The Rights Of Wives
Channel: Jamal Zarabozo
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after each segment
any comments or questions to make sure we understand
the property we'll make sure we understand how to talk
as an enabler
for both men and women,
before coming to the charge, the women are supposed to be priority anyway.
The first part
the revival of
when people talk about the revival of example, when people talk about
applying extravagance today
and removing some
of society and enforcing
to not need a revival or read all of the teachings in that area.
Many societies in the world and in many
relationships between the wives are not always the
most people think but actually when you're alone, you will find out that they are not
the relationship between
life and every aspect of our life.
Before we get to the
relationship between husband and wife
and the rights
our brother and sister
first before anything else
All right. Does your brother
or sister know
It doesn't mean just among the brothers
and the sisters are male and the female
as a as a mother,
brothers and brothers,
it comes to your mind completely different behaviors
to be there
she has towards her husband and
his teacher Patty is supposed to not.
But we are also on
our database we are
living abroad, that there should be even more of a relationship between the husband and wife because our data
so, in order for us to have calmness and tranquility and happiness with
anything I think
any has to do with their property according to
the relationship between a man
on the other
between the husband and wife and which which each spouse each felt find comfort in the other and a little
So we are
and so forth.
In fact, we have to go through all of the rights
that we have
relationship or the proper behavior of life.
the best of you
we have our brothers will feel that way
to do it shows
than complaining completing
First of all,
before we get into the
from the from the
job of the man on demand to be the head of
position of authority over a woman
he's in a position of authority
not be looked at as a Buddhist
but it should be looked at as
obligation to be the head of the household and therefore, he is responsible for
for the household are the best
possibility that they
are the leader
or the last
minutes more obligation
will be asked
about their position at our facility
located more as a position of obligation of the situation where they
have to make sure that every decision that they make for the household they have to do their best to make sure that every decision they make is in the best interest of their family of their wives and children.
And they should also realize that they're not
specific to the needs of this
have to realize that they have
a wife and children
and then and then
and then trying to find the best decision the best action
then they make the decision and the decision
by the members of the family as a situation traditionally,
to make the best decisions for the family, but then when they when they make a decision that is an obligation upon the members of
just wanted to get
out of the way or the draw my mind for
make sure that we are applying
the relationship between husband wife
out the relationship between
creation and finally,
situation where the
dominant position in the household This is a position of obligation, positional authority in which you should feel our data concerning that information
available obligation of number two
any questions you might have?
I would open the floor to questions you
the rights of the wife
I guess you could say the rights of the husband or the wife and the obligation
refers to the individual's rights and rights
different job of putting
The first way
to be treated to be treated
to change your life
is here and this person particular
obligation for the teacher, and I try and
not be exact exactly
the way this will be determined according to environment
much time during the day
and this environment
in most cases, if people want to survive financially, they will have to take the job, which will require them to work 40 hours a week, if not more,
the wife, the husband is working 40 hours a week it would be it would be beyond the rights of the wife.
Also those 40 hours today would
be beyond the
rise of the web. And also because of our situation here, for example, don't have a recording here.
They have to spend more time going through the Market Report
20 minutes or half an hour,
they are determined by
suppose to be treated
but the thing is that
that the wife has general throughout the Muslim society and the way that they treat in general each Muslim person is obliged to do his best to make sure that his wife gets the same and similar rights
to treat his wife in the best manner.
we find this about our treatments,
we have to keep them well.
He mentioned the word
concerning be aware of a loved
the one word
You will recognize
been pushing her outside,
when a man
gets into a marital situation
that is married, first of all,
a woman or female,
nature in general females have different problems.
The month of men trying to force their wife to be completely
the way that she wants there to be
a meaning of breaking the
even before he before he gets married, and she
has a wife, which is different from from him, because if you try
to change the wife who wants
for the marriage,
elastic are flexible right?
responsibility or duty to try to do things that will make his wife
happy. What I mean by happy
you should not be serious all the time, you should not have kind of nature where the wife is no joy.
He comes home, he is either in a serious mood he never he never playful with his wife.
When he used to be with his wife used to be
wiser, more mature, so he was
be more playful with her
public, to play sports, situated to enjoy
is supposed to be
the things that don't need to eat for
make her happy and so forth as
a way to make sure that she is behaving properly.
an obligation upon you for
more control over
his way and obligation
to make sure that you're doing what is proper. Now, I said that this will not be mentioned
any comments or questions
you don't have the right to force her to do those activities which are specifically for
the right to
the rifle herd and she gives you the same rights that are common among the people in society.
Obviously, you cannot,
you cannot if your wife
and you're not
able to force it to work yet
you don't have the right to force you to dress. Traditionally.
A woman or a wife is supposed to behave. But unfortunately
the brother was describing to me,
situation like this
might be one of many arguments.
waiting, this verse
general the Jewish woman general specifically
under the authority of
in general the right
custody of children
children are young
she's adopted because of the rights and the challenges brought up.
There's no law, there's no state authority making sure that something like
given permission to marry a Jewish Christian woman
to run the children
would that feel
we're talking about a situation
the woman and the woman and the drawbridge.
The children forward to the
to the Father
depends on what you mean by
No to medicine
then the judge could decide
to allow the children to remain
will not be sufficient
individuals specific work from that
situation, they don't necessarily
have to be in one area
the husband is attending a man
with a wife,
the ex wife is in a situation that
when it comes to
keeping away from music,
situation or action.
What do you mean by that?
That has a very weak evidence that his
opinion has a very weak evidence and in general rejected by
that action is still considered unacceptable.
Distinguish between two
One is where the husband
and the wife
and both, both those actions have strong evidence for them.
For sure, there's no question about it. Everything will be stronger than the
water will be able to distinguish without a doubt that this is correct.
there's two things,
that has some strong evidence whatever the evidence for has not been,
and that it needs to be considered or should be considered
as opposed to this way.
And one has a strong evidence for
evidence which is unacceptable
or is completely dominated by the evidence and the other point of view. And there is no excuse for following
so the situation
to be rejected and
I would say
absolutely no evidence whatsoever for the permissibility of music.
And if you want to go on even more detail, if you want to talk about what
of the children
the only Muslim
in the last lecture
you won't be
in the area
are we thinking in consideration
to be taken into consideration
as much as
as long as
those those things that you mentioned
to make an appointment, because some people have decided to go to the government as opposed to the last the last time
and what I mean
situation being respected
anytime the court here should be avoided, because the courts and our design
they can make any
situation I guess we should try to get
clever more clever more or argue
according to standard law and the agreed to marry according to law and order
the to the to the man and the wife
always tried to get a lawyer present the case and situated the situation, according to law
can move on brothers
we are only allowed to marry.
We're only allowed married
we are not allowed
to protect the honor of his wife
same time he should not affect the wife.
The wife has the right
not allow for a man to marry a Christian woman. And the reason he said that is because I not know any
greater than to take
for someone to save
world whatever it
that we do not follow.
is a situation where he is
trying to be more
what he is he is trying to stress the point that
he needs to know
more and more
Getting back to the point that
he has to defend our
He does not have the right to suspect and to
learn without any code
or some speculation and some
if you have
good thoughts about someone else,
and therefore we
consider your honor to be
the one where there's no reason to suspect anything. This means
they are overly suspicious of their life. And this goes against the
The Wire has the right to be sustained
in a way that is proper for her
to be extravagant to spend too much nor to
Nor do we spend all the money that we have
of Halloween children's award
beyond the beyond the basic need
She knows that
she has to maintenance
those who have
was born in Colorado,
for whatever reason you didn't know
even if you've
been living this way
the reduced standard of living
continues to be maintained.
Going into a
I want you to get a job. And because you're paying all the bills,
nothing to do with this you made it
I'm looking at two situations here one situation that now exists where other claims that his wife doesn't consider
telephone bill, he doesn't want to pay the electric and he thinks that because of the fact that she's nothing
that she should go out and get a job to help them with the support and they're looking at another situation
and really no responsibility to provide either one
thing in regards to force and I suppose if you say force that was
the beginning of a recession came along.
As opposed to getting $500 a week
in order for them to survive, she may be forced to work.
Even if the marriage comes to an end,
to find different different types of law
the second point is that the
application and the reward that you get.
So whenever we spend our
that you spend in the way
that you spend
spend on your family,
the greatest rewards those are the ones who spend
the greatest reward
we are getting
to do with the laws of marriage and divorce, so, we'll leave them for
the next workshop.
to make sure that his wife has the power is acknowledged
position of responsibility
as we mentioned in the
for different people
No knows about menstruation and wants to consider menstruation with respect
reading between the period
to make sure that his wife has the proper knowledge and the proper knowledge of the things that she has to do. He should or
should make sure that she knows their obligations in the
The wire is not normal. She has the right to leave the house without his permission to get
that she has the right to leave the house without permission.
to go out
and one brother
going to the last
minute you should not prevent your wife if your wife has permission to go
should not prevent you from going to
first of all the
only one going to get that anyway. Even shereena
that person is going
to be pregnant before now things have gotten done
to attend the job.
But he ended up no
that would be
Go to the wall.
You don't want
us to go to the mosque because there's an overriding principle in the show. Yeah.
Then this is your
if men and women are making
situation like that, where there's something wrong
and then he has the right to
make the statement that
is not true. These are regards to bringing the knowledge
outside of the home,
take money from her husband.
right to take the money from him
that she has to go abroad
without permission, but then there's the prohibition of
the situation should never be
situation where Jelena traveled to New York.
Two things, one is the situation where you're not getting the knowledge.
And I was stressing how important it is for him to get by thing as
she can get it, that she has the right to leave the house without permission. Now the situation where she can't get that
he will allow it to go to somebody to get the knowledge
that he doesn't have the right to or to
that he or she has
the right to
their permission. And this is one of the ways he can provide
watching the cost of
providing support with
individuals they can
to say that
or the other
obviously, this is within the limits of reason
should not be allowed to build a
a one to one way to buy a watch
if you can find one to buy
any one of them and then when it comes to affordable housing and
and the same thing that he doesn't show any for any
hopefully easy to see he should not show any further any further
talking about assisted living in a certain way he wants to get
away from his first wife
to get another job.
mathematically inclined to figure that out
the situation over
what would happen was the before the brother was giving more than
less, but still more than
going down now
or another This one is
show more preference
than anything that
you say showing preference over and
over every now, I think I will be lighter one day weekend
my preference because you know sometimes I
mentioned earlier the
just showing our security with respect to being
a woman has the right to be treated in a certain way
when we can see the the marriages that are crumbling or
when the when the woman is being disobedient
The three steps that you should take away
showing shows when the shows means that she's showing
a general attitude.