Daood Butt – Essentail Fiqh Class – Sunday October 11, 2020

Daood Butt
AI: Summary © The COVID-19 pandemic has led to restrictions on clothing, including dressing up and wearing clothing that is not fitted. The importance of hedging and protecting one's face is emphasized, as well as avoiding embarrassment and touching one's heads. The rules for royal wedding, including honorary hats, leather clothing, and unscented water are also discussed. The use of honorary hats, leather clothing, and unscented water is emphasized, and hedging is emphasized as a way to avoid embarrassment and avoid sexual behavior. The importance of staying in calm and peace is emphasized, as well as the need for hedge invalidations and practicing hedge behavior to avoid losing hedges.
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I'm totally sorry, we're silly Emily, that emulates any of Coco Lee, my brothers and my sisters us to them or at a comb, or a metal body robot or cattle.

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You're all doing well insha Allah,

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you'll notice some changes, right behind me. In fact,

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one of the brothers

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generously went out of his way to have the villa, I used to have these two holes right here. And a lot of people would see it in the in the live stream for those of you who are here on Instagram. So the wall is finally getting fixed. I have a brother, who attends the classes all the time saw it, and he thought to himself, you know what, I may as well come in and fix that and sort out the hole. And so he came in yesterday, and he's like, do you mind stepping out of your office to let me take care of the walls. And

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so because he patched it all up, we're also going to get it painted. So if you want to suggest any colors, for my walls, let me know. And inshallah, in the next couple of days,

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I'll be actually after a shall be choosing the colors of paint for my walls, and then we'll get that painted. So I'm below, making some progress. And it's all voluntary, you know, joking around with the brother. And it was saying, I should mention on the group that, you know, you're doing this, like in the class, and he's like, no, please just leave my name out of it, you know, it's something that he wants to do for the sake of a loss, which is good. So I was like, but the good thing is, I've been mentioned it because this encourages people, and I'm not saying come and like, you know, look after my office. For me, what I am saying is we should be active That way, when we see

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something that's needed to be done, we get up and we go and do it. Or we try to find a means to get it done.

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So come to love this brother felt you know what he's able to come and fix those holes. And it's not only those holes, this entire wall here is the wall to my left was done as well, there was a lot of

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a lot of damage to the wall that was done because we used to have, you know, the cameras. Were there, the TV setup in here for the security cameras, there's a lot of holes that are made in the walls and the lights gonna get done. So that's the beauty of

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human beings, right? The beauty of human beings, especially the beauty of doing it for the sake of loss, and without it you don't expect a reward in return from anyone except from a lot as well except from our Creator. Okay. So that's that and today we're gonna continue with our chapter on had. Okay, the pilgrimage.

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As we said last week, today, we will start with the actions that are prohibited

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for the pilgrim. Can we left off talking about the conditions for the validity of the off? Sorry, yes, the authenticity. Okay, so we spoke about the Waffen Saturday last week.

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And today, we take actions that are prohibited for the big actions, things that are not allowed that are forbidden for someone who's going for. The first thing is wearing sewn clothing and wearing clothing that is sewn. And what we mean by clothing that is sewn is like like a shirt, for example. Okay? It's their sleeves to it. Okay, there's cuffs on it. And we don't specifically mean sewn as in stitches. People sometimes misunderstand, they think, you know, specifically talking about stitches.

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And the reason why I'm pointing this out is because people get very confused when they start choosing the kinds of slippers or sandals that they want to wear. Look at their sandals and say, well, the sandals have stitching on it, right? So I can't wear that. No, it's not the stitching itself. It's to wear something that is fitted like a clothing a piece of shirt or an undershirt or an abaya or a job or boxer shorts, underwear, undergarments, stuff like that. Those are things that are not permitted to wear while

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in the state of home.

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And there's a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with regards to this, where in normal Viola Angela narrated

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that a men came in said O Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam what is a pilgrim allowed to wear in terms of clothing? And the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said he must not wear an undergarment,

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turban trousers, which we know as pants right in Canada we call them pants. In the UK, they call them trousers.

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He cannot and must not wear

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undergarments, turban trousers, a hooded cloak or leather socks unless he cannot find slippers. In such a case he can wear leather socks which should not be cut, which should be cut so as to be below the ankles. Okay.

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And it is forbidden for him to wear clothing that is scented with saffron or wipes, which is a kind of plan to use for dyeing. Okay? So we can have clothing that is scented, and technically any kind of clothing that we wear Other than that, okay, and this is specifically for the men for women, they can wear their clothing that they are wearing, okay? The home for men is different than the home for women. And that is because the ruling philosopher decided for us are going to be different in certain times in certain places in certain ways. So for example, the way that a woman praised us is pretty much similar than the way a men pray Sona.

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But there are little things that, you know, can be adjusted in the prayer based on men and woman, and so on and so forth.

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The second thing that we are going to take, which is from the actions that are prohibited or forbidden for the pilgrim is that a woman is that a woman covering her face or hands so a woman is not allowed to cover her face, or her hands when she is in the state of a home. Now, of course, there's difference of opinion on this. And you'll see that some people will cover their faces and what's meant there is that there's nothing that is draped directly onto the face, so it's not directly touching the face. If it's something that is hanging, you know away from the face, some of the scholars permit that. However, it is best to not wear it, even armor will be aligned with that

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narrative that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said the female pilgrim is not to wear a veil over her face or gloves. Right, it's not to wear a veil, or gloves.

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However, it is permissible for her to cover her face if men do pass by and we saw that the wives of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam if other men were coming by they would just take their you know, their their cloak, whatever they were wearing, and just you know, bring it in front of them and cover their face as in cover the site from the angle and not like tie it around their faces case, not like a hijab or niqab tied around the face.

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A lot of people will say, well, that's not fair.

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Sisters argue this sometimes and they say

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well, I want to cover my face.

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I had an auntie come to me a couple years ago, a sister an older sister and she was like

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you know, I went with Bob all the time and I I don't see the issue and me covering my face I'm doing I'm doing that for the sake of Allah, I'm covering my face for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala as to please Allah.

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And I told her I said there are certain things that are to be done at certain times to please Allah subhana wa Tada. And there are other things that are to be done. Other times that will be pleasing to Allah subhana wa Tada. One of the things that also can always add it's not want a woman to do in the state of a home is to cover her face.

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Now a sister might say no, but you know, I'm not used to that. Okay. Hedge is all about coming out of your comfort zone. Right hedge is a lot, a lot of what we're going to do and hedge is about coming out of your comfort zone. Right? putting yourself in a position that you're not used to. It's not the norm for you, but you do it for the sake of pleasing the law. And so for men, for example, hey, I don't go walking around Milton with a towel around my waist. And that's it. Right? Well, we don't do that. We don't feel comfortable doing that. So we come out of our comfort zone for the sake of leaving the last panel a tad. I don't just wear you know, towels around me and and and say Hey,

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yo, Ma, I'm doing it. Now. It's not something we do. But in pads, we have to do it. We don't have a choice, right a person. I know a brother was arguing with me once he's like, No, but I need to wear my boxer shorts. Like I have to there's no way I can't go without wearing my boxer shorts. Like, I'm sorry, you can't wear your boxer shorts, unless you have a medical reason or the specific reason for it. And there's no you have no excuse to actually be wearing them.

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And of course, you know, he tried to debate it with with certain examples, and that's fine. You know, we're all human beings, we we feel shy to do certain things at certain times. But we need to understand that when we are told by the prophet sallallahu sallam, or there's a command from Henry Tata to do something that we should do that. See, it's at times when we start to challenge the command of also penalty to add. And we we feel like no, I'm doing this and this is better.

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But if that's not what I want to do without a wants from you, then it is not better. In fact, we could say that that is arrogance that you are intentionally. So being a loss of data, thinking that you know what is better for you. When in reality Allah subhana wa tada knows what is best for us. And that is an example of what happened with elease

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when he refused to bow down when a muscle can wait to add to give the commitment to bow down

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to Adam at his setup and refuse to do that, right so

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we don't know what's best for us, Allah subhana wa tada knows what's best for us. Okay, in certain circumstances a person might say, but I want to do this for the sake of Allah, if that's not what a last minute Allah wants from you. And you could say that you want to do it for the sake of Allah, but you are not doing it for the sake of a lot you're doing it for your sake, to please yourself to please your own deaths or our own deaths. We ask Allah to protect us all and to save us from

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any sort of sin that we commit to with a lesser penalty. The third thing that we're going to take from the actions that are prohibited and hedge for the pilgrim

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is a men covering his head with a turban, or anything similar to it. So similar items. So a turban Adobe is a goofy hat to baseball cap, a hooded sweater, you know, you name it, we are not to cover our heads during hatch. Okay. We saw that in the heads of jabot of the long run, which we took a few weeks ago, the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam commanded that ufford tend to be pitched namira. And he stayed there, right, so the tent or the umbrella, something that is not attached to something that is not directly on us, is permissible. So for example, last year in hajj

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last year, not last hedge because the last time we didn't get to go, we're talking about 2019 hedge, we were in the tent and where I was laying down and the brother next to me, the vents from the air conditioning was coming directly down on us. Okay, and that's like, the number one easiest way to get sick, right is to lay down with your bald head, under the AC, you know, in the middle of the desert, you know, 10th is getting cold is just something you don't want to do.

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So we're laying down and I told the brother next to me, I'm like, we need to build a support.

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Right, we need to put our bags together, right and put something behind us a chair or something. So that we can put our blanket up like this and block, you know, create like a shield so that the vents from the AC the fan doesn't blow directly on us. That's because we can't cover our heads, right? You can't take your blanket and cover your head and go underneath it, your head has to be exposed. So we built that barrier that shield around us.

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So the third thing is that we're not allowed to cover our head. You can't wear a baseball bat, you can't, you can use an umbrella. Okay, you can go into a busser under a tent or under a tree and stuff like that you can be in the shade. You just can't have something on your head. Number four wearing perfume.

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Wearing perfume is not something that is permitted for both men and women while they are in the state of the Prophet sallallahu send them said about the pilgrim who died falling from his camel. Do not send him with perfume and do not put perfume or apply perfume to Him and do not cover his head. For he shall be resurrected on the Day of Resurrection, reciting the Tobia. So the Prophet sallallahu Sunnah mentioned about this how people fell from his camel and died.

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The Prophet so long it was on him give command not to put any perfume on him and do not cover his head, for he will be resurrected. That way that we die is the way that we will be resurrected right? He will be resurrected on the Day of Judgment reciting the Tempe Olympic love and let it bake the baker said he can make one amazing way to return to the loss of habitat, right? What an amazing way to be resurrected on the Day of Judgment

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number five and number six.

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So before we go any further, we took four things. I would like someone to write in the chat or in the comment section.

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What are the first four things we took what is number one, number two, number three and number four? Let's see if anyone is actually taking notes and paying close attention to the things that we're discussing.

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Number one, number two, number three number four. Okay, what are the fours

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Things that we took so far that are prohibited for the pilgrim and I'll give you

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a hint. The first one is wearing silicone clothing.

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Okay, that's number one.

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What are the other three things that we've discussed so far? Just list of 1234.

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I'll give you 30 seconds to fill that in there.

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Nobody knows.

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Come on.

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This is proving a point, you know that.

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This is proving a point.

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That it's very hard to find students who are going to take the knowledge seriously, and write it down and keep log of it or take notes. Not saying that we're not learning from it, it's good to learn. But it should be from amongst us one or two people that are taking notes. Okay, so no women covering, you know, covering for men's head and not wearing perfume. Okay, good luck. So the first one, like we mentioned is wearing sewn clothing. Number two, a woman covering her face or her hands not permitted. Number three a men bring his head with a turban or anything similar. And number four wearing perfume. Very good. I would say your name but it shows up as KQQKK q.

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So it's like,

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got that

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in Malay that's empty.

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Okay, let's move on. Number five, and number six, okay, because we have quite a bit to go Okay, number five and number six.

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We're actually going to take 12 things. Okay. Number five. Number six is that it is forbidden to clip one's nails, or remove or shave or cut one's hair.

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Okay, so it is forbidden to clip one's nails. So to trim or clip our nails while we are in the state of home. So when you're not in the state of a home, you can trim your nails, you can trim your hair, you can shave and so on and so forth and not shave your beard. I'm not giving you permission to shave your beard, right? Just saying what a period you need to shave. That is permissible.

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So it is forbidden while you're in the state of how to trim your nails. Okay to clip them.

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And it's also forbidden to remove hair either through waxing or plucking or to shave hair or to cut or trim someone's hair. Okay. And that is hair from all over the body. We are talking about mustache, beard, head, eyebrows, eyelashes, armpit, pubic hair, legs, arms, anywhere, any hair, okay? anywhere, any hair, not permitted to remove, cut, trim, shave wax, plugs,

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laser removal while in the state of the home. Okay, when you're out of the state of a home Bismillah right, except for the things that are not permitted or not encouraged. Like for example, a person says

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I performed Hajj I've never shaved my beard before. I'm going to shave it off because I have to shave No, you have to shave your head, not your face. Okay, so it is forbidden for someone to clip their nails while they're in the state of a home and it is forbidden for someone to remove any hair intentionally from their bodies while they're in the state of

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muscle pain with addresses. When label rules that come head to

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must pen with addresses do not shave your heads until the sacrificial animal reaches the place of sacrifice. As in once the animal sacrifice cut off, now you can remove that hair right? The scholars are all in agreement that it is forbidden for the pilgrim to trim his nails.

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However, it is allowed for someone who has some kind of infection or injury to remove his hair and must perform expiation of that right so if someone has an issue, for example, last panel with addresses from in Canada new committee, Dublin ob e

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also they are cotton owners, so also cotton with addresses and whosoever view is ill or you're sick for whatever reason there's something you have like a skin rash or something happening

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or has an ailment on his scalp.

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necessity necessitating shaving as in because of it, you need to shave or cut your hair. He must pay a ransom of either observing fast for three days, or giving in charity, feeding six people, six poor people, or offering the sacrifice of sheep. Okay.

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We'll take an example of characters in Russia

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are the one who said the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to me on the occasion of her they be

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okay, they were in the state of the home they wanted to go out they didn't. We know the story, right? So he's in the state of home.

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The Messenger of Allah longer I think it was something to him while he was kindling a fire in her davia and this fire he was canoeing under a cooking pot, and he says lice were creeping on my face.

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isn't what he says. Okay, Karabiner job of the Allahu it said the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to me on the occasion of her day be while I was kindling fire under my cooking pot, and lice were creeping on my face.

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And the prophet SAW a long way he was sending them said

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Are these creatures bothering you? I replied, Yes. He said, get your head shaved and feed six needy poor people, such and such amount of food or fast three days or offer a sacrificial animal. And this hadith is recorded in Bahati and Muslim a Buddha would and necessity activity and urban Nomad Jeff,

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did you hear that?

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He had the lights creeping on his face, some kind of law

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and that was the condition of some of the habit of the law and we enjoy the showers. We argue like oh I need to use scented soap. I have to use this special kind of lavender so I can't use unscented

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yes Mashallah.

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You can use unscented soap, okay, you won't die if you use unscented so you'll be fine and shot a lot of data if you use unscented so people go this is the little bit that I need to put on my deodorant and then they need to do this and then I need to do that and I need to put my lotion and I need to have my conditioner.

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These Sahaba didn't even have water to wash their bodies. Right? They were struggling they were going through hardship. They had lice crawling, he had lice on his face. It was so apparent the profits on the longer side and he says there was lice creeping on my face.

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hamdulillah We ask Allah subhana wa tada to continue to give us goodness in this life in the hereafter and to bless us with more and more hide in this dunya

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while at the same time granting us the ability to do sugar to be thankful to Allah subhana wa tada and like I said this is recorded in behati Muslim a Buddha wrote an essay activity and it

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can't go wrong.

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Number seven

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the things that are forbidden okay.

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From the things that are forbidden and hedge number seven having and before I mentioned this remember I always say that the bus I will not put a filter for children. Okay, so if your children are watching

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maybe put your two fingers in their ears right now. Okay for the next 15 seconds.

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Number seven having sexual * or any type of foreplay

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is forbidden well in the state of Arizona,

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okay, to the extent that and we'll see what it does. It's it's severe to have sexual * or any type of foreplay while in the state of calm. So that's number seven. Number eight, committing sins and number nine disputing improperly with others.

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And this is probably really hard for most people to do when they go for Hajj, but it is what it is. Okay.

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So number seven.

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Actually we'll look at the proof for this. The evidence is Allah subhana wa tada says, and had your showroom

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Hello Anna Gita and if you had just lost a pen with Anna says, This is verse number 197 of sorts and bacara he says the hedge is in the well known months. Okay, so it's time

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that we took this evidence before right at the beginning of this chapter. He then says feminine photography metal hatch, so whoever intends to perform a hedge their invite assuming the state of

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Okay, whoever intends to perform had to know as soon as the state of a home while you're in the state of a home, Fela rough weather for suka YG Delafield hedge fund arafa whatever so COVID-19

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Allah subhana wa tada says then he should not have sexual relations, nor commit sin nor dispute unjustly during the Hajj.

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Simple is in the Quran, verse number 197. A sawed off to Rebekah Okay.

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Now, when we look at it, of course we know we are there for pilgrimage and this is why some people will say you know sisters will say but my face is showing I don't want I don't want you know, it's a fitna isn't that remember?

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I'm going to rent a little bit. Okay, I'm going to rent sometimes.

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Sisters ask sometimes.

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Can we wear makeup in touch?

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You don't need makeup in college? Like No, but I need to, you know, look good. No, you don't need to look good. You're standing before a wasp handle what's ahead of you. Good as you are. Right? The way you look is good is perfect. Right and every single husband should tell this to their wife. You don't need makeup to look good. You look good the way you are. Okay. You don't need to makeup, you're there in touch. You're not trying to impress anyone, you're not trying to impress the men, you're not trying to look good in front of the sisters, you don't need to. And if anyone judges you,

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you know based on how you look, then that's their problem, your problem. that's their problem, not your problem. You're there for an edge. You don't need makeup.

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You don't need makeup. Okay?

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tie it properly.

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Okay, we see brothers with their arm below their belly button.

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And muscle lots of adekola are showing off the six pack or the one pack. Most of us have the one pack, right?

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They're showing it off. Or they're not showing it off, but it's there anyways, whether you think sisters are interested in that or not, is not the time or place for it. Okay,

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we should be careful. When we're in the state of home with everything you'll notice. We went from the tips of our fingers to the tips of our hair to talking about things that are internal within us our emotions and feelings about how we look in our appearance. And you know what people are gonna think of us it's irrelevant, you're standing before a wall, you may not make it through this hedge, you may not make it to the end, you may not be able to shave your head, you may not be able to trim the hair, you may not be able to stone the jamaats you may not be able to sacrifice the animal. All of the extras are irrelevant. You left your family you left your home, you left your business you

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left your job you left your parents, you left your children, you left your friends, you left your car, you left your country, you left your schooling, you left everything behind everything behind you don't need any.

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And that's the one of the beautiful things about hedges that people go for hide with suitcases filled with things they need. The reality is no one should need more than and if we exclude if you exclude the food or the snacks that people bring because I bring you know granola bars and snacks and stuff. So that when we're in Vienna, in was who we can share and give snacks and stuff to each other. But honestly, if you bring only what you need for hij you can fit it all in one carry on bag.

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One carry on bag that's all you need your backpack or you have a ruler carry a bag that is sufficient for had you can make your head with only that. And don't think it's impossible because it's possible. Those who go every single year will tell you you don't need all the things that you're bringing usually end up bringing so much more than we need. Okay. So again, talking about no foreplay, no sexual * during Hajj. These are things that are not permitted while performing hides, which means I don't need all the extra stuff. I don't need to the GQ, right she doesn't need to look super beautiful. No one needs to go there and start doing themselves up. You

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don't need to bring your big fat

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Beautiful diamond rings we don't mean that in hajj leave it at home leave your valuables home your makeup at home, leave your fancy clothing at home come and stand before a muster pen we've had not seen coming rags Don't get me wrong I'm not saying coming rags look amazing look presentable for a loss of Hannah who had a lot doesn't need us to be having makeup on a loss of habitat it doesn't need us to be wearing jewelry and bling bling and looking like a million dollars. Allah doesn't mind if our clothing because we're traveling because remember this habit of the long run we're traveling a lot doesn't mind if and you know, even brothers yesterday, my wife commented, so I bought a bunch

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of shirts that are

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I don't like wearing polyester. Okay, so I like wearing cotton. And these shirts are cotton linen mix, right? So there's linen and cotton and they wrinkled very easily. I put my seatbelt on and it's difficult. I drive three minutes to the masjid and how that's my shirts wrinkled, right? So my wife yesterday, she's like, your shirt all wrinkled. my seatbelt. I come into the mustard today, people like

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having your shirt and even iron it like it's natural, it wrinkles easy. But when we go for Hajj, you'll notice there are certain people who don't care what they look like, as in they're not intentionally looking raggedy, but they know that they're living out of a suitcase so they don't mind and they know the loss of Halloween knows that they're here struggling so they don't mind. And there are others who are like lugging their suitcases bringing their fancy bags and purses and everything. And it's kind of like you just don't need that. You we are not going for hedge to impress people. We are going for hedge to impress a lot. A lot doesn't want to see us and makeup.

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Okay, I'm also kind of whatever that is pleased with us the way He created us.

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The problem is, we are not pleased with ourselves the way our last panelist had created us. Okay? And I'm remember there's a difference between, you know, making ourselves look good and presentable. Right, General beautification and then over the top beautification. Okay, it was finally time to protect us all. I do know cases so people will say stuff that has ever happened, people have had sexual * in touch. Yes, there are husband and wife who after many days of not being together, not staying in the same hotel room and stuff like that, you know, they can't take it and they're in the state of calm and they go and they you know, commit something that is highlighted for

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But not allowed for them drink

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as in it's their had for each other, but during had it's a sin for them to be with each other that way. Okay.

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So yes, it does happen. Okay.

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Any type of foreplay as well, we're not to become aroused in that way. Number eight committing sins.

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So we are not to commit sins, people will say, Well, obviously we're not going to commit sins because every single day in our lives, we try not to commit sin. So we're all experts at it right? I'm the law. We move on. Number nine disputing improperly with others. This is like one of the biggest problems that every single one of us has when we go for Hajj.

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There are people stepping on our toes. There are people stealing our slippers. There are people that are like frustrated and tired and it's hot and then it starts raining sometimes and the place gets flooded. There's no water in the washrooms and people are angry people start complaining.

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It is not permissible for us to improperly dispute with others. So if you can start yelling and screaming and calling people names and swearing and you know insulting others and insulting their family and their mother and so on, that is completely forbidden and

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legally forbidden generally, but forbidden and Hajji even more so. Okay.

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Let's move on number 10 and 11.

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It is forbidden to propose or to get married during Hajj. So if someone is interested in someone else during hygiene they want to propose to them well chill

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is your hide and then propose Okay, so it is forbidden to propose or to get married during Hajj to do and during Hajj.

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earthman will Viola and narrated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said the pilgrim is not to get married, be married off or propose.

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Okay, so the pilgrim is not to get married or be married off or to propose.

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Okay, so

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we're talking about how being in the state of home are not allowed to propose to someone for the purpose of marriage and you're not allowed to do any care to actually get married during Hajj.

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People will ask, do people actually do that? Does that ever happen? Yes. People in choir, people do in choir, our brothers and sisters when they go for hygiene remember?

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Sometimes it's not a bad thing, right? I'm not saying proposal, that's something we're not supposed to do. I'm just saying go for hedges together people see each other, they become interested in one another. And after the hedge, they speak to their parents and they talk to one another, and they, you know, come back to their countries and you know, whatever it is, they get engaged, they get married from the law, that's good. That's fine. That's the way to do it. Right? You see something or someone that you like, and you're interested in, you propose to get married. But in hedge that's not the place to do it. And we're not there for that. We're there for something else is the time that we

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let go of everything else. And we do it Allah subhana wa tada wants from us. Number 12. And the last thing that we'll take from the things that are prohibited is exposing game to be killed or slaughtered or pointed to or indicating a prey as in game prey. Animals right to eat an animal you want to hunt it, you're not to hunt it and you're not to indicate for it to be hunted.

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Okay, I know it sounds weird. Like why would we do that? Anyways, we're being served out by our tents. Yes, I know. But it's still a principle it's still something that we need to talk about. Okay. So we do not we hardly made a complaint boo. The madam to Allah subhanho wa Taala says forbidden is

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the pursuit of land game. As long as you are in the state of of Hajj or Umrah, okay. Furthermore, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was asked about the zebra that

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he had hunted down, while he was not in the state of, although there were others that were in Rome.

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And he said, Did any of you ask Qatada to attack them? Or did any of you point to them? So Did any of you indicate to architetti to go in and hunt down one of those zebras? And we're like, there's zebras in Arabia.

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And they said, No, they did not indicate to him they did not tell him they did not show him the zebras over there. And so then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, then eat it and eat from that meat. It's permissible to eat zebra.

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Okay, that's all it will take. inshallah, there's two things that I just wanted to add. So these are not from the things that are forbidden. These are things that will invalidate the hedge, like your hedge will be invalidated. The hedge is invalidated if

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one of two or in one of two cases, okay, or

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whichever one comes first, if even happens, okay, we asked the last parameter to protect us all First of all, the hatches invalidated if sexual * were done before the stoning at Arcata so we'll just we'll just talk about sexual * before coming out of the state of

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once you come out of this state of calm, it's permissible for you. Okay.

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And we said that it was a sin, but it also invalidates the Hajj. Now, there are some scholars who are of the opinion that it does not invalidate the Hajj

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as there's no explicit evidence for

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invalidate pledge.

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However, we do see that if a person does admit that than they are to come back the following year, and to perform that, so there are some scholars who say that no, does not invalidate, but the majority of the scholars say yes, it does invalidate the hedge complete. And you have to come back the following year and perform hedged out person says, Well, how can I come back the following year, I have to save another $10,000 to go for hedge How am I going to be able to do that, take another two weeks or three weeks off and make arrangements for my family and I set everything aside and go through all the hassle of it. Yes, you're gonna have to do that. And if you can't do it, then you

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have to try your best to save up for it and to go and perform the 100 once again. The second thing is that invalidates a hedge.

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Failing to perform one of the essential components of hedge so basically missing out on something that you have to do. Okay, so like someone goes for hedge and doesn't do anything that they're supposed to do. They're just like, I don't really care. I'll be here. I'll go there when you guys go there. I'm not gonna wear at home. I don't really care about praying. I'm not gonna you know, stone the gym a lot. I'm not gonna sacrifice animals, but like, if they're not going to do the things that we're supposed to do unhedged First of all, why do you even dare okay? So missing out on any

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Any not all, but any of the essential components, the things that we must do in hedge invalidates to hedge.

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Okay, so a person says, I'm going for hedge, but I'm gonna stay in my hotel in America

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how you would like, well, the Dave outfalls make do out all day, but I'll stay in my hotel. And it was really fun to like lay down on the floor instead of laying on my bed, but I'll stay in on the floor in my hotel, and I'll pick pebbles, I'll see I'll find something you know, to throw at the gym, and then I'll throw them you know, at the wall in my hotel, you can't do that. Okay? You'd be surprised people are like, Come on, don't exaggerating, you'd be surprised. But we have I have heard of these types of cases. So it's, the world is huge. And there's a lot of people out there and people come up with really, really interesting things. We just need to be patient and learn and

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teach. Ask us how many times it's easy for every single one of us. That is all the time that we have for today in sha Allah, Joseph Campbell level Hayden for attending. I think that it was a pretty straightforward, simple, easy to understand how go or class on the actions that are forbidden within Hajj or within the state of Assam,

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for the pilgrim, just follow him for your patience, and sometimes listening to me rant a little bit. But the interesting thing is, sometimes I wish we had more time where I could just explain things even further and give examples of things that have happened and so on. And I usually do that during college. So I usually will share some of the examples of things that have come up in the previous years things that people have gone through. So if you're ever interested in going for hedge, make do that in sha Allah in 2021 we get to go for Hajj in sha Allah, Allah May Allah accept from every single one of us. I mean,

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just below Hayden, some of the law who was in the Mahabharata, kind of you know Mohammed

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Salim was more la kurama to LA he forgot our cattle. And remember for those brothers that are coming to the masjid for Asia, a shot tonight is at 830 not 845. So you have 20 minutes make your way here in Santa Monica.

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