The Fragile Vessels Rights and Obligations Between Spouses in Islam

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The segment discusses various topics related to Islam, including Al reminder for no profit, the prophecy of a woman who died, the importance of one's intentions in relation to one's behavior, and the need for proper intentions to avoid failure. The speakers emphasize the importance of good intentions, staying true to one's beliefs, protecting one's property, and learning to be a mother of all believers. They also discuss the success of Islam, including the importance of burying deceased individuals, following the Prophet's teachings, and preparing for events in a busy night to avoid trouble. The importance of praying for oneself and others is emphasized, as it is their duty to do so.

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In Al Hamdulillah in Maluku Anna Stein who enters the field

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will always be lemon shuru. The fusina was a Medina

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Manga The Hidden Salah Multiliner

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for my utillian fellow Hi Deanna.

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Shadow Allah in Namo Shetty Khanna

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what a shadow under Mohammed Abdullah who want to solo

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who see ya Aurland

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.

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Allah one because by now or become seen

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what began here what became the mood for LA Kenosha?

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Mila hinda de la jolla de Roma

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out of the one office

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was semi

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pro de to belie her availability slammy Deena Bobby Muhammad in some number one thank you. I didn't he was so happy he was sending them nebbia

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Allahumma in the last Africa Illuminati and respond by Eva

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A while Milan

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mo kalamalka Loopster bit Kulu Bella de Nicola Arctic.

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A mama Luna genetic Weijun minion

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Robina anti Nephi dunya hashanah within the hustler Joaquina her up and last

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summer mahalo Muhammad Ali, he was so big why not humbler? But I mean

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firstly we like to inform the brother young brother can you sit for the

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city or can even sit here no problem yet.

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So the brothers will be in front and the system will be behind. And Hamilton that

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we always start by pressing a Mahabharata mean

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because we were given a live by him with that we asked him

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we have been leaving for so long,

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enjoying the blessing and the Nygma of Allah.

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Even we are going against Allah command.

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We are not so obedient to Allah but Allah still provide for us.

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We know that we have been committing of sins

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but in the month of Ramadan, Allah keep on offering open the gates of paradise,

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hope and future for all of us.

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We know we have

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more than half the month of Ramadan for this year.

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But the offer is still open until the end of Ramadan.

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What is the offer from Allah?

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We know the Hadith, the prophet Hajj, share with us mon sama Ramadan Iman and the Serbian

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Ophir Allah Houma taka Dominguez and be

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the first one is whoever finds in the month of Ramadan.

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Of course,

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your intention is not just to follow the tradition, what can I do everybody is fasting, I have no choice. No.

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You fast because you believe that casting

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is a command of Allah and for our benefit.

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Not fall when Allah will reward you.

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Unlimited reward because of His love

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towards those who believe in him

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and he keeps on

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opening the door of Rama have mercy

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to forgive all our past sin.

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And then he continued the prophecy, man camara Madonna Iman

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or gopher Allahumma tapa demeans and be

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stay up at night.

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Not the whole night.

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At least part of the line to worship

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known as pm Ramadan, or pm will lay

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on the rowing.

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Sometimes you're caught and so on.

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But you do it with the right intention.

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You believe in Allah and hope that Allah would accept your prayer.

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Then Allah will forgive your past sins and again

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and the last one

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minute karma Leila Takada Iman Anwar disabler ofera, Houma, Taka dominium

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whoever will try his best in the last

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10 nights of Ramadan that is coming in very, very soon.

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Everybody must prepare themselves physically, mentally and spiritually.

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Not to miss this great offer from Allah Almighty, to all of us.

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the prophecy, Allah is willing to forgive all our bussines

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brothers and sisters

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if this blessed man is not going to help us to become a better person,

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then we all can be sure we have failed. Nothing to be proud of.

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Because fasting is not just me.

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staining from food dream

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much more than that,

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I wanted to share with you a

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few hobbies and when i

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And later on,

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we will carry on and follow the book the vaginal vessel.

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This is a very, very

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alarming Hadith of the Prophet,

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the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. See,

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in Raju, the Yamaguchi Amarin athlete agenda had the Maya cool no brainer who will be in in

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our zero on yes be qualified

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for yet Model B amnet.

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For yet clue.

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Number one, the prophet is sharing with

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the people, men might perform the works of the people of paradise. That mean there seems to be very good.

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Within look at them on he's a good guy.

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She's a righteous lady, just an example. Or he's a righteous son is so good.

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Of course, the good people will always say they must be the people of Paradise is going to go to Jana is going to join because that is how we always feel.

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When we meet up with good people, we always feel good.

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We talk good about them. We praise them, maybe not in front behind them

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and hamdulillah

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and feel that prophecy

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had until only a spend of outstretch or cubed separate him from going to paradise.

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That mean if he is the karma,

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and do all the good thing with the right intention, of course, if you do anything good, but your intention is not.

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Then there is no value from Alma because you intend for someone. So in the Day of Judgment, Allah say go to look for that guy and call him to reward you. You don't do it for me, you do it for him or for her, let him or her we want you

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because your intention is very important, even what we have been doing is good.

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In the eye on the public, you are good, but still you are not considered

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righteous in the sight of Allah.

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So the Prophet is in

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an end of his life.

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Then the

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the color

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what is been decreed the destiny takes precedent.

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And he or she will perform the work of people of fire, that may he start to change.

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Sudden, suddenly he set the gene set you have maybe one week to go. You don't know that in one week time you're going to die.

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Then that one week,

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you will start to be so rebellious.

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The way you talk, the way you behave, just the opposite of what you have been doing before.

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And you will end by doing all the bad things.

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Then that will bring you to hell.

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Then the profit continue. We're in Roger and Matt will be Amina denari, Hatha Maya Kuno Bunnahabhain. In Brown, our zero own

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players pico la

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mala will be an agenda for yet Hulu

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the second

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warning reminder for no profit, there'll be a person

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who is not being a good person. Everybody know this guy.

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People just don't like him. Talk bad gossip about

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then towards the end

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He started to Gene

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and then he become a righteous person become so kind, helpful. Well behave. Follow the Quran, recite the book of Allah

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and also follow the Sunnah of the Prophet

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and he died.

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Then the prophecy you will enter Jannah what do we learn from this hadith?

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This hadith also is teaching us not to be judgment.

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If you see some buddy is bad

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because we know certain character that is bad character.

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You like to use all the bad words, the four letter words

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in every sentence, Palmetto accom. Could

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the ear that hears all of us feel very upset, we just don't like him. He lie.

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He he still who likes all this kind of bad guy.

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might sometimes what is happening in front of us brother and sister is a reminder.

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Allah opened the door an opportunity for us to carry out our duty to help him

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to remind him to pray for him.

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We will get rewarded for doing that. And while Morrow night he mukha

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we are sure to be rewarded.

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Because we're doing something that pleases Allah, we are not judging him. We try to look at what he or she is doing. We know is so wrong. So we remind him we advise

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we indicate the reward if he or she change, we get more reward

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is how Allah we want some time.

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My gosh, in Costa Rica, so as a team, how can I help my brother? How can I help my sister?

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Yes, how we move on brother, sister.

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Everything that goes happened to us in front of us is also something that can benefit us with your if he's so good. I would like to be liked.

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And what good intention nobody knows but we must have the right intention.

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Is that like or in the Quran, Taka mouse, so many history, what have happened before us?

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The good and the bad guy also it's been mentioned in the Quran

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as a lesson for those who reflect

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to everything that happened.

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There is a reason behind

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the good one. Maybe he or she is not sincere, but we don't know.

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If you're sincere and you follow up with the good thing you'll benefit.

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Lisa Lilly in San inner Massa, remember, we will be reviled, rewarded and responsible to what we do. If you do the good thing and your intention is for Allah you'll get the reward

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but anything that you don't just follow you know is not good.

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If you don't know what is bad, you may not

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be aware and you will follow but if you know what is bad is good.

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So everything happened for a reason.

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So what am like to remind all the good brothers and sisters

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we would like all of us to reflect

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and everything that is happening around us seriously.

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You were sharing

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and my beloved brother in

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a scholar from Egypt now ins

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he was telling me about some important thing that I can share with all of you today.

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Talking about the

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we add the husband as a father

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We start from the husband first.

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If we as a husband do not learn about our religion

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do don't have we don't have the right Aqeedah belief

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How can we help our wife?

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Can we have our way?

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You cannot guide

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and teach your wife when you love her because we ourselves

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don't have the knowledge

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what is important Bodensee is the window that can save us from a lot of problem

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from hellfire is our iman that's where Allah said yeah your Allah Zina Manu goo

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with Imagine yourself

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from hellfire without a man, you know that you are sure to enter into hellfire because the Prophet also say that Kuru Jana had told me no no one

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go to paradise without

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without money without anything in life, but you have imagined

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there is a future

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visit we love our wife

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and that nonprofit continue

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to let me know had to have

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I've got the Hadees we'll talk about salaam later on. I just want to focus on these few saying of the Prophet

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and you cannot have a man if you don't love one another

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we have a wife that's why and marrying that lady who was a stranger to us now become our wife.

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Very close as

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but how can you help her if we

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don't help and learn about our

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How can a why not come to the wife now?

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help the children we love to have children.

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That is what a family is? What? Legal Nowra

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we love to have children. Children are like flowers in a garden. You have big garden but no flowers

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you don't feel happy when look around garden. No flowers when they're more flowers more colorful flowers Allahu Akbar. They make you feel good

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now how can we as mother help the children if we don't have knowledge and we don't learn?

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Yes how you move on.

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And if our children don't learn the deen but you have give them everything

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you give them anything to do a dunya we have provided for them and you occasion a house who dream dress you just name it whatever the children want. We always give

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but one most important thing that we fail

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to pass down to them is

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Aqeedah Emad

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then how can our children of the parents

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they don't even how to worship Allah.

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How are they going to make prayer for you immediately just have money in the mind some group of people you make dua. Now, this is the money I give it to you

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might you know the righteous children's do is very powerful.

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Because it's from your own effort that these children become righteous. So anything you do, then you get the reward.

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Look at this is

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a lot of Malala mean is telling us is a very interesting

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story and also

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is a very strong reminder for all of us as a family, men and women

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Hi, and welcome to ensure her

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is Hungary coupe and mount

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where you witnesses

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when death approached?

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the founder of user

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who are these people, prophets,

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the chosen one?

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Now, Allah is

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telling us you are the witness because Allah has informed us about what happened. We read the Quran so now we bear witness.

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But we feel to understand because we read the Quran without understanding.

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So let us share with you this idea

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when death approaches, yeah, cool.

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What do he do? When he said to his sons, how many son here blush, a profit useful to have sons?

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We know the history of Dawson

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and he's the son of Jake. Yeah.

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Is Paula Lee Benny.

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Even to his son who is a prophet, he's talking to him

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to show us that the most important responsibility of Father, how all your children, even your children have their children. Your responsibility continue until the end of your life. You cannot stop reminding your children

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is not Oh, no, he's big on us. I don't have to do anything anymore. It's up to him me is his choice. No, you as a parent still carry that responsibility.

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By mail service support may end because they can survive by themselves.

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But the religious aspect is an ongoing responsibility until the end of your life.

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A lot of parents have failed.

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They just didn't what is up to them.

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And this is a reminder from Mama.

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Look at the dialogue.

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is Paula the bunny ma boo do not mean the

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the Father is asking the children and they're not young anymore.

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And they have their own family and their own tune.

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Father, what will you worship? What will all of you worship? Who are you going to worship after my departure?

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This is a reminder con Lu na mudo Illa Huck, what Allah

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Ibrahim is MA in what is hop Illa Hanwha either

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one, no Lahore Muslim,

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Allahu Akbar.

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See how the children respond?

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They say

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we shall worship a more your god. Oh my father

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and a God of your father. The father of yaku Ibrahim or a salaam

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the same God who is smile and is hot.

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All of them worship one true God.

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The legacy continue.

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Allahu Akbar.

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And to him, we all will say we are going to make sure we would die as a muslim.

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This is how the children respond.

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We don't know what our children are going to respond if we stopped it.

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We have no idea

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because we have abandoned

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or you are big enough your future.

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Yes. When come to religious matter,

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our duty and responsibility continue until the end of our lives.

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If you want to have a

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happy family

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you have to make sure that you must remind your children about Aqeedah and prayer.

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Make sure that they will not commit sherek after we die, we thought we are good we can force them now put fear in them, force them to follow you. But they may follow you out of fear. But in their heart they hate you. They just wait for you to die something.

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I like to

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share this when

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we are discussing this morning

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because we have an exercise

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in our last Kim

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we talk to the younger generation teenagers crossed the line

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a majority across the line

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of course then the last exercise whoever needs to process the LD crosses

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the MS. The fatherly the motherly have something to do as they grow up, they feel shy to their parent.

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They're big and sometimes we also feel you are bigger don't have to hug me anymore.

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So they keep on hugging other people.

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Many other people same

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agenda also they interested

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we thought that men and men hugging over also another problem.

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We have the LGBTQ coming

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we thought woman and women are hugging Okay.

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Also another

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one, the people who

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understand our feelings,

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we need

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the loving

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kind of

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feelings and you know

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an L when he was crying because they missed this

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loving they have missed.

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And when we feel that, then be reasonable.

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We are here for you. Don't worry. You need anything in the future you know where to look for us.

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Father and mother must keep on having this kind of

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and keep on reminding them that how cool profit and he is not talking to just any children and one of the son is a prophet.

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Can you imagine even when your son is a prophet, it must mean What will you wish

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don't commit cheat. Don't ever abandon Allah stay connected. Hold on to the Aqeedah of Islam.

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That how all the prophets have been sent to remind the people hold on

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why we like to share with all of us today on the because we are talking about how fragile the family relationship

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some of them corruption comes may come from a father to the children. We got started don't set good example.

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Then how can a mother help and discipline the child when the father is not setting a good example? Very tough.

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So we do want to fail number one as a husband, time for us to learn

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and act upon the knowledge

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we have been learning a lot of things

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If we had become a doctor, engineers, scientists, businessmen, we are so successful in the worldly matter. And that's why our children get everything they want in this world. Because we can import, we can keep it.

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We prepare everything for the children.

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But one most important thing we fail to prepare

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to prepare them to be a righteous children.

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Remind them Allah.

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Remind them about prayer.

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Your time father may pray, but they don't even

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check their children.

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They thought and they are big enough, is their responsibility. Yes, they are big

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is their responsibility to support themselves, financially, they have to work now.

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Don't be a burden to the parent and to the parent get all what is this?

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The parent have invest in the children during grown up time for them to be independent,

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help themselves and help the parent.

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How can they help?

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They may destroy themselves because there is what we give them. We just give them dunya dunya dunya and they become the servant of dunya. The slave of dunya

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they don't know how to recite the Quran, they don't know what is this

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and our tradition here, our culture when you talk about Hadees sunnah sunnah is tuna, tuna tuna not important at all out

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they don't even understand the concept of sunnah.

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They don't even realize that Prophet Muhammad is the only way to Allah.

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without going to the teaching of Prophet Muhammad Salah and so all of us is sure to fail.

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That's why the prophecy Mann amela. I'm Anna, Lisa and I am Runa for who are rot rot. Who ever do an act of worship and don't follow our way the way of old prophet will not be accepted, rejected? How many of us are aware of this? Even parents are not aware if the parents don't

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have this idea? How can you pass down the knowledge to the children

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and remember,

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Allah, Allah, Allah Amin is very, very judge. Very fair.

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De Luca, Mattoon, God harlot, la Hama, Casa but walakum ma

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Walla Aluna, Americano, maroon, this is how the story of the COPE reminding the children

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before you pass away

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towards the end of his life, it is the fatherly responsibility

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to remind the children

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that was a nation who has passed away, Allah is telling us

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they are no more as

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none of them is with us anymore.

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They shall receive the reward of what they earn and you

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of what you earn. LBD is responsible now.

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If you didn't do that to your children, of course.

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The jasmine Allah is going to ask us

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it's a nightmare to have children. Maybe not material because this

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is a nightmare to have. Money, beautiful car, but then how do you make use of this?

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You'll be asked by Allah.

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You're so happy to have children, but you don't remind them about

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You don't teach them

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and you will not be asked of what they used to do.

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Allah is

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nobody is responsible.

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I personally believe all of us who have been attending our class

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we do

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one to be the best father,

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the best mother inshallah

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so that we do have the best children.

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But all of us must have

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and it's it

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isn't easy.

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there's something very, very valuable.

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So anytime when we're not where

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your children visit, you remind

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my son,

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my daughter

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Don't forget Allah.

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Don't forget to worship Allah.

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Now how can they help you, when you are bedridden, if they are not

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having the right athlete,

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there was a bad one thing, don't pray, you are so weak now you cannot know because you're not clean, they will advise you not to play, not to pray anymore. By right, they should remind they don't even know what to say to you.

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Maybe they just put a very sentimental classical music.

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So that you have a very good ending, according to them.

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They should be there to make the team bother.

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Don't forget to sit

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in the more

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say, in the more

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time for you to pray, of course, when we are

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very weak, maybe our memory also is so we can remember anymore.

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As the children who had the knowledge because the father had passed the knowledge to the mother and the mother pass knowledge to the children.

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The children know what to do.

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Remind the father, prayer time,

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remind the mother and sometimes the father may pray Surah can finish

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the whole form but the father prayed before he cannot remain. He could ask for some no go one and a half Alhamdulillah then you know you don't fall further. Your prayer is not very you just pray wonder Can one and a half robot do it again, the father may do now lesser from one and a half to one

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because they cannot remember any at that point in time. Now you can live from love enough sun in Laos

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or more. We're not just us and burden us except we have what we can then we can and there's one thing

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the situation has changed.

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But that leaves you remind them

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if you call them to pray again the same thing is going to happen because they can remember

00:43:49--> 00:43:51

but unless you remind them of Allah

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because if they have been worshiping Allah when we are healthy

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is easy for us to remember Allah

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and that's why when a person is going to die you don't call him to recite Quran yah, Xena No, you just hit La Ilaha in la ma la ilaha in Omaha

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if that also we feel

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then we have failed ourselves

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the children feel us

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because that is the only thing that can save us from hellfire.

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monocular Killa May he be called in LA in la moda collagen

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is that easy? Brandon's is

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the we feel that we are facing this problem in the society.

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big problem.

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When the media tried to go to the street and us

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young Muslim children

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were very active on the street.

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Where most of them

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will get being done.

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Will be being done lifestyle is very different you have a lot of activities a lot of entertainment seeing dancing openly

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and sometimes the one who is doing this I'm

00:45:34--> 00:45:41

so happy entertaining themselves so proud. Show the talent

00:45:44--> 00:45:50

how good is the song Beautiful, the wind

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even made me with Egypt participate. No higher no more shine US Open

00:46:03--> 00:46:08

and the one who is watching also, hijab be no problem everything goes today

00:46:11--> 00:46:21

and we don't understand so many things is wrong happening openly. We know is wrong.

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No amount of an

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authority is there.

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Everything goes

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this is a great fit number then says great fit

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let us go back to the book. Today we should be talking about what

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here according to what is written in my book.

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We should be on page 99 If I'm not wrong is the page 99 Anybody remember?

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It just know your highlight visual 99.

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is about So the idea being Kizomba.

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We know our Prophet SAW Selim have a lot of wives, many wives but this is not only in the profit

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made the time

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ever they have a lot of

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It's very normal.

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To have one wife is considered not normal.

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And the time Yeah, the social structure is very different.

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But there are people who don't have

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many wives but

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they have men and woman that is not legal for them and is also common. They can keep on changing and changing and a no big deal. Because women have no value and that

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is like a property they can buy. They can say no and then change again.

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It's like a gun one. Then you change another new government change another government you keep on changing.

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So how would that been designed? Been Rhodiola who

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was from the courageous tribe, meeting with the Prophet. Someone bottom

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at his eight forefather Dr. Ben Ben Gottlieb. She was previously married most of the wife and the Prophet

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widows, the wasI.

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And they both were among the earliest people to embrace Islam.

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She migrated with him to Allah

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and have Basha be seen today

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to the heavy load on people's yet it topia.

00:49:38--> 00:49:42

And he died the husband died upon their return to

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later on the prophets Allah Salam is here to show to the courage to the Arabs because at that time is part of their culture. They believe any woman

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who have a husband now and the husband passed away is because of the curse of the woman. This woman bring bad luck to the men. That's why the men divers

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anything happened to the men, all the blame, focus on the woman

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Nobody will want to have anything to do with this woman is better for this woman to die now.

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Because you are the cause of the death of the husband, even the men it was you is because you are so bad that the men want to keep you anymore. So both way you're always wrong. Nobody is there to protect your honor.

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Death is something you can control. If Almanza you're going to die, you die. Whether you are healthy or young, poor or rich, you have to die. But that is the culture.

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So nobody is going to have anything to do with this woman.

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But the prophet now is doing this also to overcome that

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stigma. No woman is man you don't blame them.

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You don't curse the woman don't say the woman is the one who bring bad luck or good luck.

00:51:31--> 00:51:36

Woman is just another human like a man, we will die they will die.

00:51:37--> 00:51:45

And even woman have the right to free themselves. If you have a bad husband. There is in the Islamic law.

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So the Prophet is going to show to the people.

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Even the husband passed away, she is still

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a woman that we should honor.

00:52:03--> 00:52:04


00:52:08--> 00:52:09

Law Hawkins

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is again the NAM MA for the Prophet. He's here not to follow the norm to follow what is right.

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And that is why the woman's value start to change. People start to respect especially the companion of the Prophet.

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They don't feel that it's a stigma to marry a divorcee to marry a widow no more.

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And they brought up the image of the woman protect the dignity of the woman.

00:52:51--> 00:52:57

So the Prophet married her in Makkah during Ramadan on the tenure of His Prophet.

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When you say 10 years, that means Ramadan was not me

00:53:06--> 00:53:10

as a fasting man yet because Ramadan was me as a fasting man after Hijra.

00:53:12--> 00:53:13

But the man is there ready.

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And she was then in her 50s.

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And again you look, the prophet become a prophet 40 years.

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And then if the Prophet SAW Muslim, married her, and she was in the 50

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So the profit

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is how all

00:53:44--> 00:53:47

in 10 years of his 50 years

00:53:54--> 00:53:55

now immediately

00:53:57--> 00:54:00

after his hatred, the prophet of cause

00:54:01--> 00:54:10

when Allah commanded him the Prophet Never mind great never run away from Makkah and build allows time for you to migrate.

00:54:11--> 00:54:13

He's not like us.

00:54:14--> 00:54:20

For no reason when to buy give because we thought the other side is always greener than our side.

00:54:22--> 00:54:25

We thought that oh in the West is better than it is.

00:54:28--> 00:54:31

That is where we make the wrong judgment.

00:54:32--> 00:54:40

The bears have nothing to do with is always is up to every one of you. You can make the best

00:54:41--> 00:54:49

wherever you are, if you want and you can be the worst wherever you are. If you are not careful.

00:54:52--> 00:54:55

You don't blame the east or the west you blame yourself.

00:54:57--> 00:54:59

If you are the worst person you go the east or west

00:55:00--> 00:55:02

You bring all the worst thing with you.

00:55:06--> 00:55:16

But important also the environment that you want to go you ask yourself is the environment very friendly to you as a Muslim?

00:55:20--> 00:55:30

How your pet campers migration was commanded to save your Eman not because of dunya

00:55:32--> 00:55:34

today we migrate because of dunya

00:55:36--> 00:55:41

we are prepared to sacrifice our Eman our region for dunya that is what happening

00:55:44--> 00:55:46

we are very careful bonuses

00:55:48--> 00:55:49

of course,

00:55:50--> 00:55:59

he brought her to join him in Medina than my first in the Prophet migrate he never migrated any of the wire

00:56:01--> 00:56:04

he have to make his journey first with the

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most closest friend of the Prophet and

00:56:12--> 00:56:12

then data on

00:56:14--> 00:56:18

the other family members start to migrate

00:56:19--> 00:56:25

some of them were the first woman that the profits and loss and many after Katya

00:56:29--> 00:56:39

and she was then in her mid 50s As she became his only wife for more than four years until he married Aisha

00:56:42--> 00:56:50

because of her own is soda soon lost interest in men and felt that she was unable to fully

00:56:51--> 00:57:02

function please that profit does when the profit many Asian so that give up hurtin with him to her in order

00:57:03--> 00:57:04

to acknowledge her

00:57:06--> 00:57:07

weaknesses and

00:57:10--> 00:57:13

in case you had any thoughts of divorcing her.

00:57:14--> 00:57:17

That's why you see most of the wife in general

00:57:19--> 00:57:19

you know,

00:57:20--> 00:57:39

they always offer their time according to the profit is part of her his respond to be fair to the one but then when the profit is going according to the arrangement. Then the watch you go to Asia my time I pass it to Asia

00:57:47--> 00:57:58

she was last November respect to berwarna. She died in Medina near the end of the road of Omar in Radi Allahu Ana.

00:58:00--> 00:58:01

That mean

00:58:02--> 00:58:05

see survive after the profits and loss

00:58:07--> 00:58:25

for quite some time, because two year Abubakar become the credit. And then Omar came to be the second Khalifa of our profit, some of us and towards the end. And Omar was the Khalifa for 10 years.

00:58:27--> 00:58:29

So almost two years

00:58:30--> 00:58:34

after the Prophet said moslem passed away

00:58:37--> 00:58:42

most of the wives of the Prophet was then buried in Medina

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in Buckeye,

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that is the graveyard, the closers to the most

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al Madina, Munawwara

00:58:56--> 00:59:01

anybody who visited Medina is sure to Norway's bucket

00:59:03--> 00:59:09

and the beautiful part of bucket brother and sister until today Allahu Akbar

00:59:11--> 00:59:19

1000 or years the land is not huge compared with our graveyard sometime

00:59:21--> 00:59:22

but you can still bury people.

00:59:24--> 00:59:31

Anybody who got the Umrah hash issue day they will be buried in bucket

00:59:36--> 00:59:40

why why so many people can still be buried in bucket

00:59:41--> 00:59:45

why our graveyard is getting

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bigger and bigger and still not enough land for the

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for the disease is because we build

00:59:56--> 00:59:59

the grave not following the teaching of

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01:00:01--> 01:00:06

graveyard is not a garden is not a private property

01:00:07--> 01:00:08

is a worker

01:00:11--> 01:00:25

so you just bury after one you can pick up again. Push whatever skeleton left especially the tailbone, tailbone we're not Yeah,

01:00:26--> 01:00:28

we're not disappeared

01:00:30--> 01:00:33

then you move then and then the new body can be buried.

01:00:35--> 01:00:43

But here we thought that this is our property, elbow the one the secure the graveyard

01:00:45--> 01:00:50

all the data on the just put to stone that there is somebody here before

01:00:52--> 01:01:17

and that's why when you go to the grave, you just have some idea where about kuras enter the Grisha ceremony, cumbia ality and in a movement in one Muslim meanwhile inna insha Allah Bakula a goon give solemn prayer for everybody not only you go and look for your father's grave, your mother great your wife and how good they are the Muslim all of them are our family in the grave

01:01:19--> 01:01:30

Hallelujah to them and of course you can just go to the particular grave that you know where you bury your loved one and they pray it again no problem.

01:01:33--> 01:01:35

Today our graveyard

01:01:36--> 01:01:38

become so colorful

01:01:40--> 01:01:52

with all the colorful mumble you want local you one important marble you want what kind of stone reverse stone mountain stone

01:01:53--> 01:01:58

stuck on I don't know what's happening is now have shown us the way the best way.

01:02:00--> 01:02:07

Next time in Malay they say Tana Kuvera book and Tommen book

01:02:11--> 01:02:12

just the earth

01:02:13--> 01:02:16

in some sign that somebody's been buried you

01:02:20--> 01:02:21

know everybody

01:02:22--> 01:02:24

when they have their privacy

01:02:25--> 01:02:27

This is my border.

01:02:28--> 01:02:34

I secure the CMM with mumbles now they also prepare see

01:02:35--> 01:02:37

we don't know what's gonna happen.

01:02:38--> 01:02:40

We are following

01:02:41--> 01:02:44

the disbeliever Yeah.

01:02:45--> 01:02:48

Step by step. We're just putting them

01:02:50--> 01:02:54

where Islam is here to show us the Islamic way.

01:02:56--> 01:02:59

Not our way I just don't understand.

01:03:03--> 01:03:05

Do you understand you're so difficult and

01:03:08--> 01:03:11

you're staying just across

01:03:12--> 01:03:16

the graveyard just so happened that road

01:03:18--> 01:03:22

cost that this is under another territory.

01:03:25--> 01:03:28

Give you an example. Here.

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01:03:33--> 01:03:34

Chiara Are you hook era

01:03:36--> 01:03:44

now you stay just across the road. You so happen that area is But darling.

01:03:45--> 01:03:49

And the Petaling Jaya, here is under beeliar

01:03:52--> 01:04:02

If you throw a stone in the stone also can reshoot that scene. But because of that you thought that you can be bereaved? No, no, no the Jenufa or

01:04:05--> 01:04:08

can you imagine what is happening to all of us today?

01:04:10--> 01:04:13

Even to the extent of

01:04:14--> 01:04:26

graveyard, we divide into territory. You should make it easier those who are closer to that area. That will be practical.

01:04:29--> 01:04:37

But no. We thought that in reality today the world today if you want to get things done

01:04:39--> 01:04:42

is not what you know. Is who you know.

01:04:45--> 01:04:48

And we thought that only when you are alive.

01:04:50--> 01:04:53

You in to get things done. You get to know

01:04:54--> 01:04:56

the people that is important.

01:04:57--> 01:04:59

Now is telling us

01:05:00--> 01:05:01

Even after you die,

01:05:03--> 01:05:04

you still have to know

01:05:06--> 01:05:06


01:05:08--> 01:05:08

is not

01:05:10--> 01:05:16

what you want but you must know so you must have connections.

01:05:17--> 01:05:22

To the extent you die also you must have connection.

01:05:24--> 01:05:35

Your May Allah protect us brothers, sisters, Islam is easy, practical, fair to everybody, almost clean is a family.

01:05:36--> 01:05:41

Make it easy. Allah will make your life easier you make it difficult.

01:05:43--> 01:05:48

You don't only want to control the people when they are alive, you will want to control them when they die.

01:05:50--> 01:05:53

May Allah make those have the right spirit

01:05:55--> 01:05:57

to honor every Muslim

01:06:00--> 01:06:02

whether they are poor or rich.

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And always make sure that when they die, make it easy that where is close to them, send them to the area. First come

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what you're seeing when we first come

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first conference

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So brothers and sisters, that is the life

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of one of the wife on the profits, some was some

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but the good side that we like to share with you, sir owner.

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And also about Khadija in the early part with tecoma Khadija he's the first one. And when she was alive, the Prophet

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was he only

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Yeah. Only other wives started after Katya passed away. So then data on Aisha, and data on the other

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ladies and every woman that the Prophet married with brother and sister, they become the Mother of the Believers on us, this woman can not remarry anymore.

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They have a special law

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that don't apply to us. If we married any woman, we divorced them, or we pass away after the ADA, the one have the right to choose to remarry or not. But for the wife of the Prophet no more, they become a muslim meaning the mother of all the believers till the end of time.

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So don't forget when we pray.

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We also pray for all the family of the prophets

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and we hope that we can learn from the wife of the Prophet, especially the sisters.

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So that how can we become righteous

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mother the righteous wire.

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But again,

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you cannot

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help the children help your husband if you don't learn.

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So, focus on the letter. If

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you're talking I see.

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If you're not careful,

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then we will regret

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don't think live

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talk right granted.

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We want to have a good end.

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Make sure you pick up your responsibility now.

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That's why seeking knowledge is an obligation on every Muslim male and female.

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The future you want to look for a partner or son in law especially those who have daughters. Please

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be very careful.

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If they have men have everything

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money, good looking. Beautiful.

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Big house doing everything is there. But he don't have the team.

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Look for the person have we have the team. Okay, that is what the prophet recommend.

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If not, you're just going to destroy your data

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So may Allah protect all of us

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and give us a good ending

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if there's any question now we open for q&a Fattah Fatah

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How is our fasting getting on branches okay?

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please remember the last 10 days is coming very close everybody just get more prepared.

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Keep on asking Allah for forgiveness

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and when you pass you fast with the rights period follow the to and don't the SOP

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and when you pray you pray or so you follow the SOP

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with tomorrow Nina 30 Yeah, do it the proper way follow the way of Prophet Muhammad some of Salam

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because when come to prayer, the prophets is so low commodity to Munoz study follow my way don't follow anyway.

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The same thing when you want to stay awake

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in the last 10 Nine, don't stay away and you're on your handphone and in Connect, still connect to the world but you are not connected to Allah.

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Some people they don't sleep but they are not connected to Allah.

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They spend all their time talking wasting their time.

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They may watch TV or they may listen to music, then you will know that you will never get later to

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with the mass or

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get closer to Allah.

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Any question?

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Sir, welcome. She welcome Sarah Morris Matala Mercato please advise how to make these last 10 days of Ramadan the best way to please Allah.

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Like how our Prophet saw our show is the best example.

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He was stay awake most of the time.

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The prayer the night prayer, because we have finished the night prayer properly very early.

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Then we can stay out to read the book of Allah. Read the Quran.

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Make it clear make dua one of the two and that the Prophet encouraged us to read a lot Allahumma Inaka who into a Buddha for

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But also a very powerful dua asking Allah for forgiveness. Yeah.

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And then so many other thing that you can do when you stay awake to plan, how I'm going to make my children righteous children, have a plan.

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All these is an act of worship is not just praying, praying just for yourself. You're thinking about the family, thinking about your neighbor, how to make them become righteous, neighbor, good neighbor. All that you are thinking you're planning is also part of Ibadah

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I need anything that you do that can benefit you and benefit others but please don't just you you you be selfish.

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The prophet is a man who do not just think for himself. You're thinking about his OMA how to spread the word of Allah, how many of us plan how to do that one example.

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We don't even think of that. But it's our duty to do that

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and just how we keep ourselves busy planning making zekiel recite the Quran

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and that's how we make our night life.

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And Brandon, what maybe you want to give sadaqa we have a lot of activities

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to help the poor and the needy to feed them for Iftar participate.

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Of course one of the things that a lot of people is getting ready to do Amara in the month of Ramadan, especially in the last 10 Night and to do ethical

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in Muslim or haram and more

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Stay Medina to do it decaf masala Aqsa is very difficult

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because we have the enemy of peace

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who don't honor

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or the holy place that belongs to the Muslim the only on the place not the Muslim

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and the world is blind

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the word don't say anything people have authority

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that Campion human rights we have no right

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we have all the right to kill our innocent people. Our mother our father our children

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we have to make a lot of to add

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you can make the car the profit normally we'll do it

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but we do not think is changing too but I don't know where the mess it haram they are up to do it decaf or not this year.

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Even the breaking of fast is outside no more inside

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me hope man the normal thing will carry on.

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Think that they the way they start to do that is because they say when to keep the mosque clean. Because when you actually carve in the mores of course you must have people who prepare to send food inside because you will eat their sleep there

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the only thing you leave the most because of the call of nature.

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There's a really ethical You Become the guest of Allah

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these are the few things that it was encouraged because whoever perform Umrah in the month of Ramadan

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is like you're getting the reward of hash

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and this could be just a lot of people going there and normally the 10 nights of Ramadan Mocha is

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is more crowded something then hash time.

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Bigger hash then people stay further away sometimes they just come and pray but then night people will stay in Haram the the move

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the very pack that's why the cause

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for anybody who go the last 10 days of Ramadan is very very costly.

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They may cost you hundreds of 1000 per person like

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by right this is the time people make things easier

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to get more reward but not the one the reward in dunya the mark up the price suddenly was shot.

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From one night maybe the hotel costs you 800 by 100 Sadly

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because Leila tadagra Then multiply three time

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Allah was

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next question

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is it okay to eat cultivated meat or meat meat from stem cells of animals and develop to look and tastes the same?

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Eating meat

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what is the meat meat from stem cells of animals?

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I already understand the question as long as it's a minute halal meat then is halal for us to consume. Anything that is halal is how you prepare the food. How you prepare the meat is up to every individual Astone thing is halal then is halal. If you have doubts about the meat then stay away anything that you are not sure. Rule number one stay away.

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When you are sure that this is halau then Hamdulillah that is our guideline

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and the question

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give us some advice how to pray

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It will be accepted.

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How to Pray

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that will be accepted. Number one, your intention must be for the sake of Allah. Number two the way you perform the prayer you follow Prophet Muhammad summer months and

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then in sha, Allah Allah

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very simple.

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First, your intention. Second, even your intention is good but you pray in your way. You don't follow the way of the Prophet, then your prayer or be rejected.

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So we hope all of us who have been praying, it's time for us to look into our prayer. We fall into profit.

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It's not yet time for you to change before it's too late. Because the Prophet have warned us man and Milla Ahmed and ASA, Amana and these Hadees was conveyed to Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu to Allah or the companion. The prophet is very worried about his ummah. That's why he said, just follow his sunnah follow his way, his way.

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Is that what Allah said call him couldn't come to him. Well, no more for Toby o ne. w o ne you become a more young fella comes you know, Malcolm will knock over for Rahim. Or Muhammad said to the people who say I believe in Allah and love Allah. I do everything for Allah. Then following

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follow Prophet Muhammad, then Allah will accept Allah will love you and he'll forgive you if you make some mistake he and

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not purposely ALLAH forgive you

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lose the weight. Well my dad Morozov, who's a woman have an open toe, whatever the profit brought to you, except whatever the profit is. Don't don't.

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Simple lacquer, cannula computer Sula, he was written Hasan, indeed, the prophet is a bash example for you to follow. Why must you follow other than the Prophet when you have the knowledge

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of the Sunnah, if you don't have knowledge, of course you have to learn and when you learn, sometimes you may not be guided properly, you learn from the wrong person, then what should you do? You try your best and keep on asking along have an open mind if somebody is there to remind you, correct you. Be open?

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Don't be to

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stop that mean you feel that? No, no, no, no, this is my way. No, no, it's not your way. You must make sure I want to learn the way of the Prophet

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no imam or us to follow their way all the Imam Abu Hanifa Molly sharpy humbly say follow the way of Prophet Muhammad.

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So by following the way of the Prophet, we have honor and respect and follow the four great Imams

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who cannot follow for you must follow anyone

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and humbling that hamdulillah on the fall call us to follow one prophet Muhammad Salah Salem that's how we move on don't get confused.

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you have the last question online

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should have how many questions online one more further?

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What is the daleel we pair that normally practice outside break into two plus one while we there is in

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the question what is the daily we did that normally practice outside that break into two plus one?

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I think if I had not heard that question. Is there a diluted performing with you too and then one

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That the the concept of the name with Pierre

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is ot number.

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So and the prophet had these was very clear 135 and a very unique because it's an odd prayer. So the style also uniquely one one Salam monta here, Salam three, one to hear Salam five, one to hear one Salam

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That's why it's unique.

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So those who do too and one that mean two is not a weak theory. The one is the video.

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Data really the one is written to is just another key term.

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I think a lot of people is using that a lot of people is doing two and one, two and one, two is known as even not odd anymore. So the odd the last one is the real fear. But a lot of people sometimes they are so confusing, we knit with your soul to or is the one yet within and then one retail. So, there are two kinds of retail for some people to also become retail. One also began with zero so we also don't understand.

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That is the confusion. There is people who say wait till can perform to the must give daleel

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We know that the Prophet showed us we did 135 There's

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none. Any other question for the brothers and sisters on site?

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Yeah, mine please.

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Salam Alaikum have a look at why they come Salah martial law or Brocato. I would like to know how do we advise anyone who tend to have their actions and

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out of fear of people and not fear of Allah.

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Allah? Hi, yah.

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Hum. The very interesting question and it's a very practical question. In general sometime, or humbler with the will of Allah we are exposed to the right knowledge. We know what Allah said one on one. So do what the prophet has taught us to the authentic hundreds. But we just can do it, because of the fear of pressure from the

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public. The norm is different. The truth is different. So because of the weakness of our Eman, we tend to follow the norm to displease Allah.

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Even the Prophet was sent apologia Nam Dowell would have he's not here to follow the norm. The truth is or to have to convey the truth even is gains everybody My duty is to say the truth that

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you want to follow you don't want to follow is between you and Allah. But my duty is to tell you what Allah wants me to tell

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from our Elena Ella Bella, our duty is to convey but very strange when people who have the knowledge now they know this is what Allah say this what the prophet want us to do, but you have the path to hell.

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So it is up to you, are you going to see them when you die? Or you see Allah

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we have a problem

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and don't think we will pass the test of Allah if that is how

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we tend to presume him because they're how you're going to tell Allah Roddy to be the hero but Oh ALLAH and preach with you, whatever you want me to do, I'm going to do because

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I like to praise you first. He come first nobody come before Allah. He come first in our life

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is dangerous. It's very dangerous. That mean you think that humans are more important than Allah. Now.

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It's important to priests human to displease Allah. You can even your own pattern. You must please your parents on them. But if they want you to do something against Allah and the Prophet, you have to excuse his

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law too much.

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You cannot obey anyone to displace Allah. Now.

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I've got choices. Ours is the test of Eman. If you say, I really believe in Allah, I love Allah. Allah always come first Allahu Akbar, then you must prove that Allah is Akbar. He is the greatest