7 Ways To Beat Sin Addiction
Channel: Karim Abuzaid
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Friday Khutbah at Dar Al Tawheed Colorado on March 24, 2017.
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brothers and sisters in Islam
A lot of us and I mean us
fine. Sometimes our souls trapped
or more than one
that you go back to
probably all of your life you've been trying to just come out of it
and we are stuck.
And that thing actually
has taken control over
and this is what we call addiction.
The addicted to it.
It's different to happens. Things that you do out of habit. You have control over the habit you can actually pass today I'm not gonna
do my running today. But addiction is when the control
in that substance, if it is a physical thing, let's say drugs, alcohol,
overnight behavior, sexual
It gets him
and it bothers you
brothers and sisters in Islam.
Does the Quran and Sunnah address this issue.
Do we have a text that talks about this?
Do we have revelation? Yes we do.
I will share with you three ahaadeeth.
The first one was combined with Pavani. The middle one was lousy.
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authenticated, this is
what the Hadith says and attention to this
there is no believing
in them boom, unless or accept, he has a sin
illegal, saying that you will fail cleaner, that he goes back to from time to time
that he can safely commit
to her heart,
he will keep doing this until he dies.
But pay attention here
because the believable,
feminine was created to be tested by these whims and desires
that tells you that after he commits the sin, even though he goes back to it, he immediately returns
forgets. But when he is reminded he goes back.
That's number one.
Again, I will go back and revisit because we have to understand the stacks in the higher context.
The second evidence
we have you in the
community from the La maliau send them the statement of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
by the woman whose hand my soul is
if you do not commit sins,
they have a lot
a lot to
with we understand this, then we will be other people who will commit sins.
Then they will ask for forgiveness and Allah will forgive them.
That is true.
Israeli non Muslim also the Prophet sal Allahu
Allah subhana wa Taala says, as
a slave of Allah committed a sin for cannot be. He said money moves
I have seen, forgive me.
Allah subhanho wa Taala when
my slave brief acknowledge that he has a lord
who forgives the sins
publishers have forgiven
them you will come back, we'll come back to the sin
fukumura sin again.
And after he commits the sin then he says
Oh ALLAH forgive me.
They are saying my slave recognize me to be Who is the one who punishes for this punish us for the sin and the one who forgives the sin. He requested my forgiveness granted.
So these are hobbies are obviously talking about that time the stone rules in our lives,
things that are in control of you.
They drive your life. Beyond changing your character. They are making you a totally different person
because you are under the bondage
the shackles of this particular series
we influencing the battlefield behavior actually changes because of it.
But again, before we carry on talking about addictions,
sins that we commit aways
and that is why we chose the title for the conference called trapped because a lot of us are chopped or shackled
and we're trying to address that inshallah. Next weekend, did you like the hell out of it?
We need to understand these three ahaadeeth in context,
the first context
and this is the statement of legal framework in our law.
Florida flies back to Allah subhanho wa Taala with two wings
shortly these three ahaadeeth
which I shared with you are a source of
Babu Don't forget the fees don't
these ahaadeeth are not a license to sin. No, Allah subhanaw taala in the form of His Messenger is telling you, even if you go back still sin is still repellent even if you go in the car has written things was mentioned. Even if you go work still.
Because you have a home
neither of these things.
The second thing, it is a misconception, which really a lot of Muslims are inherited from Buddhism and
philosophers and and all these people that you think at one stage and at one stage in your life, you can attain a lonely life.
You can become a holy person and I mean by holy here three different things not in reference to divinity.
That you commit zero sins That's impossible. By the way, when you reach that stage, that means your test is over time to go back.
actually attended that means your testing adonia has finished, you're done, because you really have to be tested to be trying.
but what matters is that you go back.
And this is what is meant by the statement is Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam could look me Adam haka. All the children of Adam are sinners. What we did is we offer you the Cocteau.
But the best of both, when they fall into sales, they go back to Allah subhanho wa Taala.
I mean, Christians, they went as far as you know, reducing the formula called, we invert, you actually boom singer, with boldness singer.
you inherited the sin of your father, Adam, that
doesn't go this way.
One, one more thing. Before we move on to the next thing here
is a lot of us sometimes when you go back to that sin
when he returns, he said,
I'm not going to go back to that city
and actually fix a roof.
And he still goes back.
And that's very discouraging. If you're not supposed to do that.
You're not supposed to do that you're supposed to make Toba and have the intention that you don't want to go back. But you shouldn't be taking oath when this comes in the last thing which has been a transit ask for the next thing that I want to address is Elon Musk must strive to come out of the city.
That's your job.
it is an addiction, it is something that fought back You must strive to seek a remedy.
and this what I was looking at
and you cannot live by the idea that someone else was sent to die on a cross for me.
You must do it.
yourself must do it.
In short, line the thread in my hand
there are seven steps
If you adopt by the grace of Allah subhanaw taala if you have the right intention, you will be able to come out of the sins. And again, I'm talking about the sin which you go back to
123 sins that you always go back to go back to go back to
and witnessing by the way confirms this.
They tell you in the brain
there is a substance the medical name for it called Buddha mean I believe
that's what gets you excited to hear something
that's what that's when you feel the enjoyment the temporal enjoyment of doing it
because of that substance no rain actually produces this is why you will be willing to do anything to commit sin.
This is why drug addicts
alcoholics evil they do crazy things in order to because they need that substance that will get the joy
brothers and sisters in
the first tip
confess that you've said
that you're an addict
stop blaming others
Stop pretending that not because you are because I
defy what it is.
What it is,
it is smoking,
sexual related activity in the internet.
What is it identified
as the basis for
and by the way, when you do this and hamdulillah gay who will not like any other religion other religions are doing between Sunday and you sit in front of a human being like you and you end up revealing your blacks our religion, our religion is on the basis of
who you imagine laughter in language.
I will use
all my own mo will be pardon. Except those who disclose their sins they're not supposed to disclose your sin.
I mean, the only time you could disclose your sin if you have someone that that sim engages the light of another and they need to settle that will go let them know listen, I stole your money. I cheated you out of your thing. Come on, help me I'm gonna repent. Yeah. But assume that you committed between you and Allah.
confess it to Allah.
you have to tell me you don't have to tell anybody.
You don't have to.
There is no need for this. And we do this brothers and sisters in Islam break in front of a law
and this is actually when the test is good.
People will not submit through the bad but they will submit through the sin they will not break in front of Allah.
In front of a lot breaks you in front of a lot when you please that forehead in the ground
is you stand in front of the king in front of Allah. Sometimes if you don't get that break in
Allah makes you get through the sin. Because when you
know if people are visiting you
by law if the animals are decorated carrying olive
oil in the face of the person that this person is a safe
future energy in case you break in front of Allah subhanaw taala
say you know I did this I I committed the sin
you made me I'm not supposed to do this helped me but this is what it means right condition. And you know what, if you weren't complicit in this world, once upon all the Allah tells us about the field in the hereafter disbelievers
That they will say that
they will actually confess that we committed the thing, but it's too late
in us to do consistency and stop blaming others will say all because of the way that I brought up all my daddy did this and my mommy did this under the environment.
Brothers and sisters in Islam. This is one of the greatest lessons that we derive from the story of Adam and Adam and one of the greatest lessons
both of them disobey the law.
Satan was commanded to bow down he did no, he said, No, Adam was commanded to eat, not to eat not to come
not to eat from the tree. He ate from the tree. What made the difference between the two? That's the question What was the difference?
And the danger by the way
of not confessing that thing that needs
to happen in the sin like Satan did.
A lot of brothers are engaged in using immutable
it's a sin.
Confess it's a sin. Maybe if you begin
with it. But if you say Hello, hello, hello. We'll get it
But you regret what you did is the act of repentance if if you don't see what you're doing wrong, then forget it. We can move any further
we're gonna stay there as long as you're
smoking weed. Weed smoking
This is how long this how long
it took the school was disabled. They still managed to handle
this if someone believes that alcohol is Hello, he goes out of the office well
this is the clock and restricted input finger if anyone believes in his vault knowingly or not.
He understands what he's saying that you can show him that
he goes out of the fold of Islam
the end of
that's a dangerous
state. If you find the ascension
seven steps and I'm going to finish inshallah Sharla number two
for find out
how you got into addiction to begin with.
A lot of us got into these bad things. How?
I'm going to make it easy for me to grass without going in circles.
They say the child
if you didn't make him busy,
what will he do?
He will make him busy.
If you need a child to have a big around you, okay? I want you to do that. I want you to write this thing.
Daddy, Daddy, Daddy, Daddy, Daddy Daddy.
Exactly, you know, like this
and left suka methylmercury if he didn't get you left
You will get
So what happened? Allah subhanaw taala review a curriculum
abide lines for the nuts, you're supposed to get tedious working according to the curriculum, you're neglecting the correct
thing to do
is going to go into that stuff.
This is how we got into addictions. This is how we got into acting how one thing's
supposed to wake up in the morning
brothers and sisters in Islam
The goal here is not to be free from sin Rooney is not to that that's from sin. The goal is no one is good.
It's not that pitiful sportcoat and I hope you could see it after the demand shower.
It's a beautiful
beautiful thing. But if you leave it empty like this, what is going to happen
maybe some people are going to come and Snoop drugs in it. But if we did it mostly soccer football, likewise
then there must be something to do.
And this is how we got into trouble brothers and sisters in Islam in riffs and the problem with this my respective brothers and sisters in Islam that we've been doing this for long
enough to say that you're nuts has turned into a lie.
And by the way, doesn't fight you sometimes by itself. It goes I plan to
sharpen the gin and sometimes it ends
guy who's going to take us to the club
so this is how we got into this. So for you
to come out of this you need to begin the application of the Quran
need to keep you busy with the truth even if it's beautiful
full circle Islam
he said this even when you're by yourself or things that are permissible it takes away from the truth he said this people who get through engaged intimacy without coming up beautiful machines they are not going to enjoy the honeymoon
period we get through not sketching by the stories of the kids and
examples are great
when you tell them the story of
the story of atoms of
unknown unknown so
the wisdom of US law on
community any community who abandons the sooner it's because of that they invented
because the similar structures their life so this is number two. Number one, number two
what was number one you probably forgot? Confess number three
this is how we got into addiction because you neglected
with one of the steps if
you said I'm gonna go to the clock, but I'm not gonna drill and so forth. Number three brothers and sisters in Islam.
Remember the consequence of going on with addiction. Our to believe man
this is stating
if you carry on like this will
you have no strength anymore to come out of that thing
you can abandon the sim McLaren you have the strength.
But when we get old, why the sim becomes a
lot of benefits
they give in the beautiful portal they said imagine you vote to be a sponge
and you put an ink on that sponge for a while. That's the same.
What has happened to the ink is really really hot
color so we're levada your citizen the prophets of Allah
goes to the heart
but when you go on without far without
that goes inside now by Allah how easy it is when that penetrate the sponge for you to clean that sponge from the ink if I need to get it in water for
maybe a week and hoping that it will be better
because you've been doing it for learn
even think that we're gonna reach a stage and this is actually one of the most devastating aspects of this that he joins us
but he didn't want to read it because it's a habit it's something that you
would enjoy but you still need to do it because it's in its infancy
For me to understand this, Carlos Aloha.
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three types of people alone let's look at them and
not speak to them.
The first one is not shy.
Sheriff is not
necess is an old man
and all men who commit adultery will know each other so why is it probate because we kept all his life in
between became part of him is still doing it because it's in
the danger of
October. You're gonna be an old man with
floating and so forth. Look at the second one. The second one
is not being
If someone is willfully at his
arrogance is at three is
he developing arrogance, arrogance until
we kind of come out of it.
But yet he's elegant.
I love the first one.
That was Mandy,
Malika king who lives with a king. Why do you need to lie?
We can tell do this do that. Why do you need to lie?
Because lying is not a trait. That's what happened when you keep lying, lying, lying, lying lying.
So this was number three mothers and sisters in Islam, the consequence of the sin, the consequence of that deduction.
At one stage by the way, if you're
drilling on the axe, without killing Guys, if
I'm stuck at one stage, you're not gonna see him anymore.
You're not gonna see this
when you're sorry by the way when they worship the calf
they didn't see me with it.
And so Allah subhana wa cuschieri boo, boo boo boo he will let
that they've heard this is the right thing to marry someone who steals is the right thing. Someone who tells is the right thing. So this has been the three
brothers and sisters in Islam
just for the sake of time here
then the space
see this is one of the three destroy pawn
shops upon original mean is
bleach in Arabic derives from a noun called the ballasts. What is the ballast this base
shape on the street the wiry
fan already knows his feet he's no longer hopeful in the mercy of Allah. Allah gene and this is the meaning of Ragini is out cast from the mercy of Allah
because we display now we know what he's gonna inflict. You have the same disease. Oh man, you didn't do this.
Think of a simpler way Come on.
It was a lot of fun. And he says all these fees with the first week he comes back shaper Come on.
fall into that trap.
It was beautiful. When you repeat
that Allah subhanho wa Taala will accept the repentance number five, six and seven will come and show you heard our stuff
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money down the
number five brothers and sisters in Islam if you want to make that change, change your objectives
change your voice Have you ever asked him so what is your home What is your number one goal in this life?
What the ultimate goal is perfect agenda.
See when you have to go out do it because listen we're gonna have to sacrifice allow us to wish addictions bring about some temporary pleasure into your life.
Where did you come for it sometimes it's the type of comfort
but when you have
a companion wish to live in the mystery.
look at this now.
He could help Salima Muslim providing service for a full loss of loss. Especially.
He would walk the profit walk he needs he would run get it in the
middle he would do it.
at one stage
sell your idea.
What do you mean your idea? What is the idea behind it? This is a companion.
He's living in the mystery. If any wonderful skeletons with a lot of holes with a lot of God, we all have sort of luck and allies
that come that will come
in see if this is your way that will come. But if you're not available, it will still come
go back to
Somalia, Sudan, Somalia
why it's called locker because it's the act of rapport in the salon. So don't do that without Salah masala accepted
that's another thing
but here it is
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if the Hereafter is you go gymnasia go look at this
a lot will place his riches in his heart he's gonna seem so rich all the time
he's gonna have the perfect lifestyle what to do
and the dinner will come from the call and the wife will come.
Windows 64 before the last change the place the people
who invite you to that sin.
that when Allah subhanho wa Taala said about the feeble of the Hellfire
lemma only tsp has shown
up soon into him
in this verse,
He said everyone will be thrown into what I had to be left
drinking those are the people that you want to be with in the hereafter.
Oh Anna says that a bit when Kenya rasulillah matassa. When is the hour?
the hell out of that knowledge. You know, what did you prepare for the hour? What did he do for the hour? Is it too much? Except that I love a lot and witnessing just
asleep boy unlock this was one of the most beautiful things that we heard from the message of Omar. I mean, I love Allah His Messenger. I love a blue book and
and we hope in a law that he will gather us wisdom in general, even though our our actions does not do not attain us best status.
personally met the one who killed the 100 shows what was the advice of the shape of the school up to him? What did you say to him?
Well, you have a chance to live with that addiction is a serious objective to killing it.
So what a few 100 people
but we'll leave that place. Where did that place?
perfect place for a sin.
What did he do?
She tore his shirt.
That was the thing from the back
of the three went into the cave and each one of them have to come up with a hammer in order for the truck to be removed for them to exit. What happened to the second man who loved his cousin female cousin
who was sitting out there. She said
Oh I hang around these guys. They drink potato drink. They smoke and guess what they have a very famous line they say ask for help.
The SWAT had the companion is a poodle. He will put him first.
He will treat him the relationship is not going to stay new. The last minute
Sharla only five minutes
the dispose of girls who have been the
painted from such a way you may have, for example, a four
And remember this
one of those people asked
He said to him, I'm sick
in the same sector in a lot of that nature.
So I knew that you can treat me,
you said What's wrong with you.
He said, there is a sin that I always go back to,
I cannot leave it.
He said, when you commit the sin, remember these five things.
find an Earth, different to the earth of Allah.
Find the place, Allah created this earth.
To you see the food that you're nourishing the body with with which you gain the strength to be able to sell with a provision away from the provision of Allah. Accept from the rest of Allah. Number three, find the place where a lot goes unseen.
Find a place where you can be seen.
Number four, we'll keep doing this and the Angel of Death comes to sees you tell him Please wait until I return to the angel of death that
number five individuals will ask you that you do that simple will know lifelong law.
We have a nurse.
So that's why I
will never disappear from a license in law.
law for musicians, for speaking you have to do
Someone was crucified for us.
This is a this is an indication to sin.
Allah will guide them strive, strive, you're sitting.
I close with this. And I promise
someone who was engaged in such a silly
thing, feel the guilt and the remorse. And he didn't know what to do.
And he sat in front of the house on the top of the hill.
Word that a mother has beaten up her child.
And she said to him get out of the house. The child misbehaved get out of the house.
Get out of here.
She kicked him out and she locked the door.
So the little boy started walking around and exploring life being away from the mother and the house.
And then we came back knock.
The mother wouldn't open.
didn't started 30
days I'm sorry. Please let them stay.
I won't do this again.
Please. peribulbar can please, please, please. She finally opened the door and given him
the best example of the heavens and the earth. That's what we need to
do wait. Either we online the same thing. Yes. They can repeat
way so often it was a bit of
I want to hit bertoldo.
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