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Difficult Issues in the Quran

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Salam aleikum wa Taala workers.

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Hungry La Nina Salatu, salam, ala.

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Muhammad. He was Sufi he may.

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So continuing Sharla today with our same subject that we dealt with last week, which is the slander of a shot of the Mahabharata. And it is a difficult family issue, a family issue that took place within the family of our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he is he was directly concerned with it, his wife was involved people were talking about his wife. So it is a very difficult matter that Rasulullah Assalam had to deal with it has to do his best friend. And he's the father, the father of his beloved wife, of the Allahu Allah. So all of these people were involved in this issue, we need to learn from them, observe their behavior, and also learn from the feedback

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that the last panel of Allah gave them about this incident. And it is in Surah, to know and it is very beneficial, extremely beneficial to go through this.

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And learn from this methodology Actually, there is a clear methodology that the Las panatela is laying down here for the believers to follow and learn from and actually act upon when there are rumors when the people are spreading so menus in the community, how do you deal with this news? So Allah Subhana Allah is telling us about the base the best behavior and warning us against you know, any mischievous behavior or any no mistakes in this in this regard.

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So as I said, the the story started with 11. In order to know and in this ayah, Allah subhanaw taala said in the Latina Xia Obolensky, Rose bottom income. So the first part of this is indeed those who came with this false hood or group among you, and we talked about it, we mentioned their names, the names of the believers, and we mentioned the name of the head of the moon, Africa and the hypocrites there are maybe there could be some other people or members of, you know, his close circles, who were talking about it but the Quran did not mention any name. So we found about these names in the sooner in the Heidi that are found in Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim and the first part of this ayah

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we talked about it last time, the second part here, Allah subhanaw taala, saying later, Sabu Shara Lacan Bell who highroller comm he said do not think it's bad for you, rather, it is good for you. And it is a Lost Planet. Allah was saying here, you know, don't have, you know, a wrong perception about this incident and the story. This is something good, it has many benefits. So now what are the benefits that are related to the slender incident, and this is what's something that we need to focus on it and inshallah we will strengthen our Eman and faith in the mission of our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam by looking into these benefits. The first benefit and I believe

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this is the most important thing. Besides the other benefits method and the purity and the innocence of eyeshadow, the aloe vera and the guidance that we got from Rasul Allah from Allah subhanaw taala. Regarding this kind of incident, the first benefit is our knowledge about the personality of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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our knowledge, we increase our knowledge, we learn about him, we learn more about him and he salatu salam, and there are three points that we need to pay attention to. The first point is that he was a human being who had no absolute knowledge about the unseen and will hide.

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Yeah, and he was a human being because we know through this history when we studied this story, he was confused. He didn't know what to do. He was consulting talking to the other wives, Madame zeynab, talking to Ali and Osama or asking you the servant, the female servant, very era. So he didn't know the emcee. And the rhythm as he said, had he had he known and seen, he wouldn't have felt so upset or made inquiries, or count nor counseled repentance from the olana. So it is a clear that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam does not know the ncn except what Allah subhana wa Jalla taught him was the last time he had taught him. And this is something that is should be clear in the

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mind of every Muslim. Why? Because this is another problem that you know, took place a tributing throughout our history as Muslims, we had different groups who attributed you know this quality of knowing the unseen to the real

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Religious leaders.

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So Allah subhanho wa Taala through this incident is protecting the religion against these exaggerated notions about religious leaders, if Rasulullah Salim himself, who was the best of all prophets and messages, did not have access to the unseen animal hype, that how about the other people who are less than him in ranking, and status. But yet we have groups of this oma, who attribute this quality to their leaders, groups, different sects in different groups who believe us to believe that their religious leaders have access to the unseen and the no animal. Hey, so this is number one. Number two, he was a prophet of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And we are very confident about

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it. And this is a proof that he was a prophet of Allah subhanho wa Taala. It was not he was not well, I am defining, however, he did not speak from his own desire, la Salatu was Salam. Had he been a fabricator, he would have just fabricated some verses from the Quran to protect his honor and the honor of his wife, right? Because now what you need to study to look at the situation from this angle, we have Abdullah obey, Vanessa Lu, who is upset with the presence of Rasulullah slum in Medina and his leadership. So he's he thought that Rasulullah sallallahu was competing with him. So Lhasa, Selim came to Medina to take from him this position of leadership, right. And that's why he's

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trying to destroy the reputation for profits or sell them in any way or shape. Right? He's trying his best. But also as I sell him, if he was a fabricator, he's been fabricated, and for the last 18 years if he was a fabricator, right, because he spent 13 years in Makkah now five years in Medina. So we had the experience he's while he's well skilled now, in fabricating verses of the Quran telling people this is this is, these are the words of God, right. So it would be easy for him to fabricate some verses from day one, and protective, his honor, and the honor of his family, but also law says him couldn't do anything about it. And he was confused like any other human being, like any

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other husband who didn't fully know what to do. And he started you know, consulting people and talking to them about the situation. And that's why last time I said why am I empty for an hour, and Allah subhanaw taala you know, made him wait for one complete month before he received you know, revelation about the truth and about what happened.

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You know, in this situation,

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the third no piece of knowledge about oh prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that this incident here who proved beyond any doubt,

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the the greatness of his characters will allow neuseeland the nobility of his manners. So his in his justice and his furnace in his tolerance, were known to every wise person. Here, there is another incident that took place within this whole big story. There is an amazing incident that took place. What is amazing about it, is the reaction of our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam. What happened is, has certainly been a habit we know the poet was involved, are they allowed who was involved? Of course, we know we say always throw the alarm on him, because we need to respect the Sahaba Allah, Allah told us in the Quran that he was pleased with them. Now how do how should we

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look at their mistakes, they were new Muslims, they were learning. They made mistakes like every human being and Allah, Allah is Forgiving their mistakes. So it's not up to us to judge them or have any bad opinion about the Sahaba of Rasulullah Salah if you expect them to be like angels, angels, then we are exaggerating.

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If also last I sell him himself. We know that he made some mistakes when it comes to dealing with an ABA method and in Surah Abdullah no big knuckle tune in Surah Tabitha or he made some miscalculations, not since How about the Sahaba of the Allahu anhu not profits and we will not messengers, they are not infallible. So we have to treat them with respect because the last time the Quran told us that he was pleased with their achievements, he was pleased with their contribution. He didn't tell us that they are angels if they were angels, we cannot take them as role models. Because we would say they are angels they are protected from committing sins. So we cannot compare

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ourselves with them to them right. And their, their stories and their life will be irrelevant. It will have no relevance to our life and to our to our issues and problems. But now they are Hoosier against us. They are a proof against us on the day of judgment because they were human being like us is to eat and drink and make mistakes and they get married have children

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Human beings normal human beings and yet they were able to achieve these great results that Allah subhanho wa Taala was pleased with know they were able to spread the deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala and pass the message to convey the message of Islam to the next generations. So here when I talk about the mistakes of Heisenberg dammit, I have to still you know, show him respect of the Allahu anhu. So what happened we know that he was involved in the spreading of this news and software and Morocco of course, is involved. It is the center of the story. He's the one who brought eyeshadow the Allahu Allah on his own his camel. And he was he was a poet too. He was a poet so far more

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often. But no, the skills of Hassan musavat are better than the skills of savoir Ave, and more often Morocco. So what happened sufferable moto decided to take revenge against him

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because he decided to take matters into his own hands. So whenever moto de la No, I don't blame him. He was upset. But that was his he had he decided to take matters into his own hands. He hid himself to herself with habit one night, four habits and with every one night and when he came close to him, he hit him with the handle of his sword.

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And then when he hit him with the when doing this, he said some said some poetry that is found in some books of history is still harbor and manifest the Sahaba he said tilaka Do we have a safe human need for in any hula? Either who she told us to be shy. But in the army he may have washed up mineral bear at a raw mill Bara our hearing. So basically you know when he translated this is a beautiful poetry. But when it is translated, it loses its it's a beauty. So he said teleca do Baba safey Mini receive from me the handle of the soul. No, he didn't want to hit him with the sword. Otherwise he would have killed him. So hit him with the handle of his sword. teleca do Baba save the

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money for me find any hula men for I am a young man. When I'm attacked. I forget about poetry. I'm not the poet anymore and become violent. That is his poetry here. suffered Martin came many me email HTTP, I am only protecting my honor and my dignity, taking revenge against the one who attacked innocent people.

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So how sad was that what happened screamed, people came to his rescue. So one numerator of the alarm who left the scene of this incident he ran away. So he fled the scene. Later on what happened is something amazing will happen. Has Sandra savage who talked about this man and he talked about Asia, once to the Messenger of Allah complaining about works of learning rapidly.

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And he will see the ultimate justice. Something amazing, something that is mind blowing. You know, coming to rasulillah you attacked his wife, he talked about his wife.

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And yet you have the courage. You had the courage to go and talk to him about it. Like you are the victim.

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But he was a victim in this incident. Because someone was not supposed to take matters into his own hands. So what also lies I sent him here? He dealt with this second incident but is related to first one with complete separation. Yeah. And he was able to disconnect between the two.

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There was no ego here.

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Yes, he is involved. His honor is involved. His reputation is involved. But justice has to be served.

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Because of one was not supposed to take matters into his own hands.

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We're waiting Rasulullah sallallahu is waiting for the decree of Allah subhana wa tada and he shows his or Buddha to Allah subhanho wa Taala his complete servitude to Allah subhanho wa Taala he couldn't do anything about it waiting for the decree of Allah subhanaw taala to come here to come down and to tell them what to do. So here are some guidelines I sell them, you know, is representing the legal system of justice. So that's why senator Thurmond had to go back to the solar system.

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And as soon as SLM has to be neutral, because he is the judge in that community. He's representing what the legal system of justice

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so he had to deal with it even though his honor his imputation and the honor of his family are involved. But yet Rasulullah saw Selim did not allow himself

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To follow in any form of ego in that in that matter what happened is he asked his son to forgive software. And he took it upon himself. He said, I will deal with it, I will pay you back on behalf of software.

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So what did he do, he gave him a garden, a garden in the city of Medina

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and allowed him to get married with Siri. Siri in she was the the she was the sister of Marian.

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married to one of the wives of Rasulullah. Salaam, she was an Egyptian. And her sister is Siri, she she became later on after this incident, the wife of Hassan will have it.

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And this story, as I said, I as I told you is it is it is mentioned in keytab was

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it was authored by fear, and manifest the Sahaba Urbino as well as behind vahana. It's a beautiful story that shows the level of justice in that community, you cannot allow your emotions to interfere when you are a judge. That's why he said, like, we'll call the people who have been there because they were Who was your word, he said, the judge should not make any judgment when he is hungry.

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When you are hungry, you think about food and you are in front of you to people, you are dealing with a dispute to people who are, you know, having a disagreement and need to serve justice needs needs to be served. So if you are a judge, and you missing your cup of coffee in the morning, you're thinking about your breakfast, and maybe your judgment will be

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affected by your the state of your mind and your you know, your psychological state. And Carla will cover who has been a judge did not make any judgment when he's angry.

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So you have to remove all these external factors, try to protect the case you are dealing with from any external factor that might affect the judgment of a judge. Some other benefits, the Muslim community here received the clear guidance from Allah subhanho wa Taala, about the danger of spreading rumors, false accusations against innocent people. And the last panel, Tyler showed us the way, the best way to deal with this incident and these problems when they arise in the community. And he said, you know, Allah subhana wa tada basically saying, if someone accuses someone else by, you know, with this kind of illegal act, or with this sin, then he had to, he has to provide full

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witnesses. Otherwise, it is a crime, and he will bear you know the consequences of this crime.

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But before that Allah subhanho wa Taala told us about some other etiquettes some other, you know, manners that we have to observe, when dealing with this, even if we're not in his position of authority, you are not a judge, you are not directly involved.

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You are an outsider, there are some manners that you need to observe as a Muslim, when these rumors are being spread in the community. And this is clearly mentioned in Surah, till in Surah, till noon, we will go through this in sha Allah, we know the importance of this today, evening light on the importance of this manners. The other lesson or the benefit, las panatela showed them the dangers of hypocrisy, that it is a very these people are very dangerous, because they are members of the community. They live with the community, they come to the same massages. They were, you know, fasting in Ramadan, they were praying with them with the rest of Muslims. So Muslims will pay by

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learning by going through this ordeal, this kind of ordeal, we will learn about their tools and their ways of creating fitna and dissemination in the community. Yeah, and of course, it is a very difficult matter to label people with nifa with hypocrisy, especially with measurement. But this is a lesson that we learn besides other lessons that were mentioned in the Quran, about the behavior of this group of people that are called hypocrites or nothing. Someone might ask, you know, a question, you know, why did Allah subhanho wa Taala? Because Allah subhanaw taala is really revealing some,

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some guidance here about the best way to deal with this kind of problems. Someone might ask, why did Allah subhanaw taala choose to make the Muslim community to go through this pain?

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He could just have, he could have just revealed this rules and guidelines, you know, without, you know, without stories, without these painful stories. So what is the Heckman who under Obama, they said the hikma is, you know, people

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If these rules and these guidelines were revealed, without any painful stories, people will not appreciate the importance of these etiquettes. And this manners and these rules.

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Why? Because we only appreciate the power and the benefit of a medication after we get sick. If you don't get sick, if you are healthy, and you bring me if I'm healthy, and I, you bring give me a type of medication, and he told me keep telling me about the importance and the power of this medication, I would never appreciate the power of this medication unless I get sick, and I use it. I use it, I get well, then I say I know. Yeah, I believe what you're saying. Now, I know this is a very powerful medication. So, you only appreciate the power of this, of these rules and these guidelines, when we go through a painful story. So people will be paying attention, people will be waiting for relief

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and relief came to them after one month, through these verses of surah. To know so what will be the reaction of the believers, they will embrace this, this guidance because it relieves them from a big, big problem, you know, the honor of their own profits is attacked. So people are, you know, the targets the aim or the goal of these hypocrites? Was the dis dis destroying the deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Because when you destroy the reputation of the messenger and his family, genuine have doubt about his message, right? So Allah, Allah is protecting his message, the message of Islam protecting the reputation the honor of his prophet, and the people around him by revealing this ayah

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yet it was a painful experience. So they had to go through these three through this painful experience to appreciate the power of these, this guidance that is found in so rich, no soulless heart, Allah basically said let x abou Sharon laco been who were hierarchical, do not think it's something bad. Rather, it is good, because there are many lessons, wonderful lessons to be learned there. And then the next part of the I he said liquid memory in minimum accessible meaning to everyone among them will come the punishment of the sin that he earned. We know that three people were punished in this dunya were flocked, and we mentioned their names last time. And Allah subhanho

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wa Taala at the end of this ayah he said well, let me tell Akira whom in whom la buena de Asia and to him who took upon himself the lead among them in this story or in this event will have a severe punishment on the Day of Judgment. Ayesha herself, she said later on, she was related this story and it is found in Al Bukhari through different chain of narrations. She said that he was a lost parent element in this part of 11. Abdullah obey even to salute the leader of the moon African, Allah tala. She clearly mentioned his name as I said, in Surah Al Bukhari The next day, I must pantalla, saying Lola Sameer to move the vernal Mina Mina to be enforcing him Hira will call you Hi there if could

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move in. This is a a 12. So the next day I must pantalla is telling us about before talking about ruling about you know legal rules regarding this specific matter. He's telling us about the behavior. They're talking, discussing. Now the best behavior of the meaning is telling you are supposed to do this loneliness in Sameera to move why when you heard it, didn't the believers among men and women think good of one another?

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Thinking good about one another and say this is an obvious you know, lie and obvious fabrication and obvious you know falsehood that should be the behavior of the believers.

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And unless they want this guidance is so beautiful. And it is a message of course Allah subhanaw taala This is dealing with the incident that specific incident, but I will I don't want you to keep thinking about that incident. This is a reminder to all believers at all times.

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And Allah subhanaw taala in this ayat is protecting the honor and the dignity of all believers, every member of this community. Every believing man or woman deserves if he's known for his taekwon is a man deserves his treatment that Allah subhanaw taala is talking about in this ayah. So this ayah basically is talking about the first line of defense. Yeah, this is our This is the first line of defense in our immune system as a community

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against the viruses of, you know, rumors and false accusations. Before we talk about, you know, judgments and going to the court and dealing with legal issues, Allah subhanaw taala is calling upon the believers to these use these common sense. And these good manners, that when you receive something like that, the first thing you should do, if you know that this person is a movement,

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and by the way, in our communities at all times, this problem is there, people talk about other people, people talk about private methods of other people. People talk about, you know, difficult sensitive issues happening within families, other families talking about other families. This is something that is very common here, one.

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And this is every believer has to pay attention to the guidance of Allah subhanho wa Taala in Surah. Nor here, let's forget about now what happened to the long run. And, and the think about ourselves now, and our life in the community. Allah subhanho wa Taala is saying, when you hear about something like this, about another believer, now I'm not talking about Ayesha, this should be your behavior.

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You know that he's a good man, or she's a good woman.

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So you should have a good opinion from day one about him or about her. This is called personal one. So Allah subhanaw taala, basically, is inviting the Muslim community or the believers to build a culture of empathy, what is empathy? You put yourself in his shoes or her shoes before you say anything.

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If you are in his place or her place,

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would you be happy if people will be talking about you, and discussing your profit private affairs or private matters, of course, you want to be happy. You don't want people to talk about the you know, if someone within and I mean, these things are happening all the time. If someone had some issues with his children, or his wife or his sister or his, any issue, any private matter happening within a family, of course, no one will be happy to hear that other people are talking about his own family. So here last, no, Todd is inviting the believers to build this culture of empathy chef, aka, have chef aka think about them before you say anything.

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And one of the lessons that I learned is is something personal,

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not from the Quran, or something that they have seen it happening.

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And I believe in it. I don't have a hadith about it. I don't have an idea, but I have seen it and know it through different incidents.

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Of course, I cannot give you the details here because people when they come to us, and they talk to us, we are in a position of trust. So we cannot give details. But I have seen people being punished because they talked about private matters of other people,

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and others other one family, talking about some issues that took place in one family. After a couple of months, this family had the same issue.

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And this is something that I had seen it in many cases

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is very dangerous. So before you talk about private methods of other people think about your family, your what your house is made of glass, don't throw stones at other people. Your house is made of glass because you are a human being. And you have children.

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If the best way to protect your children protect your family is that you protect the honor of other Muslims

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protect the honor for other Muslims. And I

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this is one of the lessons that hamdulillah I believe this is one of the beautiful lessons that I learned in my life, that instead of looking for the mistakes of other people

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or criticize what's going on in our community or our oma sometimes we talk we are humans. And we talk we we feel bad about what's going on in the community or within the oma in general for example, you go to Hajj or Umrah and you see Muslims coming from different cultures and different communities and you see things that you are not pleased with. So there you meet people who are educated people who are not educated people who you know, they have a different culture than yours. There are people who keep criticizing other Muslims all the time.

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And I told my some of my brothers, maybe we should

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exchange this no this behavior this attitude instead of criticizing all the time, maybe we should be we should start making dua for Muslims.

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So whenever you think about criticism, exchange it with malice pantalla protection

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The mail is vital I help them to raise their children in the best way. Make dua for them. And you know that Rasul Allah says,

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there were two Muslim, a Muslim visa,

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he said, the fastest drop in acceptance is the daughter of a Muslim, for another Muslim, when he is not present, when he's absent. And there is something beautiful about it, there will be an angel, Allah will send an angel to you and He will make dua for you, the angels will be making draft for you. The angel will say, well, it can be limited, and you will get the same. So what do you want more than that? Is you're making it too hard for you, asking the Lord to bless you with the same thing that you are praying is asking the Las panatela to give to your brother, or sister.

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So anyway, this is the first line of defense. Now what is the next step? Now you maintain this good opinion about this brother or sister? What is the next step? When talking about the next step here, this is a clear methodology or one that we learned from Surah. To know, we're talking about the next step, people will be divided into two groups. People will be divided in the community into two groups. The first group of people are those individuals who are who are not concerned with this incident. They have nothing to do with it is not my family member. And I am not in a position of authority, a judge or a lawyer or an Imam to deal with it.

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And I am not related to this family. So you have nothing to do with it. What is the expected behavior is what was described in suit in Hawaii for a material it had it hasn't been Hosni Islam in

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Turku, Malaya. And he

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said in this Hadith, part of the perfection of forms Islam is to leave

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that which does not concern him, leave it. Don't be concerned with it is none of your business.

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So do you go through the first step, which is maintaining a good opinion about that person, because you don't have a proof you don't have an evidence and not supposed to talk about it.

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And min Hirshman Islam and Margarita, kumala any, you're not concerned with it.

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You're not part of the story, you're not part of the conflict, you're not part of this disagreement, then you shouldn't be involved in it. And we have you know, the famous saying everyone is everyone is innocent until proven guilty. But again, here we add something, it is not my duty, if I'm not concerned with this story, I am not in a position of authority. It is not my duty to prove him innocent or guilty.

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I maintain this principle here. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty. It's not and it's not I and my, my duty as a Muslim based on this guidance from Sora know, to maintain a good opinion about that. This is what I know about them. He's a good person, he's a she's a good Muslim, and it's not my duty to investigate.

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Because there are people who when they hear story they start investigating.

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This is the mistake that happens in the community. Now, can you This is how we spread this we start investigating and talking. Did you hear what what happened? Did you hear what other people say? They said talking looking for proofs. That is not your job

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is not your job at all is not my job unless you are as I said in a position of authority or you are a victim or you are a family member is related to that person and you are concerned about his well being. So these are the second group of people.

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The victims of that slander, or their family members, like here also la sala was directly concerned with this from different ways. He was concerned with it as a leader of the community as a judge. He was in a place of position of authority. And he was concerned with it through his relationship to eyeshadow, the olana. So if someone is in this position, you're directly related to that person. She's your daughter, she's your sister, he's your son, he's your brother, he's your uncle, your father, your directly, well, then you need to know how it's okay if you get involved in it in a positive way. The way Rasulullah sallallahu was involved in this incident the way Abu Bakar and his

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and his wife. So in this case, when it comes to investigation, this is the second step the Sherry requires regarding this specific problem, not every problem this specific problem that Sherry requires

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the testimony of witnesses.

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This is the second step. And here we're dealing with a legal issue here.

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Here, it could be a court case in a court. legal issue, the judges involved people in authority, in position for authority should be involved in it. And Allah subhanaw taala said in the next higher level ledger, or LA Hebrew, or Bharati, Shahada, faith Lamia to be Shahada, a folder carrying the law who will carry the ball? He said, Why did he not produce for it for witnesses? And when did you not bring witnesses? Then it is they in the sight of Allah, Who are the liars.

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Even if you the person brings three witnesses is still a liar in the sight of Allah, if he brings two witnesses is still a liar in the sight of Allah, and it is a crime. And he will face the punishment for this crime attacking the slandering or attacking the honor of someone else. So to be

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in order to be relieved, or acquitted from describe, the person has to provide or has to bring full witnesses and it is something that is difficult sometimes to provide. And look at the beauty of this Sherry, Sherry is protecting the honor of the members of the Muslim community. If you don't have this proof, which is a testimonial for witnesses, then you cannot,

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you know, say something like that you cannot be involved in spreading this, this unusable people. And then Allah subhanaw taala said in the next ayah when I will afford moolah hi Alaykum warahmatullahi dounia will Akira lemma second FEMA afectan v either bonati

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he said and if it had not been for the favor of Allah upon you, and His mercy in this world and the Hereafter, you would have been touched for that lie in which you will involve by a great punishment. And this is a stern warning from Allah subhana wa tada that he was not if it was not for his Rama for his mercy, you would be you would have been punished by a great punishment. And one of them was hurt. And I said, you know, either one of them is not something easy. It's not a joke. Allah subhanaw taala who has the power to punish, you know, nations? If he wishes confess,

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there will be no it will be. And we know what happened to the previous nations, those who disobey the last panel to honor those who perished in the history that some of them are mentioned in the Quran, because of their Masia and their sins. Allah subhanaw taala destroyed nations because of their cover, and this belief, so unless you're actually saying here, if it was not for his Rama, for his mercy upon you as a community, you would have received the great punishment because of this lie.

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So he's saying this is something is not a joke. This is a deadly sin that might destroy your Senate, it destroys your relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala. And before it destroys your relationship with Allah subhanaw taala Of course, it destroys the relationship between the believers, these people when they start talking about these things, where people will not have a great relationship. So basically, Allah Allah saying that there is zero tolerance for this kind of behavior. In the second area, the next I said, if alicona who BLC 90 come with a coluna bfsi kumily silicom beheren saboo heynen were in the law having telecon ovlc netic omiana you receive it with your tongues

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with a coup Luna bfsi Kamala Salah can be here and some scholars said, it's like you know, those who are involved. We did not allow this information to go inside to absorb it and analyze it and say, Oh, this is bad. I'm not supposed to be involved in it. Know, what happened is they received it to their tongues and immediately they flip it over.

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And they start talking about something which didn't have knowledge about what aku Luna via Malay Salah can be hearing. And he said with your mouth, that which you don't have knowledge about.

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So if you don't have knowledge about this, how can you How can you accuse someone who is innocent? Who is in that, you know, position like Arusha, the book The most beloved wife of our Prophet Mohammed sauce and the daughter of Abu Bakr Siddique, the best man of this Omar after Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, how can you do that without verifying this news?

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Because the only proof they have is that I showed the Allah and her was left behind. And so what brought her on his camel in the morning.

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You know, this is the only thing she spent the night by herself. We know that. Based on her story in certain inside Buhari he came in the morning

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He gave her a ride to the camp from that place to the camp. This is the information that you have. So you cannot build stories on something like that. Yeah, I'll give you an example. To be more clear. If someone, if someone sees a man coming out from a house with another woman, does he have the right? They are not related?

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Does he have the right to accuse them of doing something illegal, they're coming out from a house.

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You don't have the right to you cannot build on this, what you saw is something that maybe you're not happy with. But who told you that they were alone inside, maybe there are other people inside or there may be other cases, other scenarios, you know, to me different and it's none of your business and islamically you don't have the authority to make this kind of accusation. But just looking at something like this happening if you're in front of your eyes. So the only thing that they had at the time is that I was left behind. And so one of numato brought her on his on his common law, the law on how much money so Allah subhanaw taala is saying with a colonoscopy, FYI, can you see

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something with your mouth, which you don't have knowledge about? So if someone does not have knowledge, he's not allowed to say, to talk about something that he, you know, might be very

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well, how would you add an activator in either Monica either you're not talking about people without proof, solid proof is a major sin, attacking other people without a solid proof will attack Sabu hyena. This is a great lesson he attacks a boon. Oh, you think that it is insignificant? It's easy. It's a minor issue. That's a Buddha who were in the law. I think, why it is in the sight of Allah subhanho wa Taala something great, great sin. Tremendous, is something big Allah Subhana Allah is not a joke Allah Subhana Allah will not tolerate this, you know this kind of behavior.

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And

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of course every Mercia is a great sin but this is there are there is a third party you know when we disobey Allah subhanaw taala when, when I commit a sin between me and Allah, no one is involved. Actually, it's, it's, it's easier than involving a third person taking the money the property of someone else, or method attacking the owner of

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you know someone else, you know, because when you need to make Toba making timber for this kind of sense, is more difficult than making a timber making tober or repentance for a sin that involves you must enter with Allah, you disobey the lights between you and Allah, you have a class feel guilty about it, you have a firm and Sharla teacher will not do it again in the future. And that's it, and you quit that sin and your Toba, your repentance is accepted between you and Allah, when a third party is involved, oh my god, you have to if it is a property or money, you have to give it back to them.

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Or if you attack their honor,

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it becomes more difficult. The earlier they said you have to ask forgiveness from them. Sometimes if you go and talk to them about it, they will become more upset.

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And if it matters becomes worse, you're trying to solve a problem you create another problem. So it becomes very complicated when you're when my sin or your sin involves a third party. So this is something that we need to pay attention to. And then I must have said in the next area, when it's time to move on to my akuna ametek Allah Subhana kochava Bhutan and this area is confirming the other area which is number 12.

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The yianni Allah, Allah is repeating this behavior is this is guidance here. This reminder that when we hear it here is saying why when you heard it, didn't you say it is not for us to speak of this exalted? Are you a loss of Hanukkah have channeled it? This is a great slander. And here, of course, I mentioned before the behavior of you, but I'm sorry. And the behavior also or the reaction of Zayn zeynab been to Joshua de la Honda, the other wife of Rasulullah. assassin. So are you blind? Sorry, when his wife told him about it. He said, You know, you know, we're not supposed to talk about this. And then he told his wife, if you were in her place in the place of Arusha, would you do this? Then

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she said, No, never. And he said he is better than you. So having a good opinion above another believer here is a shot of the olana. So they were involved in it in a positive way. They were defending the honor of their sister, who is a Sharia law and in that position, and also the honor of their brother who

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Have one or the other Oh and by the way Rasulullah Sallam said about so for me and him to an O Allah hi Aaron.

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I didn't seen I haven't seen anything except good about this man. And this is a great actually testimony formula so La Silla moose have one of domata This is a great simony you know because it came from a pseudo law is a law and it wasn't.

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And also the be the reaction of Zane have been to judge when also last I seldom asked Xena, have you seen anything? Have you noticed anything? Anything that you you know, are you doubtful about any you know, any behavior anything you have seen in the in the behavior fracture of the Allah, Allah tiara Sula, la camisa me were Basauri.

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Her sister was involved in it. But Dana,

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she said the RSO Allah, me semi obasa remar hora.

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She said, I also O Messenger of Allah, I need to protect my my hearing. I protect my sight. As Allah subhanaw taala is watching. I haven't seen anything except good from her. Even though I should have the law now. She said she was the one who used to compete.

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She was her rival, to compete with me.

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And oh, we know that there was some sort of competition between China and Russia. They were cool wives and this is normal. This is natural, even within the community of the Sahaba. And they will wives of the Prophet SAW senate but this is normal. This is a natural human be any human behavior.

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So even though there was some sort of competition, she said, What are you honey? Asia, Xena was protected by her water. What is what are his taqwa

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is taking the taking the safe side and what are what are when you are in front of you know two options or two choices and there is a sugar has some sugar that is involved. So you take the safe side there are other main Arabic call it an era

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where it could be the highest level of taqwa even though the word usually is used when talking about another option that could be permissible, but the other one is better, a safer alora but here I shadow the olana use this term that Xena protected herself protected her Dean had been actually her relationship with Allah subhanaw taala her taqwa protected her and she didn't say anything wrong.

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Then Allah subhanaw taala said in the next era do qumola who antero do limits Li evident in control meaning

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Allah warns you against returning to the likes of this conduct.

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Ever if you should be believers, whenever I read this ayah I think about those who are slandering, I shall have the alarm on it now.

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I think about those who are talking about attacking the honor and the dignity of our mother, and the mother of all believers. Issue rhodiola on her home, every believer is supposed to esteem higher than his own mother.

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I should have the lower on her is better than our own mothers, and she is the mother of all believers. And yet there are people

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and amiano basura is Allah subhanaw taala and he there

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is me and muslimeen So yeah, I know qumola And Taro do limits the evidence in quantum meaning. Allah subhanaw taala warns you against returning to the likes of this conduct. This is a clear, you know guidance from Allah subhanaw taala that we should never follow the step of shade on the steps of shaitan regarding these kind of issues, not only eyeshadow de la vida. No, I actually is mainly concerned here. And no one is supposed to have a bad opinion about Ayesha whether he's a Sunni or Shia. All Muslims are supposed to, you know, Tricia was the highest level of respect.

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She is the mother of the believers. And this is her defending her honor Allah subhana wa tada took it upon himself to defend her honor. But it is also a reminder to all believers about the honor of their own brothers and sisters in the community. That if someone does not have a solid proof, then he shouldn't spread. He shouldn't say make you know this kind of statement about any believer. Any believing man or woman. Just like Camilla Hayden robotica low FICO, Panasonic Aloma Hyundai Chateau La La

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