Empowering The Muslim Home Part 1

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AI: Summary © The segment discusses the history and characteristics of Islam, including the name of the Prophet and the importance of finding peace in one's home. It emphasizes the need for acceptance and peace in houses of Muslims, as well as the importance of finding a partner and avoiding sexual misunderstandings. The segment also touches on the struggles women face in their roles as co-owners and the challenges they face in their roles. The transcript provides examples and examples of stories and quotes, and encourages listeners to leave their comments and share their own experiences.
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monastery in

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one hour

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de la la mobila

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woman, Lil fella de la

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ilaha illallah wa sallahu la sharika

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Mohammedan rasuluh

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yo holla de una de la Hakata Kati Morton in

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Johann suta hora de como la de Holla

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Holla wahala coming

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at Jalan Cathy young one is

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what de la la de

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Luna de Waal

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in namaha can Ollie Kumara Kiba

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yo ha Latina de la punto colon Salida

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your slash laquan Malecon while you're

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warming up a la How are pseudo

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fellows and avina

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I'm about for in Buffalo Howdy.

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Howdy howdy Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wasallam

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wakulla Desert in de de waka

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waka love Allah Allah in finham.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam

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in a surah in the Quran,

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the scholars of the sea have

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given it a special name

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Soraka neon,

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the surah of Indian meaning the bounties of Allah Subhana Allah, which he bestowed upon us.

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In spite of the fact the name of the soldier is in,

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is in Surah number 16 in the Quran.

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And the reason why Allah so why the scholars of the year given the surah that special name is Allah subhanaw taala in the surah names, the balances that He bestows upon us, one after another, one after another.

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And then he makes it the criteria Subhana Allah to request your submission.

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Jani Allah Subhana Allah says in a verse in the surah Waka radica ut mu, no matter who Allah you come Lala come to the moon.

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And thus Allah subhana wa Taala is completing his favours upon you, his boundaries upon you so that you may submit yourselves submit yourselves in worship to Allah subhanahu wa tada

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and one of the boundaries which Allah subhana wa tada named in the surah

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is the bounty of having a home

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a house to live in.

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Even so, we may take it for granted.

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And if you really want to see this bounty, maybe you just need to go downtown here or maybe go to one of these big cities, New York or Washington DC, you will find actually people who are living

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on they have all their belongings in a car that they drag around and that's really their home and we call them homeless.

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That means they do not have a home.

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The verse in which Allah subhanaw taala he feared to the home to be a bounty

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reads Allahu Allah Allah comin boo to come second.

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And Allah subhana wa tada made for you from your homes. A place of fresh

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A place where do you find peace?

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What do you find tranquility.

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What do you find serenity as soon as you enter into your house,

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you feel secure. You feel safe.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam, when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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spoke about the trials and tribulations that a Muslim will face

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at the end of time,

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which a lot of the schoolers say these times

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one of the companions will Howdy, Fie. As soon as one of the companions asked the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, woman Naja, we are rasulillah

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How can I find salvation almost all messenger of Allah in the midst. In the middle of all these trials, he said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, MC Kali, Kali Sanic Hold your tongue while Yasaka

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and make sure that you will in your home. Make sure that your home is a place where you find rest their work gala hottie attic and feel regretful pneus over your sins.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam.

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The home is the place where the next generation is prepared to face

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these trials as well. And I mean by the next generation our children.

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Nabi sallallahu, wasallam dockercon Murphy's

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Law Juan. Carlos eluding you

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forever wha hoo. You have with Danny Irani.

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Every newborn is born a Muslim and the Muslim home then will enhance that Islam will nourish that Islam or the home will divert it will take it away will twist it will take it to Christianity, Judaism or other faith, which based on associating partners in worship with Allah subhana wa Taala.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam.

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The home is the first brick in the community in the Muslim community in the society, the first brick and if the Muslim home is sound, then the community at large will be sound. The community at large will be sound will be healthy. But if the Muslim home is not healthy, then the community will be unhealthy will be sick basically. And this is probably what

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explains the condition of the oma because the Muslim homes are not Muslim homes anymore. Brothers and sisters in Islam

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this house where you will with your spouse must be based on the obedience and the taqwa of Allah subhanho wa Taala to begin with.

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A feminine SSR boonie Anna who Allah Taku Mina la what is one? Hi, I am an SSR banyana who Allah shefa juru Finn her infant hora de Narita Hanim

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the house must be initiated on the basis of taqwa, the basis of the obedience of Allah subhana wa Taala.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam, it is very sad to say

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that our homes

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are not Muslim homes anymore.

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They are not.

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And let's be straightforward about it. Let's not be naive, do not be naive. Do not be naive about the truth.

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You see, you religion deals with every little thing in your lives. Every little thing in your lives. And this is a statement actually that was made to sell man the version by someone who is not a Muslim. He was so impressed

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With the details that this religion has, which can help you live your life, according to and he said to some man, your religion teaches you, even how to relieve yourself, how to go to the bathroom?

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Much What is this? Solomon says yes, yes, we enter with our left feet, and we make the dua before we enter.

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And we use our left hand in cleansing our

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private area,

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and so forth.

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The religion also because of the importance of the house, the religion told you how to build this house in the basis of taqwa.

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But it's very unfortunate that we as Muslims now are doing like the nations before us. We only pick and choose from the religion what we like.

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And Allah subhanaw taala made that statement to Bani Israel. He said to them, to me Runa devall kitabi. What about Do you believe in some portion in the book of the book, and you leave some, let's attach to the whole thing, take it or leave it? A lot of Muslims, because of the lack of knowledge. They pick and choose what they want from the religion.

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And how many times did you hear this? Hanging pictures in the wall prevents the angels from entering your house?

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And if you enter into the houses of 75% of the Muslims, now they have pictures hanging on the wall.

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Malou Smith says he doesn't feel like this one. No, leave this one. I will take this one but this one No. Oh.

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And then they call and complain I have a shift in my house tomorrow shall

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Who's gonna be in the house? If there is no angels in the house?

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Or your house any house that has a dog in it? Or a picture of a living creature? Let me make this clear. A living fish, animals, human beings angels do not enter this house period. To who's in the house if angels are not in the house, Mr. Schaefer and his help

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and then he comes to shake my son godziny Can you help me out of the picture with the angels get in the house?

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The peace angels they bring peace. When was the last time unit circle back around your house? Color sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a house in which Surah tillbaka is recited shaitan does not stay there.

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reflecting back on your house, bring peace into the house. Oh, Allah Subhana Allah.

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Our children

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you know they come to the masjid. I'm talking about our youth.

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And then they hear the shift say music is haram.

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II was swashy the shader fanatic why they are saying this?

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Because he's at home hearing music all the time. At home. Movies. Maybe the father is already playing his favorite stuff. for him. It's impossible. The chef doesn't know what he's doing. Because my father is playing music at home. Oh, is that a Muslim Whoa.

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And on and on young enough enough that the house itself Butyou in war with Allah.

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Rebbe house mortgage house, which is hora hora hora. You're at war with Allah.

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Reba, you're being ribbon. Lana Allahu Allah curses river akeelah the one who receives it wamu killer and the one who pays it. worker Kiba and the one who writes the contract the real stake and the Two Witnesses are the same color. Oh,

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you will look at tequila what will be Neff? So Aslan Yan has

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the house it says both you and war with Allah. So how are you going to find peace, serenity, tranquility in this house.

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Have the hyper fighting

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was very disturbing things that you hear

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In the Muslim family now,

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for example, you hear from a wife that she calls the police in her house.

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That's, you know, if your life is threatened, tell us no problem. Call the police. If I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, if your life is threatened, let me make this clear. And you're in danger. Because if your husband and your only resort is the police go ahead and do it. No, she called the police for her husband because he refused to buy her a boo,

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Calvin Klein with Calvin Klein, for four for newbies,

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the stupid DMS yada, yada, whoo, you're here. What do we have to do with the new year?

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So she wanted to get into her husband calls the police in him.

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Yeah, if they don't do this, and then she complains that she's not from this community, by the way, some other community. Yeah. Yeah. And she says my husband left the house while I wouldn't stay with you for a day when she called the police and robbers are going to spend overnight and then in jail. My

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wife in

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a Sakina Allah says woman at an Haleakala coming full circle as well. Lita skou, Allah

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wa Jalla Vina Kuma de Waal Wah love affection, friendship.

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Sister calls my husband told me I divorce you hungry times

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in one time 100 times e one is enough.

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What if you divorce your wife 200 times in one time it's enough. No, he decided to divorce you I divorce you I divorce you i do is i agree he's upset he's frustrated. finish second. Where is the serenity? What is the peace?

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Why do we go out of the homes Yeah, if we're disturbed.

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Yeah, and we will look at what the husbands right now get. I never will be. I cannot wait till I leave the house. Then they'll be a becoming worth battling ground mush.

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Why because the hearts are different.

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In your your children are sitting in front of the TV at least five six hours a day. Well, guess what? Now this one likes this show. This one likes this show. This one likes the show. So you ended up with four TVs in the same house.

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And sometimes four receivers.

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One family had

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little cocoon almasi they do not need to do this disobedience

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in a

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good hurry. Mashallah. I want to say this.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and in the second hook, but in particular I see a lot of youth and I'm talking to them now.

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Allah subhana wa tada told you to marry women, with the deen with the religion with the religion and also the sisters Allah subhana wa tada told them to choose husbands with good manners and butene

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Thank you whole machinery Kathy had a

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minute to hire me machinery cotton one of our jobs

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while a keyhole mushrikeen

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while I mean high machinery.

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Una de la, la la, la.

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se la la jolla taco.

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Do not marry mushnik women,

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even if you like them.

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Muslim women who worship someone else with Allah don't even if you like them

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are believing slave women is much better for you than this one.

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Also, the brothers who are guardians of the women do not give your daughters in marriage to mushriks.

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Somebody who associates

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would like to know what Anki

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was sorry. Hainan

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In a radical way, imagine a coup for you need human law, human family and marry the righteous, the religious. So if you are looking to get married, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells you that a woman is asked in marriage, because of four things, how do you say hi

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her physical beauty?

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Because she's so attractive, she looks beautiful,

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her body whatever you want to choose here,

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her lineage, she has a good family

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and normally in America with the lineage, her green cards, so you get a green card if you marry somebody from her lineage, and then

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harmony, she has money

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and then her has a lineage and then the dean for

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beauty, lineage, money, the

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which one should I go for or messenger of Allah? Which one fall for

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used the third the verb when he did not say marry when when the one with the religion

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when when her also this is in reference that they will be very few of them it seems like you may have to fight for one of those fight in the sense of left for the party and you don't don't misunderstand me but when when the one with the religion

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teddy bear Theodor

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Herzl Murphy So Muslim was gonna say Is he had howdy Mark aliveness ah. Look at this.

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Look at this. At dounia mata

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the dunya is an enjoyment

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and the best of its enjoyment our righteous wife hieromartyr zoologia to soil

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not that beautiful

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Yani there is a hadith fo Howdy, Senate, Senator who life change narration is not authentic. If you marry a woman for her wealth, Allah will increase you poverty.

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If you marry a woman for her lineage, Allah will humiliate you, Amanda,

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for the best of the enjoyment of the dunya in this dunya is the righteous wife. Why what is the other and the necessity either novel, la her as of work.

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If you look at her, she will please you

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know 70 of our women now in the house that are attending.

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At home, she doesn't even care less about how she looks. But as soon as she leaves the house,

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she prepares herself for who to whom are you beautifying yourself you're supposed to make yourself beautiful for your husband.

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Not for the guys outside. These are

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behind him to you.

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was either accidentally or Barack. If you tell her by Allah if you leave the house, your divorce local and some of the sisters as soon as she hears this with the Wallah, he will beat and leaving the house right now.

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We will elusive deleted the following if you leave the house

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for a lie These are real stories. If you leave the house your divorce it good. I'm leaving the house right now.

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she helps you to fulfill your oath whether HIPAA

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and if you leave the house Have you luck she will guard you in herself. Meaning has chestatee and in your money

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in your money but luckily the women are forcing why why a woman would do this

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why a woman would do this yeah and yet feel hot enough My dear sisters in Islam this Howdy. Howdy facade have not had bad sentiments them say Hey, have you ever be alone and I want my sisters to hear this that you're doing this. You're doing this for you for you.

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Not for the men. You had to give jazz look for them for you. Oh, listen to this either son little mama to Hamza

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if the woman praise her five meaning five daily prayers was so much haha. And chief asked her mom, lol Ramadan Wha? Wha salad for Java?

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for Java Sonic for Java, and she keeps herself chaste. What are her and she obeys her husband. Look at this now, in the Day of Resurrection de la Hyo malkia todo holy min Abwehr Bill jannetty a machete

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there are two eight gates for Jenna you choose which gate you want to go to. You want to enter gender from

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My sister don't think we're doing this. You're doing this just for the work and at the end of the day. We're all in quest for Jenna here. Yeah, and in Nevis, Allah Allah. Allah. Allah Maha Vanessa Yama late when he delivered that sermon in the day of eight. Best in the office is Bukhari. Nevis. Allah. Send them Polynesia, he said to the women.

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Yamaha, Sharon, Lisa. Oh women does a duck. I want you to give a lot of sadhaka Why are rasulillah there in near IE to connect for Halina? I have seen you the majority of the dwellers of the hellfire.

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A woman followed the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam from the woman and she wanted to know why. The matter azula Lima, Dara Sula, you know why sisters because of the husband's

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the Cornell ICU.

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What a cardinal sin. Lo aksana la, Rue de la Kula, Tamara and takana la quinta Nana Min kehadiran

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if the man is by the book, her her hoodie, but then he said I don't have today. Your terrible

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cough runny lashes,

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being ungrateful

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to the hospital, on the verge of the jungle, earning the income for the family and you being ungrateful because he was unable at one time. I'm quoting the Hadith My dear sisters, to show you that there is in why the women are the majority of the dwellers of the Hellfire and I'm not talking about the believing women. Okay, I'm talking about just the women because of this. They are ungrateful to their husbands. ungrateful who say they believe it Salam Azhar Edna smile. When he visited his son his smile he told him to divorce erotica, Derek changed the doorstep to your house. Why? Because he asked his wife Chi Shu Kuma how's life going? Terrible. Terrible.

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My fish credit card.

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Messy shopping. Terrible.

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Nothing fun.

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my point here, my dear brothers and sisters in Islam, that the religion instructed you to choose a special type of women to help you to have a healthy home, a healthy house.

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And by the way,

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there is no problem to have a beautiful,

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prestigious, wealthy and religious woman.

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But show me where you can find those four in one

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person. But the message here is don't compromise the dean for any of those. That's the message. Don't that in first and then whatever comes with the package 234 Alhamdulillah

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but the deen first

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likewise my sisters

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Allah subhana wa Taala in the tongue of His Messenger commanded you to choose special type of husbands.

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Because also men are weird these days.

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They do weird things to their wives.

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Virtually yada yada. So Jackie, he tells his wife profanities. He uses F word with his wife, the Columbia Raj in

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the Navy. The Prophet tells you

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the best of you is the best to his family.

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I'm the best to my family.

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With the TV tell your wife will hear profanity with the wife

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bardini da da da da da da da

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da da da

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wa jurusan call us the third column if you do before the before this.

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Nabi sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam Yahuwah kills you

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that the best of you that best of you are the best in character,

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and the best place to use your manners

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is with your spouse, with your wife,

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Raul and the men now as soon as he enters the house

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hand up the hill

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as a whistle go under the Erica go under the bed, hide until he leaves

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be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam masala Isha Lama Sahaba ask Ayesha Viola Juana can never up by eating good luck canopy hit Matthew le NaVi your messenger for us to cook

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used to feed his wife. Yet when Obi Salallahu alaihe salam used to raise with with his

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with our SRS with a kimono I shall raise

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your poodle NaVi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the prophet tells the Guardians The Guardians of the women because a woman cannot give herself in marriage period. A human Netcat nafsa the lady is the first hour to have bottle bottle. Any woman who gives herself in marriage without the permission of her well, her marriage is invalid invalid invalid.

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I'm aware of the view of Lena hanifa regarding a failure but this view does not count because daddy daddy says no a umemura if you women that is why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam address the guardians cannot ban Hadith Abu hurayrah eva

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mentor Luna Dina who who Luca?

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If someone

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comes to you asking your daughter's in marriage, here are the two criterias you're happy you're pleased with his holo

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and his Deen

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both Don't tell me as a good character Masha Allah demola Massimo Salish, Malika Salish

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he's an angel, but he does not pray five times. Yes, a Angel. Mesaba.

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Also Dean without manners not good. It also tells us well, there is a relationship between your character, your manners and your religion. In the midst of all of us lm

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mentioned the two together.

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There is a statement attached at aku

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menza the an Kafeel Hulu, Zed and COVID-19

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if somebody has a better character than you, he is better for sure he is better than you in the religion in the religion and 100 like a virgin you soluble hummus fruit Busey theory, Masha Allah Jani, back by gossip mean to his problems.

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Me was a MOOC and he couldn't fill it five times. But see the character Murphy's Law a dean the religion must kick a character.

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Both Dean and character for enemy Salalah alayhi wa sallam told the daughters told The Guardian of the daughters. Don't give your daughters in marriage back to someone who has a character, a good character and has a dean look at this in length.

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If you do not do this, there couldn't fit nanofiller be worth a certain audience. It will be fitna.

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You will exposing your daughters to fitna Raja Raja Yachty up in Word a father has a daughter and some righteous brother comes to him bisacodyl Hamza, Mashallah. I know we are Salah.

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Sima she doesn't have money.

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Not good.

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Not good.

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But someone comes with the money Masha Allah, Lucien Enoshima mfh Latina Hola, hola, za which this is the one

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for why, why do you present the hustle and bustle adversity of one in Hudson Valley of Viola on whom I was asked, was asked by one of his friends. I have four

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individuals who came asking my daughter in marriage. Which one should I choose? He said to him, the witch hair minute.

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Make sure that you give her to a righteous one. Fair enough, who in a heartbeat Ha ha ha. We're in carry ha ha la of lingua.

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If he loves her, Masha Allah, that's the best. But if he dislikes her, he will never commit injustice against that Why? Because he fears whom

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eliminate bullies. Oh, GBM and my my husband does this this this this this to me?

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Can you help me I asked her one question. Does he pray five times? No, I'm sorry. I can't help you.

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Go to the police do something else. I can't help you. Because he's gonna come to me I'm gonna tell her Allah said the messenger said if he doesn't believe in that stuff, forget about it.

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Like Helen said turkey a righteous person is hopefully not

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yet tequila. Yet tequila, he feels the law in her.

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That's why you're supposed to find

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people who are righteous for your daughters. Yeah, what

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we read in the Quran, and we read in the Sunnah and the life of our righteous predecessors, people who actually do the abnormal to fulfill this on the regular Salafi medion in UI n

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double A, where Musa went to flee fleeing from Egypt. He arrived in a place called Nadia, hmm, he saw him righteous, the righteous man, I want you to marry one of my daughters.

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We have also had eaten al Bukhari, oma over the Hata because

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when women have saw the aiyana

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Odessa, he took her around to have men of righteous people of man Abu Bakr on the inside now Omar Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married her one that will also have a little story of sided one sided one sided the Messiah refused the son of the holy

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Yeah, and it was out of this world, the side of the family

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will worry if not the medic want to marry his daughter said no. No Yanis imagine that the daughter of a president comes to Mary

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to tell me what

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to tell one of his students. He said to learn from him daddy. For her that was to dinner 50 bucks now.

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way because of his choosing the righteous righteous.

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This is the issue. That's Allah subhanaw taala useless mutina polyhedra

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and family law in law will handle

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what Santa will Jamil why shadow Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, your poodle

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Mohammedan Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he was on my dear brothers and sisters in Islam.

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I think something has to be done about our Muslim homes.

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Something has to be done. First of all, if you're not married yet Alhamdulillah 100 Alhamdulillah

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find out first what a religious person can be. Learn that religion so you can find the religious women

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She can put this house together, you see the problems that we're having as Muslims now. And this is my number I'm not I really haven't got this from a stats or anything that maybe 75% of us married our spouse is not in the business of religion.

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I'm being I'm being straightforward here.

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And I asked those who are married

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the 75 I'm sure you belong all of you that 25 of the 75.

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Humanity roses Oh, she's so beautiful. Or the family. They're going to get me through

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Musashi, whoever does not have a back he gets it in his column column a column.

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Army milimani breaks the hearts for this is the issue but but I'm not asking you to divorce your wives here. Okay. Don't think that I'm asking because, you know, that's not what I'm asking you. But what I'm asking you is, there are some things that we can do to reform our homes.

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There are some things that we can do. And be the latter. I'm planning beginning the next hour to bring one at a time or two at a time in sha Allah and see how can we make a difference? Because at the end of the day, if the house of your home is not a second, if your house is not a place where you find peace, you find serenity, you find tranquility, if you go to the house to fight is not going to work, that's a miserable life.

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But things can be done. There are things that can be done in order to reform our homes and this is what I meant by my hotbar today inshallah I hope I did not sound a little bit busy mistake but you know, they tell you that you realizing or recognizing a problem. The problem is actually the first step to find the solution.

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What we want is we want the Muslim home, a Muslim home when you find peace. Well, that next generation is brought up in the right environment in the right environment. Allahumma furlanetto nabanna seraphina emelina was a bit of them and also national home will carefree. A lot of Muslim Elena Dean and a lady who is Marina was Leonard Anjana latifi Hannah oshana

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Hello Matthew fusina

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Yeomans, a

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new homeowner, Allah. Allah Muslim is a Muslim was Lucha Muslim.

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Muslim in the Muslim in Isla de Martin jameelah. Hola Hola.

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