Haitham al-Haddad – Tafsīr Sūrah Ahqāf #11

Haitham al-Haddad
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You are listening to lesson 11

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surah till cough bisha Dr. Hasan al Haddad happy the hula brought to you by Islam 21 c.com

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articulating Islam in the 21st century,

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Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam ala nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi ajwain This is the Tafseer of sola Terra.

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And we've been

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giving that Tafseer or studying and contemplating on the left side of the aisle

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from verse number 13, all the way until 19. And if you remember we said that it was at the start with inilah Dena Allah Boone Allahu Allahu alayhi wa sallam noon

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today equals How will generate a holiday interfere, disarmed American, maroon.

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And then the IRT started by talking about

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enjoying upon mankind to be beautiful to their parents. And we said that this surah is a Maki sola.

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And the Maquis sutras normally deal with issues related to belief.

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Yes, and this particular surah it seems to allow Allah that it deals with those who are showing our guns and they don't want to disbelieve in is in spite of the very

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fact that they can see in front of them. So I'm glad Allah is giving different examples of those.

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And Allah Allah Allah, as we said, gave examples of nations who disbelief.

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nations who disbelieve such as the people of polish that is believed in the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and in the Quran, despite the number of irrational and textual proofs

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that Allah Allah, Allah mentioned in the beginning of this surah. And also an example of those who disbelieve

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or the nation of that, yes, that Allah Allah Allah mentioned and we will be speaking about it.

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That Allah Allah, Allah has given them power and the strength and despite what Allah has given them, they were not thankful to Allah, Allah, Allah. And they disbelieved in Allah, Allah, Allah out of our organs.

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Also Allah, Allah, Allah gave us examples of individuals who will be rejecting the name of Allah, Allah, Allah, the very different bounties that Allah has given them. Yeah, such as the individual who was enjoined to look after his parents who look after him. Yeah, when he was young, and they were looking after him. Yes, and he was in need of them, even if he reaches his or should his full strength. Yeah, he will be in need for them. Despite this, he what he disbelieved in them, he showed

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no respect to them. He was not grateful for what they have given them, as some people are ungrateful to what Allah Allah Allah has given them. So there is a parallel between both.

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Yes, these are people who this believe in the Nam in the bounties. datawatch. Allah Allah has bestowed upon them. So we said after so this is this is the surah This is the atmosphere of the soul. And this is the theme of the sutra. And we mentioned that in the beginning of La Jolla, Allah mentioned polish, and the co founder of Makkah,

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and how they rejected the different proofs that Allah Allah, Allah has given them and they were not grateful to Allah, Allah, Allah, not believing in Allah, Allah, Allah whatsoever. Then Allah Allah Allah mentioned this story, or that this example the example of that individual who this believes, who rejects the favors of his parents are upon him. And the worst of those examples is that individual who,

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who shows ungrateful to his parents,

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To his,

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to his Lord Allah, Allah, Allah and he this believe that he rejected, then I am of his

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parents. And then I am that Allah Allah Allah has given him. Yes, those are talking about such individuals, the ayat that we are about or that we are explaining dimensioned to individuals, yes.

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In a way of contrast, and we always say that it is the method of the Quran, that whenever the Quran gives an image of those disbelievers.

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You can say, a negative side of humanity, Allah Allah Allah always mentioned what the positive side. Yes. And whenever Allah Allah, Allah mentioned some examples of COVID awaji. Allah Allah mentions many other examples of what of sugar and hemp and praising and believing in Allah, Allah Allah. This is

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one of them. What was sinal? insanity already de la Santa, we haven't joined on the human being an insert.

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Yes, that he should be beautiful to whose parents both of them? Yeah.

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And he should attach it to them in kindness. And we have mentioned so many

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proofs from the Quran and Sunnah. And the statements of the early scholars and the stories as well on how righteous people used to look after their parents. And then Allah, Allah, Allah mentioned in this hemella to Omo, Cora, ha,

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ha, yes, the Allah Allah Allah singled out the mothers, because of her right over her son or her children. hemella tomo Cora. Cora, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, if you saw the hotel asuna shahara. And the period for his pregnancy and weaning is 30 months. And we have explained this in the previous dose. And how the scholars took from this ruling that the minimum period for pregnancy is six months. Yeah. So if a child was born for seven months, eight months, yes. Any less than nine months but over than six months, six months, then his pregnancy happened from the the man who was married to his mother. Yeah.

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And we have mentioned this and we have mentioned the story of Alabama be part of the law tada and who and the amount of law firm below the law tada and who as well.

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So, this is the meaning of the ayah hamdulillahi sotto telefoon Shahada. And then we mentioned that Allah Allah Allah says, Hector Bella, I should do Abella albarino in Santa Clara, biasanya and Ashkelon, aromatic allottee and Antalya while every day, yes, until one the person reaches his full strength.

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And he reaches the age of 40. And we said that reaching the full strength, most of the professor he didn't say that reaching the full strength is reaching 40 Yeah. And he when Allah Allah, Allah says,

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Allah Allah in Asana, and he reaches the age of 40, it means that this is that age of strength, you know, we said that most of them have a theory say that, until the person reaches the age of his full strength or her full strength, which might be and some facility and said that it is a team reaching the age of 18 years of age, yep. And he continues on till he reaches the

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age of 40, which is the peak or the end maybe of the full strength. So the full strength he starts from,

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from that age 18 or some other scholar said, 33 all the way up to 40. It doesn't mean that that the age of strength is 40 as it might be understood from some of the translations of this ayah Yeah.

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I had died Avila should have been a center when the person reaches when this righteous person when this righteous person reaches his full strength.

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With an 18 or 33 on till the age of 40 what he would say hodeida Nova de la vida sin upon our journey and escallonia meta karate and alejado de de

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la sala de la Ne t cafe de casa de hee

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sorry one hour absolutely physical reality in a todo la caja are in imminent Muslim. He will do three things. Yep, he will do three things. The first one is are they any an Ashkelon amateur can lead to an amateur hour and every day? He would say Oh Allah, I was there any means guide me or it is translated here as grant me maybe guide me. Yeah, to thank you and ash cola. Maybe I think they said to be thankful to be thankful is a noun, but maybe a better translation and as Cora to thank, yes, to thank you and the verb, not just isn't to thank which means that to be to be that person who will be thanking you all the time. And ash Khurana medica. Although it came in the past tense, but

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because it came after head that it means as if it means that it is in a present form, as if it means that he is asking Allah Allah Allah to be thankful all the time to Allah, Allah Allah. Allah be there any an ash Khurana Mehta Cala T and M de la Yeah. Oh Allah helped me to thank you.

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Yes, thank you for the AMA that you have, you have given me an edge Cora

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Cora near Metallica, and ash Khurana Metallica, if it is translated, literally without any attention to the meaning. It will be to thank your Nima. Yeah, but he will be thankful to who to Allah because of the enamel This is the meaning if you understood me and if you follow the Arabic language and ash Cora what namrata cannot an ash colada it should be Yeah. And Ashoka. If we Yanni

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if we do not know the Quran, by Yanni the person would say in Arabic language it would be an ash Quranic meta but Allah Allah Allah says what an ash Quranic Matata. Yeah, I need to be thankful to you because of the nightmare that you have what bestowed on me and Ashkelon and meta keleti and Antalya.

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Okay, not only that, but to thank you for the NEMA that you have given me and then it means that you have given what

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my parents

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Why, why he is thanking Allah, Allah, Allah for the number that He has given to his parents. They said yes, because there are a number of things look at this.

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To be thankful, of course, he needs to thank Mr. gela. For the AMA he has given him and then he has given to his parents because without that, an AMA that Allah has given to his parents. They wouldn't What? raise him in this good way. Is it clear? So he would thank Allah Allah Allah for both numbers. Moreover, some scholars said that he wants to thank Allah, Allah Allah on behalf of his parents. And this is a very subtle meaning very powerful meaning very nice meaning Yeah. To be what thankful to you for the number that you have given me and thankful to the Nami that you have given to my parents. So I am in fact, doing sugar for you on behalf of my parents.

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And this means that this person is not looking after his parents while they are alive. Yes, but he is always looking after his parents after their death.

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Yeah, okay.

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And this means that this person is not just useful to

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His parents died Actually no, no, no, no. After if they pass away or they are not around him, he will be what? making anything that will help them.

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Yeah, such as doing whatever can be done on their behalf.

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Yep. And we know the Hadith when the man came to the Prophet Allah said and he said my parents passed away. Is there any kind of good deeds that I can do for them or any Is there any kind of barely any kindness that I can offer them? They passed away, then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said yes, whatever promise they have done well, they they have taken yeah In February, Hema do it? Yes. And also be kind to their friends. Yeah. Also, the scholar said that among

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the good deeds the person should do for his parents after they die is a lot of drama, and a lot of a still fart. And that is the very thing that benefits them after they passed away because of the Hadith when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, when the person when the son of Adam comes to an end, or when the son of Adam dies, his deeds come to an end except for three things. And one of them is what? Well, Adam sorry, hon. Yeah drew the who, righteous son or a righteous child who is making the art for them. So they said that this is the very,

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the very important deed that helps the parents after they died is dead to have their children and all the scholars agreed upon that. Now, do other deeds benefited the parents

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such as the saga

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yet, such as reading Quran, and gifting them that award?

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Yes, such as doing Hajj and Umrah.

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This is a very long discussion. Some scholars agree on certain deeds that they will benefit the parents. Some of them these are great they say yeah, there is no clear proof that such good deeds will benefit the parents. Yeah. But the person should focus on do and is still far. Most of the scholars agree as well that the solder on their behalf will benefit them, especially for from their children. Because as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said in

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my account to mean QSB como la de Kooning has become the best of what you have, what you eat, or what what you consume is, what you have consumed from what you have earned. And your children is part of what you have earned, which means that whatever your children earned, is as if it is your earnings. Yeah, so that's why almost all the scholars said that the sadaqa from the children is different from the saga from other people on behalf of the deceased. On behalf of the disease, the best among the good deeds that is likely to benefit the pet the disease is what the sadhaka from who from the children. Yeah, hopefully the sidecar from others will benefit in sha Allah. So we said

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that the DA and what the the DA in general whether you are making ganni that Allah Allah Allah increases the reward of Allah Allah Allah forgives the sins, both types of Yeah. And then the saga the saga? Yeah. So this ayah they said that this ayah it is Yanni implicitly guides the righteous people to do whatever they can do for their parents after they pass away. Yep. Some Hannah Labradors, Yanni Allah, Allah, Allah

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is so merciful.

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Allah Allah Allah so merciful. It is true that we need to speak about the punishment of Allah Delilah, yes. By Allah manella for him. Yeah.

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We need to speak about the punishment of Allah Allah Allah but

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We need to speak about the mercy of Allah Allah Allah more and more.

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Now the mercy of Allah, Allah Allah.

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Yeah, it can be. It is so immense. And the mercy that we see among people is just one part out of 100 parts that Allah della Allah has given us to enjoy in this life. And he kept to 99 times of this mercy that all humanity is experiencing among themselves, he kept it for himself on the Day of Resurrection. So Hannah Lila,

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part of His mercy that Subhana Allah there is nothing, my dear brothers listen to this Yanni. Very golden principle, there is not no space for anyone to despair.

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So Panama, there is no there is no space, there is no room for anyone to despair, or to lose hope.

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As far as you are living, yes, before your life comes to an end and the soul Your soul is exiting the final passage, you still have a chance to depend on whether rather than to go back to Allah, Allah,

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even whatever bad deeds that you have done for others. Look at this.

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This is the right amount that we need to speak about. And sometimes we don't pay attention to imagine a person

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who was so this grateful to his parents. So this obedient to his parents, he neglected them. Yes, all he was this obedient clearly to his parents, they passed away. Allah guided him.

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Allah, Allah, Allah is still giving him a chance To what?

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To repent from his

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bad deeds that he committed towards his parents, not to just to repent between him and the Lord Allah Allah, but also to do something to his parents, after they passed away.

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And this is the rock morphology law. So for those brothers and sisters, who think that their parents passed away, and or one of them and they have not done enough to them or they were disobedient, still, they still there is a hope for you. Yeah. And there is no law open for you.

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To Be kind to your parents. How to Be kind to them is to look after them after their death.

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Yeah, how? Making a lot of dough and still fall for them.

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Yeah, making a lot of dough and they still fall for them. Every now and then. Oh, Allah, forgive my parents before. Once you make to yourself, make the out to your parents. Oh ALLAH forgive them.

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Especially if they passed away, especially if you are not kindly enough to them. And whenever you give sadaqa My dear brothers, let us be generous. Yeah, whenever we give sada one pound, say this is on behalf on my behalf and on behalf of my parents as well.

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Don't think that this will diminish your reward? No, no, no, no, no, no, Allah, Allah, Allah is not dealing with us as

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human business people dealing with us. This is now I will split the reward between you and your parents. No, no, no. In fact the word Allah Allah, listen to this, Allah Allah Allah might give you more because now you are giving sadaqa and you are doing another good deed.

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Which is what you want to be good to your parents. Look at this Rama of Allah, Allah.

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You are giving sadaqa on your behalf. Include your parents in that sad.

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Yes, in that sada Allah Allah Allah will include them in the reward of your SATA and Allah Allah Allah will give you another reward for being what? For being kind to your parents.

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So Hannah, like

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we need to learn my brothers and sisters. How to do business with the larger ladder. Yeah, young business people will

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If you know business people, they will think of every single opportunity to maximize their income. Yeah, we need to think of every single opportunity to maximize our income. Our real income, is what Allah Allah Allah promised us in.

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This is our real income,

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not what we get in the dunya. So part of this, my dear brothers and sisters, is to make a lot of for your parents, Mama delana mantra for all of our parents. May Allah Allah Allah increase their work, Mama dalada make good grades, as part of paradise. May Allah Allah Allah extend their graves and make them so spacious. And may Allah Allah Allah forgive whatever they have done bad deeds. I mean, I mean so the righteous person My dear brothers, let alone that some Hannah live in Tamia. Rahim Allah tala Yeah, we pray janazah today on that brother who was knocked down by the car, who was run over by the car in red bridge.

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Through hammer, he was coming from federal prayer.

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Maybe you have heard of him? Yeah. I've been mocked at Melbourne De La Habra on him.

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Allah de la Yanni gathered all types of hydro for him. He was at something hydro common polymer who has an Andrew and occurred plant him over and when the person dies in in a terrible estate, our dealer Allah gives him more reward. Yeah, rather than who just journey that's why the prophet SAW Selim said Allah OSHA, he the very pushy the OSHA heat, yeah. So they said that the accident was so bad that even his body was split into two parts. And he

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was coming he prayed fidget and he was coming out of solitaire.

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After the the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, the law of the abdomen Hira is tamela Hydra kayfabe

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Allah, Allah, Allah Amylin. uusc Ramadan sada Yakubu Allah, when Allah Allah Allah wants goodness for a person, Allah Allah, Allah will guide him to do some good deed and then either takes his life during the good deed or just immediately after the good deed. This is one of the very good signs of of this was karma the law of karma for him and for all who passed away I mean

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the even Tamia Rahim Allah Allah we said that he didn't tell me about him Allah tala said that the

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the, the Muslim, the Muslim should have a habit, which is that he should make that still far for the believers as a habit. Yeah, Yoruba Ania. Kona is listed. Meaning minute, yes, little update JIRA. JIRA means his usual habit, that he's making a stone fall for the believers all the time. Because while I in their graves, they are in need for our so far. They are in need for our so far. And I advise my brothers and sisters, that whenever there is a chance for them to visit the graveyard to visit the graveyard because visiting the graveyard is as the Prophet sallahu wa sallam said it reminds us of death and reminding ourselves of death is is one of the

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important measures that keep us on track and keep us balanced in our life.

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That the righteous person will make dua to his parents Carla, and ash Khurana Metallica Lottie and Antalya wah wah add. This clause also said that what was his first element of Allah what

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I was there any an A school near me technology and led these colors said that the sugar, the sugar is one of the very high virtues, very high, good qualities that the righteous people have the sugar of the now we mentioned briefly last time that these colors were this

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Discussing who is better. Yeah. The rich person who is thankful to Allah, Allah, Allah or the poor person who is exercising suburb or who have suburb. And we said that many scholars said no by the Shaku

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the abit who is thankful to Allah Allah Allah is better than the abbot who is afflicted with Messiah and he is what he is showing sobald why, because, because the shocker

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includes an element of sub are many elements of solid.

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And because,

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yes, when the person sees more now,

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he might what he might forget.

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Yes, he might forget our dilemma. But the person who is afflicted with massage, he is what, naturally he is forced to look for help and naturally he will look for help from Allah Allah Allah, but the Shaku the person who is finding it, the who finds

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it luxury or who will find surplus or he finds in different types of now, he might be what he lives, and he might forget to thankful to be thankful to Allah, Allah Allah, some other scholars said and what is better than both of them is the person who is afflicted with massage.

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And he is thankful for la de la

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The shocker Our Allah Allah says in the Quran, waka Li Roman a daddy Shaco

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Allah Allah Allah has given that would Yes. By

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what could I have done? Are you better than another bow aneema sunny weather cooler? No, that would sorry.

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No, no, not that you would. Whenever jello Allah says in the Sahaba de Bella who Sabina Bella she will shut up what they are Matura tangkula who

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was shattered in America Latina hickmott over for salon SEPA. Yeah, this is done without a hitch Allah, Allah Allah Allah has given him all this now. And then the other eye of Surah Surah Allah de la la de la mina daddy ushiku do good deeds, because very few of my slaves are what they Shaku. Yes. So panela the shocker is the opposite of Coca Cola is the opposite of sugar.

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utterly insane woman and daddy lemmya concha makura in Santa Monica 15 am shojin de la Semyon basura in Medina who Sevilla.

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We have two choices in MA in nadina sabirah ima shakeela maka for

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either he is shocked if he is not thankful to Allah, Allah Allah. He is what he is conformed

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to Allah and under what Allah Allah mentioned this contrast between sugar and cocoa and number of iron. Yes.

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One man you could find them is Coronavirus, a woman Katara for in Nevada, Ronnie and Hamid in solid Look man, the one who is thankful to Allah Allah Allah is what is being thankful to Allah Allah Allah. He's first thankful to himself

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and the one who disbelieves our dinner other is the

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rich who is in no need for anyone.

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And in fact, in fact, our The law says we all know this when in Chicago

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well in cafardo. In other words, again, contrast either you will be thankful toma de la Allah or you will be what?

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Yes. And that's why they say that the first level of sugar is to acknowledge the need that Allah Allah Allah has given you.

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And my dear brothers and sisters, this is a reminder for myself and all of my brothers and sisters, that well Allahu Allahu Allah, Allah, Allah has given us so much.

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If we do not think of those that are

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Allah Allah has given us we will be disgraced for all ungrateful to Allah, Allah Allah. And that leads us to confirm and Subhana Allah, one of the very positive qualities of good people, the positive qualities of good people is to be what? thankful to Allah, Allah, Allah and normally those thankful to Allah, Allah Allah, you will find that Allah, Allah Allah gives them Saba gives them contentment, and Allah Allah Allah makes them happy.

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You think about it. You go, yesterday, we visited this brother who was one of the elder people who was in praying in the masjid. Yeah. Type who is me as I was talking to Brother awesome today about him. That if he is not in the first line, then he is out of the country. We rarely I rarely saw him in the second line. I rarely saw him in the second line. Now what Allah Allah give him Shiva. Yeah.

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He had the flu, and then the flu.

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or pasta. I don't know what happened to his leg infection. Yeah. And the swollen locate became so big just because of the flu. I don't know how but this is what the doctors told him. You might you might visit people in the hospital. Yeah, you might find the person who is afflicted with all types of

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calamities. Yeah, he is a poor person in the hospital. And

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maybe he had a bad injuries or very rare illnesses and you visit him. How are you? Al Hamdulillah?

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is difficult for him. Yeah.

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Look at the others. With but what about you know, along hamdulillah?

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Is it okay pain, sometimes pain? This is life.

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But look at others. They are crying because of pain. Yeah. And he is smiling.

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Yeah, as if he is afflicted with nothing.

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And when you talk to him about his illness, he will talk to you about how much as Odin has given him.

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Yeah. And I remember visiting an old person quite a long time ago, actions. Speak louder. That old person.

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He, he was illiterate. He was illiterate.

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Yeah, doesn't read.

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And this person,

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he used to be among the very first people to come to the master. He was retired. And he normally that was in Riyadh, in Saudi Arabia. And normally, he

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stays in the mystery down till shadow. Yeah. And makes the crew from Guadalajara and he memorizes very few

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chapters from the Quran and he keeps repeating them. He keeps repeating them until shadow. Yes. And Subhana Allah hear the very smiley face. He became ill when he just before his, he passed away, we went to visit him in the hospital. And he had his his smiley face.

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And you talk to him about his illness, and the Justice smiles. The your we asked him, the your children and he said well, I their children, I cause difficulties for them. They have to leave their job and come and visit me and then go back and their wives and they have their own children and some other people. You ask him do your children and visit you? I didn't know. I didn't know. No. They visit me once. Just once a while, one hour and they leave me alone. He is being what? Looking at the empty side of the cup. Yeah.

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Whatever you Whatever, whatever is happening to them, he will see the negative side of it. They are ungrateful to Allah de la No, no, my dear brothers and sisters, let us learn ourselves to acknowledge what our deliverer Allah acknowledge the near and the difference under the law, the law Allah has given us yeah, and my dear brothers and sisters, the biggest thing that Allah Allah Allah has given us there are two numbers that Allah Allah, Allah has given us two numbers, huge numbers that are what Allah Allah has given us. Please do remember them. The first thing is that you are a Muslim submitting to Allah, Allah Allah. This is the first number that Allah Allah Allah has given

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the second dinner and my my dear brothers

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ancestors that Allah, Allah Allah has given us seconds to live

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each each minute each second. Yes, that Allah, Allah Allah has given us is a big Enigma is a big enigma. That's why the the biggest sin

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apart from schilke is what? committing suicide

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committing suicide is bigger than killing other people. Yeah, because you killed yourself

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and that's why the scholars as you know have two opinions about it. Some said that they they they allow will never forgive them and some others said no, no. If they died as Muslims Allah will forgive them eventually. Yeah, but they will be punished.

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Yeah, and killing themselves killing others. You might the person might repent. But when the person kills himself Colossi kills guilt. Yeah, it is the last sin he committed, and he died on a sin. That's why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Man, our car enough salamin gibberellin Yes. Fair enough. Who? You enough sahoo lasala ut nafsa hoomin Mini min Javelin? Yes,

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I think phenol and woman pan enough to be headed by an F servo our laser layup and OB have finished up something like this. I forgot the heading that the exact wording of the Howdy.

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Jani the person who killed themselves by throwing himself or from

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a hydrant place he will be in that situation in the fire of *. And the one who killed themselves by stabbing himself. Yes, he died on this. So that's why he will be in that status in knowledge. Because that was the last sin he committed that he killed himself. So he and Moreover he did not acknowledge what the NEMA data was Allah Allah has given him which is what few seconds to live. Few seconds to live by dear brothers and sisters. Yes, you will say in one second.

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Just in one second. Isn't this a beginner? La la la la maybe Adriano if you say it with full class with fully attain, that will save you from the punishment of the hellfire. And do you know the Hadith of the papa? Well, that person who came with so many things and then Allah Allah, Allah told him he was worried hollows? Yes, like mountains of bad deeds.

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And he has no good deeds. Then Allah Allah, Allah told him wait, and this again, out of the realm of La Jolla, then a cop came.

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And our de la Allah commanded the Malacca to put it on the other scale. He said, Yeah, Allah, small code, what it is going to do in front of those huge mountains, real mountains of evil deeds, he said, you will see

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they put the cart on the other side, that card has that in Lola.

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Just the Shahada, just the Shahada, and because of that court, what the weight of that court overweight, the weight of the huge bad deeds.

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These entities are beginning that are modular, Allah has given us just one more second to say la ilaha illa. Allah, that's why the very frequent question that we hear brothers and sisters, yeah, almost every week, I get this question once or twice. Yeah, my father is ill and they said that they will. He is suffering now and let us remove the his own entire intensive care. Let us remove the tubes. So he dies peacefully.

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Yeah. Or we need to give him high dose of, of morphine or Yeah, yeah. And the doctor suggested they don't not acknowledge the name of Allah, Allah Allah. Yes. their worldview is totally different from us. Yes, we see that. If we suffer in this dunya while we are believing in Allah, Allah, Allah that will be good for us in the hereafter.

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And then the Hadith, although some scholars say that it is weak that

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To do a Hello Bella min Allah jannetty lo anon Macario dunya the people of Bella who will go to Jana? Yes, they wish that if they go back to the dunya and be tested more and more and more why because the Bella the difficulties they go through in the dunya yes raise their status in general. So, they wish they will say oh, what what kind of parameters go back yeah Allah take us back and test us mode and test us more. So our status will be raised in Jelena Subhana, Allah this is, this is, this is the first level My dear brothers and sisters, this is the first level of what have shocker which is what to acknowledge, then, that Allah Allah Allah has given you the name of Allah

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FileZilla and then have higher Yeah, of being a living person who can say stuff.

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And that's why when the person well as Ahmed, Allah says, Allah insha costumed as he, just be thankful to. Allah, to Allah, Allah has given you, our de la Allah will give you more and more. Allah Allah Allah will give you more and more. Yes.

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And that's why we need to ask Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah make us from what

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mean a baddie kashia kitty?

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Yes, minibike defer shelter and this is one of the very great there are that Allah Allah Allah that we should make. And that's why some scholars said this is one of the very accepted routes Why? Because Allah is the one who taught us

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it in the Quran. And those who are that Allah Allah Allah has taught us in the Quran Yeah, that the righteous people do should be a regular bow.

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Yeah, should be irregular such as what the first da in the Quran which is what a

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Yeah, a proper Mr. And when we pray, my dear brothers and sisters, really this 17 times we should make sure that our minds in particular when we make this gap that are there. So we read it yes with our hearts. So we know the meaning of it. So it will be an acceptable Yeah, this is

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the that's why some scholar said this should be Yanni that the person should say Rob be any an ash Khurana American Lottie untiw Allah wa alejado de de, so this is the first level and the second though, so this is the first this is Jani, the first good deed that Allah Allah Allah has mentioned here The second one is when mela

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and O Allah helped me to do good deeds. The first one is helped me to thank you. The second one is helped me to do good deeds. Yeah, we're an analogue solid hunter law.

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Pipe the sugar is one of the good deeds. But these colors some of Assyrian said the first one is the good deeds of the heart, which is sugar. The second one, I don't want to dwell in sugar and how to be thankful to Allah Allah Allah and the levels of sugar nicolaas this is Yani because of time. So that's why let us move to the second part which is an AMA lasagna. hamdulillah. The scholar said what Amala here means the good deeds by the limbs. What an ash Cora is the very good deed by what by heart and that's why they started with what with the good deeds that are related to the heart and the heart actions and this is what the limbs action when MLS Allah tala, some scholars said, Why

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Allah Allah Allah said what an AMA lasagna hen

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total bar.

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Yeah, if it is solid, if it is a good date, then our de la Allah will work will be happy with it will be pleased with it. Why Allah Jalla Allah said wanama la Sol

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thiruvalla. They said because maybe there are some good deeds that are apparently good, but Allah Allah Allah will not accept them for whatever reason

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Yeah, or Yeah, they were done. They were done. The person thinks that they are good deeds, but in reality, they are not with it so Allah Allah Allah says, Allah Subhana Allah Allah Allah taught us to ask him what an analysis it has total bar

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what and then the third part which is what absolutely feeds reality in to be to LA. Okay inshallah we'll stop here we'll come to the second part or the third party which is one analysts Wah, wah select Lee new to Reiko in imminent muslimeen inshallah. Next, yeah, we've been spending, maybe this is the third or Yeah, the third

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Or the fourth session, maybe? Yeah, explaining one eye, some of the Fallen very rich and deep. And we need to stop at number have there any lessons or number of lessons to be taken from them? We ask Allah Allah, Allah to accept it from us. If you have any question. Yeah.

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Before we go for Salah Yes.

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How the person?

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Yeah, this is a good question.

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How can the person train himself or herself to be patient with that? parents? This is a very good question. First of all, we need to teach ourselves to be patient with others in general, well,

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with others by this is one thing. Another thing that is useful quickly is that the person should put him in his mind. Yeah, that he needs to achieve this. Our problems. One of our problems, my dear brothers and sisters, that we don't put certain goals in our life. One of the goals method that I should put is to be a person with good luck.

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And try to remind myself all the time that one of my aims is to be a person with good luck.

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So one of my aims is to be a person who is what good to my parents, this is another thing.

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A third point, my dear brothers and sisters, let us remember that.

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One time, I will become myself a parent.

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And then how my children will treat me. Many scholars said that if you will be treated by your children, as your parent as you were treating your parents,

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you will be treated by your children. As you were treating What?

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Your parents Yeah, by another point, my dear brothers and sisters, you need also to remember and to remind yourself and to train yourself. Yeah, that.

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That being patient, although I might not like what my parents are saying. I might disagree with them. Yeah, but it is a test for me to control my emotions.

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And not to be unbeautiful to them. Yes. Or ungrateful to them. Okay, one good deed, one good way as well. That let us learn my dear brothers and sisters, to

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to apologize for our mistakes.

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You know, many people, many people don't know how to apologize because they did not get used to it. And they did not force themselves to do it.

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Also, my dear brothers and sisters, to help you to be patient with your parents. Be proactive positively with your parents. So for example, yeah, many of you are young. Maybe you left your parents in the morning without giving them sell them.

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All of us or many of us ignore just in the middle of the day, sending a message to our parents, or I missed you. Sorry, I didn't say Salaam to you. I meant to say Salaam how

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etc, we belittle that

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we belittle that while if we are we if we do it, well it it has a very very positive impact yes on the parents and try it, try it all if you are young, try it and you will see the very positive impact with this. The other thing is my dear brothers, when you have

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which is a point that many young people, many of us always complain about you

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I have mentioned this point, but I mentioned it again briefly. Normally, there is an age gap between us, ourselves and our parents, that age gap causes a lot of

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a lot of problems, because the parents are speaking in a particular wavelength and we are speaking in another wavelength. Yeah. So that differences in languages, cultures wavelengths of his speech will lead to many conflicts between any child and his parents. We need to teach ourselves to try to match their wavelength, at least in certain circumstances. And then some other circumstances may be just Yes. Just to

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to avoid any kind of this discussion that leads to these problems. Yes, brothers. Okay. And as I always say, especially to young children, see, you have times we have times of anger, and maybe disputes with our parents, but that is not the whole time. When you have good terms with your parents. Try to Yani, look at it your brothers look at it as a cup that can be emptied. Yes. And that can be filled. When you become angry. Yes, you are taking the water out of that cup and the cup becomes empty. When you become when you have good terms with your parents. Don't be just neutral, try to fill that cup which is their hearts with love.

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So, once there is an anger, there is still a level of water of love in their hearts. Yeah. So they will forgive you easily.

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Yeah, remember this. So in in normal times, try to be more positive. Yes. To your parents. And finally, my dear brothers and sisters.

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I am a parent and many of you are parents and I am a child and all of you are children. Yes.

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See, there is no one who

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can forgive others. That is any. Yes. Like the father or the mother?

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Subhana Allah. Yeah, that's why, you know, Allah, Allah, Allah mentioned his name, and then the name of the parents.

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And the modular Allah mentioned the one who is this grateful to him and the one who is this grateful to the parents. Because there is a level of Rahim Allah, Allah, Allah is showing to mankind and there is a level of fragment the parents are showing to their parents. When the person for asks for forgiveness of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will forgive him quickly when the when the child asked for forgiveness from his parents, his parents will forgive him quickly as well.

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Yeah, can you see this contrast? So there is no one who will accept to forgive you that it quickly as your parents.

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So always come back to them. Come back to them. A lady here once mentioned about her son.

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I don't know her son, but she was talking about how evil he is and how, you know, she was mentioning so many stories of how evil he is. And then she said that he asked to see her and she refused to see him. She was telling she was asking

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I allowed not to see him. I said, Why don't you want to see him? She says, because I know that if I see him, if I see him here, my heart will melt down. I am a mother. And I cannot control my emotions. And I know that if I see him, even if he doesn't ask for forgiveness, or you will forgive him.

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Yeah, my mother told me this. So she was asking, am I allowed not to see him because I know that if I see him, I would forgive him immediately. And I don't want to do this.

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Look at the heart of the mother. My dear brothers and sisters. Okay.

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