Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 14
Channel: Hussain Yee
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Sheikh Hussain Yee speaks about the regulations and exhortations when it comes to funerals – Episode 14
Presented on April 25, 2017.
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salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
Oh praise due to Allah, Allah Allah min for his blessing for his guidance for his forgiveness. shala sisters and brothers let us begin our class with the morning Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim
al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen
Allahumma salli ala Muhammad
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we always remind ourselves to remember law
and we try to remember Allah in the best way that we can.
So that Allah will remember us,
one allari member as he will protect us, He will forgive all our sins and He are going to reward us with huge reward, inshallah.
The important thing is to make sure that whatever we do, we are very sincere to him.
We are here to please Him. That's why we always say Roddy to be law here on Friday to be law here about sisters and the brothers is here to remind us that we should always try to do things to please Allah.
But until today, we have been tested.
Many times we fail because we tend to please people more than Allah. What people say we worried what Allah said, we are not worried.
We want to make ourselves happy. We want to make our children happy. We forget how to make Allah happy.
When you love the creation of Allah more than the Creator, Allah itself, we will have a lot of problem in life.
is here to guide us but we don't follow His guidance. That's why we always start our morning prayer by saying God to be Lahore about a bit Islam, Medina Wahby, Mohammed
we always remind ourselves that Oh, Allah made me among the people who please you, happy with you? Whatever you want us to do, we'll try our best to do it.
That's how you make
Is that how you make your parents happy, just do think that parent want you to do
that how we make our husband happy, just make them happy.
You can ask them how can I make you happy, they will tell you.
And that has made me want to make the wife happy. Also they have to check how to make the wife happy.
It's not difficult, but just try our best. We have been asking Allah
to make us people who please him but we are still failing until today because there are many things that we always
want to do.
And we forget that whether it's pleasing Allah or not. Now how to please Allah, or bill Islam, Medina, Allah sent down Islam as a guidance. We just follow the Islamic principle.
Whatever is written in Islam,
we act upon it.
And we do not entertain our culture tradition that contradict Islam. So
remember, Islam don't follow any one of us. Everybody must learn how to follow Islam.
Now to understand Islam, you cannot just read the Quran the Quran is general command order from Allah, the detail is from the prophet and that's why you see or be Mohammadi. nebbia
now, Aurora de la hora ba wobble Islami Dena Wahby Mohammadi nebia is known to majority of the scholars of Quran and Sunnah who Sol Sol as
you noted down
when people say oh Sol thalassa
also means the foundation the basic thalassa tree, tree foundation tree, basic foundation
when we die, a lot also will ask us mirrabooka who is your Lord?
Allow us Medina aka what religion Do you believe in?
And allow us so many nabby Yoga Who is your profit?
These three basic question will be asked by Allah.
That's why we always remind each other to be la hora bow village la mente now Mohammed in Abuja.
The reason we do that rather than says that just to remind us
Don't forget to place Allah.
Anything you want to do
you check whether it's against a loss or not, if not against that mean you are placing him
when you do something against him, that means you're not placing him
and we have the Quran and the Sunnah to guide us just check if there is a daleel Alhamdulillah when there is no proof reference from the book of Allah and the Sunnah of the profit. We all student of knowledge immediately know that this is your only opinion.
Very easy. If there is a reference from the book of Allah and this this is Islam
one that is not there that men This is opinion.
Now how to take care of our Eman before we die.
A lot of other men remind us to fall asleep in the insane Olivia cocinar A surah that majority of us have memorized
telling us about majority of us will end as a loser
and why we become a loser he will be trying
to do a lot of thing we can still end as a loser.
In Allah Xena Amano Amina salia why we lose so we have been learning but there's no change in us we are still a loser.
We learn what no changes men come to reality we please people to displace Allah. We still go back to square one.
Do we learn? Yes. How many classes many?
five, seven classes per week. Alhamdulillah.
How about your changing,
This is an example. That means something is very wrong. With our intention Our intention is not to change.
And when you don't change brother and sister you create fitna to yourself, because our children look at us. If the wife is attending, our husband will look at us. There's no changes in you, you become more aggressive than before.
Then is it what are you learning?
I don't think there was time is guiding all of you, you become very judgmental and go home and bang, bang, bang all your children, what is this, you must learn how to handle them. Talk to them, I shared with all of you that what to do that page a day, remember that? A page a day
hamdulillah I hope this you have gone to
two weeks gone.
We are worried to our system brother as we age.
We know we are not that active anymore. And as we age, a lot of things slow down.
So we do not want to end as a loser. We hope that you know, the bad things slow down. But the good thing increase.
Increase in righteous deeds. Increase in our decay we remember a lot more increase in reciting the book of Allah, we increase in that area increase in our sadaqa in our charity we increased in that manner.
by time all of us will end as a loser except the true believers who act upon their belief. And as in Armando, Romulus Allah, Allah Allah Gina Amano. Mila salia
I think we have done that. That part, I believe majority of us have done because it's for yourself, you believe you act upon what you believe. But two more we are still struggling with our sabella.
What I mean, when you have changed, you become better. You must make sure you convey the knowledge, share the knowledge, and pass down the knowledge to others.
Starting from your close family, your children example. You cannot
excuse us and delay anymore. We have been delaying talking to our children tell them to do and don't and we keep on delaying.
We will regret.
Any time we have the opportunity to talk to children.
But use the best approach.
Don't attack them.
Don't be judgmental to them. Share with them your knowledge and check. Ask them how they feel. What do they think? To them today? It's not like our time, our time we just listen.
Our parents say don't ask just listen one way communication. Today you have two way communication. Sometimes three ways four ways so many ways.
Sometimes you say if I fail to convince my children, I must plan as soon as possible to engage other people to help or help. No more time to waste.
our enemy never waste their time they keep on planning.
They fail this they move to another strategy, network stop.
Come up here on this program on the IP and see look at the movement of the technology.
From iphone iphone four, four plus five, five plus six six plus, seven never stop to make us become more busy and more busy and more busy.
And you forget all the good thing that we can do to keep on making our children busy and busy and further and further.
This is part of the strategy to make us
abandon the deen without we're realizing.
So we have to engage people as soon as possible.
And some children are hamdulillah we give them a lot of education.
And now they go global international education.
They don't want to speak Malay anymore English English then you must engage English speaking people.
Don't get engaged the Malaysian is backward either the talk to these kind of people they don't understand the wavelength is not the same.
We are talking it they are talking
1000 years ago matters no no example
we must act fast before it's too late.
The best way to save our aemon brothers and sisters
and the best way for us to look for references is what allows it
I caught again so that before we continue
along know that we all love to follow.
Easy to follow then to be a leader is good to be a good follower. So alas it was sadly Kunal alumina Mahajan will answer with Xena
son, radi Allahu wa boo
and Allah continue
or Abdullah who Jana didn't the jury
and Hello, Kali Dena v hat. Amanda. Radical falls will azim in Surah, Toma
sort of Toba was 100.
In this ayah, Allah is telling us the first to embrace Islam, the first to embrace Islam among the mo hygiene
and the answer.
Meaning the first group of people who accept Islam and the people who live in Makkah, because the Prophet was born in Makkah, he was appointed by Allah from Makkah time and why he was revered in Makkah in the beginning, so the Moroccans Mahajan was given priority by Allah
Mahajan one ansara pull out with the people of Medina.
Mo is the best but the one that Allah give priority is the people of Makkah. Why because the people are maka is exposed to the aqeedah of Islam and adapt of Islam before anything or the hokum the lurid to unknown was revealed in Medina more than in maka, maka is character building.
And reinforce the man to have the right understanding how to believe in Allah, and how to believe in an era
because an era is a day of judgment, you receive all the reward in everything there so you must prepare yourself.
Well as Xena de ba O, whom the sun and Allah continue.
If Allah stop there, we are all gone.
Allah continue and who ever follow them
if you want to follow follow them because they're the best generation, the closest to the Prophet similan salon.
Normally, if you cannot get close to someone that is so important, if you can close to the
the a friend is good.
is good enough? Because they will help you to get close and
why Allah says you should follow them. And also Allah come from and those who follow them. What do they gain? What do they get in return? radi Allahu anhu motto and Allah so pleased with them because they are always pleased Allah, whoever followed them, they will also be preaching.
This generation is very unique. That's why the Prophet said nobody can compare their faith, their contribution to Islam, to this first group of Muslim nobody.
Where everything is against Islam, they stand for Islam
surrounded by 90% of enemy but they stand strong. They never give up.
Whatever property Allah give Katia Abdur Rahman bin of Abu Bakar the use of the web to defend Islam
by helping the poor, the needy then people start to support them say they are good people.
Is that in India we have friends who just came in,
share with us thing is changing.
They become more hostile to us.
the Muslim is not dare to fight anymore.
Because we are minority. If you keep on fighting, you're not going to
But the Muslim is engaged in a lot of charity work, welfare work, when there was a flood, the Muslim is the one who engaged in reaching out to all the people, the poor, the needy, and because of that, good they have done allow.
Now the Hindus themselves is
talking on behalf of Muslim why you do this to the Muslim. They are good people, they help us nobody who was dead on who come to earth, they are one who send food to us.
You see, actions speak louder than words. You don't have to
be active, proactive.
You only can give more when you have more. But the time you have more You are so fear that oh, this is mine. I don't want to depart you are going to go and everything will go well if you
just an example.
The first generation of Muslim is very unique.
That's why the minority can
change the majority is not major they change the minority. Can you imagine 23 years the whole Makkah and Medina change
from the land of the disbeliever become the sacred city of the Muslim Makkah and Medina become
and what do Allah say to this group of people who please Allah della Hoon Jeanette integer Rita and her Halina vihara vida.
I promised them a make a promise.
You just do what you had to do a lot will make the promise that he said I will reward them
what is more important then paradise brother and sister nothing.
How do you feel brother and sister when there's a stream of clear water running in front of your house?
Not polluted, fresh, clean, clear water.
How do you feel?
You feel relaxing, refreshing
when you go to Paradise, I prepare rebels not only one realist a lot but the river of honey the river of mill river of wine and clear pure water.
law you didn't have to drink you can soak inside.
Can you manage swim with honey?
You get sticky. How?
How clean how soft your skin is.
Zadie Clozaril of the mama say
mama is a doozy the supreme success
and then a lot continue to tell us again for in Armando be Miss Lima montem be HIPAA data. I caught this iron many times. I keep on repeating why because we need to be reminded again
if you're worried about your Eman, if you really want to make sure you have the right Eman, the right understanding about aqeedah Islam
again allows it for in our man on the Miss Lima man to be Takada.
We do not want to be misguided we want to be guided and if you believe that how they believe Who are they?
The Mahajan will answer believe, then you will be guided if you want to make sure you're guided. Don't run away from that. Believe.
That's all don't go and entertain so many other things. Just focus on
Why how the early generation, the Mahajan, warm, unsalted belly class.
Until today, Muslims are so confused about him and
they don't know who to follow.
May Allah help us? I mean
and now actually we are going to the book about the funeral. I'm not going to say that we are all going to die tomorrow.
We don't want to die yet.
Because we want to do more for Allah before we die.
We want to see our children
grow up healthy children, righteous children, noble children.
And now those who have big children they're waiting for grandchildren.
You have all the young young baby in France on this did it look at them hamdulillah
but again, death is certain
Not today according to what was
a double check with sister Ayesha just now in on page 45 talking about wailing
we have this house about what happened
and before and also we also have this class about how good when the person have the right intention that they put a lot Islam ahead of everything. Like what happened to about Pearl Harbor and misaligned last class Nia we talked about that
this is values
don't put in a hit of a man put Islam ahead of everything
that we talk about marriage.
We have witnesses after marriage people die.
They have people one out of five our something to happy.
Islam do not encourage people who go for a wedding to delay your dinner after you
Because we give them their privacy they need time together.
Can you imagine the spend so much and then they want to be together? They get tired. They have no time to spend time together. And tomorrow The day
is ready always
leave. McCann Minam callas check next day,
give them at least one week. Don't disturb them.
For them to get to know each other.
Know what they like what they dislike, so that they have peace and harmony.
When person dying, all of us are aware.
Been human, of course, you'll feel sad. You cannot say I'm happy.
It's not right for you to say I'm happy. Even if a happy puppy inside you. Don't express it.
Then people will curse you.
We will say you have a different agenda. And that's not good. Even you happy have a good ending of God. When people have a good ending. You should be happy.
That what happened in time of obatala you remember
the son passed away?
Of course, he feel hurt why you don't inform me earlier. She tried to make him happy first.
It's not easy. But Jesus just some example. I don't think we all can do that. If you do that I think you'll get with your divorce you
just do better you don't tell me made him so upset he was
even though it is permissible to grieve for the departure of a beloved one. If the grief exceed the limits become a form of objection to a loss other
who decide to take back our life, Allah.
You can try to commit suicide if Allah said no, you wouldn't die.
People take poison drink poison still deal
They are live. Yeah.
They become totally prohibited. If what you do exceed the limit that Islam provide for us, everything, the beautiful of Islam brothers is everything that has a limit.
And it's written, the limit is written. That's why we are so happy with our Dean, because the guidance is clear. It's not up to you to think No, it is stated that how many days you can mourn for a while how long everything is stated, clear cut,
and may cause suffering. If you keep on doing then
you are torturing yourself, and also may cause suffering for the disease in his grave, or in the Hereafter, because of you, the other people is suffering.
That's why we remind those who are living, do you know what your father wish from you, your father just passed away? Do you know he wanted you to be to move on to be a strong boy, to be a strong doctor.
You must have people to motivate them.
You don't have somebody for
why God do this to you
that they go deeper depression.
You must know how to bring them up. What do you think if your father is alive now he went from you. If your mother is still alive, she went from you
know, Father, no parent wants their children to
just cry, be sad. They want you to move on live, move on.
Now you should be stronger because your parent is not with you, you should be stronger to represent your parent, make them proud of you. That's how you motivate.
And that's why you remember the Prophet that said, in my
law, you as z Bobby buka de la remember that had this.
The deceives will be tortured in the grave because of what
the Wailing, the grieving from the leaving among the family members.
But if you have one, then you don't go get don't get crazy.
Don't read unnecessary, don't get out of control. But if they still do it, you will not be punished for that because you have warned them not to do. But if you do not do that, and they carry on with that kind of grieving.
They may cause you
to suffer. This applied to veiling, hitting the face, tearing the clothes and so on. There is part of the act of the Jay Z Jay Z they do that. And that's why this role is there. Why this the profit combined and touch on this matter? Because it was happening in his time.
It's not only now that from then
wailing is weeping or crying to exceed modern fitness to the level of screaming and is often associated with words of excessive praise for the disease, objection again above decree. He is so good he saw the why what that is not how can you do that?
What right do you have to tell allow why that everything belong to him is up to him.
To decide is his thing we all belong to Allah who give you the right to say why.
veiling is an act of God.
There are many acts of jelenia.
Before this Hudis remember the profits and loss on sale man da Allah Azza
wa Taala Allah Azza obeah Furman from main de who may Tanja helia.
The Prophet is trying to tell us as Muslim, how should we behave?
How should we react among ourselves as fellow mankind
he said, if anybody of you
The meaning who are Muslim now and still they invite people back to racism,
nationalist nationalism, or the ISM ism
all your fight under the banner of racism, the prophecy if you die while you are doing this, you will die as a helia.
Because there's what the helia always do. And Islam is here to break all this barrel and makers like one family, we presented mankind we don't present Earth.
tribe. We represent mankind. That's right. The Muslims are unique when they talk about something. They talk on behalf of everybody.
Black, why Arab non Arab?
That may feel that no, we are one.
But today we fail to do that. We don't understand that spirit anymore.
whaling is a practice of Jamelia,
the inker severe punishment on judgment day.
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There are four of the practices of Mahalia,
and Islamic that my oma will never drop
means the Prophet have foreseen this is going to happen.
This woman said, We are so blessed because the teaching of Islam the guidance of Allah and the prophets, teaching is also telling us what is going to happen when it happened. It's not a surprise anymore. We are ready to face all these things. So we must be strong. Don't worry what people say. Because whatever you do, do, do still say.
So you just have to do what you must do. You cannot save others save yourself. You can help others Help yourself.
So the prophecy, there are four of the practices of Jay Z, that my mom will never drop. liat ruku
boasting about social status,
when you have some status in this society,
the way you dress the way you walk,
very different now.
Sometime, we all know
is good to be humble. The best dress I will say what the best.
The best dress simple
and humble. Simplicity is the best.
All of you are well dressed and hungry. And you're simpler hamdulillah
there's nothing wrong.
But if you can dress
with a special dress, I know sometimes walima is a different dress, you know, classes, different colors, is long.
Many of the prey hamdullah the majority via the white telecom and so on. You can dress beautifully for Allah, nothing wrong.
But you can dress in any dress as long as halaal and cover your era. But even how expensive your garment is, how big the stone that you have on your finger, no problem.
But be humble. Can we be humble with that dress? Yes, it's up to you.
If you're an officer in the government with two stars or three star or gentlemen, you can win and still be humble.
But Southern you were you
Change your corrector
then you know
and that's why the Prophet dress that is important when Omar conquered Rome and Persia
and they got all the jewelry the dress from the king the Emperor and pass it to Omar says you have more right to dress this kind of dress than the emperor of Rome and Persia.
You are the chusen Khalif Allah bless you. Yeah Omar. Amira morning This is yours, man hey look at what they have presented to him he cry.
There is the great Khalif
that some of the competitors Why Why are you sad Allah gave you all this victory.
He said I'm worried that my this oma is going to be weakened is going to be destroyed because of this dunya and it's so true.
This way we try our best to control ourselves.
The dress can play important roles and then
some young people very young
no knowledge about Islam. But the dress job bar and turban.
Someday and problem people.
Ali malino herpes herpes but they don't even have it. They just love that uniform.
That is misleading.
They say it's not you don't have special dress for special people.
Mufti distress, no kadhi distress LBD dressing but the Prophet, the Sahaba that dress so humble, to the extent that you know 14 patches are all man dress a garment with 14 patches.
Torn Tom, again.
If you open our ABA to do Niala knows
don't know not enough.
ABA is not enough
until all the clothes have been
of size already because we actually keep can hanging hanging.
We confused maybe you can be humble number. Nothing wrong yet to dress nicely. But don't boss around with your status. number one.
Number two, defaming the kinship relation ship for some tribes and races
and defaming the kinship. relationship. You are not supposed to do that. Nobody is perfect. You have some problems Sit down. You can help them pray for them.
But now you have people
the jealousy the envy nerves from one to another, ask them to defame
is it happening
until the Prophet said is true until the day is happening?
Number three, seeking rain by means of stars astrology many people wondering as Allah the Prophet has taught us if there's no rain solid is discarded
when there's no rain
Yeah, call upon the oma let us come out and perform prayer is this call sisters and brother highly recommended. When you don't explain rain for some time you need rains like Middle East and so on. We have experienced that, you know from the 70s
when the king was very beloved by the nation, King Malik I saw was still alive. We were student in Medina. And there was about more than four to five man no rain in Saudi. You know in Saudi Arabia, it's not easy to get rain.
Then they feel the heat they feel the deal going to the drought is getting longer. So the King
Kong summon the scholars tweeting we should announce
is a national announcement. That is performed Salah HDS calm
came from the king.
The king feel for the country. He had no problem with water.
Palace always have another word,
but he feel for the country.
Then the order
was given out. And where do you pray? The best place is an open area not in the mouse
under the sun
of course you do eat in the morning so they don't feel the heat.
And Allah is so great I experienced I was dead at time before the end of prayer rains come along.
Because there is a code bar for is this car you pray and there is a Honda. And normally the time the profit when the solid is this car, ready I'm praying the profit normally if you were an extra gunman code around him, when he pray for the changes of the weather, he will turn back and
wear the Garmin upside down.
And when in our out he
is a symbol of change.
And then Allah Karim when you ask Allah, Allah there is one you must be humble. You must tell Allah I need your help. Today a lot of people have been asking Allah but we don't really need his help.
We just ask that they say of asking.
And then something is up to him.
I was reminded by some student in
cyber Jaya last week when I was given a lecture was very interesting. Because we are so used to end our
prayer anything with insha Allah, the word in sha Allah, that sometimes we overlook that is not right to say that what after you make a prayer?
You cannot, but sometimes we are so used and we say, Let us pray me Allah is insha Allah
because we are so used to the insha Allah
let us pray me ALLAH forgive all our sin insha Allah
so brother approached me later on, I want to ask you can we pray an end with insha Allah?
thank you for your reminder. I didn't mean that but slip of the tongue we also use insha Allah because the Prophet never allowed his oma
to pray and ask Allah for something. And n with in Schecter is Leslie insha. Allah
insha Allah in schicht I mean, if you wish,
wow. That mean, you don't really ask me and hope for me to answer your prayer is up to me. Of course, it's up to Allah. But you don't have to add you can say one.
you can say, I mean,
Allah give me help. You don't have to add insha Allah.
Just stop there.
Make something so useful. Then I say thank you for the reminder. I don't really mean that. I know you just what you just said. I remember what the prophet said that don't pray at the end of the prayer you put in jail, meaning you don't really want to respond. You want to respond.
So if you want anything, especially you ask for rain, asked directly from Allah do the prayer. Now we are so confused. Can you imagine prophet have taught us companion have done that the power grid among have done that today when you want to ask for rain Do you know normally what they will say? Let us pray Salam ala hajah
Where do you come up with this prayer? The Prophet talk to you one rain as is this call we
why we are so confused because we don't follow
we don't follow the for email neither we follow the companion neither we follow the Prophet we follow what we want to do.
And the last one veiling.
Why the Prophet said that because until now you can experience some people still do that.
And I believe majority of them who still carry on with this fall
they don't really have a sound knowledge and understanding about provenance sooner.
Those who have learned I think they will make changes in Shanna.
As for the Wailing woman, the prophet repeat
if she does not repent before death before she died, or a wedding men because normally they say a woman feel lost compared with men.
If she do not repent before her death, she will be raised on Resurrection Day wearing a garment of Lucas pitch and a shirt of scabies
as a punishment.
Now, a lot of belanda mean
give us the understanding the Hitman
not to do on this project, the proper extent this will happen now, it doesn't mean you all should get involved. No, no, no.
But you will witness that this thing will keep on happening like the killing in the middle is the war, the killing, Harish Hara the Prophet have mentioned in the Hadith 1400 years ago, this is going to happen. refugees from this country will leave the country because of protection and it's happening. So for people of understanding people who read the Quran, Sunnah to us, we are not caught by surprise.
Only we must learn so that this thing, don't counter we are not the cost.
That is important is going to happen but we should not be the cause.
You stay away.
Now look at the prophets covenant against baling, wearing it as a serious sin, that Prophet Muhammad shall require the woman's to make promise with him to
go against this act, this kind of emotional expression, on akia.
reported at a time of buy.
In you know, it's by,
by all means, the men when they do buy the whole hand with the Prophet
made an oath
of allegiance that I will obey and will not dis obey and not betray you whatever you want me to do, I will just do is a kind of agreement that you made with the Prophet. But when the Prophet made any agreement with the woman, none of them will shake his hand just by word.
Allows messenger took our covenant that will not that we will not will none of the woman who were present fulfill their covenant except five.
They can say yeah, but main thing has
been human again. No. We mean some time the cause of our love. No. Our emotional feeling is so strong. And we feel
the pie our own slain. Oh Allah
sobre dotter and more us
willing is an act of disbelief. The profits and losses from say in under holidays. It's not any finance Homer be him.
Tottenham Vanessa when Nia had to eliminate
two of the People's practices or acts of disbelief, Kufa,
this honoring kinship ties and wailing over the date.
This honoring kinship ties is become more rampant today.
Because of politics, because of well, because of dunya. We defame each other.
Where Islam is here to strengthen the family ties. We made this ugly,
but we don't have to defame each other. Don't create fitna
is you know what you do is correct based on the Quran, Sunnah, they are not doing it correctly. you educate them, share with them
Want to follow you pray for them what our soul will pay you but our sub the sub
you carry out your responsibility then you have summer
you cannot win 10 of them you win five of them you cannot win five of them you can win or one of them at least do something for us
you cannot change the eldest change the young one how to change the young one gain their respect first show them that you care you love them spend on them wisely no problem
and then get them closer and closer. They love this anti this anti love them give them but don't give them or the smartphone yet
you're going to break them away further and further away.
Give them three good makhan and then then talk to them then they feel attached to you they feel closer to you.
You spend on them normally they feel for you when you spend on them immediately this Auntie is coming I'm sure Auntie is gonna bring biscuit chocolate no problem.
If not antedated Andy candy just run away.
The policewoman is coming in he
is coming to tell us wrong this wrong. So we don't do that you have to win them over the young one.
The young one is easier sometimes.
Lastly, sisters and brother this for today is
no exception. Alas, messenger prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Don't forget to Mitch lower opening
did not allow availing even over his own son.
Mr. Herrera reported when Ibrahim died. This is the last son of the Prophet samosa who passed away. He has caused a and Abdullah but Ibrahim was the last one.
And when Abraham pass away, the J Leah, the pagan was very happy. Hello. I will not have curse this man Muhammad, because he has no son to carry down
his name anymore. People will forget about him.
No, because normally when you don't have boys, because the boy is going to carry your surname
then is going to have a daughter the daughter married with other people and then children, your grandchildren, but they can't you know follow the name of the other side, not your side.
So to the Giulia the bigger sale, our God have cursed this man. And this man, his God has abandoned him.
Now he has nothing to be proud in the future Halla people will forget him.
And that was the time the prophets of doom philia.
Osama bin Zayed scream of course, Allah interval saying lays her hands. I mean, this is not of my teaching.
Academy when we love somebody,
we've felt so sad and then you cry out and scream aloud.
As Prema has no right to do that.
Even when they scream you don't have the right to scream for that.
When somebody is doing something so wrong, you want to correct them from a distance you can scream at them.
When you want to call us and you can scream all afternoon Long, long but people will sleep. Scream raise your voice when the teacher is teaching. You can raise your voice. But for this you don't have to do it.
But the Prophet said the hearts get set is normal.
Your you must feel stand. If the one that pass away is some one that you love so attached to you. The I shed tears is normal is nothing wrong. But the Lord may never be angered because of this.
That's why the prophets of Salaam shed tears
no Me, me my wife to love them. Wake up the baby.
Now what do we learn from this brother system
back to the history of Abraham.
When the brain pass away of God been the Prophet the father that is the last son
because all the children of the Prophet pass away before him except
Fatima passed away after six months and the Prophet but because she asked her that
she said to the prophet to the Father, Father,
me ask Allah to let me the first to follow you after this
because she lives the farthest.
I've got the Prophet prayer, but
after six months she passed away
among the family and the Prophet the fastest to follow the Prophet after the proper pathway is Fatima
Fatima Allah very brave lady. A very brave girl when people put
nudges under the top of the Prophet date anymore where he was making sushi nobody there and throw that thing pick up that thing and except Fatima
party mafia nobody
for the sake of truth to protect the father, she's always there. How do you feel brothers and sister when your children is there to protect you
to be your bodyguard? That's why when look at some of the brothers the boy or bulking
not our fat cholesterol
is also good something from outside people say oh new big size No. So you can be a good body guy to your parents, you know, and this we better move your dad. But don't be bossy You know,
when they should go shopping you must carry the idea that thing. You don't be a body guy you just carry yourself you forget to carry their or their plastic back and so on. You must do the hard thing.
Then, when this thing happened, Prophet been a human being a father, very sad,
shaky as he shed tears.
But it's not really it's normal. Sometime when you're happy. Also your shed tears, the tears of happiness. And
then, and a surah was revealed. Remember what surah was reading?
Come on, what surah was revealed
the shutter surah in the Quran, what Surah
alekos in pain.
Allah is telling the profit data in di na closer
to Prophet Muhammad.
Indeed, we have given you a lot of goodness.
A lot of good things will happen to you.
For solely the Arab be
what we have to do when we receive all the blessing of Allah. Don't forget to be grateful to him to be thankful to Allah by praying
that's why when any good thing happened. So you should
be thankful not just to be thankful when you receive 100 ready to depart, ready to give ready to contribute. Sacrifice sacrifice
in a Shani
was the meaning of that?
You start to open the patient the Quran from behind on from front
is from behind you have sure to have come across this surah
the shortest surah in the whole Quran, three iron.
In the Shani atta Hall. Allah is telling the Prophet, you don't have to worry whoever hate you, whoever humiliate you. Now they will be destroyed.
They will destroy but the proper name is been honored until today every Muslim remember him.
And remember in in the good way the best way we also remember
but in the bad was way cooler.
Whoever like to go against the Prophet. He is just like a Buddha
So sometimes if you want to be very hard on the people who NP The sooner the character is like a Buddha
I will have hate the prophets teaching.
But today if you say so now sooner people don't like
but they can sit so now you can
refer your sooner and the sooner is different.
We got our sooner is with a beta, the sooner plus beta
because we know when there's a sooner there's no beta when there's a man there's no proof for
when they have to hit, there's no shearing we know that there must be a different when there's halon that means the Haram thing is not there, when haram that mean the whole thing is not that
we know that.
But you have other groups, they like two plus plus.
No problem they say
as long as you have good intention.
There is the beginning of our problem.
When you make changes, your plus your minus that means you have go against a loss command.
When Allah says Allah Yama, Mount de la comme de Naka, today I have perfected my religion for you. I have completed my favor upon you. And this is the religion that I choose for you. Don't change don't blast don't miners. Just be a good follower. Read. Understand the way the Prophet one has to understand because Allah reviewed the verses to the Prophet only he understand the word of Allah more than anyone offers and the reason that allow Carlos Apollo His Messenger because when the proper convey the Quran,
Masha, Allah, Allah, Allah wa
The prophet will never put his opinion his idea except what allow one him to reveal
to convey to the others Mian laudable and mean help us
not to do anything more than what Allah and the Prophet allowed us to do.
we will continue with the other part in the coming class if there's any q&a. Now, his question and answers.
Father, any sisters, Any question?
Question from the sisters? Now?
You have the mic, pass to the system.
Summer I go walaikum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakato
I just want to check with you that someone gave me a book
as we do
called Bismillah Lima tibolone. Between the water before you drink water Bismillah Halima so they have like Bismillah Li ma Yeah, yeah. And also there's a Bismillah to do you know, this this kind of, Can I have a look at the book please. Oh.
I just tried to understand what is written first
is written here, I don't know where they is the printer
having some problem or what
is in Malaya oranienburg among Bismillah to Jo
under the topic Bismillah Lima
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window at St masala Nisa Pio oranienburg Amanda and Bismillah to do that Musa can orania Mambo aqui
maka candelabra amount to get them Bismillah Lima mala to do then five
when you sit five is written what is written? Yeah, I just could Bismillahirrahmanirrahim Alhamdulillah or no, that is the full Bismillah
we have no problem about that. This militia
number two Bismillah Hi, fi number three Bismillah hemo arfi number four Bismillah hailed as Elijah through my estimation of the Olaf is tamaqua Samuel no problem from us because they had this or this.
But the rest I don't know.
Yeah, and that's why
book something like that. We don't encourage anybody to read why we get confused as a lay man we don't understand the difference. And there is no had this too bad.
Just the thing is good. But I think nobody's zekiel is better the prophets Ezekiel,
if this is something good, the prophet himself have done it and the companion should have been practicing it because companion a very faithful follows everything the Prophet loves Taylor not like you and me
we love what we love most in
the companion is a prophet love that color they choose that color if the profit left to West center the West handle and if the profit center is this design they choose that design some of the more
we can we can make the profit now call you to do all these things. He just want you to follow what he want you not what he himself as a human is a human he is an Arab he have his own taste and feeling anything that is not religion. He never said you should follow me and eating region hippo. So we never come across any Hadees say that this is the way you should recite Bismillah
don't worry about this you can just
yeah, you know, first thing so you recite this in the morning? Yeah.
Just say Bismillah
just say Bismillah
I want to commend all of us who have the little booklet on fortress. And the Muslim Muslim fortress is is is the best book yet because they got references. When they say recite this from the Prophet. companions confirm the Hadees confirm authentic, at least we practice something with confidence with reference, and then at least even a day of just one. If you ask why you decided because I follow the Prophet.
We are worried brother and sisters.
The Prophet have taught us what to say before you eat before you drink and everything and after morning evening. There are so many do and the Prophet have taught us we don't even remember
and why must be all busy to go and plus new one
that the Prophet also don't know.
Can you imagine? Are you telling us that we know better than the Prophet?
Our zekiel is better than Prophet zekiel I don't know if you think so. I just asked a lot to protect me from all this kind of feeling.
So yeah, you just say Bismillah Bismillah Allahu Allah drew is yes.
But even he was raised like this please don't blow into the water.
The profit forbid any blowing direct to the water. If you blow don't drink
but suddenly on the drain is a bismil a fly just land.
Sudden accidentally the fly.
You look at the fly. Machu Picchu you do pick up the flight throw up. No. Before you want to pick up there.
If you take some objects spoon or anything, you press the fly down what
is that ad by people you want to throw him out you just press it down because the Prophet said when you press the fly down with two of the wings will open when he land maybe only one mean that open the other window maybe because the alignment in a car accident a fall. So, before you want to throw that fly, you push it now to fly there the wings will open one wing produce chiar if there is some germ there are some bad thing but the other wing will produce cure it will neutralize
throw the fly during the water Bismillahi Lassila no problem
but normally I don't see me do that.
Maybe the only reason you can argue with the people today the fly in the Prophet different fly our fly is Malaysian fly the land all the rubbish you know, maybe the fly is just under the dry land is different. But the prophet never said that. So the flight is different from the Malaysian fly as long as is under the category of of flies. You can do that.
I mean islamically you can do that. But if you don't have that faith is different. You feel eerie.
the peace of mind then just change
so don't don't have to practice doing that no backup by any of the hard disk
and just do what the prophet has taught us next. Any other question from the sisters?
No more question from the sister any last question from the brothers.
so that goes that lolly come Salama.
Okay, I have a question.
How do you in how do you instill the value of gratitude amongst children and teenagers?
among children and teenagers.
If you go back to the tarbiyah, al islamiya, the way the prophets upbringing towards children, you must keep on reminding the children children need to be reminded.
So that's why each time when somebody gives you something said what, thank you. Thank you, Auntie Thank you anchor don't just crept in, and then just run away, control them.
That's why from young when they want to eat drink, call them to say Bismillah after foodsafe or hamdulillah. Why? Because children don't know they're innocent, they don't know. You must implant that value. This is from Allah. This rescue from Allah even we are the parent who prepared for you. But on this rescue is from Allah. Be thankful to him that you say Bismillah Al Hamdulillah. But problem today, we may have taught them
some time ago. Then we live them. We live live it to them, we did not monitor and follow up. So as they grow, they're so busy. The other thing they tend to forget. And that's why when we are training our children a homophobe every single day they have memorized as long they are still with us. We make sure they recite all this dough every day.
And we break them in groups so that the elders will lead the young one and take them maybe five groups. Everyone must make sure that every one reset not one reset the rest. I mean no.
This kind of training is important is like praying. How do you install the love towards praying make sure they pray every day. Especially if you're at home. wake them out. Call them to pray if you don't say have you prayed? Yes, yes, yes, yes. We don't know there. Yes. Is ye s or I don't know. What can we Yes. Is that
sometimes or not? Yeah, I pray I pray myself in my room. To meet the app. You finish we are finished.
You must monitor Nona. pray together when we say pray pray together. We hope if we might need to end
supervised daily in sha Allah is believed to be in them instill in them, then they will follow up by themselves. But being human is just like us know, we recite the dog here every morning, when there's the
test a Friday, you say that again?
We hope that you're inside. If not, you only reset when there's a once a week with me.
After that, I don't know.
You do it daily. Yeah, even elderly person you must do it daily, then they will be grateful. But when you call them to recite these Bismillah or hum. make them understand.
So they understand the value. Oh, Alhambra is to thanks Allah have provide this food for us, and also our parents who have provided this photo. That's good. And then each time when you see anybody give anything, what do you say?
Thank you. It's just that how to show respect to others. When the Auntie come in the Uncle, what is a call anchor? Call we want them to acknowledge this is the anchor figure. This is the unpaid figure. Don't call by name.
This is very good. I know no Muslims have done that. But Chinese tradition.
My younger sisters and all my other if their children cannot go yeah Quinn's rich uncle Auntie
is a very good value so that they know who they are talking to. This is the anchor is not a friend. This is an auntie not just a friend. Today
we only say salam Salam we want them to be matchy matchy.
We want them to say a bang acknowledge that is there brother acknowledged that is the sister the eldest sister,
but now confused the young see me.
And sometimes we also call them
something we also get very confusing. And children few years young.
So the other you
know, in you
please be careful with your word. Your word have impact. Yeah, build up their character. So that will be the best way. Don't give up, too. He continuously is the comma. And keep on praying. May Allah make it easy for that.
And the last one last question.
That question just now is from you or from from your good? Yeah, I'm worried it's an incoming to the internet in any internet question. No good. Because we online actually. And we are on
That means other people who are overseas. So there So following this class, we are informed the other brother and sister wherever he goes it whoever have the interest of follow, you can follow at this time and so on. So May Allah guide all of us, brothers and sisters and please don't forget, I just want to
remind again here I need to remind for the goodness of every one of us.
This is for our Saturday class announcement for new Muslim and not yet Muslim. Our Saturday class we focus on new Muslim and also not yet Muslim. For our Saturday reverse and not yet Muslim most most of them who come be not be just for learning. They do not just come because of learning. Many of them basically need a friend.
Someone who they can connect with and feel comfortable with so that when they face challenges they can have someone to ask. Someone are very shy they don't know who to ask because they do not know you there you are a stranger so they don't approach you. Most of the time they are very shy and keep everything to themselves. That's why we always encourage our old timer to be friendly to always approach no see any new faces approach Denson armonico, sister, Are you new here first time, second time third time, get to know them. They close them you
get to know each other. What debt with debt
might we need sisters who are willing to take the time to be a friend to them.
Ramadan is coming very close, we can invite for
breakfast together twice or three times in Ramadan No need every day it'd be a burden. Even you can then invite them together to perform the night prayer trowel prayer. If this power we are close to them, you go and take them out pick you up example.
outset Ramadan, maybe if you have some time. Now if they call you, you can direct that coffee and tea with me. Now this kind of approach a crumb in Islam called a crumb, you honor
them, show them that you care. for them. The class has grown bigger, we started maybe 3020. Now the grasses grow bigger, and we have more people to attend to.
And we want to reach out to them and show them that we are here as a student of knowledge. We are Arkadin members mean, we are here to serve mankind. That's why we choose this name and card in the train everyone every student to prepare to serve for the sake of Allah, maybe those who are not yet Muslim will become Muslim very fast because of our approach that we care. Now we left them for the sake of Allah. And when those who have problem the reverse, we can help them very fast because they share with us when they keep it to themselves until something serious happened. It's not that we are not there to help a bit difficult. But if from the beginning they have been asking and we know how
to help them, it make it easy for us and easy for them. So this is just an announcement for our sister today. And the wonderful thing they have some time you report to sister Ayesha sister is in front here.
They will have your contact then one day when we get everybody will brief you how to go about it. At least we know who to contact who to follow up in the future inshallah. So May Allah bless Allah first. Whatever we learn sisters and brother try your bears are ready to be like Europa, please Allah bobbitt, Islam Medina follow the Islamic guidance. What the Muhammad in Namibia and the Sunnah of the Prophet Sunnah you will never go wrong. Yeah, I mean babyletto 50 will agree that
one 100 Abdullah and amine subhanak Allahumma biharmonic shadow Allah insha Allah and step Furukawa to bring it nicely I forgot any one of you who still have issue about their fast before this coming Ramadan, please come forward and tell us we'll show you how to clear it before it's too late. Don't come into this Ramadan with depths that you have earlier. Make sure that you come in clean inshallah.