Haifaa Younis – Ramadan Part 1

Haifaa Younis
AI: Summary © The importance of learning and embracing new experiences in life is discussed, including the need for practice and avoiding slack. The speakers also emphasize the importance of being specific when speaking about actions and moments in a culture, avoiding fraud, and being aware of one's actions and moments to achieve success. The importance of protecting from sexual and physical harm during fasting is emphasized, along with the importance of practicing safeing. The segment ends with a brief advertisement for a coffee company.
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So Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam, ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Hama Luna via phone or email in the semiology. When do we need a million

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letters Ba ba ba, ba, ba ba, ba, ba ba in Haneda. Now hublin amulet. uniparental have overshot. He said recently only what alone determine the Sony of company. And he said to me in about two weeks from today, two weeks and two days, depends what

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they want. Start in sha Allah, Allah Subhana Allah will make us live and see that day. And he and honorable, amazing beautiful guest is going to come to us and I hope you feel I am saying I hope you all feel that there is a guest this is going to be coming. What you see in front of you is actually a two hour so however, the companions used to do it six months before,

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six months before or not two weeks, not one week, not one day a llama Nana Milan. And he these have candle your door when you get into that means the companions, they used to supplicate almost pantalla six months that they will hear a lot when you make them living to seal a lawn. And in it also you have a new one, that also that you will make us live to see it to live it properly to the most popular ones meaning do give it its due right and six months after Ramadan supplicate are not acceptable. And this is one thing you really have to learn. And it is actually one of the teachings of Satan Ebrahim in the Quran in your own daughters, when he was building he and say, this way we're

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building the cover, what were they doing Robin?

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In the contest.

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They were building the cover. And then once more on the building you do, right. And in spite of this in his most beloved place, most beloved place on Earth, building his house they were not accepting it from and that's why they were making the door. So part of the Sahaba teaching and the practice is what before these whenever you do any a random act of worship, don't be so sure. The way you did it is that's the way I was pantalla wanted, or that's the best way it is done. And that I always have to have this wonder will have accepted for me or not. So that's why one of the reasons and I'm just going to ask this to make you a little bit wake up with what's the first thing you do when you're

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What do you say?

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Right stuff, a lot of stuff a lot of stuff over that's why you just finished slow was beautiful.

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Exactly. Because you are acknowledging in the way you're not saying your law, maybe I didn't do it the best I probably made a mistake. You're you're doing it in a much more beautiful way already acknowledging is not if for sure I have done not done it the best way. Because you didn't say a lot. Forgive me. If you're seeing your stuff in my stuff, not stuff. That means I didn't do it the best way. Or maybe I made a minor mistakes, or I wasn't which most of us I wasn't dealing fully with my with myself. So for them six months, not one time, six months, after all, they don't do a lot for us. I will accept for months and six months before not lawmakers live to see. So they used to say

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the whole year were between hoping to live and hoping to be accepted. That's the first thing you all have to put down and look at your accept flaws. And you're not making live to see it. I hope you're feeling what I am saying. Imagine and I always say this imagine mother's you have a son who is a study in California. And for the whole last year he didn't come or she didn't come whatever the reasons to busy any of these things. No time actually thinks. And then he texted me today and says mom coming in two weeks. What's going to happen first?

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Absolutely happy. Right? smiling, happy. Next thing. You can look at your schedule, and you're gonna remove. I'm not doing this. You if you were invited next week, you're going to tell your friends I'm sorry. I can't come please forgive me. My son is coming. And your friend will say absolutely. Don't come your son is coming. Good. Enjoy it. Is he my point? Maybe the guests that's coming to you the visitor that's coming to your law the value of him or her? You love him or her and you want to give them the due right? Question for you and me. Where does one do I look at

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Mr. Ellis, honorable guests, and I am waiting for my opportunity to be having special moments with a lot with all the beauty of Oman. So if you don't make it, fake it till you make it, do it, tell I need it. You know, keep reminding yourself mentally, mentally, that this is an amazing opportunity in two weeks. And something new says what is the big deal about I'm going to be hungry for 16 hours. And then I'm going to stand for two hours and I'm not going to sleep in you know all the shape on tools, and you're going to respond and then you're gonna remind yourself what we will learn today insha Allah, all the virtues of Oman, why it is so special. Now in general the way we're going to

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learn today we'll learn about fasting in general because that's something we need to learn and then we'll come to automobil specifically so fasting there's two kinds we're going to cover of course some of the parts of it and then most of the questions that every year is asked the short one no more LBM so the first thing is for coins okay and you have it in front of you and before we say the testing for the client is what does fasting mean?

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What is the worst Solomon for those of you who know Allah we are so young

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that Yeah, himself holding

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himself then if you look when you study beauty every act of every act of worship has two meanings they always teach you this no matter what. No matter what does the word mean for example, how many of you when someone tells you My name is money and for example, don't you normally say What does money mean? What does money mean by the way

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beautiful now you're actually allowed either

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it's the one who is always in a state of worship, how much the same deal so always the first thing is the meaning the meaning of the word what does it mean then there is the fifth meaning meaning the meaning in this religion so now I'm talking about if you look at any Arabic dictionary, whether you are a Muslim whether you're Christian you're Jewish, doesn't matter what does fasting pasty mean to home to home stand still stay still and that's why the word is used not only for fasting the way you and I know we they always used to say it in the Arabic language. So the person is fasting from talking and you see you have this in the Quran quality in order to learn so much for the newcomer,

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Yeoman sia, I am have made an oath to Allah, that I am going to be fasting from talking meaning and Who says that?

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Say dominium. Right. You need to

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say the Maria when she got pregnant and brought a nicer so that means I held my tongue for talking. They say in the Arabic language samata Li. The winglet is fasting. What does that mean? He's not drinking anything. Meaning the wind stopped.

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stands still informative. Yesterday, the wind was blowing and suddenly stopped. They say sama to shrimps, sun clustered. Same way in the middle of the sky or the middle of the day when the sun become in ASEAN stops there are some partitions. Some are too high. That's very common. The horses haspin What does that

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it's drinking and eating. So when the horse is ready to move to move, and everything is ready but she stopped when she's fasted, I need to learn this because that will remind you and teaches you and me and us What does a lot want for me from this fasting? Because there is an external dimension of the fasting which will recover but there's an internal What does he want from me? He doesn't want my hunger and thirst. So what does he want from me inside to be standard so that you get to the point so the soul is that himself you are holding yourself then we come to the What do they call it convention definition meaning the next definition for those of you who know how to be the Adobe one

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is beautiful, one of the most beautiful way I look I found about him saquon muscles, these are many muscles which are

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you hold special things in a special time with a special conditions. This is so beautiful, exactly you hold right you hold special things special time and in a special conditions and we were going to cover this inshallah that now the types of plastic out of Milan is

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right and we get to come who said so and why and number two is

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Volunteer, extra meaning

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Mondays and Thursdays? And then you have

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what's the tournament? tastic?

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every month, like, that's, that's the volunteer. That's the extra

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Somebody wasn't it.

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Let me just give somebody else who knows that told me. Maybe they're

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exactly beautiful. What is the first thing of height? That's actually a very common example. Just the same?

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Yeah. So you enhance, enhance, yes. If I cannot do something, I can make up for it by fasting. And what is that thing?

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Oh, okay. If you have done the Nia, of soul of hygiene, tomato, or hydrocodone, meaning you're going to do on board and fetch together either together, what are you going to do it and you separate part one of the requirements of that kind of hygiene is you have to slaughter an animal, if you cannot, and don't be surprised, a lot, show you that example. I've seen with my own eyes, somebody does not have the money to pay, baby can go for him. How do you make up for it you fast, another 200 or so it is

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three days in during the Hajj itself. And suddenly, when you go back to Canada to Canada, these are attendees, so they call it a tournament trustee making up, you did something wrong and you want to fix it. The fixing is by fasting. And the other common example.

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If I made that, oh, except when you make an offer, you didn't fulfill it. But your car is not the only one. There's other options. For Hajj, that's the only option. But for all these other options, one of them is slim. Okay, so that's the last one is forbidden. It's how long

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you have to be specific, in short, and by the end of the day, if you learn to these two things, then

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number one is, when you speak about this, Dean, you have to be very specific. It's like lawyers one day speak every word count. And there is more to fasting than the casual I have been doing all these years. If you can go out today at the end of the day with these two. That's beauty. So when you say I really do you have to be specific.

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The first day of the aid of the small aid for the aid and filter the aid of Ramadan, only in the first days. Hello. Secondly, a lot of people start doing the show live

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in hygiene, the four days of hunt, you are not allowed. It's hard. It's not McCool disliked. It's absolutely forbidden

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in learning. So there's people who muscle not a lot of color. They fast all over the year. So don't they go fast and say guys, I was described as one of them. Except those so forbidden? Absolutely is you are not allowed. And if you did, then you want to be closer to Allah. Anyone who knows this deal will tell you you need to break it. Because you're not awake. Actually, this will be

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fasting in Ramadan, my choice or not my choice. The youth yesterday, were amazing. Y'all know the questions I had, and all the questions about trauma one. That's why I invited them to I said come you beautiful, right. So one of these I was asking them, do you have a choice in this? And the answer is

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Do I have a choice in plastic at all? No, no, absolutely not. Except to be very correct. Now when I say this, and I am absolutely adamant about it, I need to bring proofs learn one thing is the last two for Dinelli the principle of this D that everything is

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accepted there is a ruling there is a proof there is an evidence. So I cannot hold on to this is how this is how I can do this. The essence of it is the same thing with food. The essence in food is everything is handled. But except the things you know. So when I say number one is an obligation before I give you the next slide Who said so?

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You said you said yes I am really adamant about it. Please forgive us did it again.

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Or did it again.

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Handling allies testing us. We thought we did two hours this morning trying to fix it and I thought we did we were very happy. Let's say it's not us to agree on you having

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hamdulillah and I can at least say you do the the enemy so before I do this let's do the the the other one

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because that's how it is. This is number one. You want to this so when you tell me number one is an obligation if you have a sister who just accepted Islam she looks at him says What should I do? And you're going to say what you said Shahada hamdulillah and then you can say you're going to learn how to pray with teaching and then in Tunis you need to start fasting because of no one is coming and this is how it is yeah you already know how many you all know this which surah

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and amazing thing a side note for you to learn and above on the cow has all the details of the essence of Islam The Pillars of Islam, five of them is in a certain block only

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max total Hydra tons of other hand the only surah talks about fasting Ramadan specifically talks about sada talks about tight and talks about the Kansas was a

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yes or no Did you know this?

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One if you didn't know this, then you know this quite happy to Allah Salatu was it was the whole quantity, keep your soul out, and especially the middle one, and stand up in a world with complete submission. That's just like your living room even

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I mean, nobody backmarkers up to that. Yeah,

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I'm sorry that's where I was headed. And if you want to bring you back to Microsoft and spend from the pure of what you made, and what we brought you out of the earth, so that's this account of the man and

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and where does it hide?

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From unfollowed often in the height of an alpha, alpha su Hydra is an appointed and once and whomsoever had you became obligate obligatory in them. So now fatawa for su no relationship and no disobedience to Allah and then

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Muslim so the four things amazing the longest one is just a side note for you to learn the second School of the Quran and it is the longest one the Quran and all the principles of the pillars of the D is assorted Baba was revealed in Mecca, Medina,

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Medina, 100.

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What about it? Of course.

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Look at your faces.

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That's something I'm not going to give you all the answers today

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to go home.

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So it's majority of it is monkey. So let me I'm sorry, yeah, but there is some part and one of them is it of course, you know what it was it revealed, and the last

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one was a trivial play. Now let's go back to this. Okay, so it is an obligation, it's an obligation from the Quran is an obligation from the sooner and it's from the consensus, no scholar, no scholar, from that mother, that lives in the West lives in the East lives now lived 100 years ago, 1000 years ago, disagree that this is an obligation. It's not my choice. And I always and I said this yesterday to the youth, and I'll say this today, a choice I have is to obey or what not to obey. That's absolutely a choice. But there is no choice in Ramadan is not an obligation. And you get the point number one is an obligation, my choice to obey or not, that's your choice. So definitely consensus.

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And it is one of the freedom Pillars of Islam that we just talked about. This one, I'm just gonna translate for you to Maine came to Australia. So that was why this is Steve. He's a biohacker when he was asleep, and I want you to because this is not a very well known he's probably most of the two men came to me. That's what I'm saying, while I was asleep, and they held my wrist and took me to a rough rugged mountain or Swati sought us and they said climate go up. I said, I can't. And they replied, We will help you. I climbed to the end and heard the loud noises. And I said, What are these? They say this is the cry of the people of the hellfire. May Allah protect us. Then we walk

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walked further, and I came across men hand from their ankles upside down. Their mouths were torn

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and blood flowing from them. And I asked Who are they who they are? And they replied, those are the ones who break their fast before the time to break the fast

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Did you get the meaning?

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Yes or no? So what what is this? Have you related to the obligation? For some?

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It's a hidden way.

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They broke the past a little bit before.

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They broke their fast a little bit before the time, intentionally, right? And see the result. What about those people who doesn't pass.

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And that's why I say this all the time, because,

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especially for us living in the West, and these days, the hours is long. And it's not an easy, fast ride. But don't take it easy, also not too fast.

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And this is one of the things you really have to know, this is an obligation, this is not a choice, I will train myself, I'm going to ask a lot to help me a lot will make it easy, but don't just say I can't, I can't so hard. Don't say, Don't take it as we say don't take it lightly.

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So you know, I'm gonna go to Bali cosplay and come up with a Valentino copy. It's a three if I'm

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talking about fasting, and then there is another IoT. We'll talk about that later. And then there is another is talking about the details of plastic will come to me, a young man who died few days. So number one, fasting is not only us, but what's so special about our fasting. So all the other nations before us were ordered to fast to ruffles. Do you have a non Muslim friends? Yes or no? Yes. Do they

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really felt the same way we do. So that's the difference. So that's how we use a quickie Valentina move company from the principle of fasting, it was there. It's not new,

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like salah and the way we perform prayer, it's new. We are the only nation that we prostrate on was pantalla put our head on the ground, but fasting they all did. But the way we fast is unique way and then Allah gives you the tools, which we're going to come to in detail who the they are exempted from economy, suffering, if I determine if you're sick, you're traveling from another time, we're going to come to this detail in just a few slides. So this is one after the other. So next is this one now specifically Obamacare because somebody will say Why? You know, we argue about everything, these things. And everything doesn't make sense and explained to me, I'm not convinced all this. And

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I really know how many surah in the Quran.

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And when I say it doesn't make sense, hearing about the word that the Ramadan is up or shut down the lady who's in the month of Ramadan, in which Quran was bestowed and was revealed to Las Vegas to Santa Monica, you give me a shot of a Leo song. This is Yeah, okay. Here is

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this part, this part? For those of you

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who are more, this is the obligation, meaning here.

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Whoever of you lives to see this month show should actually shoot fast. That's the obligation. And there's a principle in the Koran when you're going to need you saw in the month of moving on up the road. Every order in the Koran means it's an obligation unless there is an explanation otherwise, did you get to the point so when Allah says not to say don't want to do not kill animals, when you're in a state of ethanol, that's an obligation.

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But when you're not in a state of a home, it's okay to go hunting. Right? When I was in

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Chicago I did not get to outperform so that you are intoxicated. That's an obligation. So someone tells you where is in the Quran, you can assess

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and they get some weird reasons on why Ramadan, you can say ego, Ramadan, Allah used it here on shuttle Ramadan, the month of Ramadan and if you want to say okay Shama Rama but who says I have to fast and you're gonna say Here you go, Macedo, Musharraf and your soul whomsoever live to see the month show faster.

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That's very clear.

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Especially integrally formed around the evidence how Allah is opening, they call it it is absolutely absolutely no doubt no doubt in the word no doubt in it in the way to reach us by now, that also I just thought was an untested nine months, nine number ones. So when was the Aston became obligation one second. So the second view of

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the of the draw mainly secondary on Medina, and it is our sorry, sought for some fasted nine, nine years, nine years. So that's from the sun, it's from his tg

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and this is the hadith of Ross

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I saw to set up and this is in Buhari he says the following I put it in our being in English so you can enjoy both which were about one an hour the anytime you read Benjamin katolaz one is you have to put in your mind the Bedouin mind. Right For example, to make things easy for you when you say someone come from America and ask me a question and someone come from Europe and asked me a question and someone comes from the Middle East and asked me question the way they asked is different and what they are looking for is different because of that background so the bedroom is a gentleman you see this was actually so it was a really wonder bottom line you know explain it to me right away

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they really straightforward so I'll be an amendment came from a swan a Software Center, and he was terrible rice is like an upset or very excited you can use this and he said, Tell me what is my obligations? You know, when you say I'm too busy, don't tell me do all these things. Give me the bottom line. And he says Martha, you're telling me what a lot made obligation on me. And he said number one,

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Asana five, not unless you want to do more. And he says, What did he what's obligation forecasting? And he said wrong, unless you want to do and he says muffle volume zeca What about soccer? What's my obligation? And he explained it to him and he explained to him all the rules of Islam now

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follow one lady account he made an oath by the one who have dignified you I will not do I will do this and nothing more is it look as the answer because a lot of us will say hold on while you're making all this nine yards. I'm going to do a lot on first my five frame my five I'll do the height I'll do my makeup and I'm done. Look at Anson pilot

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he said he is going to be successful if he was truthful meaning

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this is not easy don't take it lightly don't take it lightly you're talking about all your life five solder on time properly I'm not gonna do anything more neither before nor after anyone in this room or anyone you know I can guarantee you that all they like they did this or they will do this

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that's why he said after he was a truthful then he that's it you don't need more assured as they say what we learn from this funny is not so is an obligation because he asked him told me only the obligation Don't tell me more. And that's what he told me. So you have no plan you have now from the sooner the action of Rasul Allah

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and His sayings and that's another one which is very popular Hadith you probably all know that narrated by, say nama robiola one and he says the stone was built on five years when Islam and Islam was built on five and you declare on what is the only God you perform five soda you performs a car and then you fast robot and then you do the hygiene if you are able that's it. That's the house that's the foundation. Without these there's no house there's no foundation and I cannot be controlled because these days we are picking and choosing. I can I can induce Allah but I can do so there's actually no way I can do something I can do so I'll give you an example. Yesterday when I

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had the meeting with the with amazingly everybody I asked who is going to be fast, everyone is fasting I handled it. But when I asked about sada and they were very honest, I really loved it. And to third did not raise their hand.

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And I said who says fasting is more important than slaughter or Salah more important than fasting is not me pick and choose is the one who created me and you and who brought me the D and who explained to me this religion. He said these are five, he didn't say do this and if you can do the other so don't pick and choose you have to the reason I'm saying this is I want us to change the way we look at the laws of obligations for the choice once you say all Malaysians on a choice, I have a choice to obey Allah or not. And I will be on the sequences but these are not choices. So now you have the sooner now you had the the plan. You have the single from a sunny side. So this is his actions. And

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this is another holiday it's also in Mojave.

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Before the second year of the heater he used to first always assure when low Milan became an obligation he made hashoah not an obligation. Rather Ramadan is the obligation.

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Know why do we need to fast

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That's the goal. The goal and

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The end of Oman, and we're going to come to that. But let's let's just say

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All this 30 days of beautiful acts of Ibadan, with all the difficulties and the hardship we are going to go through because not easy

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at the end. If, and please remember this, if I do find, I am not more conscious that I was only hungry and thirsty.

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Did you get the point? I didn't get the aim of it. I fulfilled my obligation. Don't take me wrong. I also feel fulfilled. My obligation in front of Allah is not going to tell me that you fast No, like fasted, with all the requirements we're going to discuss. But did I reach my goal of fasting, if they have aid, the way I dress, the way I speak, the way I act? The way I disobeyed is the same as before Oh, mama, the 30 days was hunger and thirst.

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So you always found today, and again, put these goals Metallica, Lyme disease, it's not hard for me to make it happen. I just have to want to y'all. This is why I put the title making the best trauma bond ever meaning during it, and mainly after I come out of Oman on different you know, I'm you. I'm sure you've seen this. When you see you. You see people go for hydrogen, or some people go for. And then when they come back, they look different. Have you seen those? But and a lot of people go, but they can't. And these people, some of them are different? The look of them is different. Something changed? A few days? Not necessarily. No, I wouldn't say that. No, that's not fair. I wouldn't say I

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know people completely changed after especially the first time. I wouldn't say this. But I wouldn't say this is a common. But there is people like that. It depends when you went to hygiene. Where was your heart when you went before you wanted to get my point? So here you are, when No, you are getting into Oman, what is your heart? Where is it? Is it in the food and the drink my schedule a go, I'm gonna invite Well, I'm going to go, then you will end up the same. Or I am going to make sure that all the difficulties I am going to go through or the hardship or the change of my schedule like it is going to change me, you will be changed. And you are the best person to judge yourself

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day of aid when you want in front of that mirror. Remember what I am saying?

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If you are waiting the same as you were before on the one, and you are doing the same things you do before on the one that didn't change

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did not come to you. If you stood in front of the mirror, and you were about to do the same as you do. And he said no, no, no, no, not after 30 days of fasting. And you changed the nighlok

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did you get the point. So the goal is absolutely a taco and tequila is what you are not conscious. When I am saying is that something pleasing total when I am doing is that something pleasing to Allah when I am not doing is that something pleasing to Allah? That's.

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So here, you know, number one, and I put this number one, and this is very hard for us. It's easy to read. And you say oh yeah, of course. But to apply it in my daily life, is this is what Allah says. And I'm doing it. It doesn't make sense to me, it doesn't matter. For example, I always say this, what time we start the first, let's say in two weeks in August,

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roughly you will be whatever you find 255 Let's see 520 and what time will bring the fast?

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Okay, let's see.

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The time is not the issue. I want you to think of the following. So at 515 in the morning, you're absolutely sipping your tea. Right? what you're eating, what are you doing whatever is 521 you're looking at that cup of tea, and you cannot swallow it. Why? What is the difference between 550 and 521? In six minutes, but because that's what he said technically, May Allah forgive me it doesn't make sense. What is the difference for 2005 21? Me with a sophistication that I have it doesn't make sense. But no, no, no no, it's simsek and same thing you're looking at this wall when you're putting the date in front of you and you're looking at the watch No no no. isms is a part time no dog

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minutes. True or false. We all live with this. But I want you to feel deeper. Why not? Like if your child look at you and says

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I wonder water 22 minutes what are you gonna say? Have no Allah said so. That's what we need to learn to submit a one way which is very hard for us. Not only in Ramadan in my daily life, kind of last minute Hold on. Allah said so I

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I hear Nairobi. He didn't say I'm doing it simple. If unbought is not in my mind look up, I will have to understand enough to be alone did it? Are we there? Are we at that stage? All right, you have to convince me

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how many times I have to convince me.

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Number one, we are not the rugby. But I want you to bring them on the way we are asking all of us and apply it on your other parts of your life. He said so dumb. So number one, is this an absolutely it's a tool to purify the soul. Why?

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What does it do?

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Yeah, why it's cleansing.

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to control your Exactly. Because it's a control the nuts again the same story. Five o'clock and dive on. How was this headache, y'all I just wanted this water. Because once I drink, my headache would be gone. And I'm controlling my there's no my friend, I'm sorry, 520 you will have your water for now you're not having anything. That's not easy, but you're doing it. The more you have control of your nerves. The next time when someone comes on your nerves, and you are about to lose your temper, you will be able to control that's how you purify your nerves, purified meaning and purified from the evil characters. Or the evil descriptions or the evil manners and fasting Actually, it's one of

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the nicest thing I had about fasting like the common is the killer of the nerves.

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The killer of the nerves. Absolutely. I mean, not killer killer, but it is a metaphor. Because you keep telling your nerves for 16 hours you're not doing it. I'm dying for this chocolate, you're not doing it, or the coffee's not so good. You're not doing it.

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And you're doing it willingly search purifies your portfolio for sure. I mean to think that what we talked about that, and a training method to have less attachment, and we feel successfully number four.

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A lot of attachment trauma, true or false.

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from morning to evening, what we're going to put on the table

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right? When you want dessert, that's it. What is my best motion? Right now it's on my mind. I don't know what is my goofy I every country has their own thing. That's not

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that's not all, I always tell people love did not create a moment. So you will invite me just, you know, but it's not a luxury.

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And the more social the more food the more interaction the tequila is, is getting choked. choked, because it's harder. So

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and the last one, which we all know, which is very true. And I'm sure you all felt it when you're so hungry. You missed your support for whatever the reason, by three or two you're really starving. Right? And then you're going to say your one What does this people do? who cannot you open the fridge when

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you have everything? What about those who really don't have and we see these people maybe we don't see a lot, but we see. So the last one which we all talk about that too I will know how the poor will feel how did I help them but that's not the main reason. The main reason is the upper four.

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Now, what is the virtues of soul if you don't memorize any of these about fasting in from the sun, you need to memorize this one. There's many versions of it, but this is the Mojave version of it. Right? That will tell you what is expecting from me as I am fasting whether it is Oman, or whether it is Monday or whether it's actually six of Shama any of these days number one and I will maybe I'll spend a little bit more time assioma dreena fasting is a shield

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what is the shield doing?

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Right So originally again, I know you're thinking the word je means protect. When I when I think of a shield I'm thinking of either I'm wearing you know the bulletproof from protecting my life, or I may be putting some extra locks on the door to protect my home all these are so young. So fasting is a protection from

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failing to explain it. You just don't assume it's very common on this like four or five versions of this. How do you protect food?

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protect from what sense?

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Yeah, of course, protect from Cisco, how I want you to think deeper. Or CL Medina protect me from what?

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disobedience protecting me from myself to absolutely, actually. It protects me less for myself because if I disobeyed the law, and I am fasting, it's mine of sort

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But the junior is this this way in general you're more or less aware of a lot even externally because you're not drinking because all I see why can't you drink go to the bathroom and drink why not know what to see a lot of people will say this so you're more or less aware the woman was aware this comes very commonly inside I can do this on plastic

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we all see this casual I can't do this I can't lie on fasting what happens after I bring the fastest different stone

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talking about the state of when I am fast so it protects you even even this is very beautiful you and they especially at the end of the fast You are so tired even you don't have the energy for this obioma right like you're fasting at four o'clock and then he didn't eat enough then you got to turn off the TV and you are going to be watching something no we are going to sleep so seongmoo net to look at it as it's my shield when I go and say you know what what am I say upon is so strong you're know what we always say this my support is very strong and minus r minus so remember you're wearing a sandwich and so that's number one then that can it's missing you can see yo yo me

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when one of you is fasting it's really English but the other V is missing that part if you are fasting okay you are fasting that day now your first one I want you to pay attention to this episode The person

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observing fasting should avoid two things sexual relations which we all know with his spouse and should not and this is what I want behaving foolishly and in purely seeing things that doesn't please a lot acting in things doesn't play out doesn't

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please a lot saying doing acting not doing wearing all these you're in a state of fasting you have to keep reminding yourself you have to be different you not from other people you feel you know what I'm saying? The day first day of Ramadan me has to be different from yesterday calmer, more composed more lovely because I'm fasting for him not for any other reason. So here you go. And of course we're going to be testing nothing because without testing this slide, so if someone is going to come on your nerves, children first on your nerves, right? I want i want i want i want and you know these are not fair, or all the usual things, right? No money, you get very upset. or somebody's gonna

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pay the shadow partner someone transgressed against you said something, push you push you to the edge for your colonies on say, I have asked him twice, remind yourself, remind yourself, no beautiful part of the Hadith, what makes you love fasting? What will make your fasting General matomo when living fcbd he made an oath, but he didn't say, well enough CBD, the one who owns my soul postpones my soul. And yours is. well enough CBS de la Hulu famous on the smell of the mouth of the person who's fasting because when we get to dry, the smell smells out through your brain, the law human and mythical man, Elon Musk, the outcome of the wildly famous the smell of the person

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who's fasting especially when we fast one time, the smell is more relevant or more than the mosque.

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How much he loves the fact that I and you are fasting. And Allah saying this, he leaves his food and his drink for me. This is a personal relationship. Fasting is a personal relationship for me, and his desire for me, and now comes slowly and he's doing it for me. Fasting is for me one

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I rewarded by either workflow. And this course teaches you it's not only a valid, that one did not specify what are you going to get? One I just email and he says what has led to gaslighting? We actually have a very good TV sometimes except plastic. We don't know.

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I have no idea what I want them to give us. And when I can even give us what the journalist gives what he's going to get. When you know your friend is very generous. This is all coming down getting you a gift. What are you gonna say? I'm very happy. It's gonna be something different. Now we don't know when she gives gifts. How beautiful it is. So what about this

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creator of color palettes. So remember this because this specially I love this hobby especially outside

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because it makes you Monday, Thursday becomes a joy becomes a joy you wake up in the morning for our Sony exhibit fastings for me and it would for it makes you fast, much easier. Try it and remember this for you. Now another version virtues which you all know this is just a summary for you protection from the Hellfire June, the shield, the detail is in life at the end to protect me from the hellfire. It's a way of forgiving my sins. And it's also my way to enter Paradise. And I'll show you why. This is a beautiful swan song joining us to join us to gently be allowed or not is a shield would protect you from the fire.

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Shield protect from the Hellfire because the more are passing, the more I'm obedient to Allah than less possible, the less possibility that this will be there. That's why it really hurts.

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All of us, when we are beautiful when during the day. And once we break the fast, we forgot we were fast. And everything starts. People who didn't smoke, start smoking, people who start indulging food, people start talking saying things backbiting, watching wrong, dressing, wrong going out going out and things not pleasing to Allah, as if we are having Mr. Jekyll and Hyde, that we have two personalities during the first time a person and that's not, I need to remind myself

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and it is going to protect me, by the way, a lot of things. And this is actually even in modern psychology, a lot of things is how you look at it. A lot of the things on the Italian positive things will go well.

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Don't you hear this all the time? What does that

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be positive and things will go your expectation? What do you expect? So expect from yourself high up, remind yourself for 16 hours, these days is going to be at least 16 hours, you will able to do it? What's wrong with the next eight hours.

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And you're eating and drinking. So it's easier because I'm not worried about the food. I eat too fast internally, which we'll come to it at the end inshallah, by now know, I recently saw to Samsung, this and I gave this example and the ladies really liked it.

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I say this because I travel a lot as you probably know, play when you are going to travel, right? Especially if you're traveling on a Friday evening, those of you who travel a lot, you know, I'm talking about how is the security?

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How to

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write, especially in Atlanta airport, write at least an hour at least.

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And then you find that there is that TSA Pre

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write and you look at your

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ticket and you say, Oh no, I'm not. When you look at the TSA, previous five people, you're cruising. And they went, how do you feel like why didn't I get gsap? Right? Every time I say this to myself by doing now this is dunia on the Day of Judgment is a special door only for those who have been with us for

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those people who are regularly fasting externally, internally, but they are good descriptions, they are always in a state of fasting recorded. So it's genuine, you're all doing your job. Right? But then you are not in line. Billions of people want security millions and you're waiting to see what your look around you wait, which side which part. And these people especially going until the last one gets it and the doors closed.

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So do you want to go through that or do you don't want to go through that? Again, it's a choice. Remember, I told you everything is about a choice. You choose what you want to do? no muss pattana will reward me or will ask me according to my choices. So Babylonian, if you want to be of that, or you don't want to be of that. The other hand is also virtues of fasting. I want you to love fasting. I don't want you to look at fasting as a party. It's beautiful, beautiful. It's just the problem we all have. Maybe some of us I wouldn't say all of us is because we do not trust regularly. So we see it as a difficulty or we fast regularly but we do

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