Riyadh Us Saliheen – 07-06-2022

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via the cell Hey, I said Allah subhanaw taala anybody can see now if you monitor lemma one you ever feel alone as alert were for a limb only if you were for either a get op or lead. So today inshallah we'll move on to the next Hadith

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam under this chapter of Hassan Hello, good manners.

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Last time we talked about the hadith of of delight, and I'm going to be the house when he says, let me put in the visa Allahu alayhi wa sallam our foundation of motivation. What can they afford?

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In military come celcom o'clock. So today inshallah we'll move on to the hadith of adapta I would adapt one of the great companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Mommy che in of color theme is and movement yomo Kiama then husband followed by the shade of color Finis and movement Yamo cam I mean Hasni a hook

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in this hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned the virtue of the Hassanal Club, which is good manners. As you know that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Allah has sent me to perfect good manners. And Allah subhanaw taala and the Quran mentioned the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are to be born the best manners in dealing with all of the three entities. In this life you are dealing with Allah, you're dealing with yourself and you're dealing with others. Good manners are supposed to be observed in dealing with each and every one of them. When you deal with Allah subhanaw taala you have to deal with him with good manners. That means you have to deal with

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him with the taqwa. And this is a good manner you know with Allah subhanaw taala Taqwa means to stay in the place where Allah subhanaw taala kept you not to move if Allah swore to do not ask you to walk, and not to stay in a place if Allah smarter doesn't want you to stay in that place. That's the true definition of the name Muslim. Because a Muslim or Islam means a total submission to the will of Allah subhanho wa taala. So if a person wants to observe good manners, he must make sure that he is standing upright, doing that which Allah subhanaw taala loves and staying away from anything that Allah subhanaw taala detest.

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That's the middle of the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, where he says to me, when our Buddha Allah give it he says it took a hypermarket that's having more I'm a good mom, Allah.

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Allah, Allah may Allah azza wa jal

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you stay away from anything that Allah subhanaw taala hates, and you observe those matches which Allah subhanaw taala warns.

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So this is a very long and wide topic. And this is the first and the most important element you should have in this life. There are some who focus on the third category of Mala Mala, and they ignore the first and the second. And these are the wrongdoers and the kuffaar. On top of all, when they misbehave towards Allah subhanho wa Taala by committing schicken associated partner with him, you know, this is the worst type of Mamilla

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you know, some people might be surprised why is somebody going to hell after having this intensive amount of kindness to others, but this is the most illogical approaches that somebody can ever adopt. Why do I say that?

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Because Allah subhanho wa Taala is the One who created you. Allah subhanaw taala is the one who, you know, maybe lost power as the one who provided you, you know, with everything, whatever you need Allah subhanaw taala brought that one to you.

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You're supposed to be, you know, doing that which she likes. You're supposed to be doing things which are pleasing to Him. Because naturally, people loved that, who did good things towards them. By nature, we turn to incline and bring good things not to those who are good to us. So we find some people who as a way who are away from this nature, they will take the rights of Allah Swartz and give it to others. And they confess that the one who did almost everything for them in their life is Allah. So it doesn't make sense that I take all of the

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rites of Allah's words and give it to others who do not do anything, actually to the other, although they might be kind. They might be generous. They might be gentle MIB so and so you know the grinds mean so many things of this dunya

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but if you go back to the root of all of these things that they are given to you, they're all coming from who Allah who is the one who gives them ability to think of favoring you and honoring you, Allah subhanaw taala that's why you can see the community this keeps so many people and they come to you, because Allah azza wa jal make them think about you to come and benefits you because that thing is part of the risk. So if there is anyone to be praised, it should be the source of everything. And that's Allah subhanho wa taala. That's why knowing the nature of the human beings allows one to present himself in many places. as Carlos said one of the reasons why he praised himself because if

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he asked us to praise him in the way he deserves, we will definitely get into trouble hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen hamdulillah and with the antenna labs in Qatar many places Allah subhanaw taala mentioned the word that hamdulillah it says For Katya that they will come in Levine available when he cuts the root of those criminals who are disturbing the community. There are also people who think that they do have a right to disturb the community from the past and for the present, Allah is going to prescribe heavy lowers to curve the bad attitude and evil man is some of them when Allah wants to destroy them completely. He said for cochlear Davino Camila de novo will hamdulillahi

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rabbil aalameen. He destroyed them all. He erased them from the society so that the community will enjoy peace. What did Allah Sparta says after? What did he say after that? He said that hamdulillah hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen. So I just want you to understand, why is it possible for a caliphate? Who does suspect Allah smarter to go to help? Because he's taking the right of Allah sports and giving it to to others? So the first one that you should correct, you know, and beautify and develop a good and healthy relationship with is Allah subhanho wa taala. And then Ma Ma Ma Ma nefs you have to beautify your Ramallah with yourself, how do I be good person to myself, you will lie you should

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be like that, by doing things which are beneficial to you because if I approve something which is harmful to me, especially in my relationship with Allah subhanaw taala I'm misbehaving towards myself, because at the end of the day, who will get into trouble when he meets Allah, myself? That's why the prophets Allah sama said, well, actually, so you added Hassan.

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And you should always follow the evil deed with that with the righteous one. You know, as human being, you're going to commit sin walabot. No matter how much you try to stay away from sins, you're going to commit sins from time to time.

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And when you are committing sin, you are misbehaving towards yourself. Because the body is going to be punished by Allah, on the day of judgment, and you are the one who put yourself into trouble. So how to clean this you know, and be good to yourself and be kind to yourself, the prophets. Allah sama said, if you look at your nature, you will find you as somebody who is capable of committing sins from time to time. So how do you fix it? The only way for you to fix it is to

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is to repent to Allah subhanaw taala the only way to fix it is to repent to Allah subhana wa Tada when you repent. The prophets Allah sama said, the one who repents is equal to somebody who doesn't have acid because Toba erases that which a person did in the past and the present. And when he goes back to Allah subhanaw taala, Allah will replace the places and the position of the evil deed with the righteous one. So that how you should behave, you know, righteously, towards yourself. But unfortunately, we focus more on our physical appearance. You know, when we are unhealthy physically, we go to the doctors were very particular concerning this matter. But when your religion is

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affected, which is this free to all kind of illness, and the worst type of disease, to have problems in your heart, this is the worst type of disease, who cares to approach the the real doctors person in this matter? Nobody except a few. You know, when I'm sick physically, I go to the hospital. And I ask, Who is the doctor that is in the office today? You know, if he told me that this one, so if I have doubt I left the place I tell them when is the duty of that as well. So a very particular because I want somebody who I believe to be an expert in the field to tackle my case. That's what we do, you know, whenever we approach a health, you know, officer, you know, concerning our physical

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health, this is supposed to be applicable in our spiritual

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You know, health, you know, when we approach we approach the experts, but unfortunately, who is that person that we meet an expert expert in this regard? Google YouTube, you know Subhanallah anonymous personalities are going to give you a fatwa on how to approach Allah subhanaw taala. How is it possible for you to think that this is okay you know, when you go and, and and type whatever you need in the religion, you know, how many options you have a lot, which was correct, and some of them by Allah designed by Kufa Longo somebody gave me a bunch of, you know, papers, you know, huge amount of collections of websites designed by the enemies of Allah smarter. All of them are Kufa, Jews and

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other orientalist, you know, they design these websites, you know, and some of them the name is Quran and Sunnah Quran, you know, you know, Islamic names, but who is behind them, the enemies of Allah subhanaw taala, because they know, the vast majority of the Muslims, especially the young ones, the younger ones, you know, they have no place to praise more, you know, and they seem to be very simple and easy to be approached than the internet. So they weren't pleased that their opinions there in the way they misguide. And you can see how much you know, from amongst the younger community, you know, amongst the Muslims, the how many people are getting to be defeated because of

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this attitude. So, it's my personal advice that I always mentioned, you know, you've been a witness, you know, many times I tell people that Internet is a very good source of information. But when it comes to the religious matters, these are the most sensitive things in your life. You should be very serious, go to the scholars who are next to you and contact them and ask them, because you might have a question about Allah subhanaw taala about the source of this information, where do we get it? You cannot tell Allah SmartSide got it from the YouTube or from the Google.

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You know, you must mention the person who told you and that person might be brought, you know, these places could be manipulated. I remember one of our great scholars, he refused to give fatwa that is going to be placed on the website. And they asked me why he said no, but was sometimes manipulated. You see a fatwa being, you know, attributed to a chef, by reading that photo, you know that? No, this is not supposed to be correct, especially when they translated from the original word, when you go back to the correct text, and you find the correct information about that, I think you know, so I really urge I mean, every Muslim to go directly to the scholars who are next to him and contact them

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and leave internet aside when it comes to the religious matters, you can benefit from the internet, you know, we have millions of benefiting is a very, very good blessings of Allah smart Allah for this ummah. But when it comes to the matters of the religion, these are very sensitive matters. Very sensitive matters. You don't go to the internet and check about your health and take the prescription given to you by the Google. You don't do that usually, except the person who has no any other option. So go to the scoreless as long as you can find them. Only when you cannot find anyone to refer to then you can go to the internet because that's the extent of your ability to get an idea

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and it's safer for you when Allah has wanted to ask you who told you this? It told him of drama.

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Tomorrow alas water will bring you a line and he will be questioned. Where did you get this? And he's gonna say share, carry, not Ibrahim Of course she came to him.

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And can you move abroad you know Kareem will be asked he will say this told me this told me until the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam they were saved to be cleared

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if you go to those areas and you don't have any reference How can you protect yourself when you meet Allah squatter and he asked you about the source of the information that you base your religion on. So please do take this matter very seriously. You know the books right the books if you go through the books alone, Imam Abu Hanifa Longo said if your books are use you, your mistakes are going to be more than your correctness.

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No one will be there commented they see this other type of books he'll

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send the shots they call them. Because Allah subhanaw taala here, so be very careful, be very careful. You need a scholar to guide you, you know, living scholar, not an abstract living scholar. If you don't have such one, you might get into trouble in the in the future. And what we're doing actually when we go to interface and you get 1000 options or whatever option they give you, you know, check the first one you're not happy with that equal to the second one also not happy with that, you know, what are you doing? They call this fatwa shoppings right. And long ago they mentioned this they said if you are looking for the consensus of consensus concessions of the

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scholars, you know, always looking for the Roxane belenenses of the scholars. You will end up losing your religion

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and won't check and see the truth of my statement.

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Many people lost their religion because of this. That's how she can trap a person, you know, you go looking for this looking for that. And those people will never be certain in their worship. Imagine if I select one of the scholars that I feel that this person feels Allah and I asked him for the fatwa, and he gave me the fatwa. And I use it, I'll be certain, but if I go to Korea, I go to Bashir. I go to hacky, you know, I didn't know which one is correct, because each and every one of them is giving me different opinion, no matter how much I tried to select one of them to tout or remain, not as in the case of the case of the first person who just selected one chef and asked him,

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I just want the home of Allah subhanaw taala concerning this matter,

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what does Allah subhanaw taala ask us to do? And the chef told him, this is aligned with us, this is what I'm looking for. He went and he worship Allah subhanaw taala with that opinion, if that opinion is wrong, who's in trouble? The chef, not him. Because he did what Allah is going to ask him to do when he says, Ask those people who knows, if you don't know, so he went, he asked us color, who is trusted, but that's color made a mistake. And even that's color. If that mistake was not intentional, essentially made, he's also not going to be in trouble to get an idea, he will be in trouble if he is doing that intention. But the scholars said and this is also a very important point

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to be noted, if you are in a place where you need to ask question from the scholars and he did not ask the scholars the question, you will be seen. If you do it by yourself, you will be seen and even if you do it correctly, because you did not do that which Allah has wanted to ask you to do. What is that? Asking questions whenever you need and the possibility of you doing it in the wrong way is very, is very high. Ticket idea religions of Allah religion of Allah Sparta is not a joke. Unfortunately nowadays we take it as a joke. And the easiest thing to be to be said you know fatwa is not given by everyone you know, and Allah is not a joke, you know, in the past used to travel,

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you know, 1000s of kilometres, believe it or not to collect a few Heidi's Jaga. Even Abdullah went to Sham to meet up the live in Oles to confirm Hadith from the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and he spent one month go into shock just to confirm the Hadith. He doesn't have any intention except to go and confirm that they're very particular and serious concerning who is given that information. Hubbard was silly and has a very nice statement concerning that matter. And a blind robotic also has very excellent statement concerning that matter, you know, that is not the chain of transmission the scholars that you are taking knowledge from this is part of your religion and therefore, you should

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be very particular and select selective concern and who to take religion, you know from and if they understood you know, maybe they did not understand that concept correctly, you know the predecessors, but in our time will Allah He would you understand, because he have huge amount of collection of the scholars, you know, all the speakers or the so called scholars who cannot be trusted you know, although they have the knowledge you know, huge amount of knowledge. But unfortunately, the fear of Allah smart Allah is not there. So you are not sure whether they will give you the correct one or not. You know it based on how much you pay, right? That's how the fatwa

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has been given. That's why the Ummah is not in many instances, especially the field of Islamic finance and economics.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam talks about the virtue of the good manner, he says, ma'am, in Chi in quality means and in movement, yo melki Ahmed Hassan, in on the Day of Judgment, you are looking for one single reward, you know, to make the scale heavier. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam guided us that we shouldn't belittle.

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Both read the righteous deed as well as the sins because some since they are so evil in the way they can go deeply back and destroy your good deeds. The hadith of Cibola give is very clear to us whereby this man worshiped Allah subhanaw taala for 70 years 70 years of worship continuously. You can see that this person is AWAY FROM SIN zero 70 years the man was isolated himself in the forest. He comes once in a week to fetch some food 70 years of righteousness. And then he decided to take a break is what a prostitute woman he looked at how he was distracted, he went to her and her relationship with her for seven nights. You know, 70 years versus seven night isn't our inner code

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if it is, according to our calculation, you 70 years, only seven night when you take maybe closer to full dose

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717 years and only seven nights

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are so hot Allah this is not the way Allah

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aspirants, Allah see things you know,

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things they have wait, they have mass, you know, this person when Allah subhanaw taala asked the angels to weigh his deed of 70 years, against the seventh night, the seventh night became heavier than the 70 years.

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What can he do nothing? And why is he going to hell Allah has commanded them to take him to help.

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But before then Allah subhanaw taala, I'm sorry, law did not command them, but he was supposed to go to hell according to judgment, because the side of the righteous deed is lighter than the sight of the evil deeds. And this evil deeds are very small in terms of size, or in terms of the weight, they're heavier than the deeds of 70 years.

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But then the prophets Allah Azza wa said Allah smart, Allah asked the angels to bring a piece of bread that he gave in charity, one piece of bread, you know, one piece of bread, you know,

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how much you buy the bread. Now, today didn't get for you to know, one piece of bread, but he gave somebody who is in need, you know, he also gave it as a gift. He gave it to somebody else as a gift also. But that piece of bread saved when they put that piece of bread, you know, you cannot say that, Oh, just go and take hundreds of reds and give it to charity, you know, I get that one. You know, Allah is the One who gives the weights to the, to the to the things you're doing, you know, you might find that give a charity of the amount of

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but it is lesser than the wink of a mosquito in terms of wait. No, that that's why the prophets, Allah Samoan, he looks into the righteousness of his companions. He said, If you spend like the amount of effort of gold, you know, in charity, and a companion of the Prophet Allah sama just spent one hand of rice, one hand of rice or wheat, in charity, his is more valuable in the eyes of Allah smarter than yours. It's a matter of what

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it's all about Iman,

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Iman of those ones is far greater than what we have. So you can see that person because of the evil deed of seven, nine, he was almost going to go to to help what saved him a very insignificant, righteous deed, you know, Ico, very insignificant righteous deeds, you know, eyes, but what's the one that has more significance than all of those 70 years.

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And when they put the bread on the scale, then the scale the size of the righteous deeds became heavier than those seven nights. Alas, martela forgave him and he took him to paradise. That's why the prophets Allah sama said, do not belittle any righteous deed no matter how much small it is, And subhanAllah dealing with Allah Sparta is very interesting he made he made the door very open for us, you know, in the way every one of us can participate in righteousness.

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He says Dr Salah if I cannot do if I cannot help somebody help him to push his, his animal nowadays we say to push his his car is used to Hala sometimes some of the cars you know, they will get a person will get into trouble and everyone will be passing Allah and very unfortunate attitude. And some of us have, everyone will be passing and sometimes when we pass we press the orange to him. Yeah, he the cost of not because of his willingness, you know, it just stopped like this, he also can stop, you know,

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what are we supposed to do? Help him to keep the car aside, but nobody will do that, except a few. And what happens, you will see people are rushing to go to the offices in the morning, but Subhanallah the queue will be so long. And when you manage and after a long period of time you managed to reach the place you will just see as was that was just because of a car stopped on the way and as the two of you just stopped, you know the crowd and just pick up the car, you know,

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act like the kids, you know, the kids and this is true story. The one who was a part of the story was telling as they come to play football and unfortunately somebody parked his car in the place where they played the football and they were Allah, they carried

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it because you put the handbrake and so they carry the car, you know they push it put it aside and they continue with that.

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So that gives you this the best attitude to be done you know, when somebody is in need of help you know you support that person and get the word Allah who you might get Paradise, and I'm serious about that, you know, you might get Paradise by just parking your car and go into support that person to move to move his the province Allah sama told him try push his animal. Is it also life I cannot do that. He said help him to carry his belongings. He said he is from life. I cannot do that smile. Yeah, saliva cannot do that. You know, smile. I know what the problems are similar to him. It's a cook for shipwreck and

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he said don't harm anyone.

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This is also a charity

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Subhanallah you can understand why the scholar said if a person goes to help, definitely this one is a real loser, because all of the opportunities have been given to him but he lost and it burned on the chances given to him by a Lost Child. Remember that since Hadith, very interested, very interested Hadith, the person was just walking on the road, and he found something that is harmful to the people. Just pick it up and keep it aside so that nobody would get hurt. Just remove it from the road, you know, and keep it aside. And what what happens after that? Allah Sparta took him to Paradise because of this

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spatula. That was the thing that took him to paradise. You know, among all these he has this one Allah is much appreciated for that prostitute woman. No, she went into the well when she was so thirsty. And she saw a dog, dog. This is dog you know, in Islam, even if you keep dog in your house, you get into trouble with Allah subhanho wa Taala unless if you need it for security, but that woman woman saw a dog and she realized that this dog is also thirsty just like her situation. What did she do? She went inside the well she drank the water and Nezhat mocha Mocha is the the sushi he was wearing. He doesn't have any company container. So she bring water for the dog. She went up and she

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gave it to the dog because the dog when it goes there cannot come up. So she fed the dog. You know the prophets Allah Azza wa says she was a prostitute woman. And that acts of righteousness, you know, very simple, supporting an animal not human being an animal to live. The prophets Allah Allah is a shackle Allah hula, hola, hola, Swati, appreciate what she did. What halogen will go for Allah and Allah azza wa jal for people all of us it's that's why it is inappropriate for you to belittle any righteous deeds, because you don't know which righteous deed Allah Samantha will take and consider it as the thing that will take you to paradise. And the same goes to the sins also do not

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belittle anything because you don't know which one the last month is going to consider and judge you through it. So everyone is looking for a single deed to complete their scale in order to make their scale heavier. The prophets Allah sama has given you this, you know, good news, that one of the most important, you know, act of worship and righteousness that you do to please Allah subhanho wa Taala which will make the site of righteousness of your skill heavier than the wrong one is

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good manners.

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Okay, well, I'm good manners, saying the truth, being honest, not cheating. Respecting everyone, you know, especially the elders. Yeah, this is also what we learned and the scholars is also what we don't have, except in few instances, you know, it's a lecture, you know, meet your students. No, Salem, no, Cara, you know, and sometimes he had to tell them, please give me a way to pass you know, in the past didn't know this.

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And the Prophet salallahu Alaihe. Salam, I said, Les seminoma Linda Saphira. Well, I'm your career Anna, when I articulate I live in Hong Kong, the one who does not show respect to the, to the elders. Yeah, sometimes also, we think just because we are knowledgeable, you don't respect those people who are older than you. That's very, very, very, very wrong. Islamically Rasulullah sallallahu semer is far greater than the father of boobook.

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The son actually is way greater than his his father.

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And the father was not Muslim, but he converted to Islam afterward. When Abu Bakr brought him to the prophets, Allah is somebody who's very old. The prophets Allah sama was really annoyed with Abu Bakr.

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This is Rasul Allah don't forget, this is Rasul Allah you know, who comes to pursue Allah or the man, the man should come to us who likes to listen

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and to teach the Ummah that this is what we should be doing with the elders, you shouldn't let him come to you. Just because you are a scholar just because you whoever you are, you will never reach Rasul Allah is Allah Allah himself. But what did the prophets Allah say, Martel?

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He said, Abu Bakr, what happened? Why did he do that? It's a way to bring him. Why didn't you let me go to him? You know how he said, just let me know that he is interested in accepting Islam. I will go to his house.

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As Adam that's why he said the one who does not show respect to our elders is not one of us.

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Being able to Mohamed Salah Osama is tragedy you know, and he said the one who does not show mercy to the younger ones is not also one of us.

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You don't have time to the younger ones, right? That's why they are in the way they are

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for

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So let's allow somebody who's the greatest person you can ever hear in your life and see in your life.

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But he respects the young people, sit with him, make jokes with them, they play with him, he accepted.

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That's why he's the man of everyone.

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While I already booted, and even the one who does not recognize the right of us callers is not one of us. So we have to check, check this attitude, especially in environments such as such as this, it's very unfortunate when you see students and you see one of their lectures, you know, pass it, and he has to tell them, I'm here, please give me way to pass the pass, they don't know this. They see him they respect the showing and say salaam to him, happy to see him. But nowadays, it all changes. That's why the knowledge we have has no Baraka in it, you know,

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literally, that old attitudes must be maintained. You go to the classroom is you see almost everyone is using isn't what the phones right? In the, in the classroom with the Facebook and the lecture is speaking.

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This is these are the students in the class, and tomorrow, when they fail in the exam, who's to be blamed.

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The next year, I know, he did not do his job. And actually, one of the reason why coming to the class is mandatory, because you're going to learn from the madness of the chef, you know, sometimes they used to send their kids does call us to sit next to the chef not to learn something of that knowledge, in particular, but to learn from the edit of the scholars, how did he speak? How did he behave? You know, how did he How is he dealing with things, you know, these are very valuable attitude that we're supposed to be taking from us callers. But if we let something to distract it, to distract us, you know, when we're in his presence, how do we get these benefits.

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So these are good manners, speaking the truth respecting your parents, respecting everyone, you know, and that's Islam, respecting everyone who deserves respect.

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Respect your parents, you know, they deserve respect from no matter how much you try, you will never compensated

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respect your children. So they deserve respect, you know, which is like in in many places, you know, yeah, spotlight except, I mean, especially those places without mentioning the name, you know, what I'm talking about, in some places, we sell our children, you know, you hola we're selling them because the daughter has to be forced to marry somebody who she doesn't like.

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That's what they used to do with the slaves. They accept anyone, whether they like it, or they like it, though, is when you give your daughter to somebody who she hates, what they do it. And no matter how much you try to reason with you, you will never understand because this is what the cultural practice of that communities suggest.

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That's disrespecting children, to force them to marry somebody who didn't lie. This is disrespect.

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And this is against the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam as well. And I don't know how people are thinking in this way, because you're not the one who will be sitting with, with the spouse.

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So as parents, we have to respect to actually

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be respected, we should also respect

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in respect to your spouse, your wife, she deserve respect, right? Yeah, definitely she deserves

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and that respect will earn you a lot Subhanallah that attachment with that is supposed to be maintained between you and her. It is going to be based on that respect, if she doesn't see it, she is also going to give you the same thing.

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As a value accepting to submit herself to you is an honor. You have to understand this, although Allah smarter put you at a position, you know, which is a bit higher than health, when the last part is is really, really alakina Daraja you're considered the leader of the house and she has to obey you in doing that, which is righteousness, she respect to you respect, but this respect, you know, that is exchanged between you and her are not conditional or dependent on the respect of the other one, the wife cannot say I have to disrespect him because he doesn't respect me also, though, she will get into trouble with Allah subhanho wa taala. So every one of us as support is supposed to do

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his his job. We respect the leaders and the authority and the authority respecting the subordinate. That's why the province allowed Somerset and the Hadees which we talked about previously, he said, Can I tell you the best amongst you you are ima they said yes. Yes. Who Allah is visa, the one that loves you and you love them. You know, you make dua for them and they make dua for you. And the worst amongst the IMA, you know, your authority is the leaders. They are those ones that you hate them and they hate you.

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You know, so I like many places this is a situation they hate the subordinates and the subordinates.

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also hates them, their subordinates is making dua against them and then we can do against the subordinates

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shouldn't be like this, the profit and loss of a one two respectively maintain between the subordinate and the leaders, because it helps to have the, you know, subhanAllah the strong connection when it comes to the cooperation, the leaders will never succeed if there is rebellion in the in the community, they need that support. That's the reason why the prophets Allah Sama, knowing that there might be some change in the future. So he emphasized on this obedience and following the leaders even if they are wrong, we have to give them the right to process the losses. Very clearly, he said, To whom have gone or said Hola, hola de la. He said give them the right because some of

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their companion said jasola If they are wrong, people you know wrongdoers, why can to fight them with swords. The prophets Allah sama said no, you're not allowed to do that.

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He said unto them, the patient, in some places say he says even if they take your wealth also just be patient, always give him his right obedience, the acceptance and make dua for him, for him to be a righteous person so that he can bring good to the Ummah and ask Allah Sparta to take your rightful and try your best to fix yourself because the authority as the scholars have mentioned, the reflection of the attitude of the people in the community. So, hence, there is a very wide you know, concept you know, which includes everything that is considered as righteousness, that is considered righteousness in fishery of Allah subhanho wa taala. So the prophets Allah sama said, I have never

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come across something that is heavier than those who hope on the MISA and on the scale on the day of judgment, and I guess everyone should be interested in knowing this from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and he says, When Hola Hola, yo boo Alpha sha Allah. Allah subhanaw taala hates that person who excessively committed sins in especially the minor and the major sins, and also the person who talks in the wrong way. Alpha the alpha means to speak wrongly idle talk, useless talks, talks that are shameful and inappropriate.

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The next hadith is a Hadith of Abu Dhabi, Allahu Akbar Allah so Allah rasool Allah, He said Allahu alayhi wa sallam and actually made fun of NASA Janna pilot Chuckwalla hustle Hello. Pursue Elon actually made

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a NASA now call for a jewel from the prophets, Allah Allah Suma was asked this hadith of Abu Huraira about the vast majority of the actions and activities that usually take people to paradise. You know those actions that lead to Paradise, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, Chuckwalla who Heslin Hello, top Allah means righteousness, fear in fear, fear of Allah subhanahu Bucha to fear Allah subhanaw taala This is top Allah, which means to practice that which last one I want you to do to practice the religion. In short,

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hope means good manners, which is the branch of the topo of Allah subhanahu wa. Because if a person fears Allah, He will have good behavior towards others. As long as that Taqwa of Allah smart Allah is good is correct, it will result in having good manners towards others. Unfortunately, some people have good relationship with Allah subhanaw taala regular goes to the massage. But unfortunately when it comes to dealing with others, they're very bad. That's why in Islam, when you look for a spouse, you're focusing on both Taqwa of Allah subhanaw taala. And in good manners, because you might find somebody who is very good in the prayers, his relationship with Allah subhanaw taala. But

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unfortunately, he did not let this result in having good relationship with with others. That's why it's necessary to check for both. So the prophets Allah Azza wa said, the vast majority of the activities that lead to paradise are based on the top of Allah subhanaw taala, and good manners, righteousness, and goodness. And they ask him also about that which usually takes people to help the prophets that Allahu Allah who said them I said, alpha, alpha.

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Alpha means that which is uttered by the tongue

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Yeah, the vast majority of the sins you know, are committed by by the tongue. That's why the prophets Allah holy sunnah, told them are even able to control the tongue after telling him the roots, you know, of the religion of Allah subhanaw taala the most important thing to be done to please Allah subhanaw taala he says Cavalli cada he held his tongue under control this. So what are the bingeable Asking me? How are we going to be in trouble because of what we say? The prophets Allah Soma said, Yes. Is there anything that is actually putting people and putting them deep down into hell? That is worse than that which they have rested by by their tongue source. controlling the

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tongue is very important in itself.

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As I said, the vast majority of the sins including the ship, they are committed by by the Taliban. So that's why he said alpha mu, one footage alpha, which means the private part, these are issues of the desire, right? When the ICS send a message to the heart and then the heart, you know, reflected upon that if a person is not careful, you know, it will result in bad behavior. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said in the hands of a blind eye, but he says, Mara che and I Chabahar dilemma women Kali, and maybe slightly similar they live in a basket I have never seen something that is closer to the interpretation of the word a lemma. And so to manage him Allah smart Allah

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says Olivia, he said he will acaba well for hash lemma, praise the good Muslims. And he mentioned that these are the ones that strays away from the major sins, and they don't do any fashion except for the case of the llama. Llama is the minuses of the life not bad said I've never come across something which is the closest interpretation of the word lemon than the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Lismer that says, the eyes committed Zina, and the hands committed Zina. And the legs also committed Zina while footages of the Kinetica we can do, but the private part is the one that is testifying that or denying that but all of these limbs also they committed Zina, because when the

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ICS is also Zina, although it is not as big as the real Xena, and the handles when they touch. They're committed Zina, although it is not as evil as the real Xena and the leg when they go to the place that is when they hear. You know, they're all committed Zina, according to the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So these are the things that we call minor, since they're supposed to be as the mean taken away. So the vast majority of the sins that lead to help the prophets Allah sama said, they are committed by the tongue and the private parts. So that means if a person can guarantee you know himself, you know the preservation of these two, you know, part of his

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body, be even like Abdullah he will be able to make you to to Paradise, Allah subhanaw taala grant is good and Tofik and be with us wherever we are in the hood ecology meeting caffeine. So how the Colombo Handicare shadow Allah, Allah, Allah and I still forgot to relate Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh