Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 09
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Sheikh Hussain Yee speaks about the regulations and exhortations when it comes to funerals – Episode 9
Presented on Mar 08, 2017
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The importance of patient behavior and belief in Islam is emphasized in non- Muslim countries, as it is crucial for building successful life. The difficulty of survival in non- Muslim countries is discussed, including the importance of praying for oneself and not others, educating children, and finding a partner. The speakers express concern about the uncertainty surrounding the US and the potential impact on the economy, oil and gas industry, and the oil and gas industry. They caution against committing to oil prices and emphasize the importance of staying true to Islam.AI Generated Transcript ©
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may Allah subhanho wa Taala forgive all our sins, whether it's minor or major, strengthen our Eman and increase our patient our subber I mean
for those who are not present we keep on praying May Allah Allah min make them healthy, safe wherever they are. And we are laudable and I mean join them because as soon as possible inshallah I mean,
brothers and sisters and hamdulillah with the blessing of a lot of blood, I mean, we are still able to continue with our activities in seeking the knowledge of a loadable admin and understanding the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet Mohammed Samana Salaam.
Remember inserted Bukhara verses 269 a lot of blood I mean remind us your bill hikmah manga Sha one my Yo, mama, papa booty Akira kathira
inserter Baccarat was 269 Allah is telling all of us about
the special blessing that Allah give a person is by giving them the Heckman
hikmah his wisdom.
Wisdom means you know what to say when to say how to say things is because of wisdom. Even what you say is good, but without wisdom, it wouldn't
benefit others and it wouldn't help you.
Wisdom actually is a gift. It's not something that you can learn. It's a gift from a lot of black men.
And now we keep on asking a lot of black men for this wisdom. But wisdom always come through patience.
You must have a lot of patience in handling issues beings. Without patient there's no wisdom you remember what happened to Musa alayhis salaam and Peter la Sanam. The only thing that he can can gain a lot of wisdom. If Moses have more patience with
a lot of things happen in life, we have no control, we cannot control we can just try to get ourselves prepared and pray for the best. Sometime when you follow your desire in doing things, he will end up having more problems.
And that's why our profits and losses give us another general guideline. Man can a human Billa Yamanaka polyacrylic Hi Ron Alia Smith, who ever really believe in Allah.
Many believe in Allah other
Allah knows everything. He sees everything. He control the hearts of everybody, not you, not me.
Yeah, so when you have that faith in Allah, Allah Allah mean and you talk
and you connect yourself, Allah protect me.
Save us or law protect our family.
Then you just do what you have to do.
Yeah, don't use your feeling in solving problem that's where the prophecy whoever believe in Ullman can a human belong here. At the end of the day we are going to see Allah and allow will give us the final judgment is you are judgmental here. You have more problems over there.
That's why Allah Rabbil aalameen
When the Prophet said, Abraham, monitor your monthly sama, show mercy, be merciful, be positive. We've allows creation on this earth, the one in a heaven will shower His mercy.
Have good thoughts, good feeling, this is important for our inner
salvia so you have inner peace.
Then the prophecy polyalkylene hieron only Yes, mode hieron is good.
Now what Allah said, If Allah gave you a hikma, there'll be a lot of goodness, that will come to you. But hikma always come true patient.
Yeah, not just patient. There's where Allah also said, was starting to be Sabri, was Salah. If you need help from Allah, don't forget, you must call upon him. Connected civil law, with patient through prayer, through Salah.
Some people are very patient but they don't establish their Shahla you must solid. So when you say patient and Sala even Salah you must have sabar and we know that the best place for us to ask Allah is where when you are making so do you can do it in the heart of the prayer because you're following the Dhamma but when you're praying alone by yourself
after super hard not to be three times or so behind, we are behind the three times then you can just ask Allah whatever you want.
Again, being human when we asked, we want fast results instant result. You can have instant coffee instant tea no problem here because it's manmade
Allah
now if Allah will respond immediately what we want I don't think we are
very thankful and grateful then we are taking for granted Dan price will come in we'll see no, I'm not respond to my prayer. Then the React will come in to destroy our images have patience of course you do your level best.
inshallah, we always ask Allah for guidance. So we have to act according to His guidance. We always say we want to follow the Sunnah of the Prophet SummerSlam. So we must be very careful when we speak when we talk.
So that we always show positive from our side, okay. Is that easy if it is the
show?
First you must say inshallah, and if you have that you don't want to say inshallah, this problem that we are not trying.
You must say insha Allah, that means you are trying in the end is a lost guidance in Allah, we help those who help themselves. Now, we have been talking about
the chapter on funeral what to do. And today if I'm not wrong, we'll be talking about
paying off the depths.
Before I go to this book,
everything we do in this life, the most important thing is our intention. in Albania, we know nobody can say that I do need help.
Between mankind, we also need help. We need help from our loved one.
We have been given a lot. Example. As parents, we always give the best to our children. We know what they like. We look at their dress, we look at what back alone they're using. We know everything but children. I don't think they pay attention to the parent
normally,
because nobody is there to remind them and nobody is there to remind them The intention is important. If our intention is to please Allah, then we know what we should do to our parent who have been so kind and loving to us. We have sacrificed so much for us. Yeah, good time, bad time. They always want the best for us. You know, they always have time for us.
By children today.
They have time for their friend but not for their
parents.
But we have to be very tough.
We have to learn to be very independent.
Attention is to do for the sake of Allah Lila. We just know pray and
pray for the best. If they can respond in the best manner Alhamdulillah If not,
we still have to move on.
We still have to move on. Yeah.
The Prophet did say about intention man at da Dane and whoever take a loan.
Whoever wants to borrow anything.
Man Adda tala Yun de cada out, he had from the beginning he or she had the intention not to pay.
Who knows? Only they themselves know.
And I know Neela she's a rich person and she got so much what is dandy? 181 even 100 ringgit, but you as
as a loan, you ask, can I borrow from you is alone.
You can just be humbled. Can you help me?
That is not alone
is up to the person. But when you want somebody to help you, you cannot demand
you can just Humble yourself Can you please and you pray to Allah Allah whatever come I accept,
you can do one I thought you will give me 1110 Alhamdulillah one minute Alhamdulillah knowing it he pray for you Alhamdulillah because help is not necessary. Just money it can be a source of prayer
so the Prophet said man a da de Nan whoever take a loan or borrow anything from anyone you can do that because Islam alone
but they have the intention not to pay
for who are sorry then He's a thief
is a daylight robbery.
He really had the intention to cheat you the lie to you.
And there is very bad
that's right the profit take this very seriously.
very seriously, how seriously, we will talk about it.
As we read what is written in this book in Sharma
the second example the Prophet continued with the same Hadees
wah wah month as always be deignan
for who has done and he who ever married a woman is so happened that they don't have cash with them.
So, the Wally The one who conduct the Nita can even ask them even until today they will ask you cash or credit Mahara the dowry
you have agreed to give 1000 so happened that you forget to bring because you are so involved in preparing for your first nikka you forget the money
suddenly asked Where's the money? Everybody who who was there all being on a car, they will come with them there's no more
cash anymore or attorney and then the car didn't bring the machine and then a problem. So you have another problem. So what is going to happen? Can you get married? Yes. Now you got to go for credit can you do with credit? Yes islamically is allowed by the prophet, but if you have the intention not to give it to the wife.
Then the prophecy ah then when you have intimacy you commit Zina.
Oh yeah.
Can you imagine
is a big team because your intention is not to make it Hello Lika without mohar is not halaal because Mahara is one of the condition of nica.
Even just one dish, oh, one chocolate
as long as you agreed with
just an example how important
Yeah, when our intention is concerned, what isn't that you play around this home? You can.
You can do that. Just an example. If you had intention, I want to marry you. But I have the intention to divorce you.
But the wives do not know.
islamically you have committed sin.
How can you help
intention
you may enter with a D once one day but you cannot have the intent You are lying, you are cheating.
And who knows that one if the woman did not know the woman have no scene, the one that you people ask you for a loan, you trust them, you have you don't commit a sin, but they have an intention not to pay they commit the sin.
Yeah. So, as long as our intention is good, may Allah reward us according to our intention inshallah.
Now, paying off the depths, we all are aware of brothers and sisters, today's the life today no one survive without that. So happening either you have depth with Allah, you owe Allah something or you owe fellow mankind now according to the digital age as soon as possible as soon as possible that the seeds that should be paid off from whatever well he left behind even in the Quran remind us before you talk about inheritance for
your money must make sure you clear the deathless two thing that you must clear that that and there was yet must be reinforced immediately. Then only you talk about the fara.
The inherit and how to divide among the sibling you cannot focus on your foreign aid without looking in these two things first,
that and also worse yet
remember that
you should pay off from whatever well he left behind. Even if that would enhance all of it. Maybe he had to pay everything. He had doubts over 10,000 and what balance is 10,000?
Nobody should they have no she
never even think you're right anymore because
the disease have more right to his property to pay off his debt.
And all come back to what Amana
whether you have a man or not.
In a time of the Prophet you have this issue we're talking about insha Allah
if the disease was known to strife in paying his debt, and yet they could not all be covered by the well. Then he left that he left behind is the Islamic State's obligation. Allahu Akbar. If this is an Islamic country,
then they have been collecting zakat.
Yeah, then, Zakat also can be used to pay tax
by but not for comfort.
This is for survival people, all people because of survival. Yeah, the ballet was a Caspar gemakken party kind of thing. Yeah.
Those who really have to survive daily. And then they don't have the mean. They use the three five
pocket book in memory Chinese very popular with this small pocket book, The galima when
I remember when I was in Penang, there, so you see the Chinese
I will say that Chinese shops can survive everywhere.
Yeah,
yeah, sundry shop. They can be in the middle of the Muslim community.
But you never see any Muslim sundry shop in a non Muslim community, they can survive.
I don't know why. How can Chinese know how to survive and we do not know how to survive. Maybe Chinese have have this inclination they know that Oh, but the left to Wu Tang?
Yeah. So they prepare a book for you. The galima
they are prepared for that they know that you like everybody is involved in that so they prepare and give you credit.
And then no majority don't really pay Dino.
But how they still profit only Allah knows.
Because I have a spirit we have a Chinese businessmen. And then one day people get so upset with him because he was out he was very upset because of the Amazon. They in the Muslim area.
No, he said this Muslim No. They don't respect other people's
Right when we went to sleep they go in disturbers as an fudger is the time they left to sleep.
So, they said like doesn't on our paper, so emotional animal come after them.
They came to the shop they shopped at him.
So I was there I was also in war with the US.
But then I say please give me some time let me talk to my own people.
Because we are cocky Lama
Chinese and Chinese Salaam checkup and
so I asked him what what do you really say? Is he the I don't know what happened to me, you know, I just
the slip of the tongue. I've been here for so long. And they'll say this but that particular the I just said it out.
I see no problem. I mean, we all are human. Nobody's perfect. I understand what you mean. But you must know the Azlan actually to save everybody know me call has done for the Muslim to wake up and pray. And they pray for every one of you even for your business. Oh, yeah.
Yeah, we pray for the peace of everybody. We don't need pray peaceful. for everybody. Know, if the any kid who tried to rob you at that time, they will go to run away. It can save you from law problem. Oh, Cara. Then they turn his battery. And I found that in his small room.
There are many books on fetta Mala.
So I thought that he was a Muslim hiding by himself. He said I was learning because there's the 555 book
is always not clear.
So I was learning from the book, whether in Islam, there is a law that if you're old and not yet Muslim, you don't have to pay.
They want to know.
So you were checking you're checking. You're so surprised that amount loan amount depth is so straight, so serious. But then he just don't understand the Muslims are not following the teaching.
You imagine buttons is
that what we are talking we have one brothers, give him the Quran. He read the Quran. He was so amazed that he was so surprised, so beautiful, what Allah says in the book, but when he looked at the people around him, he said these people are not pulling their book. And by he can come in
is very difficult for him to say because he is not a Muslim.
Then there are people who say, well, this non Muslim and the teachings of Islam. He is not easy. People are not easy people actually, we all know we are all very difficult people.
But those who are here, they're very easy and humble.
Anyhow, with the will of love this sundry shop owner, the daughter became a Muslim.
And we were very close with them. Then the daughter became Muslim. We made the Shahada for her and later on she got married for good Gemma hamdulillah.
Yet Yeah, now, the Islamic states have an obligation to pay off his outstanding debts because they have collected
the zakat.
And that's why most of the middle is country, the government do not want to collect Zakat, because it's another responsibility, you must make sure if you do that, then you must follow up with your responsibility.
So they are very they say, everybody you should know what you must do. There is an NGO here, there's NGO is up to you. We don't want to carry extra burden, we have a welfare department already enough, but this one is the cat. So the cat, you must make sure that you know what you must do for the sake of Allah. Now, if this is not possible, still, the Islamic State don't have that fun anymore. And they may come in time that the fun is no more than
now his closest relatives and other Muslims are encouraged to pay on his behalf. And that's where the relative coming.
What is relative if your fellow brother or sister is having problems, and you are not there to help them.
But normally the debt debt the profit one is to help is not
Comfort
is not for comfort for survival.
So I've been at work reported that his brother died leaving only 300 Dirham for his children. So I want to spend the money on the children, but the prophet SAW told him, your brother is restrained by his depth, so go pay it off for him.
They got children. So according to the Sahaba, the children will have their share. But the problem is that no, because this brother had on somebody, you must clear his depth first. So I went and did as he was commanded by Prophet Mohammed sama then came back and said, Oh, a last messenger, I have a bit of all of his depth, except for to deny a claim by a woman without any evidence. Another woman came as you know, he owed me also some money.
The Prophet told him, gave her because she is truthful.
Normally, the profit will value the person, by the look, the profit will know. Normally, people will not really very mean to going live or to their home or to dinner
is small amount. What is that he cannot be reached because of that. But because it happened, and they look at the background on this woman, she's a righteous woman.
Now remember, brothers and sisters, sometime
there's a lot of good people around us.
They're very good between day and along.
But maybe they are not so close to you.
You understand that?
Maybe they are very reserved person. They are very quiet. They don't like to talk a lot.
And not like what people was asking.
Stupid student was asking the Saudi representative, what have you done for all the Muslim who's suffering around
Saudi, their neighbours Syria, Yemen and so on.
Other country have helped them refugees and so on.
Mashallah, this one I've said to many people who I came in contact as the Muslim have a very unique character where you don't get it in
other people's or other company, they like to do a lot of good thing without letting people know. There's nothing for the camera to come and blow it up. No doubt we have done some of the Muslim belief in doing for the sake of a lot of blood. I mean, what the right hand and left hand knows that
there is our value, you may have your own value.
Do you know that now the minister is saying Do you know that under the order of Kings Sandman, our king,
the custodian of the two holy city said
open the door for two millions of refugees from Syria.
But we don't treat them as refugees.
We don't put them under the tent.
They live like normal.
Make sure that they have education for the children. We build school for them.
They have medical
treatment and so on.
2 million plus.
We don't talk about it
from Yemen
we have open but we don't treat that as refugees. That's the difference.
live normally they survive they we treat lamps that are like our fellow Muslim brothers and sisters, but they don't go and
talk about
the same thing the good media so
I mean, the Western media don't cover all this. They like to cover what happened to their daughter what happened to their son that one day like the thing that is so insignificant that is were the highlight and that's why the Prophet said in your head when Maria Maria Kasab Safa Allah love people who highlight major issue, but he hit people who go and create this minor minor thing and make it an issue and that is
Something most of us love to do.
Yeah, on the small small metal.
mala topia, Mala.
mala tokuma.
told the Prophet said to sign gave her because she is truthful. And even there's no evidence what we like to talk about here. Sometimes when people borrow thing and people lend to you, they forgot to write because they trust you, Paula, is what?
There is also value in Islam. Yes. But only in the court. Yeah.
When you want to bring this case to the court, then it is the right of the judge to ask for evidence.
But when people who are believers by just saying, I can you lend me touring, even touring?
But now you asked me to do so I learned touring it is just touring.
Should you pay touring? touring a while is debt.
is a debt No.
Unless I say no, no problem. Take a look at the idea.
Samora been reported that Prophet Muhammad SAW once prayed the morning prayer, meaning the pastor pray and then pray janazah for a date men. After he finished he asked is any of the family of so and so? is here today.
When he had no answer, nobody respond. The Prophet repeat is better than three times and sometimes the Prophet want to make it very clear. He worried that people may not hear his words so he'll repeat.
Then a man from the back row said here I am. I'm here. Yeah, I'm one of the family members. dragging his gammon proceeded towards the Prophet. The Prophet said to him Mama, aka Phil Marotta in our lane.
What prevented you from responding to me the first time
Why don't you respond when and most asking, Is there any family members around?
I did not call out your name except for something good.
Remember when a proper is calling upon someone? is for the goodness of that person. You want them to do something good.
He have a reason not just for fun we'll call people for fun. But not the proper when he addressed somebody. He really have a good thing to remind them.
Your Man is restrained by his death from entering Jana Can you imagine burden because of your loan your debt stop you from entering Jana.
Even according to all your good deeds, you are able to go to Jana now. Example The Prophet SummerSlam said
many had this one had they say if anybody takes ablution will do
because you want to pray? And he said a shadow Allah Allah Illallah de la sharika shadow ana Muhammadan Abu hora, Sulu, drop and die
the Prophet eight gates of Paradise is open for him
is ready for him to come in.
And another had these the prophesy amount Rama man you remember
whoever died fasting in the month of Ramadan
Nothing can stop him to enter Paradise to the good Iranian there is a special gift for people who've passed in the month of Ramadan.
The only thing that can stop them is dead.
Can you imagine bungee touring stopping you from entering?
What are ways
people were by paradise with 2 million
20 million no problem.
If a robber come to you say give me all your money I should you take the money. I want my life. You cannot say it should mean
I will now give you even a standard what can you do with all the money if you are dead?
Why not just give him You can still earn some money. But sometime we can we love money and no way. My money in God is not yours anymore.
But we forgot. We thought the money is everything.
Money is just a means to survive but it's not
everything in life can you imagine your man is stopped by his death from entering Jannah so if you wish right in some in otherwise surrender him to Allah punishment
is you say you love your family members, you will love your mom you love your dad You love
my people who get involved in our loan, there's a different debt
alone that is a different one you must call the authority to help you already know the
the all haram thing because the rebar rebar the ball is haram. Even Islam say if there's any rebar involved the rebar must be cut off. You just pay the
the one the capital
the capital what you owe.
Not the rebar.
The Prophet had made it very clear that I forbid Reba.
samura conclude You should have seen his family and other relatives hurrying to pay off his debt until no one was left asking for anything from him.
That means you have a good family
that showed that the one who die is a good person and he had been very good to the family. Now the family is dead ransom him.
Now this is with human How about with Allah with a light also you have depth first thing
that you'll miss
zakaat that you never pay refined hash you have the mean to go but you don't want to go You always say
no sir one no invitation.
Who is going to send you a cut? Come to Makkah
we can send you but we cannot give you a visa
we can go to Macau we buy a postcard Bismillah calm dhamaka
we send it you
know but visa he can give you when the visa is there and then you should go already.
Anyhow
This is something you owe alone and the family have to help you too.
But we've Allah Masha Allah Brennan says, we've allowed Allah
you can still take your time. Allah is merciful
is easy for Allah to forgive all of us than human to forgive us the experience that you will never come across in the I will never forgive you a lawsuit No.
But you have humans a
Boogeyman
and that won't really come from human no come from Allah.
There was a hadith in a time the Prophet there is a guy
who is a very bad guy. Hardcore guy and you have a good friend and his girlfriend always remind Jane my brother please Jane, I cannot see you that is please stop doing Heelys
thank you for your advice, but never change.
The next time he saw him, Why Why are you not changing? He was pleased, pleased in you always. Until he was so fed up. He said now, I think you will go to hell.
You are so stubborn. Yeah, God will not forgive you. He just the slip of the tongue said God will not forgive you. And the prophets told us and the Hadees because of his word. And then the day of jasmine, Allah was summoned both of them.
And now allow it as a guy who say God will not forgive you alone and not forgive you, who give you the authority to use my name to say that I will not forgive him.
Who gave you the authority?
Where I have been known for him Who gave you the right to use my name. Now allow enough forgive him.
You don't give hope to this guy anymore. You must give hope to other people by dances. Pray for them. You can help them pray for them.
You can't stop them from doing something but don't stop praying for them. Do we do that?
We can stop advising a person after a few times. But don't stop praying.
For them, but we normally also stop
but not the sisters who are here and the brothers hamdulillah because we never teach you to stop praying, keep on praying,
have mercy it hum mantra, your ham
Mama.
So what happened? Because of that Allah has shown this guy
I forgive him
but then you will go to him
who give you the right to use my name to judge the person and that's why when to swear with the name of a law, you must be very careful
when you swear Jonas Webb the name of Allah. But don't ask people to swear within you for small small method.
One is
stuck for a lot of
people obviously. Then Okay, I want to also assume that you never lie before.
How are you going to somehow
we are not prepared this minor thing and something people need to
plan for and for you to read not for you to assume.
The sofa that you can use only by saying one law he was the law he was did
not read the book.
But we have our own way anyhow.
Let's follow the way the Prophet is the best way.
Jabir bin Abdullah reported that after a man once died, he was washed and hung does not have a duty. We must be hastin in washing the dead body, shouted them and bombed and if you need and pays where the funeral I usually plays for janaza prayer at the stand of Jabra, the stand up Jabra L is a place near where the prophet SAW Muslim mosque is in sight there we are Jabra, enter. Normally there's a gate in Medina MOS between Babu Nisa and Babu Baka.
Normally that gate is always blocked because a lot people like to go through that game. They can come through they also want to go through like the algebra you
know there is the problem and what they want to get close algebra algebra only come to profit not the unit to me, Carlos. denting the giveaway is going to see you there anymore. But people you saw
I was talking to the brother just now before we enter the to this class. know if you go to Macau before there is a black line Do you remember the draw a black line where the hotjar as what is so there is easy for people to make our and there is no that one the rich that black line then they know this is the angle of Bismillah long and move
and that is from that I just walk to the end where the green light is the other pillar.
Then they erase it
no more you cannot see the black line anymore.
Why they erase it
you have read people around this world today. No, they look at the black line is in maybe this special place that's where they put a black line. So they will stand on the black line and mix prayer. They want special Baraka
So what can we do as color who know this can bring Sherry
you praise when you face Kaaba finish Qibla has nothing to lose a black or green or yellow line no line line is just to help you but people don't have the right understanding. They have a map you know before around that area. There is a map where Zamzam is
known they put a sign and then below that is that some some berries even that become a problem.
Can you imagine you want to prey on that Zamzam Swan you are going to stop people from tawaf, people are going to step on you and then injured you injured the others.
But what can you do?
That people is looking for blackline this line, this sign that sign if they know where gibril go, that they stop now they don't allow normal people to go in. They allow you to come out from Baca
gate and a woman go in from a nice shotgun. Next time you go to Medina, you can have the look
in between there is one game that they close it most of the time Babuji Brian
Prophet sallallahu Sallam was then invited by the people to pray janazah
for the disease, he came in, took a few steps, and then stop. And he asks,
perhaps your friend owes some depth is he the Prophet? He will make it very clear. Perhaps the disease Yeah, all some people some money.
He was told, yes. Somebody stressed Yes.
to dinner just to dinner.
So he moved back.
And so Lo, Allah saw he will come.
He moved back he don't delete the prayer.
Meaning he do not want to pray.
Not only he do not want to be the Imam, he do not want to pray.
But one thing that the Prophet never stop is he said, You pray for your friend.
Your pray?
Not me.
Why?
Just to show us how serious that is in Islam.
If not, why is dudina why when torture this this man is a disgrace when the Prophet do want to pray you imagine but the Prophet have to show his own man don't take this
lightly even to dinar
is the death.
So if anybody wants to go
for ombre, hash, especially
if you all some people some money
when they ask you to pay no money,
but ombre have money.
When they ask you to pay no money, bad time,
you can go to Switzerland got money,
then you are making people very upset, we are worried that your ibadah will be stopped. Meaning you can do your ritual, but a lot don't accept it until you clear the debt. But if you have depths that you have an understanding that you pay monthly, and you're still paying servicing that then no problem. I'm saying that you owe this individual 100 here 50 there
500 here, when they ask you say one month now is six months
and you don't even bother to follow up and come to Music please can you excuse me can you delay Can you allow me to pay you give me another extra three months
then
you did not even follow up.
And that is a very bad
and the depth that you can still do all the ritual is that you have an understanding, I pay monthly you agreed upon that. I still service that when the same time I am doing what I want to do is okay.
Only the personnel thing that you'll take here and there. And your promise to pay in one month, one year now five years.
If you have a 5050 or a boon to the hobbies,
but sometimes shaitan play with you. Okay? Don't rush Don't rush anything you owe people don't rush. It's not your intention when the pay Okay, ready.
You can do that? Because you promise and one of the sign of the Mona fit. When you promise you break your promise.
Don't do that.
But the prophet never stopped other people to perform pray they know that it is the duty of all Muslims to pray for another Muslim
by himself. You must remember brother and sister Eve the Prophet is the one who performed the prayer. The prayer of the Prophet normally will not be rejected
our prayer we don't know yet.
And there is a difference between the profits in Walkman and ours in so you can pray
just to
So he moved back and said Salalah Sahaba. Can you pray for your friend? Abu Qatada rhodiola, who and who say Oh Allah messenger, I will take care of the to dinner. Immediately just the Sahaba one complaint, I will take the full responsibility. I will handle this
allows messengers from Mohammed Salah in quiet. Do you pledge that them from your own wealth and create the dishes from them? He replied, Yes, that means you are not saying I'm going to get them to pay no, no. That means you are saying the I will use my own money. I am going to settle this by myself. Nothing to do with the family.
He replied abakada say yes. So the profit move forward and praise another for him.
On the following day, the prophet met Abu Qatada and asked him what happened with him today. Now you see how the Prophet
is not there after that? And don't want to fall here follow up.
He keeps on reminding abakada He replied, oh, last messenger. He only died yesterday.
On the next day, he asked him the same and he replied I had picked them off. Or last messenger he told him and and only now has his scheme pulled down from punishment.
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so don't
take this matter lightly.
It do not work as if you don't pay to drink a 2200 litres pay
anyone who loves somebody for the sake of Allah, if you know that person have debt problem, and the family member don't have the mean
do
a good
deeds for them.
We hope that a lot of black men will make it easy for all of us to when you make things easy for others alone make easy, but always remember, if you keep on telling them I will clear that I open to them then you may have another problem. But you must know this is only for those who pay a loan for survivor.
That's why Islam allows you to land on borrowed money. But not for comfort. is not right. Goma coffers, pay later
is easy to travel and now the Baikal of Manila Bay on a bayonet after your combat Bye bye.
Then your your heart is stopped
your heart Even hajima Braun was tough.
Because you still all
people the money. Indonesia is doing that here Alhamdulillah we don't have that kind of
understanding policy. But in the same day, they know the people want to go, they say you go first. We'll give you the loan. We hope that we are not caught by the skin. Because Allah have said about hash. You only go when you have the mean. That's
if anybody want to sponsor you, Alhamdulillah but you don't force yourself to take a loan to go there.
Only now has his skin cooled down from punishment.
This Hadith indicate that pain the disease depths benefit him after death.
But the important dialogue that we learned is after the Prophet asked before he performed the funeral prayer the next day when the Prophet met. He asked him Have you settled that
Abu Qatada said he just died yesterday.
No, give me some time but
be Heston
because he is going to be responsible he is going to be punished by a lot because of this way. You allow him to go to the punishment. A possible The best thing is after the prayer, you go and pay all because the one that he or maybe it's not there,
but you know, then you have to immediately I will come and pay Say for example,
nobody is able to help you to pay the loan for survival.
Your family don't have the you don't have property.
might see how merciful Islam is
how
Last all of us that our profit salon salon will be our guarantee.
There's always a way to solve problem let us proceed further.
Now this had this indicate that pain the disease that being benefit him after death, even is done by other than his immediate descendants family. This is an exception to the general rule that only the charity from the deceased shouldn't benefit him. Yeah. For this, anybody can help another Muslim.
There are certain things that children must do. There certain thing fellow Muslim can help each other. If the Omar reported that the Prophet said
Mamata wa Ladin whoever di o ng adapt there is no dinar or their ham then on judgment day is only the good and bad bits that they use to pay that mean over there no more money.
Allah is going to deduct that from your good deeds.
I don't think you won. Yeah, our good to be deducted.
ricotta is the only thing that can save you
a masala
so we hope that we will use the wisdom that Allah has given us Don't let dunya to the extent that you do not want to depart from this dunya you have to go
so as you still all people just get an A view for God. How Masha
give extra, more sadaqa
you don't lose anything?
Yeah.
Can you imagine if our husband owes us money and she has to have to pay us
I think most of the husband don't owe us hamdulillah but normally the wife don't owe the husband
because they can take from the husband
but the husband or the wife and because it's their duty to give.
So after giving giving giving the aspect something that one is up to you loan or what
you can you want me to give you a loan, if you want loan
you can say loan even the children. Not anything that was given by the parent can be just a responsibility know
if that the parent that the jury said that they know that that have a lot of money. I want to do a small business, I don't have the capital, can you give me a loan 50,000
remember, the son is asking from the stepfather 50,000 loan, not Can you help me?
I want to take a loan. Now the father said no problem.
This is 50,000 check.
Remember His Alone
said there father passed away.
Now according to the foreign aid, he should have said 40,000
now that must be
calculate. You owe us 10,000 because your share is 40,000 but now you take a loan from father 50,000
so you don't have the right anymore you must pay the other sibling their share. Because it's a loan.
Even from the parent it is a loan than it is a loan.
Unless you say father helped me the father said no problem 200,000
hamdulillah
and the daughters will come I want to do business no problem. We have money and what to say
what to be so stingy is your parent is your children. But normally father and mother will give and keep on giving. But when you have problem I don't know your pet your children will give it to you or not.
50,000
You think I'm a banker?
500 okay
know when the parents need help the way our children respond like we are beggars. Sometimes very sad.
Very sad.
I think all the parents to look at the children, what they dress, what they eat, we still look
I don't think our children look at what we are dressing. What kind of shirt I'm guessing
How long the father had been using this ship for 10 years I saw him using the same module no
no you see a Mashallah when we pattern a lot what?
We have extra we plan for that not only for us we want to travel with children we pay all the packaged food we've grandchildren
Mashallah you see the sacrifice of parents
but most of us
who have children we know
who are working who have money.
You never see them plan.
A trip,
holiday. Come papa. Come Mama, let's go for holiday. I have arranged everything.
And I think some of children do that and
if they they have not been doing we remind them please talk to staff.
That may teach them what to do.
Why you do not know when you make your parent happy brother and sister. You make along very happy.
The radar from Mama. Calm very fast from the radar from your parent.
When the parent is still alive, brother and sisters, do them a favor
and do them a favor. You don't lose anything.
Yeah, we hope that we get all this good children.
I mean, Jabara bin Abdullah reported that his father was Shaheed on the day of Whoa, whoa, it means in the Battle of Ovid, leaving behind six daughters.
He own that amount to 30 watts of deaths in the creditor. Were persistent on collecting their debts. So when it was time for harvesting the dates, he went to allows messenger Prophet Mohammed salah and told him Oh Allah, messenger Prophet Mohammed, Salah, Mohsen, as you know, my father was Shaheed on the day of all, while owing last day, because the Prophet was there in the Battle of Ohio with all the companions, those who die Shahid is always remembered by our Prophet SummerSlam.
So, I would like that the creditors see you as we have the dates.
Now they want the prophet to be the witness.
He told him goes sought the different kind of date in separate ponds, and then call me he did that and called the Prophet Samantha who went to him in the morning. The credit the eye, this date panels, greedily hoping to get their payment. When the Prophet salaallah saw that he walked around the largest one, three times and asked alarm for Baraka.
Set on top of it, and told Jabir odo us hub summon your friend, Jabir continue, he then started measuring for them Dr. Shay.
until Allah subhana wa Taala fulfill my father's trials. And I am by Allah happy that Allah fulfill my father's trance, even if I did not go back to my sister with anything.
That mean there's nothing for the doctor
or the disease.
But what happened? My Allah He swear, I gave up all of the debt, but was noticing that the power and the allowance method did not seem to decrease by even one day, a month.
I stay with the messenger Prophet Mohammed samosa until sunset
and mentioned my observation to him the Prophet, laugh,
smile and said, Go to Alibaba.
Go to Alibaba calm and Omar and tell them about this, which I did. And they respond. After what the prophet SAW did have in walking blessing. We surely expected that that result. Now companions on the Prophet Abubakar is number one, or model number two, base right they become the first and the second Khalif
They don't have doubts at all. If the prophet will invoke Allah, Allah is sure to respond to his prayer. Especially when the Prophet is asking for something good.
You remember that a lot of law men have all the power to send down all his punishment to punish every sinners.
Because Allah have done that in the early nation from Lord Sala Ibrahim and all other nation,
they will come to Prophet Mohammed Salman Lawson period. He was sent by Allah s. Rama Talal al amin to bring mercy to the world.
Not disaster.
Not to cause disruption.
The man that Allah have sent to bring peace,
love and mercy has been accused by the people that he
is what he's teaching the people war, killing, suiciding.
Can you imagine what is happening the world today? The best men who alot choose him appointed him send him to be the last messenger Mata lil al Ameen
and people are accusing him as a terrorist.
Now you have two problem here. One is our enemy
who just do not want to see this piece because they have their own agenda. Because a wall Yeah, give them a lot of profit. They can sell their arms and all
number two
because this Omar, the bears Omar Kira Omar, have missed present Islam.
Islam is the religion of peace, love, care, share. But we become so
judgmental.
We become so hard on people.
We just like to
embarrass people.
So what is happening today what you see to me brothers and sisters,
I don't believe the news there well.
I don't know why my mind want to bring me to that. I say there's a lot of fitna going on, people can wear army uniform. And then go and shoot people. What is this? Anybody can just wear uniform.
People can say no.
Say Bashar is God, who are the person who say we do not know.
Now is like a Bollywood Hollywood today. No,
the good become bad, the bad become good. And sometimes our mind is so
tired, we don't know who to believe. And the messages keep on coming in to us. To me.
When I see that people use the name of Islam and they kill innocent people. They allow people to rape a lady immediately. It cannot be from Islam. You can say anything, you will not come from Islam. And a good Muslim who claim they are mostly will not do that.
And that he is a monarchy
or he is the enemy within
dress like us. Talk like us, but he is our enemy.
The Prophet said there will come a time.
Your enemy is not just outside. He is part of you, from you, within you.
There are almost nothing
so Abubakar and Omar Mashallah, when anybody have come to Abu Bakar inform what the prophet have done, he have no doubt. That is the Baraka and that's why we always say
when you ask Allah for risky don't stop by saying Oh Allah gave me hilariously and stop that. Or Allah.
What was it
like what we always hit in the DA Allah homogeny in man, not just an L L manifest
res con tayyiba good one
And if you want to add in a general tyy Ban mobarak confy
Allah bless. Yeah the risky that you are giving me when the risky is been blessed even it's just tendering it, it can last longer than 100 Lincoln without being blessed.
What is lacking among the Muslim arrestee provision today no Baraka
you have a lot of money but no Baraka Easy come easy go
we are doing do the baratta come from
of course Ramallah
and make sure that your risky is halaal
when is halaal then you can ask for Baraka you going don't go and look for harmony, Yala, me Barakatuh My money is harmony there's no more Baraka
harmony cannot use to make sure that
the you know brother and sister you cannot use harmony to pay that
because you take the money all the money from Halloween money, so you must pay with Halloween money. In namaha t blaeu caballo Illa taba the prophecy Allah is good he never accept anything
except what you offer is good
and this is one thing people must remember.
You owe people you land you you borrowed from heartland income, you pay them with Hello income. May Allah guide all of us in Sharma
to what the end of his message.
However, the prophet Salaam committed to pay off debt of those who try the best but fail to pay them. That's why Ayesha, the wife of the Prophet amin reported the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam said
the meaning whoever of my oma burden himself with adapt and try hard to pay off. He really had the intention to pay had no intention to run away to cheat the people but he just come
and then he died before fulfilling that. I am then his sponsor. Wala macdonnell for Anna while he you see how blessed we are.
As long as you have the intention you try your best you can go and look for the person the family members, please my father had passed away I know he has all your 10,000 ringgit, but this is the children we have nothing we can no we also are surviving Please forgive him. But the one who's now
you have done your part. And that guy is show no mercy to you. That is his right.
Please don't get angry.
This is very important. Is that when you're in the traffic jam, you want to
know what do you do? Over cut?
You try over the gifts in
the one behind No, they don't give it Don't get angry. There is there right there is there right? If they will just let you in. So some gratitude. I was thinking whether there's a like there's a day we can put behind our car know when people show you some kind of you just press the button. Thank you.
is good? make people feel good?
No, I always tried to say I was just
I do that on him. But sometimes people are busy they can see this finger. No. I don't know if somebody in the future come across as a guest said that you can press Thank you like come out. They will. They will smile you make them smile. It's a sadhaka
Don't worry, do what is good.
Now the same goes with it.
You must remember that if you
do your best and you ask them for forgiveness, they do not wait they have the right not to forget they said no. I am going to claim in a day of judgment. Then there will come a time he will meet up with the borrower where at Kundera remember cantara and that's where Prophet Muhammad is going to intercede for us.
He will say Can you forgive him? I will give you my shafa who do not want the choppa from the Prophet Solomon Watson Amir
So brothers and sisters, as long as we have a sincere intention to pay, and we just can
Don't worry at the end of the day, our last issue is a way out. Yeah. How blessed we as the among the prophets, all of them, he still remember us. Not only remember as Omar, he is ready to intercede for us if we have depth in our camera. So May Allah make it easy, but so try your best to live the Prophet. Follow his Sunnah, because he left as a lot. Yeah, don't sacrifice anything to abandon the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. If you're any question, we open for q&a first
question from the sisters. And the question from the sisters. But
now
you're going backward now?
page 28.
Yeah, if there is a reason
if there is a reason? Yeah. What do you look at the the tradition? Or the sunanda? prophet sometime the thing that he was allowed, not for all Mayan?
Yeah, if there's a reason, then you can in the proper say be hastin when there's a funeral, but if there's a reason for you to delay, then
you have to delay. Yep, you can do that. Now.
Okay.
Of course you can do.
No, you make.
Okay.
Between the two person to individual?
Yeah, yeah. Enough, is enough, is enough?
Because we only know that he owes no one known, then we say how long is enough?
insha Allah No, no more. When you forgive, that is your mercy to him.
You see, in the time of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, there's a lot of things happen. You know?
Some companion does that. To the extent that he said to his family member, I know for London, fallen army so much, and the children are aware. But then he will instruct the children don't burden him
after I die, if he did not pay back, don't burden him.
Give him more time.
No, give him more time.
Yeah, because by making things easy for others, alone make things easy for you.
But it come to the extent that he just can't pay after you give him extra time, then forgive him.
Then the children do that.
On the behalf of their parents, they know they have their record.
And then and these people are also very humble and sorry, you know, I did all your pattern. Actually, this is yours now. Because if I owe your parent this money, belong to the worries.
But since all of you are so kind to me, please can you give me another three months
and then I can pay you that much. I only can afford to pay you, maybe half of it. D for them. It's easy for your parent who passed away.
And your future also allow make it easy. So don't be hard on anybody. If you are given an opportunity to be kind to somebody, give them show them the kindness now.
Correct. You can say I forgive them for us. Yes. A people have been bad biting us. Is that wrong? Of course. They are going to be responsible to Allah.
That's why they become bankruptcy in a day of judgment. Because they have been bad biting us. You know.
You can just hold on. I will see you up here.
Yeah, me I love what gives you a colors
Yep.
But again you have the right to say now
there is no
it's not there's our right
is our right of course to show you the Islam don't honor your right now and the other day no
islamically
yeah islamically you will look at the case wisely.
The Wu Tang is for one number one is for comfort you said you have to deal with it you handle it by yourself if you still want to help you only help the capital
you cannot pass the Rebbe you can do that because the Prophet don't allow
man he may oh that person again. If these the Muslim the Muslim should not think of that anymore
Don't try to enter you can get by your capital is good enough. This what the prophet said to ignore best. The first remark that I forbid is the Rebbe ignore bass from my own family, but I must have the right to collect his capital get his capital, but the extra normal.
So that is what Islam said about paying
would not be the Rebbe.
Now, they wouldn't they won't let you go with them. They still hold on your days between the and you. Nothing to do with online.
And now we are clear.
Because we just pay the capital we are clear.
But anything haram we say I'm sorry, I can't get
you got that inshallah you can, if they are doing for survival, but if they are for comfort, they have to try to
create by themselves, because we don't want to give them
away we do not want to sue bad
because sometimes your good intention people take us for a ride. That is not right.
Yeah.
And the last question from the brothers
no question from the brothers. That's why we say it and those who are here there are good people inshallah. So, yeah, they have been very,
very,
I will say that focus in with the class. So May Allah protect us and make life easy for all of us so that those who have
in the future if you can, don't get involved in that Allah will on a small amount will be very pleased. Unless you think that you have to do before for survivor. Yes, yeah. Last one.
Aloha.
Now we will make a dough on one thing is very good that says that if anybody is aware of anybody who passed away can inform us that we make a general prayer. We'll do that
after one, but before that.
I just want to remind if you have friends who are not yet Muslim, but they are good, most people, they are very close to you. Sometimes your friend also may remind you don't forget not to say alpha Yeah, to the disease, somebody by pass away. Now, sometimes we can be very sensitive.
How can a non Muslim call us to say
no.
Sometimes the people who are very ignorant, some Chinese reward who came to me he we say Please pray for the deceased always pray for them alpha
by just reciting alpha they
say alpha
is not throttle party you must say Bismillah no alpha.
You must say On Belay him in his fate on investment. You must reset Surah Al Fatiha but inshallah we will inform that Uncle ariffin inshallah will be admitted out either tomorrow or day after out from discharge.
out from the hospital. Yeah and hummed in
is good news for me and for all of us.
He had been very patient Yeah. And good news for all of us that he is better and he is going to come home. We will inform that when somebody visit him. He was just waiting to come back to the class and he wants to get inserra ready for Ramadan. And Ramadan is always here Mashallah. So May Allah make it easy for him and May Allah strengthen him physically mentally and spiritually and May Allah subhanho protect him from further illness I mean, in the same thing that I do are for the deceased family who pass away and we are reset slowly we all can follow me together inshallah. Yeah, all of them who pass away. May Allah
pardon them, forgive them inshallah. smilla rahmanir rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen Allahumma salli ala Muhammad
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