Ibrahim Nuhu – 115 The Disease And The Cure

Ibrahim Nuhu
AI: Summary © The transcript is a series of statements made by various speakers, including Subhanallah stating that they are going to be smart and the class is at the peak. Subhanab proportionally claims that they are going to be smart, but the class is at the peak. They also discuss a recent video game and mention a potential return to the video game industry in the future.
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Elio Ashura mean.

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Shari Jumada Acura el verbo Mia Wasilla says more about almost perfectly

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as soon as the actual missionary January and find where Islam where she was ill there was an if you haven't Kitab in the Mobarak de

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Esser, Allah subhanaw taala anybody can see now a few minutes when you have a federal zealot where federalism I'll leave you with either a roofie allele.

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So today inshallah we'll continue from

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where we stopped last

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last class. And

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I guess

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today we are supposed to move to the rest of the commentary mentioned by ImmunoCAP.

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After quoting from the surah moment on the scene of Allah subhanaw taala called me known until

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the place where he says, family, whatever our very comfortable acorn will do.

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So you call him you call him or him hola who had a terminal telephoto morning.

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And Mr. Lamia falls virgin cola make a minimum of

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one hour minimum alumi while I'm in the middle column says this last part of this idea contain contains three things.

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Number one, whoever does not preserve his private part, let me a communal mafia he will never be amongst the successful people.

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Wherever engage in these activities which are prohibited Islamically he is not going to be counted as a Muslim.

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And you know, only the mostly home can succeed on the day of judgment can pass the test and make it to paradise. That's why Allah subhanaw taala says Hola, como Diwali Thorne, Aladdin era Philadelphia there was a Humphrey Hakala duel.

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So it looks like him says from this higher we learn that if a person doesn't preserve his private apparent and his honor, he is not counted amongst the successful one Islamically because the true success in in life is

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based on what Allah subhanaw taala sees as a success, not based on what we see, you know, people based success on so many

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things, which it turns to be fake at the end of the day.

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So the true Successes In Life is fella that is based on following the laws of Allah subhanho wa taala. So the first thing is, if a person doesn't preserve his honor and dignity and private part, then he is not amongst them awfully.

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Not only that, the second thing under one minute salumi, he will be amongst the blamed people, those people who are blameworthy they deserve to be blamed. They are blamed by Allah subhanaw taala and you know, what will happen from the community, whoever is known to be practicing these type of things. He will not be trust, you will not to be trusted by by anyone, the community

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will face a lot of problems

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in his relationship with others in his marriage, you know, wherever he goes, people will have different types of Look at him.

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Well, I know middle malubay

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Well Amina Ladin and he will be counted in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala amongst the transgressors those people who go beyond limit

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so Allah subhanaw taala says firm and if Tala Delica hola como la do so three things on this person

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and none of them is good.

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Karla prefer to hold fella was to have a smell or the one well what can I follow me? I'm Akasa to Allah me Shaohua to Mahayana

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I Saruman bow, the dyadic spider law you know game says this person last

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called fella, he loves that fella. The success will not be counted among the successful ones.

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And also he is counted amongst the arrogance. Those people who go beyond that limitations

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are what God will know. And he will fall in a blame by Allah subhanaw taala obviously and also by the community because if a person is blamed by the last one

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100 data cannot be accepted by anyone.

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You know, they will might accept him physically but what is in their heart only Allah smart Allah knows. So it will claim says to have a person being taken away from success and counted in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala amongst the transgressors have all the limits and also to be blamed by Allah subhanaw taala even claim says, to be patient, you know, although your heart is burning, trying to relieve yourself from this natural desire in a wrong way to be patient, you know, with this is better is much easier actually than being patient in receiving some of these punishments, you know. So it's time says, if you know this, you should be patient. You should be patient because you cannot

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handle any of those things that are lost power to Allah will be pleasing on the person who did not preserve his private part.

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Karla one of the radica and the whole subhanho wa Taala them well in Santa one no Holika halwa lyase below Allah Sarah will have Bara Bell either musselshell Sorry, domicil Jairo mana, Uber theta wave Amber So Sharon jazzy ah

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Illa Melissa finna who bad Valley Camilla Nalgene Minghella

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he says this person is similar to the Saint of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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In surah to advantage when Allah subhanaw taala says

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Carla who resemble incense Allah subhanaw taala blame a human being and know holy for how you are. What does that mean? Ilyas via Alibaba

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what was Sahra is Khalil Sabra

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you know very impatient

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worrying so much very quick in taking decision you know in that which harm himself

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so many there are so high Romana Arbuckle

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you know it is part of his attitude that whenever he got good from Allah subhanho wa taala. Instead of sharing with others, and giving the right of Allah subhanho wa taala. To those who deserve the right. You will refuse to do that. It becomes stingy.

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Allah says Holika Hura is our Messiah who shall rule

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Joshua way the muscle Hiramatsu Ah, that's the meaning of Holika Holika Hello

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Calaway them associate Rogers who are jazzier and whenever he is afflicted by a calamity, he will crumble. You will be very impatient, be complaining against Allah subhanaw taala before anybody else in law minister, now who Allah azza wa jal accept those who Allah subhanaw taala exempted from this attitude.

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So human beings are naturally like that, what is modifying this nature which is wrong, negative, you know, essentially of Allah subhanaw taala

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the more you come closer to Allah subhanaw taala the more Allah subhanaw taala help you to be taken away from these evil manners and attitude. So Allah subhanaw taala says human beings are like this.

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When they share and it happens to them, they crumble the complaint against Allah smart Allah so much, when good happened to them instead of being thankful Subhan Allah be engaged in going against the law of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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further Karami and who will Ladino live Rajim Hatfield and who are those people who are exempted from this bad manners and attitude? Allah subhanaw taala mentioned amongst them, those people who are always preserving the private parts Illa Allah as Raji Alma Melaka, to a man whom for a normal hero to me. They don't go against the law for last one which I use in their private part except through the Halal means, where they approach this desire through their spouses. Alma Malakut a man who a normal guy whom alumi or through those slaves that Allah subhanaw taala, granted them their ownership from Alibaba, Alibaba, Ola eco Humala, whoever looks for something other than his wife and

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the slave if he has the legal one. These are the transgressors Allah subhanaw taala says. So, you can see similar thing the last month I mentioned that human beings are in a state of loss, confusion, you know this evil attitude and manner except those people who observe what Allah subhanaw

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To elevation.

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Except those people who observe what Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in the estate is a

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cabinet worker, one of these people that lost the hotel I took out from this blame. He says, Well Lavina homily for Rajim Have you thought Illa Allah as well as our Malakut a man whom for a gnome with a woman who been so those people who are always relieving themselves, through their wives, and that which Malakut a man whom, for whom alumina Allah Subhana Allah says, they will not be blamed at all. And whoever looks for something other than this will be a blame and will be counted in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala amongst the transgressive transgressors.

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Karlova Amara Allahu ta NB Yahoo sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and yet more meaning a bit outside of him will have the Fuji. So Allah subhanaw taala commanded the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to tell the believers to cover, you know, to lower their gaze, you know, and to close their eyes not to look at the opposite gender

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or have the regime and to preserve their private part.

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One, your early Mo and the whole mashallah he really admired him Amata Leonetti, Allah has wanted to the professor largely syllabi, to tell the believers to act in the right way to lower their gaze to close their eyes, not to go against the law of Allah subhanaw taala by opening their eyes and looking at the opposite gender that is not permissible for them.

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And also Allah smarta told the prophets Allah sama to inform the believers to remember that Allah subhanho wa Taala is always watching Allah subhanaw taala is always watching them and he was he is watching that which it which did to him.

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Yeah, Allah Maha editor I, you know, my toughest route. And Allah smart Allah knows the heart, and

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one of its meaning is the one that does look, you know, try to steal the look, you know,

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a person passes, and he or she wants to look at that person, and they know that they should, when he tried to look at the weaknesses, and the negligence, the time that nobody's focusing on them, they look, you know, or sometimes they look in a way, you know, subhanAllah it's so easy for them to be discovered by by to be discovered by others, but Allah knows that, you know, you might have that kind of look, but Allah subhanaw taala knows what exactly you're looking at last Martin

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is a very good, you know, smart Allah message for us. Because these type of things, you have to do them for Allah subhanaw taala not for the human being, you have to do them for Allah because doing them for Allah is the only thing that can help you to stop. Because believe me, if you're doing it for the human beings, you know, that shyness is going to be gone. Very soon it will be taken from you. And once this shine is taken from you, what happens is that you don't care about who is looking at you go to the places where this law, you know, Sharia is not been a practice, you know, subhanAllah and according to them, a wife can go and have relationship, you know, with others, you

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know, subhanAllah a person can see his wife, person can see her husband, you know, with another girl hugging each other doing every stupidity in the presence of everyone. And if you go to the court, the court will never do anything because according to the law of that country, is okay, it's fine. As long as he doesn't, you know, harass

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what you call

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the woman or do something that he's doing

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something that is okay, according to the system. That's one of the evil and the consequences of staying within

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the midst of meaning in the middle of the article nonbelievers, the privacy law, so my bonus is it we shouldn't, should live with the Muslim community. Because unless you're not going to see these types of stabilities

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you know, so you shouldn't think of the dunya you should always think about Allah subhanaw taala so the

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should always think of Allah subhanaw taala that's why I say these type of laws, you know, if these type of laws, if not,

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because of ALLAH SubhanA I mean, if a person is not doing them for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala he will not be able to stop doing as I gave you the example of the Western Community or at least some of them were the societies is open, you can do whatever you want.

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And husband cannot complain and wife cannot complain. This holla These are facts she

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He cannot complete whatever she sees the husband doing with another sister she can complete.

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Yeah, because the Lord said did this. So that's why to remember the last part is watch and to be doing all of these things because of Allah subhanaw taala is important.

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If you do it for the sake of human beings, you end up you know losing the shyness and tomorrow you go on and do it in the presence of everyone. They're also going to join everyone's going to be like that, except a few who try to preserve and guard their modesty. So Allah subhanaw taala told the province allow sama to inform us Ya Allah Maha in it and I you know mitofit su You know, if you have any thought and you have any secret, looking, you know, towards the opposite gender, Allah subhanaw taala knows that, you know, you can hide it from others, but you cannot do it with Allah subhanho wa Taala

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you cannot hide your identity, whatever you're doing a lot smarter knows that. A little higher than the eyes of deception, Walmart office, and that which your heart is hiding.

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Your smile that's Allah Azza Tada. These type of knowledge that seems to be simple. They are the most powerful message and lesson to the believers to help them to maintain that taqwa and the maraca bow last

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in I was reading Surah two Tober

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Allah subhanaw taala was telling the province Allah about the moon IVP very beautiful mention. Allah subhanaw taala says later Idaho National Alamo.

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You know, Allah subhanaw taala says we're offering a minimum.

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He says letter LM who man and

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I found it very interesting, you know?

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He says women men how the criminal Arabi munaf equal. Woman Ellen Medina Tamara do aliphatic letter RMO nano nala mahomes humara teen Samira Duna Illa of Allah subhanaw taala told the prophets Allah Allah cinema you have Manasa cane from different types of Allah whatever again, they hide their cover, when they come with the believers, you know, a pray sometimes you know, and they told the believers they accept Islam is not easy for you to detect whether he is truthful or not. Because it is in the heart that Allah spoke to told the prophet Sallallahu Sallam or Eman how the criminal

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Amina handled Medina at Mara do aliphatic Latinum whom now now Allah

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Allah smarter says you have from the villages from the headwinds, those people who are who are more African and you have from the people of Medina also who are deeply rooted in the fog.

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Allah says large out of latter level

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Allah says jasola You don't know that?

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This will is Allah Azza doesn't know of him.

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And it is not written on the face of them and I mean you know that this is malefic this this and that. So the prophets Allah Allah sama might not be able to detect except those whom Allah subhanaw taala told him something about them or they expose themselves like Abdullah who bravely salute his the fabulous wah

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wah The 100 Ghanaian

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so Allah subhanaw taala said Let anima HomeNet and Allah said you don't know them, but we know them all. Subhanallah Oh, it's so interesting you know, now knowledge is limited but the knowledge of Allah smarter is not limited.

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Things you are not aware of Allah smart Allah knows. Not just that he has written every single detail about all of them 50,000 years before the creation of the universe Subhan Allah. So where are you going to hide? Why can you hide from Allah subhanaw taala hiding from Allah subhanaw taala is actually equal to a joke if you're looking for worse than a joke is that you can mention that somebody who's trying to hide from Allah subhanaw taala

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so as I said, My dear brothers sisters take this is seriously that Allah subhanaw taala ya allah Maha in our unit or motofest

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So whatever you are thinking, you know, you know, against somebody Allah knows. You have some evil thought against a sister against a brother Allah subhanaw taala knows that

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Karla Makana mob dealt with Ali come in cable bazaar Jalil Amara beheld the Mikado demon Allah Himself Archie.

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You know

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I don't think you can ever imagined Zina that happened

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which is not

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because of the look, the look in that somebody has

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hard towards another president.

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You look at the opposite agenda. And that will lead to several things. The worse is the Zina that will take place.

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So Abraham says, looking at the fact that the root of evil of this nature is looking at the opposite gender, Allah is going to talk about it allows me to talk about it before anything else.

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Even Allah subhanaw taala in it, to talk about it before the preservation of the firm itself.

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Which one is worse?

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penetrating the

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the Lord that are concerning or violating the law that are concerning the full Rouge?

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You know, look, it is much easier than violating the law of the fruit because the person is going to commit Zina and you know the consequence of that

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but why Allah smarter start with the look, because it is the door that leads to this. So that's why Allah's Mercy school. Molina. Yeah, hog booming up, sorry. Tell the believers to lower their gaze to close their eyes. Tell the believing sisters also a goat, they're good. And I mean, I'm sorry. hinda to lower their gaze.

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Karla Jalan Amara, they got the Hema cudham and other heavy allergy in that Howard mob, but the OHA mean another, because these type of consequences, you know, how it is, you know, he's talking about the consequences, the evil consequences that are taking place, you know, evil consequences of this nature, they are happening because of the novel. Somebody looked at a woman who he is not supposed to be looking at her come under more alarming than the moon was does it shatter it, feta Kulu Navara through Mahara through mahatva filma Katya just like the way that the fire, those small, small, small, small sparks and flames, they accumulated, you know, the flames they accumulated and they

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will become huge, you know, amount of fire.

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So the same goes to the Zina and the evil things that are taking place of this nature, you know, being happens because of the Nether, the eyes.

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That's why after the E is the most sensitive site on your face, you know, on your head, is the ice

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conifer Furter Kulu Navara, you know, a person that a person does is to look

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for Mahavira. And then after looking for macabre, and then he will have some

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thinking thoughts and column peace

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PhRMA hautbois. And then after hotwire and after Katara. And something will happen, you know, thinking of what to do planning you know, in the heart,

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what next, execution, you know, moving towards the execution of the plan. There's a whole

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filmer copy. And then he will execute the plan and commit to action. That's exactly what is happening. You see your eyes send a message to the brain and the brain send it to the heart if that heart is corrupt, or has some deficiency and sometimes Subhanallah when that look reach the heart, you know, the Judas shape and they will be more powerful against the heart and the geonode

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logical that the angels that are protecting you you know, they will have more strength because you open the door for many powers you know, as I mentioned earlier, in order to be fighting your heart, so you will not be able to resist that's why from the beginning alas Martella told you lower your gaze close your eyes do not look and they do not look unless in those situations where last monitor legalize to locate

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when you had a paid man, have you ever had the ARBA a harasser Do you know? That's why some scholars said whoever

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is able to preserve these four things will definitely be able to protect his religion.

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Allah halvat as a looking

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while Hapa Raj has the thoughts that comes that are based on the look.

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One level that and then the statement

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well hold out and then let go in for the execution of the plan

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for Mr. Hill

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and your corner but while but I've seen either having a boy alarm

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bar so these are the four doors

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that a person has

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Rahman please send a message to Soheil I'm having classes

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cada Pham buggy lab and Jacoba web NFC Allah heavy Aruba, Aloha the above it Aruba

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it is wise and mandatory upon a slave of Allah subhanaw taala to be the guard for himself,

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you know to be the one who is acting as a security guard for himself. And I have hid above Larabar visa like four doors that you're supposed to put a security to protect you from being attacked from that from that angle.

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It has been rebuilt to go rehab

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Uladzimir rebuilt AlphaGo rehab, you'll maintain those doors without leaving them at all for minha yet Hola Hola. Hola do from these door the enemy is able to attack the person. It uses hola Dr or a tabula ma to be around and it's going to go everywhere in your territory and destroy whatever they come, they come across. So Bill calm is saying that you have to be vigilant. You have to be vigilant. You have to make sure that you are standing constantly in front of all of these doors fighting the shaytaan and how do you do that? You just lower your gaze try to control use your side do not look at something that allows for data ask you to stay away from looking looking at it.

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It Bianca M says

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the vast majority of the sense that a person is engaged in affecting him through one of these four doors.

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And as such, we are going to be talking about each and every one of them separately insha Allah He said the vast majority of the problem you have in

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the vast majority of the problem you have in concerning the matter of sins

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the vast majority of the things that a person

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get into trouble with is affecting him through

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one of these doors

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Karla Falco, Calabar for Equilibar with me minha first linearly Kobe is an each and every one of them will be discussing it in a separate chapter inshallah.

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Carla for Amala, Hava two for here are in a shower to Arasu ha

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whatever else you have the 4g from an app tilaka vasara who are worried enough so humare del Halaqaat.

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In local him says a Mullah Hava as for the Loki, the HERA it is showered you are slowly

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and these law that these are the rules, the messengers law that means looking at somebody, he said these are the messengers of

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the desire. These are the messages of the desire and it's provokers will have to also have the Ferengi man Abdullah Basara, who our the NAFSA who melodic and halachot

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preserving the side the iside is a route, you know of the preservation of the foliage. And whoever does not do that, and he constantly you know, look at the things that last one until I told him not to look at them, our the NAFSA who al Malik, he will end up putting himself into destruction in in the future

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column that he said Allah Ali Salam, the Prophet said Allahu Allah who said a mindset led to be another, another. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I said, do not follow.

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said, Do not

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follow another another amines. See, look

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with another look at the look at a system or she looks at a brother, you know,

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accidentally the Prophet saw someone said don't do it again, turn your head and that's it

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that will be

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counted for you if you don't go back to it, but if you go back to it will be against you. That's why he says Lachelle hola you have the first one.

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The prophets Allah sama Silikal Hola, you have the first one? Well, they said like a failure. It doesn't mean you have the older you have the first one then you have to you can intentionally look at the privacy law if somebody is talking about a situation whereby you accidentally look at that which Allah subhanaw taala says you shouldn't look at them

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that one is not going to be counted against you. But if you go back again, then it will be counted.

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If you go back again, then it will be counted against you. So the first one will be waived, will be canceled, but the second one a loss monitor will hold you responsible off of it.

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correlated to be another Ratan Navara intellectual all our lives illogical Aloha. Because you have the first one and the second one is not is not yours. As I said, having the first one does not mean

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you have the right to look at the first face. Now you don't have a right to look at the first place that allows Mahara gala will not hold you responsible and accountable of the first one because you want to do it intentionally.

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Well, I said like an awful lot. The second one is not yours, or feel most needy and who sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and now there are two Simon minzu means some mass movement museum Emily's Rahman club Dasara who are mahasin in Marathi Lila our our Allahu Kalba who Halliburton in Iommi elkaar.

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In this hadith

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it is mentioned that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asset and Novato

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Simone must move and museum Emily's This is a very poisonous arrow, you know from the eras of iblees

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from Mankato, Basara Guam has an Emirati Lila and whoever can manage to lower his gaze and to close his eyes. Leila heeta Allah for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala our Allahu Kalba who Hala what an Eli yo Milcah Allah subhanaw taala will grant him a sweetness of Eman, you know he will be living in this enjoyment of their faith until the time he meets Allah subhanho wa taala.

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This one immune Karim coated it with the man

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it is somehow a week and also

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some of the scholars mentioned that they couldn't find it in the Muslims but the meaning is, is accurate. You can find this in a collection of Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a construct that which he said the more you close your eyes the more light you have in your heart

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and you will be able to enjoy Eman you will be able to enjoy Iman from your heart

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Carla said Allahu alayhi wa sallam a will do Apsara Wofford oferuje and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said lower your gaze. You know do not look at that which Allah subhanaw taala doesn't want you to look at further Farrugia and preserve your private parts. Exactly like what Allah subhanaw taala says Colleen woman in the world do men have sorry him were further Foochow

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look allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam er como Jeruzalem todo Kati call we are so Allah majali sunnah Marlena Bucha Amina and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you can see the prophets Allah Azza wa is trying to block all the means that can lead a person to this evil attitude.

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He told me not to look and he lost my hotel I commanded the believers you know, to observe hijab properly, especially the sisters, to dress modest modestly and not to present themselves in the way the desire of the opposite gender will be provoked, provoked you know there are some Jose but this is their problem you know Subhan Allah we have heard all of these useless Doc's

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why can stay Be patient? Why can't Why can't Why?

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I can't you know,

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a system will be accident will be acting, you know,

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in a way which is against the morality, you know, indecently, you know, and she might be saying that why those people get into trouble why can they close their eyes you

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logically they should be thinking in a way that that says that these people are created, you know human beings are created with this natural desire.

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And Allah is smarter did not ask them to close those sensitive areas except

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a duty to the fact that human being cannot control themselves when they see those things.

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That's why Allah subhanaw taala tell them to, to cover themselves and those who want to lower their gaze. They just want to act modest, modestly, and other ones to try to control himself.

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But she doesn't do and she dressed in the wrong way. And she blame others for taking

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I mean, for

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getting provoked, and also coming to do something against them in in a wrong way.

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So you practice the shady efforts, and then you can blame somebody who goes against

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you, right?

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We're not saying it's illegal for them to do, but we know naturally, if the system is violated, this type of evil is going to take place.

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And as I always mentioned that these type of things, you know,

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a sister is to be blamed, because usually if she does not open the door, nobody will knock on the door and get and if he opens the door, this is when she will get a lot of

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offers and invitations.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is trying to block all the means that can lead you to this conclusion. They asked you to lower your gaze and to preserve your private part, you know to stay away from

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looking at the opposite gender and the prophets Allah semi in this last Hadith he says Yakama you lose Allah. He said I want you from sitting on the side of the road.

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The road is the place where people are passing through. So the prophets Allah Azza wa said Do not sit on the side of the roads. Call Yasser Allah Majelis una mala and abdomen. They say Abdullah, these are the places that culturally we used to sit on them. We have no any other option jasola We have to sit in these places.

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Carla van ConsumerLab divinely vow to Tara kahiko, the prophets Allah Azza Merced to infuse, insist that you have to do it. You have to sit on the sides of the road, the Prophet sallahu sama said then you have to give the right of the road you must make sure that you are given the right of the route.

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If you think you cannot be patient, you have to sit in those places. And the prophets Allah sama said then you have to make sure that you're given the right of the route

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Carlu WOMMA hubco jasola And then they said jasola What is the right of the road?

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Karla Kabul Borsari a professor largely same asset lowering the case

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closing your eyes not looking at anything that allows me to doesn't want you to look at because sisters are passing brothers are passing everyone is passing

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they have some people Whoever passes through them they have to make comment on that person.

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Karla got the buzzer. That first thing he mentioned he said

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close your eyes, lower your gaze or comfort other do not harm anyone as I said, you know, people sit down they're looking at others there is nobody who will pass except that they will look at him and make comments. And I guess you share the same knowledge with me you know

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for sure you have witness a situation whereby you see people you know, whenever somebody passes they have something to say about that person.

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What I've just set up and also you have to reply that Salem when somebody says alarm to you, because you're on the side of the road people will be passing and they will be saying salaam to whoever they see

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sitting on the side of the road and he should reply the salaam whatever they say STAND UP TO YOU

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CALL ME loci one another

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are slow I'm metal. How are they Filati to see well inside the root of the

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vast majority of the problems that are affecting a person is coming from the side of the eyes

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or in another router to one little hop. Because

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looking at the opposite gender usually brings those negative thoughts filmer to a little, I'll have to retrofit crud. And then this something that appears in your heart is going to keep on generating an idea, idea of what to do to get that thing.

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Filmed filmer to a little Faker to shower.

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And then there's ideas that are generated from the thought you know, they're going to create shower desire, so much will lead to shower to Iran it and then the desire is going to provoke

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a strong will, you know, willingness to do something from a taco alpha to zero as he met and jazzy mutton fare cow Farrell, and that kind of intuition will keep on increasing and increasing and increasing until the time a person will put a strong effort, you know, the intention will become stronger, and the person will make it this size of decision, you know, for haircut will fade, we'll finalize the decision and then action is going to take place well, Albert, so you can see we started with

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cm. And looking at that person whom Alas, Martin asked him not to look at, and then keep thinking of ways and how and how until the end, a person will end up doing that which a mass murderer doesn't like.

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So that's why this is a person she try his best. Stay away from looking at any one that allows her to does not want you to look at him, whether physically or in the form of patients, you do have some people you know, there are pictures with them just to look at them and enjoy themselves.

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Nowadays, we have also another kind of evil they say, you know, this Allah subhanaw taala meal, and watch them out, we'll have a chef, whereby brother and a sister they do coordinate and cooperate through these, the media, they enjoy themselves, looking at how she's looking at him, and they enjoy themselves.

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So that's why parents should be very careful, is not interesting, you know, for you to give a device to children, that is not monitored by you, is very dangerous, whatever they do, you're going to be responsible sister Kim, and she found her her children in their room, you know, being locked watching things, you know, subhanAllah, She disconnected the house, from the internet completely. Well, it is too late.

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It is too late.

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So from the beginning and think deeply, because the children are very fragile.

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If they don't need it, do not pass it to them. And don't worry about what is going on in the world. If they don't need it, do not pass it to them.

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If they need it, give it to them and monitor it properly. Because you are the first person to be responsible in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala when you move back to him on the day of judgment, you can say to Allah subhanaw taala my daughter needed

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I wasn't the one who asked her to do you can do that. You cannot

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cannot say to Allah smart Allah, this, can I say to Allah swatter my son and need the phone. That's why I gave it to him.

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You have to monitor what he's doing. Not to follow his secret, but you have to monitor but on top of all is to give him a very strong tarbiyah

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and make sure that you convince him to use it in the right way. Otherwise, you are the sauce. Your sauce is going on in this life nowadays no Subhanallah so I'm not saying completely do not buy for them. But if they don't need it, I really advise you not to go for it, no matter how much they try. Do not give them a device. And if you happen to give them monitor and know exactly what they are they're doing

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when he decided to look at the news, if you need to see

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because sometimes this

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is useless, you know,

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it is making you depress, and who do you see in the news? All of those people with the makeup and all of these things, you

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know, when the opposite gender comes I will close my eyes who does that?

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Who does that?

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is not even a joke. You know? This is not even a joke. It's beyond the realm of you know, a joke

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If I was the one that will tell you that yes, I will do watch this movie and TV show or the news but if the other person comes I will, I will close my eyes.

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So Allah azza wa jal did not say you should lower your gaze unless if you're watching the news or you're watching a movie or something, instead lower your gaze.

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Whether you are this your dad, Allah subhanaw taala tells you to do it.

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So preserve your heart these things you are taking it lightly but they create a disease in the heart. You Allah, you look at the thing that Allah Azza doesn't want you it creates disease in the heart and it will keep on increasing if you don't repent, you keep on growing. And so Allah naturally you will never relax.

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If a person experiences that kind of bad life and now the Europeans, the lasma Hotel and fix it attitude and stop looking at those whom Allah has wanted, didn't want you to look ask him to feel last month and to compare the time when he was doing those things. And this moment, you know,

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he was in a very strong pain, a similar kind he's going to talk about some of them you know, because you're going to see things which Subhanallah you cannot get

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the woman in the last part of the earth and you are here.

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Any other place you are living in

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here know who she is and where she is alive, she's not live you know, a person will go and look at her image and get disturbed. It will never be able to get the omen and also disturb his life. Everyday you will be depressed.

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Every day you will be depressed you will never relax. So what is the best way to make it to follow the scene of Allah subhanaw taala lower your gaze, you close it down look, you know, then you enjoy

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wedeco peace of mind tranquility of the heart that will remain inshallah whatever in this dunya we have it in the hereafter when you meet Allah subhanaw taala you have the best one.

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Carla Mala Mia and I am not mean Huma and here are the other key that our server allah God, the Vasa iser, Amina sobre,

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la Mima, by the who,

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you know, it says for sure if there is nothing to prevent a person from committing Zina after he looks and have those thoughts and all of these things is going on. You know, one of them, you know, he saw a picture of somebody, and he told his friend, he told his friend, it says he believes if he's to meet this person that is nothing can stop him from doing something they will work with them.

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And subhanAllah You won't believe if I tell you that this is studying in one of the most prestigious universities that are deeply rooted rooted in teaching people Sharia

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and most likely half is leaky tap. Who is saying this? That's how it is single cable cord Inshallah, the end of the book I can't remember which part but he will call it in this book. The story of somebody who is half is the Kitab Allah, Allah says Iman, because of looking at somebody, he lost his email and completely

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here all of these things, so what is the best way to make it, follow the statement of Alaska which is very simple. Be patient in controlling your gaze, be patient and controlling your eyesight. That's why they said patients being patient, you know, in terms of controlling, you know, the eyes, although it is so painful, you don't enjoy those things that people are enjoying or you used to enjoy before, you know, because these pictures are enjoyable, pays to see you know, the one who is brought cast in the news and enjoy is to see the lectures, the teachers in the school and enjoy all of these things we have we have complained you know you cannot stop people from being provoked when

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somebody does something that will provoke that desire. You can't move tea, you are a leader you're a president, you are king, you are who those people are the subordinates who are looking at you you know, when you present yourself in the wrong way they are going to have this

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Subhanallah when I was teaching in the schools in Angolans

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you know we always see that it's who is who is the one who has been disturbed. The brothers are being disturbed more. Yeah, that's true.

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That's true because the natural way Allah Sparta great, both of them is different. This one is more prettier than the other one. So the one who get the stuff that the Brooks that's why the focus on them is more because they're the one if they get this job they force the other gender to get what they don't deserve.

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That's why the focus is on them. You know, look at the statistic, before you hear a brother getting into trouble. You hear sisters on the daily basis every single day get in trouble from the criminals, although many of them they are the cause of that trouble. But we don't support it with I'm just mentioning that who is getting into trouble in this life?

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But sisters, do they also get the stuff? Yes, they do

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is Hala that's why those people who are teaching the younger ones they should feel Allah subhanaw taala in the way they present themselves, it should be based on modesty. I recall group of students came to me and told me that

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we want to talk to you about something. So as that they told me that is it necessary in the school? Is it necessary that isn't YZ you know, by this court law that the sisters must absolutely the brothers must tuck in.

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You know, sometimes when you tuck in the size of the hour, it's exposed, you know, subhanAllah he told me it is disturbing, you know Subhanallah why? Because they believe maybe I can talk to the authority for them to change, let them wear something even more

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respectful than what they wear, because sometimes they wear the jeans sometimes they wear this the pant which is so tight and attractive. And they're going to be standing in front of that,

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that the sisters and the brothers in the classroom and be right.

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You can say you cannot say they have to control themselves these are human beings. These are human beings, we have to fix it from our side first, then you can blame you can blame them afterwards, if they don't control themselves, then you provoke human beings desire and then what happened

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after that is the ego and then you come and talk

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after that.

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So as I said we should be very, very careful the most important thing is to act modestly lower your gaze and wear the hijab properly and the hijab here not just for the sisters and for the brothers also whatever is called our on a brother has to be covered properly, must be covered properly in the presence of whoever let's say if you have a wife you have to cover it properly.

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A Sabra allah God Basa Isaiah Rumina Savary elemi mmabatho You Allah

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if you can control your emotions, you know and you can control your desire to close your eyes not to look at that opposite gender you know although might be painful to do that but it is easier you know to be able to bear them the pain of what comes after you see because believe me my debris is after you see you know the pain is too much.

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And especially when a person knows that he can reach that person

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so some people used to be righteous but then after that they get

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corrupt they become corrupt

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so Allah subhanaw taala said Mr. Afia so they can comparison between the two panes which one is much easier for you to to handle the first one which is to be patient and close your eyes not to look although it might be a little bit

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painful, but it is easier than the pain that comes after you see that which a lot smarter make it in probably several

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callers shy five cool howdy FEMA I mean another three or more Allama nerim was just very shallowly, come never attend Bella that mean called bizarre heavy had come up like a semi banal cozy, or whatever it will Abdou Mother Mother, I mean in your collibra odata Rafi, your Culebra, your Colombo fee, I will guide him on orphan Island coppery

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your soul Remo Kanata, who ma Barbara Magetta, who lammer haben Bisou in a heartbeat. It's a very, very, very, very special and excellent

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point, you know, lines of poetry that immunochemical wrote it, and in sha Allah, and we'll be dealing with that translation in the next lesson in sha Allah may Allah subhanaw taala grant is Iman and a strong Iman that can help us to preserve our

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honor and also lower our gaze and also to have the Morava of Allah subhanaw taala wherever, wherever we are.

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In the holy College, Emilian Kafeel Subhana Allah Mohammed a shadow Allah learn so for her to really absorb

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Man, like Mike

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the first question is sister Selena

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ready to share Salah Warahmatullah

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posting pictures on social media, even the whole hour is completely covered.

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Prohibited patient taking

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first of all, I don't see the reason why a person is doing it. I was sitting in a place and then i

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i saw a girl crying

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that one of the teachers and then

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I came across that somebody hacked their account and the whatever they did, I forgot the case, but there are pictures or pictures being

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what is the benefit of this?

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And also

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explain to me how is it possible? Allah subhanaw taala says to me Do not look to you does not look,

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you know, and that thing which I shouldn't look portray themselves, and they keep coming to the place where

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how does that work naturally, it is exactly like somebody who

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is being thrown in,

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in a river after being tied by the one who throw him. And they told him a year a year can tell the Wilma, they told him we want you from touching the water.

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It doesn't work. I caught it for years story off.

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And the way to do I told this student in as

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a tally somebody, I was sharing the story with somebody

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that a boy was disciplined by a teacher.

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You know, and what was the discipline,

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she removed him from his place. And the teacher complained to,

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to us being a part of the discipline.

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they complain to us that this boy is not focused in a class, you know.

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And this boy said, when we call him because it's part of the policy that if your complaint against a student, we ask the student to explain to us what happened.

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Now, because injustice can take place from anyone, we can just trust the teachers, you know, unless the student maybe he's not doing anything, we all know all of these things that are going on in this learning institutions.

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So we usually ask the student to write in detail what really happened.

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We hold him responsible of whatever he says. So that students will say, yeah, she was right when she says I wasn't focusing. But the problem is I did something wrong in the class. She got annoyed with me. So she took me and put me in the middle of the girls, so I lost focus.

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And that was that was a young boy, that, uh, how old was he but grade eight.

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City. He said I lost focus when she put me in the middle of the of the girls.

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So that's how it is. When I when she says do not do something and you and that person that you're not supposed to deal with he brought himself to your house. What can you do after this?

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That's why I advise each and every one of us to fear Allah subhanaw taala the first place. Remember that last mile retaliate is going to hold us responsible, whatever we do, what is the purpose of putting these images of yourself on Facebook and I heard that some of these social media platforms, they do have a right to do whatever they want to do with your pictures. I don't know where it's thrown out. But somebody told me that was the sister who saw her picture being used to advertise a product in another place.

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She was wondering,

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how does it come here? These pictures from Well,

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believe me if the story is correct, even if she is going to make a report against the company

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against whatever she is making the report.

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The damage already happened.

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So that's why

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I will advise a person to be a lot smarter than to go for that. If people commit sin because of you. You are also responsible. You can say that this is their own problem. No, you're also responsible

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I heard that marriages are gone. Sometimes because the husband doesn't want sometimes you know, the husband is not that even, is not even that practicing person. But naturally, a person doesn't want to see his spouse been portrayed and exposed to others.

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And the wife is insistent she has to go. And as such the marriage is gone. And she agrees with that. So Hala look at this way of thinking, just because you want somebody to see you on the the media, you lost your marriage. for that. Wallah. What kind of quotes about who has given them this type of hotwire?

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So let's be very careful. This is a very good question the last one I'll tell you what you see Selena and put it in the middle of your hasard as I said, Let's be very careful. And remember that countability whatever you're doing in this life, look at the permissibility first, if there is a doubt in it, stay away from it. If there is no doubt in it, it is halal. Just do it. If it is haram stay away from it. And don't worry about whatever happens after that, because nothing will happen except Except good, inshallah. Allah to God. Yes.

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Question by water at the William

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Miller protect two and graduated

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in Utah. My question is, from what age can we teach our children for lowering the gaze covering the importance of keeping a distance from the opposite gender?

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One day old.

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I know you will see I'm exaggerating. Yes, I do exaggerate in this in this regard. But from the time they know what they know the difference between

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the genders you should teach Of course, according to his his age and according to His nature, you know, a big person you might tell him the sorcerer, Why eat those heavy texts from the Prophet sallallahu sallam? It kids you cannot do this with them.

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Yeah, I mentioned to him that it is good for your heart is good for restrict yourself here. This is when they know what is the difference between this and that

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ticket either slowly, slowly, like lightly done, emphasize so much, you know, they will get bored. But slowly, slowly, nicely. Sometimes you make jokes when they look at me blah, blah, blah, you're not supposed to. No, no, no, you're not supposed to do to do you want good heart, you want this, this and that, you know, slowly, slowly, they will understand it will become part of their life. Even the hazards or the Tobia to be given to a child from the time he can accept that tarbiyah is always better than waiting for them to reach the age of maturity, whereby you might not be able to give them the tarbiyah and they might not be able to understand what you are, you're talking about.

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So start from the beginning when they are very young, it will be very easy for them to remember and to observe it, you know, and to feel Allah's muhurta in the future. It will be part of their nature, it will be part of their life.

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Allah subhanaw taala grantors trophy. You know, some scholars used to say that if a girl reached seven years old, she should start wearing the hijab.

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I remember people used to say this is exaggeration, this is extremism. What is this and that Subhanallah will live to see we lived to see a time whereby girls younger than that be missing and when they are found, you see them being you know, somebody did all of those stupidities will tell you

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how many times you see even those so called religious entities from the other religion corrupting the young children, you know?

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Yeah, then you can understand why that scholar used to tell people that when a gallery seven year old, their parents should start asking how to observe the hijab.

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You know, if they don't understand it in the past, or lie in our time, we do understand, because he here from time to time, these type of things are taking place and sometimes in the name of religion. There is a book, you know, I don't think you will read you will be able to read this book twice. Talking about the tragedies of one of the faith you know, that believes that what they're doing is right.

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But the corrupt also young children.

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So then you understand why, you know, that scholar was saying it is good for her when she reached the age of seven to start observing the the hijab

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at least the no more you know, when she's she reached force when she started walking whenever you go out

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Just put on the screen. Sometimes when I see this, some families do not when their children go out, you know, a very

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young girl and the kid could,

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by the way that the hijab, she wherever there's more hijab, as good as a very good tree.

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So she will grow in the house, believing that this is part of the dress. And this is how sisters are supposed to be active.

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But if you wait until the time she grows, and then you ask her to do it, she will be questioning you, why am I going to do it?

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You know, whereas if you do it, if you did it from the beginning, when she was very young, she will take it as part of her nature.

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Okay, it's very, very, very important for us to understand this issue properly. From the time your daughter can understand things, you know, she started walking, start teaching her slowly, slowly, according to the, to her age, and according to her nature, even light Allah when she grew up, you don't need to suffer a lot in order to convince her to do that, which is right. Allah grant us, Sophie is.

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question versus you only say?

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What's your opinion about schools with mixed genders?

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What about sisters who need to do presentations in front of an audience with an exchange

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Allah who was that?

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I heard that some of the non Muslim countries they are working so much to get rid of this system, because of what is happening.

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And in many countries, when you go you see the government, they have some schools where they separated the boys from the from the girls, this is how it should be done is not an exaggeration. But this is how it should be done. Because these two, when you put them together, you're not going to get what you're supposed to be to be achieved.

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Now Subhanallah, when you have goals separated by separately, both are going to be very smart.

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That's been my experience, both are going to be very smart, and the interaction in the class is going to be at the peak.

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Whereas if you are to mix them, the boy will be trying to show you know show off doing things which I use less and stupidity sometimes in order to let the girls understand that he is smart doing things for this,

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you know these things, I guess you already know them. And the sisters also might be doing that.

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But it helps them to maintain that sincerity because they will be in the presence of the same gender, you will see the participation in the class is stronger than the participation.

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When you mix them both.

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I don't know anything good in is that can let us continue with this system. It possible the separation has to take place. And in a place where that separation is not going to be taking place then in the classroom, there has to be a very strong separation. If possible, put it in the way the promise allows

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the brothers to be in front, because we don't trust them that much. And the sister should be behind is not disrespecting sisters, but you have the brothers behind and the sisters in front and believe me, the brothers will never study properly.

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They will never study properly. And they put the sister behind the Eden light Allah they will study properly.

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But he puts their brothers behind and the sisters in front, you know what, what happened?

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Who says the money? I don't know what to say concerning this, but I give you the answer that this is the best thing to be doing. And in those assignments, you know, I know there are some assumption is is they can talk to the lecture and sometimes they give some exception in sha Allah to

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exempt him from the excuse from doing the presentation or usually these type of things are made in the groups you should try to let somebody go and do it. But not that.

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I don't have anything to say when Allah subhanaw taala says do not do this and then somebody is doing it. I can say anything.

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Should I say other than what I lost my heart and I say is that what they're doing is wrong? Good idea. So they should look for any way for them to be excused in so that they will not come and do it in the wrong in the wrong way. But as I said I gave you a very general answer that we should work for this education whereby the total separation will take place be the light Allah this is when you will be able to

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To maintain the tarbiyah and believe me,

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the accuracy of the education you're going to put in both of them will be stronger than when you have them been combined in one place. Good idea, because one of them is going to get lost. You know, I'm just saying this because I went through the system, you know, when I teach in those places where you have both been mixed, and when the school, you know, agree to separate them, I know what happened in that And subhanAllah. Even the corrupt brothers and sisters, they like the system more when they are not combined with the opposite gender. That was my experience. Somebody might have different experiences, but that's my experience. No, some of them were question were asked, Would

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you like to go back to the old system? Is it though they like this one?

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Whereby they adjust with their own?

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I mean, same agenda. And the other one, also the same thing.

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The last one that I had to feed

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was some drama.

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I think

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there's no question.

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cages. Alchemilla Heron who accidentally confit dunya will ask her in the whole ecology meeting caffeine, Subhanak Allah, Mohammed Kashia, Allah Illa and Stateflow call to relate. See you on Saturday in sha Allah, the salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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