable.

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You know she made it very comfortable. In LA he had Hadith at dounia mata

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this dunya can also be fun and he tymberlee but the best metab the best enjoyment in the dunya Allah to swallow

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our righteous wife the best

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event of our lie

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when you look at her, she pleases you

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will either rip down her and when you're away half your work is enough see her female she will protect her knifes her chest

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and your wealth and your children in your absence was Ella cola yes we feel sorry for somebody who's not having that at home.

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And unfortunately a lot of our issues in the massage because of this

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a lot of our lie one of the main reasons for fitting in the massage business these brothers were you know at home they don't have that piece.

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When La Jolla La La koopman bu t come second.

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Allah made for you in your homes or places where you find what second you know what second is from Sakina

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tranquility serenity peace. You enter the house right now.

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So what is what I find the second he comes here to the machine is troubled is supposed to come out of the house What? rested now he's coming out of the house what

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fell

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under elastic. Khadija is the other hand if you have trouble running, when I say

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when Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told her the message here how she responded

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she received the message that Allah sending her Salam right huh normally you should say what

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ya como Salam but can you say this to Allah

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Allah say to Allah

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Salam, the Allahu wa sallam

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Luca kala, she said to him, in Allahu wa sallam, she fulfilled

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Indeed Allah is the source of peace. I'm not gonna say Allah is Salam because it is the one we get the piece from subhana wa alayhi wa ala gibreel is Salam. alayka Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa Rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh

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and jabril also gets Salah, and you also a messenger of Allah.

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The second hanifa that we have regarding her status,

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Harajuku tolani

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como la mina mina regehr Lee Cathy's

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a lot of men reached perfection in the sense of Eman and quality and caliber, while a miracle Mina Nisa Illa Alba, but only for women attained that rank was a man ESEA beam to Moza him.

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The wife of who surrounds Maria ignitor Mr. Wahab IJA been to Hawaii without him I've been to Mohammed Salah Larissa

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one Allahu Allah in Nigeria

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at the hadiya

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Imagineer where they eat when she died is called the day that they use what am what am I

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imagine as Lucille described the year in which Khadija passed away to be the day the uniform

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of sorrow

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Virginia one in this is a message that goes to the specially our youth

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who seek wives. And fortunately,

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they go after that concept of love.

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Which is promoted through the movies. The Hollywood and Bollywood.

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Lola Baby, baby. Your hair is eyes. Your hair is dark. Your blue eyes will eyebrows. Ooh,

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that's lost. We'll call this loss from love. Listen, this is important. Don't downplay that. Don't.

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In the movie Rob No. shabaka magic fnsa when he Bravo's to a woman from unser Rasul Allah Sallam asked him Did you look at her? Go look at her make sure that you like her buddy. Yeah, animal Africa. So it's important, but that's not it. Because that stuff normally what

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disappears.

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Somehow things happen.

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After a couple of

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Yeah, and he is. This is by the way, if you get two years, sometimes couple of month. Just change things change. So what will stay

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imagine?

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Like I said, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam never married. While Khadija is alive. He married multiple marriages after her death.

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Here's what he said. The only virgin but was also lasala married.

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You know what she said? What law he by a law married to mean a hiding minister in the Guevara team headed

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by a law I have never been jealous, more jealous.

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from any of the wife of Rasulullah the way that I was jealous from Khadija the Buddhist Khadija

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She's dead.

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She's dead. She's jealous of What?

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Why? Men castrati, Marian guru her because he speaks about her all the time.

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A DJ used to have a sister Her name is hella

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Her voice was very similar to the voice of her DJ

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for Rasul Salim is sitting with Ayesha inside the room for her Allah ended to be by the door and she started having a conversation with somebody outside. Look, look how the hairy thumb

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you know what that means? You know the time

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This is uh you know you know when you do things that you you it's like your front of your wife and then you know your walk in front of your wife and you see somebody that

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stuff for law stuff

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It's exactly like this is exactly like this oh I stuck that's what I'm I'm looking at because it's

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Isabelle

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Maverick look look look how she reacted now

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the image killer

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the jealousy of women is she built in by the way one lol okay even if she's who

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even though cannot so wah wah wah wah so what am I

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gonna forget it jealousy jealousy

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you look this way or lie sometimes you look this way you didn't look at it Why did you look this way? You guys have eye contact

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is amazing. Well why is me and the most dangerous time when you have both of them together? Both of them together ID This is a nightmare. This is the time you run away, you leave

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because anything that you do is wrong. Anything that you do is wrong at this stage.

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Okay, I hope your wives are gonna still send you to my lectures

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in any rate,

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Hamra Queenie hamro ship cleaning jealousy

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she had red gum, meaning she was older than halachot Fidel.

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She's already dead. Abdullah comme la jolla Ron minha. Allah giving you much better than her look okay for shoo, shoo, shoo, shoo. Yeah, Asia,

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Asia laqad rosebrook, to Oba

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I can control her love

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is in my heart, I can't.

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I can't.

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That's the love that you should have towards your spouse, that type of love, and the only one who will please this love in the heart this rule.

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And the only way for this to happen both of you must be on the deed

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must be righteous

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must heal.

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Impossible. Allah will please the type of love in your heart when you do not pray when she does not pray when there is disobedience in the house.

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Mr. Hale, because this is something that you have no control over. It just comes from

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affection towards your spouse in that manner in that manner. That hadiza was a very important icon above and when I made that statement. He also added that, yeah, Asia or Asia, he said.

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He said amanat be inactive Urbanus. She believed in me when people belied me

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what were

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whereas a Canon Law who was a Canon Law, whom was a Canon Law, hoomin hawala, and Allah given me children from her. You're aware that Rosalind did not have any kids bought from her, except Marissa.

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The gift was given by the Macau costume. I had the Brahim but from Khadija who had who al Qasim Abdullah and both of those died before the age of puberty. The only children who survived was the girls. The four girls are muku Rokia Fatima and

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was in

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Morocco.

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Rokia was a in a day died during the life of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, Fatima Viola 100 died six months after he passed away.

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Ibrahim was from Mariya

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cumplir the who was sent to him by the Christian ruler of Alexandria.

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Hackett

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maybe that's the reason why

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there is that love that he had for her because he had children with her while they gave her one of the most important

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things which will complement I understand that this is not in your hand. This is the hands of Allah, complement marriage is his children.

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Children well then it can never happen. So what do I do?

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That elude marry the loving the child bearing. Why because normally that children get that connection going between you and your spouse is you know that you have a shared item but so Pamela This is not in your hand yet. This is something that you do not control. Then you leave it to Allah subhana wa Tada.

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Is that enough for today? Oh, Shahrukh is here.

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For opposition, can we just add one more incident in the Sierra because next lecture then will be the NY the revelation.

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At the age of 35.

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The camera got flooded

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and actually got burned first and then flooded.

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So, the Arabs, the leaders of Christ, can convened in order to rebuild the Kaaba.

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But they always had that feeling that don't touch the Kava because 35 years ago, what happened?

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The story of what abraha they saw with their eyes What birds coming in what?

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dropping stone on somebody who try to visit? No, we're not gonna do it. No way we're gonna do it.

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So they ended up debating in Valley, the movie era was knowing this man of his wisdom, amazing, so powerful about wisdom that doesn't take you to Islam.

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He said, Listen, our intention is good.

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You see, Abraham's intention was what was bad. So certainly Allah Subhana Allah will allow us to do this.

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For they said, No. He said, You know what? I will take the mayor. Well, I will take the axe and I will start initiating the destruction process. So the leaders of Christ said what let's see what will happen to him.

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So he went, nothing happened to him. They came and they brought down the cab. Now it's time to boot it back together. It is a very interesting piece.

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they vowed that all the money that must go into the reconstruction of the carrabba must come from lawful sources.

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No usury.

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Well, I received this message from a brother in Boston, Boston, Boston, Connecticut, something like that. Connecticut, Boston, Massachusetts, something like that area they share.

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That community here has purchased msgid

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using mortgage Should I go and pray there?

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imagine somebody goes to get a loan from you be Riba to buy a machine.

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Brothers, Salaam Alaikum. Look at it. Look at life. I understand this is the Kaaba and this is the masjid in America. But still the same principle applies.

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In ilaha

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illa Allah Allah is pure, he will only accept pure, pure things. You go and it's like a you know a woman who goes to belly dance. And then half of her which she gives what sadhaka like to sit at home Mashallah lick Jazakallah Hydra sit at home and give yourself

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Yeah, they sit at home stay at Oh, my head is like somebody who goes to steal in order work. Oh, I'm supporting their pools. Let's stop stealing Allah will provide for the poor

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means Lucha

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helped me in higher objectives and means are alike in Islam, you can justify the wrongdoing because it leads to some law law for imagine.

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They didn't have enough halal money to keep it on the foundation of every man is married.

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And that is why we ended up with that. empty area data is called what hedging is because we didn't have enough money.

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didn't have enough money. But towards the end, the end of the construction of the Kaabah came the turn of placing the Blackstone

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Tavon. If you read the story of Ibrahim Ali Solomon is

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raising the foundation of the Kaaba which is referred to in Surah Al Baqarah. And for sirianni CRL ambia the stories of the prophets and the MacArthur and others that the stone the Black Swan used to be white

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and it was an empty spots in the construction of the Kaaba at the hands of Prophet Ibrahim Ali Salaam

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He said to his son Ismail Go and bring me something through, we can fill that gap jabril drove down the black stone

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to Earth wahoo I'm in Elgin, and it's from Jenna. It's a piece from gentlemen.

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That is there. Of course the sins of people turned it from white. To what? To black. The touching and see even sins affect what?

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Panama shadier?

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They started quarreling and they are about to fight which tribes should be given the honor of placing the Blackstone Marvel Arabic Allah

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Subhana Allah and they have an issue with

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imagine the fourth one another four years for a camel killing what human killing one another for a camel for a blood of a camel. Subhan Allah they finally concluded. You know what? Let's agree that the first man who appears will be the airbitz will be the judge. By the way, Russell and he'll demo the construction but he had to go home do something, Danny, he actually helped out with the reconstruction with the process. But he happened to leave. And then in the way back when they saw him, all of them are cheered. All of them cheered up or were cheering up. Because they said Heather who Assad equal I mean, this is the one.

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So salatu salam came and he brought like a blanket type of thing and he believes the black stone rate and he said every tribe carry and he ended up himself placing the black stone

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with this year.

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Allah Allah Salah

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the last five years from the historic, being disgusted

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with what he sees people drinking, killing one another adultery. He didn't like this, this is something home

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and that's when a person begins to act withdraw

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secluding himself. So he found himself very interested in a cave very small, on a top of a mountain called the North, which really overlooks Mecca. If you've been there it you actually could see maca from there. So he would go there and he would sit and reflect and ponder and in fact code with 130 it's an act of worship by the way. But of course we have two extremes people who say do not do it at all, which is wrong. And if you help us an hour to an hour off the left La la la la la, la una una la

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coruna.

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But you can come and say the Saqqara Sarah like the people who shoot this week Hadith that you you you reflect your bundle for one hour is better than five daily Salah

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crazy well no five minutes I have to pray

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Majnoon equally the fault of the fact

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that we should reflect upon the universe I wouldn't what a law created we should ponder upon it. But that should not take over labor that that's not what we're talking about. For us also Latin America towards the end of any of the 40 years. He started withdrawing and inshallah next lecture be delighted Allah will share with you the first experience the first contact that he had with jabril alehissalaam Giacomo Allah, Allah Subhana Allah Mohammed Chateau La Ilaha Illa and esta Furukawa tulelake al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen