73 – The Prophet’s (SAWS) marriage to Ayesha(RA)

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Family Law Family Law enough medical wanna start in

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Marina Maria de la, la la la la tierra wanna shadow La la la la la la la sharika wanna shadow? mega Naboo or a solo? solo therapy he was. He was, he was happy woman with that what he did about blood brothers and sisters in Islam Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

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Today in sha Allah, I want to focus on

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Omaha to mean

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some of the

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mothers of the believers. And it's a question that was asked of me quite some time ago about to explain the merits of I shall be allowed to run to the Navy salatu salam, and also to look maybe at some of the other so called controversial marriages of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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We ask Allah subhanaw taala to purify our intentions which Allah and to make us worthy of being part of the aroma of this great

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prophet of Allah, Allah Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. We know that in recent history and right from the beginning of the nimueh of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. There has been constant

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on the Nabi sallallahu wasallam. Sometimes these attacks were directly

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on the life of Muhammad salatu salam. At other times the attacks were focused on his wives, his family, his companions, and so forth.

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And we know the latest issues that we have in the waist when they printed the cartoons against enemies also love and make movies against Mohamed Salah Salaam and so many things they did against NaVi alliser to salon. In fact, Abdullah obey the as we know the chief of the monarchical, chief of the hypocrites in Makkah.

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in Medina sorry, imagine the man's name is Abdullah spagnola such a great name slave of Allah away was the chief of the minority. So it doesn't mean if your name is so and so that you'll be a good man or great man. No, it is you That is great. It is you that is good believe in Allah subhanho wa Taala and will Abdullah obey he started an attack on Ashura de la collana. You know the attack is called the

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crisis of

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the time of Muhammad so solemn and allows for handwrote Allah

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speaks about a good surah no way I shall was accused of having been unfaithful to the Navy sola Salah, thank you very too narrow you can read the anger of our last panel dialogue, that some Muslims in fact believed it to be true that Ayesha was unfaithful to Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, you know the story. If you don't know it, you should read about it.

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basically meant

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that the Navy is islamize under attack and if somebody says your wife was unfaithful, that's a terrible accusation to make.

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And Abdullah newbay was the one who stoke the fires of this debate within the community.

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And allows for honkala says total anon, which is the sixth pillar and the whole Quran verse 33. Allows father says, These

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are unbelievers such as believers, or wrongdoers. allowances or mohammedanism. Don't think that they have a problem with you.

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Unless in Surah, Tula Nam versity, three four in the home, look at the Buddha or Muhammad salam, they're not saying you're telling lies, they're not saying anything about you while our kin is albina big lie shadow. But these are the unbelievers who disbelievers. They have a problem with allowes what Allah tala they have a problem with revelation from Allah subhanaw taala. there and because you are the messenger of that revelation, because you are the vehicle of that revelation. They feel they can destroy the vehicle, they can also destroy the message. So they will try everything to attack Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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so Allah song that makes it clear

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This is not about Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam not about the fact whether he is lying or not lying. No, it is about the message of Allah subhanho wa Taala and allows father that makes it clear to the Navy so

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that the criticism

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and accusations

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that has been leveled against Muhammad Allah, Allah

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will have no effect on Mohamed Salah Allah, Allah, Allah has already

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designated for the Navy So allow the highest place in general right under the arch right under the throne of Allah subhanaw taala that place has been designated only for one person, Mohamed Salah louder so that is why

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we make dua that allows founder to grant him and vasila one for Lila Allah sila we're having the highest place in Jana meant only for the most beloved of allows Abdullah habibollah Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and

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whenever you saw our salons name is mentioned 24 hours out of 24.

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If we look at the different time zones as it runs over the world, then there is no place on the world every second of the day, when the nepeta salam is not mentioned on in the other. So every minute of the day in every part of the world, the name of Hamad salam, wa salam ala rasulillah is sheltered from the meat from the from the manabi, the main sorry, webinars of the world.

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And the name of Mohammed Of course, as you know, means the one who is praised or the praised one, the one who allowed contra phrases in Allaha palmeraie kata who use aluna Allah Maybe, yeah, Eva levina amanu sallu alayhi wa sallam with a steamer even allows for Hama, tala and these angels put praises on Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam and that is why he is the most praised men in the history of men. There is no other man who ever lived there has increased so much as Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam but we must understand my dear brothers and sisters, that merely praising Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam is not going to endear us to Bahamas is not going to love Micah's love

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Mohammed salatu salam for me to stand here and to put salado nunnery Salam is a great act of Eva, but it is not like Salah like czaka like Hajj, but it's not going to make me love Hamas or Salam more than what I do.

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I look at bound self, my own life. I only got near to Mohammed salam wa sallam and began to love him intensely when I started reading the history of Hamas

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when I started reading the hadith of Mohammed Salah Rasul when I started reading the history of the world at the time, Mohammed you can't love him India otherwise no way. There is no if I put a million followers on him now. It's not going to increase my love for him one millimeter.

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It's gonna give me a sorceress but it's not gonna increase my love for one millimeter.

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My love and Allah for Mohammed Salah la Salam is in living in reading his Koran that Allah revealed to him. And in studying his history, how else

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if nobody knew Mandela, they think, well, it's just another man from Africa.

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But why do people admire him so much? Because they read his history. They know what he did. He didn't know what he did. That's it, end of story. So our love for Mohammed Salah salam, the praised one is in studying the history of Mohammed, Salah lasala. Take my word for it. There's no other short route to the love of Allah, Allah. Allah. Allah says in contempt of a boon Allah, God, Allah says, If you say that you love allowes founder, you should follow Mohamed Salah, follow his deeds, his words,

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read about you.

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Read what a fantastic person he was for the great love of many was.

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So the question of Omaha to what we need the question of Omaha, the mothers of the believers, because all the wives of the Navy saw a loss of love is known as omad and meaning the mothers of the believers

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the question of the mothers of the believers the question of the marriage

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of Arusha de la collana. The question of the marriage of Xena vintage

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to the navvy sasaram. These are probably the two most controversial marriages that the narissa Sallam enacted during his lifetime.

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Anybody should ask because we know that I shall was married to the Navy saddam at the age of six, and the marriage was consummated when she was nine years old. Controversial of course the the feminist and the the modernists and will say oh, this is child abuse or whatever they call pedophilia. People use all these names of sexual law to slander Muhammad Al Salaam, and of course his marriage was that he married his own stepsons wife and inshallah we will try to explain. So when these questions are asked,

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there is a different answer when we speak to Muslims, and a different answer when we speak to non Muslims.

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The Marriage of Xena Binti jash

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to the nerissa Salah

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is probably less controversial than the marriage of the lottery.

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By the marriage of Xena elicited in Makkah, a great response from the foreigner, the Muslim. They said now can Mohamed Salah Latella marry the wife of his stepson

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because she was married to date. As you know, she was made to say the middle haritha who was

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a slave that was donated to the Navy sasaram and Nevis also set him free and the Navy sasaram called him Zane even Mohammed Nabi loved him so much. And he loves the Navy, so much that he is now my stepson. They in new Mohammad are the new after he married they have in fact, the Navy Salalah Salaam

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took the proposal of Zane to Cena. Zainab refused initially, because she said how can I marry a slave I'm one of the widows which is married to a high ranking

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men of the parish and he died and she became a widow. And now he the slaves aid proposed to us

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but because it was the nanny, so Sam came to ask they, I mean, Xena eventually accepted and the marriage was done.

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Because marriage.

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Now father knows best.

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The marriage

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was not successful.

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Within two years.

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The marriage ended in divorce. And

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what happened then so all of a sudden married her.

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And because she was married to his stepson, and this was the culture parade, you couldn't marry the ex wife of your stepson, because we know that's haram to marry the ex wife of your own son.

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But Allah subhanaw taala wanted to change the law a lot of times and I wanted to impress upon mankind that your stepson is not your son, even if he carries your name.

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Even if you have them the name of his father which of course you're not allowed to believe him if you adopt any person. You must retain that person surname or the Father's name. You can't say well, I'm humbled in I

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what is the word adopted this girl or boy, the child will not be registered as Xena chameleon or do you can't do the Tara

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No, you can't do Tara Mandala

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and etc.

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And so Allah subhanho wa Taala

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reveal to the newbies

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in Surah

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of the Quran in verse 37 allow for analysis for llama they don't mean ha what are all

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the watch Naka

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a lot of songs of the series. And when Zane devotes Zane up and she completed her I have three menstrual cycles. What happened, though was NACA allows longer says we allow you to perform the niqab. Mohamad. Salam, Salam bozhena.

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What am Zainab used to say I would like that my marriage was performed in the heavens but Allah

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Husqvarna what's so important. You know, this is this is what this is what I lost on did this because once people have a cultural habit

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difficult to break it,

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isn't it? I mean, I know some parts in India maybe in other parts of the world as well, where a widow is not allowed to remarry.

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And Muslims have adopted this custom.

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And people think this is an Islamic action and non dual Islam. It's against Islam to prevent a widow from re marrying the only widows who are not allowed to marry in Islam or the widows of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam every other widow should be allowed to remarry if she wishes to do so. So Zainab used to say that my marriage has allowed certain lessons to watch nucca we performed Anika Mohammed Salam with Xena. So we find that there was no kikaku form that Mohammed has no witnesses. There was no contract, no afternoon, marriages already performed by the command of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So nobody saw Salam had no say in this.

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There was not a marriage in which he decided like the marriage of Khadija Rajaratnam and his other marriage we had made the decision, a conscious decision to propose to the lady he accepted the proposal. No, in the next case, because it was a new legal

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law that allows us to establish Allah subhanho wa Taala at before the marriage of Ayesha I mean,

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the marriage of Mohamed Salah lasala Medina, Chateau de la Atlanta.

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How did that come about?

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They might he was 60 years old. When the new visa salon with the niqab was performed.

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Says in Bukhari and Muslim. The Marriage of Mahatma Salam was recorded in Sahih al Bukhari and Sahih.

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The Nepalese Hassan said he dreamed that gibreel presented Asha to him as his as his wife.

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And analysis says in Bukhari, the gibril say to him, this is your wife.

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And this happened three times, three nights in a row the Navy AlHassan drempt that jabril came to him and say to him, that this lady Ayesha easy your wife

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and we know that the Navy Salam Salam said that the dreams of the Gambia Aleem of salat wa salam is revelation from Allah subhanho wa Taala ro el ambia was

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that the dreams of the Gambia are revelation from Allah was Panama Of course we know now that in modern age also some people who say they dream and they also say that revelation from Allah subhanaw taala. They are telling lies.

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Somebody says to you today I'm a brain surgeon, that his own personal dream You must live with it. But

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only the dreams of the Gambia Allah him off salatu salam, His revelation from Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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So these two marriages were both initiated by who by allows

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both these marriages were initiated by Allah subhanho wa Taala very important to remember this. They were manage of Arusha and Xena were both initiated by Allah subhanho wa Taala. So when we talk to non Muslims about these marriages, if they ask us, you know your prophet married a girl, a lady, she was six years old.

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It is not for us to say that to them to an answer, but this is you know, that was the right thing to do for Mohammed Salah Salah.

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We should refer them to the fundamentals of our belief.

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We should refer them to the holder

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and what will they say they say oh, we have really convenient you know, you Muslims when you can't get out of a situation and you say well this is the revelation from Allah.

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So what is the problem? The problem is not the marriage of Mohammed says all the belief of within the marriage was right or wrong. The problem lies in a non Muslim not believing

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in the revelation of a loss.

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not believing in the in the Quran of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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the person doesn't have a problem

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with the explanation you may give for the marriage, the person that

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A fundamental issue with the curato laws.

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And unfortunately today, even Muslims sometimes have a problem

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with agyekum their hadith of Mohammed Salah over the Torah, we've reached that stage now, the Muslims have a problem with lots of issues in the Quran.

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We should rather spend time in convincing a non Muslim of the veracity

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and the truth of revelation of Allah subhanahu wa tada

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we must believe that everything belongs to Allah. And Allah has the right to make decisions, the way he wishes to make decisions and the decision which he wants to respond to my faith. If I doubt the decision of a loss of 100 tala, I'm not a sinner.

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What am I, I

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am Catherine.

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If I say that Mohammed should not have done that maybe should have done it better, not a sinner. Let's get it done. I've left the fold of Islam.

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Because fundamental truth of Islam is a shadow Allah, Allah Illallah

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Muhammad and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So that is the fundamental problem that non Russians will live with us. So no matter how much explanation you give them,

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unless they accept the fundamental veracity of the revelation of Allah subhanahu wa Tada. And these accusations against Muslims and Islam only happens in the West,

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happens to us.

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People in the East don't have problems with these things. These things were not problematic. If it was problematic for the prophet to have married Ayesha de la collana at the age of six, Abdullah if nobody would have made a grade hullabaloo in Medina about No, because it was accepted practice for the Arabs to marry. Children were very young. This was accepted practice, but inshallah we'll come back to that.

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I want to Firstly,

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in order to try and explain to you

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and to myself

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the marriage for the controversial minds of I show with an episode Salaam.

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Let us look at what Abu Ranger reports in Bukhari and Muslim

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about what happened one morning after fudger

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above the altar and says that one morning I have the pleasure salah and imagery to number one, let me turn itself around.

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And he said,

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he said to the hava alums of slum, he said he told a story he said the bees Hassan said to the Sahaba there was a man who had a cow

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who own a cow or a boo.

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And he mounted the car when he got onto the back of the car.

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And he was beating the cow

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because he wanted to use the cow as a means of transport.

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Because we know that people don't drive in the back of cars, cars are not used as means of transport.

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And he was beating the counties in the car. The car just didn't move.

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And the province of Ceylon say to the Sahaba

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what is the property The Prophet said

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the cows book

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and the cow said

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yeah, haha, oh man

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in Alam nucala

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we were not created as animals of transport. We're in Nima in napoletana.

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We were created to work the lens. We were created to plow that's our job.

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So let's have a look at the NaVi sossalamander said

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Subhana Allah Rasool Allah

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subhanaw taala. They said, Glory be to Allah or messenger of Allah.

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How can account speak?

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They will know interested in the Caspian and in the actual then in the story, the new way they will human beings. I think maybe my grandchild

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Moorhouse the same question but the KOSPI, so there are two normal cases. Pamela

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what was the response of the Navy?

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The Navy salatu salam said in the minute we had the war Anna Abu Bakar Varma

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maybe Sallam said, I believe in this, and Abu Bakr and Omar also believe in it.

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Abu huraira tells us that Abu Bakr Omar wasn't even present in the masjid.

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rabbies and went to tell another story, where Islam said to Sahaba there was a wolf

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who stone a stray sheep from a shepherd who was shepherding his sheep, the wolf came along and took the sheep away. And the shepherd followed the wolf and eventually came to the wolf and rescued his sheep from being eaten up by the hoof.

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And then said, and the wolf said to the shepherd, the wolf's book,

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and the wolf say to the shepherd,

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you are able to retrieve your sheep from me.

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But the day will come, the wolf says a day will come

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when they will be no more shepherds, and I will be the shepherd.

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There's a lot of wisdom in that. A lot of wisdom in that.

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So there's a habit again, take Suhana law jasola.

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The who spoke,

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who's can speak

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an opening will be either an

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Abu Bakr

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I believe in the who spoke, obviously, it is from Hong Kong

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allows Hong Kong when I

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am in Hawaii, in Hawaii, Illa.

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Allah, Allah says, and Mohammed speaks not from his own house, from his own desire, what I can, but he speaks only that which was revealed to him by allows father in different ways. Sometimes he came by with inspiration, some direct why sometimes in the dream and so forth and

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so on the response of the Renaissance, almost exactly the same.

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Now, what is this got to do with a topic at hand? What is these two stories got to do with a marriage, controversial marriage via in Xena to Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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it illustrates a very important principle

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something approachable which is being eroded today.

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I principle which is being eroded today. And that principle is that

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Islam is a matter of belief.

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Islam is a matter of faith of Eman.

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Allah This is us like that. Yeah. Hola. Vina Amano are you people who have faith.

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Today, we are told you should have faith. Everybody's faith is good enough. Today we are told the man who worships in a church, in a cathedral in a synagogue in a mosque. His own Ico

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allows us to protect us.

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And we overlook the verses of the Quran.

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In the nine the live Islam

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that the deen of Allah who says, Allah says, Who brought it Mohammed Salah.

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So these two stories in a tree illustrate a very important principle and that is a Salam said, I and Abu Bakar What did he mean he meant? Those are my two companions, whatever I say whether they are they don't know they would believe in it.

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That is the kind of faith which we should have in Allah of his mission, the Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So I will claim doesn't need things to be proven to him or to her.

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I believe

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says ally neurons whatever comes from Hamas or salam, or whatever comes from the Quran accept without any doubt in my mind

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and that is the believer

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who will enter Jan now the day of kiama Bella Bella calm without

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and without punishment

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that is they believe allows

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for the dismissal or no questions asked.

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And he was shocked.

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Nabisco saddam said 70,000 of my followers will enter Jannah without being asked a single question.

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And then a visa Salam was asked why they said those are the people who were Allah He Attila Kowloon, they put 1,000,000% faith and trust in Allah subhanaw taala, by extension to Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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If we give an explanation,

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and we'll give an explanation of why then episodes are married as part of the law. These explanations are merely to add additional email to our email.

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We don't need explanations. These are just explanations. That adds additional Eman strengthens the faith, like the faith of nabee Ibrahim

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alayhi salatu salam.

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Salam chetola Allah Show me how you raise the dead.

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So Pamela,

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show me how you raise the debt. So what did Allah

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Allah say, oh, Ibrahim

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our lamb to me,

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don't you believe?

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Don't you believe? Can you believe in the dead? So what Abraham replies said, Bala we're rockin the Optima in Nickleby. He said, Of course of a lively course, sadly,

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what I came, but I want you just to give me a little bit more satisfaction.

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Make my mind at peace.

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Show me how you know of course, we read the last one that the bird was cut up in to the separate mountains, Allah brought it back together. And so the explanations that we give to you and to myself and to others is not to give us faith. No, it is to increase our faith.

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And I repeat if we're affected by these accusations, we think our problem married girl by the age of six.

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If there is any doubt that this was a command from a law,

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any doubt at all, we are on very slippery ground.

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As I said, it's not an

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Why? Because these has been initiated by the Lord of the universe.

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Why did they never

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you know, of course, we know that.

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But if I say to you, he married a girl at the age of six immediately think, wow.

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But she thought

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he his rule in life is what is his rule? He says in the Quran. Allah was a nun Allah home.

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That was a nun, Allah formula says, What is the main

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modus operandi of shaitaan?

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What is the methodology of a thought the most important thing that he uses

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for us to follow him.

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And he says, He makes good look evil, and he makes evil look good.

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That's his main job.

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He makes evil look good.

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Says gambling is a good thing. You know, lots of money.

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rebuys good, because, you know, you can charge people makes it look good. In fact, he reduces

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in the eyes of mankind the evil that this has for you.

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And so

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our job is to create a facade for everything that is evil to make it look good.

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And so with a marriage of Ayesha de la Ilana was an obese

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Allahu alayhi wa sallam. We say

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that the marriage of Ayesha Rob de la talana with Mohammed Salah Salah is the best thing that ever happened to this oma

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explain why.

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It was the greatest marriage that the Navy entered into in his whole life of all the wives that they had including Khadija hora de la Nevada including all the others. The best, most valuable manage that Mohammed Salim entered into which was initiated by Allah force. It has to be the best because it was initiated by Laos. pantalla is the best marriage ever. We have lost some of the elements of this Deen would have been lost. If the marriage

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of Isaiah did not take place with Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam she was the fourth most prolific reporter of hadith of Robert Salas Allah, the fourth person from whom we received

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the most

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insight into the life of Mohammed Salam came by Ayesha Raja lottoland.

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The first of course, personal rated most burera second one was

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Abdullah neoma. Son of cinema the third was Zaid

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number they do very Xena, the freed slave of Mohammed Salah zaidan haritha he was said and I Chateau de la Khurana was

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why was she so significant? Because she was the wife of Mahatma sysm.

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The Mojave Desert narrators of Hades is because she was the wife of the Navy sasaram she had a special relationship with wife, wife and husband.

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There are things which nobody will say to you as as in maturity wise.

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Some things you like and some things you don't like.

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And they will she was the only one

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who had the facility of questioning the Navy Salah he will say something.

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The other Sahaba Chamber of

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Commerce question questions. She was on off Christian. I'm doing this while saying that Why are you doing this?

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So a lot of the explanation I had it came from Ayesha rhodiola colada.

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In the huddle as Allah Kalani was the was the commentator of the hadith of Bokhari.

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Rahim Allah says that the greatest scholar amongst the women of Islam was I shall not the law because we know the Prophet said that a third of you did you can learn from Isaiah wrote the law. In fact, not only the greatest scholar of the women of this homebound but the greatest color of the women of the world we ever lived.

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Many of the scholars say the dean would have been different if it wasn't for the contribution that Ayesha Rajaratnam made.

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When we look

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at the importance

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of Arusha and many other issues in the life of the Nevis asylum.

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We need to look at the underlying motive for why did he marry her at such a young age.

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And we know

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that every action of the navamsa Salamis motive was only one

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to promote Islam.

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Everything he did, his whole life was to promote the song. Even those actions which he did prior to becoming a prophet solo.

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He's managed to Khadija.

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And so many things happened to him before he became an ad that had a direct impact on his nibble on the time that we gave became the Prophet of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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So, let us finally look at what are the most outstanding issues with regard to ISIS marriage to the nisolo louder Salah.

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First, it was acceptable at the time.

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Not like the marriage of zeynab in Makkah, when there was a big outcry that Mohammed Salah, married his stepson daughter

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in Makkah, in Medina when he married Alisha accepted cultural customs

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and it was an age and we know this every single

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Parents sitting in this magic knows

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that you tell a six year old something, whenever who get it.

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That's why they say the best time to teach your child is between the ages of four and six.

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So everything that happened to the Navy salamander when she was at he remembered

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his age.

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Once they reach 10

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memory starts going down. So she was wondering, remember not only the words of the Navy Salah, but also the actions of the enemies of the Salah, for example, the we make Salah directly most of it is a hadith coming directly from Isaiah for the Lord Allah.

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all the feminists, the human rights advocates

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that speak on the subject, referred to the abuse of Mohammed Salah.

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criticized not because

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she was not an adult, they realized his cultural practice at the time.

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But it's because

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they do not have an understanding

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of the revelation of allows.

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an atlas was the Roman Emperor at the time with an emphasis Allah was in Medina heraclius was the Roman Emperor.

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And the Roman emperor of Rome

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ruled most of the world civilized world at the time, he said. He said if I had lived in Medina, at this time of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam, I would have washed his feet.

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That was the kind of respect and honor

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showed the Bahamas SLM just by listening to what other people say about him, not even iraklis didn't even meet him.

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They had so much respect for Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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So these are the only the promotion of Islam by allowes hautala. There is also the wisdom in that marriage, because remember, I shall learn. She died when she was only 18 years old when she died and she lived until the ripe old age of nearly 80. Some say over 80

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so she not only taught with Ahava, but she also taught the people who didn't meet and see Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam course he started out so young.

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So it is our duty

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as Muslims

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that is a solemn said

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that I leave for you two things, the Quran and Sunnah.

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And remember these two things, these two entities is that which will come under scrutiny and under attack.

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Every single day of our lives, the people will tell you don't believe in Howdy.

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They will say to you say they're weak hudy and they're strong Hadeeth

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rather only

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take what the Quran says.

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And there are those who will tell you

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don't worry if you don't understand the financial return.

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Listen to your molana or detail who is at site, listen to your share. Listen to a mom, and so forth and so on. Remember, my dear brothers and sisters, you will be personally responsible to Allah subhanaw taala for your understanding of this deal. I was gonna call me and say, come here. I made you a priest, high priest, and is your job to teach my people? I was gonna say you come here. What is what do you what do you understand by my Deen? What do you understand my forearm? What do you understand by my Hadith by my Prophet sallallahu wasallam.

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And the most important thing we learned today was faith, like the property the gospel. It was a case of the man of the Sahaba IE of salatu salam

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that's like a lot of artists that the amount of Ibrahim

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at Mina,

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on the day of either of Havana distort the sun.

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Allah tasted the faith of musala taste in the face of Mohammed Salah Sato many times on the battlefield so many times

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when he went to

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faith was the phrase was solid

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fact, he set on the set on the side of the road after having been stoned by the people of Thailand. He said to me, dejected, we said, Allah, you've deserted me.

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He said, Look what you do. My people have all rejected me in Macau, the operation of communism is a last resort to these people. You could have done something for me today. Look what they did to me. They tell the children to throw me with stones with blood is running down mine.

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They no respect for me.

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And what did Allah do to him? Allah took him on the

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right, Allah said, Come, you're visiting.

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Our law firm, Mohammed Al Salam is the law. We can't defend him.

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He needs no defense. But we need to know the arguments in order to

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critique our faith in the faith of our children.

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And as I said, the love that we have for Mohammed Salam is a love, which is nurtured in the understanding of this great, great man.

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We are in the month of November,

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in which many people celebrate

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the birthday of Mohammed salam, we know he never had a birthday, we know that he was born in a particular day.

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I repeat, we know that Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam was born on a Monday

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about this, there is no difference of opinion amongst

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every Muslim, every single Muslim, whether we are Sunni Muslims, barelvi Muslims, Deobandi Muslims, wt Muslims, whatever cannibals you are to believe that Mohammed Salam was born on a Monday.

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How do we know that he was born on a Monday

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because he said,

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I fast every Monday

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in gratitude to allow mahalo tala. For my breath.

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We know that the Navy sallallahu wasallam did not celebrate his birthday.

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What is a birthday? A birthday is a day that you celebrate once a year.

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Unless you have some people who have two birthdays.

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My daughter has two birthdays.

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My eldest daughter was born in Egypt in Cairo, on the 16th of May,

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to me mean a young father.

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I thought to myself, you know, I'll register when I go to Africa,

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not realizing that you register in Egypt that time or to register the child on the day of tumors go find where the offices are, went on the 24th

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it now. She was born in March, April. Anyway, I went on the 24th of the next month. So when I got there on the 24th of the next month, they told me it's five pound fine for every day you didn't come.

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So I said to them, in fact, if he I say to you,

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because you need your options, bribery, and corruption is all over.

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So I said no, no, I'm not gonna pay five pounds a day. What is a lot of money? You know, I love that 100 pounds a month at the time under the rug, sorry,

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by my

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butcher to pay my rent my food, doctor's bills, everything from under 10 hungry. I looked like a king.

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So I see this as a team. Look, I don't have money.

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So he said well, on the alternative is you have to register today. We'll make a birthday today. If you make a birthday today, then you don't have to pay anything. So she got to birth.

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So long as you go to breakfast is she in fact celebrates both of birthdays?

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So Mahatma Gandhi did not celebrate his birthday. He fasted every single Monday of his life in celebration of these, that Allah brought him into the world not only into the world, he's Rahmatullahi.

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So there's you know, then

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what is this? What is what is similar to follow that with Mohammed, isn't it?

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Who am I following? My father, my mother, on the back of No, I follow Hamad sadhana and we do not follow this amazing you know, checking range, you know, saying anything

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You look at minister say, We slept on a year which were the same next.

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Say we want to follow the sooner Mohammed Salam in celebrating the day he was born, what should we do?

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We should fast

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on a Monday or implementing.

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So if you want to celebrate the day Muhammad sallahu wa salatu salam was born, you have to pass

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every Monday.

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Not every Friday night,

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once a year,

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every Monday, you can't possibly mandate in any mandate that you want to boss, your boss and you say, I'm doing this, following the tsunami Mohamed Salah who Allah he was.

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And that was the practice of the Sahaba Aileen salatu salam

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until somebody decided 600 years later

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to have a big celebration on one day.

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Which is not part of the sooner as you can hear.

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Of course, those who are who disagree with me say well, he force it on a Monday.

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And for us, that is a celebration of his birthday. And so we love that celebration once a year. And so now you will have it on the track on a green point stadium once a year. And so we will have

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Captain Salawat

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on that day, and we make a complete mockery about the

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complete absolute mockery

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sir cocoons.

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The cones

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was created

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by the Dutch

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who also created the leeches that the thing that holds

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the Dutch banned the practice of Islam for 100 years at the Cape

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that that that that Koons is jump up and down in the streets. They follow a custom initiated

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by people who are hated as

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we celebrate them.

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For 100 years, if a man was caught praying, he was locked up and put to death.

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People who are not allowed to recite the kalama know to make as an automatic Salah

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that the history of the Coons

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were blissfully unaware

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of all these

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600 years after the death of Mohammed salam, the faulty meats in Egypt, the Shia party means

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was conquered by who,

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who re conquered Jerusalem

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Salahuddin Salahuddin came to save us

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from the factory. So we continue that custom

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the custom

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of one celebration

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of the birth of Muhammad Allah Salah

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I say this without fear of contradiction, people will can stand on the heads or the feet they This is historically true.

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The next point they make is they say that is mid Atul Hashanah.

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So while you know that's a good thing you know,

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what do we praise prophet

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and this turbidite ohana was created by Imam Shafi Rahim Allah

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they don't tell us

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is a diner. Abu hanifa

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no mo

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machete No. Hammer. No Mr. maryk celebrated the birthday of Mahatma Sausalito.

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I asked you I was standing num Sharpie was standing in front of you now Oh Mr. Boo honey for those of you who haven't

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and they say to you that they do not celebrate the Prophet promises a birthday what would you do?

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Would you follow him?

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Would you not follow them

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if you have to do and he said to you that he didn't doesn't celebrate

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of Manali.

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What did you say? No, no, no, no, no. You know, my my father didn't visit my grandfather.

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I'm not saying to you that.

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I'm not condemning what people do. I'm saying what is the center?

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what people do people do? People do many things.

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Many, many things are done, but

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my duty is not to condemn others.

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My duty is to say to you, what is the sooner Mohamed Salah laughs

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What is the Sunnah which is followed by those who followed him, his companions.

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They lived

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the words of Allah, that's what we missed.

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If I don't pray five times a day, then I'm not entitled to have any celebration of any person in the history of Islam, to be ashamed of myself.

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What is my first duty as a Muslim before I even think about all the other things is to make my Salah five times.

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If you do that, on time, every day, what else could be once you have the right to stand up and say well

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maybe I'll go and make the celebration.

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If you've read the history of Muhammad Salah

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if you have read the whole Quran from cover to cover and you have an understanding of it.

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But unless and until we have our priorities correct, my dear brothers, these things will take us away rather than bring us towards this now.

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you have your own choices to make I can make a choice.

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I job is only to speak to

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les Salah him.

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Last Allah him the Messiah. Allah says the Bible says you can't decide for people what they should do.

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So your job to tell to to make people visit? No, no, no. You only need to deliver the message.

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only give the message, the practice.

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And we disagree.

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There are many, many 6 billion people in the world. 2 billion, 4 billion disagree with it.

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Right up to 4 million people who doesn't want to separate Muhammad said

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apart from those amongst Muslims.

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So it is not that we want everybody to agree No.

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Like when Mohammed Hassan said the cows broke all the rules for what did he What was he doing? He was tapping into the man energy of the Sahaba he was wanting them to apply their minds to think

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and that is what is the liberation Mohammed came with. Muhammad came to teach us to use our intellect which allows us

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That is why we have no priests in Islam.

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There is no priesthood in Islam. Why? Because Allah subhanaw taala one every Muslim to applies a

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client of mine

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CML also under the guidance of Allah give us the intuition and the guidance and sincerity to follow his Sunnah Allah tala Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.