Warning to Sisters going for ‘Jihad’ in Syria

Haitham al-Haddad

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for 20 years,

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he got married to her. And he left

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to jihad in Syria, as many others do.

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By

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and when he left to jihad in Syria,

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which as I told you, I don't encourage brothers to do it. But brothers young brothers don't listen.

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As you do, so. They don't listen. They say that this chef is against you

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by so they go. Now we have brothers and sisters who don't listen, there are sisters who go for Jihad by themselves.

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You know about this.

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As I mentioned this today, today, I received a question regarding a sister,

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who went edivert Myskina she wants to go to any Muslim country, she came to know me.

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Online. The Wonder media had had some time Yeah, I need to go.

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But anyway, maybe they thought it was doing jihad over internet

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looking for some new websites that help them in jihad. And by accident meskin he went to a matrimonial website.

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Okay. So anyway, she came to know him. And they agreed to get married.

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Okay, so she traveled all the way to Turkey, by herself.

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And she met him in Turkey. And they got married there.

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She came here had no certificate nothing. She contacted us in the Islamic Sharia council to produce her certificates that she got married to this brother, so she can join him again.

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I said most likely, this is a scam. The the system that she conducted me to help this research said most likely This is a deceit. Okay, this man who is

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by he's responsible to find a way to get the marriage certificate. Agree. not cheat.

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Okay. And if she got married to him, she should go back that she should live with him that why she can't came back here.

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Yes. Anyway, so sisters, please. They should be careful.

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As I mentioned this, I was going to write an article about sisters going for jihad. I consulted some brothers. And they said maybe it is not a big issue. So I changed my mind. The reason I wanted to write this article

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is the fact that I heard some weird stories about sister's going for jihad in Syria.

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In in Norway last year, two sisters one thing 16

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Yeah, 16 or 17 and the other 190. They just left their parents and they went for the hug.

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I said, this is interesting martial law.

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Okay.

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I want to warn the sisters and the brothers. When they go for jihad, they become really very, very vulnerable.

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And they might meet some jarhead who are fake

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or who are liars, or they might meet with jackets. And then we get hit then my dear respected brothers and sisters are not all practicing people. Many of them are just him. They just joined Jihad because they want to die. He said he loved they don't know some brothers who went for the head and they said those who weren't doing good with us, they were not praying the five times the daily prayers, but they joined jihad. Okay, and some of them they were just they are just fighting fighting the regime that they are not really doing it feasability law and the sisters because they are naive, they think that okay, let us just go by and they came to know this brother who had the

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beard Mashallah and who's a foreigner sooner they think that he is one of the companions, one of the Sahaba they get married to him. Okay.

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When I was thinking about writing this article for a long time, a few days ago, I received an email from one of them.

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And so the idea who collected the tweets of one of the old Mujahideen, who joined the jihad in Afghanistan in the end

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The ages and ages. And that person who is any our normal guy he's living now and so davia he wrote in the Twitter, okay. He said that I'm writing this to warn the sisters from going to Jihad to Syria by themselves.

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He said, when we were in Afghanistan doing jihad, many of the women of the Mujahideen when shamari, Masaru, cha, and others took over. He said, many of the women of them which are hidden, were raped, and took as slaves by the war Lords in Afghanistan.

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And he said, he remembered a story that you will never forget. In his life. He said, when we were in Kandahar, and the the Americans were bombarding us in case throwing bombs, etc.

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And then we were attacked by some of the

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allies against the Mujahideen. He said there was a major hit with his family, big family, within children. And everyone left. And this person he left of course, to run from here, and there

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are a group of people came to those women and they captured them. They hijack them. And they distributed them in front of our eyes to that word loads, and the word loads, took them in their car and left.

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It was a word we could not do anything. The brother, the husband came back. And he was asking, Where is my family? What is my family, all of us? They knew that their family, their, his daughters and his wife, were kidnapped by those people and were given as slaves to the warlords. No one could tell him the reality. Because we could not see he was looking at them between the killed people. He did not find them. And he said, where they hijacked, where they hijack where they kidnapped, where they kidnapped, no one could tell him the reality. He mentioned so many stories, sad stories, really. He said, After some time, in Kandahar, when they the Americans and their allies were

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bombarding us. And it was chaos. There were a group of Mujahideen and the Mujahideen who were killed, and their wives and the children remain there. He said, I contacted Hekmatyar and I told him that listen, those of us came to defend you and now their wives and daughters will be taken and raped in front of your eyes. Shame on you, of running people to allow those women, the women of the media he deemed to be rigged in front of you. And you know what happened to so and so.

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And he said I contacted at that time and was under the leadership of Malema. So he said Malema when he knew this, before Hekmatyar, he said, By Allah, I will not let in my body a single drop of blood until I secure those women to leave Panda, even if all the Mujahideen were killed.

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So he said he stopped all the Mujahideen from leaving

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under Ha. And then Hekmatyar and some other people came to help the people in funding. And then they manage to

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find a secure path for those women that have women to leave under heart and many people were killed.

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That's why many scholars in the past said that it is makrooh to take women for jihad.

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Yeah, if you know that they will, something like this might happen to them. It is very disliked to take women to the head and it might be held on.

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Okay, do we want this to happen to our systems, just because they want to go for Jihad out of just zeal and hype. So I would like to send this message to our sisters.

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Okay, I strongly advise you

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not to go for jihad, and I will meet Allah, Allah And I will tell you that I told them not to go to jihad in Syria. I will be responsible for that. But to go there and to become a burden and then you'll become raped, etc, etc. And then we'll try to find the solution for you to come back and then and you know what may happen?

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Many brothers who have went to the hurt, they have been kidnapped, you know this,

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you know this or not, they are kidnapped by the Syrians. And as has happened during that time, there were just Morteza. What is Morteza for those who just kidnap people, and they go and sell them to the Americans. There are people who kidnap some of the Mujahideen hoquiam to Syria for jihad, they kidnap them, and they sell them to the Syrian government. And you know, this, the story of that mother, for her husband was keeping up, no one knew about him. And then she traveled by herself with her daughter, she met the authorities there. And of course, they ripped her off, she paid a lot of money in order just to see her son.

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And she found that her son was kidnapped. Okay, and he was imprisoned by this volume regime. They said that when she saw her son, she didn't know him. Because he was tortured, prevented from food, etc, etc, he lost more than half of his weight.

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So do we want this to happen to our sisters? Of course not. Yeah. And the law, Delilah did not make it obligatory. on you, I said to one sister, who asked for. Without it is obligatory, I said to her, as I said to all brothers, who asked about this, I said to them, is this the only obligation for the line that you have?

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You have many for blind?

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Everyone has so many for blind. So why are you looking for this further line? Only?

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Yeah, no one.

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Why? You need we need to understand you have to obey your parents.

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You have other types of for why. Okay. And moreover, moreover, who is giving you factor that you have to work for you have to senior, those who are giving this are known people in Syria, not all the scholars in Syria, I confirmed this long time ago, and I have been confirming this all the time, whenever I see a Syrian scholar or I know of a CDN, scholar, etc. I double check with him. Have you declared that it is widely for every single one in the world to come to join Jihad? And they say no,

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it is just only very few people who go there. And the Mujahideen there, they tell them that? No, it is why they called the brothers to come and let them come and cetera, et cetera. And I believe that many of those calls are coming from people who have been infiltrated.

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Yes, infiltrated. So young people should be careful and should not be naive.

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Yeah, she should not they should not be naive. There are hundreds of ways we can help our brothers and sisters in Syria or anywhere in the world. Okay, but not to this. Anyway, so. But in particular, I was saying about this marriage,

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marriage over Skype with the Mujahideen or with them with Yahoo that

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by because I told you about that story of a sister who said that she's a metalhead and she was looking for a brother to get married to her. I told you last time about it. Yeah, there was a sister, I think on Facebook or she announced that she is in the land of revolve and learn in the land of Sham in the land of victory in the land of swans. Oh, yeah. The religious typical religious blackmailing. And she was calling for brothers to get married to her. Yeah. And two, three brothers went and it was a scam and they were arrested or maybe kidnapped. Okay, so we have to be very careful. younger brothers have to be very, very careful. Otherwise, they will put themselves into so

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many problems and they will put us into so many problems. Okay? For no fee at all. Okay, so